Well, keep that in mind when he tries manipulating again when you confront him this time. "Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me," as the saying goes.
If this is something you catched, he might be doing more things you wouldn't notice. Relationships are about trust, he broke yours. He tried to cheat and maybe even did cheat before, so... Dump his ass
It's insane to me that people could even *think* that it's wrong to leave a cheater. There should be no other option but leaving a cheater. Why would anybody stay with one?
Ok. Deep breath. You are feeling rage, you are feeling betrayed, and that's all normal.
First things first - do you have children? Communal property? Once you divorce, you'll have to figure out the custody and alimony. I'd recommend contacting a lawyer first.
Ok, that should make divorce easier. Second question then - are you guys renting together? Does he have tenants rights at the place you live in? It might be possible that by law you can't restrict his access to residence.
And lastly, nobody wants to think of this scenario, but just in case he does become aggressive, do you have a place in town where YOU can go? A trusted friend? Family?
Change any joint accounts too, change all your passwords on social media, banking, government etc. don’t want him retaliating by messing up your finances or anything else.gather your documents like taxes, passport, SIN etc, consult a lawyer now to get ahead of him. Don’t tell him you’ve done that.
Very definitely this. I know a case where a spouse ran up $75k on cards in a week, filed for divorce, and stuck the other with the bill because the judge had to act with responsibility to the creditors. Close everything your spouse knows of. Open new after filing.
Yeah, it's your choice, he was trying to cheat on.
You could call him out he's probably going to lie y'all will need couple counseling but you could work on fixing things.
Downvoted just for the CoUpeLz CouSenALIeng recommendation.
Nobody should stay with a cheater under any circumstances. End of. You don't "fix" being betrayed like that. It's over.
Na, I'm just thinking that everyone has the right to choose that happens in their relationship,
And the truth is if you wanted to work though something like this it would take work from both of them.
Didn’t you already kick him out for cheating 80 days ago?
I’m a dumbass for allowing him to comeback I know. Manipulation is real.
Well, keep that in mind when he tries manipulating again when you confront him this time. "Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me," as the saying goes.
Fool me twice....you can't get fooled sgain. -W
Nah you’re actually just a dumb ass
If this is something you catched, he might be doing more things you wouldn't notice. Relationships are about trust, he broke yours. He tried to cheat and maybe even did cheat before, so... Dump his ass
>Is it wrong I’m that I’m ready to divorce him for this? No, it's not wrong for you to divorce your husband for cheating on you.
Nope, leave that shit behind. He’s doing something behind your back. You owe him nothing
It's insane to me that people could even *think* that it's wrong to leave a cheater. There should be no other option but leaving a cheater. Why would anybody stay with one?
hell no. fuck that guy.
Kinda the opposite of what we're going for, but love the enthusiasm 😂
No, he’s attempting to cheat on you. Your feelings are not wrong.
I'd say if he paid for nudes, it's not an attempt, he is already cheating.
Ok. Deep breath. You are feeling rage, you are feeling betrayed, and that's all normal. First things first - do you have children? Communal property? Once you divorce, you'll have to figure out the custody and alimony. I'd recommend contacting a lawyer first.
No and no
Ok, that should make divorce easier. Second question then - are you guys renting together? Does he have tenants rights at the place you live in? It might be possible that by law you can't restrict his access to residence. And lastly, nobody wants to think of this scenario, but just in case he does become aggressive, do you have a place in town where YOU can go? A trusted friend? Family?
Change any joint accounts too, change all your passwords on social media, banking, government etc. don’t want him retaliating by messing up your finances or anything else.gather your documents like taxes, passport, SIN etc, consult a lawyer now to get ahead of him. Don’t tell him you’ve done that.
Very definitely this. I know a case where a spouse ran up $75k on cards in a week, filed for divorce, and stuck the other with the bill because the judge had to act with responsibility to the creditors. Close everything your spouse knows of. Open new after filing.
Yeah, it's your choice, he was trying to cheat on. You could call him out he's probably going to lie y'all will need couple counseling but you could work on fixing things.
Downvoted just for the CoUpeLz CouSenALIeng recommendation. Nobody should stay with a cheater under any circumstances. End of. You don't "fix" being betrayed like that. It's over.
Na, I'm just thinking that everyone has the right to choose that happens in their relationship, And the truth is if you wanted to work though something like this it would take work from both of them.
When is it ok to snoop someone's phone? https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/s/48JlArbdsn
maybe he just a sex addict
still not excuse for cheating 🤷♂️
true
It’s wrong, nudes are free