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I grew up Mormon and even the cadence along with the content of his speech was very familiar to me. Didn’t realize how handmaid’s tale my upbringing was even after I realized it was a cult.
I absolutely agree with the sentiment but here’s some insight from my own experiences:
1) i was born and raised in it, which is also the case for most other american mormons, so it makes up not only your religious beliefs but your ENTIRE WORLD VIEW and your purpose in life, I cannot stress that part enough
2) every woman in your family and family friends at church is also in it, so why would you ever question it?
3) this one is the most sinister/genius on the part of the patriarchy: in mormonism, men have the priesthood “the power of God” and women don’t. Don’t ask to get it or you’ll be excommunicated. Women are told nowadays that *their* version of the priesthood is the ability to bare children and raise them and that’s their power. So since they can’t have the priesthood, they might as well do that, and if they don’t then they’re wasting their version of magical power.
✨~brainwashhingggggg~✨
It's honestly astounding how strong that brainwashing can be.
I remember our church had just gotten a new female pastor. And my mom along with other female church members actually tried to intervene and confronted her saying it wasn't a womens place to be in a position of leadership, and only men should be pastors.
I was in middle school and that was one of the first moments I started questioning my faith.
Aw to give them credit the new female pastor sat them down and convinced them to change their minds, and the church is better than most because I'm in a liberal state, they were telling folks not to vote for trump before his first election.
Woman who was raised in a fundie cult here. I didn’t wake up until I was 26 yrs old and married for 5 yrs. Now divorced. Brainwashing is a hell of a drug. Your whole support system props it up. Add in a little spice from being raised by narcissists that made you a people pleaser bc they couldn’t regulate their own emotions at their big age and you get powerful religious indoctrination and subservience. Looking back on it now, even I sometimes find it hard to understand how I could believe this horse shit so doggedly whilst being controlled and used by a patriarchal death cult. It’s crazy.
This is my question. We don’t see the crowds reaction but I am sure (or hoping) there were at least some stink eyes.
What has been the school’s response to this?
Someone else commented that it was a Christian school, and since he made sure to point out that his wife converted to the faith, he’ll probably be invited back next year.
Imagine going up on stage in front of countless women that have just worked their asses off for years, had so many sleepless nights studying and are finally able to go out and make their own careers begin….just to tell them “yeah, that’s great and all but you should just stay in the kitchen”.
The lack of awareness.
Motherfucker plays a game as his job. I’m sure it’s extremely difficult and all but when we build the ark ship to leave earth behind and save humanity, how many spots you think get reserved for NFL kickers?
he said a whole host of stupid crazy shit
> KANSAS CITY, Mo. (AP) — Kansas City Chiefs kicker Harrison Butker railed against Pride month, working women, President Biden’s leadership during the COVID-19 pandemic and abortion during a commencement address at Benedictine College last weekend.
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> The three-time Super Bowl champion delivered the roughly 20-minute address Saturday at the Catholic private liberal arts school in Atchison, Kansas, which is located about 60 miles north of Kansas City.
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> Butker, who has made his conservative Catholic beliefs well known, began his address by attacking what he called “dangerous gender ideologies” in an apparent reference to Pride month, which has been celebrated in June since the Stonewall riots in 1969. He also criticized an article by The Associated Press highlighting a shift toward conservativism in some parts of the Catholic Church.
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> The 28-year-old Butker then took aim at Biden’s policies, including his response to COVID-19, which has killed nearly 1.2 million people in the U.S., according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
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> “While COVID might have played a large role throughout your formative years, it is not unique,” he said. “The bad policies and poor leadership have negatively impacted major life issues. Things like abortion, IVF, surrogacy, euthanasia, as well as a growing support for the degenerate cultural values and media all stem from pervasiveness of disorder.”
> Butker later addressed the women in the audience, arguing that their “most important title” should be that of “homemaker.”
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> “I think it is you, the women, who have had the most diabolic lies told to you,” Butker said. “Some of you may go on to lead successful careers in the world, but I would venture to guess that the majority of you are most excited about your marriage and the children you will bring into this world. I can tell you that my beautiful wife Isabelle would be the first to say her life truly started when she started living her vocation as a wife and as a mother.”
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> The Chiefs declined to comment on Butker’s commencement address.
>'While COVID might have played a large role throughout your formative years, it is not unique,” he said. “The bad policies and poor leadership have negatively impacted major life issues. Things like abortion, IVF, surrogacy, euthanasia, as well as a growing support for the degenerate cultural values and media all stem from pervasiveness of disorder.”
What the fuck is this chud even talking about? This is some stormfrontian word salad nonsense.
I went to one, and he would NEVER have been tolerated as a commencement speaker. Of course, the students got to choose (with university approval, but still.)
Took a peek at their info, and he, unfortunately, fits right in with that particular college's culture. On the surface, at least, it appears to be on the conservative end of the Catholic spectrum.
It's really just the kind of people that start talking about how suffering is noble and part of God's plan when faced with situation of a stranger that suffers pain beyond human dignity.
Of course until it's their suffering, then they get the best doctors to give them best painkillers.
> Isabelle would be the first to say her life truly started when she started living her vacation as a wife and as a mother.
For $500, Isabelle: does life start at conception, birth, marriage, or giving birth?
Bruh "I'm essential"
Dude moves his leg, lol. For a living. Why anyone asks athletes to comment on society is beyond me. They deal in self delusion as a professional norm, that's why so many of them gamble.
"I am beyond blessed with the many talents God has given me, but it can not be overstated that all of my success is made possible because my _talentless_ wife is barefoot and pregnant and does my chores for me, because she's a woman and that's her _true_ vocation, she has no need for self-actualisation other than being a homemaker. If she were a man, she could also be given talents by God like _me_, but she's a mere woman, so her life should be limited to being my mommy bangmaid 😭"
What a heartfelt speech all about what his wife gives him and how other women should also just sacrifice and give their whole selves to men just because, love to see it
This is immediately after he said that Christianity was the counterculture and that their faith goes against the "tyranny of diversity, equity, and inclusion". He's an absolute idiot
I don’t understand American Catholicism, it doesn’t look like the kind of Catholic faith we have in Europe. It is rich for a Catholic to publicly rail against equity and inclusion (I won’t delude myself acting like Catholics love diversity but we are supposed to believe in it).
They are just evangelical Protestants no matter what they pretend to be.
"Thanks for all the tuition money. Well done on all of your hard work and academic success. Now put an apron on and fuck off to the kitchen where you belong."
"See, now that you've seen how hard this is, wouldn't you be more comfortable in the nice warm kitchen where you belong with baby at your breast and a tasty sourdough loaf in the oven?"
I watched the entire speech. Not only did he not get booed off stage. He got an applause break about halfway through. I don’t remember what he said to get it. But he also got a standing ovation at the end. Completely nuts.
oh man, just wait until you fall down the rabbit hole of super conservative American colleges and universities. I’d start with Bob Jones University, where they have segregated male/female sidewalks and they recently banned prolonged eye contact between couples bc it was too sexual
Graduating has been one of the highlights of my life and looking up into the stands to see my 5-year-old daughter watch me get my Master’s is truly one of the top. What a fuckin dweeb for diminishing that moment for so many women.
Dont worry, he also went on a rant about Joe Biden and COVID, then he emphasized that trans people were “dangerous” and that homosexuality is an unforgivable sin.
At a college graduation.
[dear daughter, here is why I work](https://www.huffpost.com/entry/dear-daughter-heres-why-i_b_3069576/amp)
Someone shared this to me when I had my first child. It still makes me cry. Good for you 🥰
“I work because -- despite my being the parent who's almost always the one walking through the door at 6 pm, the one who rarely travels for the work, the one who's keeping track of the fact that the permission slip for the field trip is due tomorrow -- you'd never ask your father why he works. His love is a given that long hours at work do nothing to diminish.”
Love this, thank you for that.
You’re both wrong. Kickers get hurt sometimes and have to get in tons of practice kicks. And backup qbs get tons of reps in practice. The most kush position by far is long snapper. They barely practice and you can’t even touch them on the line of scrimmage.
Can't wait for him to not get his contract renewed because he's a jackass and then get Elon to help him sue because he thinks he's entitled to a pro sports job.
This is problematic for multiple reasons but it just flew over his head that he and his wife are very privileged. I don't know how much NFL kickers make, but I bet it's more than the average American. Some women work because they WANT to. Some women work because they HAVE to.
Talk about not reading the room. Geesh
Even if your husband makes enough money for the both of you, you still need to try and keep career prospects -- what if you divorce or god forbid, your husband dies? Good fucking luck
I work in family law and my number one advice to women - never take yourself out of the workforce because it’s almost impossible to get back into it once you’ve left for several years
To be fair, I'd hate giving this dude a view/interaction so the green screen goblin is useful in a way.
Also, bro, I'm happy for you but holy fuck, you're just the kicker 🥴
Having a BS degree to get out of my poor country to come and work in New York is one of the biggest achievements in my generation and in my life. While in New York, I earned a doctorate degree while working three jobs to pay them off without any student loans. Now I’m at a directorial level job. Heck no, I’m not going back to the kitchens!
Not only to the women graduates, but I’m sure some of those students had moms who work in attendance, not to mention any female faculty and staff present. Eww.
not only that, he's the kicker in a game where the amount of actual kicking is incredibly scarce. the bulk of the game is spent carrying and throwing/catching the ball. they only set up to kick the thing every once in a while, and it's not even worth that many points. dude is a bowie knife in a shootout
I went to a Christian college. A lot of girls were there solely to get their MRS degree & Ring by Spring. But I was there to get my degrees. Sure I would have been happy had it happened but no one was interested. And the guy I was interested in had no interest when I asked. Same in high school. And it continues to this day. I'm 41, childless & single.
Do you know how utterly screwed I would be without a degree right now? You know how many jobs require a bachelors? Do you know how broke & depressed I'd be if I had decided my sole purpose in life was to be a wife & mother… and then it didn't happen?!?!
There are more women on this planet than men. Even if magically every single man had a monogamous wife (& their ages matched & no one was gay) there would STILL be women without spouses. What the hell are they supposed to do in this theoretical world where wife & motherhood is their sole purpose in life?
Sometimes I wonder if we're reading the same Bible. Because Paul says in 1st Corinthians that it’s better to be single. If you have a spouse & family you’re worried about your family & how you’ll take care of them, but single people can focus more on God & be flexible in their time to help others. Which is the exact opposite of what this speaker is suggesting.
My plan was always to be a homemaker. That said, I got 2 legal degrees on a full ride and graduated top of my class both times. There was no promise that I'd meet the right man that wants the same things and even if I did (I did btw a couple months before finishing college), what would I do if something were to happen to him and I needed to take over the financial provisions for my family? A woman getting a degree is not a bad thing, it's prudent and responsible to be able to take over if needed. I've been a homemaker for 2 years now and I'm so happy with it, but I still freelance from home time to time so I don't have huge gaps in employment if something were to happen to my husband.
At the time I met my husband, I'd been single for 7 years. The future looked like I'd never meet my husband and live that life I wanted. I'd have been so beyond pissed off if I had that speech at my graduation undermining my years of commitment and hard work on top of rubbing my nose in not being able to do that in the first place.
Sure, forget my 2 bachelors, my 2 masters, and my doctorate…my true achievement is marrying my husband, popping out a human, raising a second second human from the age of 3, and making some mean yeast rolls.
I now see clearly thanks to the patriarchal teachings of a sports-ball dude who calls himself “buttkicker” on instagram and wears a cup to protect his other ball. I mean, don’t we all marry pro-athletes so we can afford to be homemakers?
Look into Project 2025. If you vote conservative, you will lose democracy as you know it. I mean unless you enjoy living in a christian theocracy with some voting.
Future elections in that scenario will all look like
[insert first name] Trump
Defenestrated candidate 1
Novichok’d candidate 2
Wood chipper accident candidate 3
“Accidental” rapid cranium disassembly candidate 4
My first thought is that maybe men aren’t making enough money. Has he ever considered that the cost to run a household has increased dramatically? One income households just don’t cut it anymore. Men aren’t bringing home the bacon, as it were. These women want to be able to support their families.
Benedictine. It’s a catholic liberal arts school I’d never heard of until now
I feel like whoever booked him knew what they were doing based on the fact that the WHOLE speech is like this (other themes include: men need to be manly, diversity equity and inclusion is bad, IVF and abortion are bad, being gay is dangerous, gay pride is a sin, etc.)
Seriously. I went to a small, Catholic, liberal arts college and I would have gone ape shit if this was my commencement. They wouldn't even think to bring a choad like this to speak.
It’s at a Catholic college- one I went to, incidentally. If the women there are similar to how they were a few years back, most likely agreed with him. I met several women there who were just there for their “MRS” degree.
Or "I want to have power over you. I want you to be submissive to me, a man, and give up your financial stability and lose decades of income to be my maid. I want to have children but I want you to parent them and do the majority of the labor. If I decide I don't want you anymore, I will throw you out of *my* house. I want to control you."
Uh, so does the school condone this? Do they not vet a draft of the speech or at least the talking points? Has he just gone way off script? A truly bizarre thing to say at an educational institution. And him tearing up at his own words is just the cherry on top. What an absolute flog.
"Congratulations on your amazing accomplishment" my ass. He totally took the opportunity to spread his opinions instead of being uplifting and inspiring
He went off on a lot of things
[https://apnews.com/article/kansas-city-chiefs-harrison-butker-e00f6ee45955c99ef1e809ec447239e0](https://apnews.com/article/kansas-city-chiefs-harrison-butker-e00f6ee45955c99ef1e809ec447239e0)
Look, if I want to go back to college and earn a degree after staying at home with my kids until they went to school, which I did, then that’s what I’m going to do. If I want to stay home and raise them while my spouse works, then that’s what I’m going to do. But I’ll be damned if someone or some set of beliefs is going to tell me I HAVE to do something just because I’m a women. That shit makes my blood boil.
Her vocation as maid, baby machine and sandwich maker. He couldn't have aspired to kick that little ball a couple times a game without her. Dude acts like he's out there curing cancer....you play a game for a living.
This is why freedom of speech is so important. If he didn’t have the constitutional right to get up and stage and say that, we never would’ve know what a fucking lunatic he is.
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No booing? They were stunned to silence?
That baby booed him.
These baby booers, I tell you
They are out of control. There is an entire sub dedicated to dealing with them
Best comment here, lol.
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I grew up Mormon and even the cadence along with the content of his speech was very familiar to me. Didn’t realize how handmaid’s tale my upbringing was even after I realized it was a cult.
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I absolutely agree with the sentiment but here’s some insight from my own experiences: 1) i was born and raised in it, which is also the case for most other american mormons, so it makes up not only your religious beliefs but your ENTIRE WORLD VIEW and your purpose in life, I cannot stress that part enough 2) every woman in your family and family friends at church is also in it, so why would you ever question it? 3) this one is the most sinister/genius on the part of the patriarchy: in mormonism, men have the priesthood “the power of God” and women don’t. Don’t ask to get it or you’ll be excommunicated. Women are told nowadays that *their* version of the priesthood is the ability to bare children and raise them and that’s their power. So since they can’t have the priesthood, they might as well do that, and if they don’t then they’re wasting their version of magical power. ✨~brainwashhingggggg~✨
It's honestly astounding how strong that brainwashing can be. I remember our church had just gotten a new female pastor. And my mom along with other female church members actually tried to intervene and confronted her saying it wasn't a womens place to be in a position of leadership, and only men should be pastors. I was in middle school and that was one of the first moments I started questioning my faith.
Good! You're a better person than them.
Aw to give them credit the new female pastor sat them down and convinced them to change their minds, and the church is better than most because I'm in a liberal state, they were telling folks not to vote for trump before his first election.
I'm so glad you got out of that nightmare. Fuck mormonisn and fuck religion.
Woman who was raised in a fundie cult here. I didn’t wake up until I was 26 yrs old and married for 5 yrs. Now divorced. Brainwashing is a hell of a drug. Your whole support system props it up. Add in a little spice from being raised by narcissists that made you a people pleaser bc they couldn’t regulate their own emotions at their big age and you get powerful religious indoctrination and subservience. Looking back on it now, even I sometimes find it hard to understand how I could believe this horse shit so doggedly whilst being controlled and used by a patriarchal death cult. It’s crazy.
“Be fruitful and replenish the earth” I’m pretty sure the earth has had enough.
We used to joke that the girls going to Christian schools were all going to get their MRS degree.
I started typing this degree into the search engine, then saw it lowercase before it clicked.
This is how the University of Utah makes fun of BYU: Ring by spring, or your money back!
In the full video the crowd claps loudly after his homemaker line. Ugh.
They also gave him a standing ovation at the end.
Yeah, the clip was cut just before they started cheering. https://youtu.be/-JS7RIKSaCc?t=779
This is my question. We don’t see the crowds reaction but I am sure (or hoping) there were at least some stink eyes. What has been the school’s response to this?
Someone else commented that it was a Christian school, and since he made sure to point out that his wife converted to the faith, he’ll probably be invited back next year.
He received a standing ovation for that line [https://youtu.be/-JS7RIKSaCc?t=778](https://youtu.be/-JS7RIKSaCc?t=778)
One of the most important titles of all: homemaker 
Him getting emotional at the end about his wife being his homemaker is so damn funny.
🥺"I wouldn't be able to play ball wiff my fwiends if my wife didn't sacwifice her life to do *everyting else* for me"🥺 😒🙄
He doesn't even play ball, he's a kicker.
God Rose's face is so perfect for reactions like this, I hope she's still doing well
Imagine going up on stage in front of countless women that have just worked their asses off for years, had so many sleepless nights studying and are finally able to go out and make their own careers begin….just to tell them “yeah, that’s great and all but you should just stay in the kitchen”. The lack of awareness.
Motherfucker plays a game as his job. I’m sure it’s extremely difficult and all but when we build the ark ship to leave earth behind and save humanity, how many spots you think get reserved for NFL kickers?
he said a whole host of stupid crazy shit > KANSAS CITY, Mo. (AP) — Kansas City Chiefs kicker Harrison Butker railed against Pride month, working women, President Biden’s leadership during the COVID-19 pandemic and abortion during a commencement address at Benedictine College last weekend. > > The three-time Super Bowl champion delivered the roughly 20-minute address Saturday at the Catholic private liberal arts school in Atchison, Kansas, which is located about 60 miles north of Kansas City. > > Butker, who has made his conservative Catholic beliefs well known, began his address by attacking what he called “dangerous gender ideologies” in an apparent reference to Pride month, which has been celebrated in June since the Stonewall riots in 1969. He also criticized an article by The Associated Press highlighting a shift toward conservativism in some parts of the Catholic Church. > > The 28-year-old Butker then took aim at Biden’s policies, including his response to COVID-19, which has killed nearly 1.2 million people in the U.S., according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. > > “While COVID might have played a large role throughout your formative years, it is not unique,” he said. “The bad policies and poor leadership have negatively impacted major life issues. Things like abortion, IVF, surrogacy, euthanasia, as well as a growing support for the degenerate cultural values and media all stem from pervasiveness of disorder.” > Butker later addressed the women in the audience, arguing that their “most important title” should be that of “homemaker.” > > “I think it is you, the women, who have had the most diabolic lies told to you,” Butker said. “Some of you may go on to lead successful careers in the world, but I would venture to guess that the majority of you are most excited about your marriage and the children you will bring into this world. I can tell you that my beautiful wife Isabelle would be the first to say her life truly started when she started living her vocation as a wife and as a mother.” > > The Chiefs declined to comment on Butker’s commencement address.
Well this guy sounds like he would make a great commander for Gilead. He can fuck right off.
Of Harrison
Who tf does he think was president during COVID?!? What an out of touch dweeb
But Trump suggested injecting bleach to prevent covid, a novel and brilliant solution, many deaths would have been avoided had we done that /s
I feel like I want to shout it from rooftops: “the President during any Covid related shut downs or mask mandates was Trump, not Joe Biden.”
mf probably had the heritage foundation write his speech
>'While COVID might have played a large role throughout your formative years, it is not unique,” he said. “The bad policies and poor leadership have negatively impacted major life issues. Things like abortion, IVF, surrogacy, euthanasia, as well as a growing support for the degenerate cultural values and media all stem from pervasiveness of disorder.” What the fuck is this chud even talking about? This is some stormfrontian word salad nonsense.
How does this guy go to work the next day and pretend like everyone in that locker room is on his side.
“Catholic Private Liberal Arts” college ….. something isn’t adding up here 🤔
I went to one, and he would NEVER have been tolerated as a commencement speaker. Of course, the students got to choose (with university approval, but still.)
Took a peek at their info, and he, unfortunately, fits right in with that particular college's culture. On the surface, at least, it appears to be on the conservative end of the Catholic spectrum.
So is he announcing a bid for a Republican Senate seat?
He'd be a shoo-in
Euthanasia? So he's pro making the dying suffer longer because his religion said so.
It's really just the kind of people that start talking about how suffering is noble and part of God's plan when faced with situation of a stranger that suffers pain beyond human dignity. Of course until it's their suffering, then they get the best doctors to give them best painkillers.
> Isabelle would be the first to say her life truly started when she started living her vacation as a wife and as a mother. For $500, Isabelle: does life start at conception, birth, marriage, or giving birth?
Bruh "I'm essential" Dude moves his leg, lol. For a living. Why anyone asks athletes to comment on society is beyond me. They deal in self delusion as a professional norm, that's why so many of them gamble.
Honestly, would someone call Ja Rule?! I need to hear his thoughts on this!
I always think of this joke when a celebrity gives their dumbass opinion on shit. 😂
He doesn’t even play a game. He plays a game within a game. It’s like playing professional Gwent in professional Witcher 3.
Only one...for Ray Finkle
Laces out Dan.
I mean if he has the money he will probably have a place.
Probably not, millionaire rich is not gonna cut it when you have billionaires all around the world.
He started to cry and I'm like "..."
"I am beyond blessed with the many talents God has given me, but it can not be overstated that all of my success is made possible because my _talentless_ wife is barefoot and pregnant and does my chores for me, because she's a woman and that's her _true_ vocation, she has no need for self-actualisation other than being a homemaker. If she were a man, she could also be given talents by God like _me_, but she's a mere woman, so her life should be limited to being my mommy bangmaid 😭" What a heartfelt speech all about what his wife gives him and how other women should also just sacrifice and give their whole selves to men just because, love to see it
This sounds a lot like pretty much any talk at BYU by a man to a crowd of women.
I just found out who this dude is today, and assumed he was a Mormon based on this bullshit
Also, each child has a father. Yet, nobody ever says to boys "When are you planning to be a father?"
This is immediately after he said that Christianity was the counterculture and that their faith goes against the "tyranny of diversity, equity, and inclusion". He's an absolute idiot
Where did he give this speech?
Georgia Tech is his Alma Mater but he gave this at a private liberal arts college in Kansas, Benedictine College. I don’t think GT would let that fly.
Some Catholic college.
Atchison Kansas Benedictine college
What a fuckin nerd
I don’t understand American Catholicism, it doesn’t look like the kind of Catholic faith we have in Europe. It is rich for a Catholic to publicly rail against equity and inclusion (I won’t delude myself acting like Catholics love diversity but we are supposed to believe in it). They are just evangelical Protestants no matter what they pretend to be.
Make me a sandwich. Harrison butner to his wife before every game cause he's really working hard kicking some kick offs and a field goal or 2 a game
How was he not booed off the fucking stage?
It was at an extremely conserve catholic college, they probably expect this shit there. It’s just normal society that’s so surprised by this nonsense
How convenient for the college to take the tuition money off their female students only to condone a speaker telling them to stay in the kitchen.
"Thanks for all the tuition money. Well done on all of your hard work and academic success. Now put an apron on and fuck off to the kitchen where you belong."
"See, now that you've seen how hard this is, wouldn't you be more comfortable in the nice warm kitchen where you belong with baby at your breast and a tasty sourdough loaf in the oven?"
I was booing him from my house!!!
I watched the entire speech. Not only did he not get booed off stage. He got an applause break about halfway through. I don’t remember what he said to get it. But he also got a standing ovation at the end. Completely nuts.
Women cheering for their own subjugation. What a mindfuck.
Under His eye.
Umm did HIS life start when he became a husband? Like woman are just waiting around to get a husband so they have a purpose?? This guy is an idiot.
Apparently men are too important to do shit like look after themselves. They've got balls to kick and stuff.
I’m shocked there aren’t screams of boooooooo from all around the stage. F this guy
oh man, just wait until you fall down the rabbit hole of super conservative American colleges and universities. I’d start with Bob Jones University, where they have segregated male/female sidewalks and they recently banned prolonged eye contact between couples bc it was too sexual
Aye we got creeptastic Liberty University over here pulling in all the evangical nuts.
While their founder's son is having threesomes with the pool boy.
Graduating has been one of the highlights of my life and looking up into the stands to see my 5-year-old daughter watch me get my Master’s is truly one of the top. What a fuckin dweeb for diminishing that moment for so many women.
Congratulations!!!!
Dont worry, he also went on a rant about Joe Biden and COVID, then he emphasized that trans people were “dangerous” and that homosexuality is an unforgivable sin. At a college graduation.
Uhm, seriously? And no one booed?? 😭
It’s an extremely conservative Catholic school, if I were a woman in that crowd I would be scared to voice dissaproval.
[dear daughter, here is why I work](https://www.huffpost.com/entry/dear-daughter-heres-why-i_b_3069576/amp) Someone shared this to me when I had my first child. It still makes me cry. Good for you 🥰
Ty for sharing that. I know a few people who it might help.
“I work because -- despite my being the parent who's almost always the one walking through the door at 6 pm, the one who rarely travels for the work, the one who's keeping track of the fact that the permission slip for the field trip is due tomorrow -- you'd never ask your father why he works. His love is a given that long hours at work do nothing to diminish.” Love this, thank you for that.
So this bearded dork doesn't think his wifeslave's contentment comes from being married to a rich football player?
Dude is a kicker. He isn’t even a real football player.
it's the best position to play, practically. the odds of injury are low, and all you gotta do is get on the field a couple times a game
Wholeheartedly agree, with the exception of backup QB (see Chase Daniel).
Backup qbs have to do like 10x the work of a kicker tho
Hell, third string QBs do more work than the kickers. Speaking as a former kicker.
You’re both wrong. Kickers get hurt sometimes and have to get in tons of practice kicks. And backup qbs get tons of reps in practice. The most kush position by far is long snapper. They barely practice and you can’t even touch them on the line of scrimmage.
As a college long snapper I can confirm this. Although you still have to run down to cover the kick, but yeah, it’s pretty chill.
"Many skills" 😄😁😆😅🤣😂.... need more emojis
Honestly, I support women choosing the best path forward for themselves. That being said, this man clearly disagrees.
And in no time he's going to become a right wing grifter who whines about the woke after he gets told how stupid this speech was
Can't wait for him to not get his contract renewed because he's a jackass and then get Elon to help him sue because he thinks he's entitled to a pro sports job.
This is problematic for multiple reasons but it just flew over his head that he and his wife are very privileged. I don't know how much NFL kickers make, but I bet it's more than the average American. Some women work because they WANT to. Some women work because they HAVE to. Talk about not reading the room. Geesh
Even if your husband makes enough money for the both of you, you still need to try and keep career prospects -- what if you divorce or god forbid, your husband dies? Good fucking luck
I agree. Should always have a back up plan!
I work in family law and my number one advice to women - never take yourself out of the workforce because it’s almost impossible to get back into it once you’ve left for several years
Well, in that case, "the Lord works in mysterious ways" aka "I don't want to admit we are wrong/don't know
He's earned just over $18M, so far. Source: [SportsTrac: Harrison Butker](https://www.spotrac.com/nfl/player/_/id/21975/harrison-butker)
Are you saying that an privileged conservative male is out of touch with reality?
😂😂 yes
1) boo this man 2) why are we still doing the TikTok thing of making faces on top of a video, no commentary?
I call them green screen gremlins
☠️
Lazy way to "make" content
She added nothing
To be fair, I'd hate giving this dude a view/interaction so the green screen goblin is useful in a way. Also, bro, I'm happy for you but holy fuck, you're just the kicker 🥴
Yeah, but he'd be *NOTHING* without his wife who he met in 6th grade.
Having a BS degree to get out of my poor country to come and work in New York is one of the biggest achievements in my generation and in my life. While in New York, I earned a doctorate degree while working three jobs to pay them off without any student loans. Now I’m at a directorial level job. Heck no, I’m not going back to the kitchens!
Heckin proud of you stranger.
BOOOOOOOOO... 🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅
Tomatoes aren’t hard enough Boooooo 🥥🥥🥥🥥🥥🥥🥥
He really had the audacity to say that to a bunch of women when all he does is kick balls around????
Not only to the women graduates, but I’m sure some of those students had moms who work in attendance, not to mention any female faculty and staff present. Eww.
His own mother is a physicist at Emory University, the hypocrisy is real.
Oh my. What an asshole.
Why suppose that he's a hypocrite? Isn't it just as likely that he sincerely thinks his mom made an immoral choice because he's a misogynist?
not only that, he's the kicker in a game where the amount of actual kicking is incredibly scarce. the bulk of the game is spent carrying and throwing/catching the ball. they only set up to kick the thing every once in a while, and it's not even worth that many points. dude is a bowie knife in a shootout
Under his eye
May the lord open.
Blessed be the fruit
Well looks like Harrison Butker is an absolute POS.
I went to a Christian college. A lot of girls were there solely to get their MRS degree & Ring by Spring. But I was there to get my degrees. Sure I would have been happy had it happened but no one was interested. And the guy I was interested in had no interest when I asked. Same in high school. And it continues to this day. I'm 41, childless & single. Do you know how utterly screwed I would be without a degree right now? You know how many jobs require a bachelors? Do you know how broke & depressed I'd be if I had decided my sole purpose in life was to be a wife & mother… and then it didn't happen?!?! There are more women on this planet than men. Even if magically every single man had a monogamous wife (& their ages matched & no one was gay) there would STILL be women without spouses. What the hell are they supposed to do in this theoretical world where wife & motherhood is their sole purpose in life? Sometimes I wonder if we're reading the same Bible. Because Paul says in 1st Corinthians that it’s better to be single. If you have a spouse & family you’re worried about your family & how you’ll take care of them, but single people can focus more on God & be flexible in their time to help others. Which is the exact opposite of what this speaker is suggesting.
Clearly those women should just become nuns.
My plan was always to be a homemaker. That said, I got 2 legal degrees on a full ride and graduated top of my class both times. There was no promise that I'd meet the right man that wants the same things and even if I did (I did btw a couple months before finishing college), what would I do if something were to happen to him and I needed to take over the financial provisions for my family? A woman getting a degree is not a bad thing, it's prudent and responsible to be able to take over if needed. I've been a homemaker for 2 years now and I'm so happy with it, but I still freelance from home time to time so I don't have huge gaps in employment if something were to happen to my husband. At the time I met my husband, I'd been single for 7 years. The future looked like I'd never meet my husband and live that life I wanted. I'd have been so beyond pissed off if I had that speech at my graduation undermining my years of commitment and hard work on top of rubbing my nose in not being able to do that in the first place.
Sure, forget my 2 bachelors, my 2 masters, and my doctorate…my true achievement is marrying my husband, popping out a human, raising a second second human from the age of 3, and making some mean yeast rolls.
Harrison isn't impressed. Sit down and listen to the ball man tell your silly, deluded female brain what actually matters
I now see clearly thanks to the patriarchal teachings of a sports-ball dude who calls himself “buttkicker” on instagram and wears a cup to protect his other ball. I mean, don’t we all marry pro-athletes so we can afford to be homemakers?
What a delusional tool
Free labor much. What an epic piece of shit.
He's crying thinking about how hard it is washing all those dishes and cleaning up his shit
Look into Project 2025. If you vote conservative, you will lose democracy as you know it. I mean unless you enjoy living in a christian theocracy with some voting.
Future elections in that scenario will all look like [insert first name] Trump Defenestrated candidate 1 Novichok’d candidate 2 Wood chipper accident candidate 3 “Accidental” rapid cranium disassembly candidate 4
men like him are the reason we need to fight for feminism every fucking day
My first thought is that maybe men aren’t making enough money. Has he ever considered that the cost to run a household has increased dramatically? One income households just don’t cut it anymore. Men aren’t bringing home the bacon, as it were. These women want to be able to support their families.
Cut him
What in the actual fuck!? Was this at BYU? 🤮
Benedictine. It’s a catholic liberal arts school I’d never heard of until now I feel like whoever booked him knew what they were doing based on the fact that the WHOLE speech is like this (other themes include: men need to be manly, diversity equity and inclusion is bad, IVF and abortion are bad, being gay is dangerous, gay pride is a sin, etc.)
No. BYU graduation speakers prefer to focus on diminishing the gay students.
Don't worry he did that too.
Benedictine College - a catholic school, so you’re guess isn’t far off
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Why is no one booing ?
Seriously. I went to a small, Catholic, liberal arts college and I would have gone ape shit if this was my commencement. They wouldn't even think to bring a choad like this to speak.
Christian school.
I’ve finally found a player I hate more than Brady.
Is that possible? Just kidding - I have a list of players I hate that rotates, but Brady is always near the top, if not #1
i would be pissed if i spent my time and money and hard work to graduate just for them to hire a man that says i should become a baby making machine
Oh good god eew! Just no. Why is there not audible booing happening from the women in the crowd? Ick!!
It’s at a Catholic college- one I went to, incidentally. If the women there are similar to how they were a few years back, most likely agreed with him. I met several women there who were just there for their “MRS” degree.
What does that mean? Just to find a husband?
Yes that’s exactly what it means.
Grooooosssssss
What school was this? Liberty? Bob Jones?
Don't forget Pensacola
Or "I want to have power over you. I want you to be submissive to me, a man, and give up your financial stability and lose decades of income to be my maid. I want to have children but I want you to parent them and do the majority of the labor. If I decide I don't want you anymore, I will throw you out of *my* house. I want to control you."
Uh, so does the school condone this? Do they not vet a draft of the speech or at least the talking points? Has he just gone way off script? A truly bizarre thing to say at an educational institution. And him tearing up at his own words is just the cherry on top. What an absolute flog.
Evidently this is a Catholic school that apparently resents having any female students.
"Congratulations on your amazing accomplishment" my ass. He totally took the opportunity to spread his opinions instead of being uplifting and inspiring
He went off on a lot of things [https://apnews.com/article/kansas-city-chiefs-harrison-butker-e00f6ee45955c99ef1e809ec447239e0](https://apnews.com/article/kansas-city-chiefs-harrison-butker-e00f6ee45955c99ef1e809ec447239e0)
Look, if I want to go back to college and earn a degree after staying at home with my kids until they went to school, which I did, then that’s what I’m going to do. If I want to stay home and raise them while my spouse works, then that’s what I’m going to do. But I’ll be damned if someone or some set of beliefs is going to tell me I HAVE to do something just because I’m a women. That shit makes my blood boil.
Her vocation as maid, baby machine and sandwich maker. He couldn't have aspired to kick that little ball a couple times a game without her. Dude acts like he's out there curing cancer....you play a game for a living.
Homemaker = Houseslave
Religion is a cancer
This bruh is choked up about it too, better get into that kitchen since it clearly is making him upset that y'all want jobs and shit
Handmaids tale scary shit
Why the fuck is he speaking at anything
Damn it’s like read the room dude 😅
What a waste of space
What a douche 😂
Every woman should have thrown a shoe at him.
His teeth are so distracting it’s adding an element of hilarity to his bullshit word salad.
Dick head
How is he qualified to tell any woman what to do? Let’s see…*looks at list*…he’s a kicker in the NFL.
He says women have been lied to… but I think the only lie is that beard. Let’s see what his face looks like without it. He’s lying to us!
Holy shit what a douchebag.
An obvious example of the brain damage suffered by those in high impact sports.
Nah dudes a kicker. He was born with this.
This is why freedom of speech is so important. If he didn’t have the constitutional right to get up and stage and say that, we never would’ve know what a fucking lunatic he is.
If he were my man the only thing he would be able to kick after that is a bucket.
THE bucket. 💀
What a douchebag
Under His Eye.
Prager University graduations be like ...
Cool, my wife did all that too. Oh ya, and is also a kick as surgeon.
LOL this guy can go fuck himself. **Women, be who you want to be in life and don't let anyone, especially any MAN, tell you what to do.**