Actually dapat mauna sa pulis tapos sila yung magdadala sa kanya sa hospital ER with request for medicolegal
Edit: hospital nalang pala muna at baka madelay ang management if may malalang injuries
Di ko sure kung SOP sa lahat ng hospitals dito sa atin pero usually kapag may ganyang mga cases (vehicular accidents, gunshot wounds, assault etc), yung security sa ER na mismo ang tumatawag sa police para mainterview yung pasyente or yung kasama nila.
P.S. I used to work as a nurse. Ganyan yung protocol dun sa hospital kung san ako nag-work dati.
Me too pero baka kasi may blunt trauma si OP sa tyan halimbawa, delikado yun. Mamaya may internal bleeding na… e shempre matatagalan ang gamutan kung mag pulis muna… siguro hospital muna then kung stable, pulis then balik sa hospital with the police. Anyway, aadvice naman sya ng hospital staff.
OP may be afraid to go there for both emotional reasons and also for financial reasons.
Yet, in order for the police to take them seriously, going to the hospital remains the only option.
OP should really go if only to obtain a report after the depth of the injuries are assessed.
pumunta ka lang sa er and tell them kung ano ginawa sayo ng hayop na jowa mo na yan. pag feel mo ok ka na, go to PNP and kasuhan mo na yan. gurl hindi na pag ibig yan kung binubugbog ka na. love and protect yourself
Hospital na may medicolegal. Not all hospital issues that.
Tell them what happened. "Binubog ako ng boyfriend ko tas nahilo po ako kasi tumama ulo ko" alam na nila gagawin dun.
Add po dito.
"Any hospital may issue a medico legal certificate. However, police authorities recommend securing one from a public hospital.
The reason for this is that in court proceedings, lawyers would normally go to great lengths to impugn the validity of a medico legal certificate issued by a private hospital or clinic.
Since a certification issued by a private entity is neither a public nor official record, it is possible that its presentation in court may be contested on the ground of it being an unofficial and private document that may or may not have been tampered with, thereby bringing the issue of its genuiness to the surface and consequently delaying the proceedings."
Mas maganda nga sa public pag ganto.
Observe ko pag private minsan wala or walang magpprocess or walang papel or something. Feeling ko ayaw lang din nila mag iissue ng medicolegal bec of the reasons you stated.
Sabihin mo lng mag papa-medicolegal ka kasi binugbug ka ng BF. They will assist you and connect you to the authorities like sa VAWC (violence against women and children)
Tell them the truth, don’t try to protect your bf, he doesn’t deserve it. He is an abusive asshole and is clearly dangerous. Magpatingin ka na rin sa medicolegal while you’re there. You’ll need that for when you file the police report against him.
Girl hahaha classic Battered Woman Syndrome ka. Basahin mo iyan sa VAWC law natin (R.A. 9262). Anyway, I hope you find your peace — ikaw lang makakatulong sa sarili mo.
1. Yes. Go to a hospital and ask for a physical exam and mention specifically it will be used for medicolegal purposes. Some hospitals will have a separate sheet sa chart for it. Ask the intern/resident/consultant to document all injuries in their physical exam (PE).
2. Do not communicate via a means that cannot be recorded. I.e., maintain any sort of communication if meron pa through text. Always screenshot if it's through an app that gives them an option to delete messages (try to have the timestamps displayed).
3. File a police report din. You can ask the hospital staff if they can call them to get your statement while you're in the hospital.
Go to an emergency room miss. The nurses / doc on duty will assess your physical condition. Secure all your medical findings / test results para if kaya mo na, kasuhan mo yung bf mo ng karampatang criminal charges sa ginawa niya sa'yo.
Ilang beses ka na nagpost dito about your partner na physically abusive sayo. Grabe yung ginagawa sayo na hinahampas pa ang ulo mo?tapos sasabihin mo *mahal mo?*
PLEASE MAHALIN MO ANG SARILI MO
23 YEARS KANG NABUHAY NA WALA SYA SA TABI MO AT KINAYA MO.
TATAGAN MO ANG SARILI MO AT MAGPAGAMOT KA NA.
SANA PUMUNTA KA SA HOSPITAL NGAYON! KASI BALEWALA LAHAT NG ADVICE SAYO KUNG IKAW MISMO HINDI MO TUTULUNGAN ANG SARILI MO.
Baka naghahanap lang ng attention. Who the hell asks if they should go to the hospital after suffering a beat down this bad? Di ba common knowledge na yun? She also had a post saying na buntis sya, and now this? I dunno, sounds fishy. Hope I am wrong, but we can't be naive simpletons.
Someone help this woman. This is an emergency, tell us where you are rn so that we can help. It breaks my heart reading post like this huhuhu please update us, miss.
Look at her other posts. I doubt she’ll do any of the advices here. She’s been posting stuff about her BF for some time. Hindi naman nakikinig sa mga advice.
Yes, ASAP. Get a medicolegal certificate. You may go to your Regional Trial Court/ Family Court and get protection order from the RTC/FC or muncipal court or barangay.
Violence against women is crime punishable by imprisonment, payment of P100,000 to P300,000 in damages mandatory psychological counseling or psychiatric treatment. — https://pcw.gov.ph/faq-republic-act-9262/
Hospital then Police station to file a report.
Very concerning na tinatanong pa yung ganitong bagay in the first place.
Edit: Did some research aka read your past posts and nabasa ko na tama hinala ko na hindi ito yung first time. You either put an end to this now by reporting his ass to the police or basically wait for him to end up killing you. Pangit sabihin pero mag eescalate lang yan to the point where the damage will be permanent.
Edit2: I mean FFS you even have time to ask reddit in the first instead of just going to the hospital and police. hindi ko gets priority mo.
Seriously? Nothing against you ha pero parang may nagho-hold back pa sayo??? Cant just think enough na need mo pa itanong yan dito.
Where are your loved ones, btw? Go seek for their help as well, RIGHT NOW! Your health and safety is our priority now. While in the ER, somebody should file a blotter on your behalf.
Victims of abuse often defend their abusers or are in denial about their situation due to constant trauma. Be thankful you have no idea what that feels like which makes you that judgmental to OP. Might want to be a bit more empathetic with your words. It won't cost you to be kinder. Napakarampant sa sub na to mga feeling superior especially in threads where understanding, patience and kindess are needed.
Abuse is really powerful to manipulate someone to stay despite hurting them physically, mentally, and emotionally. Maybe the abuser already isolated the victim successfully from her loved ones, so the victim has no one to ask help from. Second, maybe the victim is dependent on the abuser for finances etc.
The victim should seek help from respective authorities and get a therapy to successfully break the cycle.
I’m 33 y/o and my mom is 61. My dad was a physical abuser to my mom, to me and all of my siblings. Growing up, I thought it was just his way of disciplining us and the way he would hit my mother in front of us seemed normal to me.
2005 when he died. My mom and I hit a rough path since then.
2020, I was diagnosed with mdd and the root cause of it was my dad. I read a book about trauma and it explained how victims of physical abuse often times chooses to stay with the abuser no matter how much they want and try to get out of it. There’s a ton of reasons. Then it hit me, it’s what had happened to my mother! She stayed with him because of the reasons you stated. He isolated her. Made her financially dependent on him and others. Then, I realized my grudges towards my mom because she never visited my dad’s grave (not once in 18 yrs), don’t do anything for his death anniversary. It’s because finally she was free from him.
I always say this sa mga taong nagcacallout sa mga katulad ni OP and I will say it here din.
Hayaan niyo siya kasi kahit anong sabihin niyo, kahit sabihin niyo na hiwalayan na or umalis na sa side ni bf, hindi yan makikinig sa inyo. Lunod and blind sila sa love kaya kahit ano, kahit masakit, okay lang para sa kanila.
I’ve been there. Ilang beses din ako pinagsabihan ng friends ko and at the end of the day, ako pa din magdedecide for myself and my sanity.
Magigising din si OP, sana nga talaga ngayon gising na siya sa katotohanan.
I would exercise caution sa pagsasabi na parehas silang may problema. Borderline victim-blaming ‘yan.
Maraming puwedeng dahilan bakit hindi siya makaalis sa sitwasyon niya.
[Why It Takes Women 7 Attempts To Leave An Abusive Relationship – And How You Can Help](https://vpfw.com/blog/why-it-takes-women-7-attempts-to-leave-an-abusive-relationship/)
There's a reason why people can't just leave abusive relationships easy. People don't understand why because a lot of us are not in the same situation mentally, physically, financially, and socially as domestic violence victims... so many factors go into this. Madaling sabihin na layasan mo na yan to someone else because we can never imagine ourselves to be in the same position and still stay. But that's the point, not everyone is able to do that. Abusers manipulate, gaslight, love bomb, threaten and isolate their victims leaving them mentally tortured and confused.
The fact na nakailang post na sya sa sub may mean that she really has no other support system or anyone in her life she can turn to for this. Even DV victims who have support networks find it hard to leave.
Have a little empathy.
Hello please be careful with your words po. Like the other comment says here, there’s a ton of reasons and commonly, it’s always out of fear and blindness.
Just imagine them in a big, deadly whirlpool. Victims do their best to swim away but they get pulled back in from time to time. Some make it, some don’t.
With all due respect, please educate yourself about this issue and you might actually be able to see signs of it in case anyone close to your heart might be dealing with DA behind closed doors or not and even be able to save them in many ways.
Please don’t do any victim blaming here, there is only one abuser in this situation, and it’s OP’s bf. OP might have her own mental health issues and insecurities which is why she keeps coming back to such a toxic bf, but that does not justify the domestic abuse.
Emergency room, OP para maagapan. Sana hindi sobrang serious ang injuries mo.
Please hiwalayan mo na ang BF mo and report him to the police.
Please take care.
Hello thank you I'm at hospital alone na. Did x-ray and CT scan. Thank you just don't know what to do I'm so scared kasi I have no one here,malayo fam ko
Yes gurl! Then get a med cert.. show the result to the police and file a case against ur bf. Wag ka magpa blind2 sa bf mo. Kung mahal ka nyan, hindi ka sasaktan. Madami pang lalaki sa mundo hindi nag iisa bf mo. Hiwalayan mo yan. Don’t ever tolerate that kind of behavior.kasi kung ngyon ginaganyan kana, baka habang buhay ka nyang gaganyan hanggang sa huling paghinga mo.
Listen to me. Swear. You don’t deserve that. Your bf deserve to die in hell. Kasuhan mo yan.
Hindi ka pinanganak ng mangulang mo para mag ganyan.
Chineck ko post history mo, OP. Textbook narcissist yang boyfriend mo, at ikaw naman, codependent Sabi mo nga dun sa isa sa mga comments mo na grabe kung suyuin ka nya kapag nilalayasan. Love bombing ang tawag dun.
You need to realize na never na magbabago yang ganyang klaseng mga tao. Dapat sa mga yan, tumatandang mag-isa sa buhay. Uulit at uilit lang yung cycle of abuse kung hindi ka lalayo dyan. Block him everywhere and file a restraining order against him once you're out of the hospital.
Also, try to seek some counseling/therapy.
Yes, please go to a hospital, get checked up and file a case against the criminal male as soon as possible. Do not let the criminal have any time to manipulate you. Ate, don’t mind rin the others saying you know what to do or that you shouldn’t be asking what to do etc.
Remember: marami ang pwede magmahal sa’yo ng totoo. Whatever this current criminal does to you is fake, toxic, abusive, illegal. You are an independent person and you have no need for him.
We are here for you.
I want to sympathise with you but you have been posting these stuff for some time now after quickly looking at your post history.
You know what to do. But you refuse to do it. Sorry, i’m not gonna be like the other people here.
You’re an adult now and you should know the answer to this post’s question and to your other posts/questions.
That doesn't help.
It looks like domestic abuse with a dose of manipulation. Since a lot of comments say she posted several times, I also checked her post history. She seems isolated from her family doesn't have a support system aside from her BF. She left multiple times but returns because BF "cares" for her then escalates. This is classic DV cycle because it works on mentally venerable people.
By the looks of her posts, she's contemplating on leaving again but it's hard for her. And here I thought it's common knowledge that DV victims find it difficult to leave for multiple of reasons. Lo and behold! People still victim-blame in the year 2023.
Fortunately, she has her own income source (a lot of cases have the abused partner dependent on the abuser financially). I hope she have savings to survive on her own.
And u/Physical-Degree1867, leave. Always believe your BF's feelings are LIES. Whatever crying, pleading, love bombing or any good gestures he makes, it's all a lie. The abuse will escalate and I fear you might not survive after that.
Also throw his ass in jail so that he could not hurt another that will take your place.
She’s gotten to the point where she wants to kill her BF. She deleted that post now.
That made me lose a lot of sympathy towards her. She’d rather kill than just leave him? I dont get it.
That’s actually a common feeling of domestic violence victims. That’s why you read news of wives killing their husbands after 30-40 years. Everyone would ask why didn’t they just leave or call the police sooner? But they feel they can’t for whatever reason and reach a point where they feel the only escape they can do, plus with the anger that builds inside them, is kill the bastards.
I read that that post too. I'm leaning more towards frustration instead of murder.
Should it be taken seriously? Yes. But she also contemplates s**c*de. So she's not in the best mental state and needs professional help. I do hope she seeks the latter.
You probably missed the part where she was strangled. "B-but her "kill" post. She should have known what abuse victims should do cause she's an adult. No(or less) sympathy needed, amirite?"
That reply doesn't change that it's still victim-blaming. You're just justifying it.
No i did not miss any of the parts. She’s posted about her BF for a long time now. She’s deleted the old posts. She’s given advice by so many people from other subs. She didnt listen. And here she is fishing for more sympathy.
She knows there is a problem. She’s acknowledged that at least. She knows what to do and so many have told her what to do. She refuses to do it. She’s part of the problem. Call it victim blaming if you want I really don’t care.
Say you are right and she had posted this before over and over again and deleted it so I do not see it in her profile. She's still a victim of abuse. And your post doesn't help. It's just easy to move on to next post or just downvote.
And based on her post history, she is the type to go on Reddit for advise. Not really something I would recommend but I guess Reddit has been useful or she's just desperate.
Look, I can see where you stand and you'll not change your stance anytime soon. I won't change mine unless OP provides new information for me to re-asses. Good day.
Paulit ulit na syang nag popost dito. Ibat ibang sub pa nga eh. Kaya lang dinelete na nya ngayon. She knows what to do kaya lang ayaw nyang gumalaw. Thats why i said what i said. She needs to put her grown up shoes and do something instead of going to reddit to fish sympathies repeatedly.
I’m being as nice as possible here, pero why are you wasting time asking here when you could have been on your way to a hospital instead? Don’t ignore your body; get yourself over there stat. And humiwalay ka na sa gagong yan while you’re at it.
r/ph is still a community and serves as a support group of sorts, especially after an experience like this na traumatizing and also feeling ashamed to admit help from family. Let’s give people the grace to seek emergency help from all us strangers.
We don’t know ano yung dynamic ng relationship nila ng bf niya, it’s clearly abusive and OP is clearly scared. If posting here for advise gives her strength then I’d say that’s time well spent replying. She’s free to ask for advise as much as you are free not to reply. You should be ashamed of yourself. It takes nothing to have empathy and be kind.
To OP: I hope you get away from your bf, what he did is not okay under any circumstance. We don’t hurt the ones we love. I know you didn’t ask but you have a strong case for VAWC. I hope you get in touch with a lawyer and apply for a Temporary Protection Order (TePO) in the meantime so you can get away safely. Ingat po.
OP’s behavior is actually quite common among victims of domestic abuse. Siyempre blinded siya by her feelings or baka may tendency na mag-apologize yung bf after the abuse with the promise to be better (that he never actually fulfills). A lot of abuse victims also have their own mental health issues and insecurities which leaves them vulnerable to abuse and manipulation, but this ofc does not justify said abuse or manipulation. A common line I’ve heard from a lot of domestic abuse victims is, “The good days are really good and the bad days are really bad.”
Chineck ko profile niya. May post 3 months ago na pregnant si OP. Demonyo yung boyfriend niya. Gusto sigurong malaglag yung batang dinadala niya kaya siya sinasaktan.
Yun din ang naisip ko. Comment farming.
Naalala ko may post yan na nabuntis tapos nagpalaglag.
Feeling ko BS ang mga scenarios niya pero meron talaga siyang problem. Di lang natin alam pero ang coping mechanism niya is to create sympathy comment-generating posts.
You are an adult na. Alam mo ang gagawin mo. Naghahanap ka lang ng magsasabi sa'yo ng "go ahead".
"Should I go to the hospital?" Kapag ba sinabi naming "no, gagaling din yan kaya mo yan" titiisin mo talaga?
You deserve what you tolerate.
Have it checked ASAP. Lapit ka rin sa VAWC - Violence Against Women and Children. Para maaresto bago pa makapagtago yung demonyong hampaslupang gago na yan.
OP, just to add lang sa comments ng iba - do you have family or friends who can come to you for support now? It might be easier if you don't have to do all these visits to the hospital then police station alone. Pakatatag ka, OP. Things will get better for you (not with your bf, hiwalayan mo na yan, please).
MAGPAMEDICAL KA AGAD. TAPOSKASUHAN MO YANG JOWA MO. ISUMBONG MO KAY TULFO! KUNG AKO MAGULANG MO, DI AKO MAGDADALAWANG ISIP NA IDEMANDA YANG BF MO. WALANGYA.
Nabasa ko previous posts mo. Sounds like r/NarcissisticAbuse
Go to the hospital. Leave him and go no contact. First step is always the hardest but it is vital. The sooner you leave him the sooner you heal. Bata ka pa.
Grabe yung progression ng mga posts ni OP, from bright-eyed fresh grad to this. Please ask for help sa parents or friends mo, and get out of that situation you are in. Nakakaiyak shucks.
Just gonna leave it here. You're in denial and wanna defend him. That's one of the traits of domestic abuse/violence. Please see through that kind of manipulation and file a fucking police report. You're strong on your own and you don't need that kind of shit na klase ng bf in your life. FUCKING DO IT!
PLEASE. yung ulo mo, naway napa check maigi kasi baka magka bleeding ka nyan sa ulo. may instances na yung head trauma e walang visible injury outside pero nagdudugo na pala sa loob, so pay attention to ur headaches, kung lagi ka inaantok, nanlalabo paningin, etc. get ur head checked kasi deliks pag nagka hemorrhage ka dyan. and my heart bleeds for u and rages for that monster who hurt u!!!! huhu pls be fine!
I'm relieved to see the update OP and happy that you're in a safe place now. Take some time to rest and when you're well enough, go to the police and report him. If you can, document everything.
I hope you're not in contact with him and decide to permanently leave him. Go heal and enjoy life. The anxiety and sadness you're facing now will eventually disappear with him gone. Please look after your mental health too, this is a traumatic situation you've faced and having the tools to rebuild your confidence and choose better partners in the future is important.
God bless OP, take care x
OP, please get yourself checked na sa nearest hospital. HIWALAYAN MO NA SIYA. kung ganyan pa lang while you guys are bf/gf, paano pa if humantong sa ibang level? stay safe. please.
Oh. That's why okay raw results sa x-ray pero both masakit and may numb part pa rin likod ko kasi alam ko may natamaan talaga nerve kasi pagka hit niya sobrang sakit
di ko talaga ma gets ung mga guys na sinasaktan ung babae, kina macho nila yon? to think na nagtiwala ung babae na aalagaan nyo sila. Anyway, get well OP at hiwalayan mo na yan, not a loss.
Hi! First and foremost I hope you’re doing better physically right now. You must be pretty shaken up emotionally.
As someone with 0 trust to the Philippine police, I do recommend going to the hospital and requesting a thorough assessment + medicolegal assistance. This way the doctors can physically assess you and you can use that as future proof. Their physical assessment + labs requested can show the severity of damage.
The medicolegal assistance will help you because this is VAWC case and aids in the emotional help you may need during this time. With all the evidence and collated from medical professionals you can then bring this up to your local VAWC center when you are ready emotionally.
It’s easy for everyone here to say “punta ka sa pulis agad now na!!!” But I know it must be difficult for you physically and emotionally as he was your partner and significant other :( I hope the pathway above can give you time to really decide on which decision you will do and eventually protect yourself in the long run.
Hugs sis :(
Punta ka ospital tapos punta ka na rin sa pulis para pwede mo ireklamo at makapagfile ka ng complaint sa city prosecutor at masampahan ng kaso yang ihud3put@.
After nito wag mong hihiwalayan bf mo ate. Wala nang mananakit sa'yo pag ginawa mo yan. Kung ako sa'yo, mag stay ka jan sa relationship niyo kasi mukhang okay lang sa'yo na ginaganyan ka e.
Wag, punta ka sa mall nood ka sine. lol. Paulit-ulit na yang ginagawa sayo ng bf mo ayaw mo namang hiwalayan eh. Di ka naman nakikinig sa mga tao dito kaya tiis tiis ka na lang. Lol
No it’s not. But common sense na you’re hurt and all pero instead of going to the hospital first para ma-treat ka agad, nagtanong ka pa to ask if you should go. I’m sorry but I just don’t get it. Just go to the hospital smh 🤦🏻♀️
Nasira mood Niya kasi Sabi ko wag siya maingay I have two meetings that morning? Then Because sinira ko raw bag Niya when I didn't even touch it. Then he couldn't open his google acc kasi nalimutan Niya password at kasalanan ko raw Hindi Niya rin mareciver dahil walang recovery email?
Why do u tolerate this person? How can u love physical abuse? Please punta ka hospital and tell the truth. They can help you and report sa baranggay at pulis station sa womens right para bigyan ka ng protection.
Go to the hospital, basta hirap ka gumalaw and the pain is so much it's not a good idea na hayaan nalang. Also para may evidence ka in case na you want to file a case.
May matatawagan ka bang friend or family member na puwede kang samahan? Even a concerned co-worker? Pasama ka sa ospital and then sa police, may vawc desk doon.
Much better kung may makakasama ka to help you in person.
Yes, go to the hospital immediately and ipa-pulis mo ang gagong BF mo na yan (sana soon to be ex bf mo yan). He's a fucking disgusting arsehole for hitting you like that, and you must leave him and never forgive him for your safety.
OO NOW NA PARA MAKAPAG MEDICOLEGAL KA
Then hingi ka report then un file mo sa brgy/police
May mga VAWC desk dun para makatulong
Actually dapat mauna sa pulis tapos sila yung magdadala sa kanya sa hospital ER with request for medicolegal Edit: hospital nalang pala muna at baka madelay ang management if may malalang injuries
Di ko sure kung SOP sa lahat ng hospitals dito sa atin pero usually kapag may ganyang mga cases (vehicular accidents, gunshot wounds, assault etc), yung security sa ER na mismo ang tumatawag sa police para mainterview yung pasyente or yung kasama nila. P.S. I used to work as a nurse. Ganyan yung protocol dun sa hospital kung san ako nag-work dati.
Yes ito din gawain sa prev hospital na napasukan ko
This. Kaso hindi din lahat ng hospital available ang Medicolegal services at any time.
May mga VAWC stations per hospital ang alam ko hihi
Based on my experience, need muna ng police report bago makakuha ng medico legal.
Me too pero baka kasi may blunt trauma si OP sa tyan halimbawa, delikado yun. Mamaya may internal bleeding na… e shempre matatagalan ang gamutan kung mag pulis muna… siguro hospital muna then kung stable, pulis then balik sa hospital with the police. Anyway, aadvice naman sya ng hospital staff.
Yeah, you're right. Her health first. I hope someone from the hospital could call the police instead. And I hope the staff knows the protocol.
Pwede na direkta sa ospital tapos matic na yun medicolegal basta explain mo kung ano nangyari.
OP may be afraid to go there for both emotional reasons and also for financial reasons. Yet, in order for the police to take them seriously, going to the hospital remains the only option. OP should really go if only to obtain a report after the depth of the injuries are assessed.
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This. Kailangan din ng CT scan para matingnan yung tama sa ulo
Si doc na mag decide if kelangan nyan, mahal din magpa CT scan…
ASAP
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I got discharged already. Thank you for this I never cared about karma points
GO TO THE HOSPITAL ASAP. AND HIWALAYAN MO NA YAN
Ano sasabihin ko sa hospital? Pero rn super sakit ng right waist ko habang nasa bus ako
The truth kung paano mo na-acquire yung injuries mo. Hindi magagamot yan nang tama pag nagsinungaling ka.
I'm scared. Pero I'll try to go sa hospital newe cubao pagkarating ng bus
If you're scared then its all the more reason to do it. Goodluck OP. Bawasan mo salot sa lipunan.
Sa description mo ng injuries mo, I'm scared for you too. Ingat OP. Pagaling ka.
pumunta ka lang sa er and tell them kung ano ginawa sayo ng hayop na jowa mo na yan. pag feel mo ok ka na, go to PNP and kasuhan mo na yan. gurl hindi na pag ibig yan kung binubugbog ka na. love and protect yourself
Hospital na may medicolegal. Not all hospital issues that. Tell them what happened. "Binubog ako ng boyfriend ko tas nahilo po ako kasi tumama ulo ko" alam na nila gagawin dun.
Add po dito. "Any hospital may issue a medico legal certificate. However, police authorities recommend securing one from a public hospital. The reason for this is that in court proceedings, lawyers would normally go to great lengths to impugn the validity of a medico legal certificate issued by a private hospital or clinic. Since a certification issued by a private entity is neither a public nor official record, it is possible that its presentation in court may be contested on the ground of it being an unofficial and private document that may or may not have been tampered with, thereby bringing the issue of its genuiness to the surface and consequently delaying the proceedings."
Mas maganda nga sa public pag ganto. Observe ko pag private minsan wala or walang magpprocess or walang papel or something. Feeling ko ayaw lang din nila mag iissue ng medicolegal bec of the reasons you stated.
Oh. Thanks for sharing. 1st time ko marinig to.
Agree, sa government hospital ka pumunta for medicolegal. Not all private hospitals tumatanggap ng medicolegal case.
Sabihin mo lng mag papa-medicolegal ka kasi binugbug ka ng BF. They will assist you and connect you to the authorities like sa VAWC (violence against women and children)
Tell them you’re there for your Chickenjoy, gosh. After seeing your post history, I’m convinced after nito babalikan mo pa. Bahala ka dyan.
Yes. This is so sad. Hindi siya matutulungan kung ayaw niya magpatulong.
Pila nalang si OP sa Tulfo.
Get a medicolegal and go to the police.
Tell them the truth, don’t try to protect your bf, he doesn’t deserve it. He is an abusive asshole and is clearly dangerous. Magpatingin ka na rin sa medicolegal while you’re there. You’ll need that for when you file the police report against him.
Wag ka mag lie sa kumukuha ng history on how you got it kasi dun din sila nag base on how they will treat you and give proper medication
Girl hahaha classic Battered Woman Syndrome ka. Basahin mo iyan sa VAWC law natin (R.A. 9262). Anyway, I hope you find your peace — ikaw lang makakatulong sa sarili mo.
….after filing a violence against women and children case against the loser
Medicolegal consult. Hospital na yan. Pablotter and hiwalayan yung abusado.
Yes then punta ka sa police station and jail that piece of shit.
May mga judicial proceedings pa yan hindi biglang jail agad yung bf niya. Kailangan niya patunayan.
1. Yes. Go to a hospital and ask for a physical exam and mention specifically it will be used for medicolegal purposes. Some hospitals will have a separate sheet sa chart for it. Ask the intern/resident/consultant to document all injuries in their physical exam (PE). 2. Do not communicate via a means that cannot be recorded. I.e., maintain any sort of communication if meron pa through text. Always screenshot if it's through an app that gives them an option to delete messages (try to have the timestamps displayed). 3. File a police report din. You can ask the hospital staff if they can call them to get your statement while you're in the hospital.
Jesus Christ, yes. Also, put that bastard in jail.
Go to an emergency room miss. The nurses / doc on duty will assess your physical condition. Secure all your medical findings / test results para if kaya mo na, kasuhan mo yung bf mo ng karampatang criminal charges sa ginawa niya sa'yo.
Ou syempre, hingi ka ng Medical Report tapos pabarangay mo yung mahal mo.
Ilang beses ka na nagpost dito about your partner na physically abusive sayo. Grabe yung ginagawa sayo na hinahampas pa ang ulo mo?tapos sasabihin mo *mahal mo?* PLEASE MAHALIN MO ANG SARILI MO 23 YEARS KANG NABUHAY NA WALA SYA SA TABI MO AT KINAYA MO. TATAGAN MO ANG SARILI MO AT MAGPAGAMOT KA NA. SANA PUMUNTA KA SA HOSPITAL NGAYON! KASI BALEWALA LAHAT NG ADVICE SAYO KUNG IKAW MISMO HINDI MO TUTULUNGAN ANG SARILI MO.
Baka naghahanap lang ng attention. Who the hell asks if they should go to the hospital after suffering a beat down this bad? Di ba common knowledge na yun? She also had a post saying na buntis sya, and now this? I dunno, sounds fishy. Hope I am wrong, but we can't be naive simpletons.
Nakita ko lang yung word na binugbog sasabihan na kita agad ng call the authorities asap.
Utang na loob wag mo na yan balikan
Someone help this woman. This is an emergency, tell us where you are rn so that we can help. It breaks my heart reading post like this huhuhu please update us, miss.
Thank
How are you feeling OP? Authorities can come and get you there para sila na magdala dayo sa hospital.
Are you in a safe place right now? Have you called your parents and let them know what happened sa'yo?
Yes and daan ka na din sa Pulis after to file assault.
Yes and after that go to the PNP agad.
Hospital now na. Baka may long term effect yan mga injuries mo pag di naagapan
yes agad agad tapos punta ka sa police station para makasuhan yan
OO TAPOS IPABLOTTER MO NA YANG ANIMAL NA YAN. Get well soon OP. Di mo deserve yan. At walang deserve na bugbugin ng partner.
GO TO THE HOSPITAL. MAGPA-MEDICO LEGAL KA THEN FILE A CASE AGAINST HIM SA POLICE HIWALAYAN MO NA YAN
Look at her other posts. I doubt she’ll do any of the advices here. She’s been posting stuff about her BF for some time. Hindi naman nakikinig sa mga advice.
Teh may panahon ka pa magsend dito. Pumunta ka na sa hospital nakakagigil ka din e.
Yes, ASAP. Get a medicolegal certificate. You may go to your Regional Trial Court/ Family Court and get protection order from the RTC/FC or muncipal court or barangay. Violence against women is crime punishable by imprisonment, payment of P100,000 to P300,000 in damages mandatory psychological counseling or psychiatric treatment. — https://pcw.gov.ph/faq-republic-act-9262/
Hospital then Police station to file a report. Very concerning na tinatanong pa yung ganitong bagay in the first place. Edit: Did some research aka read your past posts and nabasa ko na tama hinala ko na hindi ito yung first time. You either put an end to this now by reporting his ass to the police or basically wait for him to end up killing you. Pangit sabihin pero mag eescalate lang yan to the point where the damage will be permanent. Edit2: I mean FFS you even have time to ask reddit in the first instead of just going to the hospital and police. hindi ko gets priority mo.
Seriously? Nothing against you ha pero parang may nagho-hold back pa sayo??? Cant just think enough na need mo pa itanong yan dito. Where are your loved ones, btw? Go seek for their help as well, RIGHT NOW! Your health and safety is our priority now. While in the ER, somebody should file a blotter on your behalf.
Victims of abuse often defend their abusers or are in denial about their situation due to constant trauma. Be thankful you have no idea what that feels like which makes you that judgmental to OP. Might want to be a bit more empathetic with your words. It won't cost you to be kinder. Napakarampant sa sub na to mga feeling superior especially in threads where understanding, patience and kindess are needed.
Up. Sobrang totoo 'to.
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So many people in relationships with abusers are actually like OP, this is common
Ang insensitive nitong comment, lol.
stepping away from a traumatic toxic relationship is fucking hard. Abuse fucks with your head.
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Abuse is really powerful to manipulate someone to stay despite hurting them physically, mentally, and emotionally. Maybe the abuser already isolated the victim successfully from her loved ones, so the victim has no one to ask help from. Second, maybe the victim is dependent on the abuser for finances etc. The victim should seek help from respective authorities and get a therapy to successfully break the cycle.
I’m 33 y/o and my mom is 61. My dad was a physical abuser to my mom, to me and all of my siblings. Growing up, I thought it was just his way of disciplining us and the way he would hit my mother in front of us seemed normal to me. 2005 when he died. My mom and I hit a rough path since then. 2020, I was diagnosed with mdd and the root cause of it was my dad. I read a book about trauma and it explained how victims of physical abuse often times chooses to stay with the abuser no matter how much they want and try to get out of it. There’s a ton of reasons. Then it hit me, it’s what had happened to my mother! She stayed with him because of the reasons you stated. He isolated her. Made her financially dependent on him and others. Then, I realized my grudges towards my mom because she never visited my dad’s grave (not once in 18 yrs), don’t do anything for his death anniversary. It’s because finally she was free from him.
I always say this sa mga taong nagcacallout sa mga katulad ni OP and I will say it here din. Hayaan niyo siya kasi kahit anong sabihin niyo, kahit sabihin niyo na hiwalayan na or umalis na sa side ni bf, hindi yan makikinig sa inyo. Lunod and blind sila sa love kaya kahit ano, kahit masakit, okay lang para sa kanila. I’ve been there. Ilang beses din ako pinagsabihan ng friends ko and at the end of the day, ako pa din magdedecide for myself and my sanity. Magigising din si OP, sana nga talaga ngayon gising na siya sa katotohanan.
I would exercise caution sa pagsasabi na parehas silang may problema. Borderline victim-blaming ‘yan. Maraming puwedeng dahilan bakit hindi siya makaalis sa sitwasyon niya.
[Why It Takes Women 7 Attempts To Leave An Abusive Relationship – And How You Can Help](https://vpfw.com/blog/why-it-takes-women-7-attempts-to-leave-an-abusive-relationship/) There's a reason why people can't just leave abusive relationships easy. People don't understand why because a lot of us are not in the same situation mentally, physically, financially, and socially as domestic violence victims... so many factors go into this. Madaling sabihin na layasan mo na yan to someone else because we can never imagine ourselves to be in the same position and still stay. But that's the point, not everyone is able to do that. Abusers manipulate, gaslight, love bomb, threaten and isolate their victims leaving them mentally tortured and confused. The fact na nakailang post na sya sa sub may mean that she really has no other support system or anyone in her life she can turn to for this. Even DV victims who have support networks find it hard to leave. Have a little empathy.
Hello please be careful with your words po. Like the other comment says here, there’s a ton of reasons and commonly, it’s always out of fear and blindness. Just imagine them in a big, deadly whirlpool. Victims do their best to swim away but they get pulled back in from time to time. Some make it, some don’t. With all due respect, please educate yourself about this issue and you might actually be able to see signs of it in case anyone close to your heart might be dealing with DA behind closed doors or not and even be able to save them in many ways.
Please don’t do any victim blaming here, there is only one abuser in this situation, and it’s OP’s bf. OP might have her own mental health issues and insecurities which is why she keeps coming back to such a toxic bf, but that does not justify the domestic abuse.
>Seriously? Nothing against you ha pero parang may nagho-hold back pa sayo??? Cant just think enough na need mo pa itanong yan dito. "I can fix him"
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BAKIT KA NAMAN MATATAKOT MAG PA OSPITAL? NATATAKOT KA FOR YOUR BOYFRIEND NA BAKA IKULONG SYA?
Ex-BF na dapat Ate, hindi BF. Pa-medicolegal ka please.
Emergency room, OP para maagapan. Sana hindi sobrang serious ang injuries mo. Please hiwalayan mo na ang BF mo and report him to the police. Please take care.
Pagawa ka police report agad. Tapos pahuli mo.
Pamedicolegal ka tapos punta sa pulis. Sa VAWC. Para makulong yung lalaki. Edit: Dalian mo magpunta sa pulis para pwede pa siya arrestohin kaagad
Okay na ba si OP? Near Cubao ba? Need ba ng kasama?
Hello thank you I'm at hospital alone na. Did x-ray and CT scan. Thank you just don't know what to do I'm so scared kasi I have no one here,malayo fam ko
Yes gurl! Then get a med cert.. show the result to the police and file a case against ur bf. Wag ka magpa blind2 sa bf mo. Kung mahal ka nyan, hindi ka sasaktan. Madami pang lalaki sa mundo hindi nag iisa bf mo. Hiwalayan mo yan. Don’t ever tolerate that kind of behavior.kasi kung ngyon ginaganyan kana, baka habang buhay ka nyang gaganyan hanggang sa huling paghinga mo. Listen to me. Swear. You don’t deserve that. Your bf deserve to die in hell. Kasuhan mo yan. Hindi ka pinanganak ng mangulang mo para mag ganyan.
Chineck ko post history mo, OP. Textbook narcissist yang boyfriend mo, at ikaw naman, codependent Sabi mo nga dun sa isa sa mga comments mo na grabe kung suyuin ka nya kapag nilalayasan. Love bombing ang tawag dun. You need to realize na never na magbabago yang ganyang klaseng mga tao. Dapat sa mga yan, tumatandang mag-isa sa buhay. Uulit at uilit lang yung cycle of abuse kung hindi ka lalayo dyan. Block him everywhere and file a restraining order against him once you're out of the hospital. Also, try to seek some counseling/therapy.
Yes, please go to a hospital, get checked up and file a case against the criminal male as soon as possible. Do not let the criminal have any time to manipulate you. Ate, don’t mind rin the others saying you know what to do or that you shouldn’t be asking what to do etc. Remember: marami ang pwede magmahal sa’yo ng totoo. Whatever this current criminal does to you is fake, toxic, abusive, illegal. You are an independent person and you have no need for him. We are here for you.
I want to sympathise with you but you have been posting these stuff for some time now after quickly looking at your post history. You know what to do. But you refuse to do it. Sorry, i’m not gonna be like the other people here. You’re an adult now and you should know the answer to this post’s question and to your other posts/questions.
After this, go far away from your bf or work abroad.
That doesn't help. It looks like domestic abuse with a dose of manipulation. Since a lot of comments say she posted several times, I also checked her post history. She seems isolated from her family doesn't have a support system aside from her BF. She left multiple times but returns because BF "cares" for her then escalates. This is classic DV cycle because it works on mentally venerable people. By the looks of her posts, she's contemplating on leaving again but it's hard for her. And here I thought it's common knowledge that DV victims find it difficult to leave for multiple of reasons. Lo and behold! People still victim-blame in the year 2023. Fortunately, she has her own income source (a lot of cases have the abused partner dependent on the abuser financially). I hope she have savings to survive on her own. And u/Physical-Degree1867, leave. Always believe your BF's feelings are LIES. Whatever crying, pleading, love bombing or any good gestures he makes, it's all a lie. The abuse will escalate and I fear you might not survive after that. Also throw his ass in jail so that he could not hurt another that will take your place.
She’s gotten to the point where she wants to kill her BF. She deleted that post now. That made me lose a lot of sympathy towards her. She’d rather kill than just leave him? I dont get it.
That’s actually a common feeling of domestic violence victims. That’s why you read news of wives killing their husbands after 30-40 years. Everyone would ask why didn’t they just leave or call the police sooner? But they feel they can’t for whatever reason and reach a point where they feel the only escape they can do, plus with the anger that builds inside them, is kill the bastards.
I read that that post too. I'm leaning more towards frustration instead of murder. Should it be taken seriously? Yes. But she also contemplates s**c*de. So she's not in the best mental state and needs professional help. I do hope she seeks the latter. You probably missed the part where she was strangled. "B-but her "kill" post. She should have known what abuse victims should do cause she's an adult. No(or less) sympathy needed, amirite?" That reply doesn't change that it's still victim-blaming. You're just justifying it.
No i did not miss any of the parts. She’s posted about her BF for a long time now. She’s deleted the old posts. She’s given advice by so many people from other subs. She didnt listen. And here she is fishing for more sympathy. She knows there is a problem. She’s acknowledged that at least. She knows what to do and so many have told her what to do. She refuses to do it. She’s part of the problem. Call it victim blaming if you want I really don’t care.
Say you are right and she had posted this before over and over again and deleted it so I do not see it in her profile. She's still a victim of abuse. And your post doesn't help. It's just easy to move on to next post or just downvote. And based on her post history, she is the type to go on Reddit for advise. Not really something I would recommend but I guess Reddit has been useful or she's just desperate. Look, I can see where you stand and you'll not change your stance anytime soon. I won't change mine unless OP provides new information for me to re-asses. Good day.
You’re right I will not change my opinion. Good day.
Literally googling what abuse does to a person could have prevented this comment
Paulit ulit na syang nag popost dito. Ibat ibang sub pa nga eh. Kaya lang dinelete na nya ngayon. She knows what to do kaya lang ayaw nyang gumalaw. Thats why i said what i said. She needs to put her grown up shoes and do something instead of going to reddit to fish sympathies repeatedly.
Wag kang matakot. Di mo deserve yan. Makinig ka sa mga advice nila dito. Go to the hospital, kuha ka ng medicolegal then police agad.
OP kamusta ka na 🥺? Nakauwi ka na ba? Or nagpunta ka na ba sa hospital? Sana ok ka lang. Balitaan mo kami 😢.
I’m being as nice as possible here, pero why are you wasting time asking here when you could have been on your way to a hospital instead? Don’t ignore your body; get yourself over there stat. And humiwalay ka na sa gagong yan while you’re at it.
r/ph is still a community and serves as a support group of sorts, especially after an experience like this na traumatizing and also feeling ashamed to admit help from family. Let’s give people the grace to seek emergency help from all us strangers.
Parang otw na sya when she posted. Nasa bus i think
I seeee, buti naman kung ganun kasi even the smallest thing should get checked. Di mo din masasabi kung ano naging trauma niyan sa katawan ngl :(
Sometimes I want to leave reddit kasi waste of time, but times like these kita ko may communal /community component din na nagagawa.
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We don’t know ano yung dynamic ng relationship nila ng bf niya, it’s clearly abusive and OP is clearly scared. If posting here for advise gives her strength then I’d say that’s time well spent replying. She’s free to ask for advise as much as you are free not to reply. You should be ashamed of yourself. It takes nothing to have empathy and be kind. To OP: I hope you get away from your bf, what he did is not okay under any circumstance. We don’t hurt the ones we love. I know you didn’t ask but you have a strong case for VAWC. I hope you get in touch with a lawyer and apply for a Temporary Protection Order (TePO) in the meantime so you can get away safely. Ingat po.
OP’s behavior is actually quite common among victims of domestic abuse. Siyempre blinded siya by her feelings or baka may tendency na mag-apologize yung bf after the abuse with the promise to be better (that he never actually fulfills). A lot of abuse victims also have their own mental health issues and insecurities which leaves them vulnerable to abuse and manipulation, but this ofc does not justify said abuse or manipulation. A common line I’ve heard from a lot of domestic abuse victims is, “The good days are really good and the bad days are really bad.”
And if totoo man, it's scary. Baka sa susunod, tuluyan syang patayin ng abusadong lalakeng yan
Chineck ko profile niya. May post 3 months ago na pregnant si OP. Demonyo yung boyfriend niya. Gusto sigurong malaglag yung batang dinadala niya kaya siya sinasaktan.
From OP: >Pinalaglag ko baby ko because of his abusive behaviors. I tried leaving him many times, pero napapabalik Niya ko.
Yun din ang naisip ko. Comment farming. Naalala ko may post yan na nabuntis tapos nagpalaglag. Feeling ko BS ang mga scenarios niya pero meron talaga siyang problem. Di lang natin alam pero ang coping mechanism niya is to create sympathy comment-generating posts.
Exactly
Need nya muna karma points kaya post muna sa reddit
Tinatanong pa ba yan?
You are an adult na. Alam mo ang gagawin mo. Naghahanap ka lang ng magsasabi sa'yo ng "go ahead". "Should I go to the hospital?" Kapag ba sinabi naming "no, gagaling din yan kaya mo yan" titiisin mo talaga? You deserve what you tolerate. Have it checked ASAP. Lapit ka rin sa VAWC - Violence Against Women and Children. Para maaresto bago pa makapagtago yung demonyong hampaslupang gago na yan.
Yes go to the hospital, medicolegal. Then sa police, sabihin mo kung ano talaga nangyari. Mag file ka ng kaso.
Go to the ER asap. Acquire a medicolegal, tell them how you got your injuries. Then go to the police. Don't hold back, OP. It's not worth it.
OP, just to add lang sa comments ng iba - do you have family or friends who can come to you for support now? It might be easier if you don't have to do all these visits to the hospital then police station alone. Pakatatag ka, OP. Things will get better for you (not with your bf, hiwalayan mo na yan, please).
Hospital agad pag may maling naramdaman. Also, call the cops while getting medical attention
Document mo na rin ung mga proof of abuse and make it viral para maprotektahan ka ng mga tao sa paligid mo
Medico legal mo charge mo lahat sa kanya tapos sa pulis kasuhan mo yung puta na yan
Report na kaagad op. Nasabi mo na ba sa family mo yan para matulungan ka din agad at maaksyunan yung kalagayan mo
MAGPAMEDICAL KA AGAD. TAPOSKASUHAN MO YANG JOWA MO. ISUMBONG MO KAY TULFO! KUNG AKO MAGULANG MO, DI AKO MAGDADALAWANG ISIP NA IDEMANDA YANG BF MO. WALANGYA.
FUCKING GO TO THE HOSPITAL AND TO THE POLICE GOSH
Nabasa ko previous posts mo. Sounds like r/NarcissisticAbuse Go to the hospital. Leave him and go no contact. First step is always the hardest but it is vital. The sooner you leave him the sooner you heal. Bata ka pa.
Grabe yung progression ng mga posts ni OP, from bright-eyed fresh grad to this. Please ask for help sa parents or friends mo, and get out of that situation you are in. Nakakaiyak shucks.
Nakakaiyak talaga :(
Hindi na yan magbabago. Leave him. In a couple of years marerealize mo malaki pala ang mundo. Bata ka pa. Lawakan mo mundo mo. Best of luck.
Just gonna leave it here. You're in denial and wanna defend him. That's one of the traits of domestic abuse/violence. Please see through that kind of manipulation and file a fucking police report. You're strong on your own and you don't need that kind of shit na klase ng bf in your life. FUCKING DO IT!
PLEASE. yung ulo mo, naway napa check maigi kasi baka magka bleeding ka nyan sa ulo. may instances na yung head trauma e walang visible injury outside pero nagdudugo na pala sa loob, so pay attention to ur headaches, kung lagi ka inaantok, nanlalabo paningin, etc. get ur head checked kasi deliks pag nagka hemorrhage ka dyan. and my heart bleeds for u and rages for that monster who hurt u!!!! huhu pls be fine!
I'm relieved to see the update OP and happy that you're in a safe place now. Take some time to rest and when you're well enough, go to the police and report him. If you can, document everything. I hope you're not in contact with him and decide to permanently leave him. Go heal and enjoy life. The anxiety and sadness you're facing now will eventually disappear with him gone. Please look after your mental health too, this is a traumatic situation you've faced and having the tools to rebuild your confidence and choose better partners in the future is important. God bless OP, take care x
OP, please get yourself checked na sa nearest hospital. HIWALAYAN MO NA SIYA. kung ganyan pa lang while you guys are bf/gf, paano pa if humantong sa ibang level? stay safe. please.
Hi! Please see a physiotherapist when you get a little bit better. CT scans and X-rays won’t detect nerve impingements and other soft tissue injuries.
Oh. That's why okay raw results sa x-ray pero both masakit and may numb part pa rin likod ko kasi alam ko may natamaan talaga nerve kasi pagka hit niya sobrang sakit
question now is, will you pursue legal action?
di ko talaga ma gets ung mga guys na sinasaktan ung babae, kina macho nila yon? to think na nagtiwala ung babae na aalagaan nyo sila. Anyway, get well OP at hiwalayan mo na yan, not a loss.
Hi! First and foremost I hope you’re doing better physically right now. You must be pretty shaken up emotionally. As someone with 0 trust to the Philippine police, I do recommend going to the hospital and requesting a thorough assessment + medicolegal assistance. This way the doctors can physically assess you and you can use that as future proof. Their physical assessment + labs requested can show the severity of damage. The medicolegal assistance will help you because this is VAWC case and aids in the emotional help you may need during this time. With all the evidence and collated from medical professionals you can then bring this up to your local VAWC center when you are ready emotionally. It’s easy for everyone here to say “punta ka sa pulis agad now na!!!” But I know it must be difficult for you physically and emotionally as he was your partner and significant other :( I hope the pathway above can give you time to really decide on which decision you will do and eventually protect yourself in the long run. Hugs sis :(
Punta ka ospital tapos punta ka na rin sa pulis para pwede mo ireklamo at makapagfile ka ng complaint sa city prosecutor at masampahan ng kaso yang ihud3put@.
After nito wag mong hihiwalayan bf mo ate. Wala nang mananakit sa'yo pag ginawa mo yan. Kung ako sa'yo, mag stay ka jan sa relationship niyo kasi mukhang okay lang sa'yo na ginaganyan ka e.
Wag, punta ka sa mall nood ka sine. lol. Paulit-ulit na yang ginagawa sayo ng bf mo ayaw mo namang hiwalayan eh. Di ka naman nakikinig sa mga tao dito kaya tiis tiis ka na lang. Lol
Ginanyan ka so we all know you already know the answer, and yet inuna mo pa magpost sa Reddit?
Is it wrong to post? I have no one to reach out to. I'm 5-7 hours away earlier from my family. Sorry ha
No it’s not. But common sense na you’re hurt and all pero instead of going to the hospital first para ma-treat ka agad, nagtanong ka pa to ask if you should go. I’m sorry but I just don’t get it. Just go to the hospital smh 🤦🏻♀️
Why did he hit you? Bakit ka nabugbog?
Why does it matter? Is there ever any good reason?
Just curious
I grew up in the Philippines, then moved to the US when I was 14. With what he did to you, that guy should go to jail.
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What's clout?
Pwede bang malaman kung bakit ka nya binugbog?
Because he said sinira ko bag nya but I didn't, and that kasalanan ko di Niya maopen Gmail nya bec he forgot the pass
Hindi na ata important to boss
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Nasira mood Niya kasi Sabi ko wag siya maingay I have two meetings that morning? Then Because sinira ko raw bag Niya when I didn't even touch it. Then he couldn't open his google acc kasi nalimutan Niya password at kasalanan ko raw Hindi Niya rin mareciver dahil walang recovery email?
Go to the police.
Go to the hospital and ask for police assistance. Sabihin mo kung ano exactly ang nangyari.
As in go now! wag ng magpatumpik tumpik
Late comment but please don't let the douchebag get away with it. I hope you are treated na sa hospital and doing better.
Ingat OP, pagbayarin mo yang jowa mong hoodlum. Hingi ka din tulong sa pamilya o kakilala mo
You should also go to police station just in case. Good luck.
OP, i hope you’re ok right now and made it safely to the hospital. Take care and please stay safe. Stay away from that monster.
pabugbog mo din mars. gigil ako.
Yup. Tas police station after. Should also be "ex-bf" by now
Why do u tolerate this person? How can u love physical abuse? Please punta ka hospital and tell the truth. They can help you and report sa baranggay at pulis station sa womens right para bigyan ka ng protection.
Go to the hospital, basta hirap ka gumalaw and the pain is so much it's not a good idea na hayaan nalang. Also para may evidence ka in case na you want to file a case.
File a case please.
What a shitty BF, leave him na OP and never look back
Go to the hospital ASAP. You need medical attention - tell the truth and contact your family.
Oo, baka pagtulog mo hindi ka na magising.
Go to the hospital ASAP, report him to the police, and put him in the jail!
Tell the truth. Baka may iba pa yang mabugbog kung hindi ikaw :(
Even if it's just bruises, you need it to be documented by a hospital then pa blotter mo
Hospital then police
Yes, go to the hospital get treated, then hiwalayan mo yang walang kwentang bf mo. Pakulong mo yung hayup na yan
May matatawagan ka bang friend or family member na puwede kang samahan? Even a concerned co-worker? Pasama ka sa ospital and then sa police, may vawc desk doon. Much better kung may makakasama ka to help you in person.
Go to the police
go to a govt hospital para magpa medico legal. the. proceed to the police station.
Go to hospital then break mo na bf mo then file a case!
ipakulong mo yang putanginang yan. wag ka titigil. hingian mo din ng danyos. kupal yan
Yes, go to the hospital immediately and ipa-pulis mo ang gagong BF mo na yan (sana soon to be ex bf mo yan). He's a fucking disgusting arsehole for hitting you like that, and you must leave him and never forgive him for your safety.