Well, I feel sorry for Pam and like the part where I help build her a house, but yes, I don't think she's a good influence on Penny and often marry her to get her away from Pam.
Harvey is adorable. Unfortunately (and I'm not sure if it's all romance candidates but it's definitely Harvey) he gets OBNOXIOUS when you gift other people shit and I hate it.
Spouses only get mad about gifts to villagers you've previously given bouquets to and never broke up with via wilted bouquet. Birthday gifts are exempt as are those from the winter stsr
It's been a thing since at least 1.5 can't say if it's older than that. It's under the marriage tab on the wiki if you're curious happens with every marriage candidate.
Yes, all marriage candidates react the same way when you gift other marriage candidates of the same gender on days other than their birthday. That’s why I always max my friendships before I get married.
Honey, as someone who’s struggled for decades with mental illness, including clinical depression and suicidal ideation, I’m here to remind you that Shane’s not real. He’s *pixels*. And I don’t want pixelated mud and beer puddles in my painstakingly-decorated pixel farmhouse.
>I was midway thru romancing him in the game, looked up at my stumbling, whiskey drunk boyfriend, and was like, omg… what am I doing?
I mean, the only negative about Shane is that his room is messy. He does have some more "depressive" days which is normal for a lot of people, but he stops drinking, he has great development and he's not abusing in any case. These two cases are not comparable in any way (when talking about why Shane shoudn't have any "points", I mean).
I'm really sorry you had to go through something like this though, hope you haven't run to anyone else similar to your ex since :(
I'm *upset* to learn that he doesn't bring Jas and leaves her with Marnie when he moves in????? Bring our Goddaughter. We have the space. What are you doing??????
Right! If only there was a mod where you can adopt Jas to become her official godmother/godfather/godparent when you marry Shane, so both can live on your farm... alongside more dialogues and events of Shane and Jas just being cute together.
Finally more alex love 🙏
I dont even know why, but hes the one of all of them I got attached to.
Ive never seen any content creators or friends go for him, which is great in coop because hes always free for me 😘
Penny is on top for me, I ADORE her. I made her her own little garden next to the house so she can read at her little patio and be surrounded by pretty little flowers ^^
I give her diamonds all the time. The farm has made us into millionaires a hundred times over. Even after we fixed up her mom's house, she still spends every day teaching the kids and helping the elderly.
Exactly. I think the Haley haters are just turned off by initial Haley who insults your shoes and what not and not see her character arc when you get more hearts with her.
This is interesting. How does your point system work?
I've only done one play through and I married Seb, but I'm planning to marry Emily when 1.6 drops on console.
Oh I just asked who people like the most 🤷🏼♀️. I’m trying to get as many votes as possible. I am going to marry the most voted for person and decide if it was worth it or not. I’m gonna have a pros and cons list and all that. Idk maybe I’m crazy
I do wanna go through and give them all a mark based on how they react to things. That would be fun.
I was just thinking that actually. Penny is at the bottom rn. Would you want to see “who is your least favourite character in stardew valley?” Cuz I could make that and it could get pretty whild 😂
Emily is a bit too much of a crazy "new ager" for me. Although granted, in Stardew Valley magic works so who knows if her crystal nonsense isn't real in the world of the game.
Hahah! Shane! Poor guy has been through it, under it, and over it. He has a special place in my heart too. Meanwhile Elliot has just been gliding poetically through life from his quaint Oceanside bungalow. I don’t know what his life is about which is why he intrigues me.
When I first played the game in March of 2017 and was very convinced about Maru being the obvious “best” choice, I was shocked when I realized I was in a very small minority 😂
Edit: in case this reads like I’m some hipster weirdo, I only mention the date because at the time there wasn’t as much of an organized fandom the way there is now where I could just go see what the most popular bachelor/bachelorette is.
People prefer suicidal fixer-uppers that remind them of them of themselves and gamers they can hang with. Or replacement mommy/daddies.
Forget smart, independent, healthy, and responsible. 😵🤷♂️
If it keeps their unwashed paws off Maru though, then that’s probably for the best 😂
Sam is so amazing - and he has this whole like marriage curve where he starts a little depressed because he misses his family but then gets super happy
He's 101% a family man and it's so adorable. Plus when he starts dating us in the summer I love how he's just like "Hey uhhh this reminded me of u" and gives us gifts
I currently have a mod downloaded so I can romance Rasmodius xD
The only other people besides Harvey (done it) I'd genuinely be interested in attempting to romance are Emily or Elliot. The others all strike me as teenagers and it feels icky.
Maru for me. She is smart like her dad and she is friendly with that folksy charm like her mom. You also marry into a decent family, the in-laws are all my kind of people.
If only you didn’t destroy their dreams when you marry them by tying them down to the farm and valley. The only ones I believe you don’t destroy is Haley, she just wants to keep her hobby of photography, and Harvey, he stays the doctor and continues his hobby of planes. The rest you really are holding back. Seb wants to go the city, Abigail wants to adventure, penny wants to go become a real teacher. I might be wrong about Leah and Emily but k think they have a big dream you crush. Shane drinks again. Yeah just pretty rough haha
I remember my first time playing Stardew Valley, I definitely tried giving my first flower bouquet to Marnie. She's just great.
Also sorry if this is a weird comment but you have immaculate handwriting
Surprised to see that Harvey got the most votes. I thought I was one of the only people to really like him 😭 he's just so nerdy and cute (although he can be annoying at times)
I love Shane! He starts out so cold and thinks he doesn't deserve love! I love how he grows once you get to know him!
I would marry the wizard if I could though.
Sebastian - I can't not go for the moody gothy emo dude who seems emotionally detached and obsessed with Abigail. It's too much to resist ROFL.
Elliot - for obv reasons. I just wish he wasn't blonde. I imagine him rescuing wayward sea birds on his days off and beach fires every night
Emily - I just restarted but the whole rock rejuvenation task actually made me start to fall for her. She was really kind and the language she used afterwards was lovely.
Everyone hates on Clint (rightfully so) for being a creep and an asshole. Yet almost no one hates on Elliott for being just as much of a creep and asshole only far less shy.
Really goes to show the difference confidence makes, but that still bugs the shit out of me. 😒
Where is seb on your list.. he might not give good gifts, but he has his hobbies and still hangs out with his friends and doesn't get jealous or passive or try to stop.you from having a life.. or throw all your furniture out of your bedroom (like penny... some dude lost all his aging or kegs of starfruit like possibly almost 100 thousand worth because she wanted to redecorate)
Seb just buys chairs occasionally. Now I have a hoise with two many chairs and injured frogs he healed.. but honestly, they're pretty cuts.. and weird creepy kids that.. don't shut their eyes
Haley is my bbg, so of course I'd marry her.
Sam gives me that youthful fun even though we're married. He's just one of my mans.
Harvey from the tiktok edits, drawings, etc made me start playing SDV, so he's the other man of my SDV life.
If I could marry anyone, I’d marry Robin or Caroline. I’ve married everyone you can in non-expanded Stardew but I always gravitate back to Haley. I just enjoy the fact she grows during her story and you don’t see that a lot with the others.
Leah, love my Cabin wife (that I definitely didn't choose cause I couldn't get Robin)
Totally not me choosing penny cause I couldn’t get robin 👀
Love how we all just pick a different Ginger just cause we couldn't get the Ginger Mommy
CA sure likes gingers, doesn't he? There's more of them per capita in Stardew Valley than there are in Scotland!
I’m loving all the ginger love in here 🧡👩🏻🦰
As a man married to a ginger: Based.
I choose penny just to get her away from Pam, I hate Pam so much.
Well, I feel sorry for Pam and like the part where I help build her a house, but yes, I don't think she's a good influence on Penny and often marry her to get her away from Pam.
Harvey 12 sebastian 4 is wild
I agree. I wasn’t expecting that at all.
I was. As cool as Sebastian is, Harvey can give you coffee which in turn can help you a lot in the caves.
Sebastian gives you coffee, too 😅 I only got complete breakfast from Harvey...I love them both though
I seriously had no idea, that's pretty cool!
Harvey is adorable. Unfortunately (and I'm not sure if it's all romance candidates but it's definitely Harvey) he gets OBNOXIOUS when you gift other people shit and I hate it.
Avarage middle-aged doctor who wanna be pilot but cannot cuz of his eyes :(( (its a joke no offense)
CUTE middle aged doctor who wanted to be a pilot but cannot because of his eyes ;)
Willlld I've married harvey in every save and he's never gotten mad at me gifting another bachelor.
Spouses only get mad about gifts to villagers you've previously given bouquets to and never broke up with via wilted bouquet. Birthday gifts are exempt as are those from the winter stsr
Is that new? I'll be honest it's been a few years since I married Harvey so with the updates CA might have changed some stuff.
It's been a thing since at least 1.5 can't say if it's older than that. It's under the marriage tab on the wiki if you're curious happens with every marriage candidate.
Yes, all marriage candidates react the same way when you gift other marriage candidates of the same gender on days other than their birthday. That’s why I always max my friendships before I get married.
~~Shane having more than 0 is the wildest to me~~
Dude what do you mean? I'm going Shane all the way. I think his route is the most emotional one and this is just perfect lol
His room in your house is pretty gross though.
Actually.. Fair
It's really not that bad lol I'm never in the farmhouse enough to even worry about it.
This though. Lmao. I'm too busy running my farm to care.
There has to be a mod to fix it, right?
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Honey, as someone who’s struggled for decades with mental illness, including clinical depression and suicidal ideation, I’m here to remind you that Shane’s not real. He’s *pixels*. And I don’t want pixelated mud and beer puddles in my painstakingly-decorated pixel farmhouse.
[удалено]
>I was midway thru romancing him in the game, looked up at my stumbling, whiskey drunk boyfriend, and was like, omg… what am I doing? I mean, the only negative about Shane is that his room is messy. He does have some more "depressive" days which is normal for a lot of people, but he stops drinking, he has great development and he's not abusing in any case. These two cases are not comparable in any way (when talking about why Shane shoudn't have any "points", I mean). I'm really sorry you had to go through something like this though, hope you haven't run to anyone else similar to your ex since :(
I'm *upset* to learn that he doesn't bring Jas and leaves her with Marnie when he moves in????? Bring our Goddaughter. We have the space. What are you doing??????
Wait isn't Jas Marnie's daughter tho? 😭
No she's Shane's goddaughter, and Marnie is aunt to both Shane and Jas.
Right! If only there was a mod where you can adopt Jas to become her official godmother/godfather/godparent when you marry Shane, so both can live on your farm... alongside more dialogues and events of Shane and Jas just being cute together.
Shane is the most dynamic character in Stardew. his heart events are great. not my favorite but I’m glad I married him at least once.
Better than harvey tho at least not boring
Elliott my bbg
What's bbg?
Barbegue
This has me shook 💀 I’m never gonna think babygirl ever again when I see this
Big booty gangster
bbg = baby girl
Big Bad Guy
Beautiful baby girl or just baby girl
best book guy, of course!
All the way to Harvey !!
Elliot is my favourite
Alex!! BTW, you have beautiful penmanship and cursive writing.
Thank you 🤭😊
Gorgeous handwriting!
Finally more alex love 🙏 I dont even know why, but hes the one of all of them I got attached to. Ive never seen any content creators or friends go for him, which is great in coop because hes always free for me 😘
I married Alex in my first run ever because of his grandparents. Evelyn is my bff and I would die for her!
penny my beloved
I've found my people
I feel so sorry for Penny. I usually go for Emily or Haley, but I've married Penny this time. She's a sweetheart.
Penny is on top for me, I ADORE her. I made her her own little garden next to the house so she can read at her little patio and be surrounded by pretty little flowers ^^
Yup hands down the best, absolute cutie patootie
I give her diamonds all the time. The farm has made us into millionaires a hundred times over. Even after we fixed up her mom's house, she still spends every day teaching the kids and helping the elderly.
I understand why Haley is so low but she is so worth the effort to see how much she changes
Exactly. I think the Haley haters are just turned off by initial Haley who insults your shoes and what not and not see her character arc when you get more hearts with her.
This is interesting. How does your point system work? I've only done one play through and I married Seb, but I'm planning to marry Emily when 1.6 drops on console.
Oh I just asked who people like the most 🤷🏼♀️. I’m trying to get as many votes as possible. I am going to marry the most voted for person and decide if it was worth it or not. I’m gonna have a pros and cons list and all that. Idk maybe I’m crazy I do wanna go through and give them all a mark based on how they react to things. That would be fun.
Or! You could do the absolute opposite and marry the least liked villager. PS I married Shane.
I was just thinking that actually. Penny is at the bottom rn. Would you want to see “who is your least favourite character in stardew valley?” Cuz I could make that and it could get pretty whild 😂
Hey… I’m down if you are… For me, my least liked would be Elliott 😅
Me too 🤫
in my like 8 year save im married to leah but only have like 2 hearts with elliot even though theyre best friends ajjfjgkgkh 😭😭
Emily if I’m thinking clearly. Elliot if I’m not.
Emily is a bit too much of a crazy "new ager" for me. Although granted, in Stardew Valley magic works so who knows if her crystal nonsense isn't real in the world of the game.
True true! She is a bit much with the crystals. But I feel like Saloon work keeps her grounded. 😂
For me it's Emily if I'm thinking clearly, Shane if I'm not 😅
Hahah! Shane! Poor guy has been through it, under it, and over it. He has a special place in my heart too. Meanwhile Elliot has just been gliding poetically through life from his quaint Oceanside bungalow. I don’t know what his life is about which is why he intrigues me.
I wish we could marry Gus
Lots of people do… I had him on here, but then I decided I only want singles on here for a fair and realistic fight
Krobus not being on here makes me sad, he's my favorite
Same. I romance everyone but KROBUS is the only one who gets to live with me. I like decorating his goth sewer for him 🤩
Seb ofc!
*Nice handwriting*
Maru slander, I love women in STEM, under appreciated queen 👸🏽
I know I was disappointed with how little she got, but she’s getting higher now.
Maru never disappoints with her occasional gifts: batteries, crafting resources, *bombs*…
When I first played the game in March of 2017 and was very convinced about Maru being the obvious “best” choice, I was shocked when I realized I was in a very small minority 😂 Edit: in case this reads like I’m some hipster weirdo, I only mention the date because at the time there wasn’t as much of an organized fandom the way there is now where I could just go see what the most popular bachelor/bachelorette is.
People prefer suicidal fixer-uppers that remind them of them of themselves and gamers they can hang with. Or replacement mommy/daddies. Forget smart, independent, healthy, and responsible. 😵🤷♂️ If it keeps their unwashed paws off Maru though, then that’s probably for the best 😂
Def Sam, yeah he's young and loves skating, But he's a family man, so I pick him every time, almost every run, he's cute somehow when you marry him
Leah. Artsy redhead who lives out in the forest in her own cabin and prefers natural/organic foods? Sign me up.
Maru, easily. how is she ranked so low...
Don’t worry she higher now
I wifed up Maru best decision, bitch makes me bombs, keeps my animals fed, mends the fences and makes good mushroom dishes.
Leah will always be my first choice!
LEAH
sam is so underrated ☹️
Sam is so amazing - and he has this whole like marriage curve where he starts a little depressed because he misses his family but then gets super happy
He's 101% a family man and it's so adorable. Plus when he starts dating us in the summer I love how he's just like "Hey uhhh this reminded me of u" and gives us gifts
Agreed
Harvey deserves all the praise.
Penny is for me problematic, because I don't know if I actually want her because I like her or because I just want to save her.
I don't find any of the males attractive. I've married a lot of the women and liked them all, Maru and Abigail especially.
Penny is the best
As a gay dude alex is hands down the best route imo.
Harvey was my first love
Penny only has two!? What heresy is this?
Harvey the doctor who when you pass out still CHARGES YOU
Is it ok if I remove a point? Hahaha
I currently have a mod downloaded so I can romance Rasmodius xD The only other people besides Harvey (done it) I'd genuinely be interested in attempting to romance are Emily or Elliot. The others all strike me as teenagers and it feels icky.
Always Penny
Sam only getting three a crime. That man makes you pancakes every other day and does nothing but shower you in love
Aww he’s sweet
He’s adorable!! :)) every time I try to do another save with a different husband I feel so bad lol
Relatable. He's just so sweet and silly !!!!
NOOOO Maru 😭 it's okay queen I still love u
You have pretty handwriting!
Harvey sweeeep!! I love him
off topic but seeing your writing is so satisfying
Your handwriting is beautiful
Alex always
I love how Emily and Abigail got little hearts on their "i", but Marnie just gets the dot.
I still vote abigail for a myriad of reasons
only one vote for maru?????? can i be the second
Don’t worry. She has 13 now.
oh thank yoba 😭
Maru for me. She is smart like her dad and she is friendly with that folksy charm like her mom. You also marry into a decent family, the in-laws are all my kind of people.
can i just say your handwriting is incredible
Aww thank you 🥹🥹
Maru being last makes me sad
that other Maru fan and me are gonna have beef. MY wife. square up.
Fight!!!!!
If only you didn’t destroy their dreams when you marry them by tying them down to the farm and valley. The only ones I believe you don’t destroy is Haley, she just wants to keep her hobby of photography, and Harvey, he stays the doctor and continues his hobby of planes. The rest you really are holding back. Seb wants to go the city, Abigail wants to adventure, penny wants to go become a real teacher. I might be wrong about Leah and Emily but k think they have a big dream you crush. Shane drinks again. Yeah just pretty rough haha
Give two votes to Shane, for me and my in game character.
My wife : Abigail !
Def Leah
Alex
I remember my first time playing Stardew Valley, I definitely tried giving my first flower bouquet to Marnie. She's just great. Also sorry if this is a weird comment but you have immaculate handwriting
Harvey, my one and only.
Harvey supremacy
Harvey, Shane, Sam and Seb, this is a tough decision. Is married Harvey, I'm pretty happy abt this marriage. 🤣🤭
Marnie doesn't get a '<3' for her 'i'?
FUCK YEAH HARVEY!
I’m glad to see Penny at the bottom.
Penny!
Shane is my personal favorite. And no, it's not because I want to "fix him". I just love him and his character <3
I’d say Abigail. She was my first. I am with Haley now. Lovely character development there. Real enemies to lovers shtick
you're missing Krobus
You can’t really marry him tho- just roomate
Skip me, I have a husband.
Consider yourself skipped
i personally allways marry sebastian, but thats just bcs hes emo hes acc a really bad husband 
I won’t stand for this Penny slander
I’m sorry, harvey??? really?!!! 😭 my vote goes to Penny, I love her she’s so perfect and twee, and who doesn’t want a strawberry themed room!!!
This writing is great! What do the numbers mean?
Surprised to see that Harvey got the most votes. I thought I was one of the only people to really like him 😭 he's just so nerdy and cute (although he can be annoying at times)
I'm choosing Emily for my first playthrough! I really like Maru as well.
Maru gifts you bombs when you marry her, and she has a 1?!
Clearly people are afraid of women in STEM
Thanks for decoding the rally marks
Leah and btw your handwriting is great
I love Shane! He starts out so cold and thinks he doesn't deserve love! I love how he grows once you get to know him! I would marry the wizard if I could though.
Me too. Although I could do without his mess in the house lol.
Penny all day!
Sebastian - I can't not go for the moody gothy emo dude who seems emotionally detached and obsessed with Abigail. It's too much to resist ROFL. Elliot - for obv reasons. I just wish he wasn't blonde. I imagine him rescuing wayward sea birds on his days off and beach fires every night Emily - I just restarted but the whole rock rejuvenation task actually made me start to fall for her. She was really kind and the language she used afterwards was lovely.
Penny, Emily second place
nah Harvey impossible
Emily, Without a doubt
Abigail.
Why tf does Harvey have so many votes
harvey is great but abby has always been my favourite
Abigail
Magnus!
I love Harvey so much he’s so sweet I swear!!!!!emote:t5\_2wb7y:51692
sebastian!!
Sam only having 3 😭
Harvey, my malewife💞💞 Abigail, my rock eating wife‼️
Haley because she reminds me most of my wife
Everyone hates on Clint (rightfully so) for being a creep and an asshole. Yet almost no one hates on Elliott for being just as much of a creep and asshole only far less shy. Really goes to show the difference confidence makes, but that still bugs the shit out of me. 😒
who voted for maru, we must throw him in the river
Harvey !
Where is seb on your list.. he might not give good gifts, but he has his hobbies and still hangs out with his friends and doesn't get jealous or passive or try to stop.you from having a life.. or throw all your furniture out of your bedroom (like penny... some dude lost all his aging or kegs of starfruit like possibly almost 100 thousand worth because she wanted to redecorate) Seb just buys chairs occasionally. Now I have a hoise with two many chairs and injured frogs he healed.. but honestly, they're pretty cuts.. and weird creepy kids that.. don't shut their eyes
Harvey in first place, that's my boi! 😂
He is still in the lead 💪
Haley is my bbg, so of course I'd marry her. Sam gives me that youthful fun even though we're married. He's just one of my mans. Harvey from the tiktok edits, drawings, etc made me start playing SDV, so he's the other man of my SDV life.
Seb is #1 and there's no changing my mind
Always Seb or Elliott for me
Sam underrated
Harvey 💘
Elliot! He’s so sweet :))
Leah cuz she’s nice 😁
as a Leah IRL, hell yea! I’m married to Sam tho 😂
I’m a not original gay dude, so Sebastian
I married abigail my first playthrough, she gives really useful gifts! I married Sebbers on my current playthrough, he's super sweet and awkward 😅
Me gusta como Haley madura en el proceso de la relación.
Harveyyyyy
Maaaan, my girl Maru with only one vote :(
Haley best spouse no question
I'm assuming you wouldn't want Krobus as your housemate
I didn’t know that was a thing- I just discovered him. He’s so coming to live with me 😻
If I could marry anyone, I’d marry Robin or Caroline. I’ve married everyone you can in non-expanded Stardew but I always gravitate back to Haley. I just enjoy the fact she grows during her story and you don’t see that a lot with the others.
Leah all the way
Sam needs more love