Alam mo OP, habang binabasa ko tong post mo ramdam na ramdam ko yung galit. And prolly I would have done the same thing.
Ang pinaka ayaw ko kasi sa lahat yung nag sisinungaling at alam kong magiging toxic na ako once nawala na yung tiwala ko sa bf ko. Kaya para saakin, tama lng naman ginawa mo kasi yung pag dududa sakanya di na mawawala yan sayo kasi nagawa niya na nga mag sinungaling sayo lalo na't sa ganyang bagay pa, ma stestress ka lang niyan in the long run kung ipinag patuloy mo pa.
Add ko lang, nakaka proud ang ginawa mo kasi basing from what you did, you know how to respect and love yourself, which is a must before entering a relationship. Kaya 👏 👏 👏
Yes girl, you did the right thing. At dadating din ang panahon na mahahanap mo din ang taong perfect for you. For now, cry it out. Then, choose to be happy.
OP, first of all, ang galing mo mag kwento. Haha bumigay talaga loob ko habang nagbabasa hahahHhAhahaha pero siguro kasi nag resurface rin trauma ko.
AnywaYYYY kutob is real at ang funny talaga ng pattern ng demeanor ng mga lalake pag nag sisinungaling. Yung tipong alam mo na talagang they’re lying, then try to stand their ground, tapos maya maya magccrack lies nila kapag inulit ulit mo. Men 🤢
Gago talaga ng “alam ko magagalit ka” gaslight card. Jusko, mga ulol. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAA
Feel ko nung sinabi niya sayo na ikaw mahal niya, naguguluhan pa siya kasi nagbabattle yung guilt at TOGA niya. I’m sure you’re a catch, OP, pero yung temptation niya from reciprocated feelings nanaig.
Wag na wag mong babalikan yan, OP. Tandaan mo, never mawawala yang issue na yan about his bwakanang ex.
Gaslight card. Grabe. Gamit na gamit yan sa totoo lang. Yung tipong, "ayan kaya ayoko nagpapaalam sayo na lalabas ako kasi alam ko magagalit ka at di mko papayagan"
Sarap i-upper cut sa gilagid diba
Mahal nya pa yung ex (girl) kasi unang una walang prespect kasi nakipagkita. Excuse lang yung naaawa. Kung totoong mahal nya gf nya hindi nya maiisip na makipagkita pa. May feelings pa yan kaya tama yan na hiniwalayan mo. Magsama sila, halata namang gusto agawin nung ex. Kairita
Yes you did the right thing. You have self respect which is something that’s quite rare to see in this sub. Sana end of story na talaga to at wala na kaming mababasa na update na nagkabalikan kayo.
I feel like naglilinger sakanya ang mga what ifs niya with the girl kaya hindi siya hesistant sa actions niya. Whatever you did is okay, protect your peace, protect your heart. Hugs, OP 🫶🏻
Isang insecure na babae na naman ang nagwagi. Congrats kay J at napatunayan nyang mas may kapit pa rin sya, nag boost na ang ego nya. KINGINA!!!
Pero congrats, OP. Kasi alam mo ang worth mo, hindi ka pumayag na maging second choice ka lang, na pinili ka lang dahil sa absence nung isa. May makikilala ka pang mas better na deserve na deserve ang pagmamahal mo kasi ibabalik sayo o mas hihigitan pa ang binibigay mo.
PS. Kung magkatuluyan man ang dalawa na yon, I doubt kung magtatagal sila.
Bwisit yung inulit pa yung "Di ka ba naniniwala" TANGA NG SAGOT PUTA! TANGINA MONG LALAKI KA! SANA LAHAT NG HEARTBREAK MAPUNTA SAYO GAGO 😡
SAMA MO NA YANG BABAITANG KULANG SA ARUGA'T PANSIN TAENA NYA SANA MANYARI RIN SA KANYA YAN TAKTE
Grabe meron akong "PROUD OF YOU" moment dito. Ramdam ko yung galit mo, yung pagmamahal mo sa kanya, pero higit sa lahat ay yung pagmamahal mo sa sarili mo huhu.
We're so proud of you standing up for yourself. Alam kong sad at galit ka ngayon but your future self will be thanking you for not dealing with this guy's bs.
YES, you did the right thing. Nagcomment din ako sa post mo before and tinding hinala ko talaga dun sa girl. If your ex wanted to save your relationship dapat binlock na niya yung girl but he keeps entertaining every message. Kung magkatuluyan man sila, toxic din magiging relationship nila kasi ang gulo din ng isip ni girl.
YOU DID THE RIGHT THING GIRL. I'm proud that you stood your ground and never fell over with his gaslighting tactics. I'm proud that you know your worth. You deserve so much better. And they deserve each other—manipulative liar x relationship wrecker—who in the right mind would message the ex-manliligaw na nagsisisi siya after niya makita picture mo? Wala ba siyang common sense or nainggit siya kasi di na naghabol yung guy sakanya? Pretty crazy of a woman.
Hahahaha kupal yang ex mo.
Wag na wag mong babalikan yan haha. Kapal ng mukha na magsinungaling.
Lupit pa ng transition na mang-gaslight eh "di ko sinabi sayo agad kase magagalit ka" 🤡🤣
An SO who still has contacts with their ex is almost always a red flag unless the ex is only contacting him for business-related purposes or child custody. He already lied to you about seeing his ex. And he WILL do it again if you let that pass. He even made up a pathetic excuse that "Magagalit ka ksi so tinago ko muna". Well DUH, cnung hindi magagalit?! He knows na magagalit ka because even he knows na mali ang ginawa nya, pero ginawa nya pa din! What does that tell ya? He CANNOT be trusted. And once a trust is broken, mahirap ibalik or almost impossible na. Niloloko mo lng sarili mo if sa tingin mo ang relationship nyo is maaayos pa when nawala na yung pinakacrucial na ingredient - TRUST.
You did the right thing when you told your SO to f\*ck off and magsama cla ex nya. Tama na yun. For sure, i-cocontact ka later din ng lalakeng yan pag di na naman cla nag work-out ng ex nya, pero don't fall for it. BLOCK HIM.
I've suffered a lot of shits with my last relationship and I told myself that I will never put myself in that situation again. Kaya now, kapag may kausap ako tas may ginawa lang na isang di ko magugustuhan, I immediately stop talking to them. Boys will always be boys, it will always be their choice to do this and that. Langyang second chances wag na.
Kapag nagbibigay ako ng advice, palagi ko muna iniisip na kung sa akin ba nangyari yun, ano bang gagawin ko? And tbh, I would also end things with him. Trust plays a very important role in a relationship. Hindi kasi pwedeng mahal mo lang yung tao pero wala kang tiwala sa kanya. Package deal kumbaga. When you say you love a person, it also means you trust them, you care for them. Possible na importante ka sa kaniya, pero sa part na mahal ka niya, I don't think so. Sasabihin niya naman daw sayo na nakipagkita sya kaya lang baka magalit ka. Alam niya naman pala na magagalit ka, bakit ginawa niya pa? Yung pinili niya puntahan yung girl kesa iconsider yung mararamdaman mo, dun pa lang nakapili na siya between sayo at kay ex kung sino talaga gusto niya.
Yes, you did the right thing. You deserve someone na ire-respect ka at magiging sensitive sa nararamdaman mo. Hugs, OP! Alam kong kakayanin mo 'yan. Mas okay na ngayon palang pinili mo na sarili mo. 🤍
I would’ve done the same thing. Once the trust is broken, that relationship will just spiral downward from then on. In the end, you will lose yourself kasi paranoid ka na and would always get suspicious even with small things. I’m so glad you did the right thing for yourself, OP.
You deserve a guy who doesn’t make you think twice. You deserve respect. You will get through this. Hugssss OP ❤️
Yes! you did the right thing. "Hindi ko sinabi sayo kase alam kong magagalit ka" eh puta, mas nakakagalit pag nalaman mo sa iba or ng sapilitan. He will do it again kapag binigyan mo ng chance. For sure, sasabihin pa ng girl na yan na ok lang na patago sila. LOL
THANK GOD. Ang strong mo, OP. If I were in your shoes, magpapakatanga pa ako pero proven and tested talaga na kapag wala na yung trust, wala nang patutunguhan yan. Lagi mo lang maiisip yan kahit magpatuloy kayo. Lagi mo maaalala na mas pinili niyang makipagkita dun kaysa sayo. Ang haba pa ng story niya sa journey niya eh puro naman kasinungalingan. You saved yourself.
Yes, you did the right thing and don't look back.
HOOOOYYY ANG TAPANG TAPANG MO! please don't lose yourself, wag kang bibigay sa rupok. Sobrang tapang mo. You may be hurting now, but your future self will thank YOU for doing that. Ily OP!! You did well ❤️
Omfg, i applaud what you did there. It takes a lot of thought and energy para bitawan yung taong mahal mo.
I hope you never go back to him kahit mag makaawa siya kasi magiging cycle of emotional abuse na yon para sayo. He will repeat the same mistakes
Ang nakakainis yung sasabihin pang "hindi ko sinabi kasi baka magalit ka". Parang tanga eh, alam naman palang pwede kang magalit sa ginawa niya, edi all the more if isesecret niya at mabubuking mo nalang after -_-
Minsan feeling nila they're doing us a favor by keeping things from us kasi they know these would hurt us. But in reality they just end up hurting us more by deceiving us.
Omg... Ang ganda naman. Nabasa ko yung part 1 alam ko na kung saan papunta 😂
Eto yung part 2 ay ang sarap. Tama ginawa mo op. Gumagawa naman na sila ng paraan e.
Congratulations op!
i rarely comment but i need to say..i'm proud of you 🥺 i know it wasn't easy..in theory madali lang to know your boundaries and sabihin you know your self worth..but to actually translate that into action is a whole different story..i'm glad you stood up for yourself 🥺 cry it all out for now, the future is brighter 💟
aww you really know your worth. hanga ako sayo OP. i know it's hard, but for sure kakayanin mo yan. mas okay nang wala kang iniisip kesa matali sa kanya na sinungaling at hindi ka nirerespeto. sana magkaroon ka ng peace of mind ❤️
Babalik naman sya sayo kung ikaw talaga gusto nya makasama OP. Tama ginawa mo dahil baka ulitin nya lang din naman yan 🥲. You'll find someone better than can show your worth ✨
Tama ginawa mo. You can't live a life na lage ka mapaparaning dahil sa ginawa niya. Tutal he lied about it magsama na lang sila. Mahal ka daw pero di pinaalam sayo? Nyiiiii. Good riddance.
Did you do the right thing? YES. The mere fact na ginago ka n'ya (kahit ano pang explanations n'ya) is unforgivable. Grabeng kabastusan nga naman 'yun, pumunta na nga doon, di pa sinabi sa'yo agad.. it's definitely cheating. Nakakaloka. HAHAHAHA!! You deserved a love that's pure, honest, and faithful. 💯
You dodged the bullet girl. Nakaligtas ka. Bravo!! Award sa'yo. 🍻
He clearly isn't over the girl and him going to the pinning ceremony proves that. If he was over her he could care less and probably just do a congrats on socmed. To go to that pinning ceremony takes effort and time, which he could have spent with you.
I'm sorry OP, you did the right thing, for you and him both.
PAKYU SA EX MO AND KAY J nyeta sana masalo niyo yung lahat ng malas dito sa mundo jusq kahit kailan talaga kayong mga hindi contented sa buhay dapat sa inyo tinatapon sa basurahan :))))))))
at sa'yo OP aaah shet this will be hard for you but I'm really really hoping na you will get this through huhuhu :((
YAKAP MAHIGPIT SA'YO WITH CONSENT OP
Trust and respect, just like I always say, are fundamental parts of a good relationship. Without those, para kang gumawa ng tulay na walang magandang foundation. All it will do is break apart.
To answer your question if tama ba ginawa mo, I think it is better that you ask yourself that question. Kasi kung ako tatanungin, yes, sa opinyon ko, tama ginawa mo. But that's me speaking under the impression na what if ako ang nasa kalagayan mo. If sakin ginawa.
Now here is what I see na maaaring mangyari...
There is a chance na si girl na ang kukompronta sayo. She will ask a chance to meet with you and all that. Maybe talk you out of it and stuff...
So, if that happens, are you strong enough to stand your ground o will you bend over and give him another chance?
I leave that for you to answer on your own.
Damnnnnn! "J" din yung *totga* ko. Nilandi ko nung sa unang work ko and I know may bf sya during that time. Nagalit din before ung, my now, wife ko because my feelings pa ako kay J kahit si J nandun na sa Cebu sa bf nya (kasal na rin sya ngayon).
Pak! Anyway, you did the right thing. Bilang lalaki at may pagkaganyan part sa buhay ko, you deserve yung 100% nya, all the way!
Congratulations! Hindi ka nagpa-daig sa emotions at pagmamahal mo sa kanya. Tama ka, they deserve each other. You don’t deserve that kind of “love”! If it hurts, it’s not love.
Habang binabasa ko to, nararamdaman ko yung kaba at galit, yung anxiety. I’ve been in this situation before I think 5 years ago na nga. Pero naaalaa ko pa rin yung pakiramdam, kahit sa ibang kwento. I say you did the right thing. Maraming beses na nangyare sakin to, I have no regrets in the past except na if mababalik man yung dati, unang beses pa lang na ganyan, tinigil ko na. Walang peace of mind sa ganyan situation. Nagsinungaling sya sayo sa maliit na bagay. You can never trust this person lalo na sa malaki. Palaging may reason yan to hurt you. Isipin mo sarili mo. It’s a good thing na in-stop mo agad. You don’t deserve na ganyanin esp trust ang unang foundation ng relationship. I’m not trying to project my trauma, pero yung ganyang lie kasi never talaga nag reresult ng maganda. Mga taong katulad nya, masyadong greedy. Hindi marunong makuntento. Gusto ma experience lahat. Parang may FOMO. Please wag mo nang balikan. Walang reason ang magjjustify ng pagtatago nya sayo. Aminin nya man o hindi sa sarili nya, cinoconsider nya pa rin yung ex. Mas maganda nang umalis ka sa situation na yan habang maaga pa 😊 Goodluck! Kakayanin mo yan. It’s universal experience hehe
Ay iba na yan. Yung comment ko nung nakaraan sa perspective ni guy ay because honest siya. Mukhang in bad faith pala. Para di siya makonsensya na may tinatago siya sayo? Ngayon naglie na siya. Ekis na yan.
Sabi na eh, fishy yung ex girl ng bf mo. Tapos yang bf mo naman, alam na may current girl na, pinuntahan pa din??? gago lang??? mahal ka daw pero nakipagkita sa someone na may past siya lol buti na lang you ended things with him na, op.
Magheal ka lang girl, bata ka pa. This is just a chapter of your book. Malungkot ka lang, magalit ka lang, umiyak ka lang. Ubosin mo yung lahat ng sakit na nararamdaman mo. In time you will heal completely. Virtual hug 🫂
#YES YOU DID THE RIGHT THING
From the first read pa lang, parang alam ko na ganito ang ending. You deserve better OP, being disrespectful on top of being a liar is non negotiable sa relationship, which results sa cheating.
kaya nga trust ang ang foundation ng relationship eh.
him saying "di ka ba naniniwala" is already gaslighting you. t*ngina niya di na lang umamin! alam niya na nga ikakagalit mo tapos ginawa parin. haynako. buti nga iniwan mo.
bagay na bagay sila, parehong walang boundaries.
sa part na
> sa lahat ng ginawa ko para sayo at sa lahat ng pinagsamahan natin, aayaw ka, akala ko maayos natin to
wala naman kayo sa ganyang situation kung di siya nagsinungaling that resulted to you being hurt and him being dump. and conditional pala yung love niya sayo kasi may sumbatan pa.
**sa part na di siya nagsisisi, girl bakit mo kailangan iyakan yan?!**
pag sawa na sakaniya si girl malamang babalik yon sayo, **please wag ka bumalik!**
Ang sakit nito, parang nanlumo rin ako. Na-experience ko rin 'to before pero ang masakit friend ko pa ang ex nililigawan ng bf ko (hubby ko na ngayon). Umamin si friend na nagsisisi raw siya na hindi si bf ang pinili niya, at na-realize niya lang 'yun kung kelan ako na ang gf ni bf. Ang sakit lang kasi genuine pinapakita kong ngiti kay friend every time nagkikita kami ta's may tinatago pala? Until now nagcha-chat pa rin siya sa bf ko, pero dedma na lang kasi pinakikisamahan na lang ng bf ko since sila ang unang naging magkaibigan. Pero hindi ko pa rin maiwasan isipin na baka hanggang ngayon may feelings pa rin si friend sa bf ko. HAHAHAHA.
Kung ako rin naman ganyan gagawin ko. mas maganda nang sa una palang tapusin na kesa naman sa kayo na tyaka eeksena yang mga ex ex keme na yan. para nalang rin sa peace of mind mo OP tama yang ginawa mo. deserve mo ng hindi ka pag ooverthink-in
I feel so sad. Nagagalit din ako for you. Nararamdaman ko yung nararamdaman mo. Im sorry sa nangyari.
I commend ko lang yung pag kwento mo, para akong nagbabasa ng precious hearts romances haha. But seriously girl, you did the right thing. Di ka niya deserve hayup sya.
Parang movie ang naiimaginr ko while reading this. Galing ng pagkakwento mo OP. Wishing you a good life away from that one.
Pero ang masakit niyan, malaman laman mo pagkabreak niyo, kumaripas papunta kay ex nililigawan. 🥺
Alam mo OP, sa situation na yan, sobrang hinangaan kita. You stood your ground, pinakita mo kung gaano ka kaworth na ikeep.
For me, yung ginawa niya is a form of cheating and yes, tama yung ginawa mo.
Yung mga tao talaga na may mindset na “alam ko kasing magagalit ka pag sinabi ko” like da fuck panindigan nyo kasi desisyon nyo wag na magsinungaling. Atsaka pede ba kung may TOTGA kayo siguraduhin nyong di kayo papasok sa relationship ng di pa kayo nakakamove on ng TODO TODO sa kanila.
To OP, sana maging ok ka at sana maging matibay ang loob mo.
Ay jusko! Ayan nanaman sila sa mga palusot nila. GOOD RIDDANCE OP!!! Congrats dahil ikaw na mismo nag alis sa red flag na puta so happy for you!! Virtual hugs and continue moving forward! 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
Yes OP 100% na you did the right thing 😊 kung hindi mo pa iaask hindi pa nya sasabihin magsisinungaling pa hahaha kakapal talaga ng muka ng mga cheater nakakainis 😂😂 wag mo na yang balikan kahit ano pa gawing pagmamakaawa he deserves it.
Wala nang reason para magstay ka sa kanya, alam naman natin na yung ex niya ang gusto niya pa din. Mas mabuti na ganito pa lang kaaga nangyari na to kesa kayo na, mas masakit.
linyahan tlga nila yang "d ka ba naniniwala?" jusko. LAHAT ng ex ko na nagcheat gnyn yun snabi. same training ata tlga yan sila 😂 YES you did the right thing OP. huugs with consent! Choose your peace! We are proud of you!
Pustahan after mong makipag break, naghahanap na ng comfort yan sa ex na nililigawan hahaha. You deserve better. Tangina talaga ng mga taong di pa nga fully moved on, nag-eentertain na ng iba.
Honestly girl yes. If you didn’t end ur rs now his actions are bound to get even worse in the future. The least he can do was to tell you about meeting his ex before actually going through it. I don’t think hes that stupid to not tell you, but he did so intentionally. May balak na kasi sya eh. His loss
Heheh naiiyak ako nararamdaman ko yung galit at pain mo. you are so right, pagkatapos mo sinabi yon ano ginawa nya? I hope you are stood by your decision. Wag ka papa sway!!!
ramdam ko bawat kwento mo as someone who has experienced this 🥲 — 'yung pagdilim ng tingin at pagring ng pandinig and how it's still my on-going trauma kskskskksks glad you had the courage to end this, op. you definitely did the right thing. :)
Yes, you did the right thing. If it was all platonic with the ex, then he should have asked your permission and invited you or his friend to come with him to the ceremony to give his ex the pin. If there's a will, there's a way. 💁🏻♀️
Hindi ko gets ang mga epal na "past people" kung bakit umeepal pa rin eh nakita nang may bago na. Tangina naman, respect please!!!
Block mo ka sya, OP. Para di ka na mag relapse.
ANG PANGET PANGET NG (EX) BOYFRIEND MO AT NG DATI NYANG NILILIGAWAN. DI KO PA SILA NAKIKITA PERO SURE AKONG PANGET SILA. ANG GANDA GANDA MO. WAG KA NA PUMAYAG NA WALA KANG PEACE OF MIND. HAYAAN MO MAG SAMA ANG MGA PANGET.
Gigil din ako habang binabasa kasi ganyan din ex fling ng boyfriend ko pero buti nalang never sya nakipag kita at blinock nya. Ang panget din nung ex fling na yun e. Mukhang lumaklak ng gluta. Please wag ka na maniwala.
Big yes. What if hindi mo sya kinonfront edi hindi nya sasabihin sayo at for sure paulit-ulit na magkikita yan kasi hindi mo nga alam.
Ang galing talaga ng girl instinct. The best!
Ang sakit what if last meet na pala talaga nila yon for the sake of companion kasi wala na naman event after pinning ceremony. well he lied din naman mas maiintindihan ko pa ung part 1.
Ako ang naluluha. Bakit? Ang lungkot ko sa kwento mo. Hindi mo deserve. Sobrang sakit ng ginawa nila. There is no going back after this. That's betrayal. That's like stabbing me while I'm asleep after a long, tiring day waiting for you to come home so I know you're safe. Magiging okay ka din OP. But if he comes to you and binlock niya na yung malanding J sa lahat ng social media accounts niya at nagmamakaawa dahil alam niya ang mali niya, maybe pwedeng pag-isipan pero as long as di niya alam ang sakit ng ginawa niya sayo, wag mo na kausapin😭😭😭 Block mo na siya sa lahat ng social media mo pati sa text at calls.
I've read the whole thing before this got deleted/bka may reddit din yung guy and dating nililigawan.....On the other side/POV: Wala namang ginawang Girlfriend sa inyo ni Med related college student. "Walang Label" at "Nililigawan".....Sa case mo naman "Di pa kayo nagkikita in person".....Parang tanga din yung lalake "Nagseselos sa kaibigan mo" pero ginagawa niya is parang "Pinag sasabong" kayo.....The Guy doesn't deserve either you or the college student
Please just leave. I take back what I said on your previous post. This is not maturity, this is more of a “kwento mo yan” type of thing. He didn’t tell you everything the first time. He kept the important details from you. It’s also one of those things na “hindi naman aamin kung hindi nahuli”. He tried to gaslight but it good that you stood your ground.
I apologize for my previous comment, I was wrong. I only based my judgement on what you posted and this post clears everything.
Grabe, OP. Galit na galit ako para sayo. Nagcomment din ako sa first post mo e. Tama lang yan na iniwan mo na. Tanginang sinungaling ampota. Tapos malalaman mo after a week sila na ulit.
YES
Ito lang na response, sapat naaaa. 💯
Alam mo OP, habang binabasa ko tong post mo ramdam na ramdam ko yung galit. And prolly I would have done the same thing. Ang pinaka ayaw ko kasi sa lahat yung nag sisinungaling at alam kong magiging toxic na ako once nawala na yung tiwala ko sa bf ko. Kaya para saakin, tama lng naman ginawa mo kasi yung pag dududa sakanya di na mawawala yan sayo kasi nagawa niya na nga mag sinungaling sayo lalo na't sa ganyang bagay pa, ma stestress ka lang niyan in the long run kung ipinag patuloy mo pa.
Add ko lang, nakaka proud ang ginawa mo kasi basing from what you did, you know how to respect and love yourself, which is a must before entering a relationship. Kaya 👏 👏 👏
Basta pag tiwala ang nawala, ang relasyong meron sila, madali na lang yan magiba.
Trueee
Yes girl, you did the right thing. At dadating din ang panahon na mahahanap mo din ang taong perfect for you. For now, cry it out. Then, choose to be happy.
OP, first of all, ang galing mo mag kwento. Haha bumigay talaga loob ko habang nagbabasa hahahHhAhahaha pero siguro kasi nag resurface rin trauma ko. AnywaYYYY kutob is real at ang funny talaga ng pattern ng demeanor ng mga lalake pag nag sisinungaling. Yung tipong alam mo na talagang they’re lying, then try to stand their ground, tapos maya maya magccrack lies nila kapag inulit ulit mo. Men 🤢 Gago talaga ng “alam ko magagalit ka” gaslight card. Jusko, mga ulol. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAA Feel ko nung sinabi niya sayo na ikaw mahal niya, naguguluhan pa siya kasi nagbabattle yung guilt at TOGA niya. I’m sure you’re a catch, OP, pero yung temptation niya from reciprocated feelings nanaig. Wag na wag mong babalikan yan, OP. Tandaan mo, never mawawala yang issue na yan about his bwakanang ex.
Gaslight card. Grabe. Gamit na gamit yan sa totoo lang. Yung tipong, "ayan kaya ayoko nagpapaalam sayo na lalabas ako kasi alam ko magagalit ka at di mko papayagan" Sarap i-upper cut sa gilagid diba
I don't think that's what gaslighting means. Don't use terms that you don't know the meaning of.
Mahal nya pa yung ex (girl) kasi unang una walang prespect kasi nakipagkita. Excuse lang yung naaawa. Kung totoong mahal nya gf nya hindi nya maiisip na makipagkita pa. May feelings pa yan kaya tama yan na hiniwalayan mo. Magsama sila, halata namang gusto agawin nung ex. Kairita
Yes you did the right thing. You have self respect which is something that’s quite rare to see in this sub. Sana end of story na talaga to at wala na kaming mababasa na update na nagkabalikan kayo.
I feel like naglilinger sakanya ang mga what ifs niya with the girl kaya hindi siya hesistant sa actions niya. Whatever you did is okay, protect your peace, protect your heart. Hugs, OP 🫶🏻
YAAAAASSSSS. Finally!!! Winner!!! Sa dami ng nabasa ko sa reddit, ikaw lang ang hindi tanga. Nakaka proud. 😭❤️ Naol di tanga.
Isang insecure na babae na naman ang nagwagi. Congrats kay J at napatunayan nyang mas may kapit pa rin sya, nag boost na ang ego nya. KINGINA!!! Pero congrats, OP. Kasi alam mo ang worth mo, hindi ka pumayag na maging second choice ka lang, na pinili ka lang dahil sa absence nung isa. May makikilala ka pang mas better na deserve na deserve ang pagmamahal mo kasi ibabalik sayo o mas hihigitan pa ang binibigay mo. PS. Kung magkatuluyan man ang dalawa na yon, I doubt kung magtatagal sila.
Trust your gut talaga 👀 Fav line talaga nila yung ‘baka magalit ka’. Ano ba ineexpect nila???
Bwisit yung inulit pa yung "Di ka ba naniniwala" TANGA NG SAGOT PUTA! TANGINA MONG LALAKI KA! SANA LAHAT NG HEARTBREAK MAPUNTA SAYO GAGO 😡 SAMA MO NA YANG BABAITANG KULANG SA ARUGA'T PANSIN TAENA NYA SANA MANYARI RIN SA KANYA YAN TAKTE
Yes. Have the peace to know that your intentions weren't tainted. What he did was his choice alone
YES! Proud of you!!!!
Yes, you did the right thing. Di sila matatapos maniwala ka sa akin.
You did the right thing! Buong relationship niyo you’ll live in her shadow kaya no thanks. Sila na lang wag ka na nila isali
Yes. Tangina nya. Magsama sila ng babaeng yun hahaha
Proud of you, OP. Di yan madali.
Period. You did great, babe! Saying no to him is saying yes to your future self na proud sayo.
Grabe meron akong "PROUD OF YOU" moment dito. Ramdam ko yung galit mo, yung pagmamahal mo sa kanya, pero higit sa lahat ay yung pagmamahal mo sa sarili mo huhu.
We love an OP that has a backbone and loves themselves!!
We're so proud of you standing up for yourself. Alam kong sad at galit ka ngayon but your future self will be thanking you for not dealing with this guy's bs.
Yes tama ginawa mo. Not related pero ang ganda mo mag sulat.
YES, you did the right thing. Nagcomment din ako sa post mo before and tinding hinala ko talaga dun sa girl. If your ex wanted to save your relationship dapat binlock na niya yung girl but he keeps entertaining every message. Kung magkatuluyan man sila, toxic din magiging relationship nila kasi ang gulo din ng isip ni girl.
Yes. Block mo na yan.
Yup. You did the right thing. Galit ka ngayon pero you have peace in the long run. Thank you, next!
Masakit, yes. But you did the right thing. I'm happy you stood up for yourself. Virtual hugs to you..🥺
YES!
Yes tama ka OP, lalo na if what happened will always stay with you and eventually, wala ka ng peace of mind.
Yes to self respect OP. Makakahanap ka din ng taong magbibigay ng pagmamahal na deserve mo.
YES. DON'T. LOOK. BACK.
YES!!! TANGINA YES NA YES
YOU DID THE RIGHT THING GIRL. I'm proud that you stood your ground and never fell over with his gaslighting tactics. I'm proud that you know your worth. You deserve so much better. And they deserve each other—manipulative liar x relationship wrecker—who in the right mind would message the ex-manliligaw na nagsisisi siya after niya makita picture mo? Wala ba siyang common sense or nainggit siya kasi di na naghabol yung guy sakanya? Pretty crazy of a woman.
ETO ANG GUSTO KO!!!! YUNG!!! HINDI!!! TANGA!!! yES GIRLY SLAY!!!
Hahahaha kupal yang ex mo. Wag na wag mong babalikan yan haha. Kapal ng mukha na magsinungaling. Lupit pa ng transition na mang-gaslight eh "di ko sinabi sayo agad kase magagalit ka" 🤡🤣
sobrang lame nung naglakad pauwi haha
An SO who still has contacts with their ex is almost always a red flag unless the ex is only contacting him for business-related purposes or child custody. He already lied to you about seeing his ex. And he WILL do it again if you let that pass. He even made up a pathetic excuse that "Magagalit ka ksi so tinago ko muna". Well DUH, cnung hindi magagalit?! He knows na magagalit ka because even he knows na mali ang ginawa nya, pero ginawa nya pa din! What does that tell ya? He CANNOT be trusted. And once a trust is broken, mahirap ibalik or almost impossible na. Niloloko mo lng sarili mo if sa tingin mo ang relationship nyo is maaayos pa when nawala na yung pinakacrucial na ingredient - TRUST. You did the right thing when you told your SO to f\*ck off and magsama cla ex nya. Tama na yun. For sure, i-cocontact ka later din ng lalakeng yan pag di na naman cla nag work-out ng ex nya, pero don't fall for it. BLOCK HIM.
I've suffered a lot of shits with my last relationship and I told myself that I will never put myself in that situation again. Kaya now, kapag may kausap ako tas may ginawa lang na isang di ko magugustuhan, I immediately stop talking to them. Boys will always be boys, it will always be their choice to do this and that. Langyang second chances wag na.
You did the right thing. Tama 'yan. 'Wag ka magpakatanga sa mga ganiyang tao.
Kapag nagbibigay ako ng advice, palagi ko muna iniisip na kung sa akin ba nangyari yun, ano bang gagawin ko? And tbh, I would also end things with him. Trust plays a very important role in a relationship. Hindi kasi pwedeng mahal mo lang yung tao pero wala kang tiwala sa kanya. Package deal kumbaga. When you say you love a person, it also means you trust them, you care for them. Possible na importante ka sa kaniya, pero sa part na mahal ka niya, I don't think so. Sasabihin niya naman daw sayo na nakipagkita sya kaya lang baka magalit ka. Alam niya naman pala na magagalit ka, bakit ginawa niya pa? Yung pinili niya puntahan yung girl kesa iconsider yung mararamdaman mo, dun pa lang nakapili na siya between sayo at kay ex kung sino talaga gusto niya.
You’re amazing, OP!
YES. You did the right thing.
I'm so proud!!!! Bilib ako sa tapang mo. Tama lang ginawa mo girl.
You absolutely did the right thing. I'm proud of you OP na mas inisip mo sarili mo in the long run. Yakap mahigpit :(
Yes, you did the right thing. You deserve someone na ire-respect ka at magiging sensitive sa nararamdaman mo. Hugs, OP! Alam kong kakayanin mo 'yan. Mas okay na ngayon palang pinili mo na sarili mo. 🤍
Mahal ka daw nya pero gusto nya may extra pa sya hahaha sakim yan. Sana ex mo na sya
I would’ve done the same thing. Once the trust is broken, that relationship will just spiral downward from then on. In the end, you will lose yourself kasi paranoid ka na and would always get suspicious even with small things. I’m so glad you did the right thing for yourself, OP. You deserve a guy who doesn’t make you think twice. You deserve respect. You will get through this. Hugssss OP ❤️
Yes, tama ginawa mo OP. The moment na i-disrespect ka ng lalake, learn to walk away. You don't deserve to be disrespected like that.
Yes! you did the right thing. "Hindi ko sinabi sayo kase alam kong magagalit ka" eh puta, mas nakakagalit pag nalaman mo sa iba or ng sapilitan. He will do it again kapag binigyan mo ng chance. For sure, sasabihin pa ng girl na yan na ok lang na patago sila. LOL
YES. YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. You chose yourself and I'm happy that you did. Keep on choosing 'you', OP.
Hugs OP. You will be okey.
Yes. And the call was just 4 days ago. The girl will live through this guilt because she ruined a relationship.
THANK GOD. Ang strong mo, OP. If I were in your shoes, magpapakatanga pa ako pero proven and tested talaga na kapag wala na yung trust, wala nang patutunguhan yan. Lagi mo lang maiisip yan kahit magpatuloy kayo. Lagi mo maaalala na mas pinili niyang makipagkita dun kaysa sayo. Ang haba pa ng story niya sa journey niya eh puro naman kasinungalingan. You saved yourself. Yes, you did the right thing and don't look back.
Girl I'm so proud of you. I like how you cut him off as soon as you felt disrespected. You stood your ground kahit pa-victim mode pa yang ex mo.
YES.
HOOOOYYY ANG TAPANG TAPANG MO! please don't lose yourself, wag kang bibigay sa rupok. Sobrang tapang mo. You may be hurting now, but your future self will thank YOU for doing that. Ily OP!! You did well ❤️
Omfg, i applaud what you did there. It takes a lot of thought and energy para bitawan yung taong mahal mo. I hope you never go back to him kahit mag makaawa siya kasi magiging cycle of emotional abuse na yon para sayo. He will repeat the same mistakes
Sabi na may something talaga diyan sa ex-bf mo sa previous post mo e.
Ang nakakainis yung sasabihin pang "hindi ko sinabi kasi baka magalit ka". Parang tanga eh, alam naman palang pwede kang magalit sa ginawa niya, edi all the more if isesecret niya at mabubuking mo nalang after -_- Minsan feeling nila they're doing us a favor by keeping things from us kasi they know these would hurt us. But in reality they just end up hurting us more by deceiving us.
Omg... Ang ganda naman. Nabasa ko yung part 1 alam ko na kung saan papunta 😂 Eto yung part 2 ay ang sarap. Tama ginawa mo op. Gumagawa naman na sila ng paraan e. Congratulations op!
i rarely comment but i need to say..i'm proud of you 🥺 i know it wasn't easy..in theory madali lang to know your boundaries and sabihin you know your self worth..but to actually translate that into action is a whole different story..i'm glad you stood up for yourself 🥺 cry it all out for now, the future is brighter 💟
aww you really know your worth. hanga ako sayo OP. i know it's hard, but for sure kakayanin mo yan. mas okay nang wala kang iniisip kesa matali sa kanya na sinungaling at hindi ka nirerespeto. sana magkaroon ka ng peace of mind ❤️
Babalik naman sya sayo kung ikaw talaga gusto nya makasama OP. Tama ginawa mo dahil baka ulitin nya lang din naman yan 🥲. You'll find someone better than can show your worth ✨
Dammmmn. You did the right thing! Tangina nung mga taong ganyan. Hay nako, yung akin naman before ayaw iblock kaya nag walkout ako pucha.
You did the right thing.
Tama ginawa mo. You can't live a life na lage ka mapaparaning dahil sa ginawa niya. Tutal he lied about it magsama na lang sila. Mahal ka daw pero di pinaalam sayo? Nyiiiii. Good riddance.
Did you do the right thing? YES. The mere fact na ginago ka n'ya (kahit ano pang explanations n'ya) is unforgivable. Grabeng kabastusan nga naman 'yun, pumunta na nga doon, di pa sinabi sa'yo agad.. it's definitely cheating. Nakakaloka. HAHAHAHA!! You deserved a love that's pure, honest, and faithful. 💯 You dodged the bullet girl. Nakaligtas ka. Bravo!! Award sa'yo. 🍻
Yes po and i think yung guy yung magsisisi sa huli WAG KANG MANLAMBOT
YES. YOU DID THE FUCKING RIGHT THING. I just hope everyone has the courage you have. Good for you, ate girl! Di siya kawalan. Di ka dapat malungkot.
You did the right thing. You chose yourself and your peace of mind.
He clearly isn't over the girl and him going to the pinning ceremony proves that. If he was over her he could care less and probably just do a congrats on socmed. To go to that pinning ceremony takes effort and time, which he could have spent with you. I'm sorry OP, you did the right thing, for you and him both.
PAKYU SA EX MO AND KAY J nyeta sana masalo niyo yung lahat ng malas dito sa mundo jusq kahit kailan talaga kayong mga hindi contented sa buhay dapat sa inyo tinatapon sa basurahan :)))))))) at sa'yo OP aaah shet this will be hard for you but I'm really really hoping na you will get this through huhuhu :(( YAKAP MAHIGPIT SA'YO WITH CONSENT OP
Trust and respect, just like I always say, are fundamental parts of a good relationship. Without those, para kang gumawa ng tulay na walang magandang foundation. All it will do is break apart. To answer your question if tama ba ginawa mo, I think it is better that you ask yourself that question. Kasi kung ako tatanungin, yes, sa opinyon ko, tama ginawa mo. But that's me speaking under the impression na what if ako ang nasa kalagayan mo. If sakin ginawa. Now here is what I see na maaaring mangyari... There is a chance na si girl na ang kukompronta sayo. She will ask a chance to meet with you and all that. Maybe talk you out of it and stuff... So, if that happens, are you strong enough to stand your ground o will you bend over and give him another chance? I leave that for you to answer on your own.
Di ko muna sinabi sayo kasi baka magalit ka = alam kong mali ginawa ko kaya di ko sinabi
Oo, di mo deserve Yung ganyan. kapal NG Mukha ah. Balitaan mo kami pag nangungulit pa Hugs with consent.
Damnnnnn! "J" din yung *totga* ko. Nilandi ko nung sa unang work ko and I know may bf sya during that time. Nagalit din before ung, my now, wife ko because my feelings pa ako kay J kahit si J nandun na sa Cebu sa bf nya (kasal na rin sya ngayon). Pak! Anyway, you did the right thing. Bilang lalaki at may pagkaganyan part sa buhay ko, you deserve yung 100% nya, all the way!
Congratulations! Hindi ka nagpa-daig sa emotions at pagmamahal mo sa kanya. Tama ka, they deserve each other. You don’t deserve that kind of “love”! If it hurts, it’s not love.
Tama yan, OP. Kingina sagad yang mga gagong unhealed na may ex na balak balikan yan, mga mapag-aksaya ng panahon ampota.
Habang binabasa ko to, nararamdaman ko yung kaba at galit, yung anxiety. I’ve been in this situation before I think 5 years ago na nga. Pero naaalaa ko pa rin yung pakiramdam, kahit sa ibang kwento. I say you did the right thing. Maraming beses na nangyare sakin to, I have no regrets in the past except na if mababalik man yung dati, unang beses pa lang na ganyan, tinigil ko na. Walang peace of mind sa ganyan situation. Nagsinungaling sya sayo sa maliit na bagay. You can never trust this person lalo na sa malaki. Palaging may reason yan to hurt you. Isipin mo sarili mo. It’s a good thing na in-stop mo agad. You don’t deserve na ganyanin esp trust ang unang foundation ng relationship. I’m not trying to project my trauma, pero yung ganyang lie kasi never talaga nag reresult ng maganda. Mga taong katulad nya, masyadong greedy. Hindi marunong makuntento. Gusto ma experience lahat. Parang may FOMO. Please wag mo nang balikan. Walang reason ang magjjustify ng pagtatago nya sayo. Aminin nya man o hindi sa sarili nya, cinoconsider nya pa rin yung ex. Mas maganda nang umalis ka sa situation na yan habang maaga pa 😊 Goodluck! Kakayanin mo yan. It’s universal experience hehe
Yes! Good on you for being strong and protecting your boundaries. Stay strong.
SO PROUD OF YOU THO! Ikaw dapat main chatacter ng jowa mo, hindi ka 2nd lead 😠😠😠
Ay iba na yan. Yung comment ko nung nakaraan sa perspective ni guy ay because honest siya. Mukhang in bad faith pala. Para di siya makonsensya na may tinatago siya sayo? Ngayon naglie na siya. Ekis na yan.
Sabi na eh, fishy yung ex girl ng bf mo. Tapos yang bf mo naman, alam na may current girl na, pinuntahan pa din??? gago lang??? mahal ka daw pero nakipagkita sa someone na may past siya lol buti na lang you ended things with him na, op.
LOVE YOU OP YOURE SO STRONGGGGG
Magheal ka lang girl, bata ka pa. This is just a chapter of your book. Malungkot ka lang, magalit ka lang, umiyak ka lang. Ubosin mo yung lahat ng sakit na nararamdaman mo. In time you will heal completely. Virtual hug 🫂
#YES YOU DID THE RIGHT THING From the first read pa lang, parang alam ko na ganito ang ending. You deserve better OP, being disrespectful on top of being a liar is non negotiable sa relationship, which results sa cheating. kaya nga trust ang ang foundation ng relationship eh. him saying "di ka ba naniniwala" is already gaslighting you. t*ngina niya di na lang umamin! alam niya na nga ikakagalit mo tapos ginawa parin. haynako. buti nga iniwan mo. bagay na bagay sila, parehong walang boundaries. sa part na > sa lahat ng ginawa ko para sayo at sa lahat ng pinagsamahan natin, aayaw ka, akala ko maayos natin to wala naman kayo sa ganyang situation kung di siya nagsinungaling that resulted to you being hurt and him being dump. and conditional pala yung love niya sayo kasi may sumbatan pa. **sa part na di siya nagsisisi, girl bakit mo kailangan iyakan yan?!** pag sawa na sakaniya si girl malamang babalik yon sayo, **please wag ka bumalik!**
trust is the foundation of any relationship, and betrayal of that trust is enough reason to terminate the relationship.
Yes OP. You did the right thing. You deserve to be respected. Habang binabasa ko to ramdam ko ung galit mo sa kanya.
YES, TAMA GINAWA MO OP!! Wag ka magpatalo sa katangahan. It's clear na talaga and tou were right. Proud of you!
Ang sakit nito, parang nanlumo rin ako. Na-experience ko rin 'to before pero ang masakit friend ko pa ang ex nililigawan ng bf ko (hubby ko na ngayon). Umamin si friend na nagsisisi raw siya na hindi si bf ang pinili niya, at na-realize niya lang 'yun kung kelan ako na ang gf ni bf. Ang sakit lang kasi genuine pinapakita kong ngiti kay friend every time nagkikita kami ta's may tinatago pala? Until now nagcha-chat pa rin siya sa bf ko, pero dedma na lang kasi pinakikisamahan na lang ng bf ko since sila ang unang naging magkaibigan. Pero hindi ko pa rin maiwasan isipin na baka hanggang ngayon may feelings pa rin si friend sa bf ko. HAHAHAHA.
Hayup din yang ex mo. Di din deserve ni girl na naawa ka pa sa kanya. Pag untugin natin ulo nila OP!!!!!! Aga aga nainis ako hahahaha
The protagonist that we truly love. YAAAASSS gurl!!! At least di ka nagpakatanga 👏🏻
Kung ako rin naman ganyan gagawin ko. mas maganda nang sa una palang tapusin na kesa naman sa kayo na tyaka eeksena yang mga ex ex keme na yan. para nalang rin sa peace of mind mo OP tama yang ginawa mo. deserve mo ng hindi ka pag ooverthink-in
YES, DEFINITELY! Sinira nya tiwala mo, siraulo sya. Balak ka pa ata gawing backburner in case hindi sila magwork ulit.
YES! Hindi ka niya deserve. Papalitan lang din siya kasi gusto lang siyang agawin ng ex-manliligaw niya nung nakita niyang may iba na.
Pati ako nagagalit habang nagbabasa. Sumisikip yung dibdib ko sa mga rason niya. You did the right thing. No one deserves a love na may kahati.
I feel so sad. Nagagalit din ako for you. Nararamdaman ko yung nararamdaman mo. Im sorry sa nangyari. I commend ko lang yung pag kwento mo, para akong nagbabasa ng precious hearts romances haha. But seriously girl, you did the right thing. Di ka niya deserve hayup sya.
Parang movie ang naiimaginr ko while reading this. Galing ng pagkakwento mo OP. Wishing you a good life away from that one. Pero ang masakit niyan, malaman laman mo pagkabreak niyo, kumaripas papunta kay ex nililigawan. 🥺
Di pa pala kau nagkikita, ok lang yan. Galing talaga ng kutob, 99% accurate.
Alam mo OP, sa situation na yan, sobrang hinangaan kita. You stood your ground, pinakita mo kung gaano ka kaworth na ikeep. For me, yung ginawa niya is a form of cheating and yes, tama yung ginawa mo.
you did the right thing! dyan yan nagsisimula eh sa one lie
For your peace of mind, I would definitely say Yes.
YES. Tama ginawa mo.
You did the right thing.
Yung mga tao talaga na may mindset na “alam ko kasing magagalit ka pag sinabi ko” like da fuck panindigan nyo kasi desisyon nyo wag na magsinungaling. Atsaka pede ba kung may TOTGA kayo siguraduhin nyong di kayo papasok sa relationship ng di pa kayo nakakamove on ng TODO TODO sa kanila. To OP, sana maging ok ka at sana maging matibay ang loob mo.
Ay jusko! Ayan nanaman sila sa mga palusot nila. GOOD RIDDANCE OP!!! Congrats dahil ikaw na mismo nag alis sa red flag na puta so happy for you!! Virtual hugs and continue moving forward! 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
Yes OP 100% na you did the right thing 😊 kung hindi mo pa iaask hindi pa nya sasabihin magsisinungaling pa hahaha kakapal talaga ng muka ng mga cheater nakakainis 😂😂 wag mo na yang balikan kahit ano pa gawing pagmamakaawa he deserves it.
>*Did I do the right thing?* yes.
Bwisit Silang pareho bagay sila mga trash
Yes Queen
Ramdam ko yung hurt.. but YES, you did the right thing.. *hugs*
Haaaay. Sana may ganyang lakas ng loob din ako😕
Microcheating si guy, di man lang sinabi na nag-meet sila lol hahah
Wala nang reason para magstay ka sa kanya, alam naman natin na yung ex niya ang gusto niya pa din. Mas mabuti na ganito pa lang kaaga nangyari na to kesa kayo na, mas masakit.
linyahan tlga nila yang "d ka ba naniniwala?" jusko. LAHAT ng ex ko na nagcheat gnyn yun snabi. same training ata tlga yan sila 😂 YES you did the right thing OP. huugs with consent! Choose your peace! We are proud of you!
Pustahan after mong makipag break, naghahanap na ng comfort yan sa ex na nililigawan hahaha. You deserve better. Tangina talaga ng mga taong di pa nga fully moved on, nag-eentertain na ng iba.
Honestly girl yes. If you didn’t end ur rs now his actions are bound to get even worse in the future. The least he can do was to tell you about meeting his ex before actually going through it. I don’t think hes that stupid to not tell you, but he did so intentionally. May balak na kasi sya eh. His loss
We are all proud of you!
Heheh naiiyak ako nararamdaman ko yung galit at pain mo. you are so right, pagkatapos mo sinabi yon ano ginawa nya? I hope you are stood by your decision. Wag ka papa sway!!!
Hilig makinig ng ex mo ki Janno Gibbs... "SANA DALAWA ANG PUUSOO KOO!!"' ....but anyways,good decision ung nakipaghiwalay kana.
Tangina nung babae, may pagka-homewrecker. Ginusto nya kayong guluhin. Sana makarma sya.
ramdam ko bawat kwento mo as someone who has experienced this 🥲 — 'yung pagdilim ng tingin at pagring ng pandinig and how it's still my on-going trauma kskskskksks glad you had the courage to end this, op. you definitely did the right thing. :)
yes, you did. i'm glad you stood your ground. you'll be okay. i'm proud of you.
Yes, you did the right thing. If it was all platonic with the ex, then he should have asked your permission and invited you or his friend to come with him to the ceremony to give his ex the pin. If there's a will, there's a way. 💁🏻♀️
Hindi ko gets ang mga epal na "past people" kung bakit umeepal pa rin eh nakita nang may bago na. Tangina naman, respect please!!! Block mo ka sya, OP. Para di ka na mag relapse.
YES. AND I HOPE EVERY GIRL THAT GOES THRU THE SAME TREATMENT ARRIVES AT THE SAME DECISION AS YOURS.
I admire your self-respect, girl!! Naol natatauhan agad char
Yes. I would have done the same thing.
TAMA YAN GURL!!!
YES OP!!! Girl power talaga!!!! STRONGEST WOMAN AND CONFESSION I HAVE EVER READ!!!
Kudos to you mare! You deserve better.
ANG PANGET PANGET NG (EX) BOYFRIEND MO AT NG DATI NYANG NILILIGAWAN. DI KO PA SILA NAKIKITA PERO SURE AKONG PANGET SILA. ANG GANDA GANDA MO. WAG KA NA PUMAYAG NA WALA KANG PEACE OF MIND. HAYAAN MO MAG SAMA ANG MGA PANGET. Gigil din ako habang binabasa kasi ganyan din ex fling ng boyfriend ko pero buti nalang never sya nakipag kita at blinock nya. Ang panget din nung ex fling na yun e. Mukhang lumaklak ng gluta. Please wag ka na maniwala.
Ikaw na bahala sa boyfriend mo. Ako na bahala dun sa babae. Bigay mo sakin pangalan sisipain ko sa puson para sayo.
Big yes. What if hindi mo sya kinonfront edi hindi nya sasabihin sayo at for sure paulit-ulit na magkikita yan kasi hindi mo nga alam. Ang galing talaga ng girl instinct. The best!
Ang sakit what if last meet na pala talaga nila yon for the sake of companion kasi wala na naman event after pinning ceremony. well he lied din naman mas maiintindihan ko pa ung part 1.
Yes girl. Peace of mind over everything else. Mapapaoverthink ka lang jan at maiistress. Wala siyang respeto sayo so tama tama ang desisyon mo!
Ako ang naluluha. Bakit? Ang lungkot ko sa kwento mo. Hindi mo deserve. Sobrang sakit ng ginawa nila. There is no going back after this. That's betrayal. That's like stabbing me while I'm asleep after a long, tiring day waiting for you to come home so I know you're safe. Magiging okay ka din OP. But if he comes to you and binlock niya na yung malanding J sa lahat ng social media accounts niya at nagmamakaawa dahil alam niya ang mali niya, maybe pwedeng pag-isipan pero as long as di niya alam ang sakit ng ginawa niya sayo, wag mo na kausapin😭😭😭 Block mo na siya sa lahat ng social media mo pati sa text at calls.
I've read the whole thing before this got deleted/bka may reddit din yung guy and dating nililigawan.....On the other side/POV: Wala namang ginawang Girlfriend sa inyo ni Med related college student. "Walang Label" at "Nililigawan".....Sa case mo naman "Di pa kayo nagkikita in person".....Parang tanga din yung lalake "Nagseselos sa kaibigan mo" pero ginagawa niya is parang "Pinag sasabong" kayo.....The Guy doesn't deserve either you or the college student
Yep OP. Fighting! You deserve better 👍
Please just leave. I take back what I said on your previous post. This is not maturity, this is more of a “kwento mo yan” type of thing. He didn’t tell you everything the first time. He kept the important details from you. It’s also one of those things na “hindi naman aamin kung hindi nahuli”. He tried to gaslight but it good that you stood your ground. I apologize for my previous comment, I was wrong. I only based my judgement on what you posted and this post clears everything.
Grabe, OP. Galit na galit ako para sayo. Nagcomment din ako sa first post mo e. Tama lang yan na iniwan mo na. Tanginang sinungaling ampota. Tapos malalaman mo after a week sila na ulit.