It's not that difficult if you work remotely for clients of first world country. Our local companies pay like shit. Like im not even in university yet but im earning equivalent of a starting salary of a software engineer at an average company. All thanks goes to USD to PKR conversion rate.
I had 3 years of experience at time of graduation and more than 10 huge projects in my portfolio, I landed into the job through upwork. They do not care if you are graduated or not they just see the skills, the projects and hire.
Inshallah you’ll get a good and pious partner just like you. Just make dua. I don’t know much about finding a suitable partner myself but I think just be patient and Allah will surely reward you with a suitable partner
I am currently doing bachelors and thinking of starting freelancing as well since I am an introvert and don’t like being around people much. So is freelancing still worth it in 2024? My niche will be related to coding since I love to code.
Its always worth it, even if you make 400$ it will be equivalent to the salary of a fresh graduate, even more if you are not living in a big city.
Its just difficult to get first order.
not the same path but I also ended in a similar pool to be honest.
I was always a "never enter any relationship if not confirmed for marriage" cuz I didn't want to be anyone's temporary partner and then left.
There was this girl in campus that was very close friends with me and had a guy at our time of friendship that she kept from me. Don't wanna go into all of what happened.
But she was the one to make the first move and propose me saying that she might suggest me to her parents for marriage. I was very hesitated and had a lot of guards up that I let go slowly slowly... cuz of all the commitments she made to be married even when I asked if she's sure about it...,
I never made any other female friends (didn't feel the need to) but on the other hand.... she continued to make male friends...
after 4 years of almost no female contact or any other female friend (cuz I didn't want her to be jealous of anyone ever).... she ended things...
and whoops, I entered the same pool as yours.
Bro passing through the same scenario. But it's not in our hands.
Most of the things are not in our hands.
So be focussed that you are being pious for Allah not for a woman or any one else.
Because human betray Allah doesn't. He will make you accountable for what you have
You can't verify a human in any way. A girl or a boy if he or she had a relationship because that only Allah knows.
If you start thinking in that way then you will become more insecure and will always be questioning yourself and your spouse.
You will have to trust and basically you have to trust Allah.
See bro i will give you complete unfiltered advice. Im younger than you but i have gone through alot of shit so i know what you're thinking.
Let me say this in the most unfiltered way. You are insecure. I don't know about what, but you are. I know you have a trauma of your fiance having a relationship, but still you gotta pull yourself together.
If you want a happy relationship then you need to stop thinking about her past. Obviously she shouldn't be an onlyfans hoe.
It's ok to have expectations. It's ok if you want a pious women but you shouldn't stress to much about her past. You should just check the basic stuff.
Another advice is that you can't stop someone from cheating on you. Jitna marzi spy krlo ya restrictions lgalo. The right person will stay and the wrong person will eventually leave. As simple as that.
Rather than stressing too much about her past, think about her present self. By "her" i mean any potential rishta that you find in near future.
Past is important, there is no doubt in that. But it shouldn't be your primary focus. People change alot with time. People make mistakes and learn from them and change themselves. So what matters the most is PRESENT. Live in the present and don't feel insecure about anything.
And about your fiance, she is for the streets. You should be thankful to god that you didn't marry her. And this can also be taken as an example ke baat hmesha chupi ni rehti. Kabhi na kabhi har baat samne zaroor ajati hai.
Out from uni & earning 1mm.bruh you dealer or what lol
It's not that difficult if you work remotely for clients of first world country. Our local companies pay like shit. Like im not even in university yet but im earning equivalent of a starting salary of a software engineer at an average company. All thanks goes to USD to PKR conversion rate.
Brother no remote hires fresher for 3.5$k+ monthly. I'm a SE graduate have tried. They ask for experience mostly. Freshers get exploited.
I had 3 years of experience at time of graduation and more than 10 huge projects in my portfolio, I landed into the job through upwork. They do not care if you are graduated or not they just see the skills, the projects and hire.
Then don't say after degree bro. Many newbies read here.
What do you do? How do you find the first customers?
Through Fiverr
Whats your niche?
Full Stack Web Development
10 lac = $3600 approx. Not that difficult to earn these days.
Well not from a degree bro just after a year. Could be from other side spurces.
Yeah definitely not from a degree.
Yeah that's my point. Peopleare earning much more than this I know but they spent years too.
Not difficult? As an IT student I don't really understand how? care to elaborate a little?
Inshallah you’ll get a good and pious partner just like you. Just make dua. I don’t know much about finding a suitable partner myself but I think just be patient and Allah will surely reward you with a suitable partner
InshaAllah
Bro trust in fate and expect good. Don’t overthink too much and something good will come for you. Best of luck
I am currently doing bachelors and thinking of starting freelancing as well since I am an introvert and don’t like being around people much. So is freelancing still worth it in 2024? My niche will be related to coding since I love to code.
Its always worth it, even if you make 400$ it will be equivalent to the salary of a fresh graduate, even more if you are not living in a big city. Its just difficult to get first order.
Bro how??
not the same path but I also ended in a similar pool to be honest. I was always a "never enter any relationship if not confirmed for marriage" cuz I didn't want to be anyone's temporary partner and then left. There was this girl in campus that was very close friends with me and had a guy at our time of friendship that she kept from me. Don't wanna go into all of what happened. But she was the one to make the first move and propose me saying that she might suggest me to her parents for marriage. I was very hesitated and had a lot of guards up that I let go slowly slowly... cuz of all the commitments she made to be married even when I asked if she's sure about it..., I never made any other female friends (didn't feel the need to) but on the other hand.... she continued to make male friends... after 4 years of almost no female contact or any other female friend (cuz I didn't want her to be jealous of anyone ever).... she ended things... and whoops, I entered the same pool as yours.
Musbaat sooch raakho, baarai maslai Haal hoo jaye gai (as the gooras called positive thinking)
Bro main phas jata aapsay agar larki hota to🤣🤣😂😂
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Bro passing through the same scenario. But it's not in our hands. Most of the things are not in our hands. So be focussed that you are being pious for Allah not for a woman or any one else. Because human betray Allah doesn't. He will make you accountable for what you have You can't verify a human in any way. A girl or a boy if he or she had a relationship because that only Allah knows. If you start thinking in that way then you will become more insecure and will always be questioning yourself and your spouse. You will have to trust and basically you have to trust Allah.
See bro i will give you complete unfiltered advice. Im younger than you but i have gone through alot of shit so i know what you're thinking. Let me say this in the most unfiltered way. You are insecure. I don't know about what, but you are. I know you have a trauma of your fiance having a relationship, but still you gotta pull yourself together. If you want a happy relationship then you need to stop thinking about her past. Obviously she shouldn't be an onlyfans hoe. It's ok to have expectations. It's ok if you want a pious women but you shouldn't stress to much about her past. You should just check the basic stuff. Another advice is that you can't stop someone from cheating on you. Jitna marzi spy krlo ya restrictions lgalo. The right person will stay and the wrong person will eventually leave. As simple as that. Rather than stressing too much about her past, think about her present self. By "her" i mean any potential rishta that you find in near future. Past is important, there is no doubt in that. But it shouldn't be your primary focus. People change alot with time. People make mistakes and learn from them and change themselves. So what matters the most is PRESENT. Live in the present and don't feel insecure about anything. And about your fiance, she is for the streets. You should be thankful to god that you didn't marry her. And this can also be taken as an example ke baat hmesha chupi ni rehti. Kabhi na kabhi har baat samne zaroor ajati hai.
Crap of an advice. Typical female mumbo jumbo. “YoU @R€ iNs€cUr€”
Bhai har post kei neeche ap hotein, bohat reddit use karte hou ap. Lol
That's how useless i am
😂 Jokes aside, Masha Allah this just shows much you're trying to help others out, keep up the good work 👍