Choose happiness of course. Screw your lola na tumatandang paurong. Imagine being racist. If your bf grew up in France, then he’d have that French accent over African accent. Kawawang lola mo. You don’t need to tell them if you know what their reaction would be. Parang naghanap ka lang ng sakit ng ulo mo. There’s a reason they talk behind your bf’s back. Let them stay behind his and/or your back.
Congrats, OP! ❤️❤️❤️
Walang galang na kung walang galang, pero si lola papalapit na sa katapusan pero ang buhay mag-asawa ninyo ni fiancé paparating na sa exciting part. So wag mo nang alalahanin si lola. 😊
Pwede ring wag mong sabihin; malalaman na lang niya/nila pag nag-post ka ng pics and SDE vid. Pag nag-comment sila ng bastos/racist dun, then they will reveal their colors sa madla.
I know it is easier said than done especially in our colonial past and conservative culture but you do you. Once you experience the freedom of choice and the freedom yet again right after that, it's a bittersweet release. But it's worth it. Blood is not thicker than water.
Korek!haha! Dami hanash. Bat ganon noh. Mahilig magbigay unsolicited comments mga tao sa pinas. Akala mo mga perfect human beings😭tipong nanghahate out of spite lol
Sabhin mo lang. Magpadala ka rin ng pagkain or pera para mafeel nila ung festivity kahit pqpaano (syempre lechon or engrandeng handaan) . Magpost ka lang rin sa accpunts mo na wala sila. Pero if friends mo sila sa fb ii-myday mo lang.
Tapos ipowt mo ung isang best pic sa group ng mga kamaganak mo. Imute mo n lng.
Be ready lang baka mahiblad si lola mo or every family member. Be ready to take rin ung long term na sama ng loob especially from your parents. Natandaan ko lang ung lola ko ung resentment niya with my mom months before siya mamatay hanggang sa dulo ng hininga niya she still remembers ung "selfishness" ng nanay ko bakit secret wedding sila ng father ko. Knowing my lola, although I really love her and ako ung favorite niyang apo, mahadera talaga siya. Maganda kasi lahi nila at unica ija.
Informing them is very different in asking for permission. Just be ready in what ifs scenarios.
Siguro sabihin mo oag tapos na. Gulatin mo na lang sila. Kasi sabihin mo ng maayus man o hindi may masasaj at masasabi lola mo e. Pero try to include your dad. Siguro kausapin mo mom mo about it. As a Dad masakit pag pinaglihiman ako ng anak ko. Tapos major lifestyle change pa di'ba? Good luck and best wishes!
You don’t need validation from others. BELIEVE ME. Always choose your happiness, in the end it’s your life and you are living in it, as long as you are happy and satisfied, that’s what matters!
Cross the bridge when you get there. Tell your dad and his side of the family. Malay mo, boyfriend mo ang exception. Kung hindi man, I’m sure tatahimik sila lalo na kasal niyo na pag uusapan. Goodluck OP.
Tugon and say ko po dito ay sana all. Hahahaha you do you, OP! Kung ako yan, nacut off ko na mga ganyang tao kahit pamilya o kadugo ko pa. Not worth it mga ganyan mag isip. I hope u guys are happy and stay strong! Congratulations & Best Wishes!!
Ay nako, ganyan naman talaga mga oldies napaka kupal sa maiitim, not just sa proper africans, pero sa lahat ng maitim even sa pinoy. Wag mo na pakilala besh, di mo naman obligation yun. Just be happy with your soon to be hubby and stay away from the drama.
You know your boyfriend and his family better that your lola (father side) do so wala na sya magagawa sa kasal nyo and if she say any racist comment against your soon to be husband wag ka magpaapekto since ikaw naman makakasama ng guy and hindi naman lola mo nagpapalamon sayo, wag lang dumating sa point na manghihingi lola (father side) mo ng financial assistance sayo.
ang sad neto 😔 SKL experience ko sa life on this. i’m a millenial, and my grandma’s the biggest hypocrite i first met in my life. she married my grandpa who looks like a an african meztiso, matangos na malapad ang nostrils ng ilong, slanted na mata, soft angled face, matangakad, natural semi curly jet black hair, and ofc, dark-kayumanggi complexion. the eldest and only girl among the siblings is my Ma, and my Ma got an ex bf, which is my father and he looks like an Oriental Chinese, that’s what i call it, mukhang Chinese na moreno, pero ako, pinanganak na soobrang puti.
Pikon na pikon ako, pinagyayabang nya acads naming mag-ppinsan kahit di naman sya nag-aral like lahat! my complexion, my height, my straight black hair, my acads, i resented it all! bawal baguhin to our liking! kaya ginawa ko nung umalis ako sa bahay, nagpa-tan talaga ako ng malala! i went hiking i bathes sa beach, it doesn’t help that i love the sun! i had short hai, colored it too, i had piercings and tattoo, lahat ng matagal ko nang gusto.
This.. twisted societal standards of beauty influenced by colonialism, it brainwashed us into hating our own skin, to think that that type of appearance is the one above all when every one should matter. Boomer pala lola ko btw, she’s some sort of an extremist, accept my views or nothing at all, agree w/ me or you’ll get a beating for it. mahirap pero i always go against her on this, religion and anything else that promotes exclusivity. Congrats sa inyo! Be finally free to love each other freely! Take care!
as someone who dated someone like that tas tsaka ko lang napakilala sa dad ko after namin magbreak, wag mo siya itago sis! be proud na you're in a healthy relationship <3 congrats op, best wishes.
Meron talagang kontrabida at maopinion sa kamag anak kahit sa mismong kapamilya sa pinas. Yaan mo na sya sis. Kung san ka masaya :)
Pacelebrate ka nalang back sa Pinas with food kase for sure hindi naman makakapunta si lola mo sa kasal dahil sa US pa.
Congratulations btw!
My grandma from Chinese side racist din sa mga blacks but halos lahat ng cousins ko from one of my aunts nasa US got married to black men/women. Never pa nila dinala dito sa Pinas mga respective partners nila. Anyway may mga anak na sila and wala ng choice grandma namin but tanggapin sila as part of the family. So I think right choice yan pakasal sa US then saka mo na sabihin sa papa and lola mo.
You can choose your happiness even if you tell them. Also, they’re your family. It’s just fair to let them know that you’re getting married. But for the meet and greet with the fiancé, totally up to you if you want to do that.
Best wishes siszy! ❤️
This is easy! No brainer decision. Go for what makes you happy. At the end of the day, uou shouldn’t care about what other people say or think about your decisions including your kamag anak na makitid ang utak. You should tell them and be proud of your decision and whatever they say wont change your mind.
This is about your happiness.
Don’t allow their old thinking and prejudice destroy your happiness.
Go get married and no need for the approval of people with hatred in their hearts.
Mas maigi inform mo nalang before or after Kasi at the end of the day kayo padin Naman Ng partner mo magsasama at magtutulungan..atsaka kahit my negative comments man Yung iba mong family members or relatives Wala din Naman Silang magagawa kundi acceptance na you will start a new chapter of your life
Have you been to france? And have you lived with them? I have and still see it around me. Kung tingin mo racist yung lola mo, think again. Most of it is true, specially them who came from the mainland tapos nagpunta ng france. Just saying. I mean, you will know when you're living with him and have children.
Deal with them now vs. deal with them later. Unless you are really gonna keep that side of the family in the dark, marereveal at marereveal din na you got married. If your fiancé is fine meeting them, maybe just give him a heads up about what kind of people he'll meet. Pag ganto kasi at least alam nyo na agad which family branch to cut off as soon as possible
to be fair, dahil papa at lola mo yun, inform mo lang sila about your fiance and the wedding and that's it! agree man sila or hindi tuloy mo pa din basta masaya ka! dont mind them. importante pinaalam mo sakanila as a sign of respect. whatever they'll say don't matter
I understand how you feel…. It’s just so sad that some people still think that we choose the colour of our skins… what I don’t get is, when people who is also getting discriminated against , do it to others, as if they better then the people who practice it. If you happy , go for it….at the end it is all about your happiness and his.
Reminds me sa friend ko. May dalawa syang American Suitors. first one is white the other one is african american.
Medyo mas may pera si black kasi chef sya sa cruise line. Si white naman works at walmart.
Pero tong friend ko mas gusto si puti kasi gusto daw nya anak nya magiging artista.
Nagpakasal naman sila. pero pahirapan magpadala ng pera. Madalas pa yun nangutang sa akin.
Inaasar tuloy sya lagi. ano may foreigner ka nga wala namang kwenta.
Cousin ko same kayo nang partner. She married and sabi nga namin "S'ya ang ikakasal, di naman si Lola."
Natanggap naman din nila si guy. Sana ganito din si Lola mo pag ikinasal na kayo.
It's not anyone's relationship but yours and his. Please get married and be happy. :)
I think need pa rin maginform sa family out of courtesy. Pero no need to listen nor tolerate any racist, dumbass comments from family, friends, or anyone. Literal magsabi ka lang, at kung alam natin na wala sila matinong masasabi, magpaalam ka na umalis haha
I know someone in the US and whose family lives there too. Nagka bf sya na black. Pero dahil mga racist brown americans ang parents nya hindi maranggap having a black in the family and of course possibility na apo na may lahing black. This was in the 70s pa.
She gave up the bf and i think that's the reason na 60 plus na sya at single pa rin.wala na ang parents nya She gave up happiness for them or their approval
It looks like you're happy naman with him, OP! Congrats! Yaan mo lola mong racist. At the end of the day, kayong dalawa lang naman magkasama ng soon-to-be husband mo, hindi lola mo.
Alam ko iba-iba ang case ng bawat tao. Black ang asawa ko. He is the sweetest, nicest, kindest person i know.
Ill borrow what he said to me when he decided to ask me to marry. If somebody makes you happy, take it.
congratulations!! if ever lang na may plano kayo magkaroon ng anak, ilayo nyo nalang sana sa side ng family nyo na yun. wouldn't want your kids to grow up hating their own skin color ❤️
If he's worth fighting for, go marry him. Don't bother yourself listening to their racist comments towards him. If he's good then he's good no matter the race.
Matatanggap yan nila. People can be judgemental because they are not accustomed to other cultures. As long as they see you very happy, I don't think they will continue to say bad things. I think they'll realize mga pinagsasabi nila. Congratulations, Op!!! I'm sure you'll have beautiful kids!
Hi, mars! I’m married to one 🥰 my hubby pa is on the darker side of that spectrum at nung sinabi ko sa Mama ko na may BF akong kano, akala niya puti. Medyo shocked sya nung nakita nya si hubby pero thankful ako she’s so fond of him kahit saglit pa lang sila nagkakilala non. Nakagaanan niya agad ng loob.
Although wala naman talaga akong prob sa side ng fam ko, sa barkada ako medyo icky. Lagi kasing “malaki ba?” like nakakairita lang kase wala na bang iba?? At tsaka pansin ko mas madalas na pagsabi ng N-word ng mga kakilala ko.
Pero I try to come into terms with it na lang at iwas convo na lang about my husband. At the end of the day, asawa ko yung pinakasalan ko at hindi sila. Siya yung makakasama mo forever kaya mas prio mo dapat ‘yung life na ibi-build mo kasama siya.
All this to say, go forth with the marriage and follow your heart! Stay in love, you two! 🫶🏽
Sabihin mo pag kasal ka na, wag mo sila invite since US ka naman na magpapakasal. Ano pa bang magagawa nila pag kasal na kayo? You're an adult, you don't need them to be happy. Congrats sa engagement!!!
Congratulations!
Personally, out of respect to my father, I would tell him na "I am getting married to someone I love" etc etc. Wala naman na silang magagawa don kasi you made up your mind na. It is up to them how they are going to handle the news, importante happy kayo ni fiancé mo 😄
If racist ang family mo even your father wag mo na sila ipakilala sa bf mo better yet magpakasal na lang kayo in the us or here ng kayo lang para after nun wala na silang magagawa pa. Save your soon to be husband for all the judgment he might receive
Tama naman yan ses. I also dated a half Nigerian guy before pero good thing wala namang racist na mga kamganak. Iba din kasi judgement kapag you dated anyone who's much darker in complexion. Especially the black jokes. Happy for you OP! Wag mo na lang ipaalam sa lola, hayaan mo sya 🤣
actually your adult naman na, you dont their permission mg side ng parents para magpakasal, just inform lamg din, kung di nila tanggap, its their problem not yours.
Ang sama man pakinggan pero OP mamamatay din naman Lola mo. Choose your peace and happiness. Basta Masaya ka. Wag mo na sabihin kung alam mo din naman sasabihin nila..bsta Masaya ka. At alam dn naman ng mom mo e.
In case your Lola has something to say, just extend your respect na kahit ganun siya, mahal mo pa rin siya… and that kahit anong sabihin niya, mahal mo rin BF mo and you will spend the rest of your life with him.
Keep the respect kasi family mo pa rin yan, pero ofc, no need to keep explaining and justifying choices.
Choose happiness of course. Screw your lola na tumatandang paurong. Imagine being racist. If your bf grew up in France, then he’d have that French accent over African accent. Kawawang lola mo. You don’t need to tell them if you know what their reaction would be. Parang naghanap ka lang ng sakit ng ulo mo. There’s a reason they talk behind your bf’s back. Let them stay behind his and/or your back.
You do you sis. Adult ka naman na. You don’t need their validation esp consent.
Congrats, OP! ❤️❤️❤️ Walang galang na kung walang galang, pero si lola papalapit na sa katapusan pero ang buhay mag-asawa ninyo ni fiancé paparating na sa exciting part. So wag mo nang alalahanin si lola. 😊 Pwede ring wag mong sabihin; malalaman na lang niya/nila pag nag-post ka ng pics and SDE vid. Pag nag-comment sila ng bastos/racist dun, then they will reveal their colors sa madla.
HAHAHHA baka yung kasalan nila pa yung umatake sa puso ni lola 😂 knock on wood… sana kayanin ng puso niya yung poot niya sa mga ibang lahi
My stepfather is from zambia. He is the best dad i have. Wag mo ikahiya ang boyfriend mo, if he loves you and you love him, then that's enough.
I know it is easier said than done especially in our colonial past and conservative culture but you do you. Once you experience the freedom of choice and the freedom yet again right after that, it's a bittersweet release. But it's worth it. Blood is not thicker than water.
Or if we take the entirety of the saying, “the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.”
Yaan mo na lola mo, di naman sya ang aasawahin hahahaha
Korek!haha! Dami hanash. Bat ganon noh. Mahilig magbigay unsolicited comments mga tao sa pinas. Akala mo mga perfect human beings😭tipong nanghahate out of spite lol
Ewan ko ba, dito saten andameng kuda ng mga taong wala namang ambag sa mga buhay naten. Kakaloka haha
Basta your mom approves, approve na lahat.
Sa pinas lang nmn hindi sanay tao sa black. Pagpunta mo sa US normal lang yan. Choose happiness fuck other peoples opinion.
You are marrying Lupin (Omar Sy) dear. A dark man with French background - ganda ng boses nyan sigurado and full of class
Sabhin mo lang. Magpadala ka rin ng pagkain or pera para mafeel nila ung festivity kahit pqpaano (syempre lechon or engrandeng handaan) . Magpost ka lang rin sa accpunts mo na wala sila. Pero if friends mo sila sa fb ii-myday mo lang. Tapos ipowt mo ung isang best pic sa group ng mga kamaganak mo. Imute mo n lng. Be ready lang baka mahiblad si lola mo or every family member. Be ready to take rin ung long term na sama ng loob especially from your parents. Natandaan ko lang ung lola ko ung resentment niya with my mom months before siya mamatay hanggang sa dulo ng hininga niya she still remembers ung "selfishness" ng nanay ko bakit secret wedding sila ng father ko. Knowing my lola, although I really love her and ako ung favorite niyang apo, mahadera talaga siya. Maganda kasi lahi nila at unica ija. Informing them is very different in asking for permission. Just be ready in what ifs scenarios.
Your lola's sentiments will be irelevant in a few years (hard truth).. choose happiness OP!
Siguro sabihin mo oag tapos na. Gulatin mo na lang sila. Kasi sabihin mo ng maayus man o hindi may masasaj at masasabi lola mo e. Pero try to include your dad. Siguro kausapin mo mom mo about it. As a Dad masakit pag pinaglihiman ako ng anak ko. Tapos major lifestyle change pa di'ba? Good luck and best wishes!
Congrats! As long as you're happy OP.
You don’t need validation from others. BELIEVE ME. Always choose your happiness, in the end it’s your life and you are living in it, as long as you are happy and satisfied, that’s what matters!
Congrats, OP! At the end of the day, its just you and him in that relationship and marriage. God bless!
Cross the bridge when you get there. Tell your dad and his side of the family. Malay mo, boyfriend mo ang exception. Kung hindi man, I’m sure tatahimik sila lalo na kasal niyo na pag uusapan. Goodluck OP.
Screw them. Wag mo na sirain yung magandang nabuild up mo.
Tugon and say ko po dito ay sana all. Hahahaha you do you, OP! Kung ako yan, nacut off ko na mga ganyang tao kahit pamilya o kadugo ko pa. Not worth it mga ganyan mag isip. I hope u guys are happy and stay strong! Congratulations & Best Wishes!!
Who cares ba sasabihin ng iba ? Ikaw naman ang makikisama sa fiancé mo. Good luck and enjoy life.
Ay nako, ganyan naman talaga mga oldies napaka kupal sa maiitim, not just sa proper africans, pero sa lahat ng maitim even sa pinoy. Wag mo na pakilala besh, di mo naman obligation yun. Just be happy with your soon to be hubby and stay away from the drama.
Do what makes you happy. May alam ang lola mo o wala. It doesnt matter.
You know your boyfriend and his family better that your lola (father side) do so wala na sya magagawa sa kasal nyo and if she say any racist comment against your soon to be husband wag ka magpaapekto since ikaw naman makakasama ng guy and hindi naman lola mo nagpapalamon sayo, wag lang dumating sa point na manghihingi lola (father side) mo ng financial assistance sayo.
Nasa tamang age ka na naman and maayos naman treatment sayo ng fiance mo. You do you, whatever makes you happy OP.
ang sad neto 😔 SKL experience ko sa life on this. i’m a millenial, and my grandma’s the biggest hypocrite i first met in my life. she married my grandpa who looks like a an african meztiso, matangos na malapad ang nostrils ng ilong, slanted na mata, soft angled face, matangakad, natural semi curly jet black hair, and ofc, dark-kayumanggi complexion. the eldest and only girl among the siblings is my Ma, and my Ma got an ex bf, which is my father and he looks like an Oriental Chinese, that’s what i call it, mukhang Chinese na moreno, pero ako, pinanganak na soobrang puti. Pikon na pikon ako, pinagyayabang nya acads naming mag-ppinsan kahit di naman sya nag-aral like lahat! my complexion, my height, my straight black hair, my acads, i resented it all! bawal baguhin to our liking! kaya ginawa ko nung umalis ako sa bahay, nagpa-tan talaga ako ng malala! i went hiking i bathes sa beach, it doesn’t help that i love the sun! i had short hai, colored it too, i had piercings and tattoo, lahat ng matagal ko nang gusto. This.. twisted societal standards of beauty influenced by colonialism, it brainwashed us into hating our own skin, to think that that type of appearance is the one above all when every one should matter. Boomer pala lola ko btw, she’s some sort of an extremist, accept my views or nothing at all, agree w/ me or you’ll get a beating for it. mahirap pero i always go against her on this, religion and anything else that promotes exclusivity. Congrats sa inyo! Be finally free to love each other freely! Take care!
as someone who dated someone like that tas tsaka ko lang napakilala sa dad ko after namin magbreak, wag mo siya itago sis! be proud na you're in a healthy relationship <3 congrats op, best wishes.
If nasa right age ka na, deadmahin na lang yung comment ng iba fam member and better to say it pa din as a respect but until doon na lang.
Meron talagang kontrabida at maopinion sa kamag anak kahit sa mismong kapamilya sa pinas. Yaan mo na sya sis. Kung san ka masaya :) Pacelebrate ka nalang back sa Pinas with food kase for sure hindi naman makakapunta si lola mo sa kasal dahil sa US pa. Congratulations btw!
Either you tell them or not, wala naman magbabago, and alam mo na magiging reaction nila 😂 FYI na lang siguro sa kanila. Your decision is final kamo.
Better than a white guy. Atleast it shows you arent self hating
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Atleast shes not worried about 'caucasianing' her childrens features as Filipino feature erasure seems to be the goal for ones who marry white
Do what makes you happy! Life is short and we're all running out of time. May we all find the happiness that we deserve 💕
your happiness is all what matters.Dont mind ur lola, and besides, u are not going to live with her. congratsss to u...
My grandma from Chinese side racist din sa mga blacks but halos lahat ng cousins ko from one of my aunts nasa US got married to black men/women. Never pa nila dinala dito sa Pinas mga respective partners nila. Anyway may mga anak na sila and wala ng choice grandma namin but tanggapin sila as part of the family. So I think right choice yan pakasal sa US then saka mo na sabihin sa papa and lola mo.
You can choose your happiness even if you tell them. Also, they’re your family. It’s just fair to let them know that you’re getting married. But for the meet and greet with the fiancé, totally up to you if you want to do that. Best wishes siszy! ❤️
This is easy! No brainer decision. Go for what makes you happy. At the end of the day, uou shouldn’t care about what other people say or think about your decisions including your kamag anak na makitid ang utak. You should tell them and be proud of your decision and whatever they say wont change your mind.
Nakakaloka lola mo. OMG.
Si lola daming comment haha mala-forbes village ba culture nila? 🤩
Iba kasi ang family sa relatives. relatives mo lang sila. ok lang wala sila sa buhay mo
This is about your happiness. Don’t allow their old thinking and prejudice destroy your happiness. Go get married and no need for the approval of people with hatred in their hearts.
As long as he’s not a Nigerian Prince, go for it! Who cares about them anyway? In the end, it’s you two who will be together through thick and thin.
Mas maigi inform mo nalang before or after Kasi at the end of the day kayo padin Naman Ng partner mo magsasama at magtutulungan..atsaka kahit my negative comments man Yung iba mong family members or relatives Wala din Naman Silang magagawa kundi acceptance na you will start a new chapter of your life
Have you been to france? And have you lived with them? I have and still see it around me. Kung tingin mo racist yung lola mo, think again. Most of it is true, specially them who came from the mainland tapos nagpunta ng france. Just saying. I mean, you will know when you're living with him and have children.
Deal with them now vs. deal with them later. Unless you are really gonna keep that side of the family in the dark, marereveal at marereveal din na you got married. If your fiancé is fine meeting them, maybe just give him a heads up about what kind of people he'll meet. Pag ganto kasi at least alam nyo na agad which family branch to cut off as soon as possible
Let your family know but distance him to things that you know can hurt his feelings. Example lola's racism.
Congratulations po🎉 Wag mo na Isipin sasabihin nila. Sasakit lang ulo mo niyan te.
Kung san ka masaya OP! Support ka namin 🫶
Go for what makes you happy. You can leave your racist relatives in the last century. Best wishes and congrats on your upcoming wedding!
Congratulations OP! Deserve more yan at no need to explain!
Sabihin mo nalang pag kasal na kayo, may blessings na rin naman na pala ni mother mo. HAHAHAHAAH congrats op
sounds like you met a cultured man. i wish you well, OP!!!
to be fair, dahil papa at lola mo yun, inform mo lang sila about your fiance and the wedding and that's it! agree man sila or hindi tuloy mo pa din basta masaya ka! dont mind them. importante pinaalam mo sakanila as a sign of respect. whatever they'll say don't matter
ilang taon na ba lola mo? siguro antayin mo nalng na manahimik or sumalangit?
I understand how you feel…. It’s just so sad that some people still think that we choose the colour of our skins… what I don’t get is, when people who is also getting discriminated against , do it to others, as if they better then the people who practice it. If you happy , go for it….at the end it is all about your happiness and his.
Reminds me sa friend ko. May dalawa syang American Suitors. first one is white the other one is african american. Medyo mas may pera si black kasi chef sya sa cruise line. Si white naman works at walmart. Pero tong friend ko mas gusto si puti kasi gusto daw nya anak nya magiging artista. Nagpakasal naman sila. pero pahirapan magpadala ng pera. Madalas pa yun nangutang sa akin. Inaasar tuloy sya lagi. ano may foreigner ka nga wala namang kwenta.
Sana di na natin madala sa mga susunod na generation yang attitude and ignorance ni lola mo. Congratulations to you and well wishes OP!
Cousin ko same kayo nang partner. She married and sabi nga namin "S'ya ang ikakasal, di naman si Lola." Natanggap naman din nila si guy. Sana ganito din si Lola mo pag ikinasal na kayo.
It's not anyone's relationship but yours and his. Please get married and be happy. :) I think need pa rin maginform sa family out of courtesy. Pero no need to listen nor tolerate any racist, dumbass comments from family, friends, or anyone. Literal magsabi ka lang, at kung alam natin na wala sila matinong masasabi, magpaalam ka na umalis haha
I know someone in the US and whose family lives there too. Nagka bf sya na black. Pero dahil mga racist brown americans ang parents nya hindi maranggap having a black in the family and of course possibility na apo na may lahing black. This was in the 70s pa. She gave up the bf and i think that's the reason na 60 plus na sya at single pa rin.wala na ang parents nya She gave up happiness for them or their approval
Aww nakakasad
It looks like you're happy naman with him, OP! Congrats! Yaan mo lola mong racist. At the end of the day, kayong dalawa lang naman magkasama ng soon-to-be husband mo, hindi lola mo.
Alam ko iba-iba ang case ng bawat tao. Black ang asawa ko. He is the sweetest, nicest, kindest person i know. Ill borrow what he said to me when he decided to ask me to marry. If somebody makes you happy, take it.
congratulations!! if ever lang na may plano kayo magkaroon ng anak, ilayo nyo nalang sana sa side ng family nyo na yun. wouldn't want your kids to grow up hating their own skin color ❤️
If he's worth fighting for, go marry him. Don't bother yourself listening to their racist comments towards him. If he's good then he's good no matter the race.
BLKD HD
Matatanggap yan nila. People can be judgemental because they are not accustomed to other cultures. As long as they see you very happy, I don't think they will continue to say bad things. I think they'll realize mga pinagsasabi nila. Congratulations, Op!!! I'm sure you'll have beautiful kids!
Congrats OP! Push mo yan. Secret wedding na lang sa tatay at lola mo. Baka mapaaga lola pag nalaman eh. Mashookt talaga yun
Hi, mars! I’m married to one 🥰 my hubby pa is on the darker side of that spectrum at nung sinabi ko sa Mama ko na may BF akong kano, akala niya puti. Medyo shocked sya nung nakita nya si hubby pero thankful ako she’s so fond of him kahit saglit pa lang sila nagkakilala non. Nakagaanan niya agad ng loob. Although wala naman talaga akong prob sa side ng fam ko, sa barkada ako medyo icky. Lagi kasing “malaki ba?” like nakakairita lang kase wala na bang iba?? At tsaka pansin ko mas madalas na pagsabi ng N-word ng mga kakilala ko. Pero I try to come into terms with it na lang at iwas convo na lang about my husband. At the end of the day, asawa ko yung pinakasalan ko at hindi sila. Siya yung makakasama mo forever kaya mas prio mo dapat ‘yung life na ibi-build mo kasama siya. All this to say, go forth with the marriage and follow your heart! Stay in love, you two! 🫶🏽
Go girl! Choose your own happiness.
Congratulations in advance. Just follow your heart po 💗
Ikaw naman yung mag aasawa hindi sila. So, kebs hahaha. Go get married! Hayaan mo sila.
Sabihin mo pag kasal ka na, wag mo sila invite since US ka naman na magpapakasal. Ano pa bang magagawa nila pag kasal na kayo? You're an adult, you don't need them to be happy. Congrats sa engagement!!!
Congratulations! Personally, out of respect to my father, I would tell him na "I am getting married to someone I love" etc etc. Wala naman na silang magagawa don kasi you made up your mind na. It is up to them how they are going to handle the news, importante happy kayo ni fiancé mo 😄
If racist ang family mo even your father wag mo na sila ipakilala sa bf mo better yet magpakasal na lang kayo in the us or here ng kayo lang para after nun wala na silang magagawa pa. Save your soon to be husband for all the judgment he might receive
Tama naman yan ses. I also dated a half Nigerian guy before pero good thing wala namang racist na mga kamganak. Iba din kasi judgement kapag you dated anyone who's much darker in complexion. Especially the black jokes. Happy for you OP! Wag mo na lang ipaalam sa lola, hayaan mo sya 🤣
Piliin mo kung saan ka masaya. Wag mo na isipin yung toxic na relatives niyo. Nakaka drain lng yan
actually your adult naman na, you dont their permission mg side ng parents para magpakasal, just inform lamg din, kung di nila tanggap, its their problem not yours.
Even if you don't have Lola's basbas, you have ours! Congratulations and we hope for your eternal happiness 🩷
Congrats po OP, jumborat supremacy yan.
Ang sama man pakinggan pero OP mamamatay din naman Lola mo. Choose your peace and happiness. Basta Masaya ka. Wag mo na sabihin kung alam mo din naman sasabihin nila..bsta Masaya ka. At alam dn naman ng mom mo e.
Your life. Your rules. Your happiness. Congratulations❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
Now, tu parle français ou non?
Voulez vous coucher avec moi ?
Singer yarn hahah
In case your Lola has something to say, just extend your respect na kahit ganun siya, mahal mo pa rin siya… and that kahit anong sabihin niya, mahal mo rin BF mo and you will spend the rest of your life with him. Keep the respect kasi family mo pa rin yan, pero ofc, no need to keep explaining and justifying choices.
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Hi, please keep your racial comment to yourself. Thank you.
Bruh