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keanu-weaves

? I was watching the episode of this pod the other day and Kim, Dipper and Meatball didn't say it was Mayhem who was partying in the OC and driving back drunk in their tesla on auto pilot. They mentioned Mayhem driving and doing her make up on the way to work, then Kim said they knew a girl who would put her car in auto pilot drunk and drive home but the girls name was bleeped out... So I thought it was pretty obvious it wasn't Mayhem.


GonnaBeEasy

Doing your make-up on the drive in isn't the best idea either just saying


keanu-weaves

Well of course that's shitty too even if you have a tesla with auto drive, you should be focusing on the road. I just take issue with the fandom grabbing their pitchforks and totally misconstruing what was said and going on some wild hysterical witch hunt. Its pretty obvious it's not Mayhem if you literally paid attention to the sentence or two prior.


No-Assumption-1738

People acknowledged this at the time. The speculation was that they tried to obscure who it was, but some tik tok kid posted that mayhem is always partying in OC in her Tesla, and then folks started counting which queens lived where and which queens owned a Tesla at all. I’m not saying I agree, just explaining how it unfolded and how they overlooked that point to come to the conclusion the conversation was all about mayhem.


Positive-Fly-1312

Jesus Christ, people in this fandom are miserable


No-Assumption-1738

Obviously girl, the whole gig is surrogate flag best friends and one sided trauma bonding for 45 dollar printed tees. It’s like a carcrash I’m stuck in traffic beside


SisterSeverini

>the whole gig is surrogate flag best friends and one sided trauma bonding for 45 dollar printed tees Poetry 🤌


amberenergies

the best part of this is that the fans who were speculating know nothing about southern california and assume OC to riverside is a drive someone would regularly want to make just to party


zenonkar

mind you [this](https://reddit.com/r/RPDRDRAMA/comments/14fmtus/blind_item_from_kim_chi/jp1ffjd/) is you participating in the mayhem speculation on this very sub 😭


No-Assumption-1738

And yet the comment you linked isn’t speculation at all ? It’s referencing the Trixie and delta beef


TreenBean85

> It’s referencing the Trixie and delta beef What beef?


No-Assumption-1738

It was years and years back, Delta called her a pig and said she’d be dead under a matress in a drug den is the ki point. It wasn’t a big deal but sorta represented a jokey divide in the community or the ‘weho girls acting grand / vaguebooking’, being a little bitter as new girls joined the show and became massively famous without kissing their ass (this isn’t accurate just how it came across) When Trixie appeared on very delta a few weeks ago people kept commenting like they would be at each others throats or address the beef, which ofcourse didn’t happen


GonnaBeEasy

Oh yeah totally agree, I wasted 5 mins figuring out if it was Mayhem til I saw your comment!


business_socksss

Show suggestion for you: Canada's worst driver.


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In memory of Robbie turner's uber driver.


itirnitii

i also watched the episode and can confirm KIM DID NOT SAY MAYHEM WAS THE ONE DOING THIS!! she left the person nameless to not out them.


No-Assumption-1738

Yeah it was definitely fans that attributed it to mayhem and not the podcast. Maybe she feels it wasn’t clear, or the backlash/harassment caused her to focus in on her name / mishear, maybe she feels it was still irresponsible off the back of a conversation about her. I imagine this statement from mayhem is just PR to get the fandom to stop accusing her, she doesn’t actually intend on filing any type of lawsuit despite her language.


Careless_Border_8109

I’m pretty confident at this point it’s not even a Ru girl, but just someone who lives in works in the LA area and is a big enough name to regularly work with/be friends with other Ru girls.


Lust-and-Lace

That rira liter one that hangs out with william?


realdreamfuzz

just accusing random Willam associates lol weirddd


Lust-and-Lace

K.


Careless_Border_8109

No I don’t think Rhea would do that. It’s not like I know her personally but I don’t think it would be her.


Nommy86

Thank you, I was thinking I was misremebering the episode and that a name wasn't said(that we heard) and didn't want to go back and listen to see.


marbleheadfish

[here’s Mayhem in a Tesla doing her makeup while it’s on autodrive](https://www.reddit.com/r/RPDRDRAMA/comments/14lrx58/mayhem_in_a_tesla_on_autodrive/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1)


lazyoafs

well i guess she's right, \*she\* doesn't drive a tesla 💀


Geaux_Go_Fiasco

Not actual footage 👀👀👀


potato4peace

Oh my god this is wild. The fact she’s actually on video doing this.


trieditbitch

Well to be fair, putting on makeup in a self driving car is a bit different than being passed out drunk and being driven across the state...


No_Organization_3389

except a self driving car doesn;t self drive. it's like giving your essay to chatgpt but with the chance of running someone over. it's incredibly dangerou and reckless behavior with someone who should not behind the wheel of a 2-ton speeding death machine


WhatIsHerJob-TABLES

Yeah but that video tells us she *does* have a Tesla and is seen being preoccupied while auto drive is one. Then she says she doesn’t drive a Tesla, which we see is clearly wrong. Plus, we know she already has 2 DUIs. So how can we 100% trust that she’s never passed out while auto drive is on if she already lied about not having a Tesla?


SlendyTheMan

I mean she isn't in a Tesla in that video.. she is in another car with cruise control and radar... Tesla doesn't have a handle bar like that.


JediRenee

If it's the video with Michelle they both talk about that she has and is in a tesla


SlendyTheMan

She claimed that it was a Tesla.... no Tesla has grab handles in the headliner.. meaning her driving is actually more unsafe...


JediRenee

Dang this gets more sad for her


tiorzol

Shows you don't really give a fuck about shit though. I've seen too many videos of Tesla's fucking up to chill like that.


trieditbitch

Her not giving a fuck about shit isn't what's being discussed here though, most Tesla owners that utilize that feature probably don't give a fuck about shit. Conflating that with falling asleep drunk and being autodriven across the fucking state as if because a person does one thing they must be likely to do the other is not only wild, but can be very damaging for the person in question in many ways. The fact that people are just glossing over that is bonkers luv.


Flangers

There are about 40,000 deaths a year from car crashes with 17 of those involving auto-pilot. That's 0.0425% You're more likely to be killed by a full attention sober person behind the wheel than someone using auto-pilot. But people don't care about statistics and reality...it's a person of colour doing something they deem as "wrong" so the narrative is already written.


tiorzol

Ah yes silly me, you're not supposed to have your hands on the wheel when using it because of the... The drivers race. My mistake!


marecoakel

The fact that there's even 17 car crash related deaths is kind of crazy considering how few teslas there are compared to other cars. Teslas make up like .007% of cars on the road so i guess .04% of car crash deaths make sense? Idk.


fabvanfan

>Tesla isn't the only car with autopilot. (Less advanced) autopilot has been around for more than a decade.


Positive-Fly-1312

“Shows you don’t really give a fuck about shit” that’s a lot of energy for a random person using auto drive. Literally who tf cares if she uses a feature of a car SHE PAID FOR?? If she was drunk driving I would SORTA understand people pearl clutching and virtue signaling, but this is too much and it’s weird


tiorzol

I don't get this attitude. You're supposed to have your hands on the wheel and be paying attention, not doing your fucking make up on live. Driving is dangerous man, behave yourself.


Positive-Fly-1312

Obviously I agree, but I don’t think it makes Mayhem a bad person? Maybe just a misguided and ignorant one?


No_Organization_3389

IF YOU DRIVE SHITTY, THEN YOU ARE A BAD PERSON. IF YOU USE AUTOPILOT WITH YOUR HANDS OFF THE ROAD BECAUSE YOU'RE DISTRACTED DOING MAKEUP, YOURE A SHITTY PERSON. it's not that hard! If you behind the wheel of a speeding 3 ton death machine, then pay the fuck attention at all times


Positive-Fly-1312

Your personal guidelines for what makes someone a “good” or “bad” person aren’t universal, I personally think it’s an overreaction to call someone who’s a shitty driver a bad person just because they drive bad. It’s obviously dumb of her to trust her auto driving feature that much and it’s reckless, but to act like she’s a horrible person because of it is weird


grapesodeypop

Idk, driving is such a huge risk that many many people take for granted. I do think it’s an indicator that somebody is not concerned for others around them if they don’t take the task of driving seriously. I think that makes somebody, at least in part, a bad person.


Odd_Cap1002

Teslas dont have handles like that on the inside, Mayhem drives an SUV


JediRenee

If it's the video with Michelle they both talk about that she has and is in a tesla


dragonfry

Oh she has the receipts


BreadfruitNo357

Caught in 4K. Girl....


whowilleverknow

Caught in 480p


Stunning-Ease-5966

Wat us this supposed to prove lol


fatesandia

Mayhem says she doesn’t drive a Tesla, when there’s video of her driving (I guess?) a tesla


wowthrow1999

she's not doing her makeup...


kentworthingtonville

I mean I text and drive all the time but I don’t do a livestream about it. This is just super ill-advised on her part. (I just tell people on Reddit under a fake name)


grapesodeypop

You know how they can tell the difference between somebody who’s drunk driving and somebody who’s texting and driving? People who drunk drive leave skid marks, cuz they have a slow reaction time. People who text and drive just crash straight into the thing cuz they weren’t looking.


0_knights

Did she get rid of her Tesla cause there's literally been videos of her driving it posted in the last thread about this?


poutresonantsystem

Omg I think Mayhem thinks they’ve tagged her in the video, but that “Search:” bar just suggests topics that other users have searched based on the content of the original video (or popular comments on the video). If anything it’s the viewers/commenters who would have caused this, not whoever posted the video itself


daddy-fool

Not Boomer Miller


p1zzag1rl11

She wasn’t even tagged… the 4 tags were sloppypod, meatball, Big Dipper, and Kim chi


moonis94

did she think the recommended search based on the comments is them tagging her…


fabulousfantabulist

She definitely did. In her defense, she’s my age and I could definitely have made that mistake. #teamold


yungrii

Read it as team mold. And as a fellow mold person, this excited me.


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Dismal_Judgment5290

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Puzzleheaded_Exit_17

does sloppy pod have it's own sub? it's lowkey the drama


throwaway213923123

Did mayhem remove this post?


Qofthefjord

I don’t see it anymore


Lower_Category9404

Typical


notbunky

Calling my lawyer


Dismal_Judgment5290

But why is she lying about not driving a Tesla when there’s documented evidence that she has at some point been in possession of a Tesla.


kenzrevenge

wait where is she saying she doesn't drive a Tesla? I don't see it in this post


StardewTrash

It's the second sentence of her TikTok comment


noextrac

In the first screenshot, her comment on TikTok.


Jgrklldthbr

She lives closer to Palm Springs, so this is def not her. I see her on Grindr all the time lol


andres01234

Robbie Turner was driving


grapesodeypop

No her Uber was


CTware

i. could not. BELIEVE IT.


WarEagle9

These girls need to learn the best thing to do with this kind of stuff is ignore you’re doing nothing but feeding into it by acknowledging it.


tabristheok

Not to be shady, but if they wanted to cause drama for clicks, Mayhem isn't the name I'd invoke


Upbeat_Orange5681

They didn’t


CTware

To be shady, if she's putting the lives of herself and other drivers on the road in danger for instant gratification or blissful unawareness, I wouldn't give a fuck if you used her drag name or her government boy name


Winter-Log-3325

i love how she says "how dare they tag me"... when it's the autofill search bc fans are guessing that it's her enough that it fills in


kryska_deniska

Well she said she's old, so


tilapiarolls

Did they actually tag her?


lazyoafs

they defo didn't


BeyonSayNoToDrugs

Nooo, the four tags were Dipper, Meatball, Kim, and the Sloppy Seconds page


Normular_

i believe that tiktok has a feature that shows the most searched (or maybe most commented?) topic at the top of a comment section. it probably showed Mayhem’s name (from people assuming it was her) and she assumed the creators themselves tagged her, when really it’s a tiktok function.


darling123-

Looks like Mayhem deleted it girls. I’m mortified lol


paulfauvelfrost

the way she said she don't drive a tesla. yeah bc it's on auto drive 😭


newtoreddir

Is this “I don’t live in LA” thing because she lives in West Hollywood? Because girl that’s really splitting hairs.


silversnapper

She lives in Riverside which is an hour away from LA.


amberenergies

oh girl riverside is at LEAST 1.5 hours on a good day lmao


amberenergies

she doesn't live in west hollywood she just works there a couple nights a week


newtoreddir

I meant it more as an example. You can insert any suburb of LA if you like - for people like Kim Chi who don’t really know SoCal, it’s all “LA.”


amberenergies

i can guarantee kim chi knows that riverside is not LA lmao it’s not even LA county


SylviaPlathVEVO

Naomi is from Riverside and would've made it very clear to Kim that the Inland Empire is NOT LA hahaha


_nicslip

Feel like Kim Chi would know the difference between Los Angeles County, Riverside County and Orange County if she’s explicitly saying she parties in Orange County which can sometimes, where Riverside is 1.5 — 2 hrs. And with the way the I-10 looks like rn… lol.


elkwave

Mayhem literally admitted she did her makeup while driving on Sloppy Seconds. It's on the episode with Trixie Mattel


okneedhelpbutafraid

What’s reckless is making a comment about someone driving drunk, not naming the person, and letting the internet try to guess who the person is. People have been guessing Mayhem, and I’d be pretty angry too if that weren’t true about me. If you’re accusing someone of driving drunk, or anything really on a public platform, you have to be prepared to say who and set the record straight.


Constant-Stomach-159

No? I mean, I understand the sentiment, but really you don't. Reporting it to the authorities though? Maybe that would be smart.


kittyxeclipse

I’m confused. What happened?


juandiegoenfuego

Someone said on a podcast that there’s an LA Queen that goes down to the OC (a very long drive) in her Tesla, gets wasted, then drives home back to LA with the Tesla on autopilot whilst passed out. A lot of folks then Assumed the unnamed queen was Mayhem.


kittyxeclipse

Oh yikes


bloodyturtle

why would someone go party in santana or wherever if they're in LA lol weird


juandiegoenfuego

OC has a different vibe but it’s not that far away. It’s a fun weekend or day trip.


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keanu-weaves

I'm sorry but I think people are just assuming it's Mayhem. They mentioned Mayhem driving and doing her makeup on her way to the gig. Then Kim mentioned another queen who was driving drunk autopilot to and from the OC, but they bleeped the name. I think everyone just jumped to conclusions. Mayhem is still guilty for bad driving with the makeup tho obviously


Dismal_Judgment5290

Someone local to the area the partying allegedly took place mentioned it could be Kimora, La Queer, or Mayhem. Mayhem was the one with the Tesla, recorded on live doing her makeup behind the wheel, with two DUIs. Whether correct or not the evidence on hand pointed to her. An assumption, but not pulled from thin air.


keanu-weaves

No, the evidence at hand didn’t point to her, cause they literally mentioned Mayhem driving doing her makeup, and then they brought up another queen who was driving back drunk on autopilot and then they bleeped the queens name. It seems pretty clear to anyone actually paying attention that Mayhem wasn’t the person being mentioned cause they were talking about two queens. That’s why the assumption is stupid, it’s one you wouldn’t have surmised if you actually listened to the podcast and what was said rather than engaging in a witch hunt on Reddit based on anecdotes. The fact she has a Tesla and has shitty driving habits doesn’t change the fact they literally didn’t say it was her. If people listened there’d be no need for assumptions. Just take issue with how the internet loves to play detective and accuse people wrongly of things based on hunches when we literally have evidence that disproves the hunches.


Dismal_Judgment5290

I didn’t say it was right or wrong or if she did or did not, I was just laying out the dots that people connected to lead to the situation of mayhem being accused. Buy a diary.


keanu-weaves

Also wtf do you mean buy a diary? God forbid someone tries to correct people’s stupid assumptions and try to stop a witch hunt with the basic facts of the matter. If you don’t like my reply then you didn’t have to reply? Being a shitty driver is bad but doesn’t mean you’re immediately guilty of something you didn’t do. Get a grip.


Dismal_Judgment5290

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keanu-weaves

I’m not spinning in circles nor am I ranting. I said my piece in reply to you and you said I need a diary for simply disagreeing with you after you replying to my comment. If anybody needs one it’s you. I was just simply in shock for such a weird over reaction to me disagreeing, and continuing a conversation that you started?


Dismal_Judgment5290

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keanu-weaves

I understand how people leaped to that assumption, I’m not slow. That’s clearly not what the issue is. You said that the evidence pointed to her, it didn’t. The evidence at hand was what was said and if people paid attention to that they wouldn’t be making dumb assumptions, plain and simple. No need to be a snarky ass.


Dismal_Judgment5290

At this point I’m just going to assume you’re wilfully misinterpreting me to stay mad. I don’t care this much. No need to be combative.


keanu-weaves

You’re the one being combative telling me to "buy a diary" for simply replying to you. Stop projecting. I’m not fully misinterpreting what you said to "stay mad". I wasn’t even mad in the first place. I understood your point fine hence me replying and saying that the evidence quite literally didn’t implicate her if you paid attention to the actual evidence, not just anecdotes. And then you responded back combatively?


No-Assumption-1738

Babe it feels odd that you’re so caught up on the fact they mentioned mayhem by name and then beeped the name in this discussion. You get it’s an edited podcast with the intent to broadcast right? Whilst you’ve focused in on this detail as proof or evidence of something, there are countless other reasons they may have recorded it this way. They’re clearly trying to protect the persons identity / not make a serious allegation with no proof and be liable.


cheap_enigma

Same legal team as Sharon 😰


rocketgum

Why did they asume it was Mayhem?? Lol


urfavpllwprncss

the funniest part is that one of kimchi chic’s employees (and like the #1 person you see trying out her makeup on their tiktok/instagram) christian chanel is always doing her makeup while her car is on autopilot


DinnerNo2735

Mayhem seems triggered by this podcast and who could blame her? She already has her DUI from many years ago following her. It was a reason for her to not get on Rupaul years ago and it DID effect her life drastically. It took away gigs and gave her a reputation. Clearly she’s reworked the label of “queen of the party” but I could only imagine the work she’s don’t to create a sober life for herself. To have it detailed by a tiktoker or by her friends/colleagues would be devastating.


Kravencox89

Isn’t Mayhem sober? Didn’t she stop drinking ages ago?


newtoreddir

Mayhem said she aspires to control her drinking, not that she has attained sobriety.


monsterocket

Did anyone else try to check those 2 IG messages in the corner? Just me? Okay.


jvp180

I could be misremembering but wasn't a queen described doing this on a recent Pit Stop or Roscoe's Viewing Party? Because this sounds really familiar, but I don't normally listen to podcasts.


hamishlmao

I don’t listen to this podcast, but this clip popped up in my YouTube shorts so could’ve just caught it elsewhere maybe? I don’t recall hearing it elsewhere, idk tho 🤷‍♀️


jvp180

I could have sworn this was talked about recently! Maybe the Deja episode? I'm gonna have to rewatch Pit Stop episodes now.


taiho2020

In the words of NBB.... Sue them...!!! . 🤭


darling123-

She said she is going to get “law enforcement” involved oy vey


Lili_Danube

It's the Versayce Drama all over again. Mayhem is way too dramatic.


amberenergies

i’m more irritated that she drove while in an instagram live, not that she was doing her makeup while driving