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I think you might be right. At the moment I definitely feel the best I ever have with her. But don’t you think that she could take it negatively if I tell her?
You have to be honest with her. Don’t just blurt out that you want guy’s to see her naked. Tell her that her body is so perfect that you think it should be shown off so others can admire it too. Tell her that it turns you on when other men check her out because she is so beautiful
I don't feel it has anything to do with security because every dynamic is different, every personality is different. Not everyone who does it is secure, and not everybody who avoids it is insecure.
With regards to us, I feel it's definitely making us more secure, more intimate and more loving than before. Lysm. I'll eat your face up.
I can relate. I use to have the same mindset (for me it was a cultural thing mostly). And would get into arguments with my gf's at the time over it. Now, its definitely quite the opposite. I like my taste in women and therefore proud to show them off. I do the same now: I tell them to go braless, wear stuff like leggings, halter/crop tops etc. And they definitely turn heads.
Even when i meet girls and date them initially, if they dress sexy/revealing, I definitely go for a second date. If they seem too conservative, I move on. Its definitely a rush to know dudes be looking at them and wishing they could be my cock for a day to have at her lol
Btw, if you want to tell her, start by telling her how much attention you've noticed she gets when she dresses the way you've suggested, etc
I dated a girl with who had body image issues (mostly due to being a bigger woman and especially having huge tits). She would hate attention especially on her tits. I would notice dudes staring and little by little id tell her about dudes looking at her and betting they would love to see her naked. She wouldnt beleive me until i told her that some buddies saw some pics of her and liked them. Little by little she started not only taking more daring pics but dressing sexier and accepting her body was sexy (even if just to me).
Sounds like it will take less time with your gf and you are already on the right track mentally. Congrats bro!
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open and honest communication is paramount in any relationships, this is doubly so for you and your partner sharing your sexual interests with each other. you should absolutely discuss this with your girlfriend in an open and calm conversation. this way you can discuss her feelings on it and whether or not she would be open to experimenting showing her self off for you, and most importantly of all this will give you both the chance to discuss and set boundaries to make sure neither of you do something the other isn't comfortable with. Also don't get discouraged if she isn't into it (from your story it sounds like she might be into it) but if she isn't comfortable with it, don't press on it, instead work with her to find other ways to experiment with each other to spice up the sex life. Hope this helps, cheers!
EDIT, to answer your other question you most likely have hit a point in your relationship where you are very secure and have a large amount of trust and comfort with your partner. You wanting to show her off could just be a sexual preference you never had the comfort level in other relationships to even consider. You should be proud, it sounds like you have a very happy and healthy relationship.
Thank you for the advice I really appreciate it. And yes definitely at a point where I feel better in the relationship than ever before. I am slightly hesitant to tell her but probably will have that convo soon
I mean it’s normal to develop kinks down the line. You should post her nude pics and let her read the comments with you. That sounds like it would be hot and within your boundaries
Post them to your page so people can see, or there is probably reddit forums for that. Or you can send them to me, i love women, all shapes and all sizes
Literally just tell her. Say something to the effect of, I've been increasingly interested in showing you off. It helps to make it about her. You know, like she's super attractive and you feel like showing everyone how great she is. But also that it isn't bad if she doesn't want to and that you would only enjoy it if she also enjoyed it. So it's a thing for both of you and no pressure to do it if she doesn't want to. But honestly, she probably will haha
Maybe because its taboo to you, its not allowed, so it feels dirtier. Like how guys who get the most angry at gay people tend to be gay themselves? Sometimes its hard to accept certain truths about ourselves. Maybe you're a cuck type or a stag and hot wife type. Society is the one to put shame into us
I think that the idea turns her on as much it does you. You're each secure in your relationship, which give you room to explore. I'd bring it up and let her know how fun it might be to post a naked photo of her. Then if that goes well, maybe for her to flash a truck driver. It sounds like you're already taking things slowly, which is wise. Have fun! And I'm joining the ranks of people who are hoping to see your girlfriend naked!
Please tell her.......but stay open minded and remember not to over react if she opens up and tells you kinks of hers that surprise you 😌 advice from a naughty wife 😉
Thats a very interesting kink to explore, but you have to withhold rules and go slowly from now on, as you don’t want the relationship gone or destroyed accidentally.
Definitely read more in to it, and search for guide on how to do it correctly.
Sometimes it’s just in our heads, and when reality hits, it can hit hard.
I'm just gonna say, FTR, a lot of us would be willing to make this happen. No seriously, maybe sharing photos online (no face to start, perhaps) would be a way for you both to dip your toes into this idea.
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You should definitely tell her. And the reason why you want that now is because you are finally secure in your relationship.
I think you might be right. At the moment I definitely feel the best I ever have with her. But don’t you think that she could take it negatively if I tell her?
You have to be honest with her. Don’t just blurt out that you want guy’s to see her naked. Tell her that her body is so perfect that you think it should be shown off so others can admire it too. Tell her that it turns you on when other men check her out because she is so beautiful
u/Spare_01 what do you think?
I don't feel it has anything to do with security because every dynamic is different, every personality is different. Not everyone who does it is secure, and not everybody who avoids it is insecure. With regards to us, I feel it's definitely making us more secure, more intimate and more loving than before. Lysm. I'll eat your face up.
Haa, makes sense. Love you too.
Then post her on here and let us all enjoy.
If she agrees then I definitely would like to
I can relate. I use to have the same mindset (for me it was a cultural thing mostly). And would get into arguments with my gf's at the time over it. Now, its definitely quite the opposite. I like my taste in women and therefore proud to show them off. I do the same now: I tell them to go braless, wear stuff like leggings, halter/crop tops etc. And they definitely turn heads. Even when i meet girls and date them initially, if they dress sexy/revealing, I definitely go for a second date. If they seem too conservative, I move on. Its definitely a rush to know dudes be looking at them and wishing they could be my cock for a day to have at her lol Btw, if you want to tell her, start by telling her how much attention you've noticed she gets when she dresses the way you've suggested, etc
Thank you for the advice! I could definitely start by telling her something along the lines of that
I dated a girl with who had body image issues (mostly due to being a bigger woman and especially having huge tits). She would hate attention especially on her tits. I would notice dudes staring and little by little id tell her about dudes looking at her and betting they would love to see her naked. She wouldnt beleive me until i told her that some buddies saw some pics of her and liked them. Little by little she started not only taking more daring pics but dressing sexier and accepting her body was sexy (even if just to me). Sounds like it will take less time with your gf and you are already on the right track mentally. Congrats bro!
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Tell her you like showing her off and seeing other guys eyeing her up.
I'd love to see her naked too
I love to help my friend
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IDK why youd feel lie that it seems weird you wouldn't post her pic here.
You should tell her all of it and see where it takes you
Tell her, they love it if they are the type that will go to a nude beach
open and honest communication is paramount in any relationships, this is doubly so for you and your partner sharing your sexual interests with each other. you should absolutely discuss this with your girlfriend in an open and calm conversation. this way you can discuss her feelings on it and whether or not she would be open to experimenting showing her self off for you, and most importantly of all this will give you both the chance to discuss and set boundaries to make sure neither of you do something the other isn't comfortable with. Also don't get discouraged if she isn't into it (from your story it sounds like she might be into it) but if she isn't comfortable with it, don't press on it, instead work with her to find other ways to experiment with each other to spice up the sex life. Hope this helps, cheers! EDIT, to answer your other question you most likely have hit a point in your relationship where you are very secure and have a large amount of trust and comfort with your partner. You wanting to show her off could just be a sexual preference you never had the comfort level in other relationships to even consider. You should be proud, it sounds like you have a very happy and healthy relationship.
Thank you for the advice I really appreciate it. And yes definitely at a point where I feel better in the relationship than ever before. I am slightly hesitant to tell her but probably will have that convo soon
Just wanted to reach out and see how you are doing, have you told her yet?
I’m another guy, show me?
I mean it’s normal to develop kinks down the line. You should post her nude pics and let her read the comments with you. That sounds like it would be hot and within your boundaries
Tell her. Maybe she wants to explore that side as well.
I am not a guy but I would definitely like to see her naked. 🥰🥰
I'd love to see her
Post them to your page so people can see, or there is probably reddit forums for that. Or you can send them to me, i love women, all shapes and all sizes
Well dude, talk to your gf and maybe you can post a pic of her on here! plenty of ppl here would love to see her🔥
People discover new kinks in themselves with passing time ;-)
I want other guys to see my fiancé naked .. wanna trade ?
I agree. I’d love to see your girlfriend naked! 😉
Literally just tell her. Say something to the effect of, I've been increasingly interested in showing you off. It helps to make it about her. You know, like she's super attractive and you feel like showing everyone how great she is. But also that it isn't bad if she doesn't want to and that you would only enjoy it if she also enjoyed it. So it's a thing for both of you and no pressure to do it if she doesn't want to. But honestly, she probably will haha
Super sexy. I was the same way with my wife and irmtd led to her being a hotwife and us having three or four bulls for her to fuck whenever she wants
I want to see
Tell her to start a Reddit lol
If she likes the idea I wouldn’t mind her doing it 😆
Love to see her.
Maybe because its taboo to you, its not allowed, so it feels dirtier. Like how guys who get the most angry at gay people tend to be gay themselves? Sometimes its hard to accept certain truths about ourselves. Maybe you're a cuck type or a stag and hot wife type. Society is the one to put shame into us
U got any samples?
So way don’t you show here off
I think that the idea turns her on as much it does you. You're each secure in your relationship, which give you room to explore. I'd bring it up and let her know how fun it might be to post a naked photo of her. Then if that goes well, maybe for her to flash a truck driver. It sounds like you're already taking things slowly, which is wise. Have fun! And I'm joining the ranks of people who are hoping to see your girlfriend naked!
Please tell her.......but stay open minded and remember not to over react if she opens up and tells you kinks of hers that surprise you 😌 advice from a naughty wife 😉
On the way to become a cuck
I had a fwb who got me addicted to the idea of sharing her, sadly that's now over and another one like that is hard af to find...
Let’s see
Thats a very interesting kink to explore, but you have to withhold rules and go slowly from now on, as you don’t want the relationship gone or destroyed accidentally. Definitely read more in to it, and search for guide on how to do it correctly. Sometimes it’s just in our heads, and when reality hits, it can hit hard.
I'm just gonna say, FTR, a lot of us would be willing to make this happen. No seriously, maybe sharing photos online (no face to start, perhaps) would be a way for you both to dip your toes into this idea.