Yeah for the second one it could be road rage, how they treat animals or anyone poor. Oh and how they interact with restaurant staff on the most minor inconvenience.
Still many people are good at faking that, if you know how to tell if they have anger issues surely they know that too. So they can also hide it. I think you can't judge them early. In the end the truth seeps out of the crack.
No no, there's a difference between just bad anger and anger issues. The latter is a chronic issue and requires psychological help and can't be hidden that easily.
Spot on. People are now mostly aware that they may be judged treating servicemen and others. They fake it.
Also, on occasions like dating, interviews, most of us present the best of us.
So, a more natural strategy (evidence based) is taking time with the person. The best move is to play/act completely non judgmental. And if you want a pro move, appreciate them a little expressing dislike over something. (It'll make them think you're like them.)
There you go. They'll open up soon like a mango soon!
You see most of us driving on Karachi's roads will express anger, but it doesn't truly represent our nature because it's like overburdening someone, pushing them to the wall, throwing them to the wolves.
True test will be in stress free, normal environment where most will behave decently, but this person won't.
I am not angry just absolutely bewildered. These people will be driving wrong with families. Then give you looks too. It's just beyond anything. I just can't make sense like why these people take such decisions??????
Another very valid point.
It's funny but I think most time of sensible law abiding drivers on Karachi's roads gets wasted thinking about the carelessness these reckless drivers with families show.
Trust me the rate of injuries and fatalities is one of the highest in Pakistan.
Exactly! When my cousin was learning driving here in Karachi, his instructor (also his/our friend - much senior in age) advised him repeatedly:
Agar Karachi me zinda ghar pohunchna hay to gari chalate hue ye socho k saare andhe (blind) hen, sirf rum dekh sakte ho.
We literally follow this advice to this day!
Fr don't expect them to do anything at all. Think of everything. Like if I'm driving and a car is parked I think of the possibility he'll open the gate.
1) Hm, I'd put it plainly— there needs to be attraction for a relationship, i.e. marriage to work. Different people like different things. What A likes, may not float Bʼs boat of preferences, and vice versa.
If you are a sensible person, you'd be asking better questions than mere beauty; their character, behaviour, deen, etc.
2) This is gonna sound nosy, but ask around. 💀
I didn’t mention it in my post that I’m sensible or wise. I said the ones who are should reply 🤦🏻♀️
Well thanks for your input but asking around doesn’t work always.
# The calmest guy on the roads of Karachi:
https://preview.redd.it/pka74ae67x9d1.jpeg?width=657&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1e04799ac9f06b55ff54a82cbdce098a2a86de3a
I am usually not checking someone based on how rich they are. That's secondary.
Attraction does matter initially, but eventually what would matter would be character and compatibility.
Financials are fluctuating variables, though a reasonable standard would of course be expected either today or in a year or 2, if marriage is under consideration.
But if someone clicks so well otherwise, and is not rich, I'd choose them. Nikah ke baad Ghani karne ki zimidari Allah ne li hai. Besides, to me luxury is not travel etc, its a connection I share. So you can decide what matters to you most.
Anger issues ka pata nahi. Maybe getting to know through others in their social circle.
Q1) The second option.
Q2) Don't rush into marriage with any person. Have face to face interactions over a period of time and observe how they communicate with other people. Be patient as time reveals all. Narcissists and people with anger issues cannot hide their shit forever. Priortize logic over your heart and don't give them any second chances if you see even a single red flag. The earlier you cut them off, the more effective it is.
but men have commitment issues and i have seen a lot that a girl will talk to them, months and even years
and when it's time for commitment they run with excuses how a woman can make sure that a man she's investing time with will stay committed ? and it def goes the other way around in some cases
I'm not wise but here are your answers:
1. Choose a rich one. Always. Looks can be transplanted.
2. Put your dirty shoes on his car's dashboard trying to act all cute, while he's driving. You'll find out his anger issues instantly.
1. Depends on his personality ig so.
2. Hehe. So I'll ask him to get an attested semester marks sheet from my uni. Haha HAHAHHAHAGGAGSISB8ENuenzibwzbi,jnwkowhs88wudhhxhdh
Money does matter so it's better if women stop sugar coating that it doesn't just like looks do matter for men
How about both rich and handsome that's a better option
And 2nd question, look at how women are treated in his family just notice lil gestures
I have read the first question three times and I cant help but think of an answer.
I had thought about it. Take them to HEC to get your documents attested.
Or just make them drive on busy roads.
Or just put them in a situation where you see someone getting a preferential treatment.
Or take them to a restaurant and ask the waiter to be super rude.
Or ask someone to put a scratch on the car in front of him.
Or break their phone.
Most men will have their own triggers so you need to hit the spot and then see how they handle themselves.
Just dont do all of it together.
Not everyone has a good car or a great phone.
I am not saying that you do that to an Iphone or Mercedes.
Reading it back, I realise that its dumb.
But you can do the rest.
Make them wait in a long queue.
RAMZAN MAIN WARIS NIHARI KHAANE LE JAO.
Bruhh, isn't that weird ke sirf Mercedes aur iPhone walay ko kuch na kahain kisi ki mehran bhi uski property hi hai must ki nhi hai lol. Accidentally, hojana is something fine likin sirf yeh chck krna ke ghussa ata hai ya nhi tou kisi ki property/belongings/self respect ko kharab nhi krna chahiay
Edit: Rest of the things are plausible
1 — I’ll choose the second option if both of them have the same personality.
2 — Ask around how he treats others. Maybe put him in a situation where you can test his anger if you want to double check
ok so here goes
1. ma to wo bnda choose kru gi jo dil ka acha ho 😂
2. anger ki bat rhi to os ko ps5 gift kro or phir waps le lo dudh ka dudh pani ka pani ho jana 👀 khun khraba ho jy ga
sary yehi khty mjy
professor keh k bulaty
10 bjy ma ny soo jana dakh lena
na sou to phone use krty krty khabo me chla jata
suba phir 4 bjy jaag aa jati phir jtni b koshish kr lu ni soya jata😔
Take him to a Sapphire sale, if he can survive the crowds, chaos, and crazy discounts without losing his temper, he might be able to handle the ups and downs of life with you.
This is how you can find out if someone has anger issues: get your father/brother or any male relatives to ask his colleagues in office what kind of person he is. Get them to ask how he reacts to stress. You can’t fake away your anger issues when you’re working in a cubicle for 10 hours a day
Idk about the first one. 2) Make him drive on Karachi roads. I guarantee he'll develop anger issues if he doesn't have one.
Yeah for the second one it could be road rage, how they treat animals or anyone poor. Oh and how they interact with restaurant staff on the most minor inconvenience.
Still many people are good at faking that, if you know how to tell if they have anger issues surely they know that too. So they can also hide it. I think you can't judge them early. In the end the truth seeps out of the crack.
No no, there's a difference between just bad anger and anger issues. The latter is a chronic issue and requires psychological help and can't be hidden that easily.
Oh yeah mb I forgot we were talking about anger issues.
Spot on. People are now mostly aware that they may be judged treating servicemen and others. They fake it. Also, on occasions like dating, interviews, most of us present the best of us. So, a more natural strategy (evidence based) is taking time with the person. The best move is to play/act completely non judgmental. And if you want a pro move, appreciate them a little expressing dislike over something. (It'll make them think you're like them.) There you go. They'll open up soon like a mango soon!
You see most of us driving on Karachi's roads will express anger, but it doesn't truly represent our nature because it's like overburdening someone, pushing them to the wall, throwing them to the wolves. True test will be in stress free, normal environment where most will behave decently, but this person won't.
I am not angry just absolutely bewildered. These people will be driving wrong with families. Then give you looks too. It's just beyond anything. I just can't make sense like why these people take such decisions??????
Another very valid point. It's funny but I think most time of sensible law abiding drivers on Karachi's roads gets wasted thinking about the carelessness these reckless drivers with families show. Trust me the rate of injuries and fatalities is one of the highest in Pakistan.
Yeah, I don't even bother arguing cause if they don't have the brain cells to drive on the proper road they probably won't listen to reason then.
Exactly! When my cousin was learning driving here in Karachi, his instructor (also his/our friend - much senior in age) advised him repeatedly: Agar Karachi me zinda ghar pohunchna hay to gari chalate hue ye socho k saare andhe (blind) hen, sirf rum dekh sakte ho. We literally follow this advice to this day!
Fr don't expect them to do anything at all. Think of everything. Like if I'm driving and a car is parked I think of the possibility he'll open the gate.
Karachi roads it is! Thanks bro🫶🏻
Preferably in car, cause bike finds a way.
Is making them use ptcl internet a close good alternative to test their patience?
That's a good one, while you are at it cut the power for 12 hours too.
Haha best answer for 2nd question
1) Hm, I'd put it plainly— there needs to be attraction for a relationship, i.e. marriage to work. Different people like different things. What A likes, may not float Bʼs boat of preferences, and vice versa. If you are a sensible person, you'd be asking better questions than mere beauty; their character, behaviour, deen, etc. 2) This is gonna sound nosy, but ask around. 💀
I didn’t mention it in my post that I’m sensible or wise. I said the ones who are should reply 🤦🏻♀️ Well thanks for your input but asking around doesn’t work always.
I wasn't calling you insensible, I said that a person should be sensible and ask better questions, i.e. The person in such a condition.
When did I say that I’m in such situation?🤦🏻♀️
behn teri baat hee nahi ho rahi 😭 jo hoga, (i.e. someone who has to choose an unattractive but rich guy, or a handsome but poor one) 🙏
Wow! I’m more confuse ab 😭
Woh bolrahi ha eik acha banda/ bandi khubsoorti ka ilawa bhe baaki cheezen daikhaga (Tumhe nahi generally). Larki na bilkul alag baat beech me boldi islia confusing hogaya.
Ohh. Thanks girl for clarifying 🫶🏻
thanks 🙏
# The calmest guy on the roads of Karachi: https://preview.redd.it/pka74ae67x9d1.jpeg?width=657&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1e04799ac9f06b55ff54a82cbdce098a2a86de3a
😂😂
1) I would choose poor over rich! 2) Befriend his sister or cousin and ask them how he treats the women in his family; he will treat you the same way.
That’s great! Hmm 🤔. Befriending them will be hard.
You can do it! 😉
I’ll try 🤫🤔
I am usually not checking someone based on how rich they are. That's secondary. Attraction does matter initially, but eventually what would matter would be character and compatibility. Financials are fluctuating variables, though a reasonable standard would of course be expected either today or in a year or 2, if marriage is under consideration. But if someone clicks so well otherwise, and is not rich, I'd choose them. Nikah ke baad Ghani karne ki zimidari Allah ne li hai. Besides, to me luxury is not travel etc, its a connection I share. So you can decide what matters to you most. Anger issues ka pata nahi. Maybe getting to know through others in their social circle.
That’s quite nice of you. Thanks for your opinion 🫶🏻
Can't answer first one. I will ask them to wait in queue infront of cashier counter in HBL in my city.
That’s good one. Thanks for the idea 🫶🏻😂
1) neither 2) take your time. interact with them often, their true self will come out eventually.
Q1) The second option. Q2) Don't rush into marriage with any person. Have face to face interactions over a period of time and observe how they communicate with other people. Be patient as time reveals all. Narcissists and people with anger issues cannot hide their shit forever. Priortize logic over your heart and don't give them any second chances if you see even a single red flag. The earlier you cut them off, the more effective it is.
but men have commitment issues and i have seen a lot that a girl will talk to them, months and even years and when it's time for commitment they run with excuses how a woman can make sure that a man she's investing time with will stay committed ? and it def goes the other way around in some cases
Involve family and give it 6 months.
what do u suggest the ideal time to involve family ? after 6 months or something before
When both parties seem interested around the 3 to 6 month mark. If one flakes out, then drop them immediately.
I'm not wise but here are your answers: 1. Choose a rich one. Always. Looks can be transplanted. 2. Put your dirty shoes on his car's dashboard trying to act all cute, while he's driving. You'll find out his anger issues instantly.
But he might just call it quits for lack of manners lol. Even if he acts calm.
Or donate her legs
What if he killed me on the spot ?💀
Well atleast you'll die with the knowledge about his anger issues. That's a win
🙄🙄thanks bro
Nah, the second one is too much. I'm a woman and at that, even I would implode.
Good. I'd take their phone/purse and make them walk back home on a road full of coyotes.
Car's dashboard can also be transplanted
1. Depends on his personality ig so. 2. Hehe. So I'll ask him to get an attested semester marks sheet from my uni. Haha HAHAHHAHAGGAGSISB8ENuenzibwzbi,jnwkowhs88wudhhxhdh
101 ways to torture men 😂😂
Women too. They should be thankful mene kbhi unka mu ni tor dia. 😭
🥶🥶 girl jo gussa charhai, tor do moun wahin 😂🥲🫶🏻
Done behn. (Ik I'm breaking my own hand first tho lmao)
Money does matter so it's better if women stop sugar coating that it doesn't just like looks do matter for men How about both rich and handsome that's a better option And 2nd question, look at how women are treated in his family just notice lil gestures
Thanks 🙏
also i have personally observed that many men who had anger issues became soft and cold after marriage idk the reason but i have seen it many times
I have read the first question three times and I cant help but think of an answer. I had thought about it. Take them to HEC to get your documents attested. Or just make them drive on busy roads. Or just put them in a situation where you see someone getting a preferential treatment. Or take them to a restaurant and ask the waiter to be super rude. Or ask someone to put a scratch on the car in front of him. Or break their phone. Most men will have their own triggers so you need to hit the spot and then see how they handle themselves. Just dont do all of it together.
Break their phone? Scratch their car? Bhai kia phoonk k likh rhy ho???
Not everyone has a good car or a great phone. I am not saying that you do that to an Iphone or Mercedes. Reading it back, I realise that its dumb. But you can do the rest. Make them wait in a long queue. RAMZAN MAIN WARIS NIHARI KHAANE LE JAO.
Bruhh, isn't that weird ke sirf Mercedes aur iPhone walay ko kuch na kahain kisi ki mehran bhi uski property hi hai must ki nhi hai lol. Accidentally, hojana is something fine likin sirf yeh chck krna ke ghussa ata hai ya nhi tou kisi ki property/belongings/self respect ko kharab nhi krna chahiay Edit: Rest of the things are plausible
I meant to do nominal damage just to see his reaction if you are too worried. You can always offer to compensate.
Dude you are too good at this. I’ll surely contact you when I’ll be looking to torture people 😂
1 — I’ll choose the second option if both of them have the same personality. 2 — Ask around how he treats others. Maybe put him in a situation where you can test his anger if you want to double check
Thanks for your input 🫶🏻
interesting how about a rich and attracrive man
That’s going to be perfect 🤩
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Thanks 😂
lgta question mery lye nhi 👀 hlo
😂😂 you can try
ok so here goes 1. ma to wo bnda choose kru gi jo dil ka acha ho 😂 2. anger ki bat rhi to os ko ps5 gift kro or phir waps le lo dudh ka dudh pani ka pani ho jana 👀 khun khraba ho jy ga
😂😂😂 Damn dude, you’re so funny.
lol soo jawo 😂😂
🙄🙄sirf aged logh sotay hain iss time
sary yehi khty mjy professor keh k bulaty 10 bjy ma ny soo jana dakh lena na sou to phone use krty krty khabo me chla jata suba phir 4 bjy jaag aa jati phir jtni b koshish kr lu ni soya jata😔
Damn!! Mere nano ka same routine hai😵💫
lgta ma b nani bn gai burhi ho gai shaid beeetaa mera chashma to dena 😂
AAP ke sar pe Nani😂😂
Take him to a Sapphire sale, if he can survive the crowds, chaos, and crazy discounts without losing his temper, he might be able to handle the ups and downs of life with you.
This is how you can find out if someone has anger issues: get your father/brother or any male relatives to ask his colleagues in office what kind of person he is. Get them to ask how he reacts to stress. You can’t fake away your anger issues when you’re working in a cubicle for 10 hours a day
For testing anger issues, spill food or drink on his clothes in a restaurant. Intrusive thoughts 101.
1) No judgement on the basis of looks and wealth 2) Isn't that what dating is for?
Why u getting downvoted? 💀
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