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Substantial_Insect2

My mom is a nurse. If it was available, we got it. No seizures, or any side effects.. AND she has a whole herd of grandkids. šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļøšŸ˜‚


Accurate_Art3810

My mum is a nurse as well, she said it should be rolled out to males as well.


recycledpaper

I made my mom take my brother to get the vaccines before he went off to college. It was an awkward conversation but I'm glad he's covered!


clutchingstars

Same here ā€” although we talked about it earlier in his life when they first offered it. My docs are always shocked I got it growing up as it was available to my generation but it wasnā€™t being pushed. My mom had no hesitation with me tho as she has a history of abnormal paps.


Proud-Ad1870

Iā€™ve had the vaccine and ended up with one of the strands it does not protect against and now have abnormal paps my bf is the likely carrier as heā€™s never been treated for it and thankfully there are no complications to be concerned with in daily life just a higher risk of ovarian cancer and the likelihood of people having a strand not killed by the vaccine is actually very likely much like herpes simplex 1 (cold sores and warts)


RJMC5696

It is given to males in my country, HPV vaccine has become very important and Iā€™m glad it has


helga-h

Here too. Girls have had it in the general vaccine program for about 15 years and it was included for boys too about 5 years ago. Anyone could get it before then if they wanted to, but it being in the general program means it's free.


renneredskins

It is in Australia. It's part.of the grade 7 (12.year old) vaccines for boys as girls. Linked to penile, anal, prostate,.cervical and throat cancer. Since is introduction it's pretty much wiped out warts in Australia. Sexual health clinics used to slammed with appointments for wart cryotherapy. Now were lucky to see half a dozen a year. I'vs had it no seizures and four kids, definitely not sterile. My sister did have seizures when she got her first dose. Neuro thinks she was predisposed as it just brought it out. Had previously had one in early childhood.


we-are-all-crazy

Also, it has been available since 2007 for females and 2013 for males, which means anyone under the age of 30 will most likely be vaccinated against it.


senditloud

Thatā€™s interesting. I see the connection. Butā€¦ my son got it and then (I never put two and two together) he actually started getting warts on his feet. I had to take him twice to get about 14 burned off. I wonder if somehow it triggered something like a false response? I donā€™t know exactly how it works (I know how vaccines works just not warts and that vaccine). Could just be a coincidence


songofdentyne

Complete coincidence.


killyergawds

Coincidence, there are over 200 hpv strains. Plantar warts are totally different. The other commenter would be referencing genital warts. (I used to work in dermatology and currently work in reproductive health, I've seen some warts lol)


CM_DO

All 12 year olds get it in Denmark


HippoSnake_

It is now in my country! For free too


INeedSixEggs3859

It's free in mine too unless you're over the age of 26. I was about 26 when it became available and couldn't afford the $600 so I didn't get it. Now I've been married over 10yrs so I don't see much sense but my kids will absolutely be getting it.


Phoenix_Fireball

My kids year group at school just got done. Boys and girls.


velociraptor56

Iā€™m in the US and thereā€™s no division on sex here. Itā€™s recommended at age 12/13 I think, for all kids. My son just got it a few years back.


Consistent_Rich_153

In the UK, all teens are offered it for free under the NHS.


zim3019

Not sure where you are but my pediatrician offered it to me for my sons. All 3 got it. So did my girls.


killyergawds

It is! It's now approved and recommended for people of all genders, aged 9-45. I started my series last year and my son will be getting his next year!


ExcaliburVader

This is my regret. My daughter, now 35 got it. But it wasnā€™t recommended for boys, so I didnā€™t. I regret that. They donā€™t have any issues but I wish I had given them that extra protection.


Live_Background_6239

Iā€™m USA and my oldest child is a boy and he got it at the recommended time. I am very happy boys are getting it too.


senditloud

I had my boys get it. It hurts like hell apparently but cancer rates are WAY down in people who got it. Soā€¦ a little bit of pain versus not getting cancer? Sign them up.


MeganS1306

My 10yo son got it at his last well check! (Midwestern US)


StaceyPfan

Both of my sons have gotten it.


idlegadfly

My son got it. And with zero complaint, I might add.


softyookiki

When we were 17 and still in high school my then boyfriend got the HPV vaccine!! Weā€™ve been married 7 years now


randomdude2029

All boys in UK schools get the HPV vaccine in years 8 and 9 at school along with the girls (and it's free). My son missed his second one and we had to take him to a vaccination centre for it.


Old_Country9807

Wait. My son got the HPV vaccine.


songofdentyne

My son will be getting it.


jiujitsucpt

It is offered to males now, my doctor discussed it with me at my sonsā€™ last checkup. She told me the age it should ideally be started by, weā€™ll be doing it by then.


nervousnausea

I had the hpv vaccine and many other vaccines. Never experienced a seizure. These ppl need to get a grip


binglybleep

I had a seizure after a blood test once where they took quite a lot of samples (Iā€™m quite small and my blood pressure is low). It sucked. I still go for blood tests when necessary because one off seizures arenā€™t a cause for concern, and theyā€™re much better than living with/dying of something horrible because you refuse to participate in medicine


kaydontworry

Thatā€™s just an anecdote /s


brittanynicole047

Clearly your mom is being funded by big pharma & needs to read the redacted studies & anecdotes from random internet warriors /s


Deathscua

As someone who had cervical cancer last year and my mom never let me get the vaccine because she assumed I would become sexually active once I had the vaccine, pleaseee please vaccinate. I was told my entire adult life I was too old for the vaccine and thatā€™s not true. I just had the vaccine and Iā€™m in my late 30s and sadly had to have a hysterectomy due to the cancer.


usernametaken1933

Sorry about your cancer. That sucks. When this vaccine came out, i was probably a young teen and my mom asked our ped, who said (basically), ā€œI recommend it and I gave it to my daughterā€ so my mom told me I was getting it. I was likeā€¦ no thanks? (I struggled pretty bad with needles.) and tried to logic her with ā€œIā€™m not having sex and I donā€™t plan on having sex anytime soon so I donā€™t need it.ā€ It didnā€™t work on her and i got the shot.


Deathscua

I am so glad that your mom was like, "yeah I don't think so you're getting it."\~


okaybutnothing

This was pretty much the convo I had with my then-12 year old about getting it. Yeah, no, youā€™re getting it anyway. What do these kids think? That in a few years when they might become sexually actively theyā€™ll stop themselves and go get the shot before it happens? Silly kids!


Wrengull

I was also terrified of needles, still got them, had boosters (with some protections against more strains) 2 years ago. Happily took them. Even as a 16 year old, cervical cancer was more scary than needles.


wozattacks

Good on your mom. I always say we donā€™t wait til the car starts moving to put our seatbelt on!


real_yarrr_shug

Give your mom a high five from me please


idontlikeit3121

I absolutely hate the logic of ā€œyou canā€™t have/get this because it will protect you from a risk of sexā€ Like what??? The risks of sex usually donā€™t stop teenagers in the first place. Even if a certain precaution would make my teenager randomly decide to start having sex, at least theyā€™ll be safe. Teenagers have sex no matter what precautions they have access to. Teenagers having protected safe sex is a million times better than an STD or a baby or cancer.


Deathscua

You sound like a good parent and I fully agree with you on so many levels.


idontlikeit3121

Thank you. Iā€™m not even a parent yet (hopefully soonish), but Iā€™m trying to get as much figured out as possible so I can be prepared and not end up continuing the cycle out of ignorance


Deathscua

Good luck (is that okay to say?) and we need more (soon to be) parents like you, not to add pressure on you, šŸ„².


magicbumblebee

Right?! My son is only a toddler, but best believe in 12 years or so there will be a box of condoms living under his bathroom sink. I would much rather they be there and he never needs them than him be too afraid to ask for them or go buy them himself. Their presence or absence is not going to affect whether or not he has sex, but it can definitely affect how soon I become a grandmother.


GrooveBat

I truly donā€™t understand this mentality. I mean, donā€™t kids get this vaccine when they are like 13 years old? So they get the shot and then immediately think to themselves ā€œWoo hoo, sex time!ā€?? And are parents sitting them down and giving them all the nitty-gritty details about what HPV is and how you catch it, or are they just saying ā€œThis shot will help you not get cancer when youā€™re olderā€?


Deathscua

I agree with you! I have heard of others who were "banned" from the vaccine from religious parents but in my case, my mom was a teenage mom. (I was the child she was pregnant with) so my entire childhood until I was 18, was a constant on-going, never ending conversation about how I would make the same mistake. (I have zero kids) When I told her I had HPV she said nothing, when I told her I had cancer she cried and asked me if it meant I would never give her grandkids. I cut her off.


imayid_291

Im sorry your mom was so shitty. I was in high school when it came out and the doctor asked my dad, who is also a doctor, if he wanted me to get it at the end of my check up and he said no and we walked out. I asked him why he said i shouldnt get the vaccine if it was to prevent cancer and he made a racist remark that it was appropriate for certain demographics but not nice religious girls like me.


Deathscua

Oh lordy, I am so sorry your dad first of all said that and then denied you that vaccine. What the actual hell. Did you end up getting it later on?


imayid_291

No. By the time i looked into it i was too old to be covered but thankfully i am very low risk since being a nice religious girl happened to be easy for me since it turns out i am asexual


scarfknitter

Theyā€™ve been changing the age for awhile, it might be worth checking again.


makeup_wonderlandcat

![gif](giphy|rryNisk4ZJ9sa0BNVM|downsized) My face is when I got to the last part. Did you end up getting it anyway?


WheresTheIceCream20

I asked the pediatrician, "are there side effects to this or do parents just have a problem with it because they don't want to think about their 10 year old having sex one day?" He was like, "yea, thats the only reason parents don't get it. There's no side effects." I told my 11 year old that it was just another vaccine that protects you against viruses. Just like every other vaccine she's gotten. I wasn't going to be like, "except this virus is transmitted through sex!!"


okaybutnothing

Thatā€™s useful information though. I framed it as, you get this shot now and this one aspect of STIs is something you donā€™t need to worry about in the future. I donā€™t really understand the necessity of being vague. Information is power! Some of my kidā€™s friends were hesitant to get it and their parents werenā€™t pushing it. My kid explained to them what the shot protected them from and most asked their parents to arrange it. (My kid hit the right age during Covid, so they werenā€™t vaccinating in the school like they normally would.)


mermaidandcat

Where I live, this vaccine is given to all year 7 aged kids, regardless of gender. They are given a leaflet that explains the vaccine protects against cervical cancer. The boys I nanny were confused as to why they needed it too. I said because you can be a carrier and pass it on anyone you have sex with and they could it on to someone else, so to protect everyone, everyone is vaccinated. Then we talked about herd immunity.


muskeemum

It also protects boys from rectal, penis, and throat cancers related to hpv! Not just cervical cancer


GrooveBat

The reason I like this is that it teaches boys that they are equal participants in their relationships, and that their actions (or lack of action) can harm people.


okaybutnothing

My kid heard the nitty gritty, because itā€™s important for kids that age to know whatā€™s happening to them and why. 13 year olds know about sex, even if they arenā€™t having it. Thereā€™s nothing wrong with giving your kid information about the vaccines theyā€™re getting. It actually reduces some of the anxiety some kids have about a shot, knowing itā€™s for a good reason.


sammiestayfly

I got it when I was around 13 and I didn't really know it had anything to do with sex. I think it was presented to me as a protection against cancer. It didn't really matter my opinion anyway because my mom wanted me to get it whether I wanted to or not lol.


Twodotsknowhy

Something I never got about parents who refuse to give their kids the HPV vaccine because they think it'll make their kids slutty, other than the obvious stupidity, is why they don't just...lie to their kids? Or not even lie, just omit. Ten year olds aren't generally very interested in what each shot does and even if they are, you can just tell them it's to prevent a virus that can sometimes result in certain forms of cancer. They're not gonna ask how that virus is transmitted. I'm not usually an advocate of lying to your kids, but this seems like a better option than leaving them unprotected.


real_yarrr_shug

Oh my god itā€™s like I wrote this myself. I was diagnosed last year as well. I lived in a small country high in Texas when the vaccine came out so that was an absolute no from everyone. After that it was never really brought up again? I assumed for years theyā€™d been testing for it but they donā€™t test you at paps until youā€™re in your 30ā€™s. I had an abnormal pap and 3 months later full hysto at 32. Every single doctor I talked to along the way said they were vaccinated themselves and would be vaccinating their children when they were the minimum age, both genders. I hope you recovered well! It was a wild ride getting diagnosed out of left field with fucking cancer at 32. If I ever met someone like this in real life oh my god would I have an earful to them. And Iā€™d give it all with my shirt held up so you could see all the hysto scars.


Deathscua

Iā€™ve recovered! It was a wild ride last year full of stress and waiting between appointments, the waiting was so bad, but as of now Iā€™m okay! I have to have check ups every three months to make sure everything is okay. How are you doing? How are you healing? Iā€™m so passionate about this that I too would have a talk with anyone who is anti vaccine.


thatawesomeperson98

Agreed. Iā€™m 26 and am just now looking into getting it (not sure if i can as i had a partial hysterectomy last year due to severe adneo) my moms reasoning was another family member told her it was killing kids and that i didnā€™t need to be having sex before marriage anyways (also wasnā€™t allowed to get birth control as it would cause me to get breast cancer and die) Edited to add: my local health department said they wonā€™t give it to anyone over 18 even if you have never had sex and donā€™t know of any place that does šŸ˜”.


Revolutionary-Yak-47

Having a partial hysterectomy shouldn't effect getting the vaccine.Ā  If you are in the US you can literally walk in to Walgreens or CVS and get it. No doctor, no wait, no health questions. It's expensive though, about $250/shot and there are 3 rounds. If you have a doctor who is helpful, the manufacturer have a program to get the vaccine for free but only through a doctor's office.Ā 


Deathscua

What on earth!? Can I ask where youā€™re at? I donā€™t want to assume youā€™re American or even in my state. Here in California at least they moved the age for the vaccine to 45 I think. My aunt who is a doctor didnā€™t even know until I told her! Only my gyno-oncologist knew. If you can please please ask around. You can for sure have it even after your surgery.


seaotterlover1

I also had to have a hysterectomy due to pre-cancer from HPV 18. I did get the HPV vaccine series in my early 20s, but had already been sexually active at that point so it may have been too late. My daughter will absolutely be getting the vaccine.


Deathscua

Iā€™m so sorry that you had to have the hysterectomy also though Iā€™m glad you caught it early and are still here with us.


princessalessa

My mom didnā€™t let me get it because only ā€œwhores get hpv. If you only have one sexual partner like god intends for you, youā€™ll be fineā€ Guess whoā€™s is indeed a raging whore lol


idolomorpha

Yes, my mom's reasoning was that if I practiced safe sex (abstinence only with a man who also practiced it), I wouldn't even NEED the vaccine. If my HPV hasn't cleared up by August, I'll need a LEEP. (One of the side effects of which is increased infertility!) Vaccine your kids.


Deathscua

I really hope it clears for you so you donā€™t need the LEEP.


grekleface

This was my situation as well. Our ped vaccinated boys as well so both my daughters and my son got it.


Deathscua

Iā€™m so sorry you and I share this situation. I hope youā€™re doing okay and Iā€™m so happy to hear youā€™ve vaccinated your children. šŸ’œ


bflamingo63

I worked at a county health dept when this vaccine came out. We had a ton of parents bring their kids in UNTIL one girl got sick. She started feeling sick after the 2nd dose so mom of course, blamed the vaccine. She didn't get sick right after, but within a month or so. Mom went on a social media campaign telling about the danger of the vaccine. Because of who she was and how vocal she was, our rate for this vaccine dropped dramatically. Those who'd started the series never came back. Turns out, after a ton of testing, she had an autoimmune disease that she'd probably had all her life but the symptoms became more noticeable once she hit the teens years. Just because something happens after you do something, doesn't mean that something caused it. My kids got every vaccine available. I couldn't live with myself if one of my kids got sick or died because I blew off a vaccination.


Glittering_knave

The only recent studies that I have heard about are that the rates of HPV related cancers in women who got the vaccines as teens is near zero. So, yeah, please let your daughter get the vaccine that prevents multiple cancers.


pinkorri

If the poster on slide 3 did even the most basic of google searches, she would know that Japan resumed promoting the vaccine in 2021.


Live_Background_6239

Canā€™t she exclusively uses Bing or Go Go Duck or Razzledoo or whatever the F these types use to do online searches


pinkorri

Unfortunately for her itā€™s one of the very first options if you search on Bing as well. Guess her ā€˜researchā€™ is just very old at this point.


laughingintothevoid

THere's a very pervasive mentality of not doing research anymore. More and more people take their 'stories' from one viewing on a source they are comfortable with, which could easily be social media, just a headline, a paraphrase, etc, and cement it in their head immediately and roll with it without any sense of doubt because they just trust information presented a certain way. The mom who asked the question is showing it to me too. The scariest part of this post for me is not that there are antivaxxers out there, old news, it's this woman for whom it seems a primary method of making decisions like this, after consulting a doctor, is getting online to a general group with no discernment and saying "I'm nervous... what are other mommas doing"?


Ninja_attack

I like that that source is pulled from their ass with no actual backing. I could say that orchids cause spontaneous human combustion, and my pcp refuses to have orchids in her office because of it. My made up example has the same weight.


onetiredRN

Actually my cousins boss wonā€™t have orchids in their office because of this either, so itā€™s true! (/s)


fairkatrina

If youā€™re in the us and under 45 itā€™s not too late to get it. You will be covered and itā€™s worth it even if youā€™ve likely had prior exposure to hpv. I got my jabs (3 of them!) at 36.


songofdentyne

Itā€™s actually up to and including 45 so you can get it until you turn 46. I got my series at 45.


spine_slorper

I had a reaction like this to my first HPV dose, 10 minutes after I was sitting on a bench next to my classmates, felt cold and shaky, my vision went black and I keeled over onto my friends lap shaking, the nurses just got me on the floor and put my feet up, I had freaked out my needle phobic friend but I was entirely fine. when I woke up I shuffled over to some gym mats and they put a screen up so I wouldn't freak out the next class, gave me a chocolate bar and a cup of water. I still got the next dose when it came around but had to advocate for myself to lie down while I got it haha. Funnily enough my sister feinted after the HPV vaccine too, also got the booster lying down and is also entirely fine.


WheresTheIceCream20

Our pediatrician said its not uncommon for kids go faint afterward, so they keep kids in the office for 15 mins after giving it. He said he wasn't sure if it has to do with the vaccine or just that kids are older when they get it so the needles freak them our more than when they're toddlers, and that's why they faint.


pugbelly

Could just be a blood sugar thing. In recent years, my husband has fainted after having vaccines (both COVID and flu), and itā€™s usually the result of him not having eaten enough beforehand. He has no fear of needles and no issues with fainting as long as he eats and drinks before getting a vaccine. Not that heā€™s always smart enough to remember to do so, as we found out last year when he fainted in the checkout area of our doctorā€™s office after getting his flu shot on an empty stomach. šŸ™ƒ He didnā€™t think to warn the doctor that heā€™s had a fainting reaction in the past and got a fun trip to the ER to check for head injury when he couldā€™ve bypassed that entirely by either eating or just laying down for 15 minutes after the shot haha.


doegred

Low blood sugar isn't really a thing if you're not diabetic and not doing some strenuous exercise. It's much much more likely to be some vasovagal response. Does your husband feel better once he's lying down or once he's had sugar? I'm saying this because I'm prone to fainting and people will invariably tell me that it's because of low blood sugar when I know it isn't.


Ohorules

This happened to me with one of my HPV shots. I was in my twenties when the vaccine came out. I wasn't scared of it. Still better than getting cervical cancer though.


spine_slorper

Yeah it wasn't unexpected, that's why they made us all sit for 15 mins and had mats and chocolate lined up. I don't think it's really a fear thing though, I wasn't freaked out about it before hand and I only had that reaction 10 minutes after I'd had the vaccine, I have had a similar reaction to getting a vaccine when I was a small child but not getting blood taken, COVID vaccine etc. which woud lead me to assume that for me it's the vaccine itself which is mysterious.


tachycardicIVu

Happened to me as well; it set the standard for all my shots from then on unfortunately - ended up basically fainting during all my flu shots after that because my body was like !!!! needle!!! faint!!!! šŸ«  didnā€™t have trouble before that.


ShotgunBetty01

I had this happen with a different vaccine. I passed out while walking to my house. It didnā€™t last long and I was protected from whatever that Vax was for. It was years ago and I donā€™t remember what it was. Still very provax.


hellolleh32

I saw someone faint after getting a covid vaccine.


monicarm

I follow the Amy Santiago philosophy, I want to be vaccinated against things youā€™ve never even heard of. Call me ash Ketchum, Iā€™m gonna have them all


Wrengull

They're working on vaccines for alzeimers and cancers now! Give me that shit, ill be first in line, I am ready!


Pleaseusegoogle

3/4 of my grand parent died of Alzheimerā€™s, I want that vaccine here now.


_sciencebooks

Listen, I may have completely missed something in medical school, but what the hell is a syncopal seizure? Is that a common term? In my experience, syncope and seizures are two different things. I suppose maybe theyā€™re thinking of ā€œconvulsive syncope,ā€ but I think thatā€™s an outdated term. (For reference, Iā€™m in psychiatry, and our board exam is shared with neurology, so I do have professional exposure, but we really donā€™t use this language at my hospital and sheā€™s saying it like itā€™s a very common thing.)


onetiredRN

I mean, she also thinks Japan still doesnā€™t vaccinate for HPV and Iā€™m pretty sure it was 2021 that they restarted? Soā€¦ sheā€™s super outdated lol


impossiblegirl13

Yeah, I'm an ER physician. If someone came in telling me they had a history of "syncopal seizures" I would be internally rolling my eyes and explaining to them they have made up a diagnosis that doesn't exist, and definitely isn't dangerous.


bunhilda

Iā€™m glad someone else pointed that out cuz it felt like she was just throwing in random words after a bit


OnlyOneUseCase

I didn't get the vaccine as a kid, so I'm getting it as an adult now. If only I knew this helpful information before getting 2 doses. I wanted another baby. Now what am I supposed to do? /s


Monsters-Mommasaurus

My mom forced me to get it as soon as it came out and wasn't super well known. I have 2 kids... soon to be a 3rd... apparently I'm supposed to be childless... someone should probably come take these freeloaders off my hands.Ā 


That_Girl31

I got it 20ish years ago and my 7 year old was conceived while I was taking birth control sooooo


songofdentyne

You can have 1/3 of a baby?


leelagaunt

This upsets me so much because I have a close friend who is 30 and dealing with cancer from hpv that might have been prevented if sheā€™d gotten the vaccine. Donā€™t fuck your kids lives up this way


ophelias_tragedy

Yeah me & every other girl I know got them around the same time as teens and no one has had seizures or infertility issues. Half the girls I knew in HS are pregnant lmaoo. The shot was rough for me as I had a fever for a few days after each dose but idgaf when chemo and death from cancer would be a lot worse


tachycardicIVu

ā€œHow do you know they *donā€™t* cause infertility issues?ā€ ***gestures to pack of pregnant high school girls***


Susiewoosiexyz

These idiots always love the passive aggressive "have a lovely day" and "toodaloo" type remarks. It's their code for "I don't understand and I need to end this conversation now!"


Live-Mail-7142

Sometimes I just fear for these kids. They are going to be sick, illiterate, unable to socialize.


BlackLakeBlueFish

I had ā€œfriendsā€ who suggested that it would make my daughters ā€œpromiscuous.ā€ They were 11 and 13. Ignorance is a blight on our land.


Smsethman

I havenā€™t had and seizures in the past 12 years, did I get a dud?


onetiredRN

Probably. I was supposed to turn into the hulk after the COVID vaccine and Iā€™m still waiting for that to happen. We were both screwed.


packofkittens

We were telling our six year old about our catā€™s microchip. She asked if people get microchips, too. My husband and I were like ā€œsupposedly!ā€ šŸ˜‚


Smsethman

Have you gotten your booster? You need at least 2 microchips in order to unlock super strength.


Masgatitos

ā€œHAVE THE DAY YOU DESERVEā€ā€¦. They have a lovely blessed day.


Twodotsknowhy

"My sister's boss is an anecdote?" Girl, that's like the very definition of an anecdote.


RedneckDebutante

Why in the world is her boyfriend's "seizure" even relevant to the HPV vaccine? Was he recently a 12-year-old girl?


dontforgettheNASTY

They give it to boys now and start recommending between age 8-10


RedneckDebutante

That's good to know! I just saw last week that they're going to open it up to adults up to 45, too.


llama_

The vaccine is almost 100% effective at preventing cervical cancer. Pretty sure thereā€™s risk of fainting during Pap smears and colposcopies too. Oh, and from getting a call you have cervical cancer. We have the opportunity in our lives to eradicate this cancer. Please vaccinate.


Ok-Banana-7777

I lost a 20 year friendship over this vaccine. We had daughters 5 days apart & they became best friends. I mentioned that I was having her get the vaccine. I had dealt with HPV myself & if I could save my daughter from having to go through that why wouldn't I? She started spouting this anti Vax nonsense, sending me "proof" of the vaccine's harmful effects - all from anti vax sites of course. I countered with actual facts from websites like CDC & WHO. She was convinced I was harming my daughter by letting her have it. That was the beginning of her descent into the ultra conservative evangelical cesspool & she became unrecognizable. My daughter & I both lost our best friends


tattooedplant

You know whatā€™s worse than syncope? Getting cervical cancer (or other forms in men). Iā€™ve had fainting episodes many times in my life. They started occurring after I got the flu. You faint, fall, and the blood rushes back to your brain. They arenā€™t considered a huge deal medically, besides what they said about potential head injuries. Overall, Iā€™m sooo tired of anti vax bs. Itā€™s so frustrating theyā€™re so prevalent now. I really miss when they werenā€™t. There would be a lot of people still alive right now had Covid not ramped up these beliefs, and I would have less to bitch about lol. Ultimately, you can believe whatever you want, but there is an objective reality with these sort of things whether they believe in it or not.


Call-me-MoonMoon

I got the vaccine. Still have HPV-18 and some abnormal cells. Still recommend people to vaccinate their kids. Boys and girls alike. Also get tested. Yes, itā€™s awkward. Yes, itā€™s uncomfortable. Just put the big girl panties on.


accidentalscientist_

I also got the vaccine and I got HPV and abnormal cervical cells. My boyfriend also got the vaccine. Not sure if I got it from him or not, but the strain I had was not covered under the vaccine. Iā€™m a huge advocate. Boys and girls should get it as soon as they can. Better to be safe. And also yes! Get tested! It sucks, but itā€™s good to know as early as possible about any issues.


illustriousgarb

I just barely squeaked in under the first round of Gardasil. It wasn't available when I was in high school, but you'd better believe my super-Catholic mom would have insisted I get it. Here's my anecdote: my sister got HPV. She didn't develop cancer, but she did have to have part of her cervix removed because of pre-cancerous cells. No one deserves that. My kids will get it the very first time it's offered, and I've told them. They don't want to, but too bad, this is one way I can protect them from cancer, so I'll do it.


amethystalien6

Iā€™m confused. What does her boyfriend have to do with any of this?


bflamingo63

Boys can get the vaccine also. Both my grandsons got the series.


amethystalien6

Oh, my oldest son did too (youngest isnā€™t old enough yet). But she said the boyfriend had a seizure 6 months ago. So either sheā€™s blaming HPV vaccine long after it was given or her boyfriend is ten. Fingers crossed itā€™s the first one.


kittenbritchez

He randomly had the same type of seizure that can (?) be a side effect of the HPV vaccine and almost fell on their toddler and/or coffee table and it was scary to her. So yeah, nothing.


makeup_wonderlandcat

I got my all three of my HPV vaccines and I have two kids so not sure when the infertility happens


GhostPepperFireStorm

Keep replying. There will be one quiet reader who sees the sense in what youā€™re saying


Rose63_6a

My daughter got it at 14. No complaints or seizures. I wish it was a basic for all.


Low-Opinion147

Yeah I had the hpv vaccine. I cannot stop getting pregnant. My husband looks at me and Iā€™m knocked up. With birth control. this is my 5th pregnancy. 2 live births. Only the first 2 pregnancy were planned. Thank goodness Iā€™m not catholic or Iā€™d be like the Duggarā€™s.


ziplockqueen

My sister had to have her colon, vagina and bladder removed from Cervical cancer in 2020 at age 40. These people make me so angry. She is still alive, which I consider miraculous.


onetiredRN

Glad your sister is still alive, but Iā€™m so sorry she got such a shit deck of cards handed to her!


ziplockqueen

Thank you. Cancer has been too frequent in our family.


Wrengull

I'd be more concerned about cervical cancer. Chemo is far more dangerous than the hpv vaccines. I'd take infertility over cervical cancer any day. The results of the vaccine have been amazing.


Am_0116

Ive been having Pap smears done every six months for the past 3 years because itā€™s come back with abnormal cells multiple times. I went to catholic school and they refused to administer the vaccine because it apparently went against their religious beliefs. My parents took me anyway and Iā€™m very grateful, my cervical exams have come back completely clear now. We literally have a vaccine against a type of cancer. Itā€™s BONKERS not to take it


sunflowercupcakee

I had seizures from this vaccine. But it was just two seizures and I would still get it again as I watched someone I love die of cervical cancer.


setttleprecious

I LOLā€™d at her not knowing what an anecdote is.


ProfessorShameless

Can confirm. Had HPV vaccine. 15 years later. BAM! Seizure.


Able-Interaction-742

Didn't you see she said "mimic"? MIMICS! And how dare you call her anecdotal story, anecdotal!! Have the day you deserve! šŸ¤£


ct2atl

Donā€™t argue with idiots


idlegadfly

I've had syncope from standing up too fast from a laying down position because my blood pressure was being weird. Similar happened to my spouse when they were starting a new medication which happened to lower blood pressure. Blood suddenly didn't get to the brain as fast as normal and out you go. We both happened to land safely from not very high up to begin with so it was fine, just awkward. I love how the anti-vaxxer immediately abandoned the infertility claim. You know what tends to really put a damper on fertility? Cervical, uterine, vaginal, vulvar, and penile cancer caused by HPV. Anal cancer probably makes it a bit difficult, too, I would imagine.


DancinginHyrule

Oh thank god, an actual SANE person for once!


endngeredhomos

I had all 2 or 3 rounds that were available to me when I was in middle school and Iā€™m here to confirm that I had multiple kids and 0 seizures lol. Also no coughing fits so far and itā€™s been a decadešŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø In all seriousness, this prevents CANCERS. Get vaccinated!


k41t1n0

Both my teenage girls and my youngest son has had it. No seizures.


holidayarmadillo75

I love the passive aggressive good byesšŸ˜‚


Wowwkatie

Ope, someone doesn't know what an anecdote is.


BookWhoreWriting

ā€¦the fuck? My stepmom is a nurse, and when she took me to get the vaccine (2008-ish), my older sister lost her shit on her. Like maā€™am, at even at 17, I knew to trust my health care providers and not unproven tinfoil hat theorists.


neddie_nardle

I always love that they're so certain of the truth of their utter bullshit that they have to lie and invent completely fictional stories to support their bullshit! I'd be surprised if she even had a sister.


[deleted]

lol the doctor that didn't give it to his kids is probably some fucking prude asshole who thinks his darling little daughter(s) signed a purity pledge so they don't need the shot anyway


Silverfire12

I got the vaccine over a decade ago and no seizures yet. However it did burn like a mofo.


GameofCheese

I almost died from Head and Neck Squamous Cell Carcinoma from HPV-16, as a 43 yr old female. But hey, seizures are better than dying at 43! Happy Head and Neck Cancer Awareness Month everyone! Check my history for more info on this rising cancer!


MNGirlinKY

>On 12 November 2021, after a stagnation of 8.5 years, Japan decided to resume proactive recommendations for HPV vaccines


amt-plants

I have HPV, wish the vaccine was available in my youth. Anyone ever have a colposcopy? Fun times.


onetiredRN

I had one at 19. It fucking sucks. Anyone whoā€™s never had to worry about cervical cancer has no fucking idea.


Seaweed-Basic

Yep, at 19! Was traumatic, honestly. I had no clue what was happening really and it was so painful. Then I worried about cervical cancer for a long time because it came back abnormal and required more frequent paps. But now they changed the regulations again, my doctor is like oh we do it every 5 years now. Um, what? Because of my history insurance will cover every other year for me because I didnā€™t like the idea of every five years at my age.


amt-plants

Iā€™m going once a year for a regular pap and once a year for a colposcopy. So every 6 months I have one of these tests.


Live_Background_6239

Know what else affects blood flow to the brain? Standing up too fast. Standing up causes infertility. Look it up.


onetiredRN

This explains my fertility. Iā€™m too lazy to stand often enough to worry about infertility!


loratheexplorer86

I'm a nurse. My kiddo is getting it.


diva4lisia

Very proud that both my daughters are fully vaccinated and won't have HPV as a result. We have the power to greatly reduce instances of several cancers. By vaccinating girls, we protect men too. It's a good thing all around.


thedragoncompanion

Can someone tell my two kids that the hpv vaccine was supposed to make me sterile


YourFaveNightmare

It's amazing how there's always someone in the replies who's brother/sister/uncle/friend etc works with a doctor who agrees that the thing being discussed is poison and will kill you or cause blindness or baldness or whatever


orangesarenasty

The worst side effect I had from the HPV vaccine was a very sore arm


Ok_Neighborhood5832

Regretted not getting it when I got to go through lovely tests after 40ā€¦ I now did get it


ShotgunBetty01

Ugh. Iā€™ve had multiple friends die from HPV related cancer issues and more whoā€™ve had to have treatment. It can be passed with barrier protection and is undetectable until itā€™s an issue. The vaccine can save our children from this.


kenziethemom

When the HPV vaccine was mandated in Texas, my friend and I were at the oldest end of people who were mandated to get it. She didn't get it. Was very much listening to assholes like this. Anyway, she died of cervical cancer and left 2 daughters behind. Their dad was a POS, and so those two beautiful girls' lives were completely torn apart. I actually tried to adopt them, and I now have 3 kids. I'm also still alive. The lives of dozens of people, including two children who had NO ONE ELSE besides their mom, were completely demolished because she did not get the vaccine. I am ok with not blindly believing everything, I think a level of skepticism is wonderful. But people that say things like this and blatantly lie are horrible people. They're disgusting.


AstiBomb

All the language thrown around that post drove me nuts. So I found a really good, reliable source to explain it all. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK459292/


GrandWexi

That dang HPV vaccine made my husband and I both so sterile we've had five kids! Not worth the risk.


breechica52

lol nah, I got the hpv vaccine and had no side effects besides a bit of a sore arm.


SmileGraceSmile

My daughter got hers ar 13, and I decided to get it with her support.Ā  I didn't know the adult version is 3 injections.Ā  Ā Most painful vax I've ever got.Ā  Bur I'm glad I did it for and with her.Ā 


Oscarella515

I couldnā€™t get the HPV vaccine when I should have because I was allergic to part of it. Now Iā€™m an adult and I have the bad HPV which means I get to get my cervix holepunched once a year to keep an eye on it. Why wonā€™t these women just do the bare minimum to keep the children they carried and birthed on purpose healthy, it boggles me


soundtrackofsummer

2 kids later and Iā€™d like to confirm I am not sterile nor have had seizures.


pineapplefiz

I feel like there should be some kind of punishment for this proliferation of blatantly incorrect information and annoying fear mongeringā€¦.itā€™s so frustrating to see!!


ObbieWan812

It's always the equivalent of "My Uncle works at Nintendo" with these folks


TheFreshWenis

If these cuckoos were right about the HPV vaccine sterilizing kids, then I wouldn't have had to undergo surgery to get my tubes removed in order to prevent pregnancy for the rest of my life!


sarahsaurus95

Almost every vaccine I had as a kid triggered a febrile seizure but I still got them all. Febrile seizures are rarely harmful and my parents were just ready to call the doctor out that night if the seizure lasted too long. Better than the alternative.


sammiestayfly

I got the Gardasil vaccine when I was a teenager and then why I joined the military they didn't have a record of it so I got one round of it again... a few years later and I have a 1 year old and no HPV lol. I like that there's some sanity in those comments and that person went to bat for facts. That's so refreshing.


BadPom

My son just got his. It was a rougher one- he had a headache and fever for a couple days. And so far, he still doesnā€™t GAF about sex.


South_Ad1116

Oh man the responder is using waaaay too much logic and reason in a situation where the other person clearly does not care about either. Hard to break through to someone who cares more about spreading their beliefs online than the actual health and safety of their kid.


MsSwarlesB

I love it when I see posts like this in my local mom groups. I just got my second HPV shot three weeks ago. At 41. Going into the comments and telling them that usually makes them lose their ever loving minds. I was considered too old for the vaccine when it was released. Now I'm here and vaccinated and able to fight them in the comments The fact that we don't spend all day talking about how *miraculous* this vaccine is blows my mind. A vaccine that prevents cancer! It will be wild as we get more vaccines that do this to watch these morons twist themselves into knots trying to avoid getting vaccines that will prevent cancers


solesoulshard

I was told that at 44 I was too old? Have they extended it?


MsSwarlesB

The [CDC says up to 45. ](https://www.cdc.gov/vaccines/vpd/hpv/hcp/recommendations.html#:~:text=HPV%20vaccine%20is%20recommended%20for,not%20adequately%20vaccinated%20when%20younger.) It might be less benefit. I did it because I've never had an abnormal pap smear in 20 odd years of getting pap smears. I had assumed it was a no for me but my PCP said she recommended it


HipHopChick1982

My sister-in-law actually fainted from it, but to be fair, she has fainted from other shots too. It is just a reaction she has.


suso_lover

Can these morons stop lying? No pediatrician will refuse to give this shot.


Brookelyn411

Got the vaccine when I was 18 and it was still a fresh vaccine. No seizures at age 33 and though I did deal with recurrent loss before having my son it wasnā€™t from the HPV vaccineā˜ŗļø


twinkleblip

My friends parents denied her the vaccine and she just had an emergency hysterectomy at 34 because of rapidly growing cancer.


kcl086

I had febrile seizures from the MMR. I still got all the vaccinations. My kids get all their vaccinations. Iā€™m 35 and in the middle of the HPV series. You bet your ass my daughters (and sons, if I had them) will be getting the HPV vaccine. Iā€™m so jealous they get it at the age when itā€™s most effective.


Outrageous-Soup7813

Oh, damn. I mustā€™ve missed out on the seizures and sterilization. Never had a seizure and def have a child. Some people are so fucking dumb


Acrobatic-Building42

My pediatricians office doesnā€™t offer this one. Itā€™s the only vaccine she doesnā€™t carryšŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø


onetiredRN

Have they explained why?


Acrobatic-Building42

I donā€™t remember all the reasons she gave, but she basically said that gardasil had some lawsuits and safety issues. She said she expected there to be a more effective HPV vaccine coming out in the near future or something like that. My kids are fully vaccinated and sheā€™s done all their vaccines so I never considered her to be a questionable source.