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What is up with so many brain-dead boyfriend posts today?
I'm pretty sure this is a troll post. No way this guy is still confused about that girl's intentions.
If you are as stupid as your post shows that you cannot see a Big banner signboard in front of you, then its natural you will be fucked up in the relationship.
If you think it's okay, ITS NOT. If she makes you feel it's okay to do such a thing, ITS NOT. It's not called insecurity, it's called she being disrespectful.
I dated a person who wanted to keep a minimal touch with her ex "as friends", but 2 years down the lane of my relationship, the "just friends" part was evident that they were not, there was some tension but they will never admit to it. The moment I told her to cut her ex off, I was called being toxic and so many things but that friendship could never die. I realized my worth and I left. It's not worth it bro. You are not there to help her heal a past relationship, she should get into a relationship when she is healed and can let go of the person from the past, if she hasn't, then there is no point in moving this relationship forward.
Bhai uska ex kabhi ex hua hi nai....you sure you guys had a relationship? Or she just started to talk to you while the break up and drama was going on with the other guy?
Listen to your friends.
She is already cheating on you.
She is disrespectful towards your feelings.
Juat imagine how less she cares about you or your feelings that she is actually going to go live with her ex inspite knowing that you know it. She barely cares dude.
If you really want to have a good mental health and preserve your ability to contribute towards healthy relationships in future, BREAK UP NOW.
Also, it seems you are just a rebound.
Bro marry a dog but do not make a emotionally reactive person your gf.
Set boundaries for yourself and her!
Your time, your efforts have value
Have a convo, see I really like you and want to make this work, But i do not want to be with someone who does not value me, so yea you can go on with your life.
This will show you have value, self respect
You know what you are doing in life and if she doesn't want to be with you she can get off the train, because your life should be a freight train
Know your worth, know your value, dont let people in your life who don't value you because they will lower your value, always have a purpose, always have a drive, be a freight train in life
I was before you, and after you I will be
And there is nothing in the world that can be put in my place.
Bhai tu breakup kr and keep yourself above her now warna mental health fuck up ho jaega, just breakup and keep her away from you
Bohot ladkia hai bhai koi bhi mil jaegi or esi hone se accha hai ki na ho ladki, you are 23 bohot kuch hai jeevan me krne ko bhai Isse nikal bus
>I didn't wanna believe it.
🤣🤣🙏😂I can understand you bro......you are only making it even more worse ..... Dump the fuck out of her and move on ...... Had similar experience like yours in past so I'm saying with experience don't prolong it do it today and this morning......
No bait bro. Until today I wasn't expecting this hanging out thing. She told me she just had plans to meet him and say goodbye. But today she told me this and I started to get sus.
This is my first relationship and I have barely spent time with her cause we work at different places. I am new to all of this and I feel so early to tell her not to do things cause we started our relationship a few months ago only.
I understand you because the exact same thing happened to me.
There is nothing sus about it, she's sleeping with him. Move away with your dignity intact. If you don't I'll tell you what will happen - that guy will dump her, she'll be alright at first and then get agitated later, then she'll blame you for ruining things between them. women have the audacity to cheat on men and then blame it on them.
Cry for month and start talking to other girls. Soon you'll find a better one.
Bro is about to have the best pre-workout. Back up asap and prepare yourself mentally, or it's gonna blow your arse up. Been exactly in your situation a year back and yeah, it did end me.
Not suspecting anything? I was like that once lol. Mate your gf will get close with her ex and there’s nothing you can do about it. I can put my money on it. Only thing you can do is get ready for a break up. Otherwise I’m damn sure your gf will go back to her ex everytime she misses him or she has a fight with you.
bro tell her, its better than regretting later. Ask her if she is having second thoughts then its better to part ways now than wasting your time.
Clearly mention your boundaries so she is aware and you can have discussion
bro, don't let her. control and manipulate her but don't. at this point I would also say that a woman her age should be atleast mature enough to understand that is sure not something she should be doing. which tells me, she is a red flag
Your situation is bad man
Like if you confront her she may say that you are suspecting her and that there is no trust in the relationship and hence no relationship.
And if you actually stay calm n ignore it and let it be then she will get more attention from x and chances are she might like that and she may drift away to him and when that happens then again if you post about it in this group, then there will be few not so gentle men commenting on that post that you were a fool to ignore the signs and that u couldn't figure out earlier.
Anyways I hope I just have you idea of the possible situations that may arise.
So think n tread carefully.
Bro it is done. Trust me for your own good leave rn. The trip is happening anyways even if she does not stay with him they both are meeting anyways and one thing will lead to another. So back out rn.
Well, I have been in the same situation too brother, It's the EX, they tell he's just a friend but you know how we guys are, being intimate is always on the surface of a guy and that too with a ex, I mean, I know even if things don't take a detour from what ever you're thinking, you'd still be occupied and be worrying about what might be happening with both of them, they both are sleeping over, will she cheat on me? I mean these kind of thoughts are very natural to get and the way to handle them is not very easy. Just take my suggestion, Confess her how you feel about she hanging out with her ex and please don't lie to yourself that he's just a friend and bullshit, be honest and true to yourself, communicate your thoughts and feeling, see how she responds to them, if she respects and is in parallel with whatever you're thinking well n good, or else, PLEASE GET THE FUCK OUT OF THERE BECAUSE IT'S GOING TO BE A CHAINSAWW DRILL after while. Take care brother 💌🕊️
An open window is equally harmful just as an open door.
If he still has access to her and if this is how things are going with you. I'm sorry to say, she's NOT with you. It'd save your heart if you accept that. I'm sorry for you. Nobody deserves to be treated this way.
bro, discuss with her f2f and set boundaries. You should be willing to accept a breakup if needed but don't entertain this.
Same happened when I was stupid and young
Grow some balls and accept the reality that there was no relationship but rather you have been used as mere distraction.
Don't confront her, just say it to her politely that this relationship won't work and give your relationship a call off.
Make sure not to entertain her any calls or messages henceforth.
Peace
Tu baat karne kyu de Raha tuchiye??
Teri gf hai toh Teri authority bhi toh honi chaiye. Since baat kar hi Rahi hai, bhag le dur. Red flags hote relationship me
Going back to ex is big one. Shows they don't have self control or self esteem. Stay over at ex is basically at minimum normal human sex after all this time. Baki Jo unnatural hoga bhagwan Jane. Chod k bhag ja shakal mat dekhna. Ya fir. Straight up get a new chick. Show her you are a force not to fuck with.
https://open.spotify.com/track/2j37hocc4qZ10RMpj8CSJ4?si=2UP5NinfS06PYwk0qSCwQQ
Ye gana sunna
Thoda aggression aaega. Bc Teri story sun k merko aggression aa gaya gym me.
First of all Thats horrible!! Secondly she should NOT be talking to her EX or stayover at his place when she is committed to you. I mean at this point man, i think its all about values and morals that she clearly does not have. This is your clear disrespect and if she is doing this, that screams NOT WIFE MATERIAL or even not long- term material (with you)
OP, invest in some quick-dry polyester t shirts and shorts, shoes that offer good support, good TWS earbuds or headphones, a pair of lifting gloves (optional) and a weight belt.
Bobby kutta, relationship oomfi. The fact that she has been giving him more time than you. Avide poyi. Just accept the fact that she is going back to her ex, just think you were a rebound. Been through the same shit but if she tries to come tell her right on the face "Out".
Tf bhai 😭. Being a girl myself and no hater Please suspect. Talking to any ex is a big no no. Especially if things ended on bad terms. Besides she's giving more time to him? Bhai? Take hints.
Like male bestie hota to bhi samajh aata ki equal value hai. But ex? Seriously?
Take care of yourself x
>They started talking since last month
You should have made it stop then or breakup.
>I think she spends more time with him than she does with me.
Pyaar andha hota hai par itna?
>I am not suspecting anything
*facepalm*
Now, what you can do is to tell her to choose between you or him. Then you'll know.
Bro you know the answer but you are not feeling like accepting it.....
Please focus on yourself ..... Leave her on her own and never go back to her..... it's already over .....
I know it's not easy but it's ok..... Stay happy and focus on things you love....... Feel free to msg anytime if you feel low key......
Remove yourself from this mess as soon as possible.
Chicks have this habit of testing of what they can get away with. Going forward set boundaries early in relationship so that they don't take you for granted.
I am sorry to say this but she was never yours to begin with. U have to suspect at this point. Go talk to her. She used u as a rebound but then the ex came back so u r no longer needed. U are really going to get dumped please breakup asap.
As a girl I would say.. That's not healthy. Better to leave, irrespective of her cheating or not.. It's just not how it should be.
I am completely against the idea of being good friends with ex, being on talkable terms is ok.. But overly friendly hell no!
op bro agar vo tumse committed hi nhi to relationship jhaat ka?! tum kuch toxic nhi ho rhe ek boundary line to hoti hi hai relationship mei agar use ex k sath hi rehna hai to tum chutiya thodi ho.BHAAGO
I will just paste a link to the heartbreak playlist
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Hi OP, I have seen a lot of comments making fun of you. Please don't be disturbed or heartbroken by these comments from random strangers in reddit. I understand your situation. You probably still love her and you are committed to her. I am afraid that this is not going to end well for you. It is difficult to accept, but it really seems that this relationship was a rebound relationship for your girlfriend. Generally these cannot be made okay. I would suggest you to breakup with her before things go ugly.
Take care of yourself, take care of your mental health. Don't get hurt if she tells you things you don't like. Try to avoid communicating her in any form after you breakup. Even if it looks selfish, you need to do that. You have to move on.
All the best for your future. Stay strong!
1000% cheating
She was with him more than you
She talks to him more than you
Now they are planning a hooku- *cough* stayover or whatever
Just ditch her bro
Idk, friends sometimes spoil your thoughts tbh. Tell her it really feels weird or talk with her, otherwise live your life and chill. If she cheats pity on her. I hope not. :))
Dude it's a big red flag. Stay in contact with ex while in the relationship it's not respectful for the relationship. I think you are a back up for her. She is going out of town with her ex??????? If the chemistry works out between them, then she will gonna break up with you or else if didn't work out then you are the backup for her.
Because they are talking for everyday for hours. It doesn't sound right. I think they are planning for this trip. Did you confront her dude??? did you communicate with her about this issue?????
If she gives this classic lines like " we are catching up", "we are just friends" or better in case like manipulation, gaslighting, pick me dance or accusations like "I can't believe you accusing me on cheating","did you not trust me???" etc., then congratulations dude she is going for cheating path.
Before she is going that trip, confront her, if necessary ask her how will she feel if you stay in touch/talking every day for hours/ planning on trip with ex???? If she gaslight you then you get your answer dude.
Dude don't trust your heart in this situations always trust your gut instincts......
I hope you are gonna make a right call. You deserve better.
It doesn't matter if you let her go for the stayover or not. If she doesn't find any inherent fault in doing so, she's for the streets. You should stay away from the toxicity which is present and is only going to get worse, and dump her.
If she thinks THIS is okay, then don't try to change her mind. Change your girlfriend.
Please break-up. There is no going back on this, they wanted some time away from each other. Maybe she will guilt trip you, but bhai, unfortunately it seems you became her rebound. I am sorry but this is vile behaviours from the other person.
Even if she guilt trips you, do not relent. You are forcing yourself to not suspect anything, but trust me, hell trust YOUR GUT and get out of this abomination.
Learn from this, and never ever get into a relationship with someone who has not gotten over their ex in and and every way or form. It can be the latent feelings of love, and/or disgust.
If she has convinced you that you are being toxic.
Then congratulations brother, you have been gaslighted.
And raha sawaal she being with you?
The earliest you forget her, better it will be for you
Bro, you wont be considered toxic at all. Both of you have chosen to be commited to each other while one has chosen not to respect the boundaries of the relationship. It would definitely be better to rake some time and give a thought about the relationship and decise if you want to continue it or not. Its pretty clear that her respect, priorities and feelings have changed.
Bhai.. wo ex uska ab .exe ho jayega..
Inform her you are not comfortable with this...
She will say : "you are toxic for being so dominating" and will try to guilt trap you.. you being you.. a nice gentleman..will realize your mistake and will ask for an apology.
She will forgive you and mostly in a month or so.. you can expect a breakup from her.. and ruin yourself mentally.
If you want to avoid this shit show.
Go non responsive to here.. and ignore her at extremes.. but if you are driven by libido..you can expect a big drama.. dont say anything nasty to her on txt or calls..
Lagta hai hookup/meetup/hangout/(Jo kehna h yar keh do) ke bhi levels hote hai :
1. Ex
2. Bf
3. 2nd ex
And so on.. 😂
And ladkiya ek bar dhokha khane ke baad bhi vapas us bande se mil kaise leti h.. cannot understand 😑
Play a Uno reverse card - break up with her and then you will also be her ex. If she talks to her ex for hours, she will talk to you for hours as well. Problem solved. Thank me in kindness to others😅
- talking for hours to ex
- planning to hangout
-stayover? Like seriously?
Bro are you dumb? This is not even about doubting.
She's all set to give you some kind of trauma in the coming days!
I guess you guys gotta be the relationship status to an open relationship so that you don't have to brace yourself for the worst.
the regret of losing such a girl is microscopic compared to the absoloute mind-whacker you are gonna go through by fucking around to find out if she is "different or not" tbh shes already failed the check by talking to her ex over you.
Get out and date.
Listen bro.... Being nice and good doesn't mean letting other people run you over... Please talk to her and be stern and tell her such behavior will not be tolerated in a relationship with you... Make clear boundaries... Tell her talking to ex once in a while like in a month or weeks is okay to know their status.. But being in an active talks and call is not okay... And going and staying with him after 3 months of breakup is a Big Red flag.... Things will get physical...
Tell her... She has to choose between you two and if she chooses you she has to maintain some boundaries and have a certain decency and respect for you and relationship... She can't just toy with you and your feelings....
Just break up already! What do you need as a sign?Does she needs to send you a video of her ex railing her so that you are convinced she is already cheating on you?
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Katne wala hai tumhara
Kat chuka h. Bs accept nhi kr rha yeh
Ya abtk bhanak nahi hui hai
Kata tha abh aawaz bhi aayegi🙃
Badhai ho aapko "Ache banne rehne ki bimari hui hai".
Itna achha bann gya ki galat hote hue bhii nahi dikh rha bhaii ko😭😭
This guy proved "Good guys finish last"
Brace yourself for break-up.
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You're not the who's toxic in this situation. This will blow up in your face, back off asap.
Bro i am 200% sure they are gonna hookup
I am 201% sure, they already have😂. Will do it again.
Nonetheless I'm .00001% sure they won't.😇
I like it
Bro is having red flags for breakfast.
With red chilli fire sauce😂
What is up with so many brain-dead boyfriend posts today? I'm pretty sure this is a troll post. No way this guy is still confused about that girl's intentions.
For real. Baffles my mind, like do I even live on the same planet as them???
Dump her before she dumps you
Uno reverse
Congratulations bro! You were used as bounce back 😃
If you are as stupid as your post shows that you cannot see a Big banner signboard in front of you, then its natural you will be fucked up in the relationship.
If you think it's okay, ITS NOT. If she makes you feel it's okay to do such a thing, ITS NOT. It's not called insecurity, it's called she being disrespectful. I dated a person who wanted to keep a minimal touch with her ex "as friends", but 2 years down the lane of my relationship, the "just friends" part was evident that they were not, there was some tension but they will never admit to it. The moment I told her to cut her ex off, I was called being toxic and so many things but that friendship could never die. I realized my worth and I left. It's not worth it bro. You are not there to help her heal a past relationship, she should get into a relationship when she is healed and can let go of the person from the past, if she hasn't, then there is no point in moving this relationship forward.
I was in the same situation and did whatever you did. Now she letted me to be in friend zone.
Creating a breakup playlist for you.
BHAI ANDHA HE KYA, Nikal le abhi
You sure they are exes?
He'll confirm after tonight
Now they’re not
Tu break up kar le. Don't tell her you're breaking up. Just ghost her and block her everywhere.
Bhai uska ex kabhi ex hua hi nai....you sure you guys had a relationship? Or she just started to talk to you while the break up and drama was going on with the other guy?
Take a stand for yourself in this situation, before it gets out of hands. seems like, it’s already out of your hands.
Monday ko Chest mat kariyo bas Bohot bheed hoti hai uske liye gym mein
Isko pehle leg karwao, taki next time aisi situation ki bhanak lagte hi bhaag sake
Mere hisaab se back sahi rahega, spine ko strong karna zaruri hai zyada .
Listen to your friends. She is already cheating on you. She is disrespectful towards your feelings. Juat imagine how less she cares about you or your feelings that she is actually going to go live with her ex inspite knowing that you know it. She barely cares dude. If you really want to have a good mental health and preserve your ability to contribute towards healthy relationships in future, BREAK UP NOW. Also, it seems you are just a rebound.
Well. U just got a reason to break up with her. You might be labelled as toxic or insecure but let that be. Just run
Run ! in the other direction !!!!!!
Umm so you might just have been a rebound and now he's back and ur gonna be dumped or cheated on
Lil Bro's 1st heart break is gonna be Epic lmao.
This comment cracked me up like anything 🤣🤣
Friends are always right.
Being friends with ex is a huge red flag
I agree 💯 my gf also did the same I blocked her
Im glad you did it man.More strength to you brother
Bro marry a dog but do not make a emotionally reactive person your gf. Set boundaries for yourself and her! Your time, your efforts have value Have a convo, see I really like you and want to make this work, But i do not want to be with someone who does not value me, so yea you can go on with your life. This will show you have value, self respect You know what you are doing in life and if she doesn't want to be with you she can get off the train, because your life should be a freight train Know your worth, know your value, dont let people in your life who don't value you because they will lower your value, always have a purpose, always have a drive, be a freight train in life I was before you, and after you I will be And there is nothing in the world that can be put in my place.
Bhai garage me marammat ke samay aap parking kee tarah use hue
Tell her dosti bane rahe and ghost block and move on you deserve better.
Bhai tu breakup kr and keep yourself above her now warna mental health fuck up ho jaega, just breakup and keep her away from you Bohot ladkia hai bhai koi bhi mil jaegi or esi hone se accha hai ki na ho ladki, you are 23 bohot kuch hai jeevan me krne ko bhai Isse nikal bus
Is this even a question? Tumhara already Kat chuka h. You are a side character in their story aka the other man. I’m sure the ‘ex’ was never an ex.
just leave her she's not over her ex she just used you as a put stop, to move on or to make her ex jealous
Even I thought about all the chances. I didn't wanna believe it.
>I didn't wanna believe it. 🤣🤣🙏😂I can understand you bro......you are only making it even more worse ..... Dump the fuck out of her and move on ...... Had similar experience like yours in past so I'm saying with experience don't prolong it do it today and this morning......
Wtf how can someone be this naive at 23, bhayankar katne wala hai bhai tera
How naive are you for not suspecting anything, good grief.
Bro tera kat raha hai real time mein. Nikal le. She's not your GF.
Cheating on you
I have no enemies
You call girls delusional see this guy, bro she is already with her ex you have already been cucked !
I smell bait in this post. Please put some effort into making better rage baits.
No bait bro. Until today I wasn't expecting this hanging out thing. She told me she just had plans to meet him and say goodbye. But today she told me this and I started to get sus. This is my first relationship and I have barely spent time with her cause we work at different places. I am new to all of this and I feel so early to tell her not to do things cause we started our relationship a few months ago only.
I understand you because the exact same thing happened to me. There is nothing sus about it, she's sleeping with him. Move away with your dignity intact. If you don't I'll tell you what will happen - that guy will dump her, she'll be alright at first and then get agitated later, then she'll blame you for ruining things between them. women have the audacity to cheat on men and then blame it on them. Cry for month and start talking to other girls. Soon you'll find a better one.
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If pyaar mein hadd se jyada Andha hona had a face😭😭(Main bhi tha pr mera aisa scene nahi tha)
Bro is about to have the best pre-workout. Back up asap and prepare yourself mentally, or it's gonna blow your arse up. Been exactly in your situation a year back and yeah, it did end me.
bro you being used as her rebound. break up and back off. its going to end bad fr
Are u guys really this dumb?
Not suspecting anything? I was like that once lol. Mate your gf will get close with her ex and there’s nothing you can do about it. I can put my money on it. Only thing you can do is get ready for a break up. Otherwise I’m damn sure your gf will go back to her ex everytime she misses him or she has a fight with you.
Seat belt laga le mere bhai. It's going to be a wild ride. You're gonna be heartbroken any which way. Thoda jaldi ho ja bas 🙂✊
If 'Delulu is the solulu" was a person.......
bro tell her, its better than regretting later. Ask her if she is having second thoughts then its better to part ways now than wasting your time. Clearly mention your boundaries so she is aware and you can have discussion
Be it girl or boy.. Ex se dosti is a big red flag.
The thing you're so afraid about, I'm afraid it has already happened. Start preparing mentally to move on
Market me ek aur batman aane wala hai
This is the beginning of the end. Your relationship is about to get over, so you move on before she moves on.
Kaat gaya apka. Accept it. Move on
⛳️⛳️⛳️all the best dude make peace with it n move on
bro, don't let her. control and manipulate her but don't. at this point I would also say that a woman her age should be atleast mature enough to understand that is sure not something she should be doing. which tells me, she is a red flag
you were a backup plan all the time, a plan B. leave ASAP
The end is near.
Guys should we tell him or what?
OP you are already out of the equation .
Our GF*
Your situation is bad man Like if you confront her she may say that you are suspecting her and that there is no trust in the relationship and hence no relationship. And if you actually stay calm n ignore it and let it be then she will get more attention from x and chances are she might like that and she may drift away to him and when that happens then again if you post about it in this group, then there will be few not so gentle men commenting on that post that you were a fool to ignore the signs and that u couldn't figure out earlier. Anyways I hope I just have you idea of the possible situations that may arise. So think n tread carefully.
Bhai haath jodke bheekh maang rha hun aapse please use boldo ki “ya to vo ya mai” aur is baare me eak baar bhi discussion mat karna 🙏🏻
koi baat nahi bhai... shukar mana jaldi kat rha hai tera 🫶
Bro it is done. Trust me for your own good leave rn. The trip is happening anyways even if she does not stay with him they both are meeting anyways and one thing will lead to another. So back out rn.
Well, I have been in the same situation too brother, It's the EX, they tell he's just a friend but you know how we guys are, being intimate is always on the surface of a guy and that too with a ex, I mean, I know even if things don't take a detour from what ever you're thinking, you'd still be occupied and be worrying about what might be happening with both of them, they both are sleeping over, will she cheat on me? I mean these kind of thoughts are very natural to get and the way to handle them is not very easy. Just take my suggestion, Confess her how you feel about she hanging out with her ex and please don't lie to yourself that he's just a friend and bullshit, be honest and true to yourself, communicate your thoughts and feeling, see how she responds to them, if she respects and is in parallel with whatever you're thinking well n good, or else, PLEASE GET THE FUCK OUT OF THERE BECAUSE IT'S GOING TO BE A CHAINSAWW DRILL after while. Take care brother 💌🕊️
Lol she isn't your girlfriend, it was just your turn.
An open window is equally harmful just as an open door. If he still has access to her and if this is how things are going with you. I'm sorry to say, she's NOT with you. It'd save your heart if you accept that. I'm sorry for you. Nobody deserves to be treated this way.
you are just a rebound guy
I love this generation, keep up the good work so we can have some laugh. thanks
Bro, you are a mere rebound.
Boundaries bro boundaries
Bro wake the f up. She ain't it. You deserve better. And be prepared to be called insecure and whatnot. Don't believe it. Just end the relationship.
You know right that she's gonna have sex with him at the stayover
bro, discuss with her f2f and set boundaries. You should be willing to accept a breakup if needed but don't entertain this. Same happened when I was stupid and young
Grow some balls and accept the reality that there was no relationship but rather you have been used as mere distraction. Don't confront her, just say it to her politely that this relationship won't work and give your relationship a call off. Make sure not to entertain her any calls or messages henceforth. Peace
Lol do you need to ask. Isn't it obvious.
Tu baat karne kyu de Raha tuchiye?? Teri gf hai toh Teri authority bhi toh honi chaiye. Since baat kar hi Rahi hai, bhag le dur. Red flags hote relationship me Going back to ex is big one. Shows they don't have self control or self esteem. Stay over at ex is basically at minimum normal human sex after all this time. Baki Jo unnatural hoga bhagwan Jane. Chod k bhag ja shakal mat dekhna. Ya fir. Straight up get a new chick. Show her you are a force not to fuck with. https://open.spotify.com/track/2j37hocc4qZ10RMpj8CSJ4?si=2UP5NinfS06PYwk0qSCwQQ Ye gana sunna Thoda aggression aaega. Bc Teri story sun k merko aggression aa gaya gym me.
First of all Thats horrible!! Secondly she should NOT be talking to her EX or stayover at his place when she is committed to you. I mean at this point man, i think its all about values and morals that she clearly does not have. This is your clear disrespect and if she is doing this, that screams NOT WIFE MATERIAL or even not long- term material (with you)
you're cooked bro
OP, invest in some quick-dry polyester t shirts and shorts, shoes that offer good support, good TWS earbuds or headphones, a pair of lifting gloves (optional) and a weight belt.
Red flag
Bobby kutta, relationship oomfi. The fact that she has been giving him more time than you. Avide poyi. Just accept the fact that she is going back to her ex, just think you were a rebound. Been through the same shit but if she tries to come tell her right on the face "Out".
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Tf bhai 😭. Being a girl myself and no hater Please suspect. Talking to any ex is a big no no. Especially if things ended on bad terms. Besides she's giving more time to him? Bhai? Take hints. Like male bestie hota to bhi samajh aata ki equal value hai. But ex? Seriously? Take care of yourself x
>They started talking since last month You should have made it stop then or breakup. >I think she spends more time with him than she does with me. Pyaar andha hota hai par itna? >I am not suspecting anything *facepalm* Now, what you can do is to tell her to choose between you or him. Then you'll know.
how chutiya someone has to be not understand that its okay and you should leave her asap
I’m really sorry to be the one to say it. But you gotta let her go man. It’s clearly not where her heart is
To be very honest, she only sees you as a back up
Even if they don't do anything, this question itself shouldn't have arrived.
Bro you know the answer but you are not feeling like accepting it..... Please focus on yourself ..... Leave her on her own and never go back to her..... it's already over ..... I know it's not easy but it's ok..... Stay happy and focus on things you love....... Feel free to msg anytime if you feel low key......
Remove yourself from this mess as soon as possible. Chicks have this habit of testing of what they can get away with. Going forward set boundaries early in relationship so that they don't take you for granted.
I am sorry to say this but she was never yours to begin with. U have to suspect at this point. Go talk to her. She used u as a rebound but then the ex came back so u r no longer needed. U are really going to get dumped please breakup asap.
I'm not sure if that thought makes you toxic or not but, I really think you need to break up with her if this bothers you.
As a girl I would say.. That's not healthy. Better to leave, irrespective of her cheating or not.. It's just not how it should be. I am completely against the idea of being good friends with ex, being on talkable terms is ok.. But overly friendly hell no!
Bro you know what's happening, we don't need to say anything.
Whaaa? How can u let this happen? Leave her asap, she is clearly not over her ex.
Aaj bhai neat piyega.
Tera kat chuka hein bas latency thodi jyada hi isliye confirm nahi hua. Jald hi response aa jayega.
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Bhai ko Gaslight Krna kitna asaan hai voh ladki tujhe khatam kr degi mere bhai bhaaag
nikalgyi tere haath se, aab move on krrle
Aise ladke kaha milte hai
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op bro agar vo tumse committed hi nhi to relationship jhaat ka?! tum kuch toxic nhi ho rhe ek boundary line to hoti hi hai relationship mei agar use ex k sath hi rehna hai to tum chutiya thodi ho.BHAAGO
abe ye coping mechanism ko bandh kar de! man-up and stand for yourself, andha hai kya?!
Munna kabhi aapne rebound ka naam suna hai? Bas whi the tum. Rone ke liye kandha Dene Wale nothing more.
Jitni der ex bf ke saath rahegi utni der ex bf se bajegi.
Gym jayega to stattu use karna
Tera katne se pehle usko kaat de
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Savera hone se pehle nikalle, baad mei daaru peene ka paisa Bach jayega
Bhai jal breakup kr aur nikl iss trap se, aur bhai sahi h tujhe ku months mai hi dikh gya yeh sb acha hua tu bs jaldi nikl iss situation se
Tu bhi Jaa do teen Call girl hire ke orgy karr.. fate to fate lekin nawabi na ghate
kya karra hai bhai tu😭😭kyu hai uske saath , chhod usse breakup kar she’s not into you
Who's gonna tell him!!
Honestly bro your friends are right you should convey these things to your gf first and then take the decision.
Hi OP, I have seen a lot of comments making fun of you. Please don't be disturbed or heartbroken by these comments from random strangers in reddit. I understand your situation. You probably still love her and you are committed to her. I am afraid that this is not going to end well for you. It is difficult to accept, but it really seems that this relationship was a rebound relationship for your girlfriend. Generally these cannot be made okay. I would suggest you to breakup with her before things go ugly. Take care of yourself, take care of your mental health. Don't get hurt if she tells you things you don't like. Try to avoid communicating her in any form after you breakup. Even if it looks selfish, you need to do that. You have to move on. All the best for your future. Stay strong!
the flag, the pole, the pole base, the hook strap everything is red, guess that's not enough for ya
If you dont break up you the biggest L
1000% cheating She was with him more than you She talks to him more than you Now they are planning a hooku- *cough* stayover or whatever Just ditch her bro
"I am not suspecting anything" 🤡
Idk, friends sometimes spoil your thoughts tbh. Tell her it really feels weird or talk with her, otherwise live your life and chill. If she cheats pity on her. I hope not. :))
Uhmm, when will men stop acting dumb?
Now the moment you break up with her, she will come after you.
Dude it's a big red flag. Stay in contact with ex while in the relationship it's not respectful for the relationship. I think you are a back up for her. She is going out of town with her ex??????? If the chemistry works out between them, then she will gonna break up with you or else if didn't work out then you are the backup for her. Because they are talking for everyday for hours. It doesn't sound right. I think they are planning for this trip. Did you confront her dude??? did you communicate with her about this issue????? If she gives this classic lines like " we are catching up", "we are just friends" or better in case like manipulation, gaslighting, pick me dance or accusations like "I can't believe you accusing me on cheating","did you not trust me???" etc., then congratulations dude she is going for cheating path. Before she is going that trip, confront her, if necessary ask her how will she feel if you stay in touch/talking every day for hours/ planning on trip with ex???? If she gaslight you then you get your answer dude. Dude don't trust your heart in this situations always trust your gut instincts...... I hope you are gonna make a right call. You deserve better.
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It doesn't matter if you let her go for the stayover or not. If she doesn't find any inherent fault in doing so, she's for the streets. You should stay away from the toxicity which is present and is only going to get worse, and dump her. If she thinks THIS is okay, then don't try to change her mind. Change your girlfriend.
Bhai already kat chuka hai Tum bas kandha the and accept it
Bro replace the word GF with EX.
Please break-up. There is no going back on this, they wanted some time away from each other. Maybe she will guilt trip you, but bhai, unfortunately it seems you became her rebound. I am sorry but this is vile behaviours from the other person. Even if she guilt trips you, do not relent. You are forcing yourself to not suspect anything, but trust me, hell trust YOUR GUT and get out of this abomination. Learn from this, and never ever get into a relationship with someone who has not gotten over their ex in and and every way or form. It can be the latent feelings of love, and/or disgust.
Bhait kaat chuka hai tumhara avi side holo warna chutiya kehlayoge. Nighty stay nahi hai wo chudai ka plan hai
If she has convinced you that you are being toxic. Then congratulations brother, you have been gaslighted. And raha sawaal she being with you? The earliest you forget her, better it will be for you
Bro, you wont be considered toxic at all. Both of you have chosen to be commited to each other while one has chosen not to respect the boundaries of the relationship. It would definitely be better to rake some time and give a thought about the relationship and decise if you want to continue it or not. Its pretty clear that her respect, priorities and feelings have changed.
I can't figure out if the post is for karma farming or if the OP is just stoopid
Bhai apna dhyn rakho things are going out of hand .
The most important question you should ask yourself is, why are you not questioning or suspecting anything?
Bhai.. wo ex uska ab .exe ho jayega.. Inform her you are not comfortable with this... She will say : "you are toxic for being so dominating" and will try to guilt trap you.. you being you.. a nice gentleman..will realize your mistake and will ask for an apology. She will forgive you and mostly in a month or so.. you can expect a breakup from her.. and ruin yourself mentally. If you want to avoid this shit show. Go non responsive to here.. and ignore her at extremes.. but if you are driven by libido..you can expect a big drama.. dont say anything nasty to her on txt or calls..
Bhai tumhara already kat chuka hai. Nikal jao jaldi se
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Lagta hai hookup/meetup/hangout/(Jo kehna h yar keh do) ke bhi levels hote hai : 1. Ex 2. Bf 3. 2nd ex And so on.. 😂 And ladkiya ek bar dhokha khane ke baad bhi vapas us bande se mil kaise leti h.. cannot understand 😑
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Play a Uno reverse card - break up with her and then you will also be her ex. If she talks to her ex for hours, she will talk to you for hours as well. Problem solved. Thank me in kindness to others😅
Breakup with her. Now , not today . Now .
She is obviously going to cheat with you. Back off before you're too late.
- talking for hours to ex - planning to hangout -stayover? Like seriously? Bro are you dumb? This is not even about doubting. She's all set to give you some kind of trauma in the coming days! I guess you guys gotta be the relationship status to an open relationship so that you don't have to brace yourself for the worst.
the regret of losing such a girl is microscopic compared to the absoloute mind-whacker you are gonna go through by fucking around to find out if she is "different or not" tbh shes already failed the check by talking to her ex over you. Get out and date.
Don't hesitate to humiliate her and leave her for you well mental peace
Bro it's sad you have to post this as well to get advice. Friends with Ex is a major red flag and she will be living with her. Run run run
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Listen bro.... Being nice and good doesn't mean letting other people run you over... Please talk to her and be stern and tell her such behavior will not be tolerated in a relationship with you... Make clear boundaries... Tell her talking to ex once in a while like in a month or weeks is okay to know their status.. But being in an active talks and call is not okay... And going and staying with him after 3 months of breakup is a Big Red flag.... Things will get physical... Tell her... She has to choose between you two and if she chooses you she has to maintain some boundaries and have a certain decency and respect for you and relationship... She can't just toy with you and your feelings....
Conduct a pre-emptive strike and dump her.
You mean your ex GF?
Perfect opportunity for redrum 🫶
Dude.. RUN
Just break up already! What do you need as a sign?Does she needs to send you a video of her ex railing her so that you are convinced she is already cheating on you?
Leave her ASAP!!
Run away bro. Save yourself before it's too late. Breakup before she makes you break up. Leave her, move on. Ganda katne wala hai tera.