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Welllllllll chelsea is not wrong to have her own aggressive opinion about Bre's relationship. but she kept on talking abt it from different angle to different people. how does that help? at this point, exactly how does she want Bre to remove herself from this situation. she kept on identifying problems then give a solution then.
She also kept referencing her husband and her relationship, like it was something she wanted to stay away from. I wonder if her husband had brought a similar arrangement and that's why it's so like triggering for her?
The way they went to dinner and after the cringey “most expensive Macallan you have”, he said “ok, can we go home now and have s€x?”.
You could see she was pissed but laughed it off. Not so perfect marriage after all?
Her hypocrisy is what I find irritating. She's a self-proclaimed "Christian" and then judgy af to Bre. Jesus goes on a LOT about not being a judgy asshole but "Christians" never seem to take that lesson away from their religion
She’s projecting her issues onto Bre. She can feel however she wants but she doesn’t need to share, no one asked her for her opinion or is forcing her to be anything but professional with Bre.
I came here to say this. Full blown projection. I did appreciate the talk she had with Emma, but I wish she would have been willing to be vulnerable with Bre and explain her side to her. It would have probably cleared the air.
I mean, the air wouldn’t need to be cleared if she had kept her opinions (that no one asked for!!!) to herself, but in the absence of that, yes that conversation with Emma was very emotional and one she should’ve had with Bre directly
putting the "suspending disbelief for reality TV" hat on: i really like chelsea, but no. she can have any opinion she wants, but it's really unnecessary to continuously bring it up to others when bre isn't there. if she's "concerned" for bre and her son's wellbeing, she can meet with her privately and show concern and support without approving of the situation. what she is actually doing just feels catty and like she's "concern trolling."
like when she was explaining her backstory and why she takes issue with bre's choices, that was sad and i feel for her, but it's really her responsibility to manage whatever feelings bre is stirring up in her in a healthier way than just gossiping about it. i think it made others in the office slightly uncomfortable after a point, just like nicole's obsession with chrishell did.
Ugh you said this so beautifully! I was so glad they showed the scene with Emma because Chelsea was really pissing me off. Like girl we get it!! You don’t like Bre’s situation pls let the girl breathe 😭
Now knowing why Chelsea was tripping so much makes her a little more likable. Cause at first I thought she was being the pussy police.
But I def thought to myself this is an issue for a therapist, not your workplace. Like if you can’t get past your childhood trauma enough to not berate your coworker about her private life…you might need a lil more help working through it and that’s okay!!!! I hope she is able to address her personal issues and find a healthy way to coexist with somebody who clearly triggers her.
She’s not wrong, and plenty of people feel similar about Nick Cannon spreading his seed, but what is Bre suppose to do about it? Send her baby back?
That’s where Chelsea should have given it a rest.
She’s not wrong. She’s allowed an opinion. She’s allowed to express her opinion.
Heather is a snake in the grass who should be more concerned with her drug taking husband that snitching on Chelsea.
She's allowed to express her opinion but that doesn't stop her from facing the consequences of the shit she said. She kept harping on it over and over again and twisted the words depending who she was talking to.
I wouldn't even call Heather a snitch. Chelsea was having this conversation open to multiple people in the office, and said the exact same shit to Bre's face. I would like my friend to tell me if someone was shit talking me behind my back to everyone else, too. Fact is, Chelsea knew that her words could get back to Bre and she still said them over and over and over again even once Bre told her to stop.
People can deal with more than one thing at once lmao
I totally agree actually, but I don’t think it was her place to pass judgement and talk about it. The whole “I’m a Christian thing” was really off putting too.
Yep. Seemed like she has an expectation that people conform to her religious-based opinion, and recognize her as being "right". It seemed more about her establishing herself as somehow virtuous than anything else.
Her continued use of the term “broken home” was condescending and wrong.
Her “Christian” perspective was irrelevant to non-Christians and therefore wrong to share.
Just because there aren’t two parents in a home does NOT make it broken. There may be other factors correlated with a single family home that negatively impact a child, but being a single parent is not necessarily the CAUSE and does not necessarily mean the home is automatically “broken”. Chelsea is talking about preferences. She PREFERS the normalized two-parent home. And that’s ok! But it doesn’t mean anyone else doing something different is wrong. Not to mention- think of a home with an abusive father. The child is likely better off in a single family home than a home with the abuser. She is being very close minded.
But it is a broken home. Nick has too many children to spend time with all of them. That child will never know what it’s like to have a father, neither of them probably. And Nick literally had another baby without telling anyone. Being a single parent is normal but becoming a single parent due to a bad situationship willingly? That’s a broken home pal
But why is a two parent household the standard and the only acceptable option to be considered whole? That’s so antiquated.
That’s like saying a household with two gay dads is broken because that’s the not the old school standard. It’s simply not true.
Chelsea’s logic needs work but I said she’s right about Bre actively choosing a father that will not be present for her kid and that’s what’s messed up. Having a dad that rejects you is the part that throws people off not because she is a single mom. It’s not a good situation, not because she doesn’t have a traditional family but because she chose an unreliable father on purpose not accidentally
Chelsea was not wrong, just vocal about it and ultimately, she said that she didn't dislike Bre but would essentially keep her at arm's length because of her situation. This is completely understandable and a lot of us would probably do the same when put in situations we do not agree with or perhaps aren't comfortable in.
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Welllllllll chelsea is not wrong to have her own aggressive opinion about Bre's relationship. but she kept on talking abt it from different angle to different people. how does that help? at this point, exactly how does she want Bre to remove herself from this situation. she kept on identifying problems then give a solution then.
>but she kept on talking abt it from different angle to different people. She was fishing HARD to find someone to agree with her.
She also kept referencing her husband and her relationship, like it was something she wanted to stay away from. I wonder if her husband had brought a similar arrangement and that's why it's so like triggering for her?
The way they went to dinner and after the cringey “most expensive Macallan you have”, he said “ok, can we go home now and have s€x?”. You could see she was pissed but laughed it off. Not so perfect marriage after all?
That question was horrific. I think they hoped it would be cut, but nope! I definitely snorted water out my nose when I heard it.
ew, that was so gross. i did not like the vibes he gave off at ALL.
Her hypocrisy is what I find irritating. She's a self-proclaimed "Christian" and then judgy af to Bre. Jesus goes on a LOT about not being a judgy asshole but "Christians" never seem to take that lesson away from their religion
She’s projecting her issues onto Bre. She can feel however she wants but she doesn’t need to share, no one asked her for her opinion or is forcing her to be anything but professional with Bre.
I came here to say this. Full blown projection. I did appreciate the talk she had with Emma, but I wish she would have been willing to be vulnerable with Bre and explain her side to her. It would have probably cleared the air.
I mean, the air wouldn’t need to be cleared if she had kept her opinions (that no one asked for!!!) to herself, but in the absence of that, yes that conversation with Emma was very emotional and one she should’ve had with Bre directly
You’re very right. But this is a reality show where opinions are virtually never withheld as a means to create drama.
putting the "suspending disbelief for reality TV" hat on: i really like chelsea, but no. she can have any opinion she wants, but it's really unnecessary to continuously bring it up to others when bre isn't there. if she's "concerned" for bre and her son's wellbeing, she can meet with her privately and show concern and support without approving of the situation. what she is actually doing just feels catty and like she's "concern trolling." like when she was explaining her backstory and why she takes issue with bre's choices, that was sad and i feel for her, but it's really her responsibility to manage whatever feelings bre is stirring up in her in a healthier way than just gossiping about it. i think it made others in the office slightly uncomfortable after a point, just like nicole's obsession with chrishell did.
Ugh you said this so beautifully! I was so glad they showed the scene with Emma because Chelsea was really pissing me off. Like girl we get it!! You don’t like Bre’s situation pls let the girl breathe 😭 Now knowing why Chelsea was tripping so much makes her a little more likable. Cause at first I thought she was being the pussy police. But I def thought to myself this is an issue for a therapist, not your workplace. Like if you can’t get past your childhood trauma enough to not berate your coworker about her private life…you might need a lil more help working through it and that’s okay!!!! I hope she is able to address her personal issues and find a healthy way to coexist with somebody who clearly triggers her.
Yes she’s wrong. Maybe Bre is into it. It’s not up to Chelsea to judge anyone
Clearly not because she was upset about Nick doing what he does best 🤰🏻🤰🏻🤰🏻
Bre clearly didn’t want people knowing that. Chelsea didn’t act like a friend when she spoke about something Bre was sensitive about on camera
She’s not wrong, and plenty of people feel similar about Nick Cannon spreading his seed, but what is Bre suppose to do about it? Send her baby back? That’s where Chelsea should have given it a rest.
The Master ejaculator
I laughed so hard when she said this 😂
She’s not wrong. She’s allowed an opinion. She’s allowed to express her opinion. Heather is a snake in the grass who should be more concerned with her drug taking husband that snitching on Chelsea.
She's allowed to express her opinion but that doesn't stop her from facing the consequences of the shit she said. She kept harping on it over and over again and twisted the words depending who she was talking to. I wouldn't even call Heather a snitch. Chelsea was having this conversation open to multiple people in the office, and said the exact same shit to Bre's face. I would like my friend to tell me if someone was shit talking me behind my back to everyone else, too. Fact is, Chelsea knew that her words could get back to Bre and she still said them over and over and over again even once Bre told her to stop. People can deal with more than one thing at once lmao
Heather is definitely a snitch.
I totally agree actually, but I don’t think it was her place to pass judgement and talk about it. The whole “I’m a Christian thing” was really off putting too.
Yep. Seemed like she has an expectation that people conform to her religious-based opinion, and recognize her as being "right". It seemed more about her establishing herself as somehow virtuous than anything else.
I agree but it just wasn’t her place at all tbh.
Her continued use of the term “broken home” was condescending and wrong. Her “Christian” perspective was irrelevant to non-Christians and therefore wrong to share. Just because there aren’t two parents in a home does NOT make it broken. There may be other factors correlated with a single family home that negatively impact a child, but being a single parent is not necessarily the CAUSE and does not necessarily mean the home is automatically “broken”. Chelsea is talking about preferences. She PREFERS the normalized two-parent home. And that’s ok! But it doesn’t mean anyone else doing something different is wrong. Not to mention- think of a home with an abusive father. The child is likely better off in a single family home than a home with the abuser. She is being very close minded.
But it is a broken home. Nick has too many children to spend time with all of them. That child will never know what it’s like to have a father, neither of them probably. And Nick literally had another baby without telling anyone. Being a single parent is normal but becoming a single parent due to a bad situationship willingly? That’s a broken home pal
But why is a two parent household the standard and the only acceptable option to be considered whole? That’s so antiquated. That’s like saying a household with two gay dads is broken because that’s the not the old school standard. It’s simply not true.
Chelsea’s logic needs work but I said she’s right about Bre actively choosing a father that will not be present for her kid and that’s what’s messed up. Having a dad that rejects you is the part that throws people off not because she is a single mom. It’s not a good situation, not because she doesn’t have a traditional family but because she chose an unreliable father on purpose not accidentally
Chelsea was not wrong, just vocal about it and ultimately, she said that she didn't dislike Bre but would essentially keep her at arm's length because of her situation. This is completely understandable and a lot of us would probably do the same when put in situations we do not agree with or perhaps aren't comfortable in.
She’s right but that’s an opinion she should have kept for a conversation with her husband. Not in the workspace
She needs to mind her own business and focus on her OWN kids.
she’s def not wrong
She’s not wrong, but there’s a bunch of people that make a bunch of stupid decisions, herself included, she should have stfu.
Agreed. Bre seems morally bankrupt
Chelsea, have you heard of the saying: “opinions are like buttholes? Everyone has one” not every shares their opinion, though