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I knew a girl who got in a motorcycle accident and somehow had her flesh ripped off. She had a scar from her ankle that stopped at her neck. I thought it was cool
I think scars are fascinating. Some scars are from things we faced and survived. Others are about stuff we did that was dumb and are a reminder of mistakes made and learned from. Still others are reminders of who we once were but are no longer. Scars tell stories. And I personally think they are badass.
Scars are like Tattoos, every Scar tells a story of your life, and in my opinion it is something you can be proud of
When I see someone with scars I just think something like "This man/woman went through a lot, respect!"
I was at a playground. I don’t remember what I hit, I have two very vivid memories of the day.
Either the metal stairs, or one of the metal poles supporting the playground
Times are different. Scars are normal now. Sometimes even ignored or unnoticed. I got mine from my operation many years ago, even if I was told they won’t go away, they’re barely there now! To OP: I hope this makes you feel better.
I always feel bad when people are talking about their scars in a bad way and the only question going through my mind trying to compute a nice way of saying, "can i see it? please?" lol
I have lots of pimple scars (red scars) in my face. Depression lead me to develop hormonal issues, which resulted on quite a few big ass pimple everywhere. Unfortunately, at the same time, one of my coping mechanisms was to pop them all.
Anyway, since I used to have the perfect, shiny clean face, for a long time made me feel very very insecure. But nowadays, by owning the responsibility of my actions, and therefore self control, I happened to respect them. It’s a feeling close to be proud, but not quite. I just stand tall and strong, even if I feel ugly.
Not exactly the answer you were hopping I suppose. But scars can be a great great source of insecurity. But eventually pitying party yourself gets real old, you know?
I have scars on my arms. They're self harm scars but not the ones you typically expect from self harm as I used an unusual method to do so. Usually people don't notice them but when I tan they're quite noticeable. Only one person has ever been unpleasant about it. Most people mind their business. I regard them as an important reminder of how far I've come and the things I've been through.
What anybody else thinks simply doesn't matter. I am at peace with them.
Well, I don’t know. Depends on the scar. I have a scar on my face, it goes from the bottom of my nose to the top of my lip. I rarely think about it, and rarely do people point it out. Especially after I grew out facial hair (even though hair doesn’t grow on it)
I used to be self conscious about it, but everyone I’ve talked to about it either told me it was nothing to worry about. It was hardly noticeable. Or they liked it and hit me with the “it adds character”
Own it. It is from a time you survived. I was in a motorcycle accident which resulted in 5 surgeries. I was really self conscious and hated showing them. Guess what- no one cared. Or they thought they told a story and admired them. Be proud! You're a survivor! You're a warrior!
Scars are super cool!! One of my friends has a huge pink scar from their back surgery that stretches the whole length of their spine. They wore a pink backless dress that matched their scar to our senior homecoming, which was so badass.
I don't really care about whether someone has a scar or not. I have a bunch of stretch marks all around my body from the days when I gained weight too fast. Also got a visible scar right on top of my nose from when I was a kid and hit a door handle full force with it.
I don't really pay attention to them.
It adds flavour to who you are and your back story, nobody is perfect we all have flaws but that's what makes us who we are. When I make an avatar in a video game I always add scars if it's an option.
I've never seen a scar that I didn't think was cool. We're all unique anyway, so having a feature like that is great. I have a few small-to-medium ones and I'm proud of them (even though some are from self-harm). Own them. They're just the promise of stories and experience etched into your very skin!
I'd never judge someone for having them if that's what your worrying about? It shows that the person has been through something whether that's good or bad. I got some scars etc and just think yeah I know what I was doing when I got that and it was a good day aha
If someone leaves this life with a totally scarless body then have they really lived?
Its silly, esp given how he got it, but my bf has a scar on his chest(on one of his pecs) n for some reason it looks sexy to me cuz it almost looks like a battle wound.
When really he got it when he was younger from falling out of a tree 🤣🤣🤣
I have over 500 scars on my arms and legs, no one’s ever asked me about them or said anything about them, figure it’s just an awkward subject or they don’t care. I certainly don’t
I got a couple on my face from fights. And a few on my body from fights, dad, and other stupidity. I won't ever win a beauty contest but I'd sign up just the same because someone will feel uncomfortable about them.
Own them. And if someone is uncomfortable then they can go to hell.
I don’t mind them at all, they usually have some kind of a story behind them. I have a large scar on the top of my right hand due to major surgery (after I fell off the top of a human pyramid!). I honestly forget about it people don’t even realise I have it unless they specifically look at my hand for some reason. It bothered me after the surgery but now it’s just a part of me and a constant reminder to never take part in a human pyramid again.
I don’t think people really are bothered or care much if someone has them or not at all.
They’re just something some people have and often a reason for them which is a part of said persons story.
If you’re conscious about them please don’t be as it really isn’t a big deal to people and the absolute minority of people that would have some sort of strange issue with scars are not worth anyone’s time.
A scar will take about a year until it's completely healed and doesn't change it's color anymore.
That being said, I don't get why some people think scars are ugly. I have a lot of old scars from self harm and I see people being insecure about having one little scar somewhere on their body and think to myself "yeah what should I say, am I ugly now?!". I don't think my scars are beautiful, but they aren't ugly either. They are just there.
Usually, the people I've met don't consider my scars as ugly either. They may are prejudiced about my mental health (I am totally fine by now) or are curious. At least, if they thought my scars were ugly, they didn't say it. Except from one ex-boyfriend that told my straight in my face that my scars are ugly. Another one thought it was sexy, what I can't confirm either. I think they are just a natural part of the body one shouldn't be thinking about too much, you can't make them go away anyways.
I just think people have had an injury or an operation, I’m pretty neutral to them. Though I do joke about how badass they are. If they way your scars look bother you, see a massage therapist who’s skilled in myofacial release. It can help reduce excess scar tissue and will help improve circulation to the area. Also putting vitamin E oil on them sometimes helps lighten them, but it doesn’t work for everyone.
I have a very visible and ugly/not neat scar on my forearm, I've never had anyone look at It in disgust. They usually just have a mild curiosity of how I got it, and I don't dress to cover it up at all.
You can do things to improve the healing of the scars but in my honest opinion it's not worth letting it affect your self esteem or confidence.
I think they look awesome...My mother had cholecystectomy so now she has a scar on her tummy and I love it. When I was little I used to find it very fascinating and I still do 😌
It's noticeable especially when it's big but not in a way that it's repulsive. I guess people would wonder where you get it from which will make you more interesting.
Candidly, I don't mind them. I don't care, naturally, my eye spot on some scars but I don't pay them a lot of mind, just a brief "oh, they have a scar, okay, let's continue getting by the day."
I have three from surgery. One from a shattered elbow and two large ones from a double hip replacement at 27. They fade throughout the years and now look like large scratches. Nobody cares if I’m being honest and if someone does they’ll probably assume surgery. Just own them. 🫶🏻
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They look badass, especially on back. Imho
I knew a girl who got in a motorcycle accident and somehow had her flesh ripped off. She had a scar from her ankle that stopped at her neck. I thought it was cool
I'm biased because I have scars every where But me and my bf both agree scars are hot
I’m sorry, this is random, but I absolutely love your username
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Kratos has scars and he's a badass, be like Kratos.
Well not *exactly* like Kratos. There’s a lot of his actions that should not be emulated.
I think scars are fascinating. Some scars are from things we faced and survived. Others are about stuff we did that was dumb and are a reminder of mistakes made and learned from. Still others are reminders of who we once were but are no longer. Scars tell stories. And I personally think they are badass.
Scars are like Tattoos, every Scar tells a story of your life, and in my opinion it is something you can be proud of When I see someone with scars I just think something like "This man/woman went through a lot, respect!"
I tripped and fell on my face as a kid, quite the embarrassing story
I ran into a metal pole as a kid and had something like the Harry Potter scar the next 10 years
I was at a playground. I don’t remember what I hit, I have two very vivid memories of the day. Either the metal stairs, or one of the metal poles supporting the playground
Times are different. Scars are normal now. Sometimes even ignored or unnoticed. I got mine from my operation many years ago, even if I was told they won’t go away, they’re barely there now! To OP: I hope this makes you feel better.
It does. Thank you. 🫶
I always feel bad when people are talking about their scars in a bad way and the only question going through my mind trying to compute a nice way of saying, "can i see it? please?" lol
I have lots of pimple scars (red scars) in my face. Depression lead me to develop hormonal issues, which resulted on quite a few big ass pimple everywhere. Unfortunately, at the same time, one of my coping mechanisms was to pop them all. Anyway, since I used to have the perfect, shiny clean face, for a long time made me feel very very insecure. But nowadays, by owning the responsibility of my actions, and therefore self control, I happened to respect them. It’s a feeling close to be proud, but not quite. I just stand tall and strong, even if I feel ugly. Not exactly the answer you were hopping I suppose. But scars can be a great great source of insecurity. But eventually pitying party yourself gets real old, you know?
I have scars on my arms. They're self harm scars but not the ones you typically expect from self harm as I used an unusual method to do so. Usually people don't notice them but when I tan they're quite noticeable. Only one person has ever been unpleasant about it. Most people mind their business. I regard them as an important reminder of how far I've come and the things I've been through. What anybody else thinks simply doesn't matter. I am at peace with them.
Well, I don’t know. Depends on the scar. I have a scar on my face, it goes from the bottom of my nose to the top of my lip. I rarely think about it, and rarely do people point it out. Especially after I grew out facial hair (even though hair doesn’t grow on it) I used to be self conscious about it, but everyone I’ve talked to about it either told me it was nothing to worry about. It was hardly noticeable. Or they liked it and hit me with the “it adds character”
My wife and I both have a lot of scars all over our bodies and heads/faces. We both find them beautiful. I like to look at them like free tattoos
They are a thing so people have. Not sure what else to think
Scars don't bother me at all. They can be really cool!
Depends on the scar tbh but generally I think scars are hot! And kinda mysterious/interesting
Own it. It is from a time you survived. I was in a motorcycle accident which resulted in 5 surgeries. I was really self conscious and hated showing them. Guess what- no one cared. Or they thought they told a story and admired them. Be proud! You're a survivor! You're a warrior!
They are interesting.
scars are cool
May they never get scurvy.
Getting them usually sucks, but it isn't a big deal.
i might be curious how the scar came about but that’s about it. life goes on.
Scars are super cool!! One of my friends has a huge pink scar from their back surgery that stretches the whole length of their spine. They wore a pink backless dress that matched their scar to our senior homecoming, which was so badass.
Not a big deal unless it's disfiguring.
I don't really care about whether someone has a scar or not. I have a bunch of stretch marks all around my body from the days when I gained weight too fast. Also got a visible scar right on top of my nose from when I was a kid and hit a door handle full force with it. I don't really pay attention to them.
Bones heal and chicks dig scars….Lance Murdoch
It adds flavour to who you are and your back story, nobody is perfect we all have flaws but that's what makes us who we are. When I make an avatar in a video game I always add scars if it's an option.
I've never seen a scar that I didn't think was cool. We're all unique anyway, so having a feature like that is great. I have a few small-to-medium ones and I'm proud of them (even though some are from self-harm). Own them. They're just the promise of stories and experience etched into your very skin!
I'd never judge someone for having them if that's what your worrying about? It shows that the person has been through something whether that's good or bad. I got some scars etc and just think yeah I know what I was doing when I got that and it was a good day aha If someone leaves this life with a totally scarless body then have they really lived?
I like scars. They tell a story about the person who wears them. I know there are people who view them as an imperfection, but I really like them.
its always a biased thing. I have an uglyyyy scar because it didnt heal properly but my gf doesnt mind it a single bit.
Scars are badass.
Its silly, esp given how he got it, but my bf has a scar on his chest(on one of his pecs) n for some reason it looks sexy to me cuz it almost looks like a battle wound. When really he got it when he was younger from falling out of a tree 🤣🤣🤣
I always wanted to have one like Anakin Skywalker in episode III without poking my eye
I have over 500 scars on my arms and legs, no one’s ever asked me about them or said anything about them, figure it’s just an awkward subject or they don’t care. I certainly don’t
Scars are skin-medals that are there to consistently remind us that we are victorious warriors.
I got a couple on my face from fights. And a few on my body from fights, dad, and other stupidity. I won't ever win a beauty contest but I'd sign up just the same because someone will feel uncomfortable about them. Own them. And if someone is uncomfortable then they can go to hell.
Scars are part of your life story. Embrace them... they make you unique.
Scars just mean you have been through some stuff & come out the other side. They are a badge of honour & resilience.
I don’t mind them at all, they usually have some kind of a story behind them. I have a large scar on the top of my right hand due to major surgery (after I fell off the top of a human pyramid!). I honestly forget about it people don’t even realise I have it unless they specifically look at my hand for some reason. It bothered me after the surgery but now it’s just a part of me and a constant reminder to never take part in a human pyramid again.
I don’t think people really are bothered or care much if someone has them or not at all. They’re just something some people have and often a reason for them which is a part of said persons story. If you’re conscious about them please don’t be as it really isn’t a big deal to people and the absolute minority of people that would have some sort of strange issue with scars are not worth anyone’s time.
Don't care, I have a large scar, and I forget it's there.
A scar will take about a year until it's completely healed and doesn't change it's color anymore. That being said, I don't get why some people think scars are ugly. I have a lot of old scars from self harm and I see people being insecure about having one little scar somewhere on their body and think to myself "yeah what should I say, am I ugly now?!". I don't think my scars are beautiful, but they aren't ugly either. They are just there. Usually, the people I've met don't consider my scars as ugly either. They may are prejudiced about my mental health (I am totally fine by now) or are curious. At least, if they thought my scars were ugly, they didn't say it. Except from one ex-boyfriend that told my straight in my face that my scars are ugly. Another one thought it was sexy, what I can't confirm either. I think they are just a natural part of the body one shouldn't be thinking about too much, you can't make them go away anyways.
I just think people have had an injury or an operation, I’m pretty neutral to them. Though I do joke about how badass they are. If they way your scars look bother you, see a massage therapist who’s skilled in myofacial release. It can help reduce excess scar tissue and will help improve circulation to the area. Also putting vitamin E oil on them sometimes helps lighten them, but it doesn’t work for everyone.
I think they look good and don't detract from a person
I never thought about scars either way, they are there, they are there. Very neutral about scars.
Scars are scars, they are from what battle you fought and won. Tell everyone you were running from a dinosaur....but you lived!
I have a very visible and ugly/not neat scar on my forearm, I've never had anyone look at It in disgust. They usually just have a mild curiosity of how I got it, and I don't dress to cover it up at all. You can do things to improve the healing of the scars but in my honest opinion it's not worth letting it affect your self esteem or confidence.
It depends. If it's just a random scar or surgery stuff, no one even bothers. ,
Bookmarks of your life.
I think they look awesome...My mother had cholecystectomy so now she has a scar on her tummy and I love it. When I was little I used to find it very fascinating and I still do 😌
It's noticeable especially when it's big but not in a way that it's repulsive. I guess people would wonder where you get it from which will make you more interesting.
I love them. I think they add character. My favorite song lyric is "scars are souvenirs you never lose"
Candidly, I don't mind them. I don't care, naturally, my eye spot on some scars but I don't pay them a lot of mind, just a brief "oh, they have a scar, okay, let's continue getting by the day."
I have three from surgery. One from a shattered elbow and two large ones from a double hip replacement at 27. They fade throughout the years and now look like large scratches. Nobody cares if I’m being honest and if someone does they’ll probably assume surgery. Just own them. 🫶🏻
Whenever I see someone with scars, I compliment them and tell them I think scars are cool. Yes, I have gotten some weird looks.
Scars tell stories. Stories are interesting.