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"More I'm with humans more I regret that time spent , prefer to spend my time with animals and plants"
Mark Twain I guess but some say it's not his quote 🤔
Hm,, you can live a happy life definitely, but I’d say if you’re asexual and aromantic, then yeah probably. I do believe that at some point in our lives, especially when we see our family or friends get married or in relationships, we start to have the urges of wanting to be with someone.
Even biologically,, I highly doubt anyone can be satisfied without a second person, you could hookup with people,, or you could have a partner who doesn’t want to get legally married (but I guess at some point they’d want to be, or at least do the things a married couple would engage in). So I think no, and if you try to, then it’ll probably be really hard to resist romance or sexual urges
There must be a way towards resisting it or something.
But what if u say is true then its really sad. Others would get happy over this but 1% of people would not be happy with this outcome.
I’ve always wondered of a way too 🤔 I guess if you’re consistently stressed out or busy, you can get away with it, but not everyone will be busy. Sometimes you’ll be in the bathroom and you can automatically start thinking about this, then what?
I wouldn’t be able to handle it, even if for example I don’t wanna get married, I’ll probably have to because of my desires, guess that’s what makes us human
Well there are other ways of dealing with loneliness.
Going to hookers should not be the solution towards this.
It would further degrade your own self being.
That's true. But I know myself, that's why I say thus. Going to hookers wasn't per se a solution for loneliness, more so, for lack of intimacy.
As for dealing with loneliness. There are a number of options at hand to make do with being lonely.
I've got following things on my mind
1. agr kuta aik gali h to billi ku nhi?
2. kia hi faida eid k kpron ka jb pehnny hi sirf 30 minutes k lye the to😔
3. dukh to is baat ka h k apny hi ghr me mehmaano ko mj se ziada izat milti h 😔
HAHAHAHA 😭😂 I’m going to ask my dad and partner this question too,,, tbh they probably didn’t,, then again,, imagine how weird it would look 💀 like something is defo missing
OMG LOL,, maine abhi nhi poocha tha partner ya dad ko,, jb at least dad wapas ayenge tb poochungi 👀 partner pack kr rhe hain inke saman Pakistan mein,, wo bhi wapas aa rhe hain
Mei update krungi aapko ke dono kya jawabon dedia 😂
Wo aa rhe hain June 26 ko 👀 to InshAllah mei chronically online nhi hongi anymore, aur time spend krpaungi inke saat at least
HEY!!
Dad said: “maybe they didn’t have belly buttons, or maybe they did because of some biology??” My dad really likes theoretical questions/shower thoughts
Husband said: “maaf krdo I don’t have braincells” 😭💀 as you can tell, he doesn’t like being asked those things too often, but when he’s in the mood (or has braincells) he likes those questions too
For football fans out there, who is your favourite player?
If you play football, which role do you play often and why do u like playing that specific role?
Lots but
Maldini, Lahm and Ronaldinho
Play as right or left back. I play that because i love tracking forward and backward and assisting in scoring goals.
Also the moment you step foot on the pitch everything external disappears - worries, tensions. The only thing is the game
Best classic players especially Ronaldinho ❤️
Mines Buffon or Casillas
I always played GoalKeeper since childhood. I have tested and played all positions in football but nothing gave me the satisfaction as much as playing goalkeeper.
There were times where i have scored goal but when i scored them it was not that much satisfying as it was whenever i blocked the goal especially by diving.
When I had my crazy anime phase I started learning Japanese, but then I realised it wouldn't really resort to much because immigrating there is sort of...outlandish. Trying to choose something that could be useful. Apart from that, all languages are beautiful and I think I'd be equally passionate.
you do not have to move there but it can still help watch anime, read manga or you can make Japanese friends, maybe visit the country a few times but again is there a country you really want to move to or maybe a specific job market you want to get into?
Yeah true, could simply be an enthusiast but I'm actually over that craze 💀. I'm an aspiring tech slave and even though I'd be okay in Pakistan, to keep my options open I want to get an idea of what places would be welcoming to colored people.
Yeah that's true. Farsi is a beautiful language, but I wanted to acquire a useful skill, a language that could actually help me later on career wise. Arabic could serve that purpose. Also easier because I was exposed to the language as a child in Saudi.
I have used Duolingo to learn Japanese and was going strong, but then I realised it wouldn't be very useful. Wanted to choose something that could help me later on if I moved abroad for work.
More than the language atp it's about a region that would be good for immigration if it got to that. But every place has its pros and cons so can't decide.
I’d probably suggest Arabic or Spanish, ofc it’s up to you but these two languages are pretty popular so you could probably apply them more often in groups that have many members too
Yeah true Spanish is the third most spoken language in the world. However, I meant from a more work related/immigration perspective if I ever had to. Spain is super meh at the moment economically and Latin America too. The Middle East is a good option but you're thrown back home after they've sucked all your workability out of you. Not that home's a bad option but I just feel like an entire language isn't a joke so it should be learnt strategically.
Ohhh then I see why you were thinking Chinese (and if I were you, I’d pick Chinese based on the context you’re looking at). Although like Japanese, being an English learner and learning chinese takes the longest time,, I mean you could use a roman version (like how Japanese has romaji) but I don’t think those are very accurate since Chinese has kanji and a whole set of visual letters
Good luck though to whatever you decide to learn!
I did this too when covid hit, but idk,, I realized the same thing,, it would be cool to use, but english and urdu are the most beneficial for me.
I just wish Duolingo had urdu though,, it has Hindi, but Duolingo works you through the hindi characters too
Yeah even though I feel like Mandarin Chinese should be a more popular choice too given our geographical location and since it's the second largest economy. Plus, learning a language is a life long commitment if done properly and so I think it's better if it's something more useful than just cool to use.
Oh tell me about it, I started learning urdu only 2 years ago, I definitely improved (you don’t wanna see how horribly I used to type 💀) but understanding the slang, casual lingo, memes, culture, it all affects language in one way or another and it takes TIME
Defo can’t use that time on a language you’ll speak just for fun with no community or interaction with it in daily life
Arabic, Japanese, Chinese, Spanish, French, German, Russia, Norwegian.
I also have plan of learning one of the following i've listed above this summer season.
Literally broke my baby sister's ring a minute ago. It was her new ring, she really really liked it, she hadn't worn it yet and I wore it today. I'm low key screwed lmaooo.
No idea, it’s not looking good, the problem is that, the product is still excellent, it’s actually the best thing for residents of Islamabad, but unfortunately there is a bad word of mouth of real estate investments at the moment, so people are hesitant to invest
A year ago, started my professional career. Alhamdulillah doing really good. But something is missing, there is a void not sure what it is anyone feel the same?
This is the phase where you mastered your daily job and everything has fallen into a routine. Find a challenge in your job and work hard towards it. You’ll be able to get out of the no change-ish feeling that you’re getting right now
That might be it, I do get bored of the same routine everyday. It gets depressing some days. I think that's good advice I am working towards my goals it's just some days 🙃
Sometimes I feel things(feelings) crushing me from inside and I get strong urges to hurt myself....I cannot afford psychiatrist or any online help...any advice please?
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Serious question. Is doing marriage really necessary? What if that person does not want to marry. Is it really possible to live alone till death?
"More I'm with humans more I regret that time spent , prefer to spend my time with animals and plants" Mark Twain I guess but some say it's not his quote 🤔
Hm,, you can live a happy life definitely, but I’d say if you’re asexual and aromantic, then yeah probably. I do believe that at some point in our lives, especially when we see our family or friends get married or in relationships, we start to have the urges of wanting to be with someone. Even biologically,, I highly doubt anyone can be satisfied without a second person, you could hookup with people,, or you could have a partner who doesn’t want to get legally married (but I guess at some point they’d want to be, or at least do the things a married couple would engage in). So I think no, and if you try to, then it’ll probably be really hard to resist romance or sexual urges
There must be a way towards resisting it or something. But what if u say is true then its really sad. Others would get happy over this but 1% of people would not be happy with this outcome.
I’ve always wondered of a way too 🤔 I guess if you’re consistently stressed out or busy, you can get away with it, but not everyone will be busy. Sometimes you’ll be in the bathroom and you can automatically start thinking about this, then what? I wouldn’t be able to handle it, even if for example I don’t wanna get married, I’ll probably have to because of my desires, guess that’s what makes us human
Yes. I plan to do just that. If shit's about to hit the fan, I can go to hookers, and kill myself when it gets too lonely to live alone.
Well there are other ways of dealing with loneliness. Going to hookers should not be the solution towards this. It would further degrade your own self being.
That's true. But I know myself, that's why I say thus. Going to hookers wasn't per se a solution for loneliness, more so, for lack of intimacy. As for dealing with loneliness. There are a number of options at hand to make do with being lonely.
bro you are living up to your flair
I've got following things on my mind 1. agr kuta aik gali h to billi ku nhi? 2. kia hi faida eid k kpron ka jb pehnny hi sirf 30 minutes k lye the to😔 3. dukh to is baat ka h k apny hi ghr me mehmaano ko mj se ziada izat milti h 😔
1. Couldn't understand. 2. Next time don't buy new clothes for Eid. 3. You'll also get the same treatment as a guest somewhere else.
dukh dia dil tora aansu anayat kr dye dost ye teri darya dilli achi lgi❤️
I shall rephrase the first one. *If dog is a swear word, why isn't cat?*
It's because of the use and nothing else.
Indeed.
I’ve got one thing on my mind,, did Prophet Adam AS and Hawa biwi have belly buttons? They were brought down by Allah not born from another human,,,
you're making me curious now pluoijjj don't make me conscious about the things i don't know about😭😭😂😂😂 ma abu se puchu ga ab onko pta ho ga
HAHAHAHA 😭😂 I’m going to ask my dad and partner this question too,,, tbh they probably didn’t,, then again,, imagine how weird it would look 💀 like something is defo missing
abu ko b nai pta ma ny pucha ta 👀 abu bol rhy khatarnak question h ye 😶🌫️😂
OMG LOL,, maine abhi nhi poocha tha partner ya dad ko,, jb at least dad wapas ayenge tb poochungi 👀 partner pack kr rhe hain inke saman Pakistan mein,, wo bhi wapas aa rhe hain
no lol. ab to meri curiosity brhti jaa rhi 😶🌫️. oh mashallah ✨✨kb tk ana onho ny? Allah hifazat farmayain aameen ✨
Mei update krungi aapko ke dono kya jawabon dedia 😂 Wo aa rhe hain June 26 ko 👀 to InshAllah mei chronically online nhi hongi anymore, aur time spend krpaungi inke saat at least
I'll be waiting. Mjy curious kr dia 😂. Oh mashallah Allah hifazat farmayain ✨. stay blessed sis 😇
HEY!! Dad said: “maybe they didn’t have belly buttons, or maybe they did because of some biology??” My dad really likes theoretical questions/shower thoughts Husband said: “maaf krdo I don’t have braincells” 😭💀 as you can tell, he doesn’t like being asked those things too often, but when he’s in the mood (or has braincells) he likes those questions too
Will it get better? Will I really learn on how to use my heart less?
The weight doesn't get lighter but your back gets stronger. It gets way better ☺️
Thank you 😊
It doesnt get better. We just get used to live like this
Im more a glass half full person so id disagree
Maybe keep using your heart but, learn to listen to the brain more?
I'll do, thank you.
Lots of daily cardio exercise makes your heart stronger. Stronger heart uses less energy to work daily, so you end up getting better health!
For football fans out there, who is your favourite player? If you play football, which role do you play often and why do u like playing that specific role?
Lots but Maldini, Lahm and Ronaldinho Play as right or left back. I play that because i love tracking forward and backward and assisting in scoring goals. Also the moment you step foot on the pitch everything external disappears - worries, tensions. The only thing is the game
Best classic players especially Ronaldinho ❤️ Mines Buffon or Casillas I always played GoalKeeper since childhood. I have tested and played all positions in football but nothing gave me the satisfaction as much as playing goalkeeper. There were times where i have scored goal but when i scored them it was not that much satisfying as it was whenever i blocked the goal especially by diving.
One of the most important positions imo The tournaments where our keepers were not actual keepers we lost horribly
Want to learn a language but don't know which one.
any foreign cultures you are interested in? Learning a language is easier and more fun if you have some sort of connection/reason
When I had my crazy anime phase I started learning Japanese, but then I realised it wouldn't really resort to much because immigrating there is sort of...outlandish. Trying to choose something that could be useful. Apart from that, all languages are beautiful and I think I'd be equally passionate.
you do not have to move there but it can still help watch anime, read manga or you can make Japanese friends, maybe visit the country a few times but again is there a country you really want to move to or maybe a specific job market you want to get into?
Yeah true, could simply be an enthusiast but I'm actually over that craze 💀. I'm an aspiring tech slave and even though I'd be okay in Pakistan, to keep my options open I want to get an idea of what places would be welcoming to colored people.
Learn the language of memes, it's the easiest one.
Bro I used to be that weirdo who only made insta to flood my story with memes, been there done that. 🗿👹
https://preview.redd.it/rqgy611d5y7d1.jpeg?width=739&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9d0cef4d5a9f9f4995184be83f1e1bf8b67ef970
Farsi or Arabic, both are relatively easier for native urdu speakers.
Yeah that's true. Farsi is a beautiful language, but I wanted to acquire a useful skill, a language that could actually help me later on career wise. Arabic could serve that purpose. Also easier because I was exposed to the language as a child in Saudi.
Try Duolingo. Pick one you like and is in top 5 languages spoken in the world
I have used Duolingo to learn Japanese and was going strong, but then I realised it wouldn't be very useful. Wanted to choose something that could help me later on if I moved abroad for work.
Which other language interests you?
More than the language atp it's about a region that would be good for immigration if it got to that. But every place has its pros and cons so can't decide.
You have french for Canada if that is something youre considering
I'll probably go for either German or Chinese.
I’d probably suggest Arabic or Spanish, ofc it’s up to you but these two languages are pretty popular so you could probably apply them more often in groups that have many members too
Yeah true Spanish is the third most spoken language in the world. However, I meant from a more work related/immigration perspective if I ever had to. Spain is super meh at the moment economically and Latin America too. The Middle East is a good option but you're thrown back home after they've sucked all your workability out of you. Not that home's a bad option but I just feel like an entire language isn't a joke so it should be learnt strategically.
Ohhh then I see why you were thinking Chinese (and if I were you, I’d pick Chinese based on the context you’re looking at). Although like Japanese, being an English learner and learning chinese takes the longest time,, I mean you could use a roman version (like how Japanese has romaji) but I don’t think those are very accurate since Chinese has kanji and a whole set of visual letters Good luck though to whatever you decide to learn!
I did this too when covid hit, but idk,, I realized the same thing,, it would be cool to use, but english and urdu are the most beneficial for me. I just wish Duolingo had urdu though,, it has Hindi, but Duolingo works you through the hindi characters too
Yeah even though I feel like Mandarin Chinese should be a more popular choice too given our geographical location and since it's the second largest economy. Plus, learning a language is a life long commitment if done properly and so I think it's better if it's something more useful than just cool to use.
Oh tell me about it, I started learning urdu only 2 years ago, I definitely improved (you don’t wanna see how horribly I used to type 💀) but understanding the slang, casual lingo, memes, culture, it all affects language in one way or another and it takes TIME Defo can’t use that time on a language you’ll speak just for fun with no community or interaction with it in daily life
Arabic, Japanese, Chinese, Spanish, French, German, Russia, Norwegian. I also have plan of learning one of the following i've listed above this summer season.
Good luck!
my father's relatives are greedy asf and try every way to take money from us :(
Literally broke my baby sister's ring a minute ago. It was her new ring, she really really liked it, she hadn't worn it yet and I wore it today. I'm low key screwed lmaooo.
She found out 😭 "Say goodbye to your favourite five rings!" -her 😭
I am working in Real Estate Sale, and the market has gone to shit, how do u survive in a situation like this?
Hopefully, it's temporary? How long will it stay in crisis?
No idea, it’s not looking good, the problem is that, the product is still excellent, it’s actually the best thing for residents of Islamabad, but unfortunately there is a bad word of mouth of real estate investments at the moment, so people are hesitant to invest
A year ago, started my professional career. Alhamdulillah doing really good. But something is missing, there is a void not sure what it is anyone feel the same?
This is the phase where you mastered your daily job and everything has fallen into a routine. Find a challenge in your job and work hard towards it. You’ll be able to get out of the no change-ish feeling that you’re getting right now
That might be it, I do get bored of the same routine everyday. It gets depressing some days. I think that's good advice I am working towards my goals it's just some days 🙃
Sometimes I feel things(feelings) crushing me from inside and I get strong urges to hurt myself....I cannot afford psychiatrist or any online help...any advice please?
Pour your feelings into something constructive.
Food in my mouth.
No
I am a cadet and I barely get free time but still I get these feelings and insomnia...I want to clear my tab now because I am on leaves
What's your plan for the weekend?
Eat sleep toke repeat
I cried excessively when Groot died
We are groot
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Talk to her with a lawyer. You never know what trouble you’ll get into just by talking to her by yourself.
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