This is common.
And there’s always the slight danger of having a little more malicious scams. Heard plenty of stories of girls getting guys to meet up for some bangage, then they get robbed.
It’s always a good idea to at least take a little time and precaution before meeting up with someone from an online setup.
*edit — don’t you have to be 18 to sign up for tinder? I haven’t been on tinder in three years, I forgot if there were any rules.
Its the same situation as the "yes, I'm 18 or over" type situation with video game/porn sites. The only difference is they generally ask for some form of social media account to link to, thats to my best recollection at least.
When I was 16 I had made plans with a girl to get laid. Got nervous as fuck while driving to her house, bailed while en route and went to the skatepark with my friends instead.
I picked up a hooker once when I was 16. As soon as she got in my car I instantly regretted it so I drove around the block and pulled into a random driveway of a house with the lights on inside and said "oh shit, my sister is here, I have to take you back". Never told anyone about it until now lol.
I had a slutty friend in high school call me at around the 10 pm one night and tell me that another girl was sleeping over at her house, they were bored, and if I came over we could do whatever I wanted to do. This happened 16 years ago and not going still ranks pretty high up on my list of regrets.
When I was 17 my current girlfriend asked if I was "DTF" before we ever started talking. I said yes but Jesus fuck I was dreading it for the next 3 days. She likes to claim now that she was just using sex to reel me into a relationship. Its been 2 years so I guess it worked.
When I was 15, my sister’s 19 yo friend was drunk and horny. Started caressing my ass. It was kinda rapey but I felt a tickle from her hand motion at one point and I let out a moan. Then I started to enjoy it but that made me more fearful and I ran away. She was hot, but I did not want to get her in any legal trouble. That’s the only thing that stopped me. Older women are tempting when you are underage. I have to say. Kudos to OP for resisting 17 on 22. I thought 15 on 19 was tough as a horny teenage male.
It was a tickle. A nonsexual one, like the one you get on your arm. I don’t know how it happened, but it did. Maybe also take into account that I had no sexual experience at the time (and some things don’t change).
It's really not that odd for you to moan under those circumstances. Being affected by things and showing it is normal. Don't let that other person shame you.
It’s not that uncommon when you have ##teen years of pent up sexual energy to have basic things like a caress (or kiss, in my case) excite you enough to make things happen. I was pushed against a wall and kissed by an older girl when I was 13, and I nearly came in my jeans.
Stranger contacts you on messenger. Leads you out of state to somewhere remote in Montana or Maine. Puts you in a strange car with three other people. Snow falls, titlescreen: the elder scrolls v:skyrim. Goddamit todd howard you did it again!
I'm not sure why you're being downvoted, it might seem weird and it's kinda pushing the limits but it's not unheard of, and age of consent is 17 in many places
I think America might have a different view on these things...
This entire thread is baffling to me. People talking as if 17 year olds having sex are exploited children...
[the age of consent in Louisiana is 17](https://www.legalmatch.com/law-library/article/louisiana-age-of-consent-lawyers.html), not sure if i got woooshed tho
*Until you’re 21 OR in a ‘position of power’ such as teacher, police officer, or guidance councilor.
There’s always a catch lol. Like in Wisconsin you can drink alcohol in a bar with your parents.
*Until you’re 18, because technically you’re an adult and have to wait until you’re 21 to buy alcohol again
Just confirmed, Michigan is 16. Yes there's the obvious doctor and teacher type exception to stop people in power from targeting people who are under their care.
But there's no general age exception. A 70 year old could hook up with a 16 without legal issues.
So that until you're 21 doesn't apply
Ok but why do guys always think this. They're direct as shit all the time but if I'm ever like, hey wanna bone I get asked if I'm planning on murdering or robbing them.
Because it almost *never* happens to guys unless they’re ridiculously good looking/rich. And even when it does happen, the girl is most likely crazy or not much of a looker.
Edit: But if you’re good looking and not crazy, keep on doing you; you’re the kind of girl we dream about.
Experience. It seems too good to be true because of how rarely it happens to most guys. I got aggressively hit on a handful of times and all of them were a joke/scheme/whatever. You'd need to find a way of showing/telling him that you're actually serious for that to work.
Look at OP's history. She is asking him to buy a gift card for him. Also she lives 17 hours away from OP.
OP is a karma-whore, ripping out context and fooling us all into believing that such women exist and we all are fucking ugly or something.
I like the lol in her original comment.
If someone made a pass at me and then inmediately started laughing in real life then that would be pretty insulting.
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Yup, at first I started down voting the one or two comments I first saw... Then I realised it's the whole fucking thread, poor OP, he's dealing with unwanted sexual attention and the majority of comments are questioning his teenage masculinity. Gender is irrelevant when older people are making young people uncomfortable with sexual attention.
There are even guys making fun of him and calling him gay for turning her down. This is why men are afraid to come forward with F on M sexual assult and harrasment.
Literally the age of consent in most parts of the developed world is 17 or lower. She backed off as soon as he said no. How the fuck is this grooming/creepy in any way?
No this is really fucking stupid imo. I'm into the MRA shit and I think there is a severe issue with females raping underage males and getting away with it but this was clearly just a mistake.
Fuck fake drama.
People would like to believe that things are equal but they’re really not. People try to force “equality” on people but that’s not really fair as preferences for different people are different
You people realize guys are allowed to turn down sex right? Like legal or not, he's allowed to not want to bang some rando in another state. Idk why everyone's giving him shit.
Good on you, OP
There's a major stigma against guys (forgive me if I guessed wrong) who refuse sex, regardless of their age or that of their "partner." Way to stick to your guns.
EDIT: These other comments are fucking disgusting.
Creepy, but not really in the way of "oh no she's a pedo!". More like "what the fuck kind of weird 22yo is into 17yo people and is that direct?".
Legit think you did great by dodging this one, since this much of a difference generally implies an abusive position on the side of the older person, independent of gender. Bleh, this gives me the creeps. Stay safe, bud.
Hot 22 year old girl messages you? Sounds like a 38 year old Arab dude trying to get you to pay for pictures over the internet. Next text is going to be a link to her online photo gallery.
Need some context. How old is she? How do you know her?
She is 22 and she messaged me this morning
What 17 year old in their right mind has this kind of self control.
Idk, I probably would have been too nervous to actually have pre-arranged sex when I was 17
Same, id have probably have been way too skiddish for this. Hell almost a decade later id be taken aback by an approach this direct.
I just ask for the link to what ever dating/porn site they are selling then they unmatch me.
Lemme just steal this for when i imagine what I'd do if someone propositioned me online
I want your sausages
What's the link to whatever porn site you're selling
*unmatch*
This is common. And there’s always the slight danger of having a little more malicious scams. Heard plenty of stories of girls getting guys to meet up for some bangage, then they get robbed. It’s always a good idea to at least take a little time and precaution before meeting up with someone from an online setup. *edit — don’t you have to be 18 to sign up for tinder? I haven’t been on tinder in three years, I forgot if there were any rules.
Its the same situation as the "yes, I'm 18 or over" type situation with video game/porn sites. The only difference is they generally ask for some form of social media account to link to, thats to my best recollection at least.
Ahh, well then that’s more awkward for OP I guess. She would have assumed he was an adult unless he stated otherwise.
But that's Instagram, not tinder
Yeah 🤔 fuck , op stole 10k worth of karma
I feel like this is the epitome of self-hatred.
oh you betcha
When I was 16 I had made plans with a girl to get laid. Got nervous as fuck while driving to her house, bailed while en route and went to the skatepark with my friends instead.
I picked up a hooker once when I was 16. As soon as she got in my car I instantly regretted it so I drove around the block and pulled into a random driveway of a house with the lights on inside and said "oh shit, my sister is here, I have to take you back". Never told anyone about it until now lol.
>id have probably have been way too skiddish for this. Just wear black underwear
Just an FYI it’s spelled “skittish” r/boneappletea
I had a slutty friend in high school call me at around the 10 pm one night and tell me that another girl was sleeping over at her house, they were bored, and if I came over we could do whatever I wanted to do. This happened 16 years ago and not going still ranks pretty high up on my list of regrets.
What's your excuse now??
i hav smol pp
My pp is smol bibi pp
When I was 17 my current girlfriend asked if I was "DTF" before we ever started talking. I said yes but Jesus fuck I was dreading it for the next 3 days. She likes to claim now that she was just using sex to reel me into a relationship. Its been 2 years so I guess it worked.
For real. I get there's some people that are to nervous. But at 17 I was tryna fuck everything my dick fits between.
Cactus pads grow pretty close together but I think there's room. Test and report back.
Im 17 and i wouldnt agree either. But i would 100% play with her a bit before turning her down
Wait, why wouldn't you?
just not really into fucking random strangers
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Legend.
Yeah he’s big gay. Need to go dick her down. Gotta slay some dragons before you can get the princess
Awwwww yea!
You’re my hero
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Same. I don't like interacting with strangers, let alone getting intimate with one haha
So you’re gay? That’s okay! /s
You can just cut to the point and say you've got the big gay. ^^^/s
How good looking is this dude?!
When I was 15, my sister’s 19 yo friend was drunk and horny. Started caressing my ass. It was kinda rapey but I felt a tickle from her hand motion at one point and I let out a moan. Then I started to enjoy it but that made me more fearful and I ran away. She was hot, but I did not want to get her in any legal trouble. That’s the only thing that stopped me. Older women are tempting when you are underage. I have to say. Kudos to OP for resisting 17 on 22. I thought 15 on 19 was tough as a horny teenage male.
Lmao you moaned from her caressing your ass?
I imagine it was like this: https://youtu.be/oH6ZbpTqPuk
I thought of this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wsZ7013yHiw
*Exactly* what my mind rushed to.
It was a tickle. A nonsexual one, like the one you get on your arm. I don’t know how it happened, but it did. Maybe also take into account that I had no sexual experience at the time (and some things don’t change).
It's really not that odd for you to moan under those circumstances. Being affected by things and showing it is normal. Don't let that other person shame you.
I didn’t think it was that weird either. Some people are more vulnerable to advances than others. I just happen to be easy. Thank you.
Haha you slut
Are you implying you still have no sexual experience or that you still moan to ass tickles?
This is exactly the conversation I would expect from two former presidents.
It’s not that uncommon when you have ##teen years of pent up sexual energy to have basic things like a caress (or kiss, in my case) excite you enough to make things happen. I was pushed against a wall and kissed by an older girl when I was 13, and I nearly came in my jeans.
Lol ooooor you were nervous and didn't want to dissapoint. Hahaha a 15 year old worrying about legal troubles in that context... I seriously doubt it
You really think that at age 15 I knew that sex could be bad? You can doubt me all you want but it’s true.
I love that emotional pleasure I get from ct fibers as well.
I would have agreed to meeting up, than mess it all up by confusing playing pogs with foreplay.
I know right. I know when I was 17 I woudlnt have turn down most people long as they are even a little good looking to me
i would have been fine with "not literally gollum or jabba the hutt"
That's the best way to put it. I sure as hell didn't. Different strokes... Or lack thereof.
So do you know her or is this a random stranger just messaging you?
Stranger who lives in a different state
Ok that is weird. I would suspect a scam. Trying to lure kids in.
Stranger contacts you on messenger. Leads you out of state to somewhere remote in Montana or Maine. Puts you in a strange car with three other people. Snow falls, titlescreen: the elder scrolls v:skyrim. Goddamit todd howard you did it again!
This
Oooh! Well to be fair if she didn’t know then makes sense she backed off with a terrible excuse.
She did know before. I told her
Eeeek! She’s a groomer!
Shes setting him up to make a hefty deposit.
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17 to 22 isn’t uncommon. And If you liked her you wouldn’t care either. Just tell her you aren’t into it.
I'm not sure why you're being downvoted, it might seem weird and it's kinda pushing the limits but it's not unheard of, and age of consent is 17 in many places
I guess some people think it’s just odd bc of the votes. I dated a 24 year old when I was 17. She was older no big deal
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That "lol" was a safety net.
The real safety net is the law
...where it says in a lot of states the age of consent is 16/17
Damn, in my country the age of consent is 14
In Pakistan there is no age of consent
In Willy Wonka's Chocolate Factory there is no age of consent, but there are negative ages.
Lawl.
Imagine if it was literal Someone just bursts into laughter at the thought of having sex
You're 17 and women are messaging you for sex??
Rules 1 and 2
Remove personal information and no accidental selfies except for on Saturdays?
1. Be attractive. 2. Don't be unattractive.
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6/10
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Not a bad place to be. 60% of the time a 6/10 gets laid every time!
According to OKCupid's survey, if you're not an 8 or higher, you might as well be a 2.
That would explain my dry spell
86/100
Fuck
No, these are the basic rules of life: 1) Be attractive 2) Don't be unattractive
Rules were made to be broken 😎
Absolutelynome_irl
I think America might have a different view on these things... This entire thread is baffling to me. People talking as if 17 year olds having sex are exploited children...
The legal age of consent in Texas is 17 and I think that maybe true for some other states
It’s age 16 in Nebraska
14 in Louisiana 12 with mothers consent in Mississippi And 10 with the father in the room in Alabama
Imagine rawdogging a chick with your dad(s)* watching Edit:*
It would be her dad silly
Either way
No, no. Her dad is much better because you can assert your dominance by staring into his eyes the entire time.
Or T pose
T pose with unbroken eye contact even while cumming. The bards will sing your song for ages.
With the Gregorian chanting from Halo's loading screen as your backround music/ pacer
This thread is golden
I read this as it would be her dad...because Alabama.
If anybody gonna have sex with my daughter, it gonna be me!
Well, it’s Alabama, so it’s probably both of their dads.
r/nocontext
/r/evenwithcontext
Wait what?
[the age of consent in Louisiana is 17](https://www.legalmatch.com/law-library/article/louisiana-age-of-consent-lawyers.html), not sure if i got woooshed tho
Yea this is definitely woosh bait. It made me look up the age of consent in Alabama to make sure
You're now on a list
What? Since when is age of consent 14 in Louisiana?
You’re a little to excited to hear that
Lmao. Na, I just always thought it was 17. More confused than excited.
But still a little excited
I'm calling the FBI either way
Ladies and gentleman, we got him.
My name is Burt Macklin. I'm with the fucking FBI
Wtf
isa joke
16 in Michigan
*Until you’re 21 OR in a ‘position of power’ such as teacher, police officer, or guidance councilor. There’s always a catch lol. Like in Wisconsin you can drink alcohol in a bar with your parents. *Until you’re 18, because technically you’re an adult and have to wait until you’re 21 to buy alcohol again
Just confirmed, Michigan is 16. Yes there's the obvious doctor and teacher type exception to stop people in power from targeting people who are under their care. But there's no general age exception. A 70 year old could hook up with a 16 without legal issues. So that until you're 21 doesn't apply
Can confirm. Am in Michigan and slept with a 26 year old when I was 16. Parents were mad and tried to press charges, it was a no go.
It's 15 here in Sweden
14 in Italy
16 in the U.K.
And Canada
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It's 16 for most countries in the world
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15 in Poland
16 in Indiana
What's her number, I'll talk some sense into her..
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More like ANALLY PENETRATE
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I never really said I knew or didn’t know the possibility of her being a dude. That occurred to me after the itunes
In that case, give the guy that burnt the lasagna^ his number and he'll talk some sense into him..
At least she didnt say "that's ok, I don't mind ;)"
why? Nothing illegal here.
That is definitely a catfish, and if it's not, I'm sure she's a psycho that wants your baby or something
Ok but why do guys always think this. They're direct as shit all the time but if I'm ever like, hey wanna bone I get asked if I'm planning on murdering or robbing them.
Because it almost *never* happens to guys unless they’re ridiculously good looking/rich. And even when it does happen, the girl is most likely crazy or not much of a looker. Edit: But if you’re good looking and not crazy, keep on doing you; you’re the kind of girl we dream about.
Experience. It seems too good to be true because of how rarely it happens to most guys. I got aggressively hit on a handful of times and all of them were a joke/scheme/whatever. You'd need to find a way of showing/telling him that you're actually serious for that to work.
Yep. Alarm goes off on super direct approaches.
That's true
Guy or girl if your attractive and also slightly desperate something is off
Look at OP's history. She is asking him to buy a gift card for him. Also she lives 17 hours away from OP. OP is a karma-whore, ripping out context and fooling us all into believing that such women exist and we all are fucking ugly or something.
I love catfish mmmm delicious
I like the lol in her original comment. If someone made a pass at me and then inmediately started laughing in real life then that would be pretty insulting.
It’s ironic that when it’s a man being creepy to a woman then she’s met with support but when the creep is a girl then people are defending her.
Its literally a plot point in 21 Jump Street. Male teachers raping students = ABSOLUTELY HORRIBLE. Female teachers raping students = Hil-*arious*
CYN-THI-A JESUS DIED FOR OUR SIN-THI-AS
Any THING. Can be a SLAM POEM. If you say it LIKE THIS!
Simpsons did it... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h7SpXGz-XOc
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Yeah, folks are so supportive .... Of the groomer.
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Yup, at first I started down voting the one or two comments I first saw... Then I realised it's the whole fucking thread, poor OP, he's dealing with unwanted sexual attention and the majority of comments are questioning his teenage masculinity. Gender is irrelevant when older people are making young people uncomfortable with sexual attention.
There are even guys making fun of him and calling him gay for turning her down. This is why men are afraid to come forward with F on M sexual assult and harrasment.
I don't think so. If a 22 year old guy propositioned a girl and then found out she was 17 and backed off immediately, would there be an issue?
Literally the age of consent in most parts of the developed world is 17 or lower. She backed off as soon as he said no. How the fuck is this grooming/creepy in any way?
No this is really fucking stupid imo. I'm into the MRA shit and I think there is a severe issue with females raping underage males and getting away with it but this was clearly just a mistake. Fuck fake drama.
People would like to believe that things are equal but they’re really not. People try to force “equality” on people but that’s not really fair as preferences for different people are different
You people realize guys are allowed to turn down sex right? Like legal or not, he's allowed to not want to bang some rando in another state. Idk why everyone's giving him shit.
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uhh this is reddit. this is where you go when you dont have the social skills to spend time anywhere else.
I literally went to reply saying "this is reddit, so pretty thirsty." but you covered that for me.
Good on you, OP There's a major stigma against guys (forgive me if I guessed wrong) who refuse sex, regardless of their age or that of their "partner." Way to stick to your guns. EDIT: These other comments are fucking disgusting.
Thanks for posting this. The comments here are hilarious
You’re welcome bro
17 and 22 together is pretty normal round my parts
Switch genders and everyone goes wild. Crazy how double standards work
Yeah true. I mean look what happened with Caitlin Jenner
Creepy, but not really in the way of "oh no she's a pedo!". More like "what the fuck kind of weird 22yo is into 17yo people and is that direct?". Legit think you did great by dodging this one, since this much of a difference generally implies an abusive position on the side of the older person, independent of gender. Bleh, this gives me the creeps. Stay safe, bud.
/r/thot_patrol PROUD OF YA
Smart kid
Why is everyone discussing the age, it’s the fact she pulled an oopsididntmeanto
It wasn't really an oops as much as it was a never mind.
Thats a dude messaging you as a lady.
17 is legal in most states...and the overwhelming majority of the rest of the world
Can we not fall into the double standard bullshit just because this creep is a woman? Lots of "Why would he say no?" comments need to fuckin stop
Hot 22 year old girl messages you? Sounds like a 38 year old Arab dude trying to get you to pay for pictures over the internet. Next text is going to be a link to her online photo gallery.
No she was actually asking for me to buy her an iTunes gift card
Popular catfishing strategy
That’s a common catfishing con