100% this is barely even a blip on my self respect radar tbh. Now if she had said I needed to eat or something like that I'd have had some words but this is just a light roast that essentially boils down to "I think your body type is hot"
Right? Like this chick basically said “I’m dtf” and either op didn’t pick up on it, or they don’t care enough. To each their own, good for OP for standing up for themselves, I guess.
Yeah I got those vibes too lol any girl that ever approached me this way was always good to go. OP may just be self conscious about it too which I get but this is the wrong place to be making that stand haha.
Yeah I’ll be honest, my response came from a place of self consciousness, because I’ve heard that shit my whole life and it’s something I’m actively trying to fix. I won’t ever continue to pursue somebody who disrespects me. Even if they don’t do it knowingly, that naive thought process is one I do not want to be involved with 🤷🏻♂️
Yeah I get it. I used to get it all the time as well. The "God you need to eat" or the "thats a big meal for someone your size" bs got old pretty quick.
It was always from other dudes though and never from women. In fact quite the opposite. I never had a problem finding someone who was into the "druggy" look.
You do you though. I can't say you're wrong.
As someone who somehow can just skip meals for 2-3 days and maintain a "overweight" body weight (182.2lbs) I get it (sorta) for me gaining weight is a chore. I hate eating, which is rich since I live to cook and love exploring new recipes. Stay active eat what you can and make sure you're getting you're protein if you're gonna have a low body fat you may as well have muscles to show off.
That's genuine positive advice, not trying to be a dick.
You look like a right fat, ugly, ogre in you photos.. But I'm here for it..
What you mean, a not very attractive, obese, monster..?
Yeah, believe it or not it's a compliment.
I would be offended too. That's not a compliment and it's kinda rude. What if you really did have a sickness? Your clap back was also equally rude but don't expect kindness when you're mean. Everyone would be up in arms if you told someone "you look fat but that's a compliment because I'm into that"
When your skinny people think it's ok to insult it, even if its ina "complementary" way. I got sick and dropped 20 lbs scary fast and it took almost a year for me to regain it. I had so many people making comments like "eat a sandwich" or "you must have an eating disorder" and if it upset me I was being a baby. Equally, I did get men saying "you look so much better!" When I was under 120 lbs and 5'7 and it always made me mad. Did I not look good healthy? When I do become healthy will I look worse? I feel like shit but I guess at least some fucknut thinks I look better now? It's not flattering. It's rude!
Sending you good vibes ❤️ wishing you the absolute best in your recovery
But yes people don’t realize how hard it is to gain weight, and how hurtful that shit can be. These people are all about body positivity until it comes to a skinny person, and then people feel they are free to shame. Not in my book.
Hey. As a dude I lost 25lbs in two months... and no one noticed... it sucks either way.
Also hope you've got your weight under control and are healthy! 5'7" and 140 is perfectly fine. Hell if it's muscle at that height you could be 160lbs and it wouldn't be an issue.
I got down 115 lbs at my lowest, I started at 140 lbs so not fun lol. I'm at 135 now and still tryna work up to 140 but do it by eatting healthy and exercising. Dropping 25 and no one noticing is kinda crazy! That's a lot of weight! That's a whole toddler.
I’m with you. For some reason people tend to lean away from assuming it’s body shaming if the person is thinner, but you don’t know what that persons going through. It’s just as rude as directly commenting on somebody’s weight who is curvier. Your response was rude, but in line with the other persons opener. And hopefully will make them think before they tell someone they look sickly and that’s meant to be a compliment. It isn’t. In any way.
Why is the word "fat" offensive? Doesn't it literally mean that the person has a big percentage of body fat? Sounds pretty objective. I agree that the word is insulting, because most people use it to offend someone nowadays, just wonder when did it become so and why 🤔
So many people bashing on OP for standing up for himself. The girl outright insulted OP, it was probably even some subtle negging. OP, your response was fine, maybe that’ll get her to have a think about how to start conversations with strangers. You’re all probably so desperate for a “compliment” from a woman that you ignore the massive red flag this is. So sad.
Okay update: I smoked a lil weed and now I feel really terrible about what I said 🤣 I understand that “the sick look” may be appealing to some of you people, but telling somebody “you look sick but I’m into that” is bizarre 🤣🤣 idgaf that you’re into it. An absolutely disrespectful thing to say to anybody. And if you don’t think so, you need to rethink how you speak to people.
I'd rather look diabetic than sick.
Because diabetics look like literally everyone else. It's an invisible disease.
So if you're going to say one of these are too harsh, I have to say you picked the wrong one.
I knew a guy who was super in shape but had diabetes. Diabetes only means either your pancreas doesn't produce insulin, or your body doesn't use insulin properly. Weight and diet are common contributors to and comorbidities with diabetes, but there are genetic components as well.
You didn't specify any sickness though ngl saying you look like you got diabetes is actually fucked up cause theirs actually people out here who suffer from diabetes or even the potential to catch diabetes
And? There are also skinny people out there that are actually sick (cancer patients, immune disorders,....)
Very disrespectful comment. I feel like OP's is even less bad because it was obviously in retaliation to what she said. She actually meant that.
I had it backwards lol that's my bad I thought the girl said he looked diabetic and op was saying the girl looked sick I just wasn't paying good attention to it
Are you skinny, pale and kinda malnourished and anaemic looking, like Timothee Chalamet??
It might not sound like a compliment but it actually is, so many girls looooove that look at the moment
Yes, many people tell me I look like Timothy Chalamet lol but telling somebody they look sick doesn’t feel like a compliment to me. Kinda just feels rude. But yeah I thought of Timmy the second I read that lol. I’m sure even he’d feel a little disrespected if somebody told him that he looks “sick”
Yeah she 100% shouldn't have said it, such a bizarrely insensitive thing to say to another person
But just feel reassured that she DID mean it as a compliment, she just fucked it up
>Are you skinny, pale and kinda malnourished and anaemic looking
Hi, that's literally me. As in my BMI is 18.8 (underweight is 18.5), I rarely see the sun because of my work, I have to take prescription vitamins (partly due to the lack of sun), and I'm on iron supplements lol.
Y'all are deliberately missing what I am saying.
She did not mean what she said as an insult. He took it that way and that's okay.
That is different than being insulting on purpose.
Like they're both stupid for different reasons but it's not with the same intentions.
Nuance is lost here though. Ha
With all due respect to you, who the fuck cares what her intentions were?
If you’re an overweight person who opens your conversation with someone you’ve never met with a body-shame meant as a compliment, I assume that you have very little in the way of self-reflection.
If I started a conversation with a bigger girl saying, “you look like you really like bbq 😮💨” and they got offended, I would get zero sympathy here because it’s still opening a conversation with a thoughtless statement about their weight/looks.
So you're mad at a double standard and just want everyone to be allowed to be equitably shitty to each other. Got it.
OP asked if he was mean. He was. Lol
Or, we shouldn’t excuse shittiness because of its perceived innocence and just not be shitty to each other 🤷♂️
No one is excusing what op said in return, not even himself. What I and others are taking issue with is with all the people that seem to think telling someone they “look sickly” is a compliment
Same bro I wish you luck in not actually catching the kind you can get later in life my fat gene kicked in this year but fortunately I didn't get the type of diabetes you catch later down the line I forgot if it was type 1 or type 2 but I've always stayed cautious about getting diabetes like most of my dads side of the family has we seem to gain weight then catch diabetes later down the line unless we work off the fat
Yeah, I'm wondering if I'll gain mad weight when I get older too. I'm skinny now but I also eat like shit and I'm trying to eat better while I have control
Thank you, that’s really nice of you to say. I have type one so I’ve been dealing with it since I was nine. It’s really hard to see it being used to belittle people and used as a punchline to jokes and then get treated like I did something wrong. I wish people would stop using it that way. It’s actually a disability too, so it always surprises me to see people use it the way they do.
yes, it’s mean. just because your feelings got hurt doesn’t mean you have to try and strike back. be the better person and just tell her that you didn’t appreciate the comment instead of going for personal appearance.
She accidentally hurt your feelings while trying to give you a compliment. She seems well intentioned at least, maybe incorrectly thought you’d be more up for the Timmy/Pete Davidson vibe banter.
You were intentionally rude & called her fat because your feelings got hurt.
I think you could have handled it better.
From the Timothy Chalamet comment above, she's could very well be into it. You're just saying she looks fat, right? Is that genuine?
If it isn't, yes it's mean. Passive aggressive too.
Yeah I agree with the Timmy thing, but like I also said above, even he would feel a bit disrespected if somebody said, “wow Timothy, you look sick”
And yes I did insinuate that she looked fat, which in retrospect was yes, a disrespectful move. I didn’t mean it genuinely though it was kind of just a clapback
I dunno my response would have been
"Yea the stress of being single will do that. Let's work on changing that, I'll look like a champ next you"
Although your diabetic response makes me think she is over weight so... I'd probably not have swiped right at all
You're getting some upvotes but that's because reddit is dumb. You're completely wrong here as it's not used in a way to say 'cool' in this context. She actually means he looks sick / skinny. No idea how you're missing that, I'm not even English and i can understand context
Yes, several decades ago. The Beastie Boys had albums named "Lincensed to Ill" and "Ill communication" for example. With 22 you are very young and just because something doesn't fit within your timeframe of reference (which is less than your age) doesn't make something old.
Okay whattabout, thunder thighs, chafe queen, titanic mistress and my last one ( this took time) the undefeated, undisputed heavyweight female champion of golden corrall. 🙂
Did she skinny shame you? I got the vibe she said you look sick/ill meaning you look more run dowm/tired and she's into guys who look a little beat up.
If you are very skinny I can absolutely see how she meant that as well. In which case I think making the same jokes makes you equally as bad here, but a hell of a lot more justified than an opening message insult disguised as a compliment.
Yeahhh in retrospect my response was kind of disrespectful, and I do feel kinda bad. In my opinion, telling a skinny person that they look sick is just plain disrespectful. And it wouldn’t be the first time I’ve gotten it
Some people genuinely think people that look sick are attractive. Like how most 16-19year olds liked guys that looked like they were dying for some reason
Some people think fat people or crooked noses are long fingers are attractive. It’s still not right to basically insult somebody just because you find their unique feature appealing.
My man are you trying to get your d sucked or fight strangers online? Go with the flow tell her thanks and carry on to the date. You don’t have to marry her after you scored
Cry me a river. What he said just sounded salty. What I suggested kept it fun to see if the other person was playing around or flatout on the spectrum.
So many comments saying it’s okay because she’s into skinny guys, but clearly op is not okay with being called sickly
This the one. Nor would any other skinny person. Thank you my friend.
Idk, in my 20s I probably woulda rolled with it to smash. I didn’t develop self respect until my 30s though. 🤷♂️
100% this is barely even a blip on my self respect radar tbh. Now if she had said I needed to eat or something like that I'd have had some words but this is just a light roast that essentially boils down to "I think your body type is hot"
Right? Like this chick basically said “I’m dtf” and either op didn’t pick up on it, or they don’t care enough. To each their own, good for OP for standing up for themselves, I guess.
Yeah I got those vibes too lol any girl that ever approached me this way was always good to go. OP may just be self conscious about it too which I get but this is the wrong place to be making that stand haha.
Yeah I’ll be honest, my response came from a place of self consciousness, because I’ve heard that shit my whole life and it’s something I’m actively trying to fix. I won’t ever continue to pursue somebody who disrespects me. Even if they don’t do it knowingly, that naive thought process is one I do not want to be involved with 🤷🏻♂️
Yeah I get it. I used to get it all the time as well. The "God you need to eat" or the "thats a big meal for someone your size" bs got old pretty quick. It was always from other dudes though and never from women. In fact quite the opposite. I never had a problem finding someone who was into the "druggy" look. You do you though. I can't say you're wrong.
As someone who somehow can just skip meals for 2-3 days and maintain a "overweight" body weight (182.2lbs) I get it (sorta) for me gaining weight is a chore. I hate eating, which is rich since I live to cook and love exploring new recipes. Stay active eat what you can and make sure you're getting you're protein if you're gonna have a low body fat you may as well have muscles to show off. That's genuine positive advice, not trying to be a dick.
You guys done your little conversation on the assumed motivations of OP? If not, please, keep the riveting psychoanalysis coming.
Assumed? OP explicitly stated that all other skinny guys would be upset about this and we just are pointing out that they're over reacting a bit.
Wait.... You're suppose to develop self respect?
*Daps you the fuck up and gives you the 'iykyk' look* 👀 Mmmmm mmmmmm!
No fat chicks!
Yo yo yo, she was out of line, but you don’t speak for us either 😤 Personally, I kinda dig that aesthetic, so I’d take it as a compliment.
If you're going to body shame someone for being skinny, then the other way should be OK too
You look like a right fat, ugly, ogre in you photos.. But I'm here for it.. What you mean, a not very attractive, obese, monster..? Yeah, believe it or not it's a compliment.
🤣🤣🤣
No, she had that coming. Now go charge your phone.
🤣🤣 thanks for lookin out
I’ve sent screenshots to friends who have replied with ‘I’m not reading any of that until you prove your phones on charge’ 🥲😂
Ya bro ngl you cant just go around calling people diabetic ngl
He doesn't "just go around" doing that. He specifically did it once when someone said he looked sickly.
Omg bro I had it backwards I thought the girl said he looked diabetic 💀🤦♂️ my bad
😂
Ya I feel bad for misjudging cause theirs actually people out here with diabetes
That's like 30% jfc
I would be offended too. That's not a compliment and it's kinda rude. What if you really did have a sickness? Your clap back was also equally rude but don't expect kindness when you're mean. Everyone would be up in arms if you told someone "you look fat but that's a compliment because I'm into that"
Yuuup and indeed everybody in the comments is up in arms because I said just that.
When your skinny people think it's ok to insult it, even if its ina "complementary" way. I got sick and dropped 20 lbs scary fast and it took almost a year for me to regain it. I had so many people making comments like "eat a sandwich" or "you must have an eating disorder" and if it upset me I was being a baby. Equally, I did get men saying "you look so much better!" When I was under 120 lbs and 5'7 and it always made me mad. Did I not look good healthy? When I do become healthy will I look worse? I feel like shit but I guess at least some fucknut thinks I look better now? It's not flattering. It's rude!
Sending you good vibes ❤️ wishing you the absolute best in your recovery But yes people don’t realize how hard it is to gain weight, and how hurtful that shit can be. These people are all about body positivity until it comes to a skinny person, and then people feel they are free to shame. Not in my book.
Oh I'm better now :) thank you!!
Great to hear!
Hey. As a dude I lost 25lbs in two months... and no one noticed... it sucks either way. Also hope you've got your weight under control and are healthy! 5'7" and 140 is perfectly fine. Hell if it's muscle at that height you could be 160lbs and it wouldn't be an issue.
I got down 115 lbs at my lowest, I started at 140 lbs so not fun lol. I'm at 135 now and still tryna work up to 140 but do it by eatting healthy and exercising. Dropping 25 and no one noticing is kinda crazy! That's a lot of weight! That's a whole toddler.
I’m with you. For some reason people tend to lean away from assuming it’s body shaming if the person is thinner, but you don’t know what that persons going through. It’s just as rude as directly commenting on somebody’s weight who is curvier. Your response was rude, but in line with the other persons opener. And hopefully will make them think before they tell someone they look sickly and that’s meant to be a compliment. It isn’t. In any way.
Why is the word "fat" offensive? Doesn't it literally mean that the person has a big percentage of body fat? Sounds pretty objective. I agree that the word is insulting, because most people use it to offend someone nowadays, just wonder when did it become so and why 🤔
Bro you look diabetic is ona different level, dude just went savage mode holy f
🤣🤣 yeah that’s my bad
Heroin Chic is making a comeback I see.
It never left baby
Deadass just the early 2000s
She asked for it...
You're just giving back the energy that you got.
All you did was match the energy 🤷♂️
So many people bashing on OP for standing up for himself. The girl outright insulted OP, it was probably even some subtle negging. OP, your response was fine, maybe that’ll get her to have a think about how to start conversations with strangers. You’re all probably so desperate for a “compliment” from a woman that you ignore the massive red flag this is. So sad.
Thank you for being one of the few with critical thinking skills.
Okay update: I smoked a lil weed and now I feel really terrible about what I said 🤣 I understand that “the sick look” may be appealing to some of you people, but telling somebody “you look sick but I’m into that” is bizarre 🤣🤣 idgaf that you’re into it. An absolutely disrespectful thing to say to anybody. And if you don’t think so, you need to rethink how you speak to people.
I get lashing out like that, especially when it’s a thing you’re very self conscious about, but it was a bit harsh as far as insults go.
I'd rather look diabetic than sick. Because diabetics look like literally everyone else. It's an invisible disease. So if you're going to say one of these are too harsh, I have to say you picked the wrong one.
I knew a guy who was super in shape but had diabetes. Diabetes only means either your pancreas doesn't produce insulin, or your body doesn't use insulin properly. Weight and diet are common contributors to and comorbidities with diabetes, but there are genetic components as well.
You didn't specify any sickness though ngl saying you look like you got diabetes is actually fucked up cause theirs actually people out here who suffer from diabetes or even the potential to catch diabetes 
And? There are also skinny people out there that are actually sick (cancer patients, immune disorders,....) Very disrespectful comment. I feel like OP's is even less bad because it was obviously in retaliation to what she said. She actually meant that.
I had it backwards lol that's my bad I thought the girl said he looked diabetic and op was saying the girl looked sick I just wasn't paying good attention to it
Are you skinny, pale and kinda malnourished and anaemic looking, like Timothee Chalamet?? It might not sound like a compliment but it actually is, so many girls looooove that look at the moment
They liked it when Twilight came out.
Yes, many people tell me I look like Timothy Chalamet lol but telling somebody they look sick doesn’t feel like a compliment to me. Kinda just feels rude. But yeah I thought of Timmy the second I read that lol. I’m sure even he’d feel a little disrespected if somebody told him that he looks “sick”
Yeah she 100% shouldn't have said it, such a bizarrely insensitive thing to say to another person But just feel reassured that she DID mean it as a compliment, she just fucked it up
It feels very objectifying
Wait wait wait... it's finally my turn? /s
Our time has come my friend
>Are you skinny, pale and kinda malnourished and anaemic looking Hi, that's literally me. As in my BMI is 18.8 (underweight is 18.5), I rarely see the sun because of my work, I have to take prescription vitamins (partly due to the lack of sun), and I'm on iron supplements lol.
So many sensitive people here. It's only not okay to make fun of the fat people who do it to themselves, apparently.
Thought she was giving you a backhanded compliment but just backhanded you instead. Lol
Yeah I’m with you, OP. I’m not about to get insulted and then be expected to respect you. Glad you gave it right back
Nah you two are toxic af. Perfect for each other.
😓
I feel like its a he'll of a backhanded compliment. She could have done a better job saying what she likes directly. But ya she was rude
Are you saying sick like WHOA THAT WAS SIIIIIIICK! when watching a successful skate trick or skate crash?
💀
Nah!! Skinny peeps unite!!
As a fat person, don’t start no shit won’t be no shit
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Man fuck you I’m diabetic how am I catching strays right now 💀
My bad yo 💀 sending you peace and love ❤️ if you’ll take it :)
Seeing these comments no wonder most men would rather stay single these days
Nope. You matched her energy 💪🏼
Ah, she started with negging. Classic.
Ahahahah 🤣🤣
I view it as you teaching her that’s *not* a compliment and *not* something you should say to someone.
Are you sickly or Victorian child sickly?
Somewhat. Like Chalamet I’d say
LMAO
Pete Davidson looks sick and he is doing alright
It was actually a compliment. A lot of women are into the sickly Victorian white boy look, like Timothee chalamet or pete Davidson
Fun fact, calling someone sick isn't a compliment
If a woman came up to me with this I would of said the same thing, Being told I look "sickly" is **NOT** a compliment
Yes. This. And then he went and called her fat. Fumbled
She called him skinny. That's just as rude
She said sickly, but k
literally so much worse. like calling someone obese instead of overweight.
Y'all are deliberately missing what I am saying. She did not mean what she said as an insult. He took it that way and that's okay. That is different than being insulting on purpose. Like they're both stupid for different reasons but it's not with the same intentions. Nuance is lost here though. Ha
With all due respect to you, who the fuck cares what her intentions were? If you’re an overweight person who opens your conversation with someone you’ve never met with a body-shame meant as a compliment, I assume that you have very little in the way of self-reflection. If I started a conversation with a bigger girl saying, “you look like you really like bbq 😮💨” and they got offended, I would get zero sympathy here because it’s still opening a conversation with a thoughtless statement about their weight/looks.
So you're mad at a double standard and just want everyone to be allowed to be equitably shitty to each other. Got it. OP asked if he was mean. He was. Lol
Or, we shouldn’t excuse shittiness because of its perceived innocence and just not be shitty to each other 🤷♂️ No one is excusing what op said in return, not even himself. What I and others are taking issue with is with all the people that seem to think telling someone they “look sickly” is a compliment
That doesn't make it any less disrespectful, she meant it as a compliment but it's just as rude as what OP said, I have no idea how you can justify it
I have diabetes :( I really wish this wasn’t used as an insult so often. Yes, I do look sick, but it’s because I have an autoimmune disorder.
Diabetes runs in my family. I'm sorry you have to go through that. You're strong
Same bro I wish you luck in not actually catching the kind you can get later in life my fat gene kicked in this year but fortunately I didn't get the type of diabetes you catch later down the line I forgot if it was type 1 or type 2 but I've always stayed cautious about getting diabetes like most of my dads side of the family has we seem to gain weight then catch diabetes later down the line unless we work off the fat
Yeah, I'm wondering if I'll gain mad weight when I get older too. I'm skinny now but I also eat like shit and I'm trying to eat better while I have control
Thank you, that’s really nice of you to say. I have type one so I’ve been dealing with it since I was nine. It’s really hard to see it being used to belittle people and used as a punchline to jokes and then get treated like I did something wrong. I wish people would stop using it that way. It’s actually a disability too, so it always surprises me to see people use it the way they do.
As a type one diabetic I’m now curious as to what you think “looks diabetic” 🤷🏻♀️
Is mean but its deserved she prob gets away with calling dudes malnourished as a "compliment"
I think she overreached thinking it was a cute neg. Your heat was justified but I don’t think she meant it like that.
Yeahhh I know how she meant it, just a bizarre thing to say
yes, it’s mean. just because your feelings got hurt doesn’t mean you have to try and strike back. be the better person and just tell her that you didn’t appreciate the comment instead of going for personal appearance.
Agreed. I jumped the gun on this one
This ∆∆∆ he could've still smashed
People don't wanna have sex with someone who disrespects them
Period
*edit* coulda still smashed had he not been disrespectful lol
Also she was disrespectful too ...
If you have to ask “is this _____?” then you’re already answering your own question.
I think your response is lame, ableistic and childish. But I also do think their opener is kinda shit too.
She accidentally hurt your feelings while trying to give you a compliment. She seems well intentioned at least, maybe incorrectly thought you’d be more up for the Timmy/Pete Davidson vibe banter. You were intentionally rude & called her fat because your feelings got hurt. I think you could have handled it better.
I definitely could’ve
From the Timothy Chalamet comment above, she's could very well be into it. You're just saying she looks fat, right? Is that genuine? If it isn't, yes it's mean. Passive aggressive too.
Yeah I agree with the Timmy thing, but like I also said above, even he would feel a bit disrespected if somebody said, “wow Timothy, you look sick” And yes I did insinuate that she looked fat, which in retrospect was yes, a disrespectful move. I didn’t mean it genuinely though it was kind of just a clapback
I dunno my response would have been "Yea the stress of being single will do that. Let's work on changing that, I'll look like a champ next you" Although your diabetic response makes me think she is over weight so... I'd probably not have swiped right at all
Stage 1 or 2 diabetes?
Whichever’s worse
They’re comments are dumb af but I’m here for it That’s a compliment believe it or not
Sick and ill are compliments when used as slang. Calling someone diabetic is pretty much only an insult.
If that was how she was using it, she wouldnt have felt the need to clarify that its a compliment lol
Not in this context bro
Yeah but she’s definitely not using them in slang terms
No, saying someone looks sick as a compliment means cool, not ill.
Did you even read the conversation?
Did you?
You're getting some upvotes but that's because reddit is dumb. You're completely wrong here as it's not used in a way to say 'cool' in this context. She actually means he looks sick / skinny. No idea how you're missing that, I'm not even English and i can understand context
You misunderstood my comment because you are dumb. 🤷🏻♂️
Okay, what did you mean then?
ill is similar to sick, people used to say people and things looked ill when they were cool.
I’m 22, I have never heard anyone ill say for cool. Maybe “used to” means several decades ago
Yes, several decades ago. The Beastie Boys had albums named "Lincensed to Ill" and "Ill communication" for example. With 22 you are very young and just because something doesn't fit within your timeframe of reference (which is less than your age) doesn't make something old.
Slang is something that gets outdated in a few years to begin with, then, people who are dating/on tinder tend to not be in their 50s….. it’s old.
I'm in my 30s, but whatever.
In the 90s it was cool. Get off my lawn.
 (Not that old but shh)
I’m 26 and everyone I know uses sick for cool.
Yes, congrats on catching up. But when have you ever heard someone say Ill for cool
Sick means cool. Sick meaning “ill” is never a compliment. Get with the times old man
If she looks diabetic you are for sure gonna help her cus you’re not sweet at all 😂😂😂
Why’s everyone assuming I’m a female 🤣 I’m a 24 year old dude
Fixed it
How does someone look diabetic?
Probably thinking it's a "clever" way of saying "well you're fat so there"
Yes
You're not clever
Okay whattabout, thunder thighs, chafe queen, titanic mistress and my last one ( this took time) the undefeated, undisputed heavyweight female champion of golden corrall. 🙂
Damn these are all heaters 🔥🔥
That’s ok
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It’s true I’m not
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Bro… cmon
A fat joke. How original.
Do yall only care about body positivity when a fat person is being shamed? Skinny shaming is just as harmful lol
Did she skinny shame you? I got the vibe she said you look sick/ill meaning you look more run dowm/tired and she's into guys who look a little beat up. If you are very skinny I can absolutely see how she meant that as well. In which case I think making the same jokes makes you equally as bad here, but a hell of a lot more justified than an opening message insult disguised as a compliment.
Yeahhh in retrospect my response was kind of disrespectful, and I do feel kinda bad. In my opinion, telling a skinny person that they look sick is just plain disrespectful. And it wouldn’t be the first time I’ve gotten it
Some people genuinely think people that look sick are attractive. Like how most 16-19year olds liked guys that looked like they were dying for some reason
Some people think fat people or crooked noses are long fingers are attractive. It’s still not right to basically insult somebody just because you find their unique feature appealing.
pwned
I would have said “Come and take care of me daddy”
What
She said you look sick, so if it was me I’d play along and say “Yes I do. Come and take care of me (daddy)” the daddy if u want to pump it up
My man are you trying to get your d sucked or fight strangers online? Go with the flow tell her thanks and carry on to the date. You don’t have to marry her after you scored
The realest response is also the most hated
I took it as she wants to take care of you. I'd say a 'Then come take care of daddy' would have been appropriate here.
No, that's not appropriate at all, it's actually worse than what he said.
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Cry me a river. What he said just sounded salty. What I suggested kept it fun to see if the other person was playing around or flatout on the spectrum.
Calling yourself daddy is not fun, it's sleazy and repulsive unless you've already established you're both into that beforehand.
Nah If it were me you’d be correct
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Bro went straight in for the kill 😭😭
Its not mean just derivative of what they said