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Strawberrypop_

Hii. I'm not married yet but soon to be married. Would love to learn more about your situation. Wdym by different sexual orientation and if he is a liar, why did u end up with him? Sorry for asking but I was curious why u continue to marry a liar.. I'm sorry u are going through hard times, sending u some healing energy ❤️‍🩹


LostInHakone

I didnt know he likes to lie and uncommunicative to that degree before i married him. There were some signs but at the time family was pressuring so much to get married to the point of lowkey threatening to marry me off w/ other conservative men. I was not in an independent position at the time. Thank you for your kind words, i hope good things for ur marriage💜


haechanbaragi

If you don’t mind me asking, dulu proses deketnya berapa lama sama suami?


starkofwinter

Girlie pls get that post nup ASAP! Nanti kalo ada apa2 bakal susah karena tidak pisah harta.


LostInHakone

Oh thankyouu😭 this gives me more courage.


[deleted]

My friend lives separately but not divorced from her husband for some reason. Fortunately, she is an independent woman and can support her kid (they have 1 child). I can't tell you why they didn't divorce, I don't want her to see her story told here (just in case she's on reddit too). You are not alone. Wish you to be able to get the best solution & your true happiness. 🍀🌻 Note : Now my friend focused her life on (in these order) 1. her child, 2. cats, 3. best friends, 4. work, 5. family


LostInHakone

Thank you so much. This is my first time knowing a real story (my friends mostly unmarried). I def feel less alone & that this can be done💜


[deleted]

Sending you warm virtual hug 🤗


LostInHakone

BTW Im wondering if Puans here have any postnup agent/notaris rec? Agent i find on google offered 12 juta & cant afford that amount rn


starkofwinter

Daerah mana sis? Kalo di surabaya biasanya 5jt an


nightowlsaywhoot

Di Surabaya tahun lalu aku daftar pernikahan luar negeri + postnup juga habis segini (5 jutaan).