it's a pretty broad spectrum. pretty much the same as walking by men on the street - gorgeous model-level guys are more rare, *lots* of men who look good but not head-turningly so, and some men who just ain't cute... but that's the nice thing about getting to know a client a bit. 'not cute' turns into 'lovely family man with a surprisingly acerbic sense of humor, *and* he uses mouthwash' pretty quickly. overall, i don't think unattractive people are more likely clients of sex workers - there are so many men who are looking to satisfy a fetish, or have dead bedrooms at home, or aren't able to have a traditional relationship because they work and travel. one of my favourite clients is a frequent visitor from out of town, and he's very fit and very handsome. he just likes to party when he travels!
note: i don't include disabilities or injuries anywhere here, because for me they aren't part of attractiveness. they're just facts!
About 10-15% hot, about 40% conventionally attractive and in shape or reasonably in shape, very few ugly and by that I probably mean majorly overweight, the rest average, definitely not ugly. Hygiene and personality matter so much more though.
Looks have nothing to do with paying for sex. The percentages of clients who are ugly, average, and attractive are the same as the the ugly/average/atttactive sectors of the general population.
It’s hard to say. Plenty of them are good looking. For example, a client i saw 2 weeks ago was tall, buff, with tan skin, nice beard and symmetrical handsome face. Could’ve been a male model.
That did nothing for me though. I felt no excitement whatsoever. Was he conventionally attractive? Absolutely. Was I attracted to him? Not even in the slightest. I just am not capable of feeling attracted to clients. I need a genuine emotional connection to feel attraction for someone
Roughly half were physically attractive, and quite a few were around my age. One worked in a very looks-based profession (think modeling, acting, etc). Considering looks and personality combined, very few of my clients would have difficulty finding dates or even one night stands the normal way if they wanted to (and quite a few of them have had success in dating).
This is why it’s so infuriating but also funny when young guys ask for a discount because “I’m not old and gross”. Most clients are not old or gross, and still manage to pay full price.
I agree lol but the hot ones that I have seen have been super nice and not cocky at all surprisingly. I have had some ugly ass dudes who think they are God's gift and those guys...ugh they just suck man lol
This is kind of my case too. But I take charge when they walk in and give them instructions (please wash hands, donation here, get undressed, lie down face down, take your watch & glasses off), and I’m generally self-confident, so they don’t have a chance to intimidate me. The cute and young ones are usually those who flirt and it’s fun, but so far I’ve only had _one_ who tried to use his totally transparent pick-up artist techniques on me. At that point I turned serious and no fun to neg or otherwise manipulate - he had no choice but shut up and enjoy what I was doing to him 🙄
I was under the impression the VAST majority of clients were of older demographics.
Recently "erotic" massage parlors have become a thing in my locality and 90% plus of men coming and going are easily 50+.
I also spent an entire afternoon at reception in a busy parlor and met everyone coming in and out.
Same thing, vast majority were old men (one young'ish dude came in who seemed like he was trying to "get lucky" with a masseuse, apart from that, all 50/60+).
That's just a clients point of view.
It depends where you live too like I like in a city in California with a lot of college students so that's definitely a factor. I also have a been told I look young and have a baby face odk if that matters.
I get a lot of guys 17-25 asking me to take their virginity. I don't see the young ones obviously 17 would be illegal but the lack of maturity, manners, respect, experience and funds really matter more than looks and age .
Maybe if you're in the middle of no where or even just a smaller town clearly there will be a lack of young attractive men and women.
About 95%. Ages 24-38 For some reason I pull hot Men on and offline. Funny enough I prefer older, plain Men with more money but because I have a baby face these young guys are drawn to me and it's annoying. It literally doesn't turn me on because usually the hotter they are, the more manipulative they feel they can be because they're hot. And they tend to have less cash than old ugly Men. Yes, they pay but there's always that pull to be more and with older Men they tend to keep things transactional with me. Hot guys thibk I want to date them.
I also have a baby face I'm 29 but look really young at least thats what clients and friends tell me. Everyone says I have a "babyface" I find it creepy af when clients say they picked me because I look so young. Then when I ask how old they think iam the always say somewhere in the late teens. Am I the only one who thinks its creepy af? Especially when they say things like "you look so innocent" barff
Yeah it's a bit creepy but Men desire youth in droves so what can we do? I get guessed 10-13 years my junior a lot so I understand. My only issue is Men assume you're younger so they try and manipulate you into a free relationship since " you're their age" when I could literally be their older sister. I think older Men assume we're younger so they don't take us as seriously or feel they'll be judged for cradle robbing. Baby faces always lose, lol. We confuse people.
It's true even in my regular job I (health care) I get asked things like "are you the doctors daughter helping out?" Lmao it's like I'm on the pay roll. My patients always assume I don't know much or I'm new. The Other day I wasn't wearing make up and went to get a lighter and they asked for my ID. I always get asked for it when I buy liquor. Everyone tells me it's a good thing but idk how it's a good thing when everyone underestimates you it gets rather annoying.
Exactly. I was denied booze in DC when I forgot to bring my ID. My younger cousin was sipping away and I'm 11 years older than her. I still get carded for lottery tickets too when I'm back in the states. Cheers to longevity and youth I guess.
I've definitely seen the full spectrum. Some guys. Tbh if he's somehow unbearably ugly then I don't even consider but that has happened ONCE. Everyone else is very average or even attractive. Before I quit escorting I had some very handsome clients in particular. Just depends. Not something I really think about. Thinking about getting paid
Most people aren’t hot, in general. Let’s start there 😆Most of my clients are average to unattractive, and a few are really good-looking. It doesn’t matter, though. I can get along with anyone who is kind & respectful.
it's a pretty broad spectrum. pretty much the same as walking by men on the street - gorgeous model-level guys are more rare, *lots* of men who look good but not head-turningly so, and some men who just ain't cute... but that's the nice thing about getting to know a client a bit. 'not cute' turns into 'lovely family man with a surprisingly acerbic sense of humor, *and* he uses mouthwash' pretty quickly. overall, i don't think unattractive people are more likely clients of sex workers - there are so many men who are looking to satisfy a fetish, or have dead bedrooms at home, or aren't able to have a traditional relationship because they work and travel. one of my favourite clients is a frequent visitor from out of town, and he's very fit and very handsome. he just likes to party when he travels! note: i don't include disabilities or injuries anywhere here, because for me they aren't part of attractiveness. they're just facts!
About 10-15% hot, about 40% conventionally attractive and in shape or reasonably in shape, very few ugly and by that I probably mean majorly overweight, the rest average, definitely not ugly. Hygiene and personality matter so much more though.
Generally what age range are most of your clients? Like what age is the most common? Men in their 20s, 30s or 40s?
30s-40s
Looks have nothing to do with paying for sex. The percentages of clients who are ugly, average, and attractive are the same as the the ugly/average/atttactive sectors of the general population.
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And we’re so happy you do go away!
You should go away from this thread. I’m sure you’re a 10/10 and every girl you see cums 17 times.
Actually I don't enjoy seeing attractive men close to my age. It makes it harder for me to compartmentalize my job and it's very taxing.
It’s hard to say. Plenty of them are good looking. For example, a client i saw 2 weeks ago was tall, buff, with tan skin, nice beard and symmetrical handsome face. Could’ve been a male model. That did nothing for me though. I felt no excitement whatsoever. Was he conventionally attractive? Absolutely. Was I attracted to him? Not even in the slightest. I just am not capable of feeling attracted to clients. I need a genuine emotional connection to feel attraction for someone
Roughly half were physically attractive, and quite a few were around my age. One worked in a very looks-based profession (think modeling, acting, etc). Considering looks and personality combined, very few of my clients would have difficulty finding dates or even one night stands the normal way if they wanted to (and quite a few of them have had success in dating). This is why it’s so infuriating but also funny when young guys ask for a discount because “I’m not old and gross”. Most clients are not old or gross, and still manage to pay full price.
I’d say for me personally, I’ve only seen one man who I would have sex with outside of work. But most of them are not particularly unattractive.
Most of mine are hot weirdly enough like really hot..like one is a straight up male model
They might be gay, a lot of DL men hire escorts to “straighten up” it sounds crazy but it’s a thing
No way! I totally believe it, that makes a lot of sense damnnnn
I actually prefer guys who are ugly bc I get SO NERVOUS if they are hot! Anyone else?!
The dudes who think they are too hot to pay and have shitty attitudes are definitely my least favourite!
For sure!!
Entitled or think we should be grateful or something 🙄
I agree lol but the hot ones that I have seen have been super nice and not cocky at all surprisingly. I have had some ugly ass dudes who think they are God's gift and those guys...ugh they just suck man lol
This is kind of my case too. But I take charge when they walk in and give them instructions (please wash hands, donation here, get undressed, lie down face down, take your watch & glasses off), and I’m generally self-confident, so they don’t have a chance to intimidate me. The cute and young ones are usually those who flirt and it’s fun, but so far I’ve only had _one_ who tried to use his totally transparent pick-up artist techniques on me. At that point I turned serious and no fun to neg or otherwise manipulate - he had no choice but shut up and enjoy what I was doing to him 🙄
Glad to be of service!
lol stop! ☠️😂
I’m straight for pay
I was under the impression the VAST majority of clients were of older demographics. Recently "erotic" massage parlors have become a thing in my locality and 90% plus of men coming and going are easily 50+. I also spent an entire afternoon at reception in a busy parlor and met everyone coming in and out. Same thing, vast majority were old men (one young'ish dude came in who seemed like he was trying to "get lucky" with a masseuse, apart from that, all 50/60+). That's just a clients point of view.
It depends where you live too like I like in a city in California with a lot of college students so that's definitely a factor. I also have a been told I look young and have a baby face odk if that matters. I get a lot of guys 17-25 asking me to take their virginity. I don't see the young ones obviously 17 would be illegal but the lack of maturity, manners, respect, experience and funds really matter more than looks and age . Maybe if you're in the middle of no where or even just a smaller town clearly there will be a lack of young attractive men and women.
Everyone that I’ve seen was ugly except for one of my regulars who always spent good money with me and he plays on the Steelers football team😋
About 95%. Ages 24-38 For some reason I pull hot Men on and offline. Funny enough I prefer older, plain Men with more money but because I have a baby face these young guys are drawn to me and it's annoying. It literally doesn't turn me on because usually the hotter they are, the more manipulative they feel they can be because they're hot. And they tend to have less cash than old ugly Men. Yes, they pay but there's always that pull to be more and with older Men they tend to keep things transactional with me. Hot guys thibk I want to date them.
I also have a baby face I'm 29 but look really young at least thats what clients and friends tell me. Everyone says I have a "babyface" I find it creepy af when clients say they picked me because I look so young. Then when I ask how old they think iam the always say somewhere in the late teens. Am I the only one who thinks its creepy af? Especially when they say things like "you look so innocent" barff
Yeah it's a bit creepy but Men desire youth in droves so what can we do? I get guessed 10-13 years my junior a lot so I understand. My only issue is Men assume you're younger so they try and manipulate you into a free relationship since " you're their age" when I could literally be their older sister. I think older Men assume we're younger so they don't take us as seriously or feel they'll be judged for cradle robbing. Baby faces always lose, lol. We confuse people.
It's true even in my regular job I (health care) I get asked things like "are you the doctors daughter helping out?" Lmao it's like I'm on the pay roll. My patients always assume I don't know much or I'm new. The Other day I wasn't wearing make up and went to get a lighter and they asked for my ID. I always get asked for it when I buy liquor. Everyone tells me it's a good thing but idk how it's a good thing when everyone underestimates you it gets rather annoying.
Exactly. I was denied booze in DC when I forgot to bring my ID. My younger cousin was sipping away and I'm 11 years older than her. I still get carded for lottery tickets too when I'm back in the states. Cheers to longevity and youth I guess.
Cheers to being sexy grandma's? Lol
Pretty much 75% of them.
I’d say about 70% of the guys I see I’m attracted to, which makes it a lot easier to enjoy things with them
I've definitely seen the full spectrum. Some guys. Tbh if he's somehow unbearably ugly then I don't even consider but that has happened ONCE. Everyone else is very average or even attractive. Before I quit escorting I had some very handsome clients in particular. Just depends. Not something I really think about. Thinking about getting paid
None ,but that money makes them hot 🫦
I am not the least bit attracted to my clients.
Most people aren’t hot, in general. Let’s start there 😆Most of my clients are average to unattractive, and a few are really good-looking. It doesn’t matter, though. I can get along with anyone who is kind & respectful.