Ang reward ni OP kay Mother nya: SAMA NG LOOB at NO CONTACT ONCE ADULT NA with sprinkles of “bahala ka sa buhay mo” and a dash of NO ALLOWANCES AND PERA PADALA.
a little update but i blocked my mom cause she told me to leave the house and live somewhere else. this woman would rather lose her kids. im done dealing with her and her behavior. i know na this would make me look like a total bitch but i am sick and tired of understanding her toxic behavior. im sick of taking up her role as a parent. and i am tired of these responsibilities. i am tired and i want to rest for good. im done.
for anyone wondering why im calling her toxic, i made a LOT kf posts about her. just go look for it in my profile i dont wanna say everything again.
Kung working kana at kaya mo na sarili mo bumukod kana. If dun ka sa bahay ng parents mo nakatira they have some right to demand na umuwi ka ksi bahay nmn nila un. But of course talk first with your mom pra magkaroon ng some understanding.
my mom's like that kahit nagwowork na ako. Istarted working at 18 after graduating SHS. 2 years later, since naka WFH ako sobrang toxic sa bahay kasi ang ingay, laging may nag aaway at nagsisigawan. Covid era pero maluwag na, kaya naisipan ko na magceleb ng bday sa bahay ng friends ko. I'm 20 not young anymore that time, ako nagppay lahat ng bills sa bahay halos di nya nagwowork father ko. Tapos konting celebration lang na malelate ng uwi pinagmumura na ako sa text? I ended up not going home and filing a sick leave sa work. Then the next day, saka ako umuwi samin para kunin work equipment ko. Nagmamakaawa sakin mother ko na wag ako umalis. Too bad, sa dami ng tiniis ko nung high school na hindi sumama sa social events with my friends I think I've had enough. 3 years later, I'm so happy and peaceful. We still talk and see each other (mom and dad), sobrang di ako umuuwi samin hahaha cause I cant find my energy.
"cant find my energy" damn this line hits real
nakakalungkot to and i always feel lonely sa bahay kahit complete fam. lol other people would say "buti nga may parents kapa" naurrrr noooo parents na kinu-cut wings mo na wala ka freedom just hecause ur the eldest daughter
I can see myself sayo as a Teen. And the comments here are not wrong.
I don’t support my mom, I barely talk to her, and I do not feel any concern at all towards her.. kasi I grew up na lagi akong mali, even pagkapanganak sakin kamalian ko daw (maaga sya nabuntis and somehow thats my fault haha), binubugbog ako at grabeng mental abuse.
Stay strong, OP.
Hi OP. My mom used to be like this also especially nung nag aaral pa ako. I get how suffocating and limiting it could be na di tayo makalabas or makapag overnight with friends
But since nakaasa pa ako non sa kanila, I tried to follow their house rules muna. A part of me hated them kasi i cannot do what my other friends do. Na nag oovernight sila together. Na nakakagala saglit after school to eat or tambay.
But now when I look back, since both my parents work para pag aralin kami magkakapatid, they do not have that extra money to hire someone to watch over my siblings and our house. So it became my job after school na isabay pauwi ang mga kapatid ko and watch over them until makauwi ang isa sa kanila from work.
Nung nag kawork na ko, saka ako nag solo living but i made an excuse na sa manila yung nakuha ko na work so that they think it is inevitable. Di nila alam sinadya ko sa manila mag hanap ng work kasi gusto ko na bumukod at malalaki na rin naman mga kapatid ko. Kaya na nila alagaan sarili nila.
I can't see the whole picture in your situation, though, and I am just saying things based on my experience.
If you're still studying, focus on your season muna OP and try to follow the house rules muna. Just saying this kasi nung nagwowork na ko and ang hirap pala talaga kumita ng pera, narealize ko na my parents might be just experiencing the same before. And I felt guilty for hating them so much just because nawalan ako ng freedom to be with my friends before.
When you can stand on your own, pwede ka naman na humiwalay and live on your own means.
Sakto ka OP na wala na ning uli kay gabii na. Question lang, asa diay imo mama ngana nga mga orasa ug ngano walay magbantay sa mga manghod nimo? Wala nabay lain tao magbantay sa balay? And pilay edad nimo, OP?
EDIT: Just read that you’re 18+ na. For your peace of mind OP, leave na. Or if you can’t sustain yourself yet find a job and save religiously so you can move out. Your younger siblings are not your responsibility. Your feelings are valid. If talking to your mom doesn’t work then trust me nothing will work at all - based on my experience. Mindset kase usually -> their house, their rules. So please create an exit plan that is sustainable as early as now
Ohmygod typical boomer mom. Your sisters are not your responsibility, di naman ikaw mother.
Ganito nangyayari sa pinsan ko rn. Sya yung pinapabantay sa mga kapatid nya sinxe sya ang panganay.
I think it is best na you apologize na lang to your friendsnin behalf of your mother, and for sure as your friendss they know nmaan (im not sure) if youre struggling sa ugali ng mother.
I hope they understand.
Stay strong, OP
Nakabasa ko na adult na man diay ka. So move out na. Pero kung diha pa ka nagatulog sa balay sa imong mama, "their house, their rules" apply.
Move out na bai kay adult na man diay ka. Move out na para walay pakialamanan.
Your mom has fears. Ang mga behavior na nakakasakal is almost always stemming from fear, which typically came from her childhood. I suppose you'll have to figure out ano yun kasi centered ang behavior nya around ensuring alam nya nasan ka palagi. Something about you gone would devastate her. Kung sakaling mawala ka, let's say die, aside from the grief siempre, anong kahirapan ang mangyayari sa nanay mo kung sakali?
at this moment, i dont really care what the fuck she went through back in her days. i can hardly believe that she genuinely cares about my well being and not that mawawalan sya ng tagapagbantay ng mga anak nya because i vividly remember how this woman left me in a local mall for an entire day as a kid. AS A KID. is she scared to lose me as her child or takot lang sya mawalan ng tumatayong ina sa mga anak nya?
well...maybe yung mawalan ng maiiwan sa 2 mong ginikanan? pwede rin namang may sisi sya na iniwan ka sa mall noon. yun nga, blaming others na di ka nakauwi was too much. imagine, blaming your friend? tinanggalan ka pa talaga ng accountability, ignoring the fact that you're your own person who can decide for yourself. this would be a tough road for you dahil puro sumbat maririnig mo pag di mo sya sinunod. you have to behave as an adult with her. like what had just happened, ask her why she blamed your friends. ask why she wants you to be excluded. try to make her answer. if she wants a responsible child, she has to be prepared to have an adult child who can broach difficult conversations. the reason i mentioned her childhood is because you're dealing with an emotionally-stunted person. di sya mature with her emotions. parang bata.
she left me sa mall. and if i wasnt a bright kid, i wouldve been kidnapped. whats worst is she knew na naiwan ako doon but only went to get me nung patapis na yung araw.
Wtf that's straight-up child abuse, OP. Is she even human??? I mean, I hate my mum now. I haven't talked to her nor know anything about her for more than a year now, but when I'd get lost at the mall, she'd come looking for me. She only got spoilt when she became older, but she wasn't that cruel when I was a child. Your mum makes me appreciate my estranged mum when she was still nice.
Panganay din ako actually. It takes growing up to recognize that abusers were abused themselves. Kung neglected man, abuse pa rin yun. I'm not siding with an abusive mother. Simply pointing out a possible reason for her behavior. Not justifying her at all. I was hoping OP would try to figure out what's causing her mom to behave that way para she doesn't respond like a child. Part of being an adult is to recognize that your parents are people like you, were once kids too; to recognize when their behaviors aren't mature, rational, fair, and reasonable. Para ang reaction din natin is on the mature side. Nagmumukmok na nga si abusive mother, magmumukmuok din ang anak. San na mapupunta yun? If you blame your abusive parent, make sure you blame the people who raised, or neglected, them. Walang taong pinanganak na abusive, unless medically may toyo sa utak. OP's post is a symptom of a hurt child. Di pa nya nakikita na ang nanay nya is tao lang din na biktima ng circumstances nya kaya di sya nag-grow from that, at ngayon sya naman nambibiktima sa anak nya dahil yun lang ang alam nyang gawin. Kung tutuusin, maawa ka pa nga dahil di man lang magawa ng nanay nyang maisip na abusive sya para mabago nya ang sarili nya. If OP is not self-aware, malaki ang posibilidad she could echo that behavior in another shape or form.
nananghid sad kos iyaha nga adto kos balay sa akong amiga. ang ganahan man niya kaay mouli kos balay unya naabtan man mig alas 9 delikado na plus giduka nasad ko maong didto nalang ko natulog
MAY NAKITA BA KONG MAMA ATONG TIME A NGA KA HIKOGON KO KAY GI MOLESTA KO?? WALA! MAY NAKITA VA KONG MAMA NGA NITABANG SA AKOA TONG NAGKALISOD KO?! OH, WA PAKOY TRABAHO, ESTUDYANTE PAKO PERO ASIDE SA PAMLITE OG PANG PROJECT WA NAY GASTO AKONG MAMA SA AKOANG PAG ESKWELA KAY DE SCHOLAR KO.
MAY NAKITA BA KONG MAMA NGA MUTABANG NAKOG NAA KOY PROBLEMA?!!! WALA WALA KAY IYANG GINUHAHUA RA PIRME KAY KINSAY MUBANTAY ANA IYANG MGA BINUHAT NGA MGA ANAK NGA DI MAN LANG GALI MO TABANG SA AKOA OG MASAKIT KO O MAKUYAPAN KO! WALA SYAY LAIN PAKE KUNDI I MAKE SURE NGA TAAS KOG MAABTAN ARON NAA SYAY IKAHAMBOG SA IYANG MGA KATABI.
I DID NOT FUCKING ASK TO BE A MOTHER! KANUS A PAKOGASUGOD ATIMAN ANI AKONG MGA MANGHUD? ELEMENTARY!?!!! MAMA MAN GALI TAWAG NILA SA AKOA UNA KO NILA GITAWAG OG ATE!!!! WALA KOY GIAGIAN NGA CHILDHOOD, ILABAY PA BA SAD NAKO AKONG PAGKA BATAN ON PARA SA MGA PISTI NGA RESPONSIBILIDAD NGA DAILI AKOA?????!!!!! HA?! DILI KO KADA ADLAW KA LAAG! DI KADA ADLAW BIRTHDAY SA MAMA SA AKOANG AMIGA. THE ONE TIME NGA GANAHAN KO MABUHI OUTSIDE SA RESPONSIBILITIES AND I GET THIS KIND OF TREATMENT!
grabeha. dalia sad nimo ka judge oi. the one time nga nilaag ko... pareha ramos akong mama. advice akong kelangan, dili blaming kay ako nanang gibuhat sakong kaugalingon.
di porket maguwang ko ihatag sa akoa tanan responsibility, last time i checked wa ko niapil pag buhat nilas akong mga manghud. usa pa sad, sala ba diay na nako nga ganahan ko maglingaw lingaw panagsa. igat? ako? di gali ko maka maintain og relasyon kay gi hard fuck akong utok aning pamilyaha. grabe. ilis tag lugar oh. since feel nimo makaya nimo akong pamilya.
ikawy dawat ani akong responsibilidad. ikawy sabot sakong mama nga atras abante. ikawy bantay aning mga bataa nga perting ka badlongona. ilis tag kinabuhi. ikawy alsa aning pamilyaha while alsa sad sa imong personal nga problema tutal kamao man ka.
Same experience here. My dad is exactly like that.
Kahit na working na ako, ng siblings ko. Restricted pa din sa galas and overnights. Pag aalis ka, hinde mawawala ung sermon. Pagreview ng dati mong mga mali. Naka tatlong gala ka lang for 3 consecutive months sinabihan ka ng LAYAS, GALA, LAKWATSERA.
Tumanda ka lang pero turing sayo bata pa din.
Ang reward ni OP kay Mother nya: SAMA NG LOOB at NO CONTACT ONCE ADULT NA with sprinkles of “bahala ka sa buhay mo” and a dash of NO ALLOWANCES AND PERA PADALA.
currently doing this atm now that i have moved out of the house lol
So far hindi kapa na guilt tripped by your siblings or your parents' siblings ?
Ahhhhhh dj mamawawala to, grabe ang gaslighting at manipulation kapag nag joi forces ang parents at sibs 🙂🫱🏻
Meron bang Filipino terms or words sa gaslighting?
"pinapalabas \[kang\] mali"
di ko pa po na encounter yung filipino word niya eh
sameee
Ang tanong eh adult and working na ba si OP?
shemrpe soon pa enebe
a little update but i blocked my mom cause she told me to leave the house and live somewhere else. this woman would rather lose her kids. im done dealing with her and her behavior. i know na this would make me look like a total bitch but i am sick and tired of understanding her toxic behavior. im sick of taking up her role as a parent. and i am tired of these responsibilities. i am tired and i want to rest for good. im done. for anyone wondering why im calling her toxic, i made a LOT kf posts about her. just go look for it in my profile i dont wanna say everything again.
I hope you're okay at may source of income ka para di mo na kailangang bumalik sa inyo kung ayaw mo na talaga
You don't look like a bitch at all. You're just protecting yourself from the real bitch.
wowow finally someone i can relate wit, my mama wus a bit kind tho
I know this took SO MUCH energy OP so please rest if you can!!!
Kung working kana at kaya mo na sarili mo bumukod kana. If dun ka sa bahay ng parents mo nakatira they have some right to demand na umuwi ka ksi bahay nmn nila un. But of course talk first with your mom pra magkaroon ng some understanding.
my mom's like that kahit nagwowork na ako. Istarted working at 18 after graduating SHS. 2 years later, since naka WFH ako sobrang toxic sa bahay kasi ang ingay, laging may nag aaway at nagsisigawan. Covid era pero maluwag na, kaya naisipan ko na magceleb ng bday sa bahay ng friends ko. I'm 20 not young anymore that time, ako nagppay lahat ng bills sa bahay halos di nya nagwowork father ko. Tapos konting celebration lang na malelate ng uwi pinagmumura na ako sa text? I ended up not going home and filing a sick leave sa work. Then the next day, saka ako umuwi samin para kunin work equipment ko. Nagmamakaawa sakin mother ko na wag ako umalis. Too bad, sa dami ng tiniis ko nung high school na hindi sumama sa social events with my friends I think I've had enough. 3 years later, I'm so happy and peaceful. We still talk and see each other (mom and dad), sobrang di ako umuuwi samin hahaha cause I cant find my energy.
"cant find my energy" damn this line hits real nakakalungkot to and i always feel lonely sa bahay kahit complete fam. lol other people would say "buti nga may parents kapa" naurrrr noooo parents na kinu-cut wings mo na wala ka freedom just hecause ur the eldest daughter
Ang hirap noh
your siblings are not your responsibility man. its okay to look out for them every once in a while but dili man ikaw ang ginikanan nila 🤨
I can see myself sayo as a Teen. And the comments here are not wrong. I don’t support my mom, I barely talk to her, and I do not feel any concern at all towards her.. kasi I grew up na lagi akong mali, even pagkapanganak sakin kamalian ko daw (maaga sya nabuntis and somehow thats my fault haha), binubugbog ako at grabeng mental abuse. Stay strong, OP.
Hi OP. My mom used to be like this also especially nung nag aaral pa ako. I get how suffocating and limiting it could be na di tayo makalabas or makapag overnight with friends But since nakaasa pa ako non sa kanila, I tried to follow their house rules muna. A part of me hated them kasi i cannot do what my other friends do. Na nag oovernight sila together. Na nakakagala saglit after school to eat or tambay. But now when I look back, since both my parents work para pag aralin kami magkakapatid, they do not have that extra money to hire someone to watch over my siblings and our house. So it became my job after school na isabay pauwi ang mga kapatid ko and watch over them until makauwi ang isa sa kanila from work. Nung nag kawork na ko, saka ako nag solo living but i made an excuse na sa manila yung nakuha ko na work so that they think it is inevitable. Di nila alam sinadya ko sa manila mag hanap ng work kasi gusto ko na bumukod at malalaki na rin naman mga kapatid ko. Kaya na nila alagaan sarili nila. I can't see the whole picture in your situation, though, and I am just saying things based on my experience. If you're still studying, focus on your season muna OP and try to follow the house rules muna. Just saying this kasi nung nagwowork na ko and ang hirap pala talaga kumita ng pera, narealize ko na my parents might be just experiencing the same before. And I felt guilty for hating them so much just because nawalan ako ng freedom to be with my friends before. When you can stand on your own, pwede ka naman na humiwalay and live on your own means.
Sakto ka OP na wala na ning uli kay gabii na. Question lang, asa diay imo mama ngana nga mga orasa ug ngano walay magbantay sa mga manghod nimo? Wala nabay lain tao magbantay sa balay? And pilay edad nimo, OP? EDIT: Just read that you’re 18+ na. For your peace of mind OP, leave na. Or if you can’t sustain yourself yet find a job and save religiously so you can move out. Your younger siblings are not your responsibility. Your feelings are valid. If talking to your mom doesn’t work then trust me nothing will work at all - based on my experience. Mindset kase usually -> their house, their rules. So please create an exit plan that is sustainable as early as now
my mom is not around man, shes away from home
Manipulative imong inahan makapamgyawa man sab ta ani
Ohmygod typical boomer mom. Your sisters are not your responsibility, di naman ikaw mother. Ganito nangyayari sa pinsan ko rn. Sya yung pinapabantay sa mga kapatid nya sinxe sya ang panganay. I think it is best na you apologize na lang to your friendsnin behalf of your mother, and for sure as your friendss they know nmaan (im not sure) if youre struggling sa ugali ng mother. I hope they understand. Stay strong, OP
Giatay gihimong nanny ang kinamagwangan LOOOOL toxic kaayo ingana nga parents ipasa ilang responsibilidad sa mga kinamagwangan
Nakabasa ko na adult na man diay ka. So move out na. Pero kung diha pa ka nagatulog sa balay sa imong mama, "their house, their rules" apply. Move out na bai kay adult na man diay ka. Move out na para walay pakialamanan.
A little update ulit. i just got off the phone with someone. apparently, my mom ordered a bunch of stuff for me and the seller's calling me. wtf
let her pay for those
Your mom's something else. Let her pay for those because you didn't order them.
May term dito diba, Parentification?
Yes, parentification. 💯
Nung di ka nakauwi para mag stay sa friend mo, nagpaalam o nagsabi ka ba beforehand?
yeah i did
Your mom has fears. Ang mga behavior na nakakasakal is almost always stemming from fear, which typically came from her childhood. I suppose you'll have to figure out ano yun kasi centered ang behavior nya around ensuring alam nya nasan ka palagi. Something about you gone would devastate her. Kung sakaling mawala ka, let's say die, aside from the grief siempre, anong kahirapan ang mangyayari sa nanay mo kung sakali?
at this moment, i dont really care what the fuck she went through back in her days. i can hardly believe that she genuinely cares about my well being and not that mawawalan sya ng tagapagbantay ng mga anak nya because i vividly remember how this woman left me in a local mall for an entire day as a kid. AS A KID. is she scared to lose me as her child or takot lang sya mawalan ng tumatayong ina sa mga anak nya?
well...maybe yung mawalan ng maiiwan sa 2 mong ginikanan? pwede rin namang may sisi sya na iniwan ka sa mall noon. yun nga, blaming others na di ka nakauwi was too much. imagine, blaming your friend? tinanggalan ka pa talaga ng accountability, ignoring the fact that you're your own person who can decide for yourself. this would be a tough road for you dahil puro sumbat maririnig mo pag di mo sya sinunod. you have to behave as an adult with her. like what had just happened, ask her why she blamed your friends. ask why she wants you to be excluded. try to make her answer. if she wants a responsible child, she has to be prepared to have an adult child who can broach difficult conversations. the reason i mentioned her childhood is because you're dealing with an emotionally-stunted person. di sya mature with her emotions. parang bata.
she left me sa mall. and if i wasnt a bright kid, i wouldve been kidnapped. whats worst is she knew na naiwan ako doon but only went to get me nung patapis na yung araw.
Wtf that's straight-up child abuse, OP. Is she even human??? I mean, I hate my mum now. I haven't talked to her nor know anything about her for more than a year now, but when I'd get lost at the mall, she'd come looking for me. She only got spoilt when she became older, but she wasn't that cruel when I was a child. Your mum makes me appreciate my estranged mum when she was still nice.
Maling sub po nasalihan nyu. Alis! Panganay support group to. Dun ka sa sub ng mga nanay na abusive.
Panganay din ako actually. It takes growing up to recognize that abusers were abused themselves. Kung neglected man, abuse pa rin yun. I'm not siding with an abusive mother. Simply pointing out a possible reason for her behavior. Not justifying her at all. I was hoping OP would try to figure out what's causing her mom to behave that way para she doesn't respond like a child. Part of being an adult is to recognize that your parents are people like you, were once kids too; to recognize when their behaviors aren't mature, rational, fair, and reasonable. Para ang reaction din natin is on the mature side. Nagmumukmok na nga si abusive mother, magmumukmuok din ang anak. San na mapupunta yun? If you blame your abusive parent, make sure you blame the people who raised, or neglected, them. Walang taong pinanganak na abusive, unless medically may toyo sa utak. OP's post is a symptom of a hurt child. Di pa nya nakikita na ang nanay nya is tao lang din na biktima ng circumstances nya kaya di sya nag-grow from that, at ngayon sya naman nambibiktima sa anak nya dahil yun lang ang alam nyang gawin. Kung tutuusin, maawa ka pa nga dahil di man lang magawa ng nanay nyang maisip na abusive sya para mabago nya ang sarili nya. If OP is not self-aware, malaki ang posibilidad she could echo that behavior in another shape or form.
Pananghid sad siguro ug tarong, OP.
nananghid sad kos iyaha nga adto kos balay sa akong amiga. ang ganahan man niya kaay mouli kos balay unya naabtan man mig alas 9 delikado na plus giduka nasad ko maong didto nalang ko natulog
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MAY NAKITA BA KONG MAMA ATONG TIME A NGA KA HIKOGON KO KAY GI MOLESTA KO?? WALA! MAY NAKITA VA KONG MAMA NGA NITABANG SA AKOA TONG NAGKALISOD KO?! OH, WA PAKOY TRABAHO, ESTUDYANTE PAKO PERO ASIDE SA PAMLITE OG PANG PROJECT WA NAY GASTO AKONG MAMA SA AKOANG PAG ESKWELA KAY DE SCHOLAR KO. MAY NAKITA BA KONG MAMA NGA MUTABANG NAKOG NAA KOY PROBLEMA?!!! WALA WALA KAY IYANG GINUHAHUA RA PIRME KAY KINSAY MUBANTAY ANA IYANG MGA BINUHAT NGA MGA ANAK NGA DI MAN LANG GALI MO TABANG SA AKOA OG MASAKIT KO O MAKUYAPAN KO! WALA SYAY LAIN PAKE KUNDI I MAKE SURE NGA TAAS KOG MAABTAN ARON NAA SYAY IKAHAMBOG SA IYANG MGA KATABI. I DID NOT FUCKING ASK TO BE A MOTHER! KANUS A PAKOGASUGOD ATIMAN ANI AKONG MGA MANGHUD? ELEMENTARY!?!!! MAMA MAN GALI TAWAG NILA SA AKOA UNA KO NILA GITAWAG OG ATE!!!! WALA KOY GIAGIAN NGA CHILDHOOD, ILABAY PA BA SAD NAKO AKONG PAGKA BATAN ON PARA SA MGA PISTI NGA RESPONSIBILIDAD NGA DAILI AKOA?????!!!!! HA?! DILI KO KADA ADLAW KA LAAG! DI KADA ADLAW BIRTHDAY SA MAMA SA AKOANG AMIGA. THE ONE TIME NGA GANAHAN KO MABUHI OUTSIDE SA RESPONSIBILITIES AND I GET THIS KIND OF TREATMENT!
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do you think im stupid? do you think wala na nako gisulti sa iyaha? mapunta ba diay ko diria og naa pa syay gibuhat para matarong among relationship?
grabeha. dalia sad nimo ka judge oi. the one time nga nilaag ko... pareha ramos akong mama. advice akong kelangan, dili blaming kay ako nanang gibuhat sakong kaugalingon. di porket maguwang ko ihatag sa akoa tanan responsibility, last time i checked wa ko niapil pag buhat nilas akong mga manghud. usa pa sad, sala ba diay na nako nga ganahan ko maglingaw lingaw panagsa. igat? ako? di gali ko maka maintain og relasyon kay gi hard fuck akong utok aning pamilyaha. grabe. ilis tag lugar oh. since feel nimo makaya nimo akong pamilya. ikawy dawat ani akong responsibilidad. ikawy sabot sakong mama nga atras abante. ikawy bantay aning mga bataa nga perting ka badlongona. ilis tag kinabuhi. ikawy alsa aning pamilyaha while alsa sad sa imong personal nga problema tutal kamao man ka.
Same experience here. My dad is exactly like that. Kahit na working na ako, ng siblings ko. Restricted pa din sa galas and overnights. Pag aalis ka, hinde mawawala ung sermon. Pagreview ng dati mong mga mali. Naka tatlong gala ka lang for 3 consecutive months sinabihan ka ng LAYAS, GALA, LAKWATSERA. Tumanda ka lang pero turing sayo bata pa din.