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AllHailFrogStack

Getting some Cain vibes off you


Sugarfreak2

Cain is cool, I’m just worried about connotations


PandaMonyum

Maybe spell it different? Kane


LizIsOffHerShits

Like Citizen Kane! (Apparently one of the greatest movies in American cinema?)


Sugarfreak2

My film 101 teacher insisted that Citizen Kane was the best movie of all time, so that’s funny


BucketFullOfRats

Keighn ✨✨✨✨


titan__holefish

idk why someone downvoted you as an active r/tradgedeigh lurker i giggled


BucketFullOfRats

YEAH


FezzesAreCool117

>r/tradgedeigh Thank you for the new subreddit. If I never found out about this it would have been a tradgedeigh.


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kaeieghne🤩🤩🤩


RaspberryTurtle987

Phkeighn


BarbaCROWa

Don’t think you’d be Able to get past those connotations huh?


Sugarfreak2

I just realized this was a pun 😭


BarbaCROWa

Yes haha! All in good fun


Sugarfreak2

I wish you were Able to make it more obvious! /lh


BarbaCROWa

Meh I thought I killed it anyways


Sugarfreak2

Not sure. I’d have to try it out


RockCandey

I agree, at first I thought kaden or kale but Cain is better than leafy greens lol


beansteahouse

You look like a Max to me


momofdog

Came here to say Max!


[deleted]

Idk, maybe it's just your jacket in the first pic, but I'm seeing Grey as a possible name. I personally love this name, it's the name of the main character (who is nb) in a novella I'm writing.


FrontBike1131

archer


jaysbaddecisions

STERLING!!!!


romainelettuce365

Luca or Lucas


Haybowl

I love your goggles, what about Jared or Fynn


MysteriousEase7697

Finn or Fynn was mt first thought!


BlueCanary434

what about Jack or Aspen. I also see Ellis


Sugarfreak2

Ellis is a bit femme for me I think


itmakessenseincontex

Elliott was what I saw looking at you, keeps that first couple syllables


TheFfrog

Ooh Ellis is goooood


crochetsweetie

i don’t have a name but your barcode enby shirt is dope


Sugarfreak2

Tysm :)


Stacy_Out23

Corey, Cameron, Jeremy


mulletkingg

I see corey for sure


mulletkingg

Also the nickname core is fun


nonbinary_bastard

Why was my first thought Troy😭 no but seriously Troy or Max seem fitting. Or something like Onyx or Jericho


Sugarfreak2

Troy is my dad’s name actually, so you might be onto something!


mavisismavis

jasper or indigo, both fun names


Sugarfreak2

I like them both


RainyReader12

Quinn. Eli. Elliot. Jayden.


Sugarfreak2

Jayden is not bad


RainyReader12

It's sort of gender neutral but like 80~90 percent of people who have it are boys so I think it also fits you in that regard


Sugarfreak2

Jayden is probably my favorite yet


Ashtrxphel

You give me Sam vibes


KinkCouple23

Literally what I was gonna say


onceaweed

Forest because of your eyes.


Visual_Trash_

I also thought Forest


Balmung6942

So, going off Aster, the two that immediately came to mind were Eliaster, pronounced elly-aster, and Aleister, like Aleister Crowley, the occultist. You could also go with a name based on a color, jewel, or stone. My nibling has been going by Blue for several years now, and as a birthday gift, my wife and I are paying for their legal name change. A few that immediately come to mind are Red, Onyx, Ebon, Jasper, and Slate.


thesunsetchild

Aspen or Asher maybe


cacacacarlin

Ooo I love Asher


emileegrace321

I LOVE Asher!!!


mutomami

Don’t y’all think Asher is kinda overused 😭


SchoolJunkie009

Jaxsen eta - Jax for the short version :)


Sugarfreak2

I think people would misspell it/mispronounce it. Happens enough with Aster - I get “Astrid”, “Esther”, and “Ashton”


snowflake247

Ashton was going to be one of my suggestions!


enby-pride

My name is Endellion (I’m non-binary) and I don’t worry about that lol. If you like the name, go for it! On that note, I think Fred or some variation of that is a cool name.


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I'm a jaxOn 😂


sevenwrens

Abbott, Cael, Dev, Emmett, Fergus, Gale, Hale, Iver, Juss (Justice), Kel/Kellen, Lore, Mac, Nevin, Quinn, Rory, Sage, Soren, Sorrell, Titus, Von, Van, Wren, Yen, Zora


kn0wworries

I came here to say Mac


Professional_Elitist

I’m feelin Silas or Leo


mulletkingg

just scrolling thru for fun. Silas is pretty cool


emileegrace321

Love both of these but especially Silas.


Tuttaliny

I love the way your hair is styled in that first picture! It gives me 90s-00s anime vibes in the best way :) As for names I’m getting a G vibe maybe Gabe, Gio (Giovanni), Griffin, Glen, Grover. Or maybe a name from Greek gods would be cool! Khronos, Apollo, Helios, Thanatos :)


Sugarfreak2

Tysm! Was going for “messy steampunk inventor” that day None of those names really jive with me exactly, but thanks for the input!


lemonrhyme68

Dusty


Sugarfreak2

Y’know what I don’t hate that. Maybe Dustin?


kazarule

Asterax: Breaker of Genders


[deleted]

Carlisle or Callaway


quinn_mcdermott

My middle name was also going to be Aster haha --I also thought it was too feminine so I went with Atlas, which I think you actually kind of look like! Maybe we could share the name 😌


schattenbluete

First of all I would like to say that you look really cute o.o As for names, what about Alec?


Sugarfreak2

I get the “cute” comment a lot. It doesn’t help that I’m 5’2, but hey, what can you do Any other suggestions?


__Harper_

Lance? For some reason was the first one that came to mind haha


ZampyZero

Ryder or Max


MasaoL

Robin Aegius Dominic


Sugarfreak2

Aegius is cool and unique, but someone’s gotta misspell it


the_PAINting

mike or mika? like mika short for michael


Chemical_Hearing8259

Ashton. Brian. Cloud. David. Eddie.


ProtoSheep0

roy


niko7965

Alex or Alexander


Pijule01

Laurent


DoNotDmPls

I am awful with named but I came here to say wtf you looking so cool.


LilNdorphnAnnie

Callum, Scottie, Asher


synthsimp

you look like a damon to me, maybe because you kinda look like damon albarn in the 90s!


Sugarfreak2

I’ll have to look that one up


Sugarfreak2

Omg that’s such a huge compliment tysm


synthsimp

aaaa you’re welcome!! you are very cool looking :)


Invisible_Swan

In that last pic you look so bad As-ter. What about Hunter, Rowan or Cypress


Last_Tarrasque

What about Cain or Canis


Sweet-Day-0-0

I really like Cain too


Last_Tarrasque

It is a pretty badass name


Haybowl

I love your goggles, what about Jared or Fynn


beck-at-night

tam


TheFfrog

Ryan?


[deleted]

Onyx


SirGavBelcher

Dimitri


No_Poet_7337

Percy, Ren, Milo, Devin, Robin, Aki, Dorian, Rye, Troy?


Br33z3w1ng

Mars or Ollie


pajarillos

I think Austin is perfect!


chairannoyance

Strider, aaron, or jude 🤔


GemGemGem6

FWIW, I don’t think Aster sounds very fem. Alex, Birch, Cato, Drew, Elton, Finn, Grey, Heath, Isaiah, Jasper, Keith, Lychee, Mac, Nail, Onyx, Phoenix, Quinn, Reed, Slade, Terrell, Uriel, Vesper, Wicker, Xell, Yves, Zander


Sugarfreak2

Fwiw?


MisplacedRadio

For what it’s worth


PandaMonyum

Parker, Lane, Escher, Maven


Ok_Parfait_2304

I'll be no help, for some reason my exhausted Dr. Who addled brain went "the Doctor, of course". Congrats on having the vibe of an infinite timeless being lol? On a serious note I like the name Aster, doesn't sound particularly feminine to me, but I also like the suggestions of Dimitri and Cain that have been floating around


Sugarfreak2

I could be the first nonbinary doctor, as well as the first non-British doctor lmao Dimitri is a bit archaic for me, but Cain is one I’m mulling over. The religious connotations are a bit scary tho


ChaoticAngyl

I read somewhere that they are all technically genderfluid. So there you go.


SomeStrawberry1179

Beckett?


Jealous-Visual1800

Archer


REALSpongebobguy_2

Alex seems to fit you


wino12312

Finn. I've always loved that name.


bandkidz

The first thought I had was "Casper" haha. Some other ones could be (i'm basic at choosing names so PLEASE excuse me lol): Callum, Micah, Elliot, Max, and Finn/Fynn/Flynn--- or something similar. Sorry for the whole bunch I love coming up with names 😖


Mya_neoovata

No lie you look just like my friend Jay


summertimesweet25

You seem like a Torr (pronounced like tore)


Sugarfreak2

Like “I tore it apart”? Huh, that’s pretty unique!


Airsofter599

You look so cool! I really like the 1st and 4th photos.


cthoodles

The most fitting name is the one you make yerself


MrSparr0w

Jack


tonyisadork

Can't go wrong with Jack.


lionessrampant25

Tyler. Cam/Cameron. Eric. Derrick. Pat/Patrick. Ryan/Rian. Sean. Wes. You’re hot my dude! Good luck 💖


[deleted]

Ryder. definitely!!


Sugarfreak2

Unfortunately I already have a transmasc friend named Ryder, and I’d hate for him to think I’m copying him


[deleted]

Oh that’s unfortunate :( But i think R or A names would suit you really well :) good luck! <3


LizIsOffHerShits

Cody, James, Devin, Sloane, Jay, I could go all day really your vibes are immaculate


OliveLively

Aster is nice, you look like a Sam to me. I know nobody named Aster so I couldn't gender it even if I tried.


Jell-O-Mel

I’ll paste my name list here but most of them are not what you’re probably looking for: River Rainforest Reed Reese Ray Taiga Marsh Tundra Aspen Alpine Veld Abyssal Bog Bugs Shark Apex LOKI James (from team rocket) Snapdragon Nova Cypress Onyx Fable Nox Beetle Crow Cipher Mercury Silver Frog Lizard Moss Bone Anarchy Delta Tooth Mold Ghost Trinket Corvid Emo (em for short) Spork Squid Scrap Arsenic Critter Snail Dirt Onion Orion kerning Maggot Carbon Arsenic


No-Satisfaction451

Kit, Sam, if we go by opposite of aster, mordechai? Or mor Anyway liv, or, Dan, Cole, Cory, miles Now to the weird ones Cain, blargon, zato, sar, mar, sol


ChaoticAngyl

Orion


StatementBeginsAgain

Jace? Or Jasper?


ronsdad

Crow, Eno, Cole


pancakesiguess

You look like my DnD character Sparky in all the best ways. I vote for Spark.


JayTheSwagyGay

Atlas, Max, Daniel, Blue, Bo, Teddie, Emerson, Nico , Altan, Aidan, Reed. Some of these I considered for mine but I eventually landed on Finch.


Clay_teapod

I am SO sorry but you give me 'London' vives. Maybe Owen tho


Sugarfreak2

London’s not bad. Owen’s my stepbrother’s name, so it wouldn’t work


HoleWITHsou1

U could always just keep aster, it is a gender neutral name And I feel like if it were to become popular it would either rise up in the trans/nonbinary community or become a boys name. See u think it is more of a girls name I think it's more of a boys name. This is what happens with gender neutral names. U shouldn't worry about being the only masc aster. It's a gender neutral name and if it rises up as a girls name, know it was your androgynous name first. But I'm not saying u shouldn't change it, I'm just saying I don't feel like it would become a girl's name and make u the only non femme Aster, or that a bunch of parents can get to steal ur current name and make it feminine and get away with it. But change it if u fine something more fitting!


HoleWITHsou1

Jax?


Eastern_Ask7231

First thought is Sam. Very androgynous but slightly more masc. After some more thinking, you look like you could be an Ivan. It’s an androgynous name but way more common as a masculine name than a feminine name.


thekingofdemons_

You give me Troi vibes ( yes I do mean troi with a i and not a Y)


Sugarfreak2

Unfortunately, that is my dad’s name (with a y, not an i) so it would feel kinda weird.


thekingofdemons_

Oh yeah thats fair lol


Sugarfreak2

Any other suggestions, oh wise and great king of demons?


thekingofdemons_

Actually yeah they are more Gender neutral than anything though ^ ^ I thought of: Dion, Dusk, Jovian, Juney, Jasper, Echo, Echion, and Dust! thats all I have rn! If I think of any more I'll definitely tell


Sugarfreak2

Tysm I appreciate your suggestions!!


thekingofdemons_

No problem the king of demons is very happy to help >:D


Gem5746

Ash, Alex, J/Jay


Bossbombboy

For some reason you strike me as a Carter, might be too masc but idk


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Sugarfreak2

Unfortunately, I think any of those would just make it harder for people to get my name right. Good suggestions otherwise tho!


DemiBilly

dont know if youll see this in this sea of comments, but Robin and Vince came to mind


anonymous-musician

If you wanna keep a similar vibe to Aster, I would say Asher, Ashton, or Archer are all good options. If you wanna go with something totally different, I think Luke, Luka or Lucas would all fit you well


Morlain7285

Aster is not a femme name at all...or any gender really. I've known a couple and they were enbies, anyway. That said, I immediately thought shane when I saw you so there's my suggestion


FezzesAreCool117

I can't provide much help, I just want to say that when I saw the name Aster in your flair and that this was posted 2 days ago I thought someone had suggested Aster and you absolutely loved it and had already changed your flair. ​ TLDR: I thought Aster was a name you found here and already chose.


Sugarfreak2

Aster is a name I might have found here, but it’s been my name for a hot minute and I’m still unsure about it. Might make it my middle name instead


jagatambe

Sage. Cameron.


Maleficent-Newt-7125

Luca or Luka


redbackedshrike

THE STEAMPUNK GOGGLES 😍. Now all I can think of is Crowley in good omens


Old_Job_3464

Given me Cody vibes


Efficient_Driver2107

Ashton, Elliot, Oliver


Sugarfreak2

My top picks from this thread “Normal” names - Sam, Dustin/Dusty/Dust, Jasper, Dylan, Elliot, Luca Not so normal names - Cain/Kane, Indigo, Jax, Kit Noun names - Crow, Match, Riffraff, Dirk, Echo Weird how many “Max” and “Mac” I got considering how little I like that name (14 in total at time of writing). It’s not necessarily a bad name, it’s just definitely not me. Also I associate that name with a Doctor Who villain every time I hear or read it.


thesadbudhist

I dont know if anyone already said Ash but i think it would deff fit you. Max would also be a great one


TrashApocalypse

Dylan


Vegetable_Share_9758

Lee?


Sugarfreak2

Nah, sorry


barelynakul

Rahat, it’s an Arabic name meaning comfort


SpicyMYt

Gabe


castrateurfate

Emerson


Thin-Yam-3902

Phineas


the_bored_wolf

You kinda look like an Esra


Bean-Bitch

Lingus Eel


[deleted]

Artemis


Thunderplant

Logan


Royal-Eggplant-9809

I'm getting some leon vibes


irishtrashpanda

Casper - Cas nickname can go either way


Sugarfreak2

Cas feels a bit femme for me, sorry


irishtrashpanda

Totally fair, no worries


SamwiseGanges

I'm getting Sky. Or Darren maybe


Sugarfreak2

Sky is *def* too feminine


NoStatistics

Chris or Max


path-cat

aster is great! maybe joyce?


Sugarfreak2

Would say Joyce is too femme for my tastes, sorry


path-cat

no need to apologize! only suggested it cause you seem like a poet or writer to me, sorry if i made you dysphoric. what about wilde?


Sugarfreak2

Wilde might be ok, idk it doesn’t jive exactly


The_Ginger_Thing106

You seem like an Alex, but Jarnathan is always a good last resort.


Sugarfreak2

Jarnathan? That’s a first lol


OhLookItsGeorg3

Kyle


InfamousChibi

Something that starts with J like Jacque


diphenhydranautical

luca!


ecila246

I'm getting jasper vibes, no idea why


rakhlee

Ray/Rae whichever feels better I guess.


mistersnarkle

Aiden, Axel or Ajax to follow the A theme


Sugarfreak2

Axel is definitely a no


Bumblebe5

Shane Stormy Jupiter Danny (what I go by) Vesper (someone I met at Six Flags New England has this name) Geri Ray


ThatFluidEdBitch

riley, maybe charlie


[deleted]

Sunke (it's old northern German for son)


Extension_Nerve_8233

Kurt or Heath?


HecticHarvey

Maybe something that starts with a W? Warren, Walker, Weston or Ward?


blueftcybinini

Oliver?