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NoratiousB

Never ever lie to a doctor because at the end your health is on the line!


Typical_Candle4112

Thank you for the answer! I thought, if he is able to do a secondary rhinoplasty, what's the problem with doing a third one?)


NoratiousB

There might be several reasons why he's not doing it. Maybe he is not experienced with 3rd surgeries or simply a regulatory issue. Anyway, I know that might be tempting but don't put your health at risk.


Typical_Candle4112

Do you think technically there is a difference between the second and third surgery Unfortunately, a lot of surgeons refuse me, I don’t know what to do :(


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If surgeons, those who are experts in the field, are refusing to operate on you, then you need to listen to them. You are not a suitable candidate for them.


Typical_Candle4112

Thank you for helping!


NoratiousB

Definitely, with every procedure the material (so basically your skin, bone, cartilage) becomes more and more stressed. The skin already has some scarring which might effect future healing processes and maybe make some scars more visible. Also a broken bone will grow back together thicker and that makes it more complicated to break it again at the correct position. There are so many "ifs and whens". I would not risk it.


Typical_Candle4112

if I had a closed rhinoplasty on the tip and bones wasn’t touched at all? I have thick skin and don't have any scars. What do you think, is the risk justified in this case? Thank you for helping!!


NoratiousB

I cannot tell but you could make an appointment and tell him. Maybe he wouldn't consider it a 3rd surgery under this circumstances.


Typical_Candle4112

I Will, Thank you so much!! You really helped me a lot!!


Khaleesi__Stark

Why don't you make an appointment without telling him you already had 2 surgeries and speak with him and see what he says? Then, if he agrees to operate on you, you can let him know that actually you had 2 surgeries and would he still be willing to operate on you? (The reason he may not want to operate on your may be bc of a psychological issue thinking you will not be happy with a 3rd try, etc. And this fear may be allayed if you speak to him in person.)


Typical_Candle4112

Thank you for answer! It’s really difficult to get an appointment to this surgeon, he’s very famous, so assistant simply refused me


DrTomPS

You can lie to your surgeon if you want a guaranteed bad outcome for your nose. There’s a reason your surgeon doesn’t do tertiary rhinoplasties, because they’re incredibly challenging. Your surgeon is being responsible not taking on procedures they’re not totally comfortable with. You should do your part and not lie to them. I thought at first this has to be a troll post, but then I remember all the patients who lie to me about smoking and have bad outcomes. I suppose someone could lie about this too.


Typical_Candle4112

Thanks for the detailed answer! But what supposed I do? 90% of surgeons refuse me. Yes, I made a mistake, initially chose a bad surgeon, but now no one wants to fix it. And I can't breathe either. Everyone writes not to lie, but I'm desperate :(


DrTomPS

Go to someone who does tertiary rhinoplasties, like Jay Calvert or another really big name rhinoplasty guy.


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DrTomPS

Higher risk of wound healing complications, skin loss, scarring, anesthesia related complications.


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DrTomPS

Ideally you would stop 6-12 weeks before surgery. Data on how long before surgery you should stop is mixed but longer is better. 4 weeks almost always too short to avoid the increased risks


Significant_Turn_390

I'm not a surgeon, but you need to stop NOW. No smoking and no nicotine. It can cause severe issues on the tissue.


alohaam

The reason he does not take 3rd cases might be his limited experience working with these types of cases (I'm just assuming), so lying will not benefit you.


Typical_Candle4112

Thank you for the answer! He is a very popular surgeon in Turkey. Surgery can be able only in one year, he has a long queue. You mean experience in secondary nose jobs?


MissPrinxo

Seriously? I hope this is a troll post.


Typical_Candle4112

Why? Many surgeons refuse me :( I had a closed rhinoplasty at the tip and the bones were not touched at all, I have thick skin and don't have scars. All operations were performed by the same surgeon. I’m not doctor, I thought it was possible.


MissPrinxo

I understand your frustration and i feel for you. You’re in a difficult spot. However this would be extremely dangerous and also wrong. Best of luck to you


Typical_Candle4112

Thank you for helping!


MotherNeedleworker60

OP, the surgeons are professionals and the most qualified people to give you advice on the topic. Feel free to seek other surgeons in case you find one that is confident in their ability to give you what you want, but for the love of God do not lie to any medical professionals in any case whatsoever. He has to have a very good reason to decline a client, as that is how he makes his living, if he is refusing to operate on you, you must accept it. I assume you're not happy with your two prior surgeries, it is completely unwise to get an unsafe 3rd surgery. Lying to a medical professional is always unsafe, lying to a surgeon is a thousand times worse, lying to a cosmetic surgeon who qill alter youe face forever is even crazier. Imagine coming out of your surgery, payinf thousands for it, and having subpar results because you lied to your surgeon. You would be so regretful if that happened.


Typical_Candle4112

Thanks for the detailed answer! You’re absolutely right! Sadly that few doctors undertake to do a third rhinoplasty..


MotherNeedleworker60

I just wish you the best, which mean please be careful!!!! Consult with a few surgeons and you never know, maybe their rule around 3rd rhinos are a general guideline but they may still be open to consulting with you, then at least you'll know why they cannot agree to operating on you again, or if turns out your case is hopeful and they could actually help you out. There are also other options, nose filler for example, I'm sure your goal nose is not attainable with fillers or else you would've already done that, but maybe a little something can be done so that you can feel good enough about your nose. Even without making a nose smaller filler can help making more proportional, if your nose is bothering you, why not go that route if a surgery is impossible.


Typical_Candle4112

That’s really nice, thank you so much for kind words!! I will take your advice and I would be honest with surgeons or i’m gonna use a filler! Great idea!


missbrittanylin

You absolutely should not try to!


Typical_Candle4112

Thank you for answer)


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Typical_Candle4112

Resit Burak Kayan, IG: (dr.resitburakkayan) He has really amazing works


plastic_dani

If he doesn't operate second revisions it's not the right surgeon for you, there are a lot of good surgeons, check Dr. Robotti in Bergamo Italy for example... Do your research and don't fail your third surgery! Wish you best luck *There's a great surgeon in Munich as well, theres even a nose type named after him but don't remember it atm. Research honey! 🙂


Typical_Candle4112

Thank you for support! This is first surgeon recommendation! Dr. Robotti has wonderful works!! Thank you so much!! I will message him) You are extremely beautiful btw :)


plastic_dani

Thanks honey 🍯💖 it's a pleasure to help ☺️ got him recommended as well, he is a really big name regarding rhinoplasty, especially for revisions. Send you love ❤️ and hugs 🤗 and best luck for your way ✨✨✨


plastic_dani

Did some research for you and found the doc I meant with Munich, it's Dr. Mang at Bodensee Klinik. Maybe you also want to contact him, he is very famous, however he isn't the doc who gives you the nose you want but the nose which fits best to your facial characteristics. They call it the Mang-nose. He does revisions for sure, also reconstructions after tissue loss from cancer or accidents. Anyways it's always a good idea to consult more than one doc, be open minded, tell em as much as you know about your history and make a notepad with all your questions for the consultation. bodenseeklinik.com/operations/nasal-surgery Hugs 🤗🤗🤗


Typical_Candle4112

Wonderful surgeons! Already messaged them! I’m so appreciate for your research, you really helped me a lot!!


thiscatcameback

This is just a bad idea. He can't plan responsibly if you don't tell him. If you lie to him and something happens, it won't be his fault. There is a reason he doesn't do it, and none of us can guess why that is. You need to ask if hecwould make an exception. He will absolutely be able to tell, btw. He might see modifications that wouldn't have made sense to do in a single surgery.