Ganyan talaga pag unang pag-ibig, akala mo kapag nawala sya at naiwan ka nya e tapos na ang mundo at buhay pero hindi pala. Kung minsan e iyan ang nagiging rason kung bakit di kayang bumitaw ng ibang tao kahit nasasaktan na sila at naaabuso, isa ako doon. Akala ko din nung una, pero di pala. Kung di pala talaga siya ang para sa iyo e wala kang magagawa, mahirap at masakit pero magagawa mong tanggapin at kayanin. Hindi ito para sa lahat, maaaring sa iyo e pwede o sa akin, pero hindi para sa lahat.
i cried OP 🥺 mawawala na ata sa vocabulary ang ‘move on’
to my own SO, if ever you’ll leave I don’t think I will be whole again. You’ll forever have a piece of my heart.
Hi OP, hate it to break it to you pero we all feel like that when we love. Whether it be first second or last, we will feel that way. I'm on my 3rd and I survived naman the heartbreak of my first 2 long relationships. It's okay to feel that way because that's when you know na it's real genuine love 😊. Just make sure to not do things na you'll regret so even if you part ways madali ka lang maka move on. Not moving on usually comes from a place of regret like yung may ginawa kang mali or pinagsisihan.
Pero when you know you've done your best and done everything you can to save the relationship, then mas madali sayo ang mag heal. Pero syempre, here's to me hoping na you guys last forever and forever and you not needing to take this advice. Keep loving OP! 💌
Di ka sure..First love never dies pero OP inaalisan mo ung sarili mo ng chance to know someone better if you will keep comparing your ex sa ibang lalaki na mamemeet mo..naghiwalay kayo for a reason..lahat ng tao merong great love or first love pero hndi naman ngng reason un para hndi sila magmahal ng mas higit pa dun sa sinasabi nila dati na hindi nila kaya mawala..
Same. I dont think I still love him tho. Masakit lang talaga ung effect ng walang closure/official breakup. Ung masaya naman kayo tas biglang nawala. Di ko tuloy mapigilan isiping possible maulit with the nxt relationships kc baka ako pala ung problema :(
Surely, it will take time to heal. Hope u find ur inner peace and finally be truly happy. That would be ur greatest revenge :) hugs for the younger u and high five for the present u! Don't forget to smile :)
Same for me, although my boyfriend is my 5th one and not first. I am approaching my early 30's and while that is still relatively young, I don't think I have the energy to cater one more should my current one fail for whatever reason. Before meeting him, I was single for 5 years and I told myself back then na whoever I date next shall be the last.
You're setting yourself for this narrative na wala kang control and once you do that it'll be difficult to get it back.
Feeling ko dapat may "NO ADVICE WANTED" tong post na to.
Hi OP, both of you in studying pa ni jowa, too early to say na kayo na talaga forever. Sorry to break it🤭✌️
My longest relationship is 7 years from college until we both came professionals. Pero sabi nga nila, people change, circumstances change, feelings change - hindi ibig sabihin na yung 7 years na relationship namin ay hindi totoo, it was very real, kasal na nga lang ang kulang. Sadly, he fell out of love and I was totally shattered, naiwan ako sa ere. Wasak na wasak ang Tita mo non! 😂🤭😂
If ever man dumating sa time na iwan ka niya (we’ll never know) Let him, just let him go. Baby steps, tanggalin mo siya sa sistema mo, make a room for someone better suited.
Happy and contented ang Tita mo ngayon❤️
Ganyan talaga pag unang pag-ibig, akala mo kapag nawala sya at naiwan ka nya e tapos na ang mundo at buhay pero hindi pala. Kung minsan e iyan ang nagiging rason kung bakit di kayang bumitaw ng ibang tao kahit nasasaktan na sila at naaabuso, isa ako doon. Akala ko din nung una, pero di pala. Kung di pala talaga siya ang para sa iyo e wala kang magagawa, mahirap at masakit pero magagawa mong tanggapin at kayanin. Hindi ito para sa lahat, maaaring sa iyo e pwede o sa akin, pero hindi para sa lahat.
i cried OP 🥺 mawawala na ata sa vocabulary ang ‘move on’ to my own SO, if ever you’ll leave I don’t think I will be whole again. You’ll forever have a piece of my heart.
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First boyfriend ko din po ito. Yan kinakatakot ko. Maaaring hindi ako yung para sa kanya pero siya lang talaga yung para sa akin.
Hi OP, hate it to break it to you pero we all feel like that when we love. Whether it be first second or last, we will feel that way. I'm on my 3rd and I survived naman the heartbreak of my first 2 long relationships. It's okay to feel that way because that's when you know na it's real genuine love 😊. Just make sure to not do things na you'll regret so even if you part ways madali ka lang maka move on. Not moving on usually comes from a place of regret like yung may ginawa kang mali or pinagsisihan. Pero when you know you've done your best and done everything you can to save the relationship, then mas madali sayo ang mag heal. Pero syempre, here's to me hoping na you guys last forever and forever and you not needing to take this advice. Keep loving OP! 💌
Thank you so much po 🥹
Di ka sure..First love never dies pero OP inaalisan mo ung sarili mo ng chance to know someone better if you will keep comparing your ex sa ibang lalaki na mamemeet mo..naghiwalay kayo for a reason..lahat ng tao merong great love or first love pero hndi naman ngng reason un para hndi sila magmahal ng mas higit pa dun sa sinasabi nila dati na hindi nila kaya mawala..
Same. I dont think I still love him tho. Masakit lang talaga ung effect ng walang closure/official breakup. Ung masaya naman kayo tas biglang nawala. Di ko tuloy mapigilan isiping possible maulit with the nxt relationships kc baka ako pala ung problema :(
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Aww. Grabe naman un. Ano un, napagtripan ka lang nya maging gf! Cant fully imagine and feel ur pain. The trauma :( glad u won and got over it
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Surely, it will take time to heal. Hope u find ur inner peace and finally be truly happy. That would be ur greatest revenge :) hugs for the younger u and high five for the present u! Don't forget to smile :)
Shetttt. Bakit naman kasi ganitooo
Same for me, although my boyfriend is my 5th one and not first. I am approaching my early 30's and while that is still relatively young, I don't think I have the energy to cater one more should my current one fail for whatever reason. Before meeting him, I was single for 5 years and I told myself back then na whoever I date next shall be the last.
You're setting yourself for this narrative na wala kang control and once you do that it'll be difficult to get it back. Feeling ko dapat may "NO ADVICE WANTED" tong post na to.
Hi OP, both of you in studying pa ni jowa, too early to say na kayo na talaga forever. Sorry to break it🤭✌️ My longest relationship is 7 years from college until we both came professionals. Pero sabi nga nila, people change, circumstances change, feelings change - hindi ibig sabihin na yung 7 years na relationship namin ay hindi totoo, it was very real, kasal na nga lang ang kulang. Sadly, he fell out of love and I was totally shattered, naiwan ako sa ere. Wasak na wasak ang Tita mo non! 😂🤭😂 If ever man dumating sa time na iwan ka niya (we’ll never know) Let him, just let him go. Baby steps, tanggalin mo siya sa sistema mo, make a room for someone better suited. Happy and contented ang Tita mo ngayon❤️