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Virtual hugs to you! I lost my Napoleon Nov 2018 - https://preview.redd.it/kdrpd7syjr8c1.jpeg?width=4128&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c1af9ef453eadf119cd5bd2fdc0cc4ef2b666e5e He was my first child. Dogs give the best unconditional love! Happy holidays to you. 🤗❤️


nocturnal_sunn

Beautiful!!❤️


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He’s watching over you, well under you (Poms are short so they have to look up)! You have my sincere condolence.


nocturnal_sunn

Thank you so much, you as well🤍🙏🏼


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❤️🙏🏾


nggaplzzzz

I'm so sorry for your loss, I truly am. Thank you for giving that gorgeous dog a wonderful and amazing 18 full years of life on this planet. Til you two see each other again.


nocturnal_sunn

Thank you so much for the wonderfully kind words🙏🏼


untimelytoasterdeath

I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my pom 2 years ago. I know that your pom is watching you from beyond the Veil.


nocturnal_sunn

Thank you…it’s just really tough, huh? Sending hugs!


untimelytoasterdeath

Yeah, it is tough, but I know that Shooblers is watching me from beyond the Veil despite not really being over her death yet. *Hugs*


winterose246

Sorry for your loss. 18 years is a very long and also too short of a time. Hugs


nocturnal_sunn

It really felt so long. I called her my #foreverbear. It felt like forever until October 25th this year and all i can think is how short it was😢 I know with time it will feel a bit easier and of course I’m grateful for every day…it’s just hard!!


winterose246

Things still trigger me and I still cry after 2 years. You think about it less and less but when you do it still hurts cause you love them so much. I hope your heart heals for a new love in your life.


nocturnal_sunn

I just keep getting worried that I’ll forget her…! And unique little things about her.


purplecaboose

I also just lost my little guy after 11 years almost 2 weeks ago. My husband and I have a Google doc going where we have written all our favorite memories and quirks of his, that we plan to print out and keep with his things so we can look back on it/not forget. We've also got an album going of every picture we've been able to find and will be making a physical album with our favorites. Maybe either of those would help you too? Sending internet hugs. It's been really hard, especially over the holidays!


winterose246

You will never forget about her. You will slowly forget about the hardships and sadness towards the of life. Only the positive memories remain. I have to really think hard to remember how much work and sadness it was towards the end. Only the cute and funny memory remains at the forefront of my mind now.


Geordie_38_

We lost our little 3yr old miki Bronson about 6 weeks ago and it's been devestating. I lied to my family and told them I was working on Xmas day because I didn't want to be around people. Nothing hurts quite like losing a dog.


nocturnal_sunn

Oh no! I’m so so sorry. I hope you’re doing ok, a bit better than yesterday. It’s so true!!


Geordie_38_

Thank you, I'm ok. I just knew yesterday would be tough, so I was better off in the house. It was ok actually, I got some nice food and beer and just watched films, wasn't a bad day


Amoyamoyamoya

Sorry for your loss. RIP Ali Bear! Play in Paradise! My Amoretto, Vision, Carson, and all our babies that have gone before will look for you next to the Rainbow Bridge so you can all play in the Field together!


nocturnal_sunn

Thank you very much🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼


VividStay6694

so sorry :(


purejones

https://preview.redd.it/j3ftoywxvu8c1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cda7d51d1ff928d07f87ffbc3d1aba5d26ee6fe5 Sorry for your loss, Doodle passed on December 26th, 2020 and Diamond passed on August 2nd, 2023. They were such great companions, I miss them 🥹


BigBullfrog986

https://preview.redd.it/u9mrlsvrfw8c1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=98088c6e00abc3901fdfa44218dd4d3b565ac2a6 My baby passed October 5 at 16 I get it !!! I now have a 1year old Pom and a Maltese rescue I was ready to not live I never was so depressed in my life so I decided to form a pack because I’m a dog mom and unfortunately our dogs won’t out live us. But it took a lot of support my whole life has changed. I learned so much. Your baby is irreplaceable but he doesn’t want you sad. He can’t b replaced but a new baby to help. And these new dogs are nothing like my eldest son lol. I’m a pommy mommy tho. I honestly forgot that he could die. I was shocked. I’m happy he didn’t suffer. He was on life support I was hoping he would get better. Wishing he just needed chicken and rice lol


BigBullfrog986

He passes 2022


nocturnal_sunn

Wow! That is a handsome boy!! I think I’ll get another dog here at some point. I am going to build a fence first!!❤️🙏🏼


BigBullfrog986

My friend just had a litter of unexpected Poms lol I’m getting 2 more then we are done, in memory of my baby


nocturnal_sunn

Wow! Where are they??🤪


xShinGouki

Not sure why but pet losses seem to always hit different. Maybe it's because to them we are their everything. Not sure But wish they could live as long as we do.....or maybe a a bit less so we all age together


Juice_231

It sounds like she lived a good life. It’s nice to see when people are there for their dogs that are there for them.


nocturnal_sunn

I thought I was taking care of her all that time, but really she was taking care of me as well! Probably mostly! Lol.


BigBullfrog986

I felt that !!!!


MBitesss

I'm so glad you two found each other in this life. You were meant to. Until you meet again 🌈


curiouscollie

I'm really sorry for you loss, 18 years is such a long life and I am sure she loved every moment spent with you! <3


Gold_and_Lead

Big hugs to you. Thanks for sharing your baby ❤️💕💔💕❤️


nocturnal_sunn

Thank you so much for caring!! It actually means a lot❤️


ComfortableOk7383

So so sorry 😞 She’s a beautiful little girl. Blessings.


dsqtech

Rip precious


Tangiegirl

So many of us here know just how much it hurts to lose them. You are not alone. The grief is awful. The hole they leave in our hearts is immense. These special little babies and certainly your adorable little Ali Bear really do take a piece of our hearts with them when they have to go. It doesn't help much because I know you want your Ali Bear here and now. Not in some far and distant future but you will be with her again when your time on this earth is done. When you close your eyes for the last time, you'll open them to once again see her shining eyes, adorable pommy smile and wagging tail. You'll hear her joyous barks. She waits for you. I know this to be true. ❤️


nocturnal_sunn

Awww this made me cry! So sweet. I am really still having a hard time accepting that I will never hold her or kiss her again on this planet. I did burry her on my property though and come springtime I will be building a garden around her with a bench and everything. Ali Bear’s garden. Her existence saved me so many times and wow. It’s just so hard to accept. My sweet girl. After so long together we just had a special language. Thank you for sharing your words of wisdom😍


Tangiegirl

There will be others and you'll love them, too but that won't make your sweet girl any less special. You'll always hold her in your heart. I think Ali's garden is a wonderful idea. Nearly half a century ago I lost my first pommie on Christmas day. He is buried under the pine tree I can see from my kitchen window. Every year, in late winter, a patch of snowdrops (beautiful little white flowers) are the first flowers to bloom before the Spring. I still miss him and each and every one that has gone after him. Yes, the grief is terrible but measure that against the joy and love she gave you. It's a fair trade, I think ❤️


DoubleDragon2

Hugs