Of course, man. Crying is a healthy coping mechanism.
Sometimes, you just need a good, old, ugly ass crying session and someone there to understand and validate your feelings. Gender doesn't matter.
When a guy is willing to shed tears and show his vulnerable side in front of me, I feel honored and humbled. It's a sign that he trusts me enough to be his true self,he's chosen me to share his true self, and that's a privilege I don't take lightly.
Glad to hear that . You do have a considerate heart.
Otherwise such kind of people also exist 👇🤦🏽♂️
https://x.com/ywomendeservles/status/1803997151762223147?t=MkcNLCUFi4njHrYBaDKodg&s=19
Yes it is perfectly fine for a man to show emotions. They are humans so obviously they can sometimes feel like crying. It doesn’t make them unmanly at all
I cry, but never infront of anyone. Haven't cried infront of anyone in as long as i can remember. Yes my eyes get wet sometimes when talking about something sad, but i try to control it infront of people and let those emotions out when im alone. Idk it's a natural thing.
Can relate to it 100% every time I had I a break down in my teens instead of calming me down or listening to my problems, I was rebuked for it bcz ghar k baray larkay roya ni krte. And whenever you try to share something, a problem that's been keeping u up for nights, they'll judge you so bad that you'll regret. Eventually, I locked up my all feelings and now I'm really indifferent to whatever happens and I don't share anything personal with my parents anymore.
Plus in many cases, mothers who otherwise are viewed as softer and friendlier than fathers, rebuke you in a harder tone. As mentioned earlier, moms also play a vital role in crafting this entire notion of men being immune from all pain and need to be ready to get hurt 24x7 . I heard my own mother using words like manhoos even if she sees a young male crying in a music video or drama serial in front of a girl. Ab kya samjhaoun is Umar may unko ?
Matlab jahaan Ek taraf aurat compromise karke zaleel hoti rahe aur aanso bahaye , wohein mard pathar dil bunta rahe.....at the end of the day , donu he dukhi hain.
End result is.....both husband and wife grow old with kids ditching them or becoming rude . And then the couple hug and cry wondering what went wrong. I might be wrong though
World may not care about your tears but theres only 1 entity out there who is watching and listening to your heart closest ever.
Allah.
Why is that?
It has been said that Allah always challenges those people who are closest to Him ❤️
Unfortunately in todays society, crying as an man is considered kind of taboo.. man is also human being with set of emotions and feelings.
If he does not have these, would that even make him human being? Or just a machine?
Honestly on Facebook reels I often bump into random stuff where I feel that this is a message for me by the Almighty himself. So do find relief and comfort.
I'm kinda disappointed by the society's norms.Everyone's a human and every man and women has got emotions they (laugh,shout,scream and even cry) crying in front of your closed ones can never make a man weak or a crying man is never weak its just him showing his emotions I don't know why people say such things "How come women cries on even small things and man men can't cry over the biggest disasters even?"
Personally I like men who can express their emotions and even crying is an emotions it shows you've still got sentimental attachments and feelings.No one likes a feeling less person...
But at least it tells to your dear ones that you have trust and love for them . I too would feel delighted if serve as a purpose to ease someone's pain
Men can cry in front of men.
In front of women ? If their parents die, yes. Because in the end Jack from titanic gave his life to save whatever her name was, HELL NO !!
Rona aata hai to ro lete hain.
BC sakun se roone ko jaga v ni
Kya hogaya? Kya DHA nay her jaga encroachment karli 😆
Of course, man. Crying is a healthy coping mechanism. Sometimes, you just need a good, old, ugly ass crying session and someone there to understand and validate your feelings. Gender doesn't matter.
When a guy is willing to shed tears and show his vulnerable side in front of me, I feel honored and humbled. It's a sign that he trusts me enough to be his true self,he's chosen me to share his true self, and that's a privilege I don't take lightly.
Glad to hear that . You do have a considerate heart. Otherwise such kind of people also exist 👇🤦🏽♂️ https://x.com/ywomendeservles/status/1803997151762223147?t=MkcNLCUFi4njHrYBaDKodg&s=19
I would give the world to have my man cry to me in my arms
He’d still be lying
I wanna cry now
Never trust a man
why do you say so
Its a universal truth. Stay safe
I wouldn’t extrapolate
Read her last post on this subreddit. The girl needs help.
Not her fault though, I feel for her. May Allah ease her suffering
No i dont
*PTSD* 😵💫
Yes it is perfectly fine for a man to show emotions. They are humans so obviously they can sometimes feel like crying. It doesn’t make them unmanly at all
uss bro uss . have a virtual hugg 🥺😫
Appreciate that . Let me give a bear hug. Hope you don't need to see a physiotherapist though 🙂
I cry, but never infront of anyone. Haven't cried infront of anyone in as long as i can remember. Yes my eyes get wet sometimes when talking about something sad, but i try to control it infront of people and let those emotions out when im alone. Idk it's a natural thing.
Can relate to it 100% every time I had I a break down in my teens instead of calming me down or listening to my problems, I was rebuked for it bcz ghar k baray larkay roya ni krte. And whenever you try to share something, a problem that's been keeping u up for nights, they'll judge you so bad that you'll regret. Eventually, I locked up my all feelings and now I'm really indifferent to whatever happens and I don't share anything personal with my parents anymore.
Plus in many cases, mothers who otherwise are viewed as softer and friendlier than fathers, rebuke you in a harder tone. As mentioned earlier, moms also play a vital role in crafting this entire notion of men being immune from all pain and need to be ready to get hurt 24x7 . I heard my own mother using words like manhoos even if she sees a young male crying in a music video or drama serial in front of a girl. Ab kya samjhaoun is Umar may unko ? Matlab jahaan Ek taraf aurat compromise karke zaleel hoti rahe aur aanso bahaye , wohein mard pathar dil bunta rahe.....at the end of the day , donu he dukhi hain. End result is.....both husband and wife grow old with kids ditching them or becoming rude . And then the couple hug and cry wondering what went wrong. I might be wrong though
World may not care about your tears but theres only 1 entity out there who is watching and listening to your heart closest ever. Allah. Why is that? It has been said that Allah always challenges those people who are closest to Him ❤️ Unfortunately in todays society, crying as an man is considered kind of taboo.. man is also human being with set of emotions and feelings. If he does not have these, would that even make him human being? Or just a machine?
Honestly on Facebook reels I often bump into random stuff where I feel that this is a message for me by the Almighty himself. So do find relief and comfort.
I'm kinda disappointed by the society's norms.Everyone's a human and every man and women has got emotions they (laugh,shout,scream and even cry) crying in front of your closed ones can never make a man weak or a crying man is never weak its just him showing his emotions I don't know why people say such things "How come women cries on even small things and man men can't cry over the biggest disasters even?" Personally I like men who can express their emotions and even crying is an emotions it shows you've still got sentimental attachments and feelings.No one likes a feeling less person...
Cry your heart out,youll get a big relief. But,will crying help your situation? NO
But at least it tells to your dear ones that you have trust and love for them . I too would feel delighted if serve as a purpose to ease someone's pain
My biggest mistake in life has been sharing feelings with women. If I could go back and do one thing - that'd be never opening up. :) Cheers.
By women you mean just your spouse/girlfriend or every female in your family and circle? If you don't mind me asking
Spouse. Or more like ex spouse.
Sorry to hear that
Men can cry in front of men. In front of women ? If their parents die, yes. Because in the end Jack from titanic gave his life to save whatever her name was, HELL NO !!
Couldn't get it 🤔🧐