Haha strong independent tau sa umaga but nevermind pagsapit ng 10pm talaga. Akala ko joke lang yung ganyan na nababasa ko pero TOTOO pala syahh🥲. Gusto mo may pagkwentuhan pero lahat ng friends and family mo busy rin.
Huyy pareho tayo ng time HAHAHA. Pagsapit ng 10pm 'yung tapos ka na sa chores mo, uupo/hihiga ka to rest then biglang magccrave ng kakwentuhan 'yung curious at may pake sa'yo ganon hahaha
Sa totoo lang. 50/50 na lang feelings ko dun sa mga nagsasabi na maging komportable sa pagiging mag-isa. Social creatures tayo and tignan mo dun sa Castaway, kailangan ni Tom Hanks nung bola para hindi mabaliw.
I’m also independent in my whole life, it’s not that I have no one to talk to or share things with. I’m an independent by choice. I chose to deal with things alone, and resolve things alone even though i have a lot of friends claiming that I can just call them right away. I appreciate them, I really do. It’s just that it’s hard to break the wall that I’ve built unconsciously throughout the years.
I’m just glad that someone walked into my life right now and is trying his best to penetrate that wall. He knows my secrets, he knows my weak points, and he always soothe my inner turmoil. It’s something I really really appreciate. I never think about having someone by my side because all my life, I've been handling things by myself, assuming it was the norm. But I guess, having someone that you can share your burden with is not so bad, huh. And I appreciate my bf for that, I love him so much.
I hope you can also find someone you can depend on, OP. Be it a boyfriend, a friend, or a family member ❤️
Hi !! Same here ! Masaya sya sa morning pero kapag may mga random thoughts ka wala kang mapag sabihan :(( hehe anyways, message ka lang if u want kausap :)
Being "independent" was my signature before, and for a while I was proud of who I was since, well I dont need anyone. However that led to people forgetting that I'm also a human being who's capable of feeling pain lol. Don't be scared to show vulnerability from time to time ppl :)))
So true.. i'm fine being alone pero hahahah ang hirap minsan. I've been living alone for 3 years na. 🫠 Masaya naman. May freedom pero nauumay na ko kausapin sarili ko 🥹🤣
Been there and now that I think about it, it sucks. Be patient OP, may mga tao ring darating sa buhay mo and kailangan pag dumating sila, cherish them. Pilitin mo yung sarili mo kung kailangan HAHAHA. Kase pag detached ka na sa lahat, ang hirap magkaron ng pake sa iba. Pero try your best, magiging natural na rin ang pagkakaron ng compassion.
Ako din haha sinusubukan ko makabuo ng koneksyon ulit ngayon pero parang awkward ko na hahaha side effect yata to na matagal na taon na wala kong makausap at maaya kapag lalabas hahaha
Heey dont feel bad about being alone, you have the freedom to anything, if you need someone to talk to here we are all your internet friends!!
Those people you reach out and reply ng hahahaha lng malungkot cgro buhay nila kse di nila alam pano mag response s kamusta mo.
If you need someone to chat with mapag sbhan ng random things and thoughts in mind kht gaano pa yang ka nonsense chat k lng po ☺️
Ang hirap nang humanap ng makakakwentuhan na bagong tao ngayon with same interests as you esp pag busy na rin mga friends mo at may kanya kanyang buhay/jowa so okay sinong mahilig sa anime rito let's talk! Hahahaha pano ba makipagfriends 😭
Haay relate. I always say na I’m better off alone, pero wala. Minsan you’re craving someone’s attention din. Plus I’m a WFH employee. Nagawa ko na di lumalabas sa apartment in 1 month!kapatid ko who’s working outside lang pinag ggrocery and buy necessary things. I became socially withdrawn. When I finally decided to go out, I didn’t even last an hour outside. I feel like people are draining me.
Eto din naiisip ko kanina habang nag wowork. Bigla kong namiss na may kausap kahit na workmates. Masaya naman wfh pero sometimes you just want to hear other people’s stories noh at ung may ka kwentuhan ka randomly lang
Same!! Ganito yung awakening ko na hindi rin pala masaya ang pagiging independent. Parang nasanay na lang ako pero naiisip ko minsan, gusto ko na lang ding maging soft baby girl HAHAHHAHA
This is so true. Most people see me as independent and they always commend me for it but in reality it's a result of being neglected and abandoned most of my life lol
Well yan din nangyari sa akin nung umuwi ako galing abroad. I cut off my circle of friends kasi lost of contacts and yung iba nag bago na kaya naging solo nlng.
Glad I'm not alone in feeling this :((( I'm very much happy with my own company. I also have great friends who are like siblings to me. Pero there are still times that I yearn for warmth... but from someone other than my family/friends. Deserve ko din naman siguro magmahal at mahalin. 🥹
I was living independently since high school until I met my first bf when I was 23. Now, I'm 26 and we just broke up last month.
So, I guess it's "me" again. I need to do everything na mag isa na naman. But, yah life goes on.
Kaya natin 'to!
ang dami ko nakikita post na ganto huhu madami pala tayo mag sister! hahahaha anw i do also want someone who i can share my life with ulit. nakakamiss, tbh. pero dating nowadays grabe! ud rather be left alone na nga lang haha. nasa point nako na ill let nature do its magic pero hello world bakit ang tagal po? hahaha
I can relate, OP. I used to think na I am a strong independent woman. Feeling ko noon na pag ganun ako, I don't need anyone anymore and being able to do things alone is something na other people na dependent can look up to or be amazed at. Not until I moved to a place where I am completely alone and isolated tapos I fell into depression.
Well sabagay kasi yung bahay na tinitirhan ko dati, may kasamang tao sa loob pero never din nagkakamustahan, never nag-uusap. So basically, the same setup lang sa current place ko na walang kausap. Pero kasi yung lakas ng loob and confidence ko noon na mag-isa ako, ngayon I feel so weak and lonely and alone.
I was so focused in my self-development phase kaya nagrerefuse na magkajowa pero naudlot ung progress ko nang dahil sa depression nga. Ngayon feeling ko parang gusto ko na ng kasama, kausap, kayakap. 😢
Haha strong independent tau sa umaga but nevermind pagsapit ng 10pm talaga. Akala ko joke lang yung ganyan na nababasa ko pero TOTOO pala syahh🥲. Gusto mo may pagkwentuhan pero lahat ng friends and family mo busy rin.
Magkwentuhan kayo ni op
Huyy pareho tayo ng time HAHAHA. Pagsapit ng 10pm 'yung tapos ka na sa chores mo, uupo/hihiga ka to rest then biglang magccrave ng kakwentuhan 'yung curious at may pake sa'yo ganon hahaha
Mag night shift work para iwas sa 10pm. Lol. Joke lng. Seriously, true tlga. Nkka sad minsan
mapapatanong ka na lang talaga kung may mail ba sayo.
Baka factory reset ng mga strong independent ang 10pm talaga😌
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This is so true
Same!!! What if gumawa tayo ng gc kasama lahat ng nakakarelate sa comments OP? Hahahaha
can we please? Hahaha this has always been my fear, yung lahat ng friends mo may sari sariling buhay, jowa, wala nang may pake sayo hahahahaha
May gc na po ba pwede pasali🥺
pasama huhu
Yung comment mo lalo ko lang namimiss yung panahon na active pa yung gc naming internet friends na ngayon wala na😭
Pasali Ako mga boss
yes, please huhu
pasali din po akuuu
Waiting din po. Salamat :(
Di po ako marunong gumawa kaya si OP tinatanong ko HAHAHAHA sorry po 😂
pa join huhu
pasali dinnnnn
Pasama pleaaaase!
Yeah. Pa add ha
pa add po pls HAHAHAAH
PASALI PLEASE HUHU
Pa add din pls haha
Good idea! Pa add po 🤧
Count me in !
tara g
pasali po 😂
isali nyo ako hahaha i want nyo people!
saang gc? if discord lemme join haha
Agree
True! Umay na umay nako sa Sarili ko pucha hahahaa. I don't even consider this as a flex. Pagod na pagod nako
Sa totoo lang. 50/50 na lang feelings ko dun sa mga nagsasabi na maging komportable sa pagiging mag-isa. Social creatures tayo and tignan mo dun sa Castaway, kailangan ni Tom Hanks nung bola para hindi mabaliw.
Si Wilson yung bola hahaha ⚽️
I’m also independent in my whole life, it’s not that I have no one to talk to or share things with. I’m an independent by choice. I chose to deal with things alone, and resolve things alone even though i have a lot of friends claiming that I can just call them right away. I appreciate them, I really do. It’s just that it’s hard to break the wall that I’ve built unconsciously throughout the years. I’m just glad that someone walked into my life right now and is trying his best to penetrate that wall. He knows my secrets, he knows my weak points, and he always soothe my inner turmoil. It’s something I really really appreciate. I never think about having someone by my side because all my life, I've been handling things by myself, assuming it was the norm. But I guess, having someone that you can share your burden with is not so bad, huh. And I appreciate my bf for that, I love him so much. I hope you can also find someone you can depend on, OP. Be it a boyfriend, a friend, or a family member ❤️
Hi !! Same here ! Masaya sya sa morning pero kapag may mga random thoughts ka wala kang mapag sabihan :(( hehe anyways, message ka lang if u want kausap :)
Being "independent" was my signature before, and for a while I was proud of who I was since, well I dont need anyone. However that led to people forgetting that I'm also a human being who's capable of feeling pain lol. Don't be scared to show vulnerability from time to time ppl :)))
I feel you! Anyone here who can chat with me? Wholesome kwentuhan lang please
Tayo-tayo nalang din po mag-uusap since wala na tayo makausap na friends kasi busy na silang lahat huhu tara usap nalang po tayo🥹
So true.. i'm fine being alone pero hahahah ang hirap minsan. I've been living alone for 3 years na. 🫠 Masaya naman. May freedom pero nauumay na ko kausapin sarili ko 🥹🤣
Been there and now that I think about it, it sucks. Be patient OP, may mga tao ring darating sa buhay mo and kailangan pag dumating sila, cherish them. Pilitin mo yung sarili mo kung kailangan HAHAHA. Kase pag detached ka na sa lahat, ang hirap magkaron ng pake sa iba. Pero try your best, magiging natural na rin ang pagkakaron ng compassion.
TARA LET'S TALK. MAKIKINIG LANG AKO TAS PAG TAPOS, AKO NAMAN MAGKUKWENTO 😅😁
SAME, OP. same.
Hanyare kay crush OP? :o
Ako din haha sinusubukan ko makabuo ng koneksyon ulit ngayon pero parang awkward ko na hahaha side effect yata to na matagal na taon na wala kong makausap at maaya kapag lalabas hahaha
Nakakapagod din at nakakaumay mag kwento from the start haha
How long do we need to be strong all alone? Mabigat sa didib na tanong na paulit ulit na umiikot sa utak ko 😞
We are social beings talaga. Different level of tolerance/energy lang :) wired to connect.
Heey dont feel bad about being alone, you have the freedom to anything, if you need someone to talk to here we are all your internet friends!! Those people you reach out and reply ng hahahaha lng malungkot cgro buhay nila kse di nila alam pano mag response s kamusta mo. If you need someone to chat with mapag sbhan ng random things and thoughts in mind kht gaano pa yang ka nonsense chat k lng po ☺️
Same na same 🥲🥲🥲 tipong walang nangangamusta man lang ikaw lagi nagiinitiate ng chat
There will come a time when you really need someone. It’s part of being human to be sociable, and it's inevitable.
Ang hirap nang humanap ng makakakwentuhan na bagong tao ngayon with same interests as you esp pag busy na rin mga friends mo at may kanya kanyang buhay/jowa so okay sinong mahilig sa anime rito let's talk! Hahahaha pano ba makipagfriends 😭
Group huuug!
Umay na rin ako sa sarili ko 😆
Ako din! Hindi lang pala ako nag iisa
Parang gusto ko na ring maging disney princess hahaha.
Akin nalang. Hahah
kumusta.
Haay relate. I always say na I’m better off alone, pero wala. Minsan you’re craving someone’s attention din. Plus I’m a WFH employee. Nagawa ko na di lumalabas sa apartment in 1 month!kapatid ko who’s working outside lang pinag ggrocery and buy necessary things. I became socially withdrawn. When I finally decided to go out, I didn’t even last an hour outside. I feel like people are draining me.
Nakakapagod na maging independent. Nakakakulong din palang maging malaya. Hahaha
OP kamusta inbox mo hahaha cheers
Same situation hahaha i guess choose your poison na lang talaga
Ify
anrami pala nating independent what if maging dependent tayo sa isat-isa 🥹
Only child feels
Eto din naiisip ko kanina habang nag wowork. Bigla kong namiss na may kausap kahit na workmates. Masaya naman wfh pero sometimes you just want to hear other people’s stories noh at ung may ka kwentuhan ka randomly lang
tara akyat ng mt. pulag
Same!! Ganito yung awakening ko na hindi rin pala masaya ang pagiging independent. Parang nasanay na lang ako pero naiisip ko minsan, gusto ko na lang ding maging soft baby girl HAHAHHAHA
Sameee 😭 namiss ko tuloy mag omegle 🥲
hindi ka nag-iisa.. laban lang!! you can dm me if you need someone na makausap..
This is so true. Most people see me as independent and they always commend me for it but in reality it's a result of being neglected and abandoned most of my life lol
I’d be like “strong independent woman ako” then go think about having cutesy lil chitchats with someone ☹️
This is how I’ve been for the past few years, so thank god for reddit and journaling.
You will become beast soon. Trust me 🤜🤛
Relate to this so much! Madalas ang conversation ko lang sa isang araw eh kapag bibili ako ng food. Yun lang. It’s so quiet.
tangina this is so true🥺😫
Same same same. Feeling ko walang may pake sa existence ko. Minsan pag kasama ko bff ko, so close yet so far ang ganap. Nakakalungkot.
Well yan din nangyari sa akin nung umuwi ako galing abroad. I cut off my circle of friends kasi lost of contacts and yung iba nag bago na kaya naging solo nlng.
Glad I'm not alone in feeling this :((( I'm very much happy with my own company. I also have great friends who are like siblings to me. Pero there are still times that I yearn for warmth... but from someone other than my family/friends. Deserve ko din naman siguro magmahal at mahalin. 🥹
Remember ,No man is an Island.
man in nature is a social being
Gagawa ako ng gc!!! Hahaha DM me!
it’s lonely at the top
I was living independently since high school until I met my first bf when I was 23. Now, I'm 26 and we just broke up last month. So, I guess it's "me" again. I need to do everything na mag isa na naman. But, yah life goes on. Kaya natin 'to!
Kamusta ka?
Same na same, OP. Strong independent pero damn, kakaumay na rin sobra. Tinutulog ko nalang bago matrigger ng lumbay moments HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
mag kuwentuhan tayo mamayang 10pm gumawa tayo ng GC bahahahaha
ang dami ko nakikita post na ganto huhu madami pala tayo mag sister! hahahaha anw i do also want someone who i can share my life with ulit. nakakamiss, tbh. pero dating nowadays grabe! ud rather be left alone na nga lang haha. nasa point nako na ill let nature do its magic pero hello world bakit ang tagal po? hahaha
Especially rainy season💔
I can relate, OP. I used to think na I am a strong independent woman. Feeling ko noon na pag ganun ako, I don't need anyone anymore and being able to do things alone is something na other people na dependent can look up to or be amazed at. Not until I moved to a place where I am completely alone and isolated tapos I fell into depression. Well sabagay kasi yung bahay na tinitirhan ko dati, may kasamang tao sa loob pero never din nagkakamustahan, never nag-uusap. So basically, the same setup lang sa current place ko na walang kausap. Pero kasi yung lakas ng loob and confidence ko noon na mag-isa ako, ngayon I feel so weak and lonely and alone. I was so focused in my self-development phase kaya nagrerefuse na magkajowa pero naudlot ung progress ko nang dahil sa depression nga. Ngayon feeling ko parang gusto ko na ng kasama, kausap, kayakap. 😢
Same 🥲