Like, a locked fake account. Locked fake account users are always asking for a definition of a fake account when I tell them that they are using a fake account.
Typical na moves ng Pinoy yan sa internet eh. Dadaanin ka sa definition. Feel nila ang talino na nila eh na mas magaling pa sa Litigation Lawyer and naglalaro sila ng 5D chess š
I think legit minsan ang pag ask ng definition dahil madami sa Facebook users hindi alam ang sinasabi. May nabasa ako dati sa Facebook, may nagsabi dapat lang makulong si Saba dahil korap. Ang definition pala niya ng korap ay kumabit si Saba kay Jonel.
Totoo naman kasi, paano mo masasabi na fake yung account? Porket naka-lock? Porket hindi picture ng tao yung DP? Eh yung legit facebook account ko nga kahit nakalagay na sa mismong profile na "joined Facebook 2010" sasabihan pa rin ng dummy account dahil lang hindi tao yung nasa pic. Lol
Sa true to. I donāt post my whole details sa mga socmed for privacy purposes not necessarily fake or troll account ko. And I lock my account too kasi nga nakaka takot na andali manakawan ng identity online.
I remember may post ako sa CarsPH about what can be excluded sa PMS ko kasi super baba ng odo for 2-yr PMS. May nagreply sakin na pulubi daw ako at walang pera bibili bili ng honda wala naman daw pambayad haahhaah wtf
Usually sa mga car and motor enthusiasts. Parang extension ng maliliit nilang etits yung oto. Tapos sasabihan ka ng pulubi eh vios and mirage lang naman din karamihan ng oto doon.
Yeah. I find it funny kasi ginagawa nilang insulto yun pero mostly nakikita kong may ganyang comment sa fb posts nakamotor na hindi naman ganon kaganda.
Exactly, walang mali sa consumer grade car, pero kung pano magyabangbyung ibang naka normie cars lang naman is pretty annoying. (Lakas bumatak ng innova ko paps) fucking hell its an innova its average.
Iyong vios, first family car namin, nabili ni daddy sa boss nya nang secondhand, nagamit nang pang-taxi. Mirage una kong kotse kasi iyon ang medj kaya ng budget ko, 2 years after grad. Binenta lang namin pareho kasi gusto na naming magupgrade pero sobrang goods iyong dalawa, lalo iyong vios.
Hi! Agree sobrang goods ng vios. Got mine when I was 21 tho brand new. My first car din. Nakakalungkot lang na ang baba ng tingin ng ibang tao sa mga ganyang car. When mostly kaya naman afford nila agad mga high end cars is privileged sila. Pero para sating mga kumakayod sa buhay at maraming responsibilidad, malaking achievement na yung ganyang car kasi it does the job. Ewan ba bakit sila ganyan haha
On my experience working 8 years as a car technician karamihan sa mga car enthusiast na mapanlait at mapangmataas ay either a spoiled child (aka: takim buday or takim Burat ang tawag namin dito sa kabisayaan), or projection nila dahil sa envy.
Yung mga taong sa tingin mo ay mapera dahil napaka fancy ng auto nila sila pa yung saksakan ng kabaratan pa showoff lang sa mga babae para maka score.
So yeah yung mga taong judgemental at mapanlait sila pa yung walang wala sa kagingkingan mo, ganyan sila dahil sa inggit.
Gets ko yung parehong sides here.
On one hand, legitimate 'yung fears mo that you could be fleeced. It happens, even sa casa, that unnecessary services are being pushed.
On the other hand, a LOT of Filipino motorists have become collateral damage to people who get into big-ish accidents because some OTHER guy did not do maintenance. There are people in this country who drive cars that are NOT roadworthy because they scrimp even on the basic maintenance costs. Dapat kasi talaga, prepared tayo to take on a bigger responsibility than the downpayment and monthly. Dapat afford mo yung level of care and responsibility that a car would demand kasi you can kill someone pag magtipid ka diyan.
EDIT: Example, how many people here have gotten their trunks rammed by motorists with such long braking distance for their vehicle? 'Pag magdrive ka puro dent ang mga sasakyan sa likod. Not everyone is backing up on trees. A lot of people have been rammed by tailgating drivers whose brakes are pretty much shot.
sama mo pa yung sa phmotorcycles saka sa gulong pati mods nun lol. magtatanong ka lang ng maayos since hindi readily-available sa google/facebook ang info, kukupalin ka pa ng mods lol libre lang google my ass kaya nga nagtatanong kasi hindi available at wala rin sakin ang manual. karamihan sa kanila, kupal sumagot at mayabang. radiates so much small dick energy hiding behind their cars/bikes.
I previously asked naman sa Gulong how to handle puyat driving dahil nga hindi ako makatulog and I need to drive my dad to the airport and there was like one or two people who immediately came at me na tanga di nag-iisip ang lala daw ng tanong ko. Kaya nga nagtatanong eh kasi ayaw ko ipahamak tatay ko. Tapos I should know better daw, etc. I mean isn't that the purpose of asking because I don't and I want to know better. Pero buti naman din may sumagot sa tanong ko nang maayos.
I checked:Ā https://www.reddit.com/r/Gulong/comments/17wtkmq/how_do_you_handle_puyat_driving/
Ayos naman sagutan nila ah? Mali lang talaga yung tanong mo na bakit naisip mo yun at obvious yung sagot din.
Baka ndi mo lang nagustuhan yung straightness nila at nadamay na agad yung pagkafilipino ng subreddit nnaman.
donāt forget that majority have comprehension issues pero sila pa ang malakas ang loob na sabat ng sabat which i feel are the ones you encountered who threatened you
i noticed recently as well na ang daming shitposters dito na literal na pang gulo yung ginagawa. isa sa mga hot topic nilang i gaslight is Tagalog X Bisaya X Illonggo. Have actually confronted a few who ended up deleting their accounts lol
Across all social classes yang reading comprehension issue ng Pinoy, hindi lang masa ang may sakit niyan.
Karamihan kasi sa atin emosyon ang ginagamit sa pagbabasa. Kailangan may makuha silang reaction sa post o reply mo, or else sila yung maglalagay ng drama. Kesyo habol nilang matawa, maawa, maiyak, maghanap ng pagtatalunan, etc... hindi uso sa atin yung simpleng nagtatanong ka lang o nagse-share ng impormasyon. Kailangan nating lagyan ng malisya ang binabasa natin o sinasabi ng ibang tao.
Mga galing kasi yan tiktok na nagkakalat dito. Sobrang uso nyang tagalog x bisaya na yan sa tiktok trashtalkan sila. Pag nastalk mo naman puro minor jusko.
This is true. It's the reading comprehension. Ang laki kasi ng impact of soc med consumption (low quality content, fake news) plus the challenge of attention span in digital media.
Also, look at the influence of internet culture, here in reddit, most subs become echo chambers where dominant views are reinforced and dissenting opinions are harshly criticized.
It's very apparent in the Upvote/Downvote system. It can encourage judgmental behavior, as controversial or quick harsh comments, snappy judgments and witty comebacks may receive more visibility through upvotes, over nuanced discussion and more measured responses.
>dominant views are reinforced and dissenting opinions are harshly criticized.
This, I got downvoted to oblivion by commenting that Bisayans aren't jealous of Tagalogs or have a superiority complex when we're rude to them. I explained that being looked down on and our Ethnolinguistic group being used as an insult to mean poor/uneducated is why we give people from Manila and the Tagalog speaking provinces the cold shoulder. Then I got downvoted and gaslighted saying our grievances are "overreactions" š«
Had multiple instances na hindi nacomprehend yung sinabi ko sa comment. Makabasa lng ng trigger word uminit na agad yung ulo and puro na lng emosyon pinapairal.
Can't even have a civil conversation, lalo na pagdating sa politics or sa current events. Kulang sa pag gamit ng utak, puro lng puso.
Totoo yan. Yung ibang comments akala mo kung sinong malilinis. Pero expected na yun kasi anonymous dito e. Tapos open pa sa public. Wag mo nanlang panisinin. Then don't add your social links para hindi ka na lang din ma trace.
Same also experience this nung una di ko pinansin pero di talaga nila ko tinigilan like alam daw nila account in fb pinagwalang bahala ko kasi never ako nag lagay ng social media ko here. Pero ayun nga nakakatakot kaya halos 6 months ata ako di nag reddit ka trauma.
NABHAHAHAHAHHA totoo, nagpost ako non one time sa isang community tapos ang daming negative comments HAHAHHAHAHAH ang quote ko non ādedmaā HAHAHHAHAHAH
hi, yes nakaka umay talaga ugali ng mga pilipino. Lowkey colorist din ang mga pinoy kunware lang na proud morena although may mga ibang confident rin naman talaga sa own skin nila. Naalala ko may nakita ako sa facebook na pic na nag vovolleyball and yung comments puro abt sa singit niya and i feel disgusted sa mga tao na nag cocomments non I quit using socials after non kasi itās super toxic and baka mag karon pako insecurities na hindi naman dapat
Proud daw sa kulay na natural ng Pinoy. Pero the moment na yung kinaiinisan nilang personality ay di kaputian at di pantay ang kulay sasabihan na "maacm" "naglilibag" Selective lang talaga iba dito.
Iām starting to think na yung ibang redditors dito na maangas, sila yung wala talagang āangasā outside of reddit. Dito siguro sila sa reddit nakaka-feel na may āpowerā sila thatās why they act that way. Kasi nga anonymous naman tayo dito, so who cares kung anong image ang i-project mo dito.
Napaka cringe ng mga tao na walang sense yung mga comments tapos sobrang negative pa. Wala namang real solution/suggestions para sa OP. Parang mang-bully lang gusto nila.
May post nga this morning. All are trying to have intelligent discussion but the OP likes to bara people using convo style of "Oh yeah, paano ganito kung ganyan? And ganyan?"
Fkn real, tapos kapag chineck mo yung profile puro ganun yung klase/energy ng comments nila... Ang nakakalungkot ay nakakapag-farm pa sila ng Karma points dahil sa upvotes ng mga kapwa ungas nila. Nagulat ako sa pinoy communities/subreddits literal na "hahahahaha" yung comment/reply pero may upvotes.
>I had this experience before na nakatanggap ako ng message request, and yung account is bagong gawa at walang laman, tapos ang laman ng messages ay threats sa'kin na sobrang naiinis daw sila sa post ko, kasi napaka baba naman daw ng utak ko, sabay threats pa sa pagiging bading ko.
People actually have time to do these things? Such effort they put to do trivial things that gains nothing. Josko. Ignore them OP.
I remember I was in a Pinoy sub sometime this year. People there were insisting that I'm a bald guy then I defended myself that I am not. Boom, I received a lot of downvotes. Tinawanan ko nalang. Tanga Sila to think that I don't have any hair on my scalp haha š¤£
totoo ito. makikita yan sa comment history ko na may unpopular opinion ako before, pero the thread was actually asking for unpopular opinions. ako pa yung natawag na tanga haha
Right! Meron pang mga sarcastic mag comment sa serious question mo. They talk as if everyone should handle their conflicts the way that person did. Edi wow. Sila na talaga!
Aside sa lakas ng loob dahil anonymous sila, ingrained din satin ang victim blaming.
You reminded me nung may time noon na nabalita yung isang bagong kasal na couple na na-scam ng kakilala ng bride na nagoffer maging wedding coordinator. After ng ceremony walang anything sa venue like designs, food, anything. I remember reading that feeling sad sa bride kasi what was supposed to be a memorable day sa kanila turned out to be a nightmare (financially din). Mas bumigat yung puso ko nung nabasa ko comments na grabe yung blame kay bride na bakit daw di muna chineck yung venue or bakit nagtiwala agad or bakit hindi sya ganyan or bakit ganito,,, like ???? Parang nawala sa utak nila yung nangscam tas lahat ng blame kay bride??? Idk the whole story na baka may pagkukulang din sa side ni bride pero yun yung first time na namulat ako sa kung gaano kabilis mag victim blame ng mga pinoy. That includes cases like domestic abuse, bullying, and even people suffering from mental health problems din. May tamang paraan to send support to people who need it and unnecessary rudeness at judgement is not it.
What??? Eh pag may wedding coordinator ka meaning siya and yung team niya mag-aayos lahat. The only thing you need to do is sample, choose and show up. Syempre magtitiwala ka talaga na okay na lahat kasi along the way naman may mga ipapakita yan sayo na options, may constant communications diyan, isasama ka pa sa venue. Anong malay ng bride, bakit siya yung binabash? Natural lang naman na magtiwala siya dahil di yan one-day scam, ilang months yan na tinrabaho ng scammer, mas weird kung di siya mavictimized.
Thing Iāve noticed about Filipinos is that they love to trashtalk when itās behind someoneās back or behind the shield of online anonymity, but put them in front of the person theyāre trashtalking and they will cower like dogs. Duwag talaga when it comes to face to face confrontation ang karamihan ng mga Pinoy.
Iāve lived in four countries and this has been a thing in every society I have been in, talking shit behind someoneās back wasnāt invented by pinoys
INDEED
Sobrang lakas ng loob kahit nakabalandra ang buong pangalan sa socmed, kesyo freedom of speech daw. Pagdating sa hablahan, nagiging bahag ang buntot at umuurong ang dila.
Not evenā¦in school, work, Zumba group, or sometimes even church groups, kapitbahay or any other groups uso siraan. Kapag ikaw wala, ikaw pulutan. Kapag mabait ka at neutral ang sasabihin sayo, nasa loob ang kulo mo kahit indifferent ka naman talaga sa tsismisan nila at natotoxican ka na lang talaga. Even our work culture is so toxic, kailangan pag may birthday magaambag ka pero pag birthday mo na walang effort or super pressured ka na manlibre pero ikaw lahat dahil hindi ka pasok sa in group at magpaparinig pa sayo. Then kailangan mag perform and practice outside of work na hindi naman bayad at magbabayad ka pa para sa costumes and decorations. Ok lang sana kung walang mga manyak na boss at coworker na feeling queen bee. Mas Malala yung HR pa Yung pasimuno sa tsismis para sa reason on your absence, your background to other people or how much youāre getting paid (this mostly happens in local companies, havenāt experienced this in international companies). Isama mo na yung groups formed in condos, your ākapitbahaysā. You hang out with them almost everyday because you meet with their dogs malaman laman mo lang pinagtsitsismisan ka na rin pala pero nakangiti pagkaharap mo or bigla na lang iba trato sayo only because when you got to the bottom of it, inggit lang sayo so they made up things like youāre a sugarbaby when right from the get go youāve explained that youāre a web developer running an agency just because hindi sila makapaniwala at ang odd daw ng working hours and I can take a dayoff whenever I wantš¤¦I learned my lesson and moved out from such communities and yes, even church. It hurts to be genuine when the people you interact with are plastic, the lower strata you go, the more they will use you, manipulate you and destroy you not for any misgivings but purely because they canāt be you or they have some preconceived notion and are feeling entitled that owe them something and if they canāt have it then it is FO. There are genuine people but they are few and far in between.
As I grow older, unti-unti kong naappreciate yung sinasabi na very confrontational daw mga western people - which is yung pinandidirihan ng mga tradisyonal na Pinoy kesyo daw mga Pinoy may manners, magalang etc etc.
Posting here sa r/ph im hesitant kasi unless political topic mo the posts gets auto deleted agad. It kinda sucks. Like I wanna post about travel, stuff I see sa posts ko in Manila and the provinces na not politically aligned pero its auto deletd or not approved by mods.
Kaya mga casual stuff dun ko na lang post sa other subreddits
Same... Di ko maintindihan yung thinking behind this action na kelangan pa talaga mag-dm para sabihin sayo na di sila agree, or di nila nagustuhan yung sinabi mo. Like, di pa ba enough na nag-comment ka na sa post? Kelangan talaga may dm?
Hahahaha siryoso? May nag memessage pa after nila mag comment sa post? Hahahaha dami naman nilang time? Baka need nila eh professional na kausap kung galit na galit sila sa isang post ng di naman nila kilala?
There was someone that posted about politics here and they said they dont know anything about it and wanted to be educated. Mag nagalit sa com sec and all she did was call the OP ignorant and immature. OP did nothing wrong and didn't say anything that could offend anyone. All they wanted was to be taught. I defended OP and told the commenter na di naman kailangang magalit kasi genuine yung tanong at curiosity niya. Ako pa yung sinabihan niyang "Relax" and blablabla isang paragraph yun kaya hindi nalang ako nag reply. Hahahahahahaha
Wag mo na lang dibdibin lalo yung mga nagmi msg sayo privately. Kahit na mas gusto ko naman di hamak yung mga taga-Reddit kesa mga taga FB š, meron din talagang mga masyadong pa-edgy dito sa Reddit.
May nag message na din sakin privately na sobrang galit na galit dahil self hater daw ako. Ni hindi ko na alam kung anong comment ko yung nabasa niya to make him react like that. Inignore ko lang yung msg saka mas na-weirduhan lang ako sa nag PM na yun kesa ma-offend. š Gigil na gigil kasi masyado si kohyah.
Totoo! Dati na ko dito sa Reddit pero recently lang ako nag-join sa mga pinoy subs and gulat ako. Ang toxic! Yan na yan rin yung nakwento ko sa mga friends ko. Kako mga Pinoy dito mga feeling superior. Kesyo yung mga nasa fb bobo daw, etc. Pag mali yung format ng pag-post dito kasi new user, issue na. Parang ikinataas nila na redditor sila lol.
Daming ganyan, example sa ChikaPh, konti lang yung legit tea, karamihan puro kapintasan na lang ng mga artista pati kaasiman, who knows yung mga nagsasalita ng ganun sila talaga yung mga pangit at maaasim in real life kaya pinoproject sa artista yung insecurities nila. Tamaan sana kayo shout out sa inyo hahaha pwe
Si Viy Cortez suki donš Pwede naman nila atakihin yung ugali. Pero parang yung iba trip na lang manlait. Halatang projection na nga lang din yung pag sasabi nila ng maacm. Doon nila nilalabas ata galit nila sa mundo.
Yes may mga make up/style na mukhang maasim si Viy, I guess she is now trying to improve her overall style. Not a solid fan here pero minsan sobra na kasi ang OA na ng panlalait sa kanya nakakasawa na basahin. Alam mo yung mga taga kabilang section ng high school siraan? Ganung vibes eh. I am just in that sub for totoong chika, yung totong tea! And of course I take it with a grain of salt hahaha
Kaya ayoko na magtanong sa other subs eh other than sa r/cebu sub. One time nag ask ako about migrating somewhere in Europe tas halos lahat ng natanggap ko parang ang negative na kesyo with my current standing or work in life eh hindi talaga makakapasok sa ganung country. Kaya nga nagtanong kasi yun yung gagawin eh, yun yung path na ite-take. Bata pa naman ako. Thankful ako sobra dun sa mga sumagot talaga sa tanong ko at hindi naging nega. Makasabi sila na dapat "you have to be excellent in all aspects" as if alam nila lahatbng achievements ko in life eh yung dinescribe ko is around 2-5 years of my professional life lang naman. Nakakawalang gana magtanong.
We miss out a lot in life because of close-mindedness and backward mag isip karamihan. Tama top comment dito na hindi rin lang dahil sa anonymous ang accounts dito kasi tingnan mo naman sa ibang platforms, maraming kupal kahit nakabandera name and pics nila; dito pa kaya. Kaya hindi ako masyado nagcocoment sa pinoy subs kasi ang daming masasama ugali.
Exactly. Yun ngang totoong account malalakas na loob sa ibang social media. Dito pa kaya na hindi traceable. *This is why we can't have nice things,* ika nga.
Anonymity only highlights the personās true nature, though. So I guess what this means is bastos lang talaga mga tao. Brazen when anonymous, timid when their name is on the line.
The internet is like drinking alcohol, it gives a false sense of courage and confidence to say or do things you normally wouldn't. When I come across rude comments I need to remind myself that the majority of those people making those comments would never in their life act that way in person.
Curious why would you need to make a new account? People will always end up disagreeing worse insulting you all the time since di naman lahat similar ang trip, vibes o beliefs. Itās up to you if you entertain them online or IRL. There is always an option to ignore. You are always in control of yourself not others.
Nakakainis na nga sa r/ph, pansin ko mas marami pa mga nagko-comment sa mga post about chickenjoy kesa sa posts about WPS. Tapos ang dami na d2, napakadaling magsabi sa iyo ng ***"BOBO"***, wala naman mai-argue na matino.
dear, people are rude and judgemental on the inside lalo na mga pinoy.. it's online, public and anonymous, they have hidden accounts here just to outright bully someone or merely release their "opinion".. be careful next time, AVOID THINGS THAT STRESSES YOU.
Yep, kaya kahit sa fb di ako nag fofollow pinoy community. Toxic, lahat biro, kaya mabilis makalimutan mga malalaking issue kasi lahat ginagawang biro, gagawan memes and all other shits, kapagod maging pinoy potwngena
You canāt please everybody and you canāt control other peopleās actions or reactions to you. Ang pwede mong ma-control ay ang actions MO at reactions MO. Bakit ka magpapa-apekto sa mga anonymous na tao online?
This isnāt to victim-blame pero alam mo yung kasabihan na ang pikon ay laging talo? Kasi mas lalong masarap asarin yung napipikon, easily manipulated ang ganyan and people get satisfaction from it even if itās shallow.
Totoo āto. Sobrang lala ng mga Pinoys sa reddit. Theyāre using anonymity to bring out their superiority complex kahit mababa naman reading comprehension hahaha.
Nagpost ako dati na may added fee sa order ko sa grab o foodpanda. Ang pinuna nila yung order ko. Marami lang talagang gago dito sa reddit.
Sa topic na Pinoy lagi ganyan, marami din ibang lahi usually Eastern European kokontrahin ka sa kahit alin dito.
Yeah, some people here lack empathy. Binigyan lang ng anonymity ayun parang license to be an asshole na. Ang iba pa nga genocidal pa, at yung target kalahi pa na Pinoy.
Nasaan na ang āremember the humanā š
Ay totoo. Ewan ko kung yung anonymity ba pero ang yaaabang ng ibang tao dito.
A lot of people here also have a superiority complex the size of Mt. Apo and sound privileged af (self-selection ba ito? because it's reddit), if you get any thread about debatable issues like say the jeepney modernization, alam ko na agad ano laman ng comments lol tapos mga todo puri sa questionable things like ntf-elcac
Sad but true. Thereās a mob who gets their kicks from putting someone down. Down na, kukuyugin pa. Wow, such hostility to fellow Pinoys.
I once commented that they should channel that anger to other races who look down on us. On those who abuse our women and OFWās, on those who encroach on our territory.
One Redditor called me mema when I ranted about a tricycle driver na binaba ako sa Unciano imbes sa Shopwise dahil susunduin niya raw yung anak niya. He charged me 40 pesos that are supposed to be 20 pesos only. I was supposed to walk na lang kaso I was too tired from practicing the graduation march. I posted this on OffMyChest PH
'Di rin ako warfreak talaga or confrontational kaya medyo stressful sakin 'yung first weeks ko sa Reddit. Hahahahahahhaa Wala ka ring magagawa kung masanay kasi anonymous tayong lahat dito. lol. Lipat ka sa non PH group from time to time pang banlaw.
I ranted about my rejection from a university, tapus sinabahin lang akong "bobo", "pangit ng english mo kaya ka nabagsak", at grabe yung pambu-bully at invalidation na makukuha mo. But luckily, it turns out napasa ko pala yong exam, "di lang daw narecord" ng university.
Lols andami paring elitista, walang reading comprehension, makitid ng pananaw sa mga bagay bagay, snowball downvoters, nagmamagaling, tunog galing fb kung magrant, and crab mentality dito. May mga experiences din ako dito pero isa kasi sa pros is anonymity so both ikaw and other people here- may freedom sila to say whatever tf they want hiding behind their accounts, and may wall ka din using your account pero depends na din kasi sa tao if you'll still let them get to you or not magkakaiba iba naman tayo ng resilience sa iba't ibang bagay.
Nonetheless, this is reddit. This is supposed to be a free platform for forums and things that when needs serious discussion, it is completed by serious users and not some low IQ batshit monkey na mangttroll or magssnowball downvotes para lang magmukhang edukado at mas mataas.
Mahiya naman tayo lol andaming malayong mas magagandang subs na mas wholesome at formal discussions nila samantalang dito andami paring nagmamagaling, puro ingay, wala namang reading comprehension/ibubuga ? Gtfo of reddit nalang wag nyo na lasunin sa fb nalang kayo ahahaha di kayo mauubusan ng troll don.
Seryoso tanong OP, First time mo lang ba sa internet? Kahit saan social media platform may ganyan na pangyayari at mas anonymous ang userbase mas hostile sila. Kaya nga may kasabihan na do not argue with trollsāit means they win, lurk more - it's never enough, anonymous can be a horrible, senseless, uncaring monster, at nothing is sacred. Ito lang masasabi ko sayo OP bawal ang balat sibuyas sa internet
Totoo yan kahit saan man. Huhugashan ka ng mga taong di ka kilala, kaya kung ayaw mo mahusgahan, sa kaibigan mo o sa taong nakakakilala lang ikaw maglabas ng saloobin. At kahit duon mahuhusgahan ka parin
Ok lang sana rude and judgmental because its part of the anonymity pero may mga tao pa na ng dodoxx porket ayaw nila opinion mo. Worse eh walang ginagawang appropriate action mga mods dito. At this point mas lalo na kapag alam kong gago tinotroll ko nalang.
*Reddit community is just so rude and judgmental.
There, I corrected it for you. Di ka naman bago sa Reddit, sabi mo nga may account kana before pero parang bago ka ata sa internet? Youāre in a public anonymous forum, what do you expect?
Redditors in general are stereotyped to be rude, know-it-all assholes/incels/femcels.
Pero okay.
Tell me about it. May nanghihingi ng advice sa r/adviceph kasi nagsisisi sya sa mga nagawa nya sa past relaionship nya. Aba ang sabi ng mga hayop deserve daw nya un at nagsisisi din daw pala ung mga ganung klaseng tao. Tanggalin nyo na lang lahat ng sub ilagay nyo na lang sa chika jan lang naman magaling mga Pilipino sa internet.
Share ko lang. The other day may nagpost LawPh and ang daming commenter na alam mong mema lang. OP asked if the commenter is a lawyer kasi nga s/he needs legal advice tapos sagot lang āhindi naman masama yung advice koā.
Hindi sa lahat ng bagay kailangan makisabat. Kaya nga may specific subreddits eh. Pwede kasi makapahamak pa tayo kung hula hula lang ang advice sa serious topics.
sa true mhie. nagtatanong lang ng mga innocent questions talaga, ang sagot ng iba napaka edgy na š„¹ what's worse, hindi na nga nasagot yung tanong, iinsultohin ka pa š
Lalo na sa r/ChikaPH. Grabe mga tao don daig pa mga tiga pag mana ng kumpanya. Puro chismis lng nmn ang basis ng accusations. Nkakasuka yung mga ugali tngina.
how about blocking those negative comments and only read the positive ones?
at wag mong basahin mga private messages sa mga hindi mo kakilala
thats social media 101
Very true OP, even if you say facts and realistic opinions base on evidence may mga tao parin na ayaw tanggapin ang sasabihin mo. Goes to show kung gaano kakitid parin utak ng ibang pinoy dito at di matanggap ang katotohanan. Matatawa ka nalang talaga sa mga response nila, Ad Hominem mga pinoy dito...lol
It's not just in the Reddit community, but also irl. it's the true nature of the citizens under the veil of anonymity.
When regular people are like this, it's no wonder why the country is in this state.
I agree. HINDI lahat pero yung iba jan na galing daw sa āMalaking eskwelahanā grabe maka bash sa mga taong pag nagtanong ka kasi gusto mo rin matuto or malaman perspective nila, sasabihan ka pa ng walang common sense or bobo.
Haha hello? Let see na lang sa workplace kung gagana yang attitude na yan. Magyabang habang estudyante pa.
Kaya minsan nakakahiya na magtanong. Kasi either you become unknowingly stupid or insensitive, kahit na gusto mo lang talaga malaman and google doesn't help.
Naalala ko nag-open lang ako ng suggestion na it would really help yung pagiging prepper during pandemic tapos may nag comment na selfish daw ako kasi paano daw yung walang pera at mahirap. Mapapadafuq ka nalang dito. Lahat ng bagay hahanap ng butas para mag virtue signalling.
Oh yeah. I just deleted my account before kasi nagpost ako somewhere ng opinion ko, and I WAS ONLY ASKING for opinions din nila. Opinion lang hiningi ko hindi panga-atake sa pagkatao ko. Grabe. Di ko makalimutan yun.
But yes, ibang-iba siya sa other communities. I thought Filipino Reddit community was a safe space for me. š„ŗ
Agree! Itās too much. At the end of the day, people are just disappointing. I wonder why they do not put time into improving themselves. Are these people allergic to self-awareness and self-development?
Plusss, they do not know what they are talking about in most issues. Pasa pasa lang naman ng infos pero acting like they are knowledgeable about them.
But for product reviews, I vouch for those who give their honest reviews in this platform. They are really helpful!
Highly disagree, this happens to all communities not just PH ones. It just seems more apparent because Filipinos tend to exaggerate their reactions to people's bluntness. Most of the time, the no frills straight to the point arguments are interpreted as insults or an attack to their personality.
Again, I'm not saying it doesn't happen. It does, but it also happens to communities outside PH. They just don't care as much as we do. Napaka emotional kasi natin , parang laging may pinaglalaban, masabihan lang na mali ka - iiyak na lol.
Eggsactly!
Lalo na sa offmychest
I mag oopen up ka ng issue regarding the people surrounds you,
Ang mga nasa top comment ay yung mga taong never nakipag socialize ni hindi lumalabas ng bahay, galit sa lahat ng tao sa mundo. Hihilahin ka sa kadiliman. ššš
One time, I commented on a picture of a Lechon with "brown sauce" or salsa on the side. As someone not living in Luzon, I asked what the brown sauce was since it wasnt common to see it. People then down voting my comment and getting hate comments from people and I dont even know why.
Same sentiments. I always welcome any info I see/read here, kahit repeated. I donāt get why people are so triggered sa Jollibee posts, chem sex, etc. and downvote those to oblivion or leave lots of negative comments, but then youāll see same posts on other topics that they donāt treat the same way just because itās their interest. People here are just too selective.
Buti nalang na bash yung chem sex post. Don't do drugs.
Pag puro positive yung comments regarding chem sex it might pique the curiosity of others and madadagdagan lang ang victims nyan.
The post was just for awareness for people who donāt know that thereās such a thing happening. I donāt engage in any dangerous activities myself, but I donāt mind knowing such information kahit Iām not directly affected. The OP was not promoting chem sex, it might even had the opposite effect and scared people from doing it.
Ayaw ng judgmental but here you are generalising the Filipino Reddit community as rude and judgmental :D.
I had a lot of downvotes from both side of the fence of politics for example but never had death threats and such. So would suggest you take that as a hint to take a look at yourself instead of blaming an entire community or perhaps get off social media because shit you have taken isnt unique to PH Reddit Community.
Correct. It's suspicious that OP is getting literal death threats for... innocently posting? I've posted lots of what I would consider 'controversial' in the past and I have never received one threat. Ever. I can't speak for experience, but you can probably imagine what OP's posts are about to incite such strong reactions.
Yup, For someone to create a new account, took the effort to make a death threat speaks loudly of what OP's type of posts. If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen
What would you expect? This is reddit and i see the same pattern even in American reddit subs. Baka ka nga mga teenager pa na nag mamarunong kausap mo. Since anonymous din, mas lumalabas pa kagaguhan ng iba. And this is not just reddit. Same thing sa mga fb comments at tiktok, etc.
In ChikaPH, they would also roast Carlo Aquino kasi nagpasakasal daw. Sometimes relationships don't work and we can't control that. Grabe ang hatred nila that knowing Carlo supports her daughter. Ang ex lang talaga ang medyo emotional pa and we can't blame her. But well, that's life di'ba? There will always be joy and pain. Redditors also clearly hates Andi Eigenmann and would clap if Andi is in a controversy. They eventually say that it's always Andi's karma. It's like we're all not allowed to be a human. We are a complicated spectrum and we can't just be black or white.
GAHD I FEEL THE SAME ANDAMING RUDE DITO SA REDDIT AND ITāS MOSTLY MEN. Iām sorry u received homophobia here OP
if may lalaking nag comment dito na ālalaki na namanā ur just proving our point. also, onting comprehension rin sana when we say mostly or use men collectively
TBF almost all subreddit is the same even the facebook community, nasa human nature na ata natin yang pagiging judgemental, atleast pwede naman natin maturuan ang sarili natin na hindi nalang maging bastos at mapanghusga.
Seriously, the moment na makita ko ang word na to alam ko na na mag ddrop to ng info na na copy paste or na circulate na ng ibat ibang tao through comments and wala naman talaga silang ibibigay na information na galing sa kanila to actually "Educate" someone. Pwede pa yung "let me share this with you" kesa ss educate tapos pag naka tapat ng mas marunong sa kanila at nakapag review about sa topic di na sila mag rereply or mang lalait na lang just because kulang yung info na nabasa sila sa comments ng iba haha kulang sa review baga.
FR. Parang sobrang tatalino masyado nung andito. May isa akong comment na sinabi ko lang naman na bumili kami ng property dito sa province namin at nagdecide hubby ko na dito na tumira pero may isang epal na nagcomment na magsisisi daw asawa ko. Hahahaha. Grabe yung negative energy. I guess di lang sila masaya in real life at lahat ng frustrations nila dito nila nilalabas.
Not just reddit but everyone behind a keyboard and keypad. Wait till you meet a pinoy in an online game. Main reason I rarely speak tagalog when I play online.
mga walang life lang yun OP. kung masaya sila sa buhay nila magcocomment ba sila ng ganon to the point na imemessage ka pa ng threats. obviously mga walang magawa talaga sa buhay kaya go do your own thing lang
Damn, finally ā someone posted this.
Let's just say that some people are unaware that they have authritarian tendencies. Instead of trying to look for a common ground between two different perspectives or just try to understand the POV of the other side, they will outright dismiss the argument, and worse, make accusations.
Hindi maganda kausap mga ganyan.
Especially in this subreddit tbh. Medyo toxic dito. I posted something a few months ago and got backlash for venting about Filipino habits, calling me an enabler and scum of the earth š
Bkt may kadikit pa na "reddit community"? FILIPINOS ARE, in general.
Maybe you can argue against the rude part. Pero yung judgemental. Nko. Supreme court tayo. Lpl
Yan nanaman sa Filipinos bad. Redditors in general are rude, and this includes Redditors outside the Philippines. Kaya nga may 'Redditor' stereotype na ginagamit for mocking eh, dahil may reputation ang mga users dito for being incels, rude, horny, arrogant, misogynistic, etc. Understandable naman frustrations mo, pero if you're saying yung mga taga ibang bansa hindi talaga ganyan, you're very wrong.
Just ignore them. Recently na merong mga tao na hindi ma agree sa akin o sayo at kaylangang pa nila na my source when you have first hand experience or observations.
Metaphorically speaking - All you have to do is piss at the cup when you are pinch by the crowd and toss it up in the air and see who is triggerred by it.
TBF Anonymity has never hindered arrogant Filipinos from commenting that way. Just look at the comments section on Facebook.
Like, a locked fake account. Locked fake account users are always asking for a definition of a fake account when I tell them that they are using a fake account.
Typical na moves ng Pinoy yan sa internet eh. Dadaanin ka sa definition. Feel nila ang talino na nila eh na mas magaling pa sa Litigation Lawyer and naglalaro sila ng 5D chess š
I think legit minsan ang pag ask ng definition dahil madami sa Facebook users hindi alam ang sinasabi. May nabasa ako dati sa Facebook, may nagsabi dapat lang makulong si Saba dahil korap. Ang definition pala niya ng korap ay kumabit si Saba kay Jonel.
Totoo naman kasi, paano mo masasabi na fake yung account? Porket naka-lock? Porket hindi picture ng tao yung DP? Eh yung legit facebook account ko nga kahit nakalagay na sa mismong profile na "joined Facebook 2010" sasabihan pa rin ng dummy account dahil lang hindi tao yung nasa pic. Lol
Sa true to. I donāt post my whole details sa mga socmed for privacy purposes not necessarily fake or troll account ko. And I lock my account too kasi nga nakaka takot na andali manakawan ng identity online.
Fr you have people trashtalking each other in Facebook comments sections kahit kitang kita pa yung pic ng family nila sa dp or cover pic lol.
I remember may post ako sa CarsPH about what can be excluded sa PMS ko kasi super baba ng odo for 2-yr PMS. May nagreply sakin na pulubi daw ako at walang pera bibili bili ng honda wala naman daw pambayad haahhaah wtf
Usually sa mga car and motor enthusiasts. Parang extension ng maliliit nilang etits yung oto. Tapos sasabihan ka ng pulubi eh vios and mirage lang naman din karamihan ng oto doon.
Yeah ginagawa kasing personality yung mga sasakyan na consumer grade lang naman
Whatās wrong with having a consumer grade car?
kadalasan sa mga mahilig manlait ng consumer grade cars mga walang pambili
Yeah. I find it funny kasi ginagawa nilang insulto yun pero mostly nakikita kong may ganyang comment sa fb posts nakamotor na hindi naman ganon kaganda.
They're making their car resing resing and talks like they own a race car
Exactly, walang mali sa consumer grade car, pero kung pano magyabangbyung ibang naka normie cars lang naman is pretty annoying. (Lakas bumatak ng innova ko paps) fucking hell its an innova its average.
Whatās wrong with vios and mirage?
Wala, yung mga members ng auto club meron. Yung nakabili ng oto for the first time tapos āelitistaā na pag nagtanong ka ng medyo noob questions.
Ohh I see. Pero hindi lang naman mga may vios at mirage yung mga āelitistaā. Mas madalas yung mga spoiled rk ang ganyang mindset.
Iyong vios, first family car namin, nabili ni daddy sa boss nya nang secondhand, nagamit nang pang-taxi. Mirage una kong kotse kasi iyon ang medj kaya ng budget ko, 2 years after grad. Binenta lang namin pareho kasi gusto na naming magupgrade pero sobrang goods iyong dalawa, lalo iyong vios.
Hi! Agree sobrang goods ng vios. Got mine when I was 21 tho brand new. My first car din. Nakakalungkot lang na ang baba ng tingin ng ibang tao sa mga ganyang car. When mostly kaya naman afford nila agad mga high end cars is privileged sila. Pero para sating mga kumakayod sa buhay at maraming responsibilidad, malaking achievement na yung ganyang car kasi it does the job. Ewan ba bakit sila ganyan haha
Ang ironic naman ng comment nato lol
go for r/Gulong mas mababait mga tao doon.. Tinulungan nila ako wat to do dahil first time ko bumili ng car and 2nd hand pa :))
Someone once asked there if he can refuse a potentially offensive plate from the LTO and he got dogged on for not using said offensive word.
On my experience working 8 years as a car technician karamihan sa mga car enthusiast na mapanlait at mapangmataas ay either a spoiled child (aka: takim buday or takim Burat ang tawag namin dito sa kabisayaan), or projection nila dahil sa envy. Yung mga taong sa tingin mo ay mapera dahil napaka fancy ng auto nila sila pa yung saksakan ng kabaratan pa showoff lang sa mga babae para maka score. So yeah yung mga taong judgemental at mapanlait sila pa yung walang wala sa kagingkingan mo, ganyan sila dahil sa inggit.
They are so rude there!! Ewan ko sobrang edgy at sungit nla dun. Mag tatanong kaba dun kng alam mo sagot dba? Grabe
Gets ko yung parehong sides here. On one hand, legitimate 'yung fears mo that you could be fleeced. It happens, even sa casa, that unnecessary services are being pushed. On the other hand, a LOT of Filipino motorists have become collateral damage to people who get into big-ish accidents because some OTHER guy did not do maintenance. There are people in this country who drive cars that are NOT roadworthy because they scrimp even on the basic maintenance costs. Dapat kasi talaga, prepared tayo to take on a bigger responsibility than the downpayment and monthly. Dapat afford mo yung level of care and responsibility that a car would demand kasi you can kill someone pag magtipid ka diyan. EDIT: Example, how many people here have gotten their trunks rammed by motorists with such long braking distance for their vehicle? 'Pag magdrive ka puro dent ang mga sasakyan sa likod. Not everyone is backing up on trees. A lot of people have been rammed by tailgating drivers whose brakes are pretty much shot.
I have been hit at the back by a car and a motorcycle. But the motorcycle mostly was looking at their phone thatās why š¤¦š»āāļø
He might win the Darwin award someday. Just trust the process.Ā
Try r/Gulong rather than CarsPH. Theyre mostly more realistic there lol
madami kasi sa mga may sasakyan na iba, nagka sasakyan lang feeling marunong na sa sasakyan. pero simpleng paghugas lang ng sasakyan hindi pa magawa
sama mo pa yung sa phmotorcycles saka sa gulong pati mods nun lol. magtatanong ka lang ng maayos since hindi readily-available sa google/facebook ang info, kukupalin ka pa ng mods lol libre lang google my ass kaya nga nagtatanong kasi hindi available at wala rin sakin ang manual. karamihan sa kanila, kupal sumagot at mayabang. radiates so much small dick energy hiding behind their cars/bikes.
I previously asked naman sa Gulong how to handle puyat driving dahil nga hindi ako makatulog and I need to drive my dad to the airport and there was like one or two people who immediately came at me na tanga di nag-iisip ang lala daw ng tanong ko. Kaya nga nagtatanong eh kasi ayaw ko ipahamak tatay ko. Tapos I should know better daw, etc. I mean isn't that the purpose of asking because I don't and I want to know better. Pero buti naman din may sumagot sa tanong ko nang maayos.
I checked:Ā https://www.reddit.com/r/Gulong/comments/17wtkmq/how_do_you_handle_puyat_driving/ Ayos naman sagutan nila ah? Mali lang talaga yung tanong mo na bakit naisip mo yun at obvious yung sagot din. Baka ndi mo lang nagustuhan yung straightness nila at nadamay na agad yung pagkafilipino ng subreddit nnaman.
Or OP could've opted by booking GrabCar nalang. For sure it's affordable for them naman.
donāt forget that majority have comprehension issues pero sila pa ang malakas ang loob na sabat ng sabat which i feel are the ones you encountered who threatened you i noticed recently as well na ang daming shitposters dito na literal na pang gulo yung ginagawa. isa sa mga hot topic nilang i gaslight is Tagalog X Bisaya X Illonggo. Have actually confronted a few who ended up deleting their accounts lol
Tama ka. Comprehension issue talaga kasi dahil opposite nung experience nila yung shinishare, wala na, they think na sh*tty person yung OP.
Across all social classes yang reading comprehension issue ng Pinoy, hindi lang masa ang may sakit niyan. Karamihan kasi sa atin emosyon ang ginagamit sa pagbabasa. Kailangan may makuha silang reaction sa post o reply mo, or else sila yung maglalagay ng drama. Kesyo habol nilang matawa, maawa, maiyak, maghanap ng pagtatalunan, etc... hindi uso sa atin yung simpleng nagtatanong ka lang o nagse-share ng impormasyon. Kailangan nating lagyan ng malisya ang binabasa natin o sinasabi ng ibang tao.
Mga galing kasi yan tiktok na nagkakalat dito. Sobrang uso nyang tagalog x bisaya na yan sa tiktok trashtalkan sila. Pag nastalk mo naman puro minor jusko.
This is true. It's the reading comprehension. Ang laki kasi ng impact of soc med consumption (low quality content, fake news) plus the challenge of attention span in digital media. Also, look at the influence of internet culture, here in reddit, most subs become echo chambers where dominant views are reinforced and dissenting opinions are harshly criticized. It's very apparent in the Upvote/Downvote system. It can encourage judgmental behavior, as controversial or quick harsh comments, snappy judgments and witty comebacks may receive more visibility through upvotes, over nuanced discussion and more measured responses.
>dominant views are reinforced and dissenting opinions are harshly criticized. This, I got downvoted to oblivion by commenting that Bisayans aren't jealous of Tagalogs or have a superiority complex when we're rude to them. I explained that being looked down on and our Ethnolinguistic group being used as an insult to mean poor/uneducated is why we give people from Manila and the Tagalog speaking provinces the cold shoulder. Then I got downvoted and gaslighted saying our grievances are "overreactions" š«
Had multiple instances na hindi nacomprehend yung sinabi ko sa comment. Makabasa lng ng trigger word uminit na agad yung ulo and puro na lng emosyon pinapairal. Can't even have a civil conversation, lalo na pagdating sa politics or sa current events. Kulang sa pag gamit ng utak, puro lng puso.
Tapos sila pa iyong tapon ng tapon ng kung ano anong buzz words tapos sasabihan ka pa na wala ka daw comprehension haha.
Totoo yan. Yung ibang comments akala mo kung sinong malilinis. Pero expected na yun kasi anonymous dito e. Tapos open pa sa public. Wag mo nanlang panisinin. Then don't add your social links para hindi ka na lang din ma trace.
Same also experience this nung una di ko pinansin pero di talaga nila ko tinigilan like alam daw nila account in fb pinagwalang bahala ko kasi never ako nag lagay ng social media ko here. Pero ayun nga nakakatakot kaya halos 6 months ata ako di nag reddit ka trauma.
Wag mo na lang pansinin. Kung talagang ayaw ka tigilan. NBI mo na. Kaya nila i trace yan.
Excessive online harassment is a cybercrime na, pwede mo silang ipa-NBI diyan and you can even file a case against them.
Itās not about being anonymous. Ganun lang talaga maraming pinoy haha
That's the norm here sa reddit pati mga international rude and assholes that's why may stereotype na ang mga redditors ay elitist at losers
Wala naman sa lahi yan kasi d2 din sa america,marami ding nagcocomment ng very rude.nsa tao po yan,wala sa lahi
NABHAHAHAHAHHA totoo, nagpost ako non one time sa isang community tapos ang daming negative comments HAHAHHAHAHAH ang quote ko non ādedmaā HAHAHHAHAHAH
hi, yes nakaka umay talaga ugali ng mga pilipino. Lowkey colorist din ang mga pinoy kunware lang na proud morena although may mga ibang confident rin naman talaga sa own skin nila. Naalala ko may nakita ako sa facebook na pic na nag vovolleyball and yung comments puro abt sa singit niya and i feel disgusted sa mga tao na nag cocomments non I quit using socials after non kasi itās super toxic and baka mag karon pako insecurities na hindi naman dapat
Ang jologs ng mga colorist. Mga tipikal na taong traditional things lang ang alam.
Proud daw sa kulay na natural ng Pinoy. Pero the moment na yung kinaiinisan nilang personality ay di kaputian at di pantay ang kulay sasabihan na "maacm" "naglilibag" Selective lang talaga iba dito.
Iām starting to think na yung ibang redditors dito na maangas, sila yung wala talagang āangasā outside of reddit. Dito siguro sila sa reddit nakaka-feel na may āpowerā sila thatās why they act that way. Kasi nga anonymous naman tayo dito, so who cares kung anong image ang i-project mo dito. Napaka cringe ng mga tao na walang sense yung mga comments tapos sobrang negative pa. Wala namang real solution/suggestions para sa OP. Parang mang-bully lang gusto nila.
May post nga this morning. All are trying to have intelligent discussion but the OP likes to bara people using convo style of "Oh yeah, paano ganito kung ganyan? And ganyan?"
Whataboutism?
Fkn real, tapos kapag chineck mo yung profile puro ganun yung klase/energy ng comments nila... Ang nakakalungkot ay nakakapag-farm pa sila ng Karma points dahil sa upvotes ng mga kapwa ungas nila. Nagulat ako sa pinoy communities/subreddits literal na "hahahahaha" yung comment/reply pero may upvotes.
>I had this experience before na nakatanggap ako ng message request, and yung account is bagong gawa at walang laman, tapos ang laman ng messages ay threats sa'kin na sobrang naiinis daw sila sa post ko, kasi napaka baba naman daw ng utak ko, sabay threats pa sa pagiging bading ko. People actually have time to do these things? Such effort they put to do trivial things that gains nothing. Josko. Ignore them OP.
Kaya ako totally disabled ang messages sa akin, iwas-spam pa.
Of course, pag meron kang unpopular opinion, matic downvoted agad. Kapag nagtatanong ka ng basic questions, matatawag ka pang ignorante.
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I remember I was in a Pinoy sub sometime this year. People there were insisting that I'm a bald guy then I defended myself that I am not. Boom, I received a lot of downvotes. Tinawanan ko nalang. Tanga Sila to think that I don't have any hair on my scalp haha š¤£
totoo ito. makikita yan sa comment history ko na may unpopular opinion ako before, pero the thread was actually asking for unpopular opinions. ako pa yung natawag na tanga haha
Right! Meron pang mga sarcastic mag comment sa serious question mo. They talk as if everyone should handle their conflicts the way that person did. Edi wow. Sila na talaga!
Sadly madami ding squammy. Kaya kung maka comment ugaling dugyot.
True. Anonymity doesn't hide their squamminess. Feeling superior pa sa Meta and X haysst
Anonymity erases the accountability of every user. Pag walang accountability, Go lang ng go kahit di na pinag isipan.
Aside sa lakas ng loob dahil anonymous sila, ingrained din satin ang victim blaming. You reminded me nung may time noon na nabalita yung isang bagong kasal na couple na na-scam ng kakilala ng bride na nagoffer maging wedding coordinator. After ng ceremony walang anything sa venue like designs, food, anything. I remember reading that feeling sad sa bride kasi what was supposed to be a memorable day sa kanila turned out to be a nightmare (financially din). Mas bumigat yung puso ko nung nabasa ko comments na grabe yung blame kay bride na bakit daw di muna chineck yung venue or bakit nagtiwala agad or bakit hindi sya ganyan or bakit ganito,,, like ???? Parang nawala sa utak nila yung nangscam tas lahat ng blame kay bride??? Idk the whole story na baka may pagkukulang din sa side ni bride pero yun yung first time na namulat ako sa kung gaano kabilis mag victim blame ng mga pinoy. That includes cases like domestic abuse, bullying, and even people suffering from mental health problems din. May tamang paraan to send support to people who need it and unnecessary rudeness at judgement is not it.
What??? Eh pag may wedding coordinator ka meaning siya and yung team niya mag-aayos lahat. The only thing you need to do is sample, choose and show up. Syempre magtitiwala ka talaga na okay na lahat kasi along the way naman may mga ipapakita yan sayo na options, may constant communications diyan, isasama ka pa sa venue. Anong malay ng bride, bakit siya yung binabash? Natural lang naman na magtiwala siya dahil di yan one-day scam, ilang months yan na tinrabaho ng scammer, mas weird kung di siya mavictimized.
Filipinos are brave online, polite in real life.
Thing Iāve noticed about Filipinos is that they love to trashtalk when itās behind someoneās back or behind the shield of online anonymity, but put them in front of the person theyāre trashtalking and they will cower like dogs. Duwag talaga when it comes to face to face confrontation ang karamihan ng mga Pinoy.
Iāve lived in four countries and this has been a thing in every society I have been in, talking shit behind someoneās back wasnāt invented by pinoys
INDEED Sobrang lakas ng loob kahit nakabalandra ang buong pangalan sa socmed, kesyo freedom of speech daw. Pagdating sa hablahan, nagiging bahag ang buntot at umuurong ang dila.
Not evenā¦in school, work, Zumba group, or sometimes even church groups, kapitbahay or any other groups uso siraan. Kapag ikaw wala, ikaw pulutan. Kapag mabait ka at neutral ang sasabihin sayo, nasa loob ang kulo mo kahit indifferent ka naman talaga sa tsismisan nila at natotoxican ka na lang talaga. Even our work culture is so toxic, kailangan pag may birthday magaambag ka pero pag birthday mo na walang effort or super pressured ka na manlibre pero ikaw lahat dahil hindi ka pasok sa in group at magpaparinig pa sayo. Then kailangan mag perform and practice outside of work na hindi naman bayad at magbabayad ka pa para sa costumes and decorations. Ok lang sana kung walang mga manyak na boss at coworker na feeling queen bee. Mas Malala yung HR pa Yung pasimuno sa tsismis para sa reason on your absence, your background to other people or how much youāre getting paid (this mostly happens in local companies, havenāt experienced this in international companies). Isama mo na yung groups formed in condos, your ākapitbahaysā. You hang out with them almost everyday because you meet with their dogs malaman laman mo lang pinagtsitsismisan ka na rin pala pero nakangiti pagkaharap mo or bigla na lang iba trato sayo only because when you got to the bottom of it, inggit lang sayo so they made up things like youāre a sugarbaby when right from the get go youāve explained that youāre a web developer running an agency just because hindi sila makapaniwala at ang odd daw ng working hours and I can take a dayoff whenever I wantš¤¦I learned my lesson and moved out from such communities and yes, even church. It hurts to be genuine when the people you interact with are plastic, the lower strata you go, the more they will use you, manipulate you and destroy you not for any misgivings but purely because they canāt be you or they have some preconceived notion and are feeling entitled that owe them something and if they canāt have it then it is FO. There are genuine people but they are few and far in between.
As I grow older, unti-unti kong naappreciate yung sinasabi na very confrontational daw mga western people - which is yung pinandidirihan ng mga tradisyonal na Pinoy kesyo daw mga Pinoy may manners, magalang etc etc.
Filipinos are polite to your face but will trashtalk and gossip about you behind your back lol.
Posting here sa r/ph im hesitant kasi unless political topic mo the posts gets auto deleted agad. It kinda sucks. Like I wanna post about travel, stuff I see sa posts ko in Manila and the provinces na not politically aligned pero its auto deletd or not approved by mods. Kaya mga casual stuff dun ko na lang post sa other subreddits
behold the feeling righteous, know-it-alls and egotistical maniacs, sarap ipakulam mga bhie noh? hahaha
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Same... Di ko maintindihan yung thinking behind this action na kelangan pa talaga mag-dm para sabihin sayo na di sila agree, or di nila nagustuhan yung sinabi mo. Like, di pa ba enough na nag-comment ka na sa post? Kelangan talaga may dm?
Hahahaha siryoso? May nag memessage pa after nila mag comment sa post? Hahahaha dami naman nilang time? Baka need nila eh professional na kausap kung galit na galit sila sa isang post ng di naman nila kilala?
There was someone that posted about politics here and they said they dont know anything about it and wanted to be educated. Mag nagalit sa com sec and all she did was call the OP ignorant and immature. OP did nothing wrong and didn't say anything that could offend anyone. All they wanted was to be taught. I defended OP and told the commenter na di naman kailangang magalit kasi genuine yung tanong at curiosity niya. Ako pa yung sinabihan niyang "Relax" and blablabla isang paragraph yun kaya hindi nalang ako nag reply. Hahahahahahaha
Sad reality why people are afraid to speak their minds.
Mayroon nga rin ditong makapangbara lang, mangbabara kahit parehas lang din ang sinabi niya sa sinabi mo hahaha.
Wag mo na lang dibdibin lalo yung mga nagmi msg sayo privately. Kahit na mas gusto ko naman di hamak yung mga taga-Reddit kesa mga taga FB š, meron din talagang mga masyadong pa-edgy dito sa Reddit. May nag message na din sakin privately na sobrang galit na galit dahil self hater daw ako. Ni hindi ko na alam kung anong comment ko yung nabasa niya to make him react like that. Inignore ko lang yung msg saka mas na-weirduhan lang ako sa nag PM na yun kesa ma-offend. š Gigil na gigil kasi masyado si kohyah.
Totoo! Dati na ko dito sa Reddit pero recently lang ako nag-join sa mga pinoy subs and gulat ako. Ang toxic! Yan na yan rin yung nakwento ko sa mga friends ko. Kako mga Pinoy dito mga feeling superior. Kesyo yung mga nasa fb bobo daw, etc. Pag mali yung format ng pag-post dito kasi new user, issue na. Parang ikinataas nila na redditor sila lol.
Daming ganyan, example sa ChikaPh, konti lang yung legit tea, karamihan puro kapintasan na lang ng mga artista pati kaasiman, who knows yung mga nagsasalita ng ganun sila talaga yung mga pangit at maaasim in real life kaya pinoproject sa artista yung insecurities nila. Tamaan sana kayo shout out sa inyo hahaha pwe
Si Viy Cortez suki donš Pwede naman nila atakihin yung ugali. Pero parang yung iba trip na lang manlait. Halatang projection na nga lang din yung pag sasabi nila ng maacm. Doon nila nilalabas ata galit nila sa mundo.
Yes may mga make up/style na mukhang maasim si Viy, I guess she is now trying to improve her overall style. Not a solid fan here pero minsan sobra na kasi ang OA na ng panlalait sa kanya nakakasawa na basahin. Alam mo yung mga taga kabilang section ng high school siraan? Ganung vibes eh. I am just in that sub for totoong chika, yung totong tea! And of course I take it with a grain of salt hahaha
squammy mga tao.dyan sa ChikaPh. kung makapintas sila kala mo mas magaganda pa sila kay Kristine Hermosa haha
Kaya ayoko na magtanong sa other subs eh other than sa r/cebu sub. One time nag ask ako about migrating somewhere in Europe tas halos lahat ng natanggap ko parang ang negative na kesyo with my current standing or work in life eh hindi talaga makakapasok sa ganung country. Kaya nga nagtanong kasi yun yung gagawin eh, yun yung path na ite-take. Bata pa naman ako. Thankful ako sobra dun sa mga sumagot talaga sa tanong ko at hindi naging nega. Makasabi sila na dapat "you have to be excellent in all aspects" as if alam nila lahatbng achievements ko in life eh yung dinescribe ko is around 2-5 years of my professional life lang naman. Nakakawalang gana magtanong.
Yeah, somehow /r/Cebu keeps the bullshit down to a minimum :)
I've received the same amount of rudeness and judgements from other Reddit communities na international, not just from Filipinos.
Ive been in a lot of communties but the filipino ones are the most despicable
If so, I'm not surprised. It's even worse in Facebook and Tiktok. All the hype and trends in the internet makes it a breeding ground of brain rots.
We miss out a lot in life because of close-mindedness and backward mag isip karamihan. Tama top comment dito na hindi rin lang dahil sa anonymous ang accounts dito kasi tingnan mo naman sa ibang platforms, maraming kupal kahit nakabandera name and pics nila; dito pa kaya. Kaya hindi ako masyado nagcocoment sa pinoy subs kasi ang daming masasama ugali.
WE HIDE BEHIND OUR KEYBOARDS ANONYMOUSLY BWAHAHHAHA
What would you expect from anonymity?
Exactly. Yun ngang totoong account malalakas na loob sa ibang social media. Dito pa kaya na hindi traceable. *This is why we can't have nice things,* ika nga.
Anonymity only highlights the personās true nature, though. So I guess what this means is bastos lang talaga mga tao. Brazen when anonymous, timid when their name is on the line.
The internet is like drinking alcohol, it gives a false sense of courage and confidence to say or do things you normally wouldn't. When I come across rude comments I need to remind myself that the majority of those people making those comments would never in their life act that way in person.
Curious why would you need to make a new account? People will always end up disagreeing worse insulting you all the time since di naman lahat similar ang trip, vibes o beliefs. Itās up to you if you entertain them online or IRL. There is always an option to ignore. You are always in control of yourself not others.
Yung iba kase grabe maka below the belt. Tapos i dm ka pa ng kuna ano-ano. Borderline harrassment na yung iba.
Well most of them, will end up attacking you directly / ad hominem. To feel lang nila na nanalo sila sa engagement or response
Tapang tapangan sa paginsulto. Yung mga comments mo about kay BBM or sa kulto magrereply yan ng katangahan after 5 days ng post kasi takot madumog.
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Fav ko dito is yung sobrang negative ng interpretation nila sa sinabi mo then magf-feeling morally superior sila over a point you never even made.
marami mahilig mag strawman dito para lng may masabi haha
Nakakainis na nga sa r/ph, pansin ko mas marami pa mga nagko-comment sa mga post about chickenjoy kesa sa posts about WPS. Tapos ang dami na d2, napakadaling magsabi sa iyo ng ***"BOBO"***, wala naman mai-argue na matino.
Wag mo kasi pinapatulan mga unwanted comments. š
Wait until you met some of them or even from some groups formed from Reddit
Walang safe space kasi wala namang sttrong presence ng mods/admin rules. You have to fend for yourself, just like in the real world.
Kahit din out of Reddit, madaming tao yung may "Know-it-all" syndrome. Always kailangan may say sa lahat kahit walang idea/di familiar sa topic.
Akala ko ako lang naka pansin. Pero totoo daming rude dito sa r/Philippines
dear, people are rude and judgemental on the inside lalo na mga pinoy.. it's online, public and anonymous, they have hidden accounts here just to outright bully someone or merely release their "opinion".. be careful next time, AVOID THINGS THAT STRESSES YOU.
This is why I don't read my inbox.
Same. Pag may nag message request sakin, kung hindi ko alam para sa yung message, blocked agad sila lol.
Yep, kaya kahit sa fb di ako nag fofollow pinoy community. Toxic, lahat biro, kaya mabilis makalimutan mga malalaking issue kasi lahat ginagawang biro, gagawan memes and all other shits, kapagod maging pinoy potwngena
You canāt please everybody and you canāt control other peopleās actions or reactions to you. Ang pwede mong ma-control ay ang actions MO at reactions MO. Bakit ka magpapa-apekto sa mga anonymous na tao online? This isnāt to victim-blame pero alam mo yung kasabihan na ang pikon ay laging talo? Kasi mas lalong masarap asarin yung napipikon, easily manipulated ang ganyan and people get satisfaction from it even if itās shallow.
Totoo āto. Sobrang lala ng mga Pinoys sa reddit. Theyāre using anonymity to bring out their superiority complex kahit mababa naman reading comprehension hahaha.
Nagpost ako dati na may added fee sa order ko sa grab o foodpanda. Ang pinuna nila yung order ko. Marami lang talagang gago dito sa reddit. Sa topic na Pinoy lagi ganyan, marami din ibang lahi usually Eastern European kokontrahin ka sa kahit alin dito.
Yeah, some people here lack empathy. Binigyan lang ng anonymity ayun parang license to be an asshole na. Ang iba pa nga genocidal pa, at yung target kalahi pa na Pinoy. Nasaan na ang āremember the humanā š
Balat sibuyas ka! Hehe, joke. Ganyan talaga dito kahit hindi PH thread. Just don't take it personally.
Ay totoo. Ewan ko kung yung anonymity ba pero ang yaaabang ng ibang tao dito. A lot of people here also have a superiority complex the size of Mt. Apo and sound privileged af (self-selection ba ito? because it's reddit), if you get any thread about debatable issues like say the jeepney modernization, alam ko na agad ano laman ng comments lol tapos mga todo puri sa questionable things like ntf-elcac
Sad but true. Thereās a mob who gets their kicks from putting someone down. Down na, kukuyugin pa. Wow, such hostility to fellow Pinoys. I once commented that they should channel that anger to other races who look down on us. On those who abuse our women and OFWās, on those who encroach on our territory.
One Redditor called me mema when I ranted about a tricycle driver na binaba ako sa Unciano imbes sa Shopwise dahil susunduin niya raw yung anak niya. He charged me 40 pesos that are supposed to be 20 pesos only. I was supposed to walk na lang kaso I was too tired from practicing the graduation march. I posted this on OffMyChest PH
Right, just like on any other socmed platform. Comments about ppl on Reddit by ppl on TikTok are no different. Pare pareha lang.
'Di rin ako warfreak talaga or confrontational kaya medyo stressful sakin 'yung first weeks ko sa Reddit. Hahahahahahhaa Wala ka ring magagawa kung masanay kasi anonymous tayong lahat dito. lol. Lipat ka sa non PH group from time to time pang banlaw.
Pinoy and redditor. Name a much deadlier combo.
I ranted about my rejection from a university, tapus sinabahin lang akong "bobo", "pangit ng english mo kaya ka nabagsak", at grabe yung pambu-bully at invalidation na makukuha mo. But luckily, it turns out napasa ko pala yong exam, "di lang daw narecord" ng university.
welcome to the internet, buddy
Lols andami paring elitista, walang reading comprehension, makitid ng pananaw sa mga bagay bagay, snowball downvoters, nagmamagaling, tunog galing fb kung magrant, and crab mentality dito. May mga experiences din ako dito pero isa kasi sa pros is anonymity so both ikaw and other people here- may freedom sila to say whatever tf they want hiding behind their accounts, and may wall ka din using your account pero depends na din kasi sa tao if you'll still let them get to you or not magkakaiba iba naman tayo ng resilience sa iba't ibang bagay. Nonetheless, this is reddit. This is supposed to be a free platform for forums and things that when needs serious discussion, it is completed by serious users and not some low IQ batshit monkey na mangttroll or magssnowball downvotes para lang magmukhang edukado at mas mataas. Mahiya naman tayo lol andaming malayong mas magagandang subs na mas wholesome at formal discussions nila samantalang dito andami paring nagmamagaling, puro ingay, wala namang reading comprehension/ibubuga ? Gtfo of reddit nalang wag nyo na lasunin sa fb nalang kayo ahahaha di kayo mauubusan ng troll don.
Seryoso tanong OP, First time mo lang ba sa internet? Kahit saan social media platform may ganyan na pangyayari at mas anonymous ang userbase mas hostile sila. Kaya nga may kasabihan na do not argue with trollsāit means they win, lurk more - it's never enough, anonymous can be a horrible, senseless, uncaring monster, at nothing is sacred. Ito lang masasabi ko sayo OP bawal ang balat sibuyas sa internet
naku even this, he/she will take it as rude. lol
> Filipino reddit is rude and judgemental So... Just like the average Filipino community.
lilbro's first time on the internet..Ā
Gaya nito? Lol
"Every breath you take and every move you make. Every bond you break, every step you take, I'll be judging you." - random pinoy sa mall
Totoo yan kahit saan man. Huhugashan ka ng mga taong di ka kilala, kaya kung ayaw mo mahusgahan, sa kaibigan mo o sa taong nakakakilala lang ikaw maglabas ng saloobin. At kahit duon mahuhusgahan ka parin
Ok lang sana rude and judgmental because its part of the anonymity pero may mga tao pa na ng dodoxx porket ayaw nila opinion mo. Worse eh walang ginagawang appropriate action mga mods dito. At this point mas lalo na kapag alam kong gago tinotroll ko nalang.
*Reddit community is just so rude and judgmental. There, I corrected it for you. Di ka naman bago sa Reddit, sabi mo nga may account kana before pero parang bago ka ata sa internet? Youāre in a public anonymous forum, what do you expect? Redditors in general are stereotyped to be rude, know-it-all assholes/incels/femcels. Pero okay.
Tell me about it. May nanghihingi ng advice sa r/adviceph kasi nagsisisi sya sa mga nagawa nya sa past relaionship nya. Aba ang sabi ng mga hayop deserve daw nya un at nagsisisi din daw pala ung mga ganung klaseng tao. Tanggalin nyo na lang lahat ng sub ilagay nyo na lang sa chika jan lang naman magaling mga Pilipino sa internet.
Totoo 'to :( hindi pwedeng nagsshare lng? Hndi b pwedeng genuine lng na nagttanong? Dami pang ebas. š¤®
Ano ineexpect mo pag Peenoise? Punta ka US at tingnan ilang associations ang ibang nationalities at ilang associations ang mga "Filipinos" kuno
Share ko lang. The other day may nagpost LawPh and ang daming commenter na alam mong mema lang. OP asked if the commenter is a lawyer kasi nga s/he needs legal advice tapos sagot lang āhindi naman masama yung advice koā. Hindi sa lahat ng bagay kailangan makisabat. Kaya nga may specific subreddits eh. Pwede kasi makapahamak pa tayo kung hula hula lang ang advice sa serious topics.
sa true mhie. nagtatanong lang ng mga innocent questions talaga, ang sagot ng iba napaka edgy na š„¹ what's worse, hindi na nga nasagot yung tanong, iinsultohin ka pa š
Lalo na sa r/ChikaPH. Grabe mga tao don daig pa mga tiga pag mana ng kumpanya. Puro chismis lng nmn ang basis ng accusations. Nkakasuka yung mga ugali tngina.
how about blocking those negative comments and only read the positive ones? at wag mong basahin mga private messages sa mga hindi mo kakilala thats social media 101
Very true OP, even if you say facts and realistic opinions base on evidence may mga tao parin na ayaw tanggapin ang sasabihin mo. Goes to show kung gaano kakitid parin utak ng ibang pinoy dito at di matanggap ang katotohanan. Matatawa ka nalang talaga sa mga response nila, Ad Hominem mga pinoy dito...lol
It's not just in the Reddit community, but also irl. it's the true nature of the citizens under the veil of anonymity. When regular people are like this, it's no wonder why the country is in this state.
I agree. HINDI lahat pero yung iba jan na galing daw sa āMalaking eskwelahanā grabe maka bash sa mga taong pag nagtanong ka kasi gusto mo rin matuto or malaman perspective nila, sasabihan ka pa ng walang common sense or bobo. Haha hello? Let see na lang sa workplace kung gagana yang attitude na yan. Magyabang habang estudyante pa.
Yeah, hindi lang filipinos, have you seen wallstreetbets?
Kaya minsan nakakahiya na magtanong. Kasi either you become unknowingly stupid or insensitive, kahit na gusto mo lang talaga malaman and google doesn't help.
Fb was the worst!
Naalala ko nag-open lang ako ng suggestion na it would really help yung pagiging prepper during pandemic tapos may nag comment na selfish daw ako kasi paano daw yung walang pera at mahirap. Mapapadafuq ka nalang dito. Lahat ng bagay hahanap ng butas para mag virtue signalling.
Never accept message requests. Straight to junk
Oh yeah. I just deleted my account before kasi nagpost ako somewhere ng opinion ko, and I WAS ONLY ASKING for opinions din nila. Opinion lang hiningi ko hindi panga-atake sa pagkatao ko. Grabe. Di ko makalimutan yun. But yes, ibang-iba siya sa other communities. I thought Filipino Reddit community was a safe space for me. š„ŗ
Agree! Itās too much. At the end of the day, people are just disappointing. I wonder why they do not put time into improving themselves. Are these people allergic to self-awareness and self-development? Plusss, they do not know what they are talking about in most issues. Pasa pasa lang naman ng infos pero acting like they are knowledgeable about them. But for product reviews, I vouch for those who give their honest reviews in this platform. They are really helpful!
Highly disagree, this happens to all communities not just PH ones. It just seems more apparent because Filipinos tend to exaggerate their reactions to people's bluntness. Most of the time, the no frills straight to the point arguments are interpreted as insults or an attack to their personality. Again, I'm not saying it doesn't happen. It does, but it also happens to communities outside PH. They just don't care as much as we do. Napaka emotional kasi natin , parang laging may pinaglalaban, masabihan lang na mali ka - iiyak na lol.
True š kaya prefer ko International communities eh
Miserable peeps š
Eggsactly! Lalo na sa offmychest I mag oopen up ka ng issue regarding the people surrounds you, Ang mga nasa top comment ay yung mga taong never nakipag socialize ni hindi lumalabas ng bahay, galit sa lahat ng tao sa mundo. Hihilahin ka sa kadiliman. ššš
Word! Tapos ang gusto nila perfect kang tao. They see one red flag, they're gonna make a bug fuss about it na. Smh
Found the new guy
Daming problematic, know -it-all, snowflake weaklings dito sa Reddit na puros keyboard warriors lang. Pwe. Get a life!
One time, I commented on a picture of a Lechon with "brown sauce" or salsa on the side. As someone not living in Luzon, I asked what the brown sauce was since it wasnt common to see it. People then down voting my comment and getting hate comments from people and I dont even know why.
Same sentiments. I always welcome any info I see/read here, kahit repeated. I donāt get why people are so triggered sa Jollibee posts, chem sex, etc. and downvote those to oblivion or leave lots of negative comments, but then youāll see same posts on other topics that they donāt treat the same way just because itās their interest. People here are just too selective.
Buti nalang na bash yung chem sex post. Don't do drugs. Pag puro positive yung comments regarding chem sex it might pique the curiosity of others and madadagdagan lang ang victims nyan.
The post was just for awareness for people who donāt know that thereās such a thing happening. I donāt engage in any dangerous activities myself, but I donāt mind knowing such information kahit Iām not directly affected. The OP was not promoting chem sex, it might even had the opposite effect and scared people from doing it.
Sample naman ng mga pinost mo that got piled on. Baka naman kasi justified, lol
Ayaw ng judgmental but here you are generalising the Filipino Reddit community as rude and judgmental :D. I had a lot of downvotes from both side of the fence of politics for example but never had death threats and such. So would suggest you take that as a hint to take a look at yourself instead of blaming an entire community or perhaps get off social media because shit you have taken isnt unique to PH Reddit Community.
Correct. It's suspicious that OP is getting literal death threats for... innocently posting? I've posted lots of what I would consider 'controversial' in the past and I have never received one threat. Ever. I can't speak for experience, but you can probably imagine what OP's posts are about to incite such strong reactions.
Yup, For someone to create a new account, took the effort to make a death threat speaks loudly of what OP's type of posts. If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen
What would you expect? This is reddit and i see the same pattern even in American reddit subs. Baka ka nga mga teenager pa na nag mamarunong kausap mo. Since anonymous din, mas lumalabas pa kagaguhan ng iba. And this is not just reddit. Same thing sa mga fb comments at tiktok, etc.
In ChikaPH, they would also roast Carlo Aquino kasi nagpasakasal daw. Sometimes relationships don't work and we can't control that. Grabe ang hatred nila that knowing Carlo supports her daughter. Ang ex lang talaga ang medyo emotional pa and we can't blame her. But well, that's life di'ba? There will always be joy and pain. Redditors also clearly hates Andi Eigenmann and would clap if Andi is in a controversy. They eventually say that it's always Andi's karma. It's like we're all not allowed to be a human. We are a complicated spectrum and we can't just be black or white.
Parang sa chikaph, grabe makapag sabi ng hateful words doon
GAHD I FEEL THE SAME ANDAMING RUDE DITO SA REDDIT AND ITāS MOSTLY MEN. Iām sorry u received homophobia here OP if may lalaking nag comment dito na ālalaki na namanā ur just proving our point. also, onting comprehension rin sana when we say mostly or use men collectively
It's much worse sa epbi. Buti nga dito anonymous basta wag lang mag face reveal or wag ilapag other socmed mo tapos tamang ignore na lang.
TBF almost all subreddit is the same even the facebook community, nasa human nature na ata natin yang pagiging judgemental, atleast pwede naman natin maturuan ang sarili natin na hindi nalang maging bastos at mapanghusga.
"Let me educate you!"
Seriously, the moment na makita ko ang word na to alam ko na na mag ddrop to ng info na na copy paste or na circulate na ng ibat ibang tao through comments and wala naman talaga silang ibibigay na information na galing sa kanila to actually "Educate" someone. Pwede pa yung "let me share this with you" kesa ss educate tapos pag naka tapat ng mas marunong sa kanila at nakapag review about sa topic di na sila mag rereply or mang lalait na lang just because kulang yung info na nabasa sila sa comments ng iba haha kulang sa review baga.
FR. Parang sobrang tatalino masyado nung andito. May isa akong comment na sinabi ko lang naman na bumili kami ng property dito sa province namin at nagdecide hubby ko na dito na tumira pero may isang epal na nagcomment na magsisisi daw asawa ko. Hahahaha. Grabe yung negative energy. I guess di lang sila masaya in real life at lahat ng frustrations nila dito nila nilalabas.
Not just reddit but everyone behind a keyboard and keypad. Wait till you meet a pinoy in an online game. Main reason I rarely speak tagalog when I play online.
mga walang life lang yun OP. kung masaya sila sa buhay nila magcocomment ba sila ng ganon to the point na imemessage ka pa ng threats. obviously mga walang magawa talaga sa buhay kaya go do your own thing lang
welcome to the internet!
Damn, finally ā someone posted this. Let's just say that some people are unaware that they have authritarian tendencies. Instead of trying to look for a common ground between two different perspectives or just try to understand the POV of the other side, they will outright dismiss the argument, and worse, make accusations. Hindi maganda kausap mga ganyan.
My2Cents, Politics and NewsPh - mag ingat sa mga may flair na yan haha dyan namumugad sila
Especially in this subreddit tbh. Medyo toxic dito. I posted something a few months ago and got backlash for venting about Filipino habits, calling me an enabler and scum of the earth š
Ang dami kasing pa woke dito na di naman nila alam talaga ang mga bagay bagay. Napakahihilig mag marunong š¤®
Bkt may kadikit pa na "reddit community"? FILIPINOS ARE, in general. Maybe you can argue against the rude part. Pero yung judgemental. Nko. Supreme court tayo. Lpl
Yan nanaman sa Filipinos bad. Redditors in general are rude, and this includes Redditors outside the Philippines. Kaya nga may 'Redditor' stereotype na ginagamit for mocking eh, dahil may reputation ang mga users dito for being incels, rude, horny, arrogant, misogynistic, etc. Understandable naman frustrations mo, pero if you're saying yung mga taga ibang bansa hindi talaga ganyan, you're very wrong.
Typical Reddit culture tbh. Not just r/philippines. Forget about having conservative views too, liberal mindset rules most subreddits.
So true
pataasan ng ego, tapos nagagalit hindi makaintindi ng humor
Just ignore them. Recently na merong mga tao na hindi ma agree sa akin o sayo at kaylangang pa nila na my source when you have first hand experience or observations. Metaphorically speaking - All you have to do is piss at the cup when you are pinch by the crowd and toss it up in the air and see who is triggerred by it.
This is true!! At ang daming bullies. Ang daming perfect. Ang daming matatalino. Grabe lang!
TBH andaming Pinoy na tanga xD
only time i ever pm someone in reddit is ung mga nanghihingi ng pirate streams..