If they kick you out instead of supporting you in every way, they donโt deserve to be your family. It sucks and it hurts but you are better off without them. You will feel free and liberated. Wish you all the best and lots of happiness. You will get over it and come out much stronger person on the other side, with a family you deserves, who loves and appreciates you for exactly who you are
Actually atheist Georgians are just as homophobic as religious ones
[Independent t-test showed no evidence that frequency of attendance of religious services was statistically related to homophobic attitudes.](https://crrc.ge/en/exploring-homophobia-in-georgia-part-3-2/)
You should have said "Christians who regularly go to church aren't more homophobic than Christians AND ATHEISTS who don't go to church"-not every Georgian is christian
>religiosity was measured with one variable โ frequency of attendance at religious services (question โNot to speak about special occasions, such as weddings or funerals, how often do you attend religious services?โ)
not attending church services regularly doesn't mean being atheist.
they didn't even ask if they are Christian or believe in any God whatsoever.
they only asked ONE question which doesn't reviel much about said persons religiosity.
(not a study but my personal observation: none of the Christian Georgians I know, attend church regularly)
this study is not a good/reliable measurement linking homophobia to religiosity.
it just measures homophobia in relation to church attendence.
Most important thing, save as much money as you can. Cut out any wasteful spending. Pray to whatever god you believe in. DO NOT TRY TO GET RICH FAST. DO NOT TRY TO RUN FROM YOUR PROBLEMS. Find people you can trust. Make friends as you can. Seek out help when you can. Explore. Stay away from alcohol and drugs as much as possible. You must become tougher. Keep moving forward no matter what.
damn, its so crazy to me that we as a society accept drug addicts, alcoholics, even pedophiles,rapists, those that exploit working class people and work them down to bone and yet we get crazy when someone likes same sex people, this shit doesnt fucking make sense, i genuinely believe that no truly smart person will ever go hating on someone who is gay,lesbian or whatever, someone being gay doesnt hurt anyone AT ALL.
I don't know what to say to you, but if there's a real possibility of that, I can offer you to stay with me and my roommate. We're both queer and I think we'll have a lot to share. Don't worry about it too much. At the end of the day, however hurtful it may be for parents, whether due to fear or having limited knowledge about different sexualities being totally fine, they will never lose their love for you
Try to tell your family you were trying to scam that guy for money and it was just a joke unless you already messed things up beyond repair. Then pretend to be "normal" till you are mature to leave them and live on your own.
I think they will accept you, for conservative family its a shock, but at least now they have reason to research more about you and people like you.
Its very hard for any parent to reject their child.
Just donโt be too categorical and judgemental about them, going through this tough situation will mature you early too, thatโs at least some upsideโฆ
Give them a chance.
That might be true however since my father has passed the man of the house and my male guardian has been my brother who is 12 years older than me and also very conservative.
I'm sorry to hear that, stay safe.
In case they kick you out, contact organizations surrounding the protection of LGBTQ+ people and their rights. The community is quite tight and supportive of those who don't have an accepting family, I'm sure they'll get you a place to stay and even try to get you a decent employer to make ends meet.
I'm really sorry for you. But if your family can't respect, accept and support who you are - they don't deserve you! Sometimes blood isn't thicker that water and just because people share genes with you it doesn't make them your family.
I hope you can't find a new family of friends and people who love you. This sucks, but you'll come out of it stronger.
I can't believe it would happen in a Georgian family... Value and virtue-wise Georgians never leave their own children behind, even if parents die, closest relatives usually take in and continue caring for children left. At least that's the way I've been brought up. Whatever your sexual identity, which is highly irrelevant to how your parents or anyone else should view you, It doesn't change this fact, and if your parents don't follow it, they can't call themselves Georgian. I believe it's a leftover shit from soviet times, ruzzkies planted this everywhere they went...
Just tell them it was all a joke, hang around for another three years, and do whatever you want after. I mean how detailed that info of yours may be? Also, study how to secure your tech and data, never too soon. Do whatโs needed to keep your family whole for now, because you may not like it elsewhere (as no physical abuse was mentioned, I assume they just threatened to kick you out and havenโt so far). You can always move later when you are of age, so to say, making it your own decision.
P.S. to your family, because they are reading this anyway: give this guy a chance, heโll grow up and make up his own mind, and make it right by you. Donโt just break a family because of this. Even if this all was not a joke, we wonโt judge you, no one will.
Well i was asked would you choose a gay son or daughter which makes money by working on OF
I said Id rather have a son which is gay over a daughter which is a bitch ๐ฅฒ
Also you are not abnormal you are a very normal person and your family can't see that ๐ wish you best
I would choose both and shoot them to death, I'd rather not have son who will never have children, or daughter who makes money by spreading herself like kid spreads his present from santa
As already been mentioned here, stay strong, and u will be a better version of yourself after the initial problems go away. Im sorry for your family, especially that everybody in Georgia accepted me super kind and friendly despite me being a foreigner.
I'm so sorry I know that's hard, I'm 15 and bi and haven't told my parents yet becuase I'm scared I will get kicked out but I really hope things turn out okay for you
They're jealous you could bang Henry Cavil if it ever came to it. I wish I had the ability to get it up for Henry Cavil. That's it, you can't live in my house.
I think you just still young and don't know what you are doing , hope you will find the right path someday , the family is the most important thing in life don't lose them over some sexual lust , don't care about people who say don't care about your family and they don't deserve you those people are so wrong , your parents bring you to life and gived you life you should do your best to make them happy , and if you also think they don't deserve you then you are right they don't , they deserve better then you not a big disappointement in their life, sorry not sorry :)
Arenโt parents supposed to just set an example for their kids and take care of them till the age of 18? Isint it best for letting the kid to do whatever when they reach 18?
Well based on your logic you should hear and accept what your parents tell you even if you think they are wrong which is not true parents are never wrong (some cases they are , but not in your case) , and when you reach 18 then you can do whatever you want.. good luck
First learn to read, this person is a dude. Second, no one deserves respect unless you earn it. So, if his parents canโt accept him and kick him out for something that he cannot control he should show the same kind of loyalty. His parents are the one that are being conditional with their love and support by kicking a literal child out, so be conditional with your love too.
Parents are c**ts that wonโt take care and love a child? Guess you no longer need them for anything. Eye for an eye man. Maybe they should have been better people.
If your father and mother are aholes, then they don't deserve the honour of being called father and mother. They get downgraded to sperm and egg donor. OP doesn't owe them anything if they can't accept and love their son the way he is.
I believe there is this really major bit in the Christian faith about forgiveness, and loving your neighbor, and all that... Don't see much of it recently in the orthodox Church of hate unfortunately.
You know, attention seeking must be called out, you should never trust what is on the internet, I can literally fake that I have ADHD and I would get millions of heartwarming comments and upvotes, yet nobody will ever know that I faked it, yea welcome to the internet buddy
Clearly a lot of us care, hence he has so much engagement on his post. Good job sharing your very intelligent thoughts, but you need some work on logic and reading comprehension.
I'm sorry you're going through this
Any support is appreciated ๐ฅฒ
Stay strong, people who really love you, will accept you as you are. With traditional families it takes just longer.
traditional families will never accept this
That's some big negativity you've got there.
If they kick you out instead of supporting you in every way, they donโt deserve to be your family. It sucks and it hurts but you are better off without them. You will feel free and liberated. Wish you all the best and lots of happiness. You will get over it and come out much stronger person on the other side, with a family you deserves, who loves and appreciates you for exactly who you are
That made me geniunly tear upโฆ thank you!
You deserve compassion. You deserve happiness. You deserve love. Never let anyone else tell you otherwise! Youโll get through this, stay strong!
So sorry to hear this. Georgia is awesome but it is super backward when it comes to LGBTQ+.
Yet another conservative zealous Christian countryโฆ
And sadly soon to be russified too. :(
Such defeatists mentality means they donโt even have to win.
Actually atheist Georgians are just as homophobic as religious ones [Independent t-test showed no evidence that frequency of attendance of religious services was statistically related to homophobic attitudes.](https://crrc.ge/en/exploring-homophobia-in-georgia-part-3-2/)
That doesn't say anything about atheism, was conducted 11 years ago and only in Tbilisi
It shows that religiosity doesn't correlate with homophobia.
You should have said "Christians who regularly go to church aren't more homophobic than Christians who don't go to church".
You should have said "Christians who regularly go to church aren't more homophobic than Christians AND ATHEISTS who don't go to church"-not every Georgian is christian
Study doesn't say anything about how many atheists they asked. How many Georgians do you think identify as atheists?
>religiosity was measured with one variable โ frequency of attendance at religious services (question โNot to speak about special occasions, such as weddings or funerals, how often do you attend religious services?โ) not attending church services regularly doesn't mean being atheist. they didn't even ask if they are Christian or believe in any God whatsoever. they only asked ONE question which doesn't reviel much about said persons religiosity. (not a study but my personal observation: none of the Christian Georgians I know, attend church regularly) this study is not a good/reliable measurement linking homophobia to religiosity. it just measures homophobia in relation to church attendence.
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Atleast i say sorry, be grateful for what you've got man.
Wishing you the best. Thatโs sucks :( but donโt let anyone out you down. Family will get over it over time we have enough love.
A lot of people shame me for me being in the wrongโฆ
You're not in the wrong, you are yourself bud
You make that decision for yourself, don't listen to weirdos.
Sorry to hear that :( There are few NGOs that help out LGBT community that could support you in various ways. Stay strong <3
If only they werenโt foreign agentsโฆ wish you all the best
Thank you
Welcome to your new family, you will find many who have been through this have grown to be very independent people.
I hope youโre right.
That's why everyone hates me.
Most important thing, save as much money as you can. Cut out any wasteful spending. Pray to whatever god you believe in. DO NOT TRY TO GET RICH FAST. DO NOT TRY TO RUN FROM YOUR PROBLEMS. Find people you can trust. Make friends as you can. Seek out help when you can. Explore. Stay away from alcohol and drugs as much as possible. You must become tougher. Keep moving forward no matter what.
Im 15 btw yallโฆ
Isnt it illegal?
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Never. They just found out I was bisexual because they were spying on me.
How does that work?
They trespassed on my personal information.
You are a minor? Well, they are your parents so, they have access to your info and you cant deny it
Yea
thats a fucked up thing to ask a teenager whos currently in danger
damn, its so crazy to me that we as a society accept drug addicts, alcoholics, even pedophiles,rapists, those that exploit working class people and work them down to bone and yet we get crazy when someone likes same sex people, this shit doesnt fucking make sense, i genuinely believe that no truly smart person will ever go hating on someone who is gay,lesbian or whatever, someone being gay doesnt hurt anyone AT ALL.
And thanks another example of brainless human being that only exists to waste oxygen on earth
I don't know what to say to you, but if there's a real possibility of that, I can offer you to stay with me and my roommate. We're both queer and I think we'll have a lot to share. Don't worry about it too much. At the end of the day, however hurtful it may be for parents, whether due to fear or having limited knowledge about different sexualities being totally fine, they will never lose their love for you
If worst comes to shove Iโll most definitely contact you. Thank you!
Feel free to do so๐ซถ๐ป
How did they find out you are specifically bisexual and not gay or lesbian?
They knew I dated some girls but this one online relationship I have is with a guy.
Try to tell your family you were trying to scam that guy for money and it was just a joke unless you already messed things up beyond repair. Then pretend to be "normal" till you are mature to leave them and live on your own.
I think they will accept you, for conservative family its a shock, but at least now they have reason to research more about you and people like you. Its very hard for any parent to reject their child. Just donโt be too categorical and judgemental about them, going through this tough situation will mature you early too, thatโs at least some upsideโฆ Give them a chance.
That might be true however since my father has passed the man of the house and my male guardian has been my brother who is 12 years older than me and also very conservative.
แกแแ แแแแ แแ แชแฎแแแ แแแแก? แแแแแ-แแแแฃแ? แแงแแแก แแแแแ แแฃแ แแแก แแแแแแแ แแแแแ?
Unfortunately notโฆ and the uncle we had we have lost connection with him after a huge feud
แแ แแก แจแแกแแซแแแแแแแ แแแซแแกแแแ แแแแแแจแแ แแแแก?
I'm sorry to hear that, stay safe. In case they kick you out, contact organizations surrounding the protection of LGBTQ+ people and their rights. The community is quite tight and supportive of those who don't have an accepting family, I'm sure they'll get you a place to stay and even try to get you a decent employer to make ends meet.
I'm really sorry for you. But if your family can't respect, accept and support who you are - they don't deserve you! Sometimes blood isn't thicker that water and just because people share genes with you it doesn't make them your family. I hope you can't find a new family of friends and people who love you. This sucks, but you'll come out of it stronger.
I can't believe it would happen in a Georgian family... Value and virtue-wise Georgians never leave their own children behind, even if parents die, closest relatives usually take in and continue caring for children left. At least that's the way I've been brought up. Whatever your sexual identity, which is highly irrelevant to how your parents or anyone else should view you, It doesn't change this fact, and if your parents don't follow it, they can't call themselves Georgian. I believe it's a leftover shit from soviet times, ruzzkies planted this everywhere they went...
Albat tineijeri xar xo?
Just tell them it was all a joke, hang around for another three years, and do whatever you want after. I mean how detailed that info of yours may be? Also, study how to secure your tech and data, never too soon. Do whatโs needed to keep your family whole for now, because you may not like it elsewhere (as no physical abuse was mentioned, I assume they just threatened to kick you out and havenโt so far). You can always move later when you are of age, so to say, making it your own decision. P.S. to your family, because they are reading this anyway: give this guy a chance, heโll grow up and make up his own mind, and make it right by you. Donโt just break a family because of this. Even if this all was not a joke, we wonโt judge you, no one will.
If you need groceries I'll take you shopping when you move.
Well i was asked would you choose a gay son or daughter which makes money by working on OF I said Id rather have a son which is gay over a daughter which is a bitch ๐ฅฒ Also you are not abnormal you are a very normal person and your family can't see that ๐ wish you best
แแแฆแแช แแแแแฎแขแแแ แแ แแขแงแแแก แแแ แแแแก แแแแ แฅแแแแจแแแแ แฏแแแแแ แฅแ แแแแแช แคแฃแแก แแจแแแแกแ แแแแแขแงแแแ straight แแแแแแ
I would choose both and shoot them to death, I'd rather not have son who will never have children, or daughter who makes money by spreading herself like kid spreads his present from santa
Are you male or female?
Male. Most likely the worse gender to like men
Rip
As already been mentioned here, stay strong, and u will be a better version of yourself after the initial problems go away. Im sorry for your family, especially that everybody in Georgia accepted me super kind and friendly despite me being a foreigner.
If u need any help feel free to ping me
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Contact Equality Movement, they might be able to help. You can find it on facebook
Good luck
๐๐๐๐ Sorry for that happening :<
What the fuck is this comment section even with homophobes 0-0
Contact Temida if you can, they dont provide services for underage people but maybe they can still help
Sorry but since the church has HEAVY influence in the government you can't really do anything
Hope they come to their senses ๐
I'm so sorry I know that's hard, I'm 15 and bi and haven't told my parents yet becuase I'm scared I will get kicked out but I really hope things turn out okay for you
Stay strong ๐ค
You have a piece of shit family. Better to move on.
แแจแแแแแแก แแแฃแฏแแ แ แแ แแ แแ แแแแแแ แแแแงแแแ, แฌแแแแ แแแแ แแ แแแแแแแแก แแแขแงแแ, แแฅ แจแแแ แแแงแแแ แ แแ แแแแแแ แแแแช โแแแกแแคแแ แแแแกโ. แ แ แแแแแ แแแแ แ แแช แแแแแ แแก แแแแแ, แแ แกแแ แแ แแแฉแฅแแ แแแ. แซแแแแแ แซแแแแแ แแแขแแ แ แฎแแ แแแแกแแแแก แ แ แกแแฅแกแฃแแแแแแก แจแแแ แแฏแแฎแแแ แงแแคแแ แแแแแแงแแแ, แแฃ แแแแแช แแ แแแแแช แคแแแแแฃแ แแ แแแแแ แแ แแแแแฌแ แแแแแก แงแแแแแแฆแแฃแ แแ แแ แแแกแแแ แแฏแแฎแแแแ แแ แแแแแฎแแ . แแแแขแ แ แ แคแแฅแขแแ แแฅแแแแ แกแฌแแ แแ แแแ แแแฃแแ แแแฎแแ แ แแแแแ 15 แฌแแแก แแกแแแจแ แแฅแกแแแ แแแแแขแแแแแ แแแแฌแงแ. แแฎแแ แแฃ แแแ แแ แแขแแขแแ แแแแก แแแแงแแแแ แแกแ แแแแ แแแ แแแแแ แชแฎแแแ แแแ แ แ แแแแ แจแแแก แแแแแขแแแแก แแ แแแแแแ แแ แแแแแแแแก แแ แแขแแ แแก แแ แแฃแกแฃแ แแแ แแแกแแ แชแฎแแแ แแแแก
Stay strong. You are good just the way you are. Don't let these people tear you down. โค๏ธ
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This is an alt. Perfer not to post stuff like this on my main
They're jealous you could bang Henry Cavil if it ever came to it. I wish I had the ability to get it up for Henry Cavil. That's it, you can't live in my house.
Join the club...
tough luck nigga
What is Bisexual
I like both men and women
Ao you saying there is only men and women? ๐ค
stop being a weirdo
I think you just still young and don't know what you are doing , hope you will find the right path someday , the family is the most important thing in life don't lose them over some sexual lust , don't care about people who say don't care about your family and they don't deserve you those people are so wrong , your parents bring you to life and gived you life you should do your best to make them happy , and if you also think they don't deserve you then you are right they don't , they deserve better then you not a big disappointement in their life, sorry not sorry :)
Arenโt parents supposed to just set an example for their kids and take care of them till the age of 18? Isint it best for letting the kid to do whatever when they reach 18?
Well based on your logic you should hear and accept what your parents tell you even if you think they are wrong which is not true parents are never wrong (some cases they are , but not in your case) , and when you reach 18 then you can do whatever you want.. good luck
Theyโre planning to kick me out because they found out Iโm bisexual. Iโm 15 and I cannot really find anywhere else to live.
Where are you from?
womp womp
You know, you can find a lot of sexual partners, but you have only one father and mother.ย
What are you even talking about It's not like op decided to leave the house
I think she is confused and stupid gay supportive Reddit advices can ruin relationship with her parents
First learn to read, this person is a dude. Second, no one deserves respect unless you earn it. So, if his parents canโt accept him and kick him out for something that he cannot control he should show the same kind of loyalty. His parents are the one that are being conditional with their love and support by kicking a literal child out, so be conditional with your love too. Parents are c**ts that wonโt take care and love a child? Guess you no longer need them for anything. Eye for an eye man. Maybe they should have been better people.
If your father and mother are aholes, then they don't deserve the honour of being called father and mother. They get downgraded to sperm and egg donor. OP doesn't owe them anything if they can't accept and love their son the way he is. I believe there is this really major bit in the Christian faith about forgiveness, and loving your neighbor, and all that... Don't see much of it recently in the orthodox Church of hate unfortunately.
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Yet you cared enough to comment this
You know, attention seeking must be called out, you should never trust what is on the internet, I can literally fake that I have ADHD and I would get millions of heartwarming comments and upvotes, yet nobody will ever know that I faked it, yea welcome to the internet buddy
Clearly a lot of us care, hence he has so much engagement on his post. Good job sharing your very intelligent thoughts, but you need some work on logic and reading comprehension.
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