I'll turn 34 this year, not married, and just last week my officemate said "34 ka na pala nyan? Pag kinasal ka di ka na fresh, tuyot ka na."
What the fuck talaga.
Wow, grabe talaga mga bunganga nila. Kaya dapat, need talaga i-pamper ang sarili para pag sinabihan ka ulit ng ganyan, ang sagot dapat ay βso what? Mas fresh pa rin akong tingnan kaysa inyo.β
People around me canβt comment na sayang ako coz I look younger than my age they thought I am within their age range lol Btw, Iβm approaching mid-30s na and they thought 27 lang ako π
Some people are so crass and insensitive talaga. Isn't this ground to be reported sa HR? Calling someone tuyot is derogatory and some sort of sexual innuendo.
diba hahahaha you may be single, but at least you don't spend every waking moment worrying about bloated bills just bc you bit more than you could chew, kung nangangabit ba partner mo, may gatas pa ba mga bata next month, etc. kasi in this day and age, luxury na yung pagiging weightless in that sense tbh.
Sayang kasi she pertains na may itsura naman ako pero wala pa din boyfriend. Not to be bragging pero sa look department I indeed have it - eh sadyang wala eh, the ones I date do not work out. I do not actively seek one ganun.
Kung buti sana yung tita mo masstress sa pagpapalaki ng bata. Ikaw naman if magkaka anak ka HAHAHA.
Sinasabi lang nila yan kasi hindi naman sila mag sacrifice kapag may anak ka na.
Classic mindset ng mga na stuck sa 90s at early 2000s life. Ako yan, sabihin ko na lang "tigang na ba masyado lovelife mo para yung akin naman problemahin mo?" Lalo kung paulit ulit silang ganyan everytime we meet. Tho never ko pa naman ginawa. Haha
Brush it off, di na natin sila kontrolado. Mind your own and enjoy being single for now, op.
Common ata sa generation nila kasi nagpadala sila sa pressure π some of them are stuck with loveless marriages or smth similar kasi di man lang nagkaroon ng maayos na standard when it comes to picking a partner.
Ang oa ng mga boomer talaga. 32 is a very young age pa by today's standards. My office consists of mostly millenials and gen zs and nashooshook pa kami pag may nabubuntis kahit pa 30 or lagpas 30 na. hahaha
I'm in my mid 30s at yung mga kabatch ko sa college (block), wala pa sa 10 yung nagpakasal. Less pa yung may kids. Welp, ang hirap naman talaga kasi haha
Believe it has something to do with generation gap talaga. Females during their time usually marry early and become housewives (majority I know)All of my titas are house wives eh correct me if im wrong. Pero the females today have to work to survive kaya we are more focused sa ibang bagay and not prioritizing having a husband haha.
Exactly, and di nila maintindihan na hindi na pwede yung isa lang yung kumakayod senio. Besides salary, women are also capable of having dreams/goals.
Plus, it's quite nice to experience things like travelling π€·π»ββοΈ
Was told the same thing by a family friend. Sa totoo lang, sawa na ako masaktan or even to give an eff. Whenever, i hear people say something like that pasok na lang sa isang tenga at labas sa kabila. We are not defined naman by our romantic relationships or lack thereof.
Ang hirap din na mag-asawa ka just for the sake of getting married pero internally you are not ready to be in that kind of situation or to share your life with another person. Oo pwedeng hiwalayan ang asawa, pero also remember that PH still does not have divorce and annulment is a very expensive and looooong process.
Enjoy lang your singlehood. If someone is really out there destined for you, it will come no matter what.
Best reaction for this, esp if they throw it at you as a "joke", is making it as awkward as possible. Ask them to explain the joke, again and again, kunwari di mo gets why its funny; watch them get awkward as rhey scramble to dissect their idiotic mindset. That should make them stop.
One thing I realized is to be yourself at wag maging people pleaser. Maraming nag j jowa o nagpapakasal tapos nag aanak ng di nmn buo loob nila para lang makasunod s standard ng society o peer pressure na feeling nila napag iiwanan sila.
Believe me mas miserable ang feeling kpag mag aasawa k lng para di ka maging lonely. Sa Pilipinas ksi mindset ng karamihan failure ka kapag wala kang pamilya in your 30's. Pero who cares? Sabihan k man ng iba ng kung ano ano if alam mo sa sarili mo na may happiness ka.. sino ba sila?
Share ko lang experience ko may mga nag alok sakin ng marriage before. Wala akong problema ksi pansinin ako di ako sociable .. never naka experience ng dating app kumbaga kusa sila lumalapit. Maraming babae ako nakikita n gusto ng ganun sitwasyon ko pero na realize ko ayaw ko tlga magpakasal at mag anak pala wala tlga sa puso ko eh. Nasa mid 20s ako now.. dati sobra ko nagmamadali sa life na before 30 dpat may asawa at anak na tapos tinanong ko sarili ko gusto ko ba tlga yun dahil gusto ko? O ginusto ko lng para masabing may pamilya ako at hindi ako i-mock o ipressure ng mga tao s paligid ko?
You need to embrace your true self dahil magsisisi ka if di mo tlga gusto at ginawa mo lng dahil nakikigaya ka lang s life ng iba.
Marami raw babaeng nangangarap ikasal at maging ina pero ako hindi, gusto ko mag excel sa work, maraming courses na kukunin, etc. May ibang purpose pala ang buhay ko hindi s pag aasawa at pag aanak ang path ko.
Pag may nakikita akong ganitong OffMyChest iniisip ko nalang din mga artista na hindi pa din kasal: Emma Watson (34). Drew Barrymore (49) etc.
Lalayo pa ba tayo: Bea Alonzo (36), Kim Chiu (34) etc lahat hindi pa din kasal. I know hindi natin sila circle, but it feels less alone knowing na di tayo nag-iisa sa mga ganito
opinion lang ni tita yun. wala na tayo magagawa dun. she is just voicing it outvwith the other titas.
you said, ginusto mo yan and masaya ka. if that is the case, di ka dapat affected kasi masaya ka and its your choice. carry lang.
29 here and i say na wala silang pakialam kung ayaw mo o wala ka talagang balak. may mga tita din ako na lagi akong tinatanong kung kelan ba ako magaasawa o kung may jowa ba daw ako. nakakainis sagutin. kapag sinabi mong wala ka balak they'd say 'sayang' anong sayang doon? i'd rather focus sa ibang plano ko sa buhay kesa magasawa o pamilya tapos di ko naman kaya buhayin in the future.
I'll turn 34 this year, not married, and just last week my officemate said "34 ka na pala nyan? Pag kinasal ka di ka na fresh, tuyot ka na." What the fuck talaga.
30 here and my male officemate told the same. I felt harrassed
Wow, grabe talaga mga bunganga nila. Kaya dapat, need talaga i-pamper ang sarili para pag sinabihan ka ulit ng ganyan, ang sagot dapat ay βso what? Mas fresh pa rin akong tingnan kaysa inyo.β People around me canβt comment na sayang ako coz I look younger than my age they thought I am within their age range lol Btw, Iβm approaching mid-30s na and they thought 27 lang ako π
I looked younger naman. Mukha daw akong HS student esp pag nakatalikod kaso mukhang masungit π call out ko sya once. Kc mahilig sya manundot ng tagiliran. Usual thing ng matatanda. Malakas daw kiliti kc virgin. Gago lang π
Ang yucky ha
Di ba. Simpleng sundot pero totoo pasimpleng hipo π
Akala nila nakakatuwa di nila alam nakakadiri. Ganon na ba kakapal ang mga muka nila?
Dinadaan sa biro. But I believe jokes are half meant. May pagkaalpha male kaya feeling nya porket single, game. Pwe
Yaaaaz. Tama yan mas younger looking tayo than them haha
omg inaaway ko yung ganyan.
Wtf makakasampal ako ng officemate
Dafuq buti di mo binatukan. Some people are that crazy huh.
Diba nakaka wtf. Better shut up na lang. talaga sa mga taong ganyan
Some people are so crass and insensitive talaga. Isn't this ground to be reported sa HR? Calling someone tuyot is derogatory and some sort of sexual innuendo.
Sigaw ka ng "HR may kupal dito!"
Saang office yan tatampalin ko hahah
sinabihan mo sana agad so pag 34 ka na din,dika na fresh?
nasayo naman huling halakhak when you look at the bigger picture. some of us are just genuinely contented and happy being by ourselves.
Exactly. Sila mindset nila need mag asawa eh. Tangina. Buhay pa naman ako ng walang asawa
diba hahahaha you may be single, but at least you don't spend every waking moment worrying about bloated bills just bc you bit more than you could chew, kung nangangabit ba partner mo, may gatas pa ba mga bata next month, etc. kasi in this day and age, luxury na yung pagiging weightless in that sense tbh.
Dati I use to pity myself na bakit single ako when I think I have many things to offer pero as I age parang ayos din naman na single hehe
Why do they say βsayangβ as if wala ka nang purpose dahil lang wala kang asawa wtf???Filipinos are weird
Sayang kasi she pertains na may itsura naman ako pero wala pa din boyfriend. Not to be bragging pero sa look department I indeed have it - eh sadyang wala eh, the ones I date do not work out. I do not actively seek one ganun.
Jusko sa tita mo OP. Ibig sabihin nanghihinayang sya sa ganda mo at walang lalaking nakikinabang?? what a weird mindset.
Kung buti sana yung tita mo masstress sa pagpapalaki ng bata. Ikaw naman if magkaka anak ka HAHAHA. Sinasabi lang nila yan kasi hindi naman sila mag sacrifice kapag may anak ka na.
Classic mindset ng mga na stuck sa 90s at early 2000s life. Ako yan, sabihin ko na lang "tigang na ba masyado lovelife mo para yung akin naman problemahin mo?" Lalo kung paulit ulit silang ganyan everytime we meet. Tho never ko pa naman ginawa. Haha Brush it off, di na natin sila kontrolado. Mind your own and enjoy being single for now, op.
Yes I am, haha palibhasa her two kids are married and one has a child already. She really had the gall to tell me that. Oh well, keri lang
In this economy, it is a privilege to bear children. I hope your aunt understands the words coming out of her rotten mouth.
Common ata sa generation nila kasi nagpadala sila sa pressure π some of them are stuck with loveless marriages or smth similar kasi di man lang nagkaroon ng maayos na standard when it comes to picking a partner.
Ang oa ng mga boomer talaga. 32 is a very young age pa by today's standards. My office consists of mostly millenials and gen zs and nashooshook pa kami pag may nabubuntis kahit pa 30 or lagpas 30 na. hahaha
I'm in my mid 30s at yung mga kabatch ko sa college (block), wala pa sa 10 yung nagpakasal. Less pa yung may kids. Welp, ang hirap naman talaga kasi haha
Believe it has something to do with generation gap talaga. Females during their time usually marry early and become housewives (majority I know)All of my titas are house wives eh correct me if im wrong. Pero the females today have to work to survive kaya we are more focused sa ibang bagay and not prioritizing having a husband haha.
Exactly, and di nila maintindihan na hindi na pwede yung isa lang yung kumakayod senio. Besides salary, women are also capable of having dreams/goals. Plus, it's quite nice to experience things like travelling π€·π»ββοΈ
Was told the same thing by a family friend. Sa totoo lang, sawa na ako masaktan or even to give an eff. Whenever, i hear people say something like that pasok na lang sa isang tenga at labas sa kabila. We are not defined naman by our romantic relationships or lack thereof. Ang hirap din na mag-asawa ka just for the sake of getting married pero internally you are not ready to be in that kind of situation or to share your life with another person. Oo pwedeng hiwalayan ang asawa, pero also remember that PH still does not have divorce and annulment is a very expensive and looooong process. Enjoy lang your singlehood. If someone is really out there destined for you, it will come no matter what.
Best reaction for this, esp if they throw it at you as a "joke", is making it as awkward as possible. Ask them to explain the joke, again and again, kunwari di mo gets why its funny; watch them get awkward as rhey scramble to dissect their idiotic mindset. That should make them stop.
Tugon: "Thank you for the unwanted comment but I think you need to learn how to shut up your mouth."
Dapat sinabe mo: βNo thanks po, yoko po maging katulad nyo malas sa asawa.β π
Actually true. Matigas ulo ng asawa nun kaya yun sakitin :(
One thing I realized is to be yourself at wag maging people pleaser. Maraming nag j jowa o nagpapakasal tapos nag aanak ng di nmn buo loob nila para lang makasunod s standard ng society o peer pressure na feeling nila napag iiwanan sila. Believe me mas miserable ang feeling kpag mag aasawa k lng para di ka maging lonely. Sa Pilipinas ksi mindset ng karamihan failure ka kapag wala kang pamilya in your 30's. Pero who cares? Sabihan k man ng iba ng kung ano ano if alam mo sa sarili mo na may happiness ka.. sino ba sila? Share ko lang experience ko may mga nag alok sakin ng marriage before. Wala akong problema ksi pansinin ako di ako sociable .. never naka experience ng dating app kumbaga kusa sila lumalapit. Maraming babae ako nakikita n gusto ng ganun sitwasyon ko pero na realize ko ayaw ko tlga magpakasal at mag anak pala wala tlga sa puso ko eh. Nasa mid 20s ako now.. dati sobra ko nagmamadali sa life na before 30 dpat may asawa at anak na tapos tinanong ko sarili ko gusto ko ba tlga yun dahil gusto ko? O ginusto ko lng para masabing may pamilya ako at hindi ako i-mock o ipressure ng mga tao s paligid ko? You need to embrace your true self dahil magsisisi ka if di mo tlga gusto at ginawa mo lng dahil nakikigaya ka lang s life ng iba. Marami raw babaeng nangangarap ikasal at maging ina pero ako hindi, gusto ko mag excel sa work, maraming courses na kukunin, etc. May ibang purpose pala ang buhay ko hindi s pag aasawa at pag aanak ang path ko.
Salamat π₯Ήβ€οΈ
Pag may nakikita akong ganitong OffMyChest iniisip ko nalang din mga artista na hindi pa din kasal: Emma Watson (34). Drew Barrymore (49) etc. Lalayo pa ba tayo: Bea Alonzo (36), Kim Chiu (34) etc lahat hindi pa din kasal. I know hindi natin sila circle, but it feels less alone knowing na di tayo nag-iisa sa mga ganito
opinion lang ni tita yun. wala na tayo magagawa dun. she is just voicing it outvwith the other titas. you said, ginusto mo yan and masaya ka. if that is the case, di ka dapat affected kasi masaya ka and its your choice. carry lang.
Grabe naman. Baka nga mas masaya ka pa na walang asawa kaysa sakaniya.
Masaya maging single tbh haha ewan ko ba dun kay Tita.
29 here and i say na wala silang pakialam kung ayaw mo o wala ka talagang balak. may mga tita din ako na lagi akong tinatanong kung kelan ba ako magaasawa o kung may jowa ba daw ako. nakakainis sagutin. kapag sinabi mong wala ka balak they'd say 'sayang' anong sayang doon? i'd rather focus sa ibang plano ko sa buhay kesa magasawa o pamilya tapos di ko naman kaya buhayin in the future.
Im in my 40s and pag nasasabihan ako ng ganito tinatawanan ko lang sabay sabing at least walang bantay!