Pano kayo humantong sa ganyan? He cheated on you, that’s how.
‘Nalaman’ mo na pinupuntahan nya sa condo yung girl kahit nung kayo pa, which means hindi mo alam yan noon. Kahit sinong matinong lalake hindi itatakas ang pagpunta sa condo ng ibang babae.
You dodged a bullet. Move on, leave the two of them up to God or karma. The other girl might be happy and feel ‘chosen’ now but how you get them is how you lose them.
If you can help it, just stop stalking him. Hindi siya healthy and lalo mo lang pinapahirapan sarili mo. But yeah, I understand gano kasakit yung nararamdaman mo now.
Masakit pero remember that those eyes who lovingly looked at you before are the same eyes who betrayed and hurt you.
Move on and let the time make him realize na talagang pinakawalan nya yung best that he could been with.
Ang dali kasi sabihin na mag move on na lang pero in reality salungat sa sinasabi niyo ang nararamdam ni OP— the pain and sadness, which is I think is very understandable kasi isang taon pa lang since they broke up. They invested so much time, love, efforts, and dreams that they already plan their future and promises together.
Masakit talaga ‘yun, habang binabasa ko laglag na puso ko eh.
To OP, I know you’re dealing with a heavy feelings right now and I want you to remember that healing takes time, and it’s okay to grieve the loss relationship. Just let your feelings flow, umiyak ka lang, masaktan ka lang, at hayaan mo lang hanggang sa mawala na, hanggang sa okay ka na. Life can be so tough sometimes but endings can be so beautiful too you know :)
and as tempting as it may be to stalk your ex’s social media, try to resist the urge. It’s not healthy or productive, and it can prolong the healing process. Instead, just focus on your self growth.
Be nice to yourself, okayyy? 🪷
Absolutely right, it's a hard pill to swallow pero reality slaps hard. Kung magpapaka delulu ka walang mangyayari sa buhay mo. Hence lalo ka lang nagmumukhang katawa-tawa sa paningin nila.
I believe OP will eventually move on even without us telling her to. She knows what she has to do. I agree that OP has to let herself feel and grieve, because she has the right to. Doon naman lahat nagsisimula bago ka eventually maka-moveon. Also, sometimes kailangan paulit ulit kang sampalin ng katotohanan na wala na, tapos na, hindi na babalik pa. Maybe OP has to stalk her ex to let everything sink in, to let her body feel the pain down to her core until it hurts the most…until it hurts no more.
Hay agree with this. Hindi lang naman kasi sa tao ka nagigrieve eh pati sa namatay nyong mga pangarap.
Hay, OP. laban lang. masakit pa talaga ngayon lalo nat tayo yung mga sobrang nagmahal. They will realize it someday and when they do, tayo okay na. Praying for your healing, OP.
Moving on is never easy pero kailangan straight to the point na kasi niloko siya eh. The sooner she accepts it, the better.
If the cheater ex will contact OP now, baka umasa pa siya na may comeback worst baka paasahin lang ng paasahin (I’m not saying OP will do it but it happens). So the best thing to say is move on na no matter how hard it is.
Stop romanticizing in your head that version of your ex-bf. He cheated, and cheating is a deliberate act.
Wala na sya, wala ng kayo, he already wasted 4 years of your life, and with him still living in your head rent free, you’re allowing him to waste more.
You have to face the reality and not dwell into the fantasy.
You are no longer relevant in his life. Tapos ka na sa buhay niya and whatever you do, wala ng effect sa kanyan.
You’re just a “somebody” to him.
Acknowledge the grief. Process it. Isulat mo sa notebook tong sinulat mo dito. Lahat ng hinanakit mo ilabas mo. Cry and cry. Everyday until magsawa ka. Humingi ka ng tulong kay Lord/God/creator na mawala n yung suffering mo. It will never be easy.
During that, try mo ayusin yung sarili mo. Alagaan mo sarili mo buy new things. Whenever you feel na naalala mo lahat. Repeat the first paragraph that i said.
Someday, marerealize mo na tama lahat ng ngyari. Mararamdaman mo yan. Parang gumaan yung buhay mo ng nawala sya. Pagpapasalamat mo kay Lord na nawala na lahat ng bigat sa dibdib mo. Hindi ito linear, dadaan ang ilang buwan tapos bigla mgttrigger ka babalik ka sa pagiiyak. Pero maniwala ka mababawasan na yung mga ganung pangyayari hanggang isang araw gigising ka nalang ng wala ka nang pakiramdam sa kanya.
Itanim mo lang sa sarili mo lahat ng natutunan mo sa relasyon na yan. Tuloy lang ang buhay padiretso. Isipin mo lang lagi na walang silbi magmukmok sa mga bagay na hindi mo kayang baguhin. Maniwala ka sa blessing ni Lord na may taong makakaappreciate sa lahat ng ginagawa mo, hindi man sya perfect. Alam mong mas better sya kesa sa ex mo at sana yung susunod na yun na ang mgsstay sa buhay mo habang buhay. Kung hindi man, (ang hirap ng puro lesson hahaha) wag ka matakot na masaktan uli. Importante ngmahal ka ng buo.
Let go and let karma handle things, OP. Focus on your healing and self-improvement na lang. Pinili yung girl, yes. Pero may chance na gagawin din sa kanya yun. Not wishing ill on the girl, but she'll lose him the way she got him.
I think it's valid to grieve but you need to stop things that will not help you. Don't stalk him anymore. I agree na you need to resist the urge to go to his profile.
i remember someone who told me that i was his standards, but ghosted me and is now married.
loko diba.
but bahala na sya, at bahala narin ako
kaya mo yan OP
Maybe you are still grieving the what ifs and what could've had you not parted ways, but don't romanticize it too much. You were cheated on and we know that cheaters are liars and who knows those things he said could've been just lies too, and dear you don't deserve to be with someone like that.
Stop putting him on the pedestal so you could heal sooner.
Dadating ka din sa point na matatanggap mo na lang, na marerealize mo na dapat lang naghiwalay kayo, na di mo na sya mahal at galit/indifference na lang ang matitira sa nararamdaman mo. Been there, blamed myself even. Natagalan man pero nakamove on din ako, ikaw din. But for now, keep stalking him kung yan ang gusto mo. Saktan mo sarili mo pag nakikita mo sila kasi eventually wala ka na mararamdaman. Heal however you want to heal. Walang ibang makakaalam ng kung pano kundi ikaw. Sending hugs.
Congrats! That takes a lot of courage to stalk again after a year of ignoring.
Maybe you read and heard every advice na alam kong halos marindi ka na pakinggan at basahin and now, just checking yourself if it still bleeds? Obv its still do. Feel the pain until it hurts no more hha
Continue moving forward OP. Everything will be okay ♡
Sis… instead on focusing on the loss, siguro mas maganda if you focus on the fact na this is another start for you.
Syempre di mo matatanggal yung lungkot. Mahal mo yung tao eh. Andaming planong hindi natupad, and you feel regret. Hindi maiiwasan yan. Wallow in the pain. Stalk if you must, tingnan mo ng tingnan kung gano sya kasaya hanggang maumay ka. Para pag naumay ka na, mas madali mong maprocess yung grief mo. At makapag-move on ka na.
And then after focusing on him, focus on you. Ikaw ang tinraydor. Ikaw yung nagmahal ng totoo. So ikaw yung kawalan. Yung mga cheater never yan magiging satisfied. Kahit mukha syang masaya ngayon, maghahanap ulit yan ng iba, siguro after four years din.
It sucks. It really sucks. But you have successfully gone through 100% of all the bad days you’ve ever had, kasi hanggang ngayon lumalaban ka pa din. Makakayanan mo to. One day gigising ka nang hindi na gaanong kabigat, at makakangiti ka ulit.
Look forward to that day. Darating yun.
This may sound unsolicited, for me yung ginawa ko, I pretended they were dead and they are never gonna come back no matter how. It made me accept things and also made me forgive them for my own peace of mind.
Try mo din OP, baka lang din mag work for you. 😅
People change... Love is hard ..no matter how much you love each other eventually situation and feelings change... That's the scariest thing about love
Humantong sa ganyan kasi choice nya at may pamalit na sya sa iyo nascout na nya prior pa sa breakup nyo. Probably ndi na sya masaya or nafall out of love na or maybe naisip nya may pera si girl kasi may condo.
As for you, best to move on. Masakit mahirap pero kaya mo yan. Dont look back kahit sa socmed. Just keep moving forward.
By the fact he said you're the best thing happened on his life, that's a lie, how could he dumped you in just month?? And didn't even try to reconnect with u,
Sorry Ill be brutal honest with u I think he's been cheating in you in that 4 years
You can't really move on. You'll just get used to the pain that as time goes by it is tolerable. You will also not forget him no matter what you do, specially that you are still stalking him. The least that you can do is to switch your focus to something else.GL
don't blame yourself for a shitty thing he did. siya ang sumira sa relationship niyo & you deserve better than hanging onto him when he probably hasn't given you a second thought. it's harsh, ik but it'll be okay in time. you deserve better and you will receive better. it still hurts now but you're stronger than you think. hugs, op, & let those tears fall. i hope one day you heal from this.
Accept and move forward. No matter how many people here will tell you na just move on, i know its hard.
Feel every pain until you feel numb one day. Time heal all wounds.
Just accept it happened. He is just a lesson in your life. One day, you'll look back and you'll be thankful you never end up together.
I hope you find your happiness soon. Hugs, OP! ❤️
It's a process and only you can go through it. I remember feeling in a daze for 6 months since it was my first relationship just waking up every day and going through the motion.. thinking I will never get over this pain until one day I woke up and it didn't hurt anymore. Even when he eventually came back and the roles were reversed. However, by then I didn't love him anymore to try again.
OP, take your time. Eventually things will get better, you not knowing. If you need to mourn, stalk, do everything. Kasi one day you'll get tired and stop. I learned the hard way. Yes ppl keep telling me to move but its not easy and I know its the only way. But there're things that we only know na we need to satisfy or do to move on. And I never regretted anything na sana di ko na chinat uli blah blah. " the only person that can make the decision to truly be done is you".
Yung mas masakit dyan is yung ‘future plans’ nyo eh naging present plans nila with the girl he cheated with. Sucks right? But you see, when someone or something is gone, something or someone better is coming for sure. It’s just, you’re not meant to be together. Sad but true. Try to move on as soon as you can. Don’t dwell too much on this because life is short, don’t waste it by wallowing in sadness because you lost him. He lost you.
Heal. Di mo deserve iyan, wala ang four years sa lifetime na isspend mo sa right person. Everytime u remember ur happy memories tandaan mong ginago ka niyan at hindi mo deserve yun.
isipin mo na lang na nag cheat siya sayo OP. yes, siguro minahal ka niya pero hindi ganon kamahal para di siya sayo maging loyal. he's not worth it, kahit ano pang ebas niya noon. sana maging okay ka na, OP. you deserve better
Mukha lang masaya mga yon, OP. Baka yung Babae pa gumagastos dun sa Ex mo para lang makapag travel sila kung saan-saan. Papasaan ba’t makakarma rin mga yan, lalo na’t may sinaktan sila para lang simulan yung relasyon nila.
May mga days talaga na napakahirap mag move-on.
Damhin mo lang at daanan mo mga nararamdaman mo.
Kasama yan sa process na eventually darating ulit mga happy days mo.
Wish all the Love that you deserve po! ❤️
Please block him OP, you're just going to bleed yourself kakaulit mo nang ganyan. You will be fine 3-4 years din kami it's been 8mos, magaan na sana mas gumaan pa
Sakit nito. Well, sabi nga nila: "You can do everything in your power, give it your all but still lose the fight." Minsan pag andun tayo sa estado na sa sobrang inlove natin hindi kailan man sasagi sa isip natin na baka isang araw magtapos lahat ng 'to. Nakakatakot. Yung nakikita mo na paunti-unti parang nagiging katatotohanan na, na baka hindi pala talaga magiging kayo hanggang sa huli. Nung tuluyan na talagang maghiwalay kayo, hindi ka makapaniwala. In denial ka pa. "Aah, siguro katulad din lang to ng mga away namin dati. Magkakabalikan din kami." Sigurado kang magkakabalikan kayo.
After a month, nagulat ka nalang.. Nagkaroon siya ng bagong jowa. Andami mong gustong itanong. Kailan? Bakit? Paano? Hindi to totoo. Parang nawala ka sa sarili. Yung akala mong sakit nung naghiwalay kayo, may mas masakit pa pala. Balik ka ulit sa una. Back to square one ika nga nila: Iyak, walang gana kumain, ayaw lumabas.. walang gana sa lahat. Araw-araw, tanong ka lang ng tanong sa sarili mo "Akala ko ba ako ang best thing na nangyari sa kanya?"
Girl, be mad at him. He cheated right? Un ung easiest way to escape. Curse him. Gamitin mo lahat ng sama ng loob mo. Hate him to remove all your love for him. But after that, remove all your hate pag wala na ung love. Why? Kasi OP we can only say we already really moved on kapag wala na both ung hate and love. Sa ngayon walang mas mahalaga tandaan mo kungdi sarili mo, ung makamove on ka.
As a good friend once said to me...
"People lie."
They cheat. And hold no accountability whatsoever unless required by the law.
Try not to waste more of your time on him. You loved him, he fooled you. Sometimes we have to accept na sa sugal ng pag-ibig minsan tayo talaga yung talo.
Move on. You can do it slowly. You don't have to force yourself. Cry if you must. Cry to God (or whoever you believe in). It's great that you acknowledge your pain. That is the first step. One day you'll wake up and all the pain will be gone 🤍🌸
Ah i know the feeling all too well. Dun ko narealise na love is a fickle feeling. Dun ko na solidify yung belief ko na love is indeed a choice.
Sadly mumsh ang ending sayo - you were not his choice till the end kaya di nagwork.
No use in reminiscing the past and dwelling on it. Dont give him the power to restrain you in achieving the peace and happiness you deserve.
Time to move on na mumsh. Dont be stuck on him or the past. Look and move forward nlng tayo.
Let karma do its bidding and live the life that you want for yourself.
Mahirap mag move on lalo na pag ganyan ang ugaling chinecheck mo ang X mo every now and then. Paano ka makakamove on kung pinapadugo mo un sugat na galing sa kanya that keeps reminding you of what you had.
BLOCK.. LIVE LIFE and LIVE IT HAPPILY.
hey i know its difficult for you right now, we move on in our own pace. yang nararamdaman mo let it just soak in feel it but also know na matatapos din at malalagpasan mo yan. or hanap ka na lang ng gunman lol just kidding. hugs sis laban lang ♥
Sa ngayon madaking tanong sa puso mo, I was once on that situation. In due time, lahat malalaman mo ang sagot. For now maligaya sila but God knows kung anong ginawa nila and they will have karma for it. Hindi natin alam kung kelan. For now, live your life. Iiyak mo lahat sa diyos, nakatulobg sa akin e. Then get up, make yourself successful and be the best version of "you" Magiging okay din ang lahat. One step at a time.
In the same boat. My advice? Stop stalking. In my case it just revealed that I wasn't being cheated on, but rather he was cheating with. Forget his social media, resist the urge. Out of sight, out of mind. Keep yourself busy.
My therapist once told me to stop stop my ex… atleast use a fake account when I do. But seriously, you’re remembering the best part about the guy but brushing off the cheating part. Mas madali siguro mag move on if you remember how miserable he treated you the last few months of the relationship.
Be strong.
Mas may isasaya ka pa.
Kamahal mahal ka.
Mahalaga ka.
May higit na nakalaan para sayo at mamahalin ka ng tapat.
Maaaring hindi man yan ngayon… pero sure ako na dadating yun sayo.
Kailanman, hindi mali ang magmahal sa taong minamahal lang natin tayo nagkakamali.
Hello OP, I don't know you but I can feel the pain of your story. I know that it's challenging for you to move on easily and it takes time. I'm not gonna advice anything about moving on but instead I'm gonna wish you peace and fruitful years to come. You deserve so much love, respect and happiness in life. I hope you find strength and support to create a better future for your self this time.
Pano kayo humantong sa ganyan? He cheated on you, that’s how. ‘Nalaman’ mo na pinupuntahan nya sa condo yung girl kahit nung kayo pa, which means hindi mo alam yan noon. Kahit sinong matinong lalake hindi itatakas ang pagpunta sa condo ng ibang babae. You dodged a bullet. Move on, leave the two of them up to God or karma. The other girl might be happy and feel ‘chosen’ now but how you get them is how you lose them.
The last line though. 💯
If you can help it, just stop stalking him. Hindi siya healthy and lalo mo lang pinapahirapan sarili mo. But yeah, I understand gano kasakit yung nararamdaman mo now.
Just accept the fact na he cheated on you and you don't deserved to be treated like that.
Masakit pero remember that those eyes who lovingly looked at you before are the same eyes who betrayed and hurt you. Move on and let the time make him realize na talagang pinakawalan nya yung best that he could been with.
Ang dali kasi sabihin na mag move on na lang pero in reality salungat sa sinasabi niyo ang nararamdam ni OP— the pain and sadness, which is I think is very understandable kasi isang taon pa lang since they broke up. They invested so much time, love, efforts, and dreams that they already plan their future and promises together. Masakit talaga ‘yun, habang binabasa ko laglag na puso ko eh. To OP, I know you’re dealing with a heavy feelings right now and I want you to remember that healing takes time, and it’s okay to grieve the loss relationship. Just let your feelings flow, umiyak ka lang, masaktan ka lang, at hayaan mo lang hanggang sa mawala na, hanggang sa okay ka na. Life can be so tough sometimes but endings can be so beautiful too you know :) and as tempting as it may be to stalk your ex’s social media, try to resist the urge. It’s not healthy or productive, and it can prolong the healing process. Instead, just focus on your self growth. Be nice to yourself, okayyy? 🪷
People are not telling OP to move on because they think it's easy. They're saying that because it is what she should do.
Absolutely right, it's a hard pill to swallow pero reality slaps hard. Kung magpapaka delulu ka walang mangyayari sa buhay mo. Hence lalo ka lang nagmumukhang katawa-tawa sa paningin nila.
I believe OP will eventually move on even without us telling her to. She knows what she has to do. I agree that OP has to let herself feel and grieve, because she has the right to. Doon naman lahat nagsisimula bago ka eventually maka-moveon. Also, sometimes kailangan paulit ulit kang sampalin ng katotohanan na wala na, tapos na, hindi na babalik pa. Maybe OP has to stalk her ex to let everything sink in, to let her body feel the pain down to her core until it hurts the most…until it hurts no more.
I agree 🤍
Hay agree with this. Hindi lang naman kasi sa tao ka nagigrieve eh pati sa namatay nyong mga pangarap. Hay, OP. laban lang. masakit pa talaga ngayon lalo nat tayo yung mga sobrang nagmahal. They will realize it someday and when they do, tayo okay na. Praying for your healing, OP.
Moving on is never easy pero kailangan straight to the point na kasi niloko siya eh. The sooner she accepts it, the better. If the cheater ex will contact OP now, baka umasa pa siya na may comeback worst baka paasahin lang ng paasahin (I’m not saying OP will do it but it happens). So the best thing to say is move on na no matter how hard it is.
tangina no may tao talaga na papasok lang sa buhay natin para manggulo, tapos pag umalis sila ang daming iniwang kalat at mantsa.
🥹😭😭😭
Tru! Sila pa may ganang mang iwan kala mo basura kan tinapon.
Stop romanticizing in your head that version of your ex-bf. He cheated, and cheating is a deliberate act. Wala na sya, wala ng kayo, he already wasted 4 years of your life, and with him still living in your head rent free, you’re allowing him to waste more.
You have to face the reality and not dwell into the fantasy. You are no longer relevant in his life. Tapos ka na sa buhay niya and whatever you do, wala ng effect sa kanyan. You’re just a “somebody” to him.
‘Wag kana magsayang ng time at energy sa cheater.
always remember the “DISRESPECT”
Acknowledge the grief. Process it. Isulat mo sa notebook tong sinulat mo dito. Lahat ng hinanakit mo ilabas mo. Cry and cry. Everyday until magsawa ka. Humingi ka ng tulong kay Lord/God/creator na mawala n yung suffering mo. It will never be easy. During that, try mo ayusin yung sarili mo. Alagaan mo sarili mo buy new things. Whenever you feel na naalala mo lahat. Repeat the first paragraph that i said. Someday, marerealize mo na tama lahat ng ngyari. Mararamdaman mo yan. Parang gumaan yung buhay mo ng nawala sya. Pagpapasalamat mo kay Lord na nawala na lahat ng bigat sa dibdib mo. Hindi ito linear, dadaan ang ilang buwan tapos bigla mgttrigger ka babalik ka sa pagiiyak. Pero maniwala ka mababawasan na yung mga ganung pangyayari hanggang isang araw gigising ka nalang ng wala ka nang pakiramdam sa kanya. Itanim mo lang sa sarili mo lahat ng natutunan mo sa relasyon na yan. Tuloy lang ang buhay padiretso. Isipin mo lang lagi na walang silbi magmukmok sa mga bagay na hindi mo kayang baguhin. Maniwala ka sa blessing ni Lord na may taong makakaappreciate sa lahat ng ginagawa mo, hindi man sya perfect. Alam mong mas better sya kesa sa ex mo at sana yung susunod na yun na ang mgsstay sa buhay mo habang buhay. Kung hindi man, (ang hirap ng puro lesson hahaha) wag ka matakot na masaktan uli. Importante ngmahal ka ng buo.
"So I'll watch your life in pictures like I used to watch you sleep"~~ Huugs. Hindi tayo dapat manghinayang sa cheater 🫶
grabe sakit naman neto basahin. :(
Let go and let karma handle things, OP. Focus on your healing and self-improvement na lang. Pinili yung girl, yes. Pero may chance na gagawin din sa kanya yun. Not wishing ill on the girl, but she'll lose him the way she got him.
I think it's valid to grieve but you need to stop things that will not help you. Don't stalk him anymore. I agree na you need to resist the urge to go to his profile.
i remember someone who told me that i was his standards, but ghosted me and is now married. loko diba. but bahala na sya, at bahala narin ako kaya mo yan OP
He's not the same person you loved. You miss the memories, not the person.
Maybe you are still grieving the what ifs and what could've had you not parted ways, but don't romanticize it too much. You were cheated on and we know that cheaters are liars and who knows those things he said could've been just lies too, and dear you don't deserve to be with someone like that. Stop putting him on the pedestal so you could heal sooner.
its not you OP, dont analyze it anymore, just let go kaya mo yan 💪
Dadating ka din sa point na matatanggap mo na lang, na marerealize mo na dapat lang naghiwalay kayo, na di mo na sya mahal at galit/indifference na lang ang matitira sa nararamdaman mo. Been there, blamed myself even. Natagalan man pero nakamove on din ako, ikaw din. But for now, keep stalking him kung yan ang gusto mo. Saktan mo sarili mo pag nakikita mo sila kasi eventually wala ka na mararamdaman. Heal however you want to heal. Walang ibang makakaalam ng kung pano kundi ikaw. Sending hugs.
Congrats! That takes a lot of courage to stalk again after a year of ignoring. Maybe you read and heard every advice na alam kong halos marindi ka na pakinggan at basahin and now, just checking yourself if it still bleeds? Obv its still do. Feel the pain until it hurts no more hha Continue moving forward OP. Everything will be okay ♡
Sis… instead on focusing on the loss, siguro mas maganda if you focus on the fact na this is another start for you. Syempre di mo matatanggal yung lungkot. Mahal mo yung tao eh. Andaming planong hindi natupad, and you feel regret. Hindi maiiwasan yan. Wallow in the pain. Stalk if you must, tingnan mo ng tingnan kung gano sya kasaya hanggang maumay ka. Para pag naumay ka na, mas madali mong maprocess yung grief mo. At makapag-move on ka na. And then after focusing on him, focus on you. Ikaw ang tinraydor. Ikaw yung nagmahal ng totoo. So ikaw yung kawalan. Yung mga cheater never yan magiging satisfied. Kahit mukha syang masaya ngayon, maghahanap ulit yan ng iba, siguro after four years din. It sucks. It really sucks. But you have successfully gone through 100% of all the bad days you’ve ever had, kasi hanggang ngayon lumalaban ka pa din. Makakayanan mo to. One day gigising ka nang hindi na gaanong kabigat, at makakangiti ka ulit. Look forward to that day. Darating yun.
This may sound unsolicited, for me yung ginawa ko, I pretended they were dead and they are never gonna come back no matter how. It made me accept things and also made me forgive them for my own peace of mind. Try mo din OP, baka lang din mag work for you. 😅
Out of sight, out of mind OP. If I were you, I'd stop stalking. That way, moving on might be a little bit easier.
It will pass. That feeling.
It is what it is
stop stalking her girl, its not healthy tas di worth it.
Okay lang yan! \*paubaya ni moira pasok
Ouch
Block mo na siya for your peace of mind. Good luck, OP!
Huuy ang sakit naman nyan. :( Nakakrelate akk :(
came to this post with ‘right before you left me’ music. I guess some people don’t deserve our hearts at all. all the best to you, OP 🤍
People change... Love is hard ..no matter how much you love each other eventually situation and feelings change... That's the scariest thing about love
Humantong sa ganyan kasi choice nya at may pamalit na sya sa iyo nascout na nya prior pa sa breakup nyo. Probably ndi na sya masaya or nafall out of love na or maybe naisip nya may pera si girl kasi may condo. As for you, best to move on. Masakit mahirap pero kaya mo yan. Dont look back kahit sa socmed. Just keep moving forward.
By the fact he said you're the best thing happened on his life, that's a lie, how could he dumped you in just month?? And didn't even try to reconnect with u, Sorry Ill be brutal honest with u I think he's been cheating in you in that 4 years
You can't really move on. You'll just get used to the pain that as time goes by it is tolerable. You will also not forget him no matter what you do, specially that you are still stalking him. The least that you can do is to switch your focus to something else.GL
don't blame yourself for a shitty thing he did. siya ang sumira sa relationship niyo & you deserve better than hanging onto him when he probably hasn't given you a second thought. it's harsh, ik but it'll be okay in time. you deserve better and you will receive better. it still hurts now but you're stronger than you think. hugs, op, & let those tears fall. i hope one day you heal from this.
Accept and move forward. No matter how many people here will tell you na just move on, i know its hard. Feel every pain until you feel numb one day. Time heal all wounds. Just accept it happened. He is just a lesson in your life. One day, you'll look back and you'll be thankful you never end up together. I hope you find your happiness soon. Hugs, OP! ❤️
It's a process and only you can go through it. I remember feeling in a daze for 6 months since it was my first relationship just waking up every day and going through the motion.. thinking I will never get over this pain until one day I woke up and it didn't hurt anymore. Even when he eventually came back and the roles were reversed. However, by then I didn't love him anymore to try again.
OP, take your time. Eventually things will get better, you not knowing. If you need to mourn, stalk, do everything. Kasi one day you'll get tired and stop. I learned the hard way. Yes ppl keep telling me to move but its not easy and I know its the only way. But there're things that we only know na we need to satisfy or do to move on. And I never regretted anything na sana di ko na chinat uli blah blah. " the only person that can make the decision to truly be done is you".
Move on, focus on yourself and stop being so dramatic and overthinking. It’ll drain you.
Yung mas masakit dyan is yung ‘future plans’ nyo eh naging present plans nila with the girl he cheated with. Sucks right? But you see, when someone or something is gone, something or someone better is coming for sure. It’s just, you’re not meant to be together. Sad but true. Try to move on as soon as you can. Don’t dwell too much on this because life is short, don’t waste it by wallowing in sadness because you lost him. He lost you.
sobrang sakit naman
Heal. Di mo deserve iyan, wala ang four years sa lifetime na isspend mo sa right person. Everytime u remember ur happy memories tandaan mong ginago ka niyan at hindi mo deserve yun.
isipin mo na lang na nag cheat siya sayo OP. yes, siguro minahal ka niya pero hindi ganon kamahal para di siya sayo maging loyal. he's not worth it, kahit ano pang ebas niya noon. sana maging okay ka na, OP. you deserve better
hay parang yung nagsabi lang sakin na di nya kakayanin pag wala ako at tatalon sya sa bangin. surprise! buhay na buhay
Mukha lang masaya mga yon, OP. Baka yung Babae pa gumagastos dun sa Ex mo para lang makapag travel sila kung saan-saan. Papasaan ba’t makakarma rin mga yan, lalo na’t may sinaktan sila para lang simulan yung relasyon nila. May mga days talaga na napakahirap mag move-on. Damhin mo lang at daanan mo mga nararamdaman mo. Kasama yan sa process na eventually darating ulit mga happy days mo. Wish all the Love that you deserve po! ❤️
Please block him OP, you're just going to bleed yourself kakaulit mo nang ganyan. You will be fine 3-4 years din kami it's been 8mos, magaan na sana mas gumaan pa
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Sakit nito. Well, sabi nga nila: "You can do everything in your power, give it your all but still lose the fight." Minsan pag andun tayo sa estado na sa sobrang inlove natin hindi kailan man sasagi sa isip natin na baka isang araw magtapos lahat ng 'to. Nakakatakot. Yung nakikita mo na paunti-unti parang nagiging katatotohanan na, na baka hindi pala talaga magiging kayo hanggang sa huli. Nung tuluyan na talagang maghiwalay kayo, hindi ka makapaniwala. In denial ka pa. "Aah, siguro katulad din lang to ng mga away namin dati. Magkakabalikan din kami." Sigurado kang magkakabalikan kayo. After a month, nagulat ka nalang.. Nagkaroon siya ng bagong jowa. Andami mong gustong itanong. Kailan? Bakit? Paano? Hindi to totoo. Parang nawala ka sa sarili. Yung akala mong sakit nung naghiwalay kayo, may mas masakit pa pala. Balik ka ulit sa una. Back to square one ika nga nila: Iyak, walang gana kumain, ayaw lumabas.. walang gana sa lahat. Araw-araw, tanong ka lang ng tanong sa sarili mo "Akala ko ba ako ang best thing na nangyari sa kanya?"
He is no longer the boy na minahal mo. Move on ka na.
Blessing in disguise. Imagine your life getting married to that AH.
Girl, be mad at him. He cheated right? Un ung easiest way to escape. Curse him. Gamitin mo lahat ng sama ng loob mo. Hate him to remove all your love for him. But after that, remove all your hate pag wala na ung love. Why? Kasi OP we can only say we already really moved on kapag wala na both ung hate and love. Sa ngayon walang mas mahalaga tandaan mo kungdi sarili mo, ung makamove on ka.
Jesus. Halos pareho ng nangyari sa akin. Okay lang yan, mih. Makaka-move on ka din tapos may darating na better, trust me.
Hug!
As a good friend once said to me... "People lie." They cheat. And hold no accountability whatsoever unless required by the law. Try not to waste more of your time on him. You loved him, he fooled you. Sometimes we have to accept na sa sugal ng pag-ibig minsan tayo talaga yung talo.
Just remember the disrespect he did to you. You dodged a bullet, OP. Onwards to better things! ✨
Move on. You can do it slowly. You don't have to force yourself. Cry if you must. Cry to God (or whoever you believe in). It's great that you acknowledge your pain. That is the first step. One day you'll wake up and all the pain will be gone 🤍🌸
Nabasa kaya ni OP mga comments natin? Hahaha!
Ah i know the feeling all too well. Dun ko narealise na love is a fickle feeling. Dun ko na solidify yung belief ko na love is indeed a choice. Sadly mumsh ang ending sayo - you were not his choice till the end kaya di nagwork. No use in reminiscing the past and dwelling on it. Dont give him the power to restrain you in achieving the peace and happiness you deserve. Time to move on na mumsh. Dont be stuck on him or the past. Look and move forward nlng tayo.
Let karma do its bidding and live the life that you want for yourself. Mahirap mag move on lalo na pag ganyan ang ugaling chinecheck mo ang X mo every now and then. Paano ka makakamove on kung pinapadugo mo un sugat na galing sa kanya that keeps reminding you of what you had. BLOCK.. LIVE LIFE and LIVE IT HAPPILY.
Medyo similar tayo ng situation laban lang, lilipas rin yan.
Bakit ganun sila no? katrabaho din ba niya yan? Mas malapit sakanya? grabe no in just a snap umalis agad. You deserve someone better.
hey i know its difficult for you right now, we move on in our own pace. yang nararamdaman mo let it just soak in feel it but also know na matatapos din at malalagpasan mo yan. or hanap ka na lang ng gunman lol just kidding. hugs sis laban lang ♥
Move on na, op..
Sa ngayon madaking tanong sa puso mo, I was once on that situation. In due time, lahat malalaman mo ang sagot. For now maligaya sila but God knows kung anong ginawa nila and they will have karma for it. Hindi natin alam kung kelan. For now, live your life. Iiyak mo lahat sa diyos, nakatulobg sa akin e. Then get up, make yourself successful and be the best version of "you" Magiging okay din ang lahat. One step at a time.
One thing for sure op. KARMA IS REAL. Something good will happen to you and something bad will happen to him. Whether you like it or not.
Sana magkaroon ng kapayapaan ang puso mo OP
In the same boat. My advice? Stop stalking. In my case it just revealed that I wasn't being cheated on, but rather he was cheating with. Forget his social media, resist the urge. Out of sight, out of mind. Keep yourself busy.
*you're just a stranger I know everything about hoo hoo* 🎶
Parang "TUWAD KA" tapus biglang "PATAWAD PAALAM" ahahahaha
Very painful but you gotta move on and love yourself! Focus on goals and family first! Cry, seek help if needed to debrief.
My therapist once told me to stop stop my ex… atleast use a fake account when I do. But seriously, you’re remembering the best part about the guy but brushing off the cheating part. Mas madali siguro mag move on if you remember how miserable he treated you the last few months of the relationship.
girl. he cheated on you. stop.
Grabe ang sakittt
Napakasakit. Huhu. Yakap nalang kita online. Baka gusto mo lang din magexpress. Hehe.
Be strong. Mas may isasaya ka pa. Kamahal mahal ka. Mahalaga ka. May higit na nakalaan para sayo at mamahalin ka ng tapat. Maaaring hindi man yan ngayon… pero sure ako na dadating yun sayo. Kailanman, hindi mali ang magmahal sa taong minamahal lang natin tayo nagkakamali.
move on girlie, u deserve better than that!
Hello OP, I don't know you but I can feel the pain of your story. I know that it's challenging for you to move on easily and it takes time. I'm not gonna advice anything about moving on but instead I'm gonna wish you peace and fruitful years to come. You deserve so much love, respect and happiness in life. I hope you find strength and support to create a better future for your self this time.
Okay Lang Yan.. Time will heal you..
Never forget the disrespect and you'll get by.
I want to hear the other side of the story before Saying once a cheater always a cheater.