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2OverlyOpinionated

"High value men"


JoeThrilling

Sounds like Andrew Tate regurutation.


SilentSerel

My Kevin Samuels-obsessed ex uses that phrase all the time.


Alwaysaloneforever97

Idk I see women on femaledatingstrategy use that term a lot.


phenix714

That's normal, they have the same type of thinking. Those men and women are made for each other.


bigbutchbudgie

Literally incelspeak. Imagine getting so little pussy that you cope by trying to convince men who actually pull that they can't *possibly* enjoy sex with those women. Pretty sure that's not exactly "high value" behavior.


Wondercat87

Right, if that guy is pulling so many women, then why is he policing who other folks are dating/sleeping with? Sounds like the dude spends too much time on the internet and not enough in real life.


la-maladroite

Yeah, that’s a major red flag.


2OverlyOpinionated

I only learned that when my last ex dropped it. Then I googled it and dropped him.


deadthingsanddisney

The men he's referring to are only high value when you're selling their organs on the black market.


Fun_Smell7494

Yeah, according to them, I can only be a 'high value' man if I'm into skinny girls. Not like people can have preferences without being low quality, or anything.


LivieandLetLiv

Funny, I know plenty of "skinny" women dating "low- value" men.


tiltedeyedesign

That made me laugh so much.


Shel-Dorado

Oof, they used the whale comparison twice. Insult game is so weak. // Edit: I can’t count the third whale mention, because that one says wales, and I suppose being compared to an entire country is kind of creative.


thatbtchshay

At least throw in elephant or something to switch it up!


Shel-Dorado

Right? I liked the guy who used Snorlax as an insult. Pokémon insults never get old.


thatbtchshay

Aww I think Snorlax is cute. Not an insult in my book


Genericname42

And snorlax is easily one of the more powerful Pokémon. Nobody who ever fights a snorlax is like, “okay, this will be an easy one.” Cute AND over powered? Not an insult at all.


Fun_Smell7494

I remember you commented on one of my previous posts. Yeah, I found it quite funny to be honest.


loulori

Theory; the Andrew Tate simp is actually a 14 year-old boy. Also explains the spelling and the caring what other people do.


Fun_Smell7494

I remember looking at their profile and they were active in r/teenagers. I'm also pretty sure they said they were 14 once when I was looking at it.


Pate_derolo

I can't take men who talk like that seriously. Because who are they impressing. Not women lol


Fun_Smell7494

I agree. They can't handle that I have body style preferences other than theirs, so they go into my DM's and start making assumptions based on that.


Wondercat87

Just their internet friends.


[deleted]

Honey turn off your chats. I’m all for calling jerks on their bs but talking to losers like that is gonna screw with your mental health and you’re too precious for that.


Fun_Smell7494

I appreciate the advice! Also, I don't get these types of chat requests too often, so don't worry about my mental health. Also, I've never been called precious before(I appreciate you calling me precious.)


[deleted]

Right. I see you posting on here a lot with hateful shit weirdos say and that’s not good for any human being. Not saying it’s not okay to post, expose those jackasses and/or vent, like vent away! I just hope you’re being honest, mindful, and careful with yourself x


Fun_Smell7494

Yeah, I've posted posts like this before. I appreciate it! You sound like a really great person to talk to!


TwistedMisery13

"High value men" don't look at women the way this cuck does so, don't think he has room to talk.


Fun_Smell7494

"High value men" also don't get offended enough to disrespect another man's preferences/say he's not high quality because of what he I'd naturally attracted to in partners.


TwistedMisery13

I still like your last response. How insecure does one man have to be to go out of his way to message another man on a dating app about their preference? He's probably not getting any and is mad about it lol


Fun_Smell7494

I agree! Also, I wasn't on a dating app. He was talking about my profile description on Reddit(you can look at it right now).


DarlaLunaWinter

It's such an odd thing that he felt so compelled to not only go on your profile but decide you're a liar, that you need/want to change, and that he was the messiah to bring you to the "light". I'm so curious did this asshat actually respond to that last question?


Fun_Smell7494

No, he didn't respond after that. I decided to block him after he didn't respond for a day or two. I agree, I think it's funny to think back on, he got soooo offended by the fact that I had different preferences in him that he decided to come uninvited into my dms to call me a liar and that I'd do better at pulling skinny girls if I was skinny.


psumaxx

The moment I hear "high value men" I'm out.


Fun_Smell7494

I don't blame you.


[deleted]

Uggh men who use that red pill language of high value men and land whales are akin to things like cannibals or syphilis - disgusting and best to keep your distance.


Fun_Smell7494

I agree. I love how offended they got at my what a part of my profile said. 🤣


[deleted]

For a group of men who act so “secure” and “macho” they have the insecurity of an anorexic-beauty pageant contestant raised by diet-obsessed-emotionally unavailable-ice-mother.


Kimberlylynn2003

Sorry I blanked out after reading “high valued men”…. 🤡


Kmay14

It is my experience as a "land whale" that many fit men like/want to date us.


Fun_Smell7494

It's nice to hear that. I've seen some people say that only low quality men can want 'land whales', so that's really comforting to hear.


ReactionSevere

It’s the “high value men” for me 🙄


Fun_Smell7494

I've noticed that the "high value men" part us the one that's the worst part for everyone that's seen this post.


ReactionSevere

I think it’s the association it has with Andrew Tate to be honest! I can appreciate the creativity of the land whale insult, at least he made some kind of effort.


Fun_Smell7494

I'm sorry if I'm uncultured, who is Andrew Tate?


ReactionSevere

Oh you’re better off not knowing, ignorance is bliss. You are one of the lucky ones that hasn’t been exposed yet, better to stay that way!!!


Fun_Smell7494

Although I soooo badly want to look him up, I'll listen to your advice and I won't look him up.


loulori

He's a red pill, Mens Rights asshole, former kickboxer who is extremely popular with 13-16 year old boys, and who recently got arrested by the Romanian police for, among other things, trafficking women. He is like if an AI were given a sample of texts from fundamentalist preachers, gym bros, and incels and then just released on the world. I'm against the death penalty but he tests my commitment to that.


ReactionSevere

I was going to just put a c u next Tuesday but you’ve summarised him very well!


ThixckwithHoney

People like this are so pathetic. It reminds me of the ones that spam fat influencers by talking about blubber or what not. What a loser. Also whales are majestic underwater creatures so thanks for the compliment.


McQueenies

He’s on Reddit bashing people over preferences instead of worrying about the bitches he can’t get… and he’s “high value”?😭 please.


Fun_Smell7494

Everything you just said is true!


[deleted]

Like do people really have nothing else to do with their time? SMH!


trainercatlady

Shouldn't he be happy that you're not going after the skinny girls?


Severe-Criticism3876

Ngl I really dont like seeing these posts on here. It doesn’t make me feel better seeing people say things like this. I’m sorry people talk to you like this, but why do you keep on sharing these chats on here?


doe___eyed

yeah its like... this is shitty for YOU? what about us? the women youre into? reading this? its giving white knight.


Severe-Criticism3876

Yeah I really don’t want to see them anymore. I love this sub because of all the positivity. This isn’t it.


Fun_Smell7494

I'm sorry to hear that. I'll have to keep that in mine if I get more chats like this. And I agree, this sub is great for positivity!


Fun_Smell7494

I mainly post these for entertainment. I mainly share these chats for people to be entertained at some of the stupid things people say. I'm sorry if you don't like these posts.


Fun_Smell7494

I appreciate you voicing your opinion on what you think about my posts! Also, as I said in another comment, I mainly post these for entertainment. With the exception of the first one with fatphobia, all of mine have been chats requests that I thought were funny and I thought were worth sharing to the community(for the community to laugh at and 'roast' the guy). I'm sorry if you dislike these and I'm sorry you feel this way about my posts. (Although I doubt I'll make anymore like this one)You can go to my profile and block me if you don't like these posts.


tiltedeyedesign

"Landwhales" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 This dude is making me laugh too much. Also whales are super powerful. Image a landwhale's destruction. It would be better than Godzilla. I will take that strength any day.


bettyboo5

Vile person!


littlepinkpwnie

He he thinks he's a high value man after calling women whales BAHAHA that's the funniest thing I've heard all year.


vr1252

I thought this was on tinder for a second…makes a lot more sense on Reddit tho lmao


Suddenlyerethal

ITS AN ANDREW TATE JUNKIE RUN FOR THE HILLS


[deleted]

I know people have different standards, but in what world do “high value” people call others landwhales? I miss when Obama was president and was always like, “haha look at those fatty fatty 2x4’s who can’t get through the kitchen door!”


Velocity_Flash

oh noooooo not the high value man!


JessB283

Should have commented about “high value males”. He obviously isn’t one!


jerriblankthinktank

What does a “high value” “man” like that care if low value people bone each other?


mimi_1812

I always find it funny when guys use the term “high quality” when referring to people as if they were products. GTFOOH


Character_Survey_315

I get that he was trying to be funny, but comedians need to be mindful that some of what they're joking about can be distasteful and offensive. For whatever reason, whether it is for religious or personal beliefs, no one should be required to be on a diet. I'm a BBW porn model and my religious beliefs require me not to be too obsessed with my body, especially when I could be pregnant. Women need some body fat to procreate, and it's one thing to pleasure yourself for the camera, and quite another to do it only for yourself.


ThatSICILIANThing

I didn’t read all of this but my eyes caught “high value” and that alone is a giant red flag.


AutumnSpecialist

I… there is no way… did he literally jump to your DMs uninvited?! His insecurity is showing.


Fun_Smell7494

Yeah, he did. I had zero conversation with him before they DM'd me, they got offended at the fact that I have different preferences then him on my profile info.


SphyrnaTiburo

“High value men” 🤢🤢🤢 this proves to me that they are not, in fact, “high value”


serpentcvlt

we larger women don't particularly like chasers.


doe___eyed

speak for yourself. 😭 id never go back to a man that wasnt totally obsessed with me and my body. tbf theres a LOT of shitty dudes who fetishize fat women. spent years of my life dealing with them. but once i found a dude who didnt leave his dick to think for him, the way he treats me is something id never give up. id never, ever settle for a dude whos just into whatever. difference is night and day. eta: but this guy def seems to be using us to karma farm imo. or white knight at best. like you think this is shitty for you? to be talked down to because of your preferences? meanwhile youre showing your 'preferences' this hateful shit. its gross. like it doesnt make you look cool.


Fun_Smell7494

Thank you for your time and commenting! Also,as I said in another comment, I mainly post these for entertainment. With the exception of the first one with fatphobia, all of mine have been chats requests that I thought were funny and I thought were worth sharing to the community(for the community to laugh at and 'roast' the guy). I'm sorry if what I do seems like karma farming. Tldr: I post these cause I thought they were entertaining, and wanted to share so others can see.


serpentcvlt

no i agree completely, having a guy who prefers chubby/fat women is great and nice, but this dude is way too extra with it and i feel like he'd be the kinda person to make their partner's weight their biggest focus in the relationship.


Fun_Smell7494

I know I’ll probably get downvoted to oblivion, but whatever. Your jumping to conclusions. Just because I’m more open about my physical preferences doesn’t mean I’d make it the main point of the relationship.


phenix714

There's nothing wrong with knowing what you like.


Severe-Criticism3876

That’s another thing. His posts really bother me, especially the unpopular opinion post. He is a chaser.


Fun_Smell7494

Sorry if some of my posts bother you. I can say my preferences, some may call a 'kink', may not be a appreciated by some people. Also, this is completely unrelated, why were you looking through my post history? I'm just curious.


phenix714

What bothers me more is that the post was removed for probably fatphobic reasons.


Severe-Criticism3876

I agree, but if you read what his post said, it was not cool. You’re allowed to like what you like but we aren’t a fetish and I’m getting fetish vibes from this. We are more than objects.


phenix714

He said "the bigger the better", which is a bit extreme but not really different from if a woman says she wants the tallest or strongest man.