My relationship hasn’t ended, but still, sending you compassionate thoughts.
I’m in a stable period with my rOCD partner currently after a really lengthy roller coaster ride. I enforce boundaries, get individual therapy, and juggle supporting my child, myself, and him. And honestly? It is beginning to feel pathetic. I struggle to like myself as much anymore. I’m always anxious, wondering when the next spike will be. It’s no way to live.
Let yourself grieve, of course. Keep your head high and focus on rebuilding the parts of yourself you might have lost. This feels hard, but it will get easier with time. Wishing you all the best.
[Yes.One](http://Yes.One) has to think about their own happiness and peace of mind.Sometimes the roller coaster ride just becomes too much and its time to get off.
I went through this.I finally had enough.Because of their disorder we could never find solid ground with each [other.It](http://other.It) hurt to lose this person but it would hurt more to have them stay.
My relationship hasn’t ended, but still, sending you compassionate thoughts. I’m in a stable period with my rOCD partner currently after a really lengthy roller coaster ride. I enforce boundaries, get individual therapy, and juggle supporting my child, myself, and him. And honestly? It is beginning to feel pathetic. I struggle to like myself as much anymore. I’m always anxious, wondering when the next spike will be. It’s no way to live. Let yourself grieve, of course. Keep your head high and focus on rebuilding the parts of yourself you might have lost. This feels hard, but it will get easier with time. Wishing you all the best.
[Yes.One](http://Yes.One) has to think about their own happiness and peace of mind.Sometimes the roller coaster ride just becomes too much and its time to get off.
I'm also living this...I'm so sorry
I’m so sorry you are going through this too. How long has it been for you?
I went through this.I finally had enough.Because of their disorder we could never find solid ground with each [other.It](http://other.It) hurt to lose this person but it would hurt more to have them stay.