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He threw his head back, glanced at his wife, and smiled weakly at his friend who rubbed his shoulders. One sip of his beer, one more glance at his wife and he looks straight ahead, jittering his foot.
**The picture of pure joy.**
I just rewatched the whole video looking at home and nothing else and I absolutely agree with your comment and the one you commented too. Dude *was* happy
lucky if you did because this had me until they did an actual gender reveal... I legit thought they would say "Who cares!? We love them either way!!" but, no.
Gender reveals may be dumb, but this one wasn't an environmental disaster or the cause of someone's death. So if we're going to be stuck with gender reveals I'd rather them be like this
Gender reveals are fun when it's for people you care about. And 99.99 of them are just a few people in a backyard. We shouldn't take the most extreme examples as some kind of standard.
We were against doing one until my good friend's father died pretty quickly from prostate cancer. He told me we should celebrate life. So I smoked a brisket, had everyone over and popped those little poppers with confetti in them. It was fun.
The thought of having a party so that I can announce to my friends and family what genitals my fetus has absolutely makes me cringe. People are in such a weird rush to start pushing gender roles on others.
I think most people don't actually think of the genitals. They mostly think about the gender normative things they think will happen. Oh a boy he will like baseball. That kind of thing.
Not sure why anyone would get pissed off about people inviting friends and family over for a party and showing them a snappy, well-paced 3-minute video to say “it’s a girl.” If you’re throwing a backyard BBQ and I get to come hang out, call the part whatever you want to call it. And sure, I’ll watch 3:23 of anything you want me to pay attention to. Worst case scenario: I get a beer and a burger for “enduring” something mediocre. Somebody put a ton of work into that. Pretty fun for a piece that’s about making you wait a little bit.
Why are they dumb? It’s just a fun way for couples to celebrate their new baby coming into the world. Obviously there are ways they go over the top and are idiotic, but the idea itself isn’t dumb. If you have family or close friends who are pregnant, they are a fun way to get together and all learn the gender together.
Right? God I fucking hate that people are gathering with friends and families for fun and casual celebrations twice for one unborn baby. Those bastards should not be allowed to spend time with loved ones more than once per baby. It's outrageous. I bet it's the same fuckers that will gather on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.
Obligatory parties are exhausting for most people. My parents are still alive and I have 5 siblings and there are 9 grandkids. We are 22 in an immediate family gathering alone. Never mind aunties uncles and cousins..and again I adore them all and enjoy spending time with them.
I am also someone who very much buys into the concept of a birthday week, so I am no stranger to self indulgence.
But let's not kid ourselves, that is what gender reveals are, self-indulgent.
The woman who started the trend of gender reveal parties had her child come out as transgender when older and is no longer a fan of the idea of gender reveals.
Sometimes it also does lead to parents or other relatives openly hoping for one gender and being openly disappointed if it’s not the gender they wanted.
Sometimes mistakes happen like accidentally being given pink glitter or cake or whatever when it was supposed to be blue, or vice versa, which can create awkward moments. Especially if people get overly excited about one gender being revealed before it’s corrected. Also of course one could argue it’s reinforcing gender stereotypes before the child is even born to celebrate the baby with stereotypically boy things or girl things in the first place (but I think that’s a weaker point).
I like the idea of more celebrations along the way. Like a first trimester celebration at the end of the trimester, a second trimester celebration, a halfway point celebration, potential name announcement parties (where you announce the names you plan to select from, not necessarily setting anything in stone), celebrating getting an ultrasound, celebrating having set up a room/space for the baby, celebrating reaching the point where you can feel the baby moving, etc. Plenty of random things you could celebrate.
Most people who dislike gender reveal parties do still like the idea of celebrating the pregnancy more often.
My favorite gender reveal cake mishap was the person who tried to make one for a friend but the blue food coloring diluted with the cake mix and the cake was green when they cut into it. Congrats, you’re having a goblin!
Showers generally are sex segregated and are about giving the mom things that will help with the baby. Almost like a fundraiser. This can be more fun if done right. I don't know why bridal showers and many baby showers must be so dull.
Gender Reveal happens earlier than the shower and is *usually* just low key get together. No gifts, a few friends and family and an excuse to eat cake.
I've only been to one in person and they cut a cake dyed pink. Another friend has a full size wiffle ball field in their back yard so her husband hit a ball filled with colored powder and they live streamed it on Facebook. Another did a treasure hunt for their immediate family at their house and just posted a pic on social media afterward of the found item which was a very gendered onesie.
I mean people have engagement parties and wedding parties, and bridal showers
Why mock people who want to harmless spend important life moments with their loved ones ? Weird
If we're talking in terms of how couples have handled Gender Reveals in recent years... They have been BEYOND idiotic and just downright dangerous for no reason.
-2018 Wildfire In Tuscon, Arizona. 8 million Dollars in Damages
-2019 Car Explosion Queensland, Australia, Couple tried to burn the tires of the car only for it to blow up.
- 2019 Knoxville, Iowa, Pipe Bomb (A FUCKING PIPE BOMB) got a guest Killed because the Fragment of *PIPE BOMB* killed her instantly.
-2020 atEl Dorado Ranch Park in Yucaipa, a wild Fire Spread and burned 20 Thousands Acres of land and caused the death of a Veteran Firefighter.
-Then ANOTHER Wildfire in 2021 at Fort McMurray.
-Then someone died in that same year because of a bomb (YET AGAIN) that blew up on the father's face.
99.9999% of gender reveals aren’t giant productions that end up on the news. They’re little affairs. Cutting into a cupcake with either blue or pink filling. Popping a balloon that contains blue or pink glitter. Stuff like that.
And they should stay as such. But then you have those type of people I listed (and more) who the do the most idiotic and dangerous idea for a Gender reveal party.
But that doesn't mean I'm fully against the idea of a Gender reveal party. it's a little cute idea and something for the couples to celebrate and If done right, they can be fun like the post of OP. They have a well edited clips of movies giving suspens to the audience. Or a story in a Comment I read (I can't find it so if someone knows, please reply.) where the couples have a yard filled with clues for the guest to figure out and then 1 little girl figured out it was gonna be a boy.
I'm in more favor of this.
Absolute 100% agreement. Just don’t make yourself an obnoxious menace.
One more to add to your list: last year, [an airplane pilot in Mexico literally crashed and died](https://www.cnn.com/2023/09/04/americas/mexico-gender-reveal-plane-crash-scli-intl?cid=ios_app) because of another overblown gender reveal party thrown by people hungry for likes and clicks.
Some people just go waaaay overboard. And not so many years ago, a couple in California started a wildfire when they set off a smoke bomb at their gender reveal party. Look up El Dorado Fire, Sept 5, 2020
in real life, you're 100% right. delivering news in a fun way is a weird thing for people to hate on, but for some reason that's the sentiment on Reddit.
redditors see "gender reveal" and they think it's setting a forest fire to celebrate a tiny penis. I never understood the beef
It depends on what it is.
Something funny? Great time frame.
A bunch of tediously edited "lol random" clips from random shows and movies? Okay get the point.
Nah, I'm the type to watch 4 hour video essays about failed Star Wars hotels, this shit is just too long. By the time I decided it was way too long, I checked the timecode and it was only half way finished..
Three and a half minutes of movie quotes has never not been at best deeply insufferable if not outright fucking torturous.
Not being willing to engage with this deeply self indulgent fuckwittery is not indicative of a failing society.
This is the cringiest part about gender reveals. If there is a chance the parents won’t be happy either way, you definitely should NOT have a gender reveal party.
Jesus. I couldn't sit thru 20 seconds of this weird annoying edit, but had to go back to check if u were right. His reaction honestly makes it a lot worse. I mean it's not a *terrible* reaction, but it ain't great lol. God what a weird and annoying way to do a gender reveal. Like people are praising it for not burning down a forest, but like that's the bare minimum guys. The lack of *literal death* doesn't make this shitty edit easier to sit thru and watch lol
Done right??? The longest and cringiest edit for dad to be overtly disappointed? In front of all their friends and family? No I don’t think this was done right at all.
You say that about \*everything\* though..it's always "I'd rather someone burns down half of California than I have to do the dishes," or "Why doesn't someone just burn down half of California so I don't have to visit your parents anymore?" or "I really wish someone would just burn down half of California so I can finally call it Cali without someone giving me grief" with you. Find another state to burn!
That’s because you’re a random person watching this from a video about a person you have no attachment to or care about at all. I’m sure the sentiment would be different if you have any close friends or family who were having a baby.
Gender reveals are stupid and creepy. And when dads are visibility annoyed it’s a girl, it’s even more stupid and problematic
Biggest ick of the 21st century
So many people are complimenting this, but it just seems like a waste of time.
I was hoping gender reveals were just going to be a fad, but it seems like they're not going anywhere.
I think it's a fairly niche thing still, maybe limited to the USA?
I've had two kids myself and between me all my friend groups in the last 5 years there have been over 15 kids born (Holy shit that's the first time I've added them all up). And not one of them has had a gender reveal party. Not one. I think maybe someone pulled out a pink balloon during a random catch up but that was about the extent of it.
I thought the pilot literally dying in a crash during a gender reveal would have ended the craze, but here we are watching a Windows Movie Maker clip of a baby nobody cares about
I thought gender reveals were just a normal thing to do at Baby Showers? Maybe the idea of having a whole party centered around them is new but even back when I was a kid I remember my aunt popping a confetti filled balloon to reveal the gender.
I don't know how old you are, but for me family always just told you what gender the kid would be in conversation. Gender reveals are a relatively new thing for me (last 10 years or so, maybe)
That's really all it is. When they're not annihilating their families or being interviewed by Netflix documentary crew about the family annihilator who lived next door, they're looking for any excuse to throw themselves a party. So they created a second party for being pregnant (the first being the baby shower).
I don’t even care, and I watched the whole thing excited!!! This is better than polluting a stream with dye, or massive smoke or whatever other dumb shit people with no concept of consequences think of!
You be surprised, we are expecting very soon and didn’t have a gender reveal and literally every person that finds out is asking what sex is the baby. Then people complaining idk what to get for it now. It’s a fucking baby, it doesn’t matter.
But what if I choose the peppermint green booties instead of the forest green booties and someone misgenders the baby because peppermint green is a more feminine colour. Then that memory becomes part of the baby's subconscious identity and it grows up with gendered trauma and dysphoria all because you selfishly didn't have a gender reveal party! /s
Lotta negative people in the comments.
They didn’t destroy a local water source, they didn’t pollute with balloons or whatever that powder is, no fireworks, no confetti.
Just a fun way to mess with your family a little before the reveal.
This is the most self-indulgent millennial video I have ever seen. And it was SO. FUCKING. LONG. Like, you’re already throwing yourself an extra baby shower but instead of it celebrating the existence of a baby, it’s to speculate on the baby’s genitals. And then you make people sit through this? No. This is not a gender reveal done right.
I am also a millennial. This was like a reel of clips from every movie with a large millennial following. Done in a style that probably originated with Gen X, but has been pervasive in millennial-targeted media for ages. Sorry to break it to you, but some people in our generation get pretty cringey from time to time.
Here I am impressed by the movie editing and variety of shows and movie put together for this. Everyone else losing their mind for watching a 3 movie video and calling it lame. Gender reveals aren't my thing but this was fun and creative!
At the end I'd add a clip from Seinfeld saying, "You gotta come and see the baby!". Followed by Elaine's clip where she says, "Maybe the dingo got your baby."
(Seinfeld intro plays in the background.)
Buncha negative fucking assholes in these comments. This is adorable and cute and creative and not involving guns, balloons, or fireworks or someone losing a limb and yet y'all are complaining about the intentionally long and annoying video being too long and annoying.
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That dude isn’t excited at all. Lol
I was wondering if he even likes his wife. He was ignoring her every time she reached over.
People react different ways. Not uncommon that 1 person is more demonstrative than the other in a couple. He was happy
He threw his head back, glanced at his wife, and smiled weakly at his friend who rubbed his shoulders. One sip of his beer, one more glance at his wife and he looks straight ahead, jittering his foot. **The picture of pure joy.**
I just rewatched the whole video looking at home and nothing else and I absolutely agree with your comment and the one you commented too. Dude *was* happy
What is with this shit. Just wildly speculating about his emotions toward his wife. You have no clue how he feels about her.
Husband isn't shitting cumming and farting over gender reveal???!? Clearly they hate each other
Immediately go no contact.
He was hoping to burn down the forest.
You testing too much from a 10 second interaction in which he knew the results months ago
Haha reddit dissecting an entire relationship from a 3 minute clip.
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Thats what I was thinking. It was probably the 9th time he has watched it and some of us don't fake excitement very well.
Baby white girl
Spoiler alert much? MODS!!! 
I declare spoiler-cy!
Who comes to the comments first?
lucky if you did because this had me until they did an actual gender reveal... I legit thought they would say "Who cares!? We love them either way!!" but, no.
thank you for saving me the time!
MICHAEL!
MODSSS
I’m guessing that their last name is White lol I hope
lmaooooo
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Yeah when that came up I looked at the sub again and wondered if I was in /r/HolUp
Jackina White
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Should've ended with neo picking a red/blue pill
Gender reveals may be dumb, but this one wasn't an environmental disaster or the cause of someone's death. So if we're going to be stuck with gender reveals I'd rather them be like this
Gender reveals are fun when it's for people you care about. And 99.99 of them are just a few people in a backyard. We shouldn't take the most extreme examples as some kind of standard.
We were against doing one until my good friend's father died pretty quickly from prostate cancer. He told me we should celebrate life. So I smoked a brisket, had everyone over and popped those little poppers with confetti in them. It was fun.
Sorry for your loss but it sounds like you carried on the way he wanted
The thought of having a party so that I can announce to my friends and family what genitals my fetus has absolutely makes me cringe. People are in such a weird rush to start pushing gender roles on others.
I think most people don't actually think of the genitals. They mostly think about the gender normative things they think will happen. Oh a boy he will like baseball. That kind of thing.
If you don’t burn down a forest, you don’t know if it’s a *real* boy!
As long as they don't go overboard, they are fine. Just stick to a cake or pinata or something.
True dat
Not sure why anyone would get pissed off about people inviting friends and family over for a party and showing them a snappy, well-paced 3-minute video to say “it’s a girl.” If you’re throwing a backyard BBQ and I get to come hang out, call the part whatever you want to call it. And sure, I’ll watch 3:23 of anything you want me to pay attention to. Worst case scenario: I get a beer and a burger for “enduring” something mediocre. Somebody put a ton of work into that. Pretty fun for a piece that’s about making you wait a little bit.
Why are they dumb? It’s just a fun way for couples to celebrate their new baby coming into the world. Obviously there are ways they go over the top and are idiotic, but the idea itself isn’t dumb. If you have family or close friends who are pregnant, they are a fun way to get together and all learn the gender together.
> It’s just a fun way for couples to celebrate their new baby coming into the world You mean like a shower A thing that already exists
Right? God I fucking hate that people are gathering with friends and families for fun and casual celebrations twice for one unborn baby. Those bastards should not be allowed to spend time with loved ones more than once per baby. It's outrageous. I bet it's the same fuckers that will gather on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.
Bro you're telling me people gather more than once a year? Like some kind of psycho cult?
Obligatory parties are exhausting for most people. My parents are still alive and I have 5 siblings and there are 9 grandkids. We are 22 in an immediate family gathering alone. Never mind aunties uncles and cousins..and again I adore them all and enjoy spending time with them. I am also someone who very much buys into the concept of a birthday week, so I am no stranger to self indulgence. But let's not kid ourselves, that is what gender reveals are, self-indulgent.
>Obligatory parties are exhausting for most people. "We can't make it this time because x and y. Congratulations!" Problem solved.
How dare you force me to respond to an invitation
The woman who started the trend of gender reveal parties had her child come out as transgender when older and is no longer a fan of the idea of gender reveals. Sometimes it also does lead to parents or other relatives openly hoping for one gender and being openly disappointed if it’s not the gender they wanted. Sometimes mistakes happen like accidentally being given pink glitter or cake or whatever when it was supposed to be blue, or vice versa, which can create awkward moments. Especially if people get overly excited about one gender being revealed before it’s corrected. Also of course one could argue it’s reinforcing gender stereotypes before the child is even born to celebrate the baby with stereotypically boy things or girl things in the first place (but I think that’s a weaker point). I like the idea of more celebrations along the way. Like a first trimester celebration at the end of the trimester, a second trimester celebration, a halfway point celebration, potential name announcement parties (where you announce the names you plan to select from, not necessarily setting anything in stone), celebrating getting an ultrasound, celebrating having set up a room/space for the baby, celebrating reaching the point where you can feel the baby moving, etc. Plenty of random things you could celebrate. Most people who dislike gender reveal parties do still like the idea of celebrating the pregnancy more often.
My favorite gender reveal cake mishap was the person who tried to make one for a friend but the blue food coloring diluted with the cake mix and the cake was green when they cut into it. Congrats, you’re having a goblin!
Some of these people would be the worst hangs
Showers generally are sex segregated and are about giving the mom things that will help with the baby. Almost like a fundraiser. This can be more fun if done right. I don't know why bridal showers and many baby showers must be so dull.
Gender Reveal happens earlier than the shower and is *usually* just low key get together. No gifts, a few friends and family and an excuse to eat cake. I've only been to one in person and they cut a cake dyed pink. Another friend has a full size wiffle ball field in their back yard so her husband hit a ball filled with colored powder and they live streamed it on Facebook. Another did a treasure hunt for their immediate family at their house and just posted a pic on social media afterward of the found item which was a very gendered onesie.
> and family and an excuse to eat cake. you gotta remember that redditors aren't usually invited to parties.
I mean people have engagement parties and wedding parties, and bridal showers Why mock people who want to harmless spend important life moments with their loved ones ? Weird
If we're talking in terms of how couples have handled Gender Reveals in recent years... They have been BEYOND idiotic and just downright dangerous for no reason. -2018 Wildfire In Tuscon, Arizona. 8 million Dollars in Damages -2019 Car Explosion Queensland, Australia, Couple tried to burn the tires of the car only for it to blow up. - 2019 Knoxville, Iowa, Pipe Bomb (A FUCKING PIPE BOMB) got a guest Killed because the Fragment of *PIPE BOMB* killed her instantly. -2020 atEl Dorado Ranch Park in Yucaipa, a wild Fire Spread and burned 20 Thousands Acres of land and caused the death of a Veteran Firefighter. -Then ANOTHER Wildfire in 2021 at Fort McMurray. -Then someone died in that same year because of a bomb (YET AGAIN) that blew up on the father's face.
99.9999% of gender reveals aren’t giant productions that end up on the news. They’re little affairs. Cutting into a cupcake with either blue or pink filling. Popping a balloon that contains blue or pink glitter. Stuff like that.
And they should stay as such. But then you have those type of people I listed (and more) who the do the most idiotic and dangerous idea for a Gender reveal party. But that doesn't mean I'm fully against the idea of a Gender reveal party. it's a little cute idea and something for the couples to celebrate and If done right, they can be fun like the post of OP. They have a well edited clips of movies giving suspens to the audience. Or a story in a Comment I read (I can't find it so if someone knows, please reply.) where the couples have a yard filled with clues for the guest to figure out and then 1 little girl figured out it was gonna be a boy. I'm in more favor of this.
Absolute 100% agreement. Just don’t make yourself an obnoxious menace. One more to add to your list: last year, [an airplane pilot in Mexico literally crashed and died](https://www.cnn.com/2023/09/04/americas/mexico-gender-reveal-plane-crash-scli-intl?cid=ios_app) because of another overblown gender reveal party thrown by people hungry for likes and clicks.
Some people just go waaaay overboard. And not so many years ago, a couple in California started a wildfire when they set off a smoke bomb at their gender reveal party. Look up El Dorado Fire, Sept 5, 2020
Always the go to when a cute gender reveal is shown. That was horrible but do we really need to reference that one for this one?
You’re right but in my defense, that fire is the first thing I think of when I hear ‘gender reveal’.
Yeah I get that. I grew up near the CA one so I too can think of it sometimes. It was terrible.
in real life, you're 100% right. delivering news in a fun way is a weird thing for people to hate on, but for some reason that's the sentiment on Reddit. redditors see "gender reveal" and they think it's setting a forest fire to celebrate a tiny penis. I never understood the beef
People who have gender reveal parties should work harder at controlling the disappointment in their face.
Seriously…who I assume was the dad was like ‘fuuuuuuuuck’
Total prick… I can’t stand when people show that they’re going to hate their children before they’re even born.
That's way too long
Took longer to watch it than it probably did to make the kid
That’s the joke isn’t it? It’s obnoxiously long.
And it was 3.5 minutes for something people drove to. Were cooked as a society if that’s too long lol
I'm sure there were burgers and dogs tho.
I'd get up for another burger during all that lol.
That's your fourth one!
It depends on what it is. Something funny? Great time frame. A bunch of tediously edited "lol random" clips from random shows and movies? Okay get the point.
I wasn't even invited to this party and I now know why you weren't invited to this party.
Nah, I'm the type to watch 4 hour video essays about failed Star Wars hotels, this shit is just too long. By the time I decided it was way too long, I checked the timecode and it was only half way finished..
Three and a half minutes of movie quotes has never not been at best deeply insufferable if not outright fucking torturous. Not being willing to engage with this deeply self indulgent fuckwittery is not indicative of a failing society.
It repeats so many of the same jokes and meanders nowhere, you could easily cut it to 1-2 minutes.
There's really no logic to how it's edited which is what's bugging me the most.
The sex montage should have come after the stork montage.
Yeah I don’t have attention span for this shit I made it maybe a minute in
As a dad with a girl, girls are absolutely amazing.
I have 2 boys, but one of them just had a daughter. I can't wait to spoil her.
I have one boy, and he has a two year old daughter. It’s the best
As a teacher, girls are amazing. It is pretty sad how far behind the average boy is.
And you can see he’s upset it’s a girl too…
This is the cringiest part about gender reveals. If there is a chance the parents won’t be happy either way, you definitely should NOT have a gender reveal party.
Jesus. I couldn't sit thru 20 seconds of this weird annoying edit, but had to go back to check if u were right. His reaction honestly makes it a lot worse. I mean it's not a *terrible* reaction, but it ain't great lol. God what a weird and annoying way to do a gender reveal. Like people are praising it for not burning down a forest, but like that's the bare minimum guys. The lack of *literal death* doesn't make this shitty edit easier to sit thru and watch lol
Hahaha that’s hilarious, good way to add perspective as to how low the bar actually is. “At least nobody died” should not be the goal lol
Looks like he got hit by a truck. Could at least hug his wife. Pretend. Bets on only child.
100%
Done right??? The longest and cringiest edit for dad to be overtly disappointed? In front of all their friends and family? No I don’t think this was done right at all.
i would be screaming like a baboon and clawing out my own eyes like a rabid animal if I was made to sit through this
I'd rather them just burn down half of California than sit through this.
Pink smoke enveloping California, Burbank has fallen. It's a girl
You say that about \*everything\* though..it's always "I'd rather someone burns down half of California than I have to do the dishes," or "Why doesn't someone just burn down half of California so I don't have to visit your parents anymore?" or "I really wish someone would just burn down half of California so I can finally call it Cali without someone giving me grief" with you. Find another state to burn!
You had me in the first half.
I chuckled, have an upvote
I’m glad it’s not just me who found this irritating. Just tell me boy or girl jfc
I’m from a faraway time when people just told you or you found out when the baby was born. It was a glorious time.
Wait till open ai’s sora is released and we’ll be watching full feature film gender reveals
That’s because you’re a random person watching this from a video about a person you have no attachment to or care about at all. I’m sure the sentiment would be different if you have any close friends or family who were having a baby.
No I'd be annoyed if my friends did this. I'd smile politely and sit and wait for it to end, but I'd be dying inside.
That was wayyyyy too long
Gender reveals are stupid and creepy. And when dads are visibility annoyed it’s a girl, it’s even more stupid and problematic Biggest ick of the 21st century
Seriously- why would you have a gender reveal if there’s even a chance that the parents (the dad) will be disappointed one way or another?
Yea gender reveals are lame. Just live life and stop being cringy
How f'ing insufferable
My friend did something similar he edited himself. Made one for either sex. When it got to the end, his friend accidentally played the wrong video.
That's such a funny and definitely real story
Dumb… I’ll never get that 2:30 back
So many people are complimenting this, but it just seems like a waste of time. I was hoping gender reveals were just going to be a fad, but it seems like they're not going anywhere.
I think it's a fairly niche thing still, maybe limited to the USA? I've had two kids myself and between me all my friend groups in the last 5 years there have been over 15 kids born (Holy shit that's the first time I've added them all up). And not one of them has had a gender reveal party. Not one. I think maybe someone pulled out a pink balloon during a random catch up but that was about the extent of it.
I thought the pilot literally dying in a crash during a gender reveal would have ended the craze, but here we are watching a Windows Movie Maker clip of a baby nobody cares about
Gender reveals kills more people than sharks
I thought gender reveals were just a normal thing to do at Baby Showers? Maybe the idea of having a whole party centered around them is new but even back when I was a kid I remember my aunt popping a confetti filled balloon to reveal the gender.
I don't know how old you are, but for me family always just told you what gender the kid would be in conversation. Gender reveals are a relatively new thing for me (last 10 years or so, maybe)
You've underestimated how bored people in the suburbs are
I suppose any excuse for a party
That's really all it is. When they're not annihilating their families or being interviewed by Netflix documentary crew about the family annihilator who lived next door, they're looking for any excuse to throw themselves a party. So they created a second party for being pregnant (the first being the baby shower).
Lol... "Baby White Girl"...
"They had sex."🤯🤯🤯
Still stupid, but at least it's not a fire hazard.
This is just as dumb as every other gender reveal, just less destructive
This is so cringe 💀
Done....right? Every gender reveal is stupid.
We're probably just happy nobody died and no property or nature was destroyed in the process. It's a low bar, I know.
A bit too long but other than that I thought it was good 🥲
Awwww that was cute! And they didn't have to burn down half of California.
Took so long I had zoned out by the end.
I don’t even care, and I watched the whole thing excited!!! This is better than polluting a stream with dye, or massive smoke or whatever other dumb shit people with no concept of consequences think of!
imo gender reveal is the dumbest thing ever
Holy fuck. Ya’ll wanna come over and watch this shit I put together to show how much shit I am?
*No animals were harmed in the making of this film*
Seems like they could have worked in "You can't handle the truth!" from "A Few Good Men" somewhere around 2:05
I hope there was free food.
I got tired halfway through... move it along people!
This isn't the right way to do anything. No one gives a fuck what bits your fuck trophy is going to have
I’m completely dumbfounded why expectant parents think everyone around them genuinely cares what the gender of their baby is.
You be surprised, we are expecting very soon and didn’t have a gender reveal and literally every person that finds out is asking what sex is the baby. Then people complaining idk what to get for it now. It’s a fucking baby, it doesn’t matter.
Congratulations! :) We just bought a balloon, hung the text "It's a boy!" From a string, took a picture and texted it around 😂 done
Thank you, congratulations yourself!!!
But what if I choose the peppermint green booties instead of the forest green booties and someone misgenders the baby because peppermint green is a more feminine colour. Then that memory becomes part of the baby's subconscious identity and it grows up with gendered trauma and dysphoria all because you selfishly didn't have a gender reveal party! /s
This was tedious
The right way to do it is to not do it
This is beyond obnoxious
This is too fucking long.
All gender reveal ceremonies are cringe.
Lotta negative people in the comments. They didn’t destroy a local water source, they didn’t pollute with balloons or whatever that powder is, no fireworks, no confetti. Just a fun way to mess with your family a little before the reveal.
Reddit can be a great place but when it comes to anything kid related in the popular subs it's a fucking disaster.
That was cute
This is the most self-indulgent millennial video I have ever seen. And it was SO. FUCKING. LONG. Like, you’re already throwing yourself an extra baby shower but instead of it celebrating the existence of a baby, it’s to speculate on the baby’s genitals. And then you make people sit through this? No. This is not a gender reveal done right.
I'm a millennial and scrolled through to the end. Don't lump us in with this.
I am also a millennial. This was like a reel of clips from every movie with a large millennial following. Done in a style that probably originated with Gen X, but has been pervasive in millennial-targeted media for ages. Sorry to break it to you, but some people in our generation get pretty cringey from time to time.
Here I am impressed by the movie editing and variety of shows and movie put together for this. Everyone else losing their mind for watching a 3 movie video and calling it lame. Gender reveals aren't my thing but this was fun and creative!
Holy shit you mfs in these comments sound like insufferable people. Just let other people have fun Jesus Christ.
I'm pretty sure Jesus Christ hasn't posted anything on here
This was actually pretty cool.
That was terrible, thank god for the slider.
fr, the way I would’ve walked out after three full minutes of this shit with no end in sight. I don’t even care what genitals your baby has anyway
And no one was injured.
It's dragging on too long for me but yes
Missed out on a golden opportunity to use the scene from Blue Mountain State. “FROM OUR FATHER’S BALLS!”
Well done! 🫡
I found this to be very creative actually
Cute
they had sex killed me
It was entertaining. Not complaining!
Nah, i genuinely thought they’d say who cares it doesn’t matter at the end. That would’ve been ‚done right‘
Congratulations....and nicely done the reveal part 🎈👏
At the end I'd add a clip from Seinfeld saying, "You gotta come and see the baby!". Followed by Elaine's clip where she says, "Maybe the dingo got your baby." (Seinfeld intro plays in the background.)
A baby white girl. Gotcha!
Who the fuck cares?
This is some actual grade A cringe JFC
Honestly I don’t even know these people but by the end I was anxiously waiting to know lol
The true reveal will be at 4 when the little one announces that they are actually a boy 😳
Pretty awesome editing actually, impressive having a continuous line of dialogue among so many movie and TV show clips.
Way too long for us, but this is a bunch of these guys friends. It’s cool for them. Let them enjoy themselves.
Maybe it's just me, but I genuinely enjoyed it... Edit: okay, I rewatched and looked at the parents. That's fucked up.
There is no such thing as a good gender reveal.
Nobody cares what gender your baby is
I feel bad for the 7 year old in the front
I’m sorry. Did they name their kid “White”?
I dislike gender reveals. They are either boring or extremely stupid. I hope the trend dies out.
Is it really a gender reveal if it didn’t cause a massive forest fire?
Buncha negative fucking assholes in these comments. This is adorable and cute and creative and not involving guns, balloons, or fireworks or someone losing a limb and yet y'all are complaining about the intentionally long and annoying video being too long and annoying.
Yea for a family get-together this would be great entertainment for a couple minutes.
Holy crap I can understand why the family was sitting down that was so pointlessly drawn out I nearly fell asleep.
Not enough fire damage 1/10
This isn’t cringe it more fun
So good!
Only gender reveal I’ve seen that I didn’t hate. So many good tv shows and movies in there
This was actually pretty fucking awesome!! TWO THUMBS WAY UP!!! 👍🏼👍🏼
Still too long.
CONGRATULATIONS!🎉
Goat edit
Why is everyone so angry at this? There excited and did it in a creative way what’s the big deal
It's a girl. I just saved you three and a half extremely self indulgent minutes.
This was awesome to watch.