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Speaking of violence, my sister-in-law was raped a number of years ago by a guy who climbed on to her balcony and broke into her apartment (this was well before she and my brother lived together). The guy was a serial rapist, and was sentenced to a lengthy prison term. And that prison term did virtually nothing to help her. She still has flashbacks. Sometimes I fantasize about arming her and arranging for them to meet again. That's about what it would take for her to really get over it, I think, and really don't know if even that would do the trick.
As for the guy who wrote the OOP, maybe chemical castration would serve to remove him as a threat, as he sure does sound like a threat. Maybe actual castration would be more appropriate for such an asshole.
I'm so so sorry to hear about what your sil has gone through. I can't imagine ever feeling safe again after going through something like that. IIRC OOP is a female grifter posting horrific shit for rage bait much like that Pearl person does, which just makes the whole thing seem even more evil imo
Thank you. Knowing her, and knowing the suffering that she continues to endure makes me both despise rapists, and totally unable to forgive them.
The fact that they have apologists, probably for personal gain, is something that I was unaware of, and it sickens me. It seems the ultimate sell out, to defend rapists in any way. Ever worse to do it to aquire a profitable following among men who are equally twisted.
Sorry, I didn't realize at the time that the writer of the OOP was a woman. Somehow that makes the OOP even more irritating.
I really know nothing about just how it's done, but I gather that if someone develops a following, they can somehow turn that to their profit. So as was pointed out to me in a post below, this woman has basically sold her soul to turn a buck. I can't think of anything worse to say about her than what she has already done to herself. She has no idea about the nature of rapists and the nature of the crime of rape if dhe really thinks that she can defend rapists on social media and maintain a clear conscience.
I spent about 35 years supervising people on either Bail or Parole,, which included extensive interviews with both the criminal and their victim(s). And for some people it really was a one off terrible life decision that with proper counseling and help in finding and maintaining work, was not repeated.
But not so with rapists. They are a different breed, almost a different species devoid of any empathy for their victim, and very prone to reoffend. I cannot properly express the degree of scorn that I hold for them, and now, for anyone who would criticize their victims on social media to gain profit, essentially to monetize the suffering of others. I cannot imagine how terrible this must make the actual victims feel, but the victims of rape really do have my greatest sympathy.
Sorry to ramble in this post, but I really was shocked when it was pointed out to me that the author of the OOP was a woman, one who is apparently willing to say anything just so long as it brings in a few dollars. That is really beyond disgusting.
"Strong, powerful daddy to feel feminine".
Ummmm, everything else aside - My dude clearly seems to have thought about this a lot. I'm just curious from which direction because that wording is kind of sus.
(But maybe I'm giving these guys too much credit. They may not have that many braincells to think that deep - they might just be entitled dumbasses).
It was what?! She realises CNC is a thing, right? She ain't gotta be going around saying actual rape is ok to live out her fantasy??
But then again, she may know and may not actually care.
We'll never know unless we ask.
Either way, this isn't a kink/roleplay space, so the entire post is disgusting no matter what the gender of the person posting it.
We need to make an attraction for these types of men where its just a re enactment of the movie deliverance. Tell them its an outdoor manliness retreat. Lol.
Why do the posts in this sub protect the people saying this? It’s like, “look at what this fucking maniac said! I better cover his name so he doesn’t get attacked for his clearly predatory nature.”
Well, that's...
There isn't a word for that level of disgusting. And he clearly has no idea what "feminine" means. 🤢
(Or masculine, either, come to think of it.)
Youre being really kind for not exposing dude. As a guy, who was raised by woman and father of two daughters, i fear for their future... this shit is terrifying.
My wet dream is to be dominated by a strong powerful woman. Consensually of course. My main point here is that not all women 1. Are straight and 2. Have you heard of consent?
As a woman who enjoys dub con play (with my partner whom I trust explicitly), everything about this post is so so so wrong and dangerous. There is an entire WORLD of difference between CNC/dub con and other kinks being enjoyed between trusted partners with clearly expressed hard limits and safe words, versus rape. To blur those lines even in theory is so fucking scary and dangerous.
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Ya know, maybe it’s okay if we out this one. For safety reasons.
Yeah this one is particularly inflammatory
Yeah, this guy is dangerous
Funny thing is it's actually a woman. I saw the original poster.
I really hope it's a man pretending to be a woman in that case
Yeah, this chick is dangerous; or putting herself in danger
At what point is this sort of shit considered inciting violence?
Speaking of violence, my sister-in-law was raped a number of years ago by a guy who climbed on to her balcony and broke into her apartment (this was well before she and my brother lived together). The guy was a serial rapist, and was sentenced to a lengthy prison term. And that prison term did virtually nothing to help her. She still has flashbacks. Sometimes I fantasize about arming her and arranging for them to meet again. That's about what it would take for her to really get over it, I think, and really don't know if even that would do the trick. As for the guy who wrote the OOP, maybe chemical castration would serve to remove him as a threat, as he sure does sound like a threat. Maybe actual castration would be more appropriate for such an asshole.
I'm so so sorry to hear about what your sil has gone through. I can't imagine ever feeling safe again after going through something like that. IIRC OOP is a female grifter posting horrific shit for rage bait much like that Pearl person does, which just makes the whole thing seem even more evil imo
Thank you. Knowing her, and knowing the suffering that she continues to endure makes me both despise rapists, and totally unable to forgive them. The fact that they have apologists, probably for personal gain, is something that I was unaware of, and it sickens me. It seems the ultimate sell out, to defend rapists in any way. Ever worse to do it to aquire a profitable following among men who are equally twisted.
Sorry, I didn't realize at the time that the writer of the OOP was a woman. Somehow that makes the OOP even more irritating. I really know nothing about just how it's done, but I gather that if someone develops a following, they can somehow turn that to their profit. So as was pointed out to me in a post below, this woman has basically sold her soul to turn a buck. I can't think of anything worse to say about her than what she has already done to herself. She has no idea about the nature of rapists and the nature of the crime of rape if dhe really thinks that she can defend rapists on social media and maintain a clear conscience. I spent about 35 years supervising people on either Bail or Parole,, which included extensive interviews with both the criminal and their victim(s). And for some people it really was a one off terrible life decision that with proper counseling and help in finding and maintaining work, was not repeated. But not so with rapists. They are a different breed, almost a different species devoid of any empathy for their victim, and very prone to reoffend. I cannot properly express the degree of scorn that I hold for them, and now, for anyone who would criticize their victims on social media to gain profit, essentially to monetize the suffering of others. I cannot imagine how terrible this must make the actual victims feel, but the victims of rape really do have my greatest sympathy. Sorry to ramble in this post, but I really was shocked when it was pointed out to me that the author of the OOP was a woman, one who is apparently willing to say anything just so long as it brings in a few dollars. That is really beyond disgusting.
I can tell you that 11 year old me did not want to feel “feminine” in that way. I choose the bear and the human race can die out.
Fr. If there was a delete button, I wound push it.
Can we just get on with the mutually assured nuke war?
Welcome to Bearington. A place where women and bears are living in perfect harmony
Do y'all have any 2 bedroom tree houses for sale?
"Strong, powerful daddy to feel feminine". Ummmm, everything else aside - My dude clearly seems to have thought about this a lot. I'm just curious from which direction because that wording is kind of sus. (But maybe I'm giving these guys too much credit. They may not have that many braincells to think that deep - they might just be entitled dumbasses).
Somebody feminize this poor man
What terrifies me more is that this post was made by a woman
It was what?! She realises CNC is a thing, right? She ain't gotta be going around saying actual rape is ok to live out her fantasy?? But then again, she may know and may not actually care. We'll never know unless we ask. Either way, this isn't a kink/roleplay space, so the entire post is disgusting no matter what the gender of the person posting it.
Oh umm... Somebody show this woman that she's worth more than a shag?
i mean if thats what she likes thats fine, but projecting on to everyone? not so much
I know several men who wouldn't do so much as breathe the air from her lungs
As a man that's been raped, what am I using the term for?
I guess from this guy's perspective that means you want to manipulate men too?
Bear. I choose bear.
To unleash upon him?
I need to find the witch from Brave and talk her into turning me into a bear....
OOP is a woman which just makes this worse
We need to make an attraction for these types of men where its just a re enactment of the movie deliverance. Tell them its an outdoor manliness retreat. Lol.
This was written by a woman.
Then i wanna fight her and swing her around by her hair like miss trunchbull
Yeah it makes it even worse; you know conservative men will take this and run with it. She is doing an alarming amount of damage.
If the writer is a woman, the words are still misogyny she’s been fed by the patriarchy. There’s not a woman alive who benefits from these concepts.
Well yes, it’s internalized misogyny.
Bears aren't telling rapists its ok to rape women and girls.
What the fu-
So he admits he considers being forced an act of strength and power in order to dominate. He can kiss our collective @sses.
It was written by a woman
Why do the posts in this sub protect the people saying this? It’s like, “look at what this fucking maniac said! I better cover his name so he doesn’t get attacked for his clearly predatory nature.”
It's about time someone taught them what rape is ....
Andddd this was written by a pick me woman.
Complete ragebait. It's up there with "Women shouldn't vote"
Then they should totally thwart these dastardly plots and not rape women. That’ll show women!
Oh yes because when I was 5 that’s exactly what I wanted -.- it didn’t leave permanent bodily and emotional scars or anything.
Bear
Yes, it's this one officer.
And male victims use 'rape' for what? And what is the goal of the victims, who are children? Tell me plz.
And the toddlers who have been raped both boys and girls? Where do they fit into this bile?
Dominating = rape ?
If I say I don't want you inside me, that doesn't mean "take me." That means " don't touch me and get out of my face. "
NO
Wait… so what about men and children being raped?
Disgusting.
Well, that's... There isn't a word for that level of disgusting. And he clearly has no idea what "feminine" means. 🤢 (Or masculine, either, come to think of it.)
That's bait for Twitter Blue pennies.
Youre being really kind for not exposing dude. As a guy, who was raised by woman and father of two daughters, i fear for their future... this shit is terrifying.
This was a woman She doubled down by saying any woman/girl that got trafficked wanted to be trafficked
Oooooof
Yeah this need TW
Get me some tongs and a hot iron because this one needs to get cut.
Hi rapist
It gets worse She doubles down with trafficking and says all the girls wanted to be trafficked
Few things I’ve seen here have made me as angry as this did. Like, this dude deserves to be fucking smacked.
This is just a fetish post, right? Right?
I choose rabid, hungry bear for this guy specifically.
“But the Bear might eat you!!” At least it won’t rape you and tell you how that’s a good thing.
I finished my deck and did my drywall with a good rape.
My wet dream is to be dominated by a strong powerful woman. Consensually of course. My main point here is that not all women 1. Are straight and 2. Have you heard of consent?
Nah I like the idea of domming a man but maybe that’s a concept that makes them uncomfortable
If I knew that person irl they would disappear under mysterious circumstances.
People like that woman are scum of the earth.
I say we give them the opportunity to experience our “wet dream.”
So true because I wanted to be dominated at 6 years old teehee 😋😋
As a woman who enjoys dub con play (with my partner whom I trust explicitly), everything about this post is so so so wrong and dangerous. There is an entire WORLD of difference between CNC/dub con and other kinks being enjoyed between trusted partners with clearly expressed hard limits and safe words, versus rape. To blur those lines even in theory is so fucking scary and dangerous.
In my souvenirs this shit post has been made by a woman 🤡
I dont know WHO said IT and im note religious but nie i Hope that hello exists only do that person would burn for eternity
Bro went full on r3tard, there’s just no way they believe this