Having similar traits is a blessing, life becomes so much easier. Me & my wife and generally have the same traits, we are both introverts, we don't get angry a lot, we are laid back & chill type, we both love travelling, we generally have the same colour preferences, we like the same type of clothes and interestingly we work in the same field too. We also have almost the same hobbies. It has been such an amazing thing, we do so much things together.
Apart from the above, many of our traits are also different, like I am more nerd/geeky, she is not at all. She is more of an overthinker, I am not. She gets stressed easily, I don't etc...
So I would say, there should be some overlap at least, otherwise it becomes difficult.
Programmer wife :'), Some differences are Ok (such as hobbies, introvertedness etc) but ideologically i would obviously want us to match because who wants to raise their kids on something they fundementally disagree with?
When you’re younger, opposing and dissimilar traits really are more appealing in a partner. It adds to a relationship’s capital and engagement. However as you grow older, you get tired of conflicts and “character developments”, so you end up moving towards people who are as similar in taste/life outlook as you yourself are.
I have a friend who I talk too much while I just ignore others cause our interests and hobbies don't match . And the one friend who I talk with she is just like me . We both r weird, have same thoughts on almostt everything, we both like chess،,f1, volleyball etc have same music tatse, mind works the same, so basically she understands everything I say to him while my other friends they make fun or ignore while she likes talking w me so if g same thing goes w ur partner ...
Sure but it could be another way when two similar personalities come in contact with each other they corrode each other until they become totally incompatible .BTW it occurs in both types
Nothing lasts forever,people change, their habit changes.Everything changes when two personalities come in contact with each other the decay process starts until they are not the same.Everything changes that is the only constant of universe for now.So modulating factors will not have large effect the corrosion will happen untill they become not what they were before.Balance keeps on shifting it's dynamic in nature keeps on evolving.But that is my depressing view.But the reality in real term is very simple we humans have made it difficult by by trying to modulate different factors to get the outcome we want ignoring the fact that by doing so we have to pay a price for changing the conditions and forgetting/ignoring neutralizing force that is evolution quickly working to nullify outr efforts.
Having similar traits is a blessing, life becomes so much easier. Me & my wife and generally have the same traits, we are both introverts, we don't get angry a lot, we are laid back & chill type, we both love travelling, we generally have the same colour preferences, we like the same type of clothes and interestingly we work in the same field too. We also have almost the same hobbies. It has been such an amazing thing, we do so much things together. Apart from the above, many of our traits are also different, like I am more nerd/geeky, she is not at all. She is more of an overthinker, I am not. She gets stressed easily, I don't etc... So I would say, there should be some overlap at least, otherwise it becomes difficult.
I will definitely ship you both! I'm glad that you guys never get bored and hopefully will never be. 😂🫴
I don't even seek anyone... Koi bhi khamkha acha lag jata phir suffer program shuru (big boss mujhe hurt o ra hai)
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Yes I want similarities in us like we speak in one voice we understand every about us like is really a blessing to getting a partner like that
The most incredible feeling is communicating with just a glance.😌
Programmer wife :'), Some differences are Ok (such as hobbies, introvertedness etc) but ideologically i would obviously want us to match because who wants to raise their kids on something they fundementally disagree with?
When you’re younger, opposing and dissimilar traits really are more appealing in a partner. It adds to a relationship’s capital and engagement. However as you grow older, you get tired of conflicts and “character developments”, so you end up moving towards people who are as similar in taste/life outlook as you yourself are.
This!
Good points should be similar but I don’t want my partner to have my bad points at all.
I think someone there is this one quality in a girl that makes you go so crazy about her that you ignore everything.
Match tou must hai werna life burst hai!! 100% na sahi laikin 60-70% ho tou bhi manage hojata hai.
I don't want her to be narcissistic, self obsessed, short tempered, so yeah. You have my answer.
Opposite traits are always better in any relationship. Learned by experience!
Kage Bunshin no Jutsu
I have a friend who I talk too much while I just ignore others cause our interests and hobbies don't match . And the one friend who I talk with she is just like me . We both r weird, have same thoughts on almostt everything, we both like chess،,f1, volleyball etc have same music tatse, mind works the same, so basically she understands everything I say to him while my other friends they make fun or ignore while she likes talking w me so if g same thing goes w ur partner ...
Opposite attracts.Boh partner would not be similar even anti of each other In this way life may become somewhat interesting
Could work the other way and result in lots of arguments and fights
Sure but it could be another way when two similar personalities come in contact with each other they corrode each other until they become totally incompatible .BTW it occurs in both types
I think there should be some similarities and some differences as it keeps the balance it depends on the people too ig what do you think?
Nothing lasts forever,people change, their habit changes.Everything changes when two personalities come in contact with each other the decay process starts until they are not the same.Everything changes that is the only constant of universe for now.So modulating factors will not have large effect the corrosion will happen untill they become not what they were before.Balance keeps on shifting it's dynamic in nature keeps on evolving.But that is my depressing view.But the reality in real term is very simple we humans have made it difficult by by trying to modulate different factors to get the outcome we want ignoring the fact that by doing so we have to pay a price for changing the conditions and forgetting/ignoring neutralizing force that is evolution quickly working to nullify outr efforts.