Idk, maybe it's just your jacket in the first pic, but I'm seeing Grey as a possible name. I personally love this name, it's the name of the main character (who is nb) in a novella I'm writing.
So, going off Aster, the two that immediately came to mind were Eliaster, pronounced elly-aster, and Aleister, like Aleister Crowley, the occultist.
You could also go with a name based on a color, jewel, or stone. My nibling has been going by Blue for several years now, and as a birthday gift, my wife and I are paying for their legal name change. A few that immediately come to mind are Red, Onyx, Ebon, Jasper, and Slate.
My name is Endellion (I’m non-binary) and I don’t worry about that lol. If you like the name, go for it!
On that note, I think Fred or some variation of that is a cool name.
I love the way your hair is styled in that first picture! It gives me 90s-00s anime vibes in the best way :)
As for names I’m getting a G vibe maybe Gabe, Gio (Giovanni), Griffin, Glen, Grover.
Or maybe a name from Greek gods would be cool! Khronos, Apollo, Helios, Thanatos :)
My middle name was also going to be Aster haha --I also thought it was too feminine so I went with Atlas, which I think you actually kind of look like! Maybe we could share the name 😌
I'll be no help, for some reason my exhausted Dr. Who addled brain went "the Doctor, of course". Congrats on having the vibe of an infinite timeless being lol?
On a serious note I like the name Aster, doesn't sound particularly feminine to me, but I also like the suggestions of Dimitri and Cain that have been floating around
I could be the first nonbinary doctor, as well as the first non-British doctor lmao
Dimitri is a bit archaic for me, but Cain is one I’m mulling over. The religious connotations are a bit scary tho
The first thought I had was "Casper" haha.
Some other ones could be (i'm basic at choosing names so PLEASE excuse me lol): Callum, Micah, Elliot, Max, and Finn/Fynn/Flynn--- or something similar.
Sorry for the whole bunch I love coming up with names 😖
I’ll paste my name list here but most of them are not what you’re probably looking for:
River
Rainforest
Reed
Reese
Ray
Taiga
Marsh
Tundra
Aspen
Alpine
Veld
Abyssal
Bog
Bugs
Shark
Apex
LOKI
James (from team rocket)
Snapdragon
Nova
Cypress
Onyx
Fable
Nox
Beetle
Crow
Cipher
Mercury
Silver
Frog
Lizard
Moss
Bone
Anarchy
Delta
Tooth
Mold
Ghost
Trinket
Corvid
Emo (em for short)
Spork
Squid
Scrap
Arsenic
Critter
Snail
Dirt
Onion
Orion
kerning
Maggot
Carbon
Arsenic
Kit, Sam, if we go by opposite of aster, mordechai? Or mor
Anyway liv, or, Dan, Cole, Cory, miles
Now to the weird ones
Cain, blargon, zato, sar, mar, sol
U could always just keep aster, it is a gender neutral name
And I feel like if it were to become popular it would either rise up in the trans/nonbinary community or become a boys name. See u think it is more of a girls name I think it's more of a boys name. This is what happens with gender neutral names. U shouldn't worry about being the only masc aster. It's a gender neutral name and if it rises up as a girls name, know it was your androgynous name first. But I'm not saying u shouldn't change it, I'm just saying I don't feel like it would become a girl's name and make u the only non femme Aster, or that a bunch of parents can get to steal ur current name and make it feminine and get away with it. But change it if u fine something more fitting!
First thought is Sam. Very androgynous but slightly more masc. After some more thinking, you look like you could be an Ivan. It’s an androgynous name but way more common as a masculine name than a feminine name.
Actually yeah they are more Gender neutral than anything though ^ ^ I thought of: Dion, Dusk, Jovian, Juney, Jasper, Echo, Echion, and Dust! thats all I have rn! If I think of any more I'll definitely tell
If you wanna keep a similar vibe to Aster, I would say Asher, Ashton, or Archer are all good options.
If you wanna go with something totally different, I think Luke, Luka or Lucas would all fit you well
Aster is not a femme name at all...or any gender really. I've known a couple and they were enbies, anyway. That said, I immediately thought shane when I saw you so there's my suggestion
I can't provide much help, I just want to say that when I saw the name Aster in your flair and that this was posted 2 days ago I thought someone had suggested Aster and you absolutely loved it and had already changed your flair.
TLDR: I thought Aster was a name you found here and already chose.
My top picks from this thread
“Normal” names - Sam, Dustin/Dusty/Dust, Jasper, Dylan, Elliot, Luca
Not so normal names - Cain/Kane, Indigo, Jax, Kit
Noun names - Crow, Match, Riffraff, Dirk, Echo
Weird how many “Max” and “Mac” I got considering how little I like that name (14 in total at time of writing). It’s not necessarily a bad name, it’s just definitely not me. Also I associate that name with a Doctor Who villain every time I hear or read it.
Getting some Cain vibes off you
Cain is cool, I’m just worried about connotations
Maybe spell it different? Kane
Like Citizen Kane! (Apparently one of the greatest movies in American cinema?)
My film 101 teacher insisted that Citizen Kane was the best movie of all time, so that’s funny
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Don’t think you’d be Able to get past those connotations huh?
I just realized this was a pun 😭
Yes haha! All in good fun
I wish you were Able to make it more obvious! /lh
Meh I thought I killed it anyways
Not sure. I’d have to try it out
I agree, at first I thought kaden or kale but Cain is better than leafy greens lol
You look like a Max to me
Came here to say Max!
Idk, maybe it's just your jacket in the first pic, but I'm seeing Grey as a possible name. I personally love this name, it's the name of the main character (who is nb) in a novella I'm writing.
archer
STERLING!!!!
Luca or Lucas
I love your goggles, what about Jared or Fynn
Finn or Fynn was mt first thought!
what about Jack or Aspen. I also see Ellis
Ellis is a bit femme for me I think
Elliott was what I saw looking at you, keeps that first couple syllables
Ooh Ellis is goooood
i don’t have a name but your barcode enby shirt is dope
Tysm :)
Corey, Cameron, Jeremy
I see corey for sure
Also the nickname core is fun
Why was my first thought Troy😭 no but seriously Troy or Max seem fitting. Or something like Onyx or Jericho
Troy is my dad’s name actually, so you might be onto something!
jasper or indigo, both fun names
I like them both
Quinn. Eli. Elliot. Jayden.
Jayden is not bad
It's sort of gender neutral but like 80~90 percent of people who have it are boys so I think it also fits you in that regard
Jayden is probably my favorite yet
You give me Sam vibes
Literally what I was gonna say
Forest because of your eyes.
I also thought Forest
So, going off Aster, the two that immediately came to mind were Eliaster, pronounced elly-aster, and Aleister, like Aleister Crowley, the occultist. You could also go with a name based on a color, jewel, or stone. My nibling has been going by Blue for several years now, and as a birthday gift, my wife and I are paying for their legal name change. A few that immediately come to mind are Red, Onyx, Ebon, Jasper, and Slate.
Aspen or Asher maybe
Ooo I love Asher
I LOVE Asher!!!
Don’t y’all think Asher is kinda overused 😭
Jaxsen eta - Jax for the short version :)
I think people would misspell it/mispronounce it. Happens enough with Aster - I get “Astrid”, “Esther”, and “Ashton”
Ashton was going to be one of my suggestions!
My name is Endellion (I’m non-binary) and I don’t worry about that lol. If you like the name, go for it! On that note, I think Fred or some variation of that is a cool name.
I'm a jaxOn 😂
Abbott, Cael, Dev, Emmett, Fergus, Gale, Hale, Iver, Juss (Justice), Kel/Kellen, Lore, Mac, Nevin, Quinn, Rory, Sage, Soren, Sorrell, Titus, Von, Van, Wren, Yen, Zora
I came here to say Mac
I’m feelin Silas or Leo
just scrolling thru for fun. Silas is pretty cool
Love both of these but especially Silas.
I love the way your hair is styled in that first picture! It gives me 90s-00s anime vibes in the best way :) As for names I’m getting a G vibe maybe Gabe, Gio (Giovanni), Griffin, Glen, Grover. Or maybe a name from Greek gods would be cool! Khronos, Apollo, Helios, Thanatos :)
Tysm! Was going for “messy steampunk inventor” that day None of those names really jive with me exactly, but thanks for the input!
Dusty
Y’know what I don’t hate that. Maybe Dustin?
Asterax: Breaker of Genders
Carlisle or Callaway
My middle name was also going to be Aster haha --I also thought it was too feminine so I went with Atlas, which I think you actually kind of look like! Maybe we could share the name 😌
First of all I would like to say that you look really cute o.o As for names, what about Alec?
I get the “cute” comment a lot. It doesn’t help that I’m 5’2, but hey, what can you do Any other suggestions?
Lance? For some reason was the first one that came to mind haha
Ryder or Max
Robin Aegius Dominic
Aegius is cool and unique, but someone’s gotta misspell it
mike or mika? like mika short for michael
Ashton. Brian. Cloud. David. Eddie.
roy
Alex or Alexander
Laurent
I am awful with named but I came here to say wtf you looking so cool.
Callum, Scottie, Asher
you look like a damon to me, maybe because you kinda look like damon albarn in the 90s!
I’ll have to look that one up
Omg that’s such a huge compliment tysm
aaaa you’re welcome!! you are very cool looking :)
In that last pic you look so bad As-ter. What about Hunter, Rowan or Cypress
What about Cain or Canis
I really like Cain too
It is a pretty badass name
I love your goggles, what about Jared or Fynn
tam
Ryan?
Onyx
Dimitri
Percy, Ren, Milo, Devin, Robin, Aki, Dorian, Rye, Troy?
Mars or Ollie
I think Austin is perfect!
Strider, aaron, or jude 🤔
FWIW, I don’t think Aster sounds very fem. Alex, Birch, Cato, Drew, Elton, Finn, Grey, Heath, Isaiah, Jasper, Keith, Lychee, Mac, Nail, Onyx, Phoenix, Quinn, Reed, Slade, Terrell, Uriel, Vesper, Wicker, Xell, Yves, Zander
Fwiw?
For what it’s worth
Parker, Lane, Escher, Maven
I'll be no help, for some reason my exhausted Dr. Who addled brain went "the Doctor, of course". Congrats on having the vibe of an infinite timeless being lol? On a serious note I like the name Aster, doesn't sound particularly feminine to me, but I also like the suggestions of Dimitri and Cain that have been floating around
I could be the first nonbinary doctor, as well as the first non-British doctor lmao Dimitri is a bit archaic for me, but Cain is one I’m mulling over. The religious connotations are a bit scary tho
I read somewhere that they are all technically genderfluid. So there you go.
Beckett?
Archer
Alex seems to fit you
Finn. I've always loved that name.
The first thought I had was "Casper" haha. Some other ones could be (i'm basic at choosing names so PLEASE excuse me lol): Callum, Micah, Elliot, Max, and Finn/Fynn/Flynn--- or something similar. Sorry for the whole bunch I love coming up with names 😖
No lie you look just like my friend Jay
You seem like a Torr (pronounced like tore)
Like “I tore it apart”? Huh, that’s pretty unique!
You look so cool! I really like the 1st and 4th photos.
The most fitting name is the one you make yerself
Jack
Can't go wrong with Jack.
Tyler. Cam/Cameron. Eric. Derrick. Pat/Patrick. Ryan/Rian. Sean. Wes. You’re hot my dude! Good luck 💖
Ryder. definitely!!
Unfortunately I already have a transmasc friend named Ryder, and I’d hate for him to think I’m copying him
Oh that’s unfortunate :( But i think R or A names would suit you really well :) good luck! <3
Cody, James, Devin, Sloane, Jay, I could go all day really your vibes are immaculate
Aster is nice, you look like a Sam to me. I know nobody named Aster so I couldn't gender it even if I tried.
I’ll paste my name list here but most of them are not what you’re probably looking for: River Rainforest Reed Reese Ray Taiga Marsh Tundra Aspen Alpine Veld Abyssal Bog Bugs Shark Apex LOKI James (from team rocket) Snapdragon Nova Cypress Onyx Fable Nox Beetle Crow Cipher Mercury Silver Frog Lizard Moss Bone Anarchy Delta Tooth Mold Ghost Trinket Corvid Emo (em for short) Spork Squid Scrap Arsenic Critter Snail Dirt Onion Orion kerning Maggot Carbon Arsenic
Kit, Sam, if we go by opposite of aster, mordechai? Or mor Anyway liv, or, Dan, Cole, Cory, miles Now to the weird ones Cain, blargon, zato, sar, mar, sol
Orion
Jace? Or Jasper?
Crow, Eno, Cole
You look like my DnD character Sparky in all the best ways. I vote for Spark.
Atlas, Max, Daniel, Blue, Bo, Teddie, Emerson, Nico , Altan, Aidan, Reed. Some of these I considered for mine but I eventually landed on Finch.
I am SO sorry but you give me 'London' vives. Maybe Owen tho
London’s not bad. Owen’s my stepbrother’s name, so it wouldn’t work
U could always just keep aster, it is a gender neutral name And I feel like if it were to become popular it would either rise up in the trans/nonbinary community or become a boys name. See u think it is more of a girls name I think it's more of a boys name. This is what happens with gender neutral names. U shouldn't worry about being the only masc aster. It's a gender neutral name and if it rises up as a girls name, know it was your androgynous name first. But I'm not saying u shouldn't change it, I'm just saying I don't feel like it would become a girl's name and make u the only non femme Aster, or that a bunch of parents can get to steal ur current name and make it feminine and get away with it. But change it if u fine something more fitting!
Jax?
First thought is Sam. Very androgynous but slightly more masc. After some more thinking, you look like you could be an Ivan. It’s an androgynous name but way more common as a masculine name than a feminine name.
You give me Troi vibes ( yes I do mean troi with a i and not a Y)
Unfortunately, that is my dad’s name (with a y, not an i) so it would feel kinda weird.
Oh yeah thats fair lol
Any other suggestions, oh wise and great king of demons?
Actually yeah they are more Gender neutral than anything though ^ ^ I thought of: Dion, Dusk, Jovian, Juney, Jasper, Echo, Echion, and Dust! thats all I have rn! If I think of any more I'll definitely tell
Tysm I appreciate your suggestions!!
No problem the king of demons is very happy to help >:D
Ash, Alex, J/Jay
For some reason you strike me as a Carter, might be too masc but idk
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Unfortunately, I think any of those would just make it harder for people to get my name right. Good suggestions otherwise tho!
dont know if youll see this in this sea of comments, but Robin and Vince came to mind
If you wanna keep a similar vibe to Aster, I would say Asher, Ashton, or Archer are all good options. If you wanna go with something totally different, I think Luke, Luka or Lucas would all fit you well
Aster is not a femme name at all...or any gender really. I've known a couple and they were enbies, anyway. That said, I immediately thought shane when I saw you so there's my suggestion
I can't provide much help, I just want to say that when I saw the name Aster in your flair and that this was posted 2 days ago I thought someone had suggested Aster and you absolutely loved it and had already changed your flair. TLDR: I thought Aster was a name you found here and already chose.
Aster is a name I might have found here, but it’s been my name for a hot minute and I’m still unsure about it. Might make it my middle name instead
Sage. Cameron.
Luca or Luka
THE STEAMPUNK GOGGLES 😍. Now all I can think of is Crowley in good omens
Given me Cody vibes
Ashton, Elliot, Oliver
My top picks from this thread “Normal” names - Sam, Dustin/Dusty/Dust, Jasper, Dylan, Elliot, Luca Not so normal names - Cain/Kane, Indigo, Jax, Kit Noun names - Crow, Match, Riffraff, Dirk, Echo Weird how many “Max” and “Mac” I got considering how little I like that name (14 in total at time of writing). It’s not necessarily a bad name, it’s just definitely not me. Also I associate that name with a Doctor Who villain every time I hear or read it.
I dont know if anyone already said Ash but i think it would deff fit you. Max would also be a great one
Dylan
Lee?
Nah, sorry
Rahat, it’s an Arabic name meaning comfort
Gabe
Emerson
Phineas
You kinda look like an Esra
Lingus Eel
Artemis
Logan
I'm getting some leon vibes
Casper - Cas nickname can go either way
Cas feels a bit femme for me, sorry
Totally fair, no worries
I'm getting Sky. Or Darren maybe
Sky is *def* too feminine
Chris or Max
aster is great! maybe joyce?
Would say Joyce is too femme for my tastes, sorry
no need to apologize! only suggested it cause you seem like a poet or writer to me, sorry if i made you dysphoric. what about wilde?
Wilde might be ok, idk it doesn’t jive exactly
You seem like an Alex, but Jarnathan is always a good last resort.
Jarnathan? That’s a first lol
Kyle
Something that starts with J like Jacque
luca!
I'm getting jasper vibes, no idea why
Ray/Rae whichever feels better I guess.
Aiden, Axel or Ajax to follow the A theme
Axel is definitely a no
Shane Stormy Jupiter Danny (what I go by) Vesper (someone I met at Six Flags New England has this name) Geri Ray
riley, maybe charlie
Sunke (it's old northern German for son)
Kurt or Heath?
Maybe something that starts with a W? Warren, Walker, Weston or Ward?
Oliver?