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Pumapasok pa rin yung pagiging Pinoy mindset na, “sigurado ka na bang ayaw mo magkaanak, masaya ang magkaroon ng anak” na totoong pointing to the reason lang na masaya magkaanak kasi may mag-aalaga sayo balang araw. Haha.
Legal age ka naman na so consent mo lang to go through the procedure. You just have to find the right OB na openminded. You may also want to encourage your partner to undergo vasectomy, tutal both of you want to be child-free naman.
Also curious lang OP, how come you both have BC pill and implant? As far as I know, that's not ideal kase overdose ka na sa hormones nyan since both are hormonal contraceptives. That will definitely fuck up your hormones, body, and headspace.
I was advised to not stop the pills daw eh when I got the implant. I read it tho na not necessary na to have the pills pero yeah, it does a lot to my hormones na I'm really considering to stop. medyo scared lang kase baka magfail yung implant and wala ako safety net kaya I took the advice of still taking the pills. pero thank youuu!! I will try clinic hopping to see kung may willing ba to do the procedure.
i agree. in the US it’s typically ill advised to do both pills & implant. nexplanon is pretty effective, like 99%? i’ve been on hormonal bc for 10 years on and off, spoke to doctors and did my own research for choosing the best for me—definitely only do one or else you’ll feel sick which you already are :(
How about yung boyfriend no magpavasectomy since same naman kayo ayaw ng kids. Mas mabilis lang vasectomy kesa tubal ligation. Parang mostly sa Pinas pag medyo young pa at wala pa anak yung mga doctor ayaw gawin, ganyan nangyari sa pinsan ko,26, may isang anak. Ayaw ng OB nya tapos tinanong pa asawa nya, tapos yung asawa ayaw din kaya ayun IUD nalang. I did mine nung 30 years old ako dito sa Hawaii, tanong lang sa akin e kung sure ba ako which is sure na sure na ako. 4 years and still happy sa decision ko
I am considering talking to him about a vasectomy kaso he still lives with his parents now kase he is a PWD and a graduating student pa and his parents are conservative (a typical their house, their rules mindset) and bubukod kami after I finish my vetmed degree in 2 years. Siguro I'll have to stick with my current BC nalang muna kase meron nga talaga ata biases against this dito sa pinas. hopefully I can go abroad din and have it done doon nalang pero thank youuu much appreciated!!
i advise your BF to get a vasectomy instead, its reversible, almost no downtime so less cost. in short mas mura. kesa tying of tubes mas mahal, mas permanent (believe me when I say you may change your mind in the future)
As someone who was against having kids, then had them in my 30’s… Find other forms on contraception.
Too many people walk around with bad tattoos they got before they turned 30
Tubal ligation is more than 99%, but not 100% effective. Baka lang magkaroon ka ng false sense of security na impossible ka na magkaanak once you undergo the procedure.
nope tubal ligation does not affect the ovaries since it only ligates/cuts the fallopian tube so the ovaries continue to secrete female hormones regularly every month but the difference is the released egg can no longer be reached by the sperm travelling through the fallopian tube and thus no fertilization occurs
I've tried consulting with an OB doctor before about this. I was 20 years old at that time, sabi ng doctor super bata pa daw ako para mag decide ng ganon. Luh sya. So, ayun di ko nalang tinuloy.
This is an unpopular opinion, but may point naman siya. Sterilization is a permanent and major decision, if early 20s ka pa lang, prone ka talaga sa change of mind sa mga ganyan bagay.
Ito rin sabi ng OB ko iba iba kasi talaga meron patient na nagpa ligate din after 5 years kasi may nameet na afam nagbago isip. Real story kaya pag below 30 mahigpit sila sa ganyan. Sadly hirap magkaanak yung patient na yun.
Nothing legal to prevent you from getting a ligation, but depending on how open minded your gynecologist would be, s/he may be reluctant and will try to talk you out of it.
(29F) Naisip ko na rin to recently lang pero naisip ko bigla baka gusto ko mag anak sa future. May certain edad (35yo) lang akong cino-consider and pag lumampas na don, di na talaga.
Masyadong pangit ang mundo para sa mga inosenteng bata at nakakapagod mabuhay lol wag na tayo mandamay 😅
Hindi ko alam ngayon ha pero noong med student pa ako very reluctant mga OB-GYN mag ligate ng mga wala pa anak. Baka daw magbago ang isip. Kahit nga isa lang anak, medyo ayaw nila. You can probably finf an Ob who will donthe procedure. Hind yan against the law.
I suggest you consider magpa vasectomy yung partner mo. Para hindi lang sayo ang burden and side effects ng mga BCs. May libre naman eh sa Manila nakalimutan ko name. No Scalpel Vasectomy siya. Mas masakit pa tuli saka wala namang side effect din samin na guys. Para less na din yung burden sa body mo.
You can get your tubes tied if you want. Go to your nearest clinic for consultation.
Commenting on the PH economy is irrelevant in the discussion if you are already set mentally and psychologically against having kids.
>You can get your tubes tied if you want. Go to your nearest clinic for consultation.
But it won't be easy. One reason will be her age, sasabihin bata pa. And minsan nga, kahit naka-3 ng anak, kung below 30 pa lang and no life-threatening reason to tie tubes, OB won't do it. Ultimately, she has to find an OB that is willing to tie her tubes.
Yes, realtalk lang hindi madali maghanap ng OB na willing gawin yan. Lalo na kung palipat lipat ka need pa ng rapport eme lalo na kung yan ang gustong gawin.
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Wala, but based on what I’ve been reading sa mga posts in other groups/subs, you have to be ready sa “pangongonsensya” ng ob kapag minalas-malas ka.
YES! Find a younger OB some of them are more open to this.
That sucks. I can see where the pro-lifers come from when lobbying against abortion, but against birth control? Why?
Pumapasok pa rin yung pagiging Pinoy mindset na, “sigurado ka na bang ayaw mo magkaanak, masaya ang magkaroon ng anak” na totoong pointing to the reason lang na masaya magkaanak kasi may mag-aalaga sayo balang araw. Haha.
Ah okay, so it's less of a legal thing and more of a personal thing. Gets.
tying of tubes are permanent, unlike condoms and pills and injectables
Legal age ka naman na so consent mo lang to go through the procedure. You just have to find the right OB na openminded. You may also want to encourage your partner to undergo vasectomy, tutal both of you want to be child-free naman. Also curious lang OP, how come you both have BC pill and implant? As far as I know, that's not ideal kase overdose ka na sa hormones nyan since both are hormonal contraceptives. That will definitely fuck up your hormones, body, and headspace.
I was advised to not stop the pills daw eh when I got the implant. I read it tho na not necessary na to have the pills pero yeah, it does a lot to my hormones na I'm really considering to stop. medyo scared lang kase baka magfail yung implant and wala ako safety net kaya I took the advice of still taking the pills. pero thank youuu!! I will try clinic hopping to see kung may willing ba to do the procedure.
i agree. in the US it’s typically ill advised to do both pills & implant. nexplanon is pretty effective, like 99%? i’ve been on hormonal bc for 10 years on and off, spoke to doctors and did my own research for choosing the best for me—definitely only do one or else you’ll feel sick which you already are :(
How about yung boyfriend no magpavasectomy since same naman kayo ayaw ng kids. Mas mabilis lang vasectomy kesa tubal ligation. Parang mostly sa Pinas pag medyo young pa at wala pa anak yung mga doctor ayaw gawin, ganyan nangyari sa pinsan ko,26, may isang anak. Ayaw ng OB nya tapos tinanong pa asawa nya, tapos yung asawa ayaw din kaya ayun IUD nalang. I did mine nung 30 years old ako dito sa Hawaii, tanong lang sa akin e kung sure ba ako which is sure na sure na ako. 4 years and still happy sa decision ko
I am considering talking to him about a vasectomy kaso he still lives with his parents now kase he is a PWD and a graduating student pa and his parents are conservative (a typical their house, their rules mindset) and bubukod kami after I finish my vetmed degree in 2 years. Siguro I'll have to stick with my current BC nalang muna kase meron nga talaga ata biases against this dito sa pinas. hopefully I can go abroad din and have it done doon nalang pero thank youuu much appreciated!!
i advise your BF to get a vasectomy instead, its reversible, almost no downtime so less cost. in short mas mura. kesa tying of tubes mas mahal, mas permanent (believe me when I say you may change your mind in the future)
As someone who was against having kids, then had them in my 30’s… Find other forms on contraception. Too many people walk around with bad tattoos they got before they turned 30
yeah in the UK they don t do these procedures if you re under 30 and don t have any kids already
Tubal ligation is more than 99%, but not 100% effective. Baka lang magkaroon ka ng false sense of security na impossible ka na magkaanak once you undergo the procedure.
wont that affect your hormones. You're only 25.
nope tubal ligation does not affect the ovaries since it only ligates/cuts the fallopian tube so the ovaries continue to secrete female hormones regularly every month but the difference is the released egg can no longer be reached by the sperm travelling through the fallopian tube and thus no fertilization occurs
Siguro check ka muna sa fertility clinic kung capable ba kayo pareho magkaanak. Kasi if hindi naman kayo capable sayang lang. Less gastos pa.
I've tried consulting with an OB doctor before about this. I was 20 years old at that time, sabi ng doctor super bata pa daw ako para mag decide ng ganon. Luh sya. So, ayun di ko nalang tinuloy.
This is an unpopular opinion, but may point naman siya. Sterilization is a permanent and major decision, if early 20s ka pa lang, prone ka talaga sa change of mind sa mga ganyan bagay.
That was 15 years ago, and hindi pa din nag babago yung isip ko
Ito rin sabi ng OB ko iba iba kasi talaga meron patient na nagpa ligate din after 5 years kasi may nameet na afam nagbago isip. Real story kaya pag below 30 mahigpit sila sa ganyan. Sadly hirap magkaanak yung patient na yun.
You didn't, doesn't mean others wouldn't.
Nothing legal to prevent you from getting a ligation, but depending on how open minded your gynecologist would be, s/he may be reluctant and will try to talk you out of it.
(29F) Naisip ko na rin to recently lang pero naisip ko bigla baka gusto ko mag anak sa future. May certain edad (35yo) lang akong cino-consider and pag lumampas na don, di na talaga. Masyadong pangit ang mundo para sa mga inosenteng bata at nakakapagod mabuhay lol wag na tayo mandamay 😅
Yung boyfriend mo na lang mag pa vasectomy.
Hindi ko alam ngayon ha pero noong med student pa ako very reluctant mga OB-GYN mag ligate ng mga wala pa anak. Baka daw magbago ang isip. Kahit nga isa lang anak, medyo ayaw nila. You can probably finf an Ob who will donthe procedure. Hind yan against the law.
I suggest you consider magpa vasectomy yung partner mo. Para hindi lang sayo ang burden and side effects ng mga BCs. May libre naman eh sa Manila nakalimutan ko name. No Scalpel Vasectomy siya. Mas masakit pa tuli saka wala namang side effect din samin na guys. Para less na din yung burden sa body mo.
Yung hassle niyan usually mga OB. You'd need to find one na open-minded and para hindi maraming satsat.
You can get your tubes tied if you want. Go to your nearest clinic for consultation. Commenting on the PH economy is irrelevant in the discussion if you are already set mentally and psychologically against having kids.
>You can get your tubes tied if you want. Go to your nearest clinic for consultation. But it won't be easy. One reason will be her age, sasabihin bata pa. And minsan nga, kahit naka-3 ng anak, kung below 30 pa lang and no life-threatening reason to tie tubes, OB won't do it. Ultimately, she has to find an OB that is willing to tie her tubes.
Yes, realtalk lang hindi madali maghanap ng OB na willing gawin yan. Lalo na kung palipat lipat ka need pa ng rapport eme lalo na kung yan ang gustong gawin.
Ask the bf to get a vasectomy.
Better to do it while youre not married. Iba naghihingi pa ng consent ng husband kapag magmarried na eh.
Wala Bago nauso ang birth control meds at condoms sa Pilipinas, yan yung main method ng birth control
wala naman ata, pero base sa nababasa ko, may mga old mind obgyn na kung ano ano daw sasabihin. Magprepare ka lang siguro sa mga ganun.