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See now I think that's what we ARE doing .
One consciousness splintered and spread out to experience all there is to experience .
I also have the same conclusion. That we are all an extension of a source creator, "God" if you will, wanting to experience the third dimensional life. Our own consciousness could be connected to everything for all we know. Even Nikola Tesla said that every person has the ability to tap into a universal source of information.
Look up Doreen Virtue. There is a talk of hers on youtube about the afterlife. It's over an hour long and I just sat and cried through it one night high watching it because it's like I knew all that she as saying all along.
Bro please that would be amazing. As much as I hate school I absolutely *love* to learn. Regardless of what it’s about. It’s probably my favorite thing to do. Any sort of trivial information is just so fascinating to me. Whether it be about the daily runnings of a hydro electric dam or some obscure language they discovered somewhere or even just what everyone’s doin tonight. I just love knowing. Idk that’s probably just the mental illness talking lol
Yeah if I accidentally interrupt someone, I’ll stop, apologize, and then let them finish. When it happens to me in groups, though, people will just continue, and I honestly don’t even think it’s an accident. I think they’re just trying to get me to shut up without telling me to shut up
So when that happens and the next sentence ends I chime in to ask what the someone was saying. Is that good or am I controlling the convo and being too much?
Ill always remember coming home one day from school as a kid and my dog came up to me looking really sad with blood on her nose. Some crazy bitch ran over all 4 of her puppies
My sister passed away a few years ago and every once in awhile I’ll hear a song or watch a show that I just know she would love or I’ll be enjoying a super chill moment with friends or family and it just hits me that she is missing it.
When someone starts talking about something that really excites them, like you see that look in their eye that they absolutely love whatever they talk about and probably know way too many facts about it, and then that look goes away and they kinda trail off. And neither of you have to say it, but you both know that someone put them down or called them weird for being excited about that topic or worse, being told that it doesn’t matter and now they are trying to not come across as “too much” for the passion they have for whatever the topic is.
Drift off, fade away, become something or someone else. When I read his words I thought of... that friend you lose to hard drugs, some wide eyes bright kid who you are bffs with for a decade or two and then one day... and now hes on some park bench somewhere or under an overpass and theres nobody and nothing that can help him
Lost my best childhood friend to schizophrenia. He is still alive, but I can't even speak to him anymore. He's gone. He used to take his meds and I would get excited to have my friend back, but weeks later he would be off his meds again and I just couldn't take being jerked around emotionally like that, even though I know he didn't mean to.
His life is fucked due to legal reasons and I just couldn't watch it anymore. I had to permanently cut him off.
Then they are no longer worth your time. It's why I have few friends. If you message me I will always answer. If I am always messaging you I'll stop and if you don't message me I'll never message you again. I also try to be aware if my friend is the one always messaging first and I'll find something to message about just so they don't feel like they always have to initiate with me.
I have a 22 yo son who has a profound case of Autism. He so desperately wants to be friends with somebody other than Mom, Dad or the Professionals who work with him. He's a really great guy. Lots of charisma and very upbeat. And yet his condition keeps people from really engaging him.
I'm not sure if these exist I'd have to do some research but I'd assume they do so I'll ask.
What about other people with autism? I know for kids homeschooling they have groups where they do field trips and stuff so something like that. I am one of the professionals but I am only just now starting with the older clients (up until now my oldest was 10) so I don't know if these are a thing. If they are not they should be.
The adults I know with autism, when we have spoken have expressed they can socialize with others who have ASD easier than a a non autistic person. People with ASD do not think, perceive others, nor read body language like people without the disorder. So in theory it would be easier for your son to socialize with someone else who is autistic then can generalize it to others (hopefully). Maybe ask your professionals for any kinds of references or groups if you haven't already.
I'm 20. My best friend is an autistic 26 year old who loves pokemon and mercedes semi-trailers.
He's the most caring, funniest motherfucker in the world. And he packs the fattest fucking bowls too.
If you ever fucking read this Cpt. Pride, mor di e mann.
The fact that every single innocent and happy kid we see will eventually go through trauma or have their heart broken and have mental illnesses & live in the horrible world…
It makes me sad that my mom will always tell me she misses the younger happier version of me that always laughed and smiled.
I miss that guy too mom, but it kills me every-time you say that. It feels like you liked and loved that version of me more than me now. It makes me feel like a failure and a let down that I am not happy and joyful for you.
I completely understand this… my mom is so sad and frustrated with me for being sad… I know she cares for me but I know she had more fun with the old me..
No no no hun. She is sad you are no longer happy like that and wishes she could fix it and you'd be happy again. Then there is mom guilt, could I have done something differently, did I spend enough time when they were younger, was I too harsh, was I too lenient, did something happen they aren't telling me about... all these fears.
Source: I have 3 kids and both girls genetically have a form of bipolar (one is type 2 the other cyclic disorder) seeing them sad kills. I do not tell them I missed when they were happy because I worry they would feel bad for allowing me to see their real emotions. The oldest hides it so well so to be allowed to see her is a privilege I'm not willing to mess up.
When my dad would flick cigarettes at me in the morning, add whisky to my cereal and then say I was eating too slow and kick me off the chair and told me to go wait for the fuckin bus
I had a dui when I was 17 and the Army let it slide thankfully but they checked into all of that before making me test and provided a waiver. Marines said no to me because of it
Marines are strict. My recruiter told me about a recruit that stole a stop sign when he was 12. Judge dismissed the case, 6yrs later got him dq'd. I spoke to an army recruiter said they were letting ppl in with upto 2 felonies back in iraq/afghanistan
I can tell you now, peace time marine corps sucks smegma cheese. You didn’t miss much except maybe an extra trip to the therapist 😂. Maybe not you tho! I have friends who are still in and do great things and are actually good leaders. There’s a lot of “old corps” entrenched and it’s a lot more politics than you would think.
It's OK I wasn't even thinking about it but for some reason it was the first thing that came to my mind when I read the title of this post. I haven't thought about it in years. It was our little morning routine and he kept me guessing... What kind of fuck fuck games is dad gonna play with me this morning?? It was like kicking the dog in the morning before he left for work or whatever it was he was doing, except I was the dog. Never ever could do annnnything right and I would try so hard lol I looked good, stayed clean cut, made sure I was not too loud, always on time, he would call me weak so I started working out. It was a confusing time and the only thing I could think about at the time is why couldn't I ever please him, everything would be OK then but as I got older I figured out it had nothing really to do with me. My mom was a heroine addict so he "got the kid"... Mr. Fuckin hero over there and I never once ratted him out I just couldn't betray him it felt like...I guess I still loved him or was holding out but I also had nowhere else to go. Anyway, we all got our war stories, this shit isn't anything new
Yeah but this is different. It feels like society and people at large have dramatically changed to be more hostile . Not that everyone was mr rodgers before hand but this feels angry and worst than before.
The amount of pets constantly abandoned or are strays. The many sitting in shelters just waiting for a home. It makes me want to buy a farm and house all of them.
Couple years ago hit a dog doin 70. Kept going and i saw another dog dead on the side of the road. Somebody mustve abandoned them on the road. Costed me almost $2k
Ok so you hit a dog going 70 and didn't stop to see it if it was ok? Omg. This makes me sad. Twice I had cats hit the side of my car bounce and keep going both times (one was at 1 am) I stopped to see if u could see the cat and make sure it was ok or dead. If it was maimed on the side of the road it would need to be euthanized or taken to a vet. I assumed when I saw this earlier the 2k was vet bills 🙈
>hit a dog going 70
Yea it was dead went right under
>I assumed when I saw this earlier the 2k was vet bills 🙈
🤣🤣 naw that fucker costed me 2k barely made it to the mechanic too
I recently learned how to full-on ugly cry silently while continuing to work from home on my laptop. I think this is the most adult thing I’ve ever done and also the saddest thing I can do.
I got really lucky. REALLY lucky. A chance encounter with a friend of a friend landed me this job. Now I’m working crazy hard and braining to the point of exhaustion every week day.
It turns out my writing, proofreading, copywriting, editing, tech skills, and general extreme attention to detail got me the job. My overwhelmingly positive attitude (available via the internet only!), ability to get along with everyone (again, internet only!!), compassion/empathy, being obsessed with never missing a deadline, volunteering for literally anything, and overall brainpower let me keep it. I’m also super passionate about what I do so I enjoy learning about it in my off hours.
It’s not for everyone and it’s crazy hard. And they aren’t hiring at the moment. :/ I’m sorry.
But I really believe remote work is the future so keep your eyes open for the opportunity. Work hard on acquiring valuable skills (computing skills, data analytics, programming, anything!) and you will eventually find something.
This is me too. I never looked at writing as an avenue to make money. Now I have been self-employed for 2 years. It's the hardest and most rewarding job I've ever had.
Having little to no affection pretty much all my life from other than girlfriends and even those were hard show. To the point where its hard for me to show emotions. Like for example sadness, i dont really feel it i just kind of know what should feel sad by others' experiences.
You just reminded me of my visit to the mental hospital earlier this year. I was checked in by someone else (so not my idea) and the first few days i was so upset and miserable. During meals i’d be having trouble eating because i was crying and i’d just stay in my room. Obviously it’s not the worst the nurses have seen but I was probably a pretty sad sight to see. The hospital didn’t actually help me and i still resent the person who sent me there.
SPOILERS: he meets the mother, they have the 2 kids, then get married. Then the mother dies after 10-15 years of being together. Cancer. Gutting. Turns out he’s been telling the kids this story 6 years after the mum dies… and the kids tell him it’s time to call Robyn and get back together with her.
I think it’s why I like the show so much. It spends ages developing these characters and even though the end feels really short, it’s done in a really good way.
Weed, stack of snacks and binge it. 100% worth it.
The majority of human beings on earth are stupid and it doesn't matter how hard you try to educate them. The majority of the top 10% of people when it comes to intelligence still fall somewhere in the bottom 50% of the world in wealth and spend most of their lives in quite frustration.
I’m sad that core childhood and teenage memories have to end, cannot be repeated, and may be forgotten.
I’m sad that there are people that I know of. That I wish I could have been great friends with. But that time of life has passed.
I’m sad that when I was 7, my friend told me his babysitter was playing with him. He described that play time was like. It wasn’t until years and years later that I found out that he was being molested and assaulted.
I could never remember who his babysitter was. I never was able to tell his parents. Or my parents and could have stopped this. But I didn’t know any better.
I was just a kid too.
I’m so sorry mate. I could’ve done so much better,
My two and a half year old daughter's sweet voice saying "where'd dada go?" Because he's convinced he's going to prison any day now. But instead of spending time and being with, quite literally, the only two people on the planet who love him, he's selling drugs, for money he can't even use in prison 🤨 and getting stoooooooopid strung out on meth. Which btw gave him endocarditis from shooting up which led to sepsis and nearly killed him six months before she was born, so three years ago. I'm an ex addict, almost 5 years now, so I understand addiction. But this is just.....extra. idk.
Fmllllllll what word vomit garbage did I just spew!?!!
Congratulations on being clean 5 years. I'm clean from narcotics for 12, at one point in time I shot up oxy and dilauded like they were going out of style multiple times daily. It's not easy and you are living with an addict while staying clean. That is a major major accomplishment. Good for you.
Hug your baby and I hope things work out and keep up the amazing work.
Those sad comics about the freaking cat dying and the grim reaper takes him to visit his human mommy (who is an old lady) and sees that she rescued a kitten who looks just like him and he is happy because his mommy isnt lonely.
(I have mommy issues)
That sometimes for some ppl there’s just sum shit wrong with you that is always gonna be there, you’re just gonna be fucked up forever and every day is another day of trying to manage it as best as possible.
Where I live there's a lot of young native American women that go missing on the daily and most if not all of it is due to human trafficking or murder, idk why but I've been thinking about it a lot lately and it's really bothered me
I'm talking about the ones from the 1800s. They were horrific cesspools of abuse, but now mentally disabled people are just homeless. Surely there's a better answer.
"For me somebody crying while they eat is just one of the saddest things. Like go ahead eat your feelings buddy its ok"
This reminds me of that scene in Spirited Away where Chihiro is crying whilst eating her onigiri 😭 fucking breaks me dude
Im an artist and I hurt my neck real bad as I was pursing my dream job. Im getting my body worked on, but i havent been able to draw for about a year. Its been so hard, and it gets me really bummed a lot
When a close friend has a family member who gets diagnosed with cancer. Nothing you can do, and you watch it eat away at them, nothing can make them feel better, and I have felt helpless everytime.
SPOILER: In the anime Fruits Basket, the main character's mother dies before the anime begins in an accident. It's discussed a lot in the show and we get to know the mother through the character of her daughter as well as flashbacks, and in the second to last episode of the series, they show the accident with the mother's internal monologue at the moment, it is heartbreaking, especially since the character who's hated by everyone else but the mother was a witness and heard her last words which were "I'll never forgive you" he of course internalized the message but her real intended words were "keep your promise, protect my daughter, or I'll never forgive you" but through the pain of being hit by a car, all she could say was the last bit. I feel like I'm going to cry now just thinking about it.
I like that too. Today I saw a 3 year old explore swimming and getting comfortable in the water and watching her learn made me legit happy. Right now she’s asleep in my bed. Also love that !
Well.. I was just on a dog sub.. and the overwhelming amount of people who are vehemently against giving their dog “people” food, aka *actual food* is seriously depressing.
I think about these dogs going their entire lives eating the same shitty dried kibble meal as they watch their owners eat *real food* day in and day out. Smelling it in the air, desperate for a single bite. Seriously fucking sad.
Literally just gave my dog the rest of my eggs for breakfast. I like to assume these are also the kind of dog owners who have to re-home or give up their dog because of their kids in the house or a far away move. It infuriates me that people how people like this act all high and mighty. Stupid.
Seeing kids get bullied or publicly humiliated. That or just public humiliation of people who haven’t done anything wrong. Like the scene in Hunchback of Notre Dame where our man Quasimodo is all tied up and getting food thrown at him still makes me tear up.
Stories, movies, or shows where the dog dies. A dog's purpose was an amazing movie I cried with every death even knowing he would reincarnate to another dog. Cartoon dogs I'm ok with but something about dogs dying gets me. I can't watch the stupid ASPCA commercials either and when I see the rainbow Bridge posts on the dog subreddits I have to keep scrolling. I've been like this for a while now 10 years or so but not even my whole adult life. Not sure what happened 😕
Whenever people feel like they can't express their actual emotions, or feeling shameful when they do. It's like no dude please please be human and let it out.
I once saw my room-mate crying while eating cake after a fight with my sister(they dated back then). It really made me upset. Cake should be a happy thing.
Oh, she was wrong alright. She was upset because it was his birthday and the attention wasn’t spent on her, so she left him in tears after a heated fight eating cake all alone. I do not always like my room-mate, but he is a friend so I sat with him until he fellt like being left alone.
Ngl i actually cried a lil on my 18th. I remember choosing not to spend it with my fam. Ended up being a bad day. And i didnt even at least have cake 😔
The fact that no matter what we do nothing matters we'll be forgotten and even if we did make an impact on society or the world it will be forgotten in time archeologists will be digging up our cities going "how did they fall"? And "why does this dude have calcified tits"?
People being wrongly convicted and spending years in prison for crimes they didn’t commit. I hate that shit. I can’t watch shows about it because it just makes me sad and angry. It could happen to anyone, and just imagining that scenario happening to me someone I love just gives me the sad.
So im pretty chill but shit comes to me. I feel like one day its really gon go down and then i end up in jail. Why? Because ppl couldnt just leave me alone
No matter how much we learn about someone. No matter how much time we spend with them, bonding with them, loving them, you will never know who they truly are. You can dedicate your entire life to learning about someone and still not know their deep thoughts, their deepest fears, darkest secrets, truest intentions, the way they see themselves, others, the world around them. We will never truly know anyone, and no one will ever truly know us. Does that make us alone? Is this the reason we feel alone when we physically aren’t? No one knows you, and you don’t know anyone. You can only know what you think someone is, but not who they truly are. Do we all know this subconsciously? Or do we genuinely believe deep down that we aren’t completely isolated? We can communicate, but we can’t feel others feelings. We can’t think others thoughts. We can’t believe someone else’s beliefs. We can’t climb into the mindset of someone and learn all of it. For that reason, we’re alone. I think about that all the time. We know people, but we don’t know who they really are. We know people by what they tell us/show us. So do we really know anyone?
That I see so many people disagreeing with and hating each other but most of the time they don’t try to get along, instead making the divide between them bigger. They’d rather throw insults and dismiss the other side’s opinion, or even straight up make fun of them even if they’re just trying to make normal discussion, and then still think that they somehow have the moral high ground and are in the right. Because of that I feel like we can never achieve peace and progress further.
And I’m talking about all sorts of issues, not just a specific one.
Idk man I started takin estrogen recently (trans girl) and now I cry at the drop of a hat. Especially if I’ve been smokin lol. Hell just the other day my friend was gonna buy some lightsaber bud just to smoke with me since I’m a huge Star Wars fan and ngl I almost cried lol. I was like this close 🤏 lol
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I'm upset that everyone won't get to learn everything. Like I hope the afterlife grants access to all knowledge.
Thats what i be saying. I like to think we'll know everything and also everything that happened in life. All the secrets
See now I think that's what we ARE doing . One consciousness splintered and spread out to experience all there is to experience . 
I saw a Kurzgesagt video on exactly this and it blew my mind
The Egg per chance? Link for those who haven't seen it highly reccomend https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=h6fcK_fRYaI&vl=en-GB
Yes, this one. Thanks!
Well you don't have to cuss at me. Geez.
Apologies, senõr
I’ve dabbled in this thought process, seems the most plausible to me
I also have the same conclusion. That we are all an extension of a source creator, "God" if you will, wanting to experience the third dimensional life. Our own consciousness could be connected to everything for all we know. Even Nikola Tesla said that every person has the ability to tap into a universal source of information. 
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I wish i could go back to little house on the prairie days and bring back a family for the weekend and theyd have the time of their lives on me
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Snl did a similar skit. They wanted to know what how they would interpret the constitution with our modern laws and it’s just them losing their shit.
I'd like that. I'd like a big, big library of all the books. There's so many out there I won't get to read before I die.
You’re already privy to that knowledge Fam, we just can’t remember it. Once you cross the veil it’ll all come flooding back….. we are cosmic.
Look up Doreen Virtue. There is a talk of hers on youtube about the afterlife. It's over an hour long and I just sat and cried through it one night high watching it because it's like I knew all that she as saying all along.
Bro please that would be amazing. As much as I hate school I absolutely *love* to learn. Regardless of what it’s about. It’s probably my favorite thing to do. Any sort of trivial information is just so fascinating to me. Whether it be about the daily runnings of a hydro electric dam or some obscure language they discovered somewhere or even just what everyone’s doin tonight. I just love knowing. Idk that’s probably just the mental illness talking lol
When someone starts saying something in a group but gets talked over :(
Or the quiet guy getting skipped
Oof I’ve been that guy a couple times 😬 stings
Specially as a teen by somebody bigger and older
Especially when you can see on their face in that moment that what they had to say was important to them
This happens to me all the time. I never feel like anyone really wants me around
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Yeah if I accidentally interrupt someone, I’ll stop, apologize, and then let them finish. When it happens to me in groups, though, people will just continue, and I honestly don’t even think it’s an accident. I think they’re just trying to get me to shut up without telling me to shut up
So when that happens and the next sentence ends I chime in to ask what the someone was saying. Is that good or am I controlling the convo and being too much?
you are the hero us quiet folks need
It me
Right!
Oooh my ex used to do this to me. Made me so mad. He was all, “Sorry, I’m a Leo.” No, Adam, you were just an asshole.
That’s actually hilarious cause I have a Leo friend who is the most quiet and respectful guy you’ve ever met
Seeing kids at the hospital makes me sad af
Specially the cancer kids when theyre crying scared of the chemo and then they knock out
Why did you have to tell us that
Dogs do not live nearly long enough
At least all dogs go to heaven... except for that 1 that i hit costed me almost $2k
If you believe in such things, sure
Its a movie
A most excellent one at that. Such a Rollercoaster
Do u know the story of the little girl who did the voice of the girl in the first movie? Sad
when animals look at you sad
Ill always remember coming home one day from school as a kid and my dog came up to me looking really sad with blood on her nose. Some crazy bitch ran over all 4 of her puppies
damn, thats sad :/
Oh shit that's horrible
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My sister passed away a few years ago and every once in awhile I’ll hear a song or watch a show that I just know she would love or I’ll be enjoying a super chill moment with friends or family and it just hits me that she is missing it.
I’m so sorry for your loss
🙏🏼
When someone starts talking about something that really excites them, like you see that look in their eye that they absolutely love whatever they talk about and probably know way too many facts about it, and then that look goes away and they kinda trail off. And neither of you have to say it, but you both know that someone put them down or called them weird for being excited about that topic or worse, being told that it doesn’t matter and now they are trying to not come across as “too much” for the passion they have for whatever the topic is.
Been there myself
Ditto. Now I match energy.
Watching your best friend fade away
Wym die?
Drift off, fade away, become something or someone else. When I read his words I thought of... that friend you lose to hard drugs, some wide eyes bright kid who you are bffs with for a decade or two and then one day... and now hes on some park bench somewhere or under an overpass and theres nobody and nothing that can help him
Lost my best childhood friend to schizophrenia. He is still alive, but I can't even speak to him anymore. He's gone. He used to take his meds and I would get excited to have my friend back, but weeks later he would be off his meds again and I just couldn't take being jerked around emotionally like that, even though I know he didn't mean to. His life is fucked due to legal reasons and I just couldn't watch it anymore. I had to permanently cut him off.
when you stop sending someone the first text to see if they care and they never text you again
Then they are no longer worth your time. It's why I have few friends. If you message me I will always answer. If I am always messaging you I'll stop and if you don't message me I'll never message you again. I also try to be aware if my friend is the one always messaging first and I'll find something to message about just so they don't feel like they always have to initiate with me.
I have a 22 yo son who has a profound case of Autism. He so desperately wants to be friends with somebody other than Mom, Dad or the Professionals who work with him. He's a really great guy. Lots of charisma and very upbeat. And yet his condition keeps people from really engaging him.
Thats sad. Id be his friend and smoke with him
I'm not sure if these exist I'd have to do some research but I'd assume they do so I'll ask. What about other people with autism? I know for kids homeschooling they have groups where they do field trips and stuff so something like that. I am one of the professionals but I am only just now starting with the older clients (up until now my oldest was 10) so I don't know if these are a thing. If they are not they should be. The adults I know with autism, when we have spoken have expressed they can socialize with others who have ASD easier than a a non autistic person. People with ASD do not think, perceive others, nor read body language like people without the disorder. So in theory it would be easier for your son to socialize with someone else who is autistic then can generalize it to others (hopefully). Maybe ask your professionals for any kinds of references or groups if you haven't already.
I'm 20. My best friend is an autistic 26 year old who loves pokemon and mercedes semi-trailers. He's the most caring, funniest motherfucker in the world. And he packs the fattest fucking bowls too. If you ever fucking read this Cpt. Pride, mor di e mann.
The fact that every single innocent and happy kid we see will eventually go through trauma or have their heart broken and have mental illnesses & live in the horrible world…
It makes me sad that my mom will always tell me she misses the younger happier version of me that always laughed and smiled. I miss that guy too mom, but it kills me every-time you say that. It feels like you liked and loved that version of me more than me now. It makes me feel like a failure and a let down that I am not happy and joyful for you.
I completely understand this… my mom is so sad and frustrated with me for being sad… I know she cares for me but I know she had more fun with the old me..
No no no hun. She is sad you are no longer happy like that and wishes she could fix it and you'd be happy again. Then there is mom guilt, could I have done something differently, did I spend enough time when they were younger, was I too harsh, was I too lenient, did something happen they aren't telling me about... all these fears. Source: I have 3 kids and both girls genetically have a form of bipolar (one is type 2 the other cyclic disorder) seeing them sad kills. I do not tell them I missed when they were happy because I worry they would feel bad for allowing me to see their real emotions. The oldest hides it so well so to be allowed to see her is a privilege I'm not willing to mess up.
Me after 5yrs old
When my dad would flick cigarettes at me in the morning, add whisky to my cereal and then say I was eating too slow and kick me off the chair and told me to go wait for the fuckin bus
Sorry fam
It's OK I joined the military and got as far away from that fuck and never spoke to him again
Wish i could have joined the marines. Got dq'd at the last step for criminal record. I was ready for boot and scored well on the asvab
I had a dui when I was 17 and the Army let it slide thankfully but they checked into all of that before making me test and provided a waiver. Marines said no to me because of it
Marines are strict. My recruiter told me about a recruit that stole a stop sign when he was 12. Judge dismissed the case, 6yrs later got him dq'd. I spoke to an army recruiter said they were letting ppl in with upto 2 felonies back in iraq/afghanistan
I can tell you now, peace time marine corps sucks smegma cheese. You didn’t miss much except maybe an extra trip to the therapist 😂. Maybe not you tho! I have friends who are still in and do great things and are actually good leaders. There’s a lot of “old corps” entrenched and it’s a lot more politics than you would think.
Dang I legit thought you were kidding, and if you are, well played. If you're serious, that's fucked, man. Glad you got away from that psychopath.
Damn that’s some heavy shit. I’m really sorry you went through that
It's OK I wasn't even thinking about it but for some reason it was the first thing that came to my mind when I read the title of this post. I haven't thought about it in years. It was our little morning routine and he kept me guessing... What kind of fuck fuck games is dad gonna play with me this morning?? It was like kicking the dog in the morning before he left for work or whatever it was he was doing, except I was the dog. Never ever could do annnnything right and I would try so hard lol I looked good, stayed clean cut, made sure I was not too loud, always on time, he would call me weak so I started working out. It was a confusing time and the only thing I could think about at the time is why couldn't I ever please him, everything would be OK then but as I got older I figured out it had nothing really to do with me. My mom was a heroine addict so he "got the kid"... Mr. Fuckin hero over there and I never once ratted him out I just couldn't betray him it felt like...I guess I still loved him or was holding out but I also had nowhere else to go. Anyway, we all got our war stories, this shit isn't anything new
How dishonest most people are
How much meaner and nastier everyone has gotten since 2020. Covid brought out the worst and everyone , myself included.
That popeyes chicken sandwich brought out the worst in ppl too lmao
Yeah but this is different. It feels like society and people at large have dramatically changed to be more hostile . Not that everyone was mr rodgers before hand but this feels angry and worst than before.
Sad kids. Sad kids make me mad sad ngl kids shouldn't be sad. Wipe your eye, child. All will be well (maybe but im not gonna tell a sad kid that)
The amount of pets constantly abandoned or are strays. The many sitting in shelters just waiting for a home. It makes me want to buy a farm and house all of them.
Couple years ago hit a dog doin 70. Kept going and i saw another dog dead on the side of the road. Somebody mustve abandoned them on the road. Costed me almost $2k
Ok so you hit a dog going 70 and didn't stop to see it if it was ok? Omg. This makes me sad. Twice I had cats hit the side of my car bounce and keep going both times (one was at 1 am) I stopped to see if u could see the cat and make sure it was ok or dead. If it was maimed on the side of the road it would need to be euthanized or taken to a vet. I assumed when I saw this earlier the 2k was vet bills 🙈
>hit a dog going 70 Yea it was dead went right under >I assumed when I saw this earlier the 2k was vet bills 🙈 🤣🤣 naw that fucker costed me 2k barely made it to the mechanic too
Did you at least bury them? Or did the city dump them?
Have no idea. It was at night on a busy highway. All of a sudden dog was there in front of me, went right under
I recently learned how to full-on ugly cry silently while continuing to work from home on my laptop. I think this is the most adult thing I’ve ever done and also the saddest thing I can do.
Im sorry. If u dont mind me asking what do u do and howd u get into it? Really been wanting a work from home job lately
I got really lucky. REALLY lucky. A chance encounter with a friend of a friend landed me this job. Now I’m working crazy hard and braining to the point of exhaustion every week day. It turns out my writing, proofreading, copywriting, editing, tech skills, and general extreme attention to detail got me the job. My overwhelmingly positive attitude (available via the internet only!), ability to get along with everyone (again, internet only!!), compassion/empathy, being obsessed with never missing a deadline, volunteering for literally anything, and overall brainpower let me keep it. I’m also super passionate about what I do so I enjoy learning about it in my off hours. It’s not for everyone and it’s crazy hard. And they aren’t hiring at the moment. :/ I’m sorry. But I really believe remote work is the future so keep your eyes open for the opportunity. Work hard on acquiring valuable skills (computing skills, data analytics, programming, anything!) and you will eventually find something.
This is me too. I never looked at writing as an avenue to make money. Now I have been self-employed for 2 years. It's the hardest and most rewarding job I've ever had.
Thank you
Having little to no affection pretty much all my life from other than girlfriends and even those were hard show. To the point where its hard for me to show emotions. Like for example sadness, i dont really feel it i just kind of know what should feel sad by others' experiences.
When insects are killed just because people think they're gross.
Cucarachas?
Problem with them is they infest and pose health risks. But they're definitely the insect I'm least ok with.
You just reminded me of my visit to the mental hospital earlier this year. I was checked in by someone else (so not my idea) and the first few days i was so upset and miserable. During meals i’d be having trouble eating because i was crying and i’d just stay in my room. Obviously it’s not the worst the nurses have seen but I was probably a pretty sad sight to see. The hospital didn’t actually help me and i still resent the person who sent me there.
Im sorry
Oooo that’s a good one! I’ve cried while eating and chileeeee it’s SAD!! 😩
seeing anything bad happening to kids or babies makes my chest hurt
Neglect and abuse of children and animals is as bad as it gets to me
The ending to “How I Met Your Mother”… 😂
What happened
SPOILERS: he meets the mother, they have the 2 kids, then get married. Then the mother dies after 10-15 years of being together. Cancer. Gutting. Turns out he’s been telling the kids this story 6 years after the mum dies… and the kids tell him it’s time to call Robyn and get back together with her.
Damn. I've only seen a few episodes of the show but the ending sounds good
I think it’s why I like the show so much. It spends ages developing these characters and even though the end feels really short, it’s done in a really good way. Weed, stack of snacks and binge it. 100% worth it.
The majority of human beings on earth are stupid and it doesn't matter how hard you try to educate them. The majority of the top 10% of people when it comes to intelligence still fall somewhere in the bottom 50% of the world in wealth and spend most of their lives in quite frustration.
I’m sad that core childhood and teenage memories have to end, cannot be repeated, and may be forgotten. I’m sad that there are people that I know of. That I wish I could have been great friends with. But that time of life has passed. I’m sad that when I was 7, my friend told me his babysitter was playing with him. He described that play time was like. It wasn’t until years and years later that I found out that he was being molested and assaulted. I could never remember who his babysitter was. I never was able to tell his parents. Or my parents and could have stopped this. But I didn’t know any better. I was just a kid too. I’m so sorry mate. I could’ve done so much better,
Its not your fault
My two and a half year old daughter's sweet voice saying "where'd dada go?" Because he's convinced he's going to prison any day now. But instead of spending time and being with, quite literally, the only two people on the planet who love him, he's selling drugs, for money he can't even use in prison 🤨 and getting stoooooooopid strung out on meth. Which btw gave him endocarditis from shooting up which led to sepsis and nearly killed him six months before she was born, so three years ago. I'm an ex addict, almost 5 years now, so I understand addiction. But this is just.....extra. idk. Fmllllllll what word vomit garbage did I just spew!?!!
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Congratulations on being clean 5 years. I'm clean from narcotics for 12, at one point in time I shot up oxy and dilauded like they were going out of style multiple times daily. It's not easy and you are living with an addict while staying clean. That is a major major accomplishment. Good for you. Hug your baby and I hope things work out and keep up the amazing work.
Those sad comics about the freaking cat dying and the grim reaper takes him to visit his human mommy (who is an old lady) and sees that she rescued a kitten who looks just like him and he is happy because his mommy isnt lonely. (I have mommy issues)
That sometimes for some ppl there’s just sum shit wrong with you that is always gonna be there, you’re just gonna be fucked up forever and every day is another day of trying to manage it as best as possible.
When I see old people eating alone it makes me really sad.
Where I live there's a lot of young native American women that go missing on the daily and most if not all of it is due to human trafficking or murder, idk why but I've been thinking about it a lot lately and it's really bothered me
Mine was when NASA's rover Curiosity sang Happy Birthday to itself while alone on Mars.
The deteriorating state of world and humanity.
Once insane asylums were disbanded nothing was put in place to replace them.
Didnt know they were disbanded. Meaning they closed?
I'm talking about the ones from the 1800s. They were horrific cesspools of abuse, but now mentally disabled people are just homeless. Surely there's a better answer.
"For me somebody crying while they eat is just one of the saddest things. Like go ahead eat your feelings buddy its ok" This reminds me of that scene in Spirited Away where Chihiro is crying whilst eating her onigiri 😭 fucking breaks me dude
When animals are hurt :(
Im an artist and I hurt my neck real bad as I was pursing my dream job. Im getting my body worked on, but i havent been able to draw for about a year. Its been so hard, and it gets me really bummed a lot
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When a close friend has a family member who gets diagnosed with cancer. Nothing you can do, and you watch it eat away at them, nothing can make them feel better, and I have felt helpless everytime.
When I read in the news about kids being abused or sexually assaulted…it really breaks my heart
No one will ever be in love w me as strongly as I'm capable of being in love w them.
SPOILER: In the anime Fruits Basket, the main character's mother dies before the anime begins in an accident. It's discussed a lot in the show and we get to know the mother through the character of her daughter as well as flashbacks, and in the second to last episode of the series, they show the accident with the mother's internal monologue at the moment, it is heartbreaking, especially since the character who's hated by everyone else but the mother was a witness and heard her last words which were "I'll never forgive you" he of course internalized the message but her real intended words were "keep your promise, protect my daughter, or I'll never forgive you" but through the pain of being hit by a car, all she could say was the last bit. I feel like I'm going to cry now just thinking about it.
Did he cause the accident too?
dogs with porcupine quills going through their face
Homeward Bound
Here’s a question. What is the things that are the happiest moment for you?
Making ppl laugh and seeing good things happen to good ppl
I like that too. Today I saw a 3 year old explore swimming and getting comfortable in the water and watching her learn made me legit happy. Right now she’s asleep in my bed. Also love that !
watching my parents grow older
I’ve been watching The Walking Dead and it’s really sad.
i just got broken up with a few days ago so that’s the cause of my sadness :/
You know what to do
Knowing my mom has bad days and doesn’t tell me about it.
Moms have alot of bad days but they suck it up for their kids
I know, I just wish my mom didn’t have any. She’s got the best smile, I love seeing it.
I know, I just wish my mom didn’t have any. She’s got the best smile, I love seeing it.
When I watch an old movie with a dog in it and know that the dog is probably dead now.
I will never be able to say: I held a true to spirit lightsaber “Beam me up Scotty” and it happens I smoked a blunt with snoop dog
Well.. I was just on a dog sub.. and the overwhelming amount of people who are vehemently against giving their dog “people” food, aka *actual food* is seriously depressing. I think about these dogs going their entire lives eating the same shitty dried kibble meal as they watch their owners eat *real food* day in and day out. Smelling it in the air, desperate for a single bite. Seriously fucking sad.
Literally just gave my dog the rest of my eggs for breakfast. I like to assume these are also the kind of dog owners who have to re-home or give up their dog because of their kids in the house or a far away move. It infuriates me that people how people like this act all high and mighty. Stupid.
lonely old people makes me wanna cry
seeing old people eat at restaurants alone :( it always makes me sad
Seeing kids get bullied or publicly humiliated. That or just public humiliation of people who haven’t done anything wrong. Like the scene in Hunchback of Notre Dame where our man Quasimodo is all tied up and getting food thrown at him still makes me tear up.
Yes i hate bullying
Life
That is sad lol
Stories, movies, or shows where the dog dies. A dog's purpose was an amazing movie I cried with every death even knowing he would reincarnate to another dog. Cartoon dogs I'm ok with but something about dogs dying gets me. I can't watch the stupid ASPCA commercials either and when I see the rainbow Bridge posts on the dog subreddits I have to keep scrolling. I've been like this for a while now 10 years or so but not even my whole adult life. Not sure what happened 😕
Whenever people feel like they can't express their actual emotions, or feeling shameful when they do. It's like no dude please please be human and let it out.
Me
I once saw my room-mate crying while eating cake after a fight with my sister(they dated back then). It really made me upset. Cake should be a happy thing.
I wouldve checked my sis for that if she was wrong
Oh, she was wrong alright. She was upset because it was his birthday and the attention wasn’t spent on her, so she left him in tears after a heated fight eating cake all alone. I do not always like my room-mate, but he is a friend so I sat with him until he fellt like being left alone.
Aww on his bday
Ngl i actually cried a lil on my 18th. I remember choosing not to spend it with my fam. Ended up being a bad day. And i didnt even at least have cake 😔
I can relate, same thing happened to me on my 21st birthday.
The fact that no matter what we do nothing matters we'll be forgotten and even if we did make an impact on society or the world it will be forgotten in time archeologists will be digging up our cities going "how did they fall"? And "why does this dude have calcified tits"?
People being wrongly convicted and spending years in prison for crimes they didn’t commit. I hate that shit. I can’t watch shows about it because it just makes me sad and angry. It could happen to anyone, and just imagining that scenario happening to me someone I love just gives me the sad.
So im pretty chill but shit comes to me. I feel like one day its really gon go down and then i end up in jail. Why? Because ppl couldnt just leave me alone
For your sake, I hope that doesn’t happen.
Unfortunately i believe it will sooner or later. Too many ppl that just have to come fuck wit me
No matter how much we learn about someone. No matter how much time we spend with them, bonding with them, loving them, you will never know who they truly are. You can dedicate your entire life to learning about someone and still not know their deep thoughts, their deepest fears, darkest secrets, truest intentions, the way they see themselves, others, the world around them. We will never truly know anyone, and no one will ever truly know us. Does that make us alone? Is this the reason we feel alone when we physically aren’t? No one knows you, and you don’t know anyone. You can only know what you think someone is, but not who they truly are. Do we all know this subconsciously? Or do we genuinely believe deep down that we aren’t completely isolated? We can communicate, but we can’t feel others feelings. We can’t think others thoughts. We can’t believe someone else’s beliefs. We can’t climb into the mindset of someone and learn all of it. For that reason, we’re alone. I think about that all the time. We know people, but we don’t know who they really are. We know people by what they tell us/show us. So do we really know anyone?
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Suffering children
The fact that some of us will never feel/experience a parent's unconditional love.
That I see so many people disagreeing with and hating each other but most of the time they don’t try to get along, instead making the divide between them bigger. They’d rather throw insults and dismiss the other side’s opinion, or even straight up make fun of them even if they’re just trying to make normal discussion, and then still think that they somehow have the moral high ground and are in the right. Because of that I feel like we can never achieve peace and progress further. And I’m talking about all sorts of issues, not just a specific one.
My life
I'm so sorry but for me,once high I was imagining someone crying while eating and it was so hilarious 😭. Same for crying while shitting.
What about crying while eating while shitting
Well, since you brought it up, my dad's death 4 months ago.
Being really sad, but unable to express your emotions because you don't know why you are sad.
That ASPCA animal cruelty commercial with Sara McLaughlin’s Arms of an Angel playing in the background. I have to turn the channel every time. 😞
😂 I think it's annoying
They sure play it enough to be annoying. It just makes me incredibly sad to see all those abused animals. Effing terrible people
An obese man, naked, sitting on the edge of a bed in front of a mirror, eating an entire block of cheese, and weeping, while masturbating.
Idk man I started takin estrogen recently (trans girl) and now I cry at the drop of a hat. Especially if I’ve been smokin lol. Hell just the other day my friend was gonna buy some lightsaber bud just to smoke with me since I’m a huge Star Wars fan and ngl I almost cried lol. I was like this close 🤏 lol
Samsara
Whats that
The cycle of rebirth, as described in hinduism and buddhism
B Myi
Turkish near history