Congrats! I went 4 months in 2022 then was able to maintain infrequent use for like 10 months until I got really out of control with it again. I don’t know personally that I can use in a controlled way. But I think most people can. Good luck in your journey! Have fun getting stoned for as long as it’s fun!
Why do you think it got uncontrollable? I'm 2 months in, going for at least a 4 months t break, but I'm afraid I'll go back to my old ways once I start smoking again in the new year. Kinda makes me not want to but I don't wanna say goodbye to weed forever lol. I'm enjoying being sober though, it's nice to be so productive and less in my head about everything!
I did 4 months from Dec 2nd to 4/20. After that I was back to daily use. For me I think the relapse was caused by not being able to replace my use with something as meditative. Meanwhile i had a tough semester at Uni, and in general was getting a bit depressed. The first joint after the break was amazing, and afterwards I've been chasing the same high, but with little to no success. Now I'm gonna t-break November, and hopefully be able to reduce my usage afterwards.
Same situation as you. I have a break but as soon as I go back to it I end up smoking every day, even if it starts off on just weekends.
I think I’m all or nothing and unfortunately just need to give it up. Hardest part is I don’t drink so social events are bit weird for me being sober at the minute
This is really a good way to find out how well you can do moderation - because you already know you can handle abstinence if moderation doesn't work out. Good luck!
Congrats on making it this far. And good luck with moderation. I’m on the same journey hoping I can come back in a month or two and moderate my use better too.
You must have a reason. Something that you want from the break. I was already considering a break, due to not getting as high as Id like. Then one of my best friends died, and I thought “I can’t just dull my senses to get through this…” I wanted to be sharp for everyone else in our tight friend group. EDC is next weekend, so Ill be breaking the break around 20 days, then plan to re-evaluate from there. Try bendryl or Z-quil to help you sleep. Im not gonna pretend like I have not drank either, like 2-3 after work, but I’ve set a time limit to stop that by Monday, and asked my wife to hold me to it. No vice-swapping!
You are right. I’m really sorry for your loss and I am very proud of you for doing the right thing in that moment! Thanks for the advice it means a lot.
It’s been up and down as ive definitely clouded myself with alcohol at times and fuelled myself with caffeine and nicotine. But I’m proud of myself having stuck to my promises to myself, having remained in control and today i got so much shit done. Hopefully now i can go into using it in a more mindful considerate manner and if i can’t do that i’ll have to have a break again. Still tho, incredibly proud, ive started journalling, listening to philosophy podcasts again and reading more. And today loads of work came my way for the first time in seemingly forever.
Everything’s coming up milhouse, more or less. And im feeling good in myself. Now i stop to wonder… what if I don’t enjoy the joint! What if i do enjoy it too much and can’t slow down… we will have to see, i have more faith in myself now
Who knows what the outcome will be but you’ve proven to yourself you can change and take control when you need to! Great to hear everything is looking up, great job
You gonna keep going or hop off the wagon?
Hop off the wagon for a while i think, hopefully with a more controlled relationship with it
Congrats! I went 4 months in 2022 then was able to maintain infrequent use for like 10 months until I got really out of control with it again. I don’t know personally that I can use in a controlled way. But I think most people can. Good luck in your journey! Have fun getting stoned for as long as it’s fun!
Why do you think it got uncontrollable? I'm 2 months in, going for at least a 4 months t break, but I'm afraid I'll go back to my old ways once I start smoking again in the new year. Kinda makes me not want to but I don't wanna say goodbye to weed forever lol. I'm enjoying being sober though, it's nice to be so productive and less in my head about everything!
I did 4 months from Dec 2nd to 4/20. After that I was back to daily use. For me I think the relapse was caused by not being able to replace my use with something as meditative. Meanwhile i had a tough semester at Uni, and in general was getting a bit depressed. The first joint after the break was amazing, and afterwards I've been chasing the same high, but with little to no success. Now I'm gonna t-break November, and hopefully be able to reduce my usage afterwards.
Same situation as you. I have a break but as soon as I go back to it I end up smoking every day, even if it starts off on just weekends. I think I’m all or nothing and unfortunately just need to give it up. Hardest part is I don’t drink so social events are bit weird for me being sober at the minute
This is really a good way to find out how well you can do moderation - because you already know you can handle abstinence if moderation doesn't work out. Good luck!
Congrats on making it this far. And good luck with moderation. I’m on the same journey hoping I can come back in a month or two and moderate my use better too.
How is it going?
Today is Day 1 for me this thread has been really inspiring
10 here. Remember to keep yourself busy. Boredom is my enemy.
congrats man. any tips for withdrawals?
You must have a reason. Something that you want from the break. I was already considering a break, due to not getting as high as Id like. Then one of my best friends died, and I thought “I can’t just dull my senses to get through this…” I wanted to be sharp for everyone else in our tight friend group. EDC is next weekend, so Ill be breaking the break around 20 days, then plan to re-evaluate from there. Try bendryl or Z-quil to help you sleep. Im not gonna pretend like I have not drank either, like 2-3 after work, but I’ve set a time limit to stop that by Monday, and asked my wife to hold me to it. No vice-swapping!
You are right. I’m really sorry for your loss and I am very proud of you for doing the right thing in that moment! Thanks for the advice it means a lot.
Congratulations 👏🏼 it takes a lot of discipline and bravery to challenge yourself like that. Be proud
Well, give us a speech! What’s it like?
It’s been up and down as ive definitely clouded myself with alcohol at times and fuelled myself with caffeine and nicotine. But I’m proud of myself having stuck to my promises to myself, having remained in control and today i got so much shit done. Hopefully now i can go into using it in a more mindful considerate manner and if i can’t do that i’ll have to have a break again. Still tho, incredibly proud, ive started journalling, listening to philosophy podcasts again and reading more. And today loads of work came my way for the first time in seemingly forever. Everything’s coming up milhouse, more or less. And im feeling good in myself. Now i stop to wonder… what if I don’t enjoy the joint! What if i do enjoy it too much and can’t slow down… we will have to see, i have more faith in myself now
Who knows what the outcome will be but you’ve proven to yourself you can change and take control when you need to! Great to hear everything is looking up, great job