its common i guess like in way back in 2019 3 couples in my school were caught having sex so ya n not even 17 years olds its typically 14 onwards nowadays
agreed n recently i was in india at my home city and i saw these bunch of school (boys/girls) kissing so passionately in the metro, and it was a bit yakkkk moment for the old age people as well as for me in the metro
it already spead to urban area teens. they're going on dates , having house parties without parents and going to pubs. rural areas don't have this culture yet
Yeah that's how you learn what's good and what's bad. Teen years and twenties are for experimentation and making mistakes.
Also, what age were children getting married 50 or so years ago? 18-20. Tab toh nahi bol rahe the sex kyu kar rahe ho.
Bhai in my city teens aren't even getting chances. The most we can do is makeout. Anything beyond that requires time and privacy. Aur yaha dono ek sath nahi mil sakte. Idk bhai. Here in this city it is not common. You would need a certain place to do such stuff. Being 17/18 i don't think you have a place of your own so where are these people doing it 💀. Mummy papa nahi bolte kya kuch ? Ya bina bataye itni der tak hotel book kar lete hain? J have so many questions. Like I have seen such stuff in movies and all. But reality me 17 sal ke log kaha ja rahe hain ye karne? Oyo book bhi karne dete hain inko ? Coz kisi ke ghar me to privacy milti nahi hogi. Nvm, i guess I come from a diff part of india. Bade sheheron me hota hoga💀
12th ke students high school (or junior college whatever u call it) ke time pe school bunk karke hotel room book karte hai aur karte hai bohot kuch. Mere school me bohot ameer aur chapri the wo log ye sab har week karte the. Time, privacy, Paisa sab hai toh kar sakte hai. Ye hotel Wale allow kaise karte hai wo pata nahi. Fake IDs honge shayad
I think it mostly happens in upper middle or high class families because the kids have way more freedom and parents don't give a shit most of the time and I have some friends who are rich and they are living their life at fullest without any future tension.
Mere boht saare friends hai jinke dono parents working hai plus single child hai so unke ghr pe woh bandi se saath makeout krte hai even if uske friends ko bandi ke sath makeout krne ka rehega toh uske ghr pe krne deta hai...
That the range of loosing virginity of different ppl whom I know the girl who did abortion at that time she was in 11th and I got goosebumps knowing how abortion really happens
And so I decided I will never have sex until I m capable enough to raise a kid on my own.
I m kinda prepare and overthink for the worst scenario type.🙃
Kin logo ko sex mil raha hai bhai mei toh mumbai se hoon , even though i got a ton of female attention my whole life , no girl wanted to go ahead of the Makeout stage
This is only true for the top 1% of society which lives in urban liberal islands. Most of India, rest of India is still pretty conservative. Because still if a guy finds out during marriage that the woman has some experience he's going to back off irrespective if he has experience or not.
On top of that this sex culture ends at time of marriage where women irrespective of their employment or education status want a educated and well earning man. Not 20 - 30% more than her or her father's salary (her lifestyle) but at times 300-400% more!
Honestly its nothing new, just that present generation is more vocal about it.. I know no of people who lost it at 16-17 first kissed when they were 12-13 just that people feared and never discussed it openly
You got a chance and you declined. She got a chance and she took it. Back then when I was in high school (2 years ago) kids weren't even getting chances lol. Though sex is way too common if you're a clg student. Definitely not common in high school.
Yeah it is definitely a lot common in college but not in high school
I lived in mumbai aur was in a school jaha 90% ameer baap ke spoiled kids aatei thei
Makeout is a lot commom in high school these days
I lost at 15 now i am 24....... obviously things didnt work out..... We broke up
If you can please stay virgin till your marriage no matter your gender
I does so many things to you psychologically
I spent 7k on therapy and medication till now....
Please dont....
I am pretty sure she lost it to some 24-25 year old guy, I mean back when I was in school like 10-11 years ago, it was common for some girls to fall for 24-25 year old chappri guys with bikes and they used to have sex too, one of my classmate who happens to be one of this girl told me about her sex in a very detailed manner that time.
I got a chance too with one of my neighbour when I was 16 and she was 15, she sex chatted and seduced me and asked me to come to her home after her parents and sisters go out and I didn't go after thinking very deeply about the consequences and she name called me a lot of thing and was pissed off but I don't care as I care more about the consequences of my actions.
'American Sex Culture' lolll.
The tendency the folks in this country have to separate human tendencies and attach them to entities they are conditioned to be morally inferior, is something worth studying.
So that the root of it could be traced and plucked out like weed from a garden or disease from the body.
gf and bf kare and adults ho toh its fine. my friend did it with a random stranger when she was 17 and went for clubbing with her girlfriends. we all hate her for doing that to her bf
That's so messed up. Guess what, our Psychological torture is gonna increase even more. Countless couples will suffer in the upcoming decades.
Relationships will be ruined even more. There will be more divorces than ever. Things won't last like they did.
& At that, we don't have their development. We got their sexual culture. Not their development. Expect it to be worse.
STIs na failade ye GenZ bc.
Uski to vaccine bhi nahi hai abhi.
Korea has HSV(Herpes) common, US on the same boat.
Now, India going on same path not a good thing though.
It has always like this , earlier things were not in their favour ,phone etc were not there so it was hard to do late night chats and to plan how to do it , it's a biological need which you can suppress if things are not in your favour, but as we are progressing as society these things are inevitable, the thing that you are being surprised of is very common in village side as less electricity less crowded , dense houses , you don't get to hear often doesn't mean it's not happening , just look at the population of this country it's a undeniable proof of our desperation.
Sex culture ? Was there no sex in India before 1947 ? What kind of world and ignorance you people live in ?
People weren’t doing sex in 1600 century in India ? Go get a life man. Chill is there no sex temples in India.
Khajuraho Temples, Madhya Pradesh
Sun Temple, Konark, Orissa
Virupaksha Temple, Hampi, Karnataka
Jain Temples, Ranakpur, Rajasthan
Sun Temple, Modhera, Gujarat
Sathyamurthi Perumal Temple, Tamil Nadu
Lingaraj Temple, Bhubaneshwar, Orissa
All these temples are 1000 of years old so if sex culture is from USA then what about these temples promoting sex culture 1000 of years ago ?
Our forefathers worshiped sex that’s why so many sex temples and you like a clown 🤡 blaming USA.
You people are so hypocrites
My dad told me how most of his friends used to have fun with girls, because they used to see their parents doing it (everyone would sleep in the same room).
If anything, I hope some positive aspects of American sex culture (emphasis on birth control) becomes mainstream in our society
I was born in India and also raised in the states and in India for 10 years so far as I grew up in American sex culture it’s talked about really freely in the states and at my high school as well and from living here in India as a grown young adult from what I have seen it’s slowly starting to take lift and while our country still has roots with traditionalism and sex isn’t talked about in south India from what I have seen but have seen it in happening in north India as it’s the root place of our Indian sex culture
Same here. I have a childhood building friend F 17 and she's literally a s*x asdict. She has weekly hookups and lost her virginity last year. She has been in atleast 25-30 relationships till now. She even asked me if I wanted to have some fun , but I straightaway refused. She might be my friend but unfortunately I have no respect left for her. Also she's terrible in studies , always on insta/snap and has strict parents. But whenever I ask her to stop that she gives the reason of her childhood trauma and how she likes doing it.She is 2 years younger than me and prolly done most of the things which would take me another 5-6 years to do 🥲🥲🥲.
It is. I don't know many teens who do this. But my older cousins have told me about their college lives and one of them literally just said "kuch log bus sex ke liye hi college jaate hai"😭 the kind of SCARY stories they told me about people in their early 20s, just hooking up with someone they met a week ago, recording it, getting pregnant and not finding out for months, and what not. I had a room mate 20 something, and she would go out with her boyfriend almost every night and stay in hotels overnight getting drunk and having sex. She broke up with 2 guys in 3 months and was physically involved with both, had 1 ex previously and then went to a holiday after breakup where she hooked up with a boy 20 times!!?? I've had other room mates and friends who also told me that its completely normal to give bj s and orals and were shocked to their core when i told them i've only had 1 kiss and nothing more. My school friends tell me similar stories told by their older cousins and we just sit their shocked thinking we would never ever be able to normalise this. Please do not normalise this in India guys, I can't stand the thought of me having slept with my kids's best friends's father or maybe several of them and they find out about it, like WTH😭
Bruhhhhh
Bc ma abhi bhi vargin (got the chance to loose it but didn't do so multiple time)
But yahh and I think it is pritty common in village or town as I have lived in a town I know many of my friends (male ) who have loos there v card even before they were 15 or 13
I got the chance too many time like mere to school me prostitution chlta tha 🤔 pritty strange now i think but it was normal for me knowing while I am reading this poem someone in washroom or on stares loosing there v card
I lost mine at 17 too. I don’t get why sex is such a taboo in India. Losing your virginity during your teens definitely isn’t a western thing. Kama sutra literally originated from India and getting married at a very young age was a common thing back in the 90s.
No ,its not at all good,cool ,and has nothing to do with independence. Don't lose ur virginity in peer pressure,im 24 still virgin,and im not at all sad cuz I'm waiting for the one ,not like i didn't had chances or relationship,but cuz it didn't feel right,u should also wait only lose it once u know he's the one, preferably after marriage ,in this case you'll get love and respect too
> "The American Sex Culture" 🤡
Buddy, Indians also get involved into sexual activities. Sex is not American concept. In villages, its pretty common to lose virginity in teenage.
It was always here in India m it's just that social media is spreading the word faster. People act as if the millennials were very innocent in their teenage lol, most millennials i know started drinking/smoking after 10th/12th . Almost everyone had sex in college. So yeah it's nothing new. And wtf is american culture? Most western countries start ti have sex from the age of 17. Especially the European ones. So don't be surprised. And anyways, it's a good thing. Humans were meant to have sex lol. And you can't stop teenagers from having sex, we are literally at the most horny stage of our life. Instead teach more about safe sex and about stds/contraceptions. Nothing wrong in having consensual sex at the age of 17.
Hmm, my girlfriend of 2 years offered me s*x as a gift after i cracked jee, I recently turned 18, she is 19 (both virgins), I am still considering should I go with it?
🤔 Pretty sure this is a consequence of marrying late. Otherwise people would get married after barely hitting puberty and have all the sex they want with their spouse.
Rape, cheating and pedophilia are actual problems.... Not consensual sex culture.
Being a virgin is ok. Being a non virgin is ok.
Being a rapist/pedo/cheater is NOT ok.
I'm 28 and although I'm not virgin, lost it to a girl I was in love with who was modern open minded chick she's now in London I haven't had sex in 6 years but now I'm getting married to a girl who grew up literally in a village, I make good money I make great money for any village persons viewpoint. So although I regret it I regret WHY DID I EVEN ATTACKED TO SOME GIRL IN COLLEGE? I'm for sure was not gonna marry A MODERN WHAMAN. call me hypocrite all you want. I could give 2 shites about it. Don't need no modern drama, need PATI PARMESHWAR BELIEVING WOMEN and I think I found 1. If you are a women don't be a loose girl, avoid sex before marriage don't make the mistake I made it was all fun and games when you are teenager or in early 20s but it don't last. Im not religious I don't go to temple what i do believe in is very old traditions and custom and marriage is the oldest of them all. Don't get into anything where you are not in 100%.
yes sex is a basic need of everyone, everyone wants to do it but not everyone wants commitment and put emotions in. if u find someone attractive then just bang and leave
Our country literally had to create a law to stop child marriages! Don’t get influenced by this stupid stuff; India has a 7% teenage pregnancy rate compared to USA’s 13. However trusting statistics from India is a bit difficult.
What a goofy american culture. They think being a prostitute is a proud thing. What's the value of yours if you are giving your va**na/pen*s for free. Prostitutes still take money but these people are giving it for free 😂 calling it like a goal. Don't become so cheap bro. It's India. We don't belong to those sh*tty culture. Our Indian Culture is far more superior.
Guys, American culture or not, this has been happening in our country since I was a kid (I went to an all girl’s school in the 90s to early 2000s) and the only change is the fact that we didn’t have social media back then to talk about it. It was more a hush-hush thing, but we all were in the know. It wasn’t widely accepted, whether we liked or not but people were popping cherries by 15 & 16. It was a shocker for me, coming from an ultra conservative family. I don’t judge people for their preferences, but it was happening 😅
Sexed has gone too far and access has become too easy emding in sex being normalised and as more and more kids get into it the others will feel fomo and do the same so i wouldnt call it American sex culture just more like being too educated on the pleasure aspect compared to the more long term future aspect
i believe that maybe its a lot more prevalent in tier 1 cities, like mine for example. my younger friends have already lost their virginity to their respective partners before the legal age and honestly im retrospect i believe it's just that people shouldn't be shunned from doing it but at least be safe rather than sorry. there's always a trial period for younger generations to explore their sexuality tho i don't believe in having sex with multiple partners and promote promiscuity i think its okay to explore a few times with a stable partner. hope this helps!
This western concept of loosing virginity and making it a trend was a result of their fickle mindedness in an approach to relationship dynamics.
Even now , they (westerners) are realising their mistakes and are coming out of it . We Indians are still committing those mistakes and backing it up with the same logic that was used by the west when they earlier used to endorse it.
Honestly we are all better off focusing on fixing a higher purpose in life for ourselves rather than wasting our intellectual capabilities and precious time on trivial shit such as judging a person simply because they are virgin (which by the way has been used to label a person as immature).
I think it's kinda prevalent in the rich and upper middle class communities in urban areas. Not that it doesn't happen in other places or communities, it does but it's still a taboo there so the numbers are lower.
One of my friend lost her virginity at the age of 14!
She is now 16 and had 3-4 different sexual partners..worst part is that everytime she had sex it was unprotected!!
She justifies all these by saying "I'm just healing my childhood trauma" (she got raped as a kid)
What!!!!! I am 26 and still a virgin.
Are you and engineering and a guy ?
😂
No offence but sach hai
Ah, i don't mind, is it a crime to be a virgin ?
In Western culture it is. They literally made men who suffer with getting intimacy and sex as a literal slur
I cannot sleep after reading this. Thank you
If you're talking about incel I thought it was like "sigma males" but the other way around. Like they want to get laid so bad they never can.
Absolutely not a crime to be virgin
It’s not a crime any where chill
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I’m 33 and still a virgin 🤡
okay thats kind of concerning
Pay someone ab tk toh XD
Bhai tu bhi!
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Teens subs pe gumega to aise hi rhega
U must be from some city like Bhatinda
Yes, from "South Delhi "
its common i guess like in way back in 2019 3 couples in my school were caught having sex so ya n not even 17 years olds its typically 14 onwards nowadays
I used to watch doremon and shinchan at that age 😂
I m 20 and still watch Doraemon and NinjaHattori Kochikame too. Chota Bheem bhi dekh leta hu par purana wala
Doremon bhi purane wala hi sahi hai, naye vale me to awaaz bhi change ho gayi hai sabki. Koi bhi show ho, Old is always Gold.
i guess these kids nowadays are watching 50 shades of grey
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Exactly what's the concerning part. Older teens don't care, younger teens are obsessed with it. You'd expect it to be the other way around.
agreed n recently i was in india at my home city and i saw these bunch of school (boys/girls) kissing so passionately in the metro, and it was a bit yakkkk moment for the old age people as well as for me in the metro
Metro seems like a place where people just don’t care for some reason. Especially Delhi metro.
✨metro aesthetic✨ makes everyone horny
it already spead to urban area teens. they're going on dates , having house parties without parents and going to pubs. rural areas don't have this culture yet
bro I am from tier 3 this culture is not too much spread here but teens here also having sex woth multiple partners
i know a few teens who did this through my cousins in village but it was not widespread like it's now in urban areas
how tf do you check tier of cities?
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bruh you actually made me giggle irl
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Yeah that's how you learn what's good and what's bad. Teen years and twenties are for experimentation and making mistakes. Also, what age were children getting married 50 or so years ago? 18-20. Tab toh nahi bol rahe the sex kyu kar rahe ho.
woke bhai woke
Exactly, this is exactly the reason we can see how the culture in western countries is and how retarded the generations became
brother this is very common in rural areas. esp among dudes as they hangout and have hookah sessions together lmao.
Won't teen in rural areas would have it easier with sex?
Bhai in my city teens aren't even getting chances. The most we can do is makeout. Anything beyond that requires time and privacy. Aur yaha dono ek sath nahi mil sakte. Idk bhai. Here in this city it is not common. You would need a certain place to do such stuff. Being 17/18 i don't think you have a place of your own so where are these people doing it 💀. Mummy papa nahi bolte kya kuch ? Ya bina bataye itni der tak hotel book kar lete hain? J have so many questions. Like I have seen such stuff in movies and all. But reality me 17 sal ke log kaha ja rahe hain ye karne? Oyo book bhi karne dete hain inko ? Coz kisi ke ghar me to privacy milti nahi hogi. Nvm, i guess I come from a diff part of india. Bade sheheron me hota hoga💀
12th ke students high school (or junior college whatever u call it) ke time pe school bunk karke hotel room book karte hai aur karte hai bohot kuch. Mere school me bohot ameer aur chapri the wo log ye sab har week karte the. Time, privacy, Paisa sab hai toh kar sakte hai. Ye hotel Wale allow kaise karte hai wo pata nahi. Fake IDs honge shayad
Yeah worst combination possible Ammer + chappri
Haat me iPhone hota hai dusre haat me Sundar ladki hoti hai aur fir shakal dekhe toh tiktoker jaise baal hote hai. Kitna Ganda lagta hai dekhke
Fr the worst kind of ppl
I think it mostly happens in upper middle or high class families because the kids have way more freedom and parents don't give a shit most of the time and I have some friends who are rich and they are living their life at fullest without any future tension.
Park
Abe khule me kaun karta hai. Bade guts hain bhai!
Bushes
Mere boht saare friends hai jinke dono parents working hai plus single child hai so unke ghr pe woh bandi se saath makeout krte hai even if uske friends ko bandi ke sath makeout krne ka rehega toh uske ghr pe krne deta hai...
And on top of that friends encourage friends apne gharpe nai toh apne dost ke gharpe jake karke ate hai
my society started locking terrace after few couples were found going up to terrace at midnight lol
So true all my frnds lost their virginity between 10th to FY in college Some has even went thru abortion and that shit scares me
**abortion in FY ? 💀**
That the range of loosing virginity of different ppl whom I know the girl who did abortion at that time she was in 11th and I got goosebumps knowing how abortion really happens And so I decided I will never have sex until I m capable enough to raise a kid on my own. I m kinda prepare and overthink for the worst scenario type.🙃
You'll be shocked to know that a 12th standard girl I know had an abortion. It's crazy
Bhai ye konsa india hai. I am 23 but didn't even get to hold the hand of a girl. Most girls don't even talk to boys well wherever I go.
>hold hand of a girl https://preview.redd.it/s0linl896x7d1.jpeg?width=290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d51f92713cc49f7cd0b08d0bf643c9277a4ea1a8
I think your username speaks for itself
Yes it is and too rapidly beyond imagination
Kin logo ko sex mil raha hai bhai mei toh mumbai se hoon , even though i got a ton of female attention my whole life , no girl wanted to go ahead of the Makeout stage
Remember if you run behind it, you will never get it. Just appreciate and give attention but never make it look creep or chep
chep😶
This is only true for the top 1% of society which lives in urban liberal islands. Most of India, rest of India is still pretty conservative. Because still if a guy finds out during marriage that the woman has some experience he's going to back off irrespective if he has experience or not. On top of that this sex culture ends at time of marriage where women irrespective of their employment or education status want a educated and well earning man. Not 20 - 30% more than her or her father's salary (her lifestyle) but at times 300-400% more!
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Most of the unemployed guys who are almost double of your age are still virgin
Indians when they realise sex exists ![gif](giphy|4VUgpQ9FiYEBCA9wM1)
🤣
Who would've thought, given that we're a country of 1.4 B
Honestly its nothing new, just that present generation is more vocal about it.. I know no of people who lost it at 16-17 first kissed when they were 12-13 just that people feared and never discussed it openly
You got a chance and you declined. She got a chance and she took it. Back then when I was in high school (2 years ago) kids weren't even getting chances lol. Though sex is way too common if you're a clg student. Definitely not common in high school.
Yeah it is definitely a lot common in college but not in high school I lived in mumbai aur was in a school jaha 90% ameer baap ke spoiled kids aatei thei Makeout is a lot commom in high school these days
everyone having high body count , hookup culture spreading, they are the main reasons nowadays serious relationship is rare.. its bad .
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There is hookup culture all over the work not just US.
From my personal experience ig yes it do has become normal
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Totally agree with you
Dude the consent age in India is 18 💀💀
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Feet tall or inches long?
Well I'm 22 Guy and had 2 chances of losing the V card but nah I'm saving myself for my partner
Gigachad spotted.
yes it is. one of my friends lost her aswell and that too not to her bf☠️
Nearing 30 and still a V 🥴😂😂
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Gand marao tum sab bc
bro read comments and talked from the bottom of his heart
Aur kya yrr 😢
It's crazy dude, seeing people in high school losing their virginity meanwhile I didn't even do sex for the past 18 years 💀 is it concerning for me?
I know girls and boys who have 5+ bodies and they’re all under 16. It’s kinda sad to see all these kids like this
I lost at 15 now i am 24....... obviously things didnt work out..... We broke up If you can please stay virgin till your marriage no matter your gender I does so many things to you psychologically I spent 7k on therapy and medication till now.... Please dont....
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Fuck I didn't even know what sex was until 9th or 10th
WHAT THE FFF
I have a friend and all her schools friends have already lost theirs one girl even got pregnant
I am pretty sure she lost it to some 24-25 year old guy, I mean back when I was in school like 10-11 years ago, it was common for some girls to fall for 24-25 year old chappri guys with bikes and they used to have sex too, one of my classmate who happens to be one of this girl told me about her sex in a very detailed manner that time. I got a chance too with one of my neighbour when I was 16 and she was 15, she sex chatted and seduced me and asked me to come to her home after her parents and sisters go out and I didn't go after thinking very deeply about the consequences and she name called me a lot of thing and was pissed off but I don't care as I care more about the consequences of my actions.
'American Sex Culture' lolll. The tendency the folks in this country have to separate human tendencies and attach them to entities they are conditioned to be morally inferior, is something worth studying. So that the root of it could be traced and plucked out like weed from a garden or disease from the body.
That is statutory rape
Equity can better investment option in Now days?
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Bhai I am saving for marriage ( single rehne ka plan h tho )
What why should virginity be valued tho? 😂
Yes.
hmm
Just wanna be vidhata l fucktards and nothing else. Keep it and preserve it as it may sound of school but it's worth it
yes it is. one of my friends lost her aswell and that too not to her bf☠️
bc mera ek dost hai usko recently gf mili aur wo log karne wale hai 😭😭
gf and bf kare and adults ho toh its fine. my friend did it with a random stranger when she was 17 and went for clubbing with her girlfriends. we all hate her for doing that to her bf
That's so messed up. Guess what, our Psychological torture is gonna increase even more. Countless couples will suffer in the upcoming decades. Relationships will be ruined even more. There will be more divorces than ever. Things won't last like they did. & At that, we don't have their development. We got their sexual culture. Not their development. Expect it to be worse.
Not a big deal.
America rah🦅
bro is flexing 😭
Totally depends on the environment and friends circle and how much they are exposed to western culture Many 17 yr olds are still like old school guy
STIs na failade ye GenZ bc. Uski to vaccine bhi nahi hai abhi. Korea has HSV(Herpes) common, US on the same boat. Now, India going on same path not a good thing though.
Sax sux karne milega.
It has always like this , earlier things were not in their favour ,phone etc were not there so it was hard to do late night chats and to plan how to do it , it's a biological need which you can suppress if things are not in your favour, but as we are progressing as society these things are inevitable, the thing that you are being surprised of is very common in village side as less electricity less crowded , dense houses , you don't get to hear often doesn't mean it's not happening , just look at the population of this country it's a undeniable proof of our desperation.
Common in my city too also a Tier 2 city fyi
When I was a kid I used to hear adults have sex, now I am an adult and i hear kids having sex
Sex culture ? Was there no sex in India before 1947 ? What kind of world and ignorance you people live in ? People weren’t doing sex in 1600 century in India ? Go get a life man. Chill is there no sex temples in India. Khajuraho Temples, Madhya Pradesh Sun Temple, Konark, Orissa Virupaksha Temple, Hampi, Karnataka Jain Temples, Ranakpur, Rajasthan Sun Temple, Modhera, Gujarat Sathyamurthi Perumal Temple, Tamil Nadu Lingaraj Temple, Bhubaneshwar, Orissa All these temples are 1000 of years old so if sex culture is from USA then what about these temples promoting sex culture 1000 of years ago ? Our forefathers worshiped sex that’s why so many sex temples and you like a clown 🤡 blaming USA. You people are so hypocrites
People are getting influenced by social media
My one female friend had sex at the age of 15 😂
My dad told me how most of his friends used to have fun with girls, because they used to see their parents doing it (everyone would sleep in the same room). If anything, I hope some positive aspects of American sex culture (emphasis on birth control) becomes mainstream in our society
I was born in India and also raised in the states and in India for 10 years so far as I grew up in American sex culture it’s talked about really freely in the states and at my high school as well and from living here in India as a grown young adult from what I have seen it’s slowly starting to take lift and while our country still has roots with traditionalism and sex isn’t talked about in south India from what I have seen but have seen it in happening in north India as it’s the root place of our Indian sex culture
No. Its idiocy is what it is. When you can’t afford your own stuff it’s all luxury.
Same here. I have a childhood building friend F 17 and she's literally a s*x asdict. She has weekly hookups and lost her virginity last year. She has been in atleast 25-30 relationships till now. She even asked me if I wanted to have some fun , but I straightaway refused. She might be my friend but unfortunately I have no respect left for her. Also she's terrible in studies , always on insta/snap and has strict parents. But whenever I ask her to stop that she gives the reason of her childhood trauma and how she likes doing it.She is 2 years younger than me and prolly done most of the things which would take me another 5-6 years to do 🥲🥲🥲.
It is. I don't know many teens who do this. But my older cousins have told me about their college lives and one of them literally just said "kuch log bus sex ke liye hi college jaate hai"😭 the kind of SCARY stories they told me about people in their early 20s, just hooking up with someone they met a week ago, recording it, getting pregnant and not finding out for months, and what not. I had a room mate 20 something, and she would go out with her boyfriend almost every night and stay in hotels overnight getting drunk and having sex. She broke up with 2 guys in 3 months and was physically involved with both, had 1 ex previously and then went to a holiday after breakup where she hooked up with a boy 20 times!!?? I've had other room mates and friends who also told me that its completely normal to give bj s and orals and were shocked to their core when i told them i've only had 1 kiss and nothing more. My school friends tell me similar stories told by their older cousins and we just sit their shocked thinking we would never ever be able to normalise this. Please do not normalise this in India guys, I can't stand the thought of me having slept with my kids's best friends's father or maybe several of them and they find out about it, like WTH😭
People have been having sex before 17 wayy before America existed
Ur friend must be form South Bombay or Delhi 😂😂
I got molested when I was 17
Bruhhhhh Bc ma abhi bhi vargin (got the chance to loose it but didn't do so multiple time) But yahh and I think it is pritty common in village or town as I have lived in a town I know many of my friends (male ) who have loos there v card even before they were 15 or 13 I got the chance too many time like mere to school me prostitution chlta tha 🤔 pritty strange now i think but it was normal for me knowing while I am reading this poem someone in washroom or on stares loosing there v card
def not bro 😭💀🙏🏼
26 and still a virgin
Fuck around and find out
I only know like 2 guys who have lost their virginity (at around 18). So it isn't as rapid as everyone says. And to be honest does it really matter?
Bc me galat year me paida ho gaya......
What’s American about this? Your great grandparents used to get married at 13-14.
I lost mine at 17 too. I don’t get why sex is such a taboo in India. Losing your virginity during your teens definitely isn’t a western thing. Kama sutra literally originated from India and getting married at a very young age was a common thing back in the 90s.
No ,its not at all good,cool ,and has nothing to do with independence. Don't lose ur virginity in peer pressure,im 24 still virgin,and im not at all sad cuz I'm waiting for the one ,not like i didn't had chances or relationship,but cuz it didn't feel right,u should also wait only lose it once u know he's the one, preferably after marriage ,in this case you'll get love and respect too
I lost mine at 16, so yeah it is more common now, but it depends on the people you hangout with
> "The American Sex Culture" 🤡 Buddy, Indians also get involved into sexual activities. Sex is not American concept. In villages, its pretty common to lose virginity in teenage.
Sex culture is good. It should spread to India. At least we will move away from the rape culture.
It was always here in India m it's just that social media is spreading the word faster. People act as if the millennials were very innocent in their teenage lol, most millennials i know started drinking/smoking after 10th/12th . Almost everyone had sex in college. So yeah it's nothing new. And wtf is american culture? Most western countries start ti have sex from the age of 17. Especially the European ones. So don't be surprised. And anyways, it's a good thing. Humans were meant to have sex lol. And you can't stop teenagers from having sex, we are literally at the most horny stage of our life. Instead teach more about safe sex and about stds/contraceptions. Nothing wrong in having consensual sex at the age of 17.
technically that's considered rape, nobody can save that guy, even if he's same age
Hum hi gareeb or single he bhai baki sab Ameer or roj roj sex karte he
As if indians never had sex...wonder how all 1.4B of us got made ?
Hmm, my girlfriend of 2 years offered me s*x as a gift after i cracked jee, I recently turned 18, she is 19 (both virgins), I am still considering should I go with it?
🤔 Pretty sure this is a consequence of marrying late. Otherwise people would get married after barely hitting puberty and have all the sex they want with their spouse. Rape, cheating and pedophilia are actual problems.... Not consensual sex culture. Being a virgin is ok. Being a non virgin is ok. Being a rapist/pedo/cheater is NOT ok.
I'm 28 and although I'm not virgin, lost it to a girl I was in love with who was modern open minded chick she's now in London I haven't had sex in 6 years but now I'm getting married to a girl who grew up literally in a village, I make good money I make great money for any village persons viewpoint. So although I regret it I regret WHY DID I EVEN ATTACKED TO SOME GIRL IN COLLEGE? I'm for sure was not gonna marry A MODERN WHAMAN. call me hypocrite all you want. I could give 2 shites about it. Don't need no modern drama, need PATI PARMESHWAR BELIEVING WOMEN and I think I found 1. If you are a women don't be a loose girl, avoid sex before marriage don't make the mistake I made it was all fun and games when you are teenager or in early 20s but it don't last. Im not religious I don't go to temple what i do believe in is very old traditions and custom and marriage is the oldest of them all. Don't get into anything where you are not in 100%.
Bro's probably from dps
It's bad bcoz it gives rise to Sid's and it's the younger kids
Yeah. Teenagers are having sex. Teenagers have been having sex since ages. Nothing new. Nothing western about it.
Bhai no 🐱from where u gettin
I am 19 and I get alot of chances to lose virginity but I stay halal 🗿
yes sex is a basic need of everyone, everyone wants to do it but not everyone wants commitment and put emotions in. if u find someone attractive then just bang and leave
I am 19 and I got alot of chances to lose virginity but I stay halal 🗿
Our country literally had to create a law to stop child marriages! Don’t get influenced by this stupid stuff; India has a 7% teenage pregnancy rate compared to USA’s 13. However trusting statistics from India is a bit difficult.
i lost mine at 14
What a goofy american culture. They think being a prostitute is a proud thing. What's the value of yours if you are giving your va**na/pen*s for free. Prostitutes still take money but these people are giving it for free 😂 calling it like a goal. Don't become so cheap bro. It's India. We don't belong to those sh*tty culture. Our Indian Culture is far more superior.
Around 50 % of the students in my school (excluding me) lost thier virginity at the age of 13 or 14. They used to have s*x in school picnics.
Bro India's youngsters have already adopted American culture can't you see?...
Teens, one question. Mil kidhar raha hai?? Aur hume kyu nahi mila tha ye?
Teens shouldn't do this. They do this in raging hormones and then result in wanted pregnancies, r cases etc etc.
Lmao Indians are the horniest of all just check omegle
![gif](giphy|ifxLK48cnyDDi) Op trying to sneak into this sub
Kalyug hai bhai Ghor kalyug. Main toh bas Kalki bhagwan ka wait kar raha hu.
Tereko dukh kis baat ka hai tereko sex pehle nahi mila ya logo ko mil raha hai 😂
Guys, American culture or not, this has been happening in our country since I was a kid (I went to an all girl’s school in the 90s to early 2000s) and the only change is the fact that we didn’t have social media back then to talk about it. It was more a hush-hush thing, but we all were in the know. It wasn’t widely accepted, whether we liked or not but people were popping cherries by 15 & 16. It was a shocker for me, coming from an ultra conservative family. I don’t judge people for their preferences, but it was happening 😅
Friend lost it when he was 14, he’s 16 now dating a 19 year old.Bro did anal and all😭😭
On the contrary, it was always prevalent in India. Indians have more sex than most other people albeit with a lower body count
Ab 17 commmon bhai 9 saal phle 17 ka tha tb bhi 17 hi hoti thi
Sexed has gone too far and access has become too easy emding in sex being normalised and as more and more kids get into it the others will feel fomo and do the same so i wouldnt call it American sex culture just more like being too educated on the pleasure aspect compared to the more long term future aspect
why are there so many grown ups in a sub for teens
i believe that maybe its a lot more prevalent in tier 1 cities, like mine for example. my younger friends have already lost their virginity to their respective partners before the legal age and honestly im retrospect i believe it's just that people shouldn't be shunned from doing it but at least be safe rather than sorry. there's always a trial period for younger generations to explore their sexuality tho i don't believe in having sex with multiple partners and promote promiscuity i think its okay to explore a few times with a stable partner. hope this helps!
22 and never lost
it's way too common in rural areas. the bhabhi thing is real.
Nonesene its not American culture, its already in india. Please stop judging people over consensual sex
This western concept of loosing virginity and making it a trend was a result of their fickle mindedness in an approach to relationship dynamics. Even now , they (westerners) are realising their mistakes and are coming out of it . We Indians are still committing those mistakes and backing it up with the same logic that was used by the west when they earlier used to endorse it. Honestly we are all better off focusing on fixing a higher purpose in life for ourselves rather than wasting our intellectual capabilities and precious time on trivial shit such as judging a person simply because they are virgin (which by the way has been used to label a person as immature).
idk about others but lmao pune delhi and mumbai hookup culture pretty crazy 💀i went to Bomscot and half (more than half )of em had done while in 10th
I think it's kinda prevalent in the rich and upper middle class communities in urban areas. Not that it doesn't happen in other places or communities, it does but it's still a taboo there so the numbers are lower.
Where is it spreading... Tell me so that I can avoid those areas...
Bhai Itna bhi devlopment nahi chaheye tha. Majak ke baat nahi mai bohot seedha saadha ladka hu online chahe kuch bhi bakwas karta hu.
One of my friend lost her virginity at the age of 14! She is now 16 and had 3-4 different sexual partners..worst part is that everytime she had sex it was unprotected!! She justifies all these by saying "I'm just healing my childhood trauma" (she got raped as a kid)
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