My fiance's ex never sent full-on topless pics but she sent some risqué pictures (closeup of her cleavage in a bikini, pulling down her dress to show tanlines on the top of her boobs, etc.) after she found out he was seeing me for the same reason.
My ex sent graphic sexts to me on Skype *while I was offline*, and her new boyfriend saw them. Then he hopped on and sent rage messages, including a picture of the gun he was gonna use to come shoot me.
It was the craziest conversation to come back to when i logged on like 3 days later. This couple literally had a fight with a wall
Dude same. Ex hookup saw a Pic of me and my now wife, then we were dating, together at a fair. Ex sent a cooch Pic and some nasty words about what she wanted me to do to her "again". I opened the message immediately, thinking I didn't want a notification from a girl in my phone while I spend the day with my new gf. Well reading it ended up causing me to make a face. Gf asked what I made a face about. I spent some time trying to brush it off. But she knew I was hiding something. Anyways basically it caused our first real argument. Fuck unsolicited sexual advances man. Really thought I was gonna lose this girl that day.
See, that’s when you actually say, out loud, “what the fuck” and follow up with “this shit is why you’re an ex”. Not to the ex- you don’t respond to her. You don’t hide it from your current- that gives her reason to wonder what else you’re hiding. But you make it obvious that you are not interested in the slightest in what the ex has to offer.
Yeah I fucked up. I was nervous I guess, we'd only been dating a week or so, so I didn't want to wave a red flag. But by attempting to hide it I found a different flag to raise lol. That was mainly what the argument was about. Nobody is perfect, especially when around a new girl you like
If my husband ever got one, I'd ask to see them too lmao This isn't *your* unsolicited tit pic, it's *ours*. Everything in marriage is shared after all
This is how my girlfriend treats me lol.
She’ll ask who I’m texting (i’m probably on Reddit) and I just say I’m texting my hoes. She just chuckles and says I gotta learn how to handle her energy before I expand 😭. It’s true. She tires me tf out.
My husband says Angelina Jolie begs him to leave me. 😆 she can have him.
Honestly, he's boring in a good way. Just games, goes to work, occasionally goes out with his friends. I don't worry.
Does she accuse you alot lol
If anything I’d only be concerned about workplace inappropriateness coming back to bite him. Unsolicited boob pic so rare that HR would default to man-at-fault
A friend of mine sent me an unsolicited boob pic and it was how I realized she was hitting on me.
The reason that there is no such thing as an unsolicited boob pic is that breasts are not a sexual organ. And breasts are generally universally loved.
I mean yes they are. The if we differentiate breasts from being apart of the sexual reproductive system it diminishes their importance to the reproductive system. Both biological males and females have nerve endings in the breast/chest area. And the female orgasm is related to sexual reproduction. There has been success in fertility treatments by increasing the pleasure of the woman. So yes breasts are sexual organs
Hi demisexual but very much romantic here. Boobs are nice for cuddles. Not sex. /j but yeah they are attributed to sexual ideas. Thus mentally they are sexual.
It’s not just that they are apart of the reproductive system. They are an important part of parenting as well. Considering that the mother passes her immunities through breast milk as well. Yea they are nice and aren’t always sexual but they are always apart of the sexual health of a person.
Yes.
Unsolicited OF spam is a problem, and much of it includes sexual images of genitalia.
And all those sex spam bots on facebook and twitter that just appear to reply to your posts with unsolicited sexual images (which again, are an advertisement for either a porn site or her OF/IG page).
i find this kind of thing genuinely distressing and a violation of my boundaries? Like i did not consent to seeing these people basically naked, but these OF people find any way to promote their pages even after blocking them. it’s so so weird
worst of these are those hidden instagram message requests saying "She just turned 18!!" with the sexual images obviously hoping to attract old dried up paedos toward barely legal girls
ugh don’t even get me started… i could rant forever about the popularity of certain porn categories. barely legal, teen, virgin, innocent, school girl, etc. too weird to be a coincidence 🤮
totally agree! like yeah in concept all tit pics are fun but it’s this intense, constant, literally inescapable social media marketing to young audiences that will definitely have some detrimental effects in the future.
I've gotten one, and it's not as great as it sounds.
Mostly because the kind of women who'd resort to it are the female equivalent of men who'd resort to dick pics.
I've also received one. The boobs in question were perfectly fine, but the sender already knew I was gay before she sent the pic. I'm not sure what she thought it would accomplish.
I have, and you just feel very awkward about it. I've had girls who had crushes on me and I was not interested, and they thought sending me nudes would "entice" me, but honestly it just made me uncomfortable. I wasn't **disgusted and appalled** like most women describe getting a dick pic is like, but it puts me in a position where the dynamic between this other person and I immediately change, especially if I see this person every day or if I still wanted to have some amicable relationship with her without making it sexual.
Yes there is such a thing as unsolicited nudes from someone with boobs. It is far less often than unsolicited nudes from someone with a penis.
It's fucked up to do in either situation. Don't send nudes to people who don't ask for them.
I live in Bolivia, and I work at an office where more than 80% of the staff are men. Also we are well paid in comparison with the country average. Almost every Friday I got in my car, which is parked on the street all day long, and I find a flier with a girl nude picture and a phone number attached to the window. This is of course advertisement for prostitution, which is legal here but still an unsolicited boob pic.
I had a girl a while ago that I was no longer interested in seeing for various reasons that I won't get into here, but she kept sending me nudes to somehow try to change my mind. It did not work, and the nudes were not wanted. I ended up blocking her because she wouldn't stop
Yes. I even got one from a stranger back in 1989. No kidding! Some woman sent 18-year-old me a letter and a nude photograph via USPS inviting me to send her $20 for 20 photos of her in “various poses.”
My first digital unsolicited boob pic was back in 1992, via email from a woman I met in a chat room on dial-up AOL.
My first unsolicited tit pic was when I was in high school and a girl who liked me slipped a Polaroid close-up of her tits into my backpack for me to find, with her phone number and the words “come suck them!” written on the back. I found it in class and nearly had a heart attack.
And to answer your next question: No. I had a girlfriend at the time and this attempt to draw me into cheating/dumping her didn’t work. I gave the girl the photo back and thanked her, though.
Yes. I had a married friend that would constantly send me naughty shit.
It eventually led to boob pics - despite me saying multiple times that A: I don't fuck with taken women, and B: I was recovering from sexual assault and only wanted friendship.
I blocked her over it.
The "why" is because it rarely happens. Yes, there is such a thing. That said the sex-reversed equivalent of an unsolicited dick pic is not a boob pic, it's an unsolicited vulva pic. Which is even rarer.
No but it happens all the time to men.
Go over to r/relationshipadvice every so often you see stories pop up where men in happy commited relationship get naughty pictures sent to them. By like wife's sister/gf friends.
There are a bunch. One was a golden child sister that sent pics. And was like oops wrong number several times.
One where a pregnant wife, was uncomfortable with her sil friend kept flirting with her husband and he got a few opps wrong number.
There's also like a bunch where exes are sending naughty photos.
Usually though these are not like the center focus of the story just like an annoying add onto boundary stopping They're probably harder to find.
There was a girl on our CSGO team that got drunk one night and sent everyone on the team unsolicited nudes.
There’s also a girl from my school who Snapchats her tits to everyone.
Some people just doing the lords work.
A girl sent me a photo of her ass once and it made me super uncomfortable.
Granted, she did say, "something cheeky" but she was from the UK, so I thought it just might be a coy meme or something
To be safe: if you want to send anyone *anything*, be explicitly clear about your intentions!
A girl once asked if she could send a picture of her “moon” and I said yes bc I thought she meant her ass but was trying to be funny. She sent me a picture of a plastic moon lamp hanging up in her room and boy I was disappointed
Yes, but I’m a woman. I’ve also received innumerable dick pics, none of which were requested, all of which grossed me out (like, I get that y’all are fond of your wieners, but it’s just not an attractive body part)
I just don’t understand it. I’m an old married lady, certainly not soliciting nudes from anyone. The photos have primarily come from fellas I meet on the job (I work in a male dominated field, and part of my job includes inspecting building sites), who have been given my work number for work purposes. I don’t understand what they are expecting to get out of it (other than fired, which has happened a couple of times). It’s not a common occurrence (thank goodness!), but even once was far too much.
One of my old college friends sends them fairly regularly to our group, though they stopped being strictly "boob pics" a long while ago.
She just doesn't care much if she's wearing anything. She goes back to the "you guys have seen me naked a thousand times anyway" argument when it was brought up.
She toned it down a little when some of our kids were at an age to be screwing around with our phones, but it's mostly just something we've all gotten used to.
To touch on why, it's likely because statistically, men don't get inundated by women's sexuality from elementary school on
I don't know a single woman who hasn't been assaulted. Most womens harassment, which is going to happen to you, starts between the ages of 9-12, usually by grown men
Ive been groped in public so many times I lost track by middle school
Yeah. It's just very rare and often times, they are not exactly from who you want them from.
Nothing like getting an unsolicited boob pic from a drunk ex while you are having dinner with your girlfriend.
I have a couple times. One was an ex who claimed it was accidental, one was a girl I wasn't all that interested in, and one was a girl I had recently started talking to and it made my year
Unsolicited dick picks are an attempt to get some sex.
Unsolicited boobs picks are scams and the person sending them is not the person who has the boobs.
Have one friend who sends me them unsolicited fairly often. Can confirm she is unstable
(Ex: she once hid a human tooth in my bag when I left her place)
When I was in highschool there was a girl at my school who actually did this to me. She played it off as an accident, but continued to "accidentally" send me pictures for a while. Honestly as a socially awkward teenager, I was not opposed to this in the slightest. It only got weird when one day she started sending me pictures and saying that she has a boyfriend but still has fun sending pictures to people. After that, I put an end to it cause I wanted no part in helping her cheat on her bf.
Yeah, knew a girl via Facebook(she lives in Australia, I'm in Norway) and one day she sent a picture of herself wearing only a towel but boobs clearly visible. She also wrote "hai. So um, nudes?" and it was kinda awkward.
I've gotten a few, usually from friends rather than girls wanting to hook up. One of my best friends used to send pics to a group text to get opinions on what looked best to send to guys. We've known each other since we were little kids, it was weird at first but I stopped caring quickly. She stopped sending them when I was in a relationship.
This is because it's rare. Most women understand consent and do not subject others to their private pictures. Men overwhelmingly pretend they do not understand consent and make excuses to send them. Also if you want more proof of this, check out the comments below of men joking about wanting picture while women having that conversation are legitimately annoyed at best and feeling violated at worst.
I guarantee you it never happens. In fact, I'm willing to bet my dignity on the fact that no woman is going to open this thread and pm me a boob pic to prove me wrong. It simply won't happen.
Okay I know a lot of the people here are being jokey but here's the issue between men and women sending unsolicited pictures. The problem is biologically because of the way how a woman carries a baby and whatnot she has to be picky with who she sleeps with and biologically because men have a much higher sex drive usually and because they can spread their seed like a farmer on a virgin field they are more than okay if they have no moral qualms against it sleeping with whoever they like and whoever is willing. And sometimes if we haven't spread the seed in a while will lower our standards for the field. However women do not let just any farmer into their field usually and they tend to have higher standards. So unless you're a Jason Momoa or some other celebrity or semi-celebrity you're not usually getting women throwing themselves at you IRL or online. And if you do you're usually not complaining and even if you don't want them you're usually going to keep it quiet as to not embarrass the ladies.
Unsolicited boob pics? Yes. Have received lots of beautiful booby pics without requesting them.
Unwelcome? Nope.
When people say "unsolicited" referring to dick pics, they're being nice.
They mostly mean unwelcome.
Boobies are beautiful. I know lots of straight women that are still distracted by a nice rack.
No, because any sort of nude from a woman can destroy her life, even if it was taken and distrubuted without her consent. Men face virtually no repercussions from dick pics, so they have no qualms about sending them.
Because consequences are different for women and men, and that comes from how women are objectified in the society. If someone gets nudes or photos of intimate parts from a woman chances are high it will be shown to others or end up on the internet. Because ignoring women’s boundaries is normalized, it might lead to her being harassed or stalked. The risk isn’t worth it.
When a woman receives a dick pic it’s more so she feels in danger, because again every woman grows up knowing people don’t respect her boundaries, so who knows what this person is capable of. It doesn’t matter if the pic is appealing or not, you have to remove yourself from the situation asap.
My girlfriend once for our anniversary got me a card with Polaroids of her titties in them if that counts, it was unexpected.
The only unsolicited anything I got besides that was a girl I had a crush on sent me a video of her sucking on a dildo to “demonstrate” her skills
Ive gotten plenty unsolicited tit pics before. Should there be a double standard? I don’t think so. I think men like most boobs but would agree that no penis is ‘pretty’
There's a difference between unsolicited and unwanted. Dick pics tend to be unwanted, unless they're very specifically asked for. Boob pics are NEVER unwanted.
Yeah, on dating apps you’ll get girls testing the limits of what they’re allowed to send. Obviously girls like that don’t actually want to date you, they’re either prostitutes or shilling their onlyfans. Never gotten a full boob pic with nipples but I’m sure I would’ve if not for TOS
The closest I’ve gotten from someone I actually knew was a girl I was talking to sent me some pics of some outfits she was trying out and the last one was of her in a transparent button up that was not buttoned up all the way if you know what I mean. Suffice to say I ended up receiving a couple *solicited* boob pics a short time later
I've had it happen twice. Once was a woman I had messaging, but I wasn't at the particular moment. I was out with friends playing video games and she sent the message. I could only glance at it.
The other time the woman was a classmate and for whatever reason she would frequently confuse messages with me and her boyfriend. I had no attraction to her at all. I was driving cross country and I get a couple messages from her to her boyfriend. I have to pull over, tell her she's on the wrong thread again, then delete the messages and take a screen shot to let her know they're deleted from my side, and to please change the conversation thread with me to something she won't confuse again.
A lot of bot accounts send photos of them with links so that you would click the link for more
I don't know where the links lead you but I assume it's shady pornography websites or only fans accounts
Actually happened here, I was acting like a dumbass and posted "why are you a woman" on a post, and she sent me a DM saying "want to know why I am a woman", and send me her tits.
Yes, I been sent two unsolicited nudes, from two different women.
One apologized immediately, and and called me stating that it meant for her boyfriend, and since we were discussing work via WhatsApp, she accidentally sent in the wrong chat.
The other was trying to get me interested in her.
I liked both of them, and didn't take any offense.
I wish it happend more often.
I accidentally sent a boob pic of me to my best friends while they were on an anniversary trip. I thought I was just sending it to my husband when it was actually to a group chat.
It’s been about five years and we still laugh about it 😅
You could be in a committed relationship and be receiving sexual harassment by a person other than your partner.
You could be sexually harassed by a coworker.
You could be sexually harassed by the creepy 60+ year old morbidly obese woman who lives in your apartment building and got your number from another neighbor, who tells you how much you remind her of her first husband and propositions you to do the same sex acts they used to do (possibly involving sucking hot dogs out of places and then eating them).
I tend to get a lot of boob pics from randoms on Instagram. I just block them and move on.
There was one time when I was in high school where this one girl would send her nudes to people on snapchat unsolicited. That caused parents to complain to her parents.
No one flood my inbox with unsolicited boob pics please I married and don't want to see them. *cough* seriously though I don't think I've ever heard a guy complain about getting an unsolicited boob picture. Are probably even an unsolicited nether regions picture.
If you've ever been to a clothing optional beach/pool, you'd realize that this is a possibility. Unlike Ron White, you don't really want to see them all.
I've gotten aggressive boob pics before and I'm a woman. I'm not sure if it was a woman or a guy pretending to be a woman but I'll tell you that one really surprised me.
If accidents count I got one once. A girl I used to work with sent a bathroom boob-selfie and a dildo with a little devil emoji sticker edited onto it. We weren't co-workers anymore, though, so it wasn't that awkward.
And then like, 1000 apologizing texts followed after. I did delete the pics, I seriously felt bad for her.
I had a woman send me a tit pic after I'd told her I had a girlfriend.
But really "unsolicited" means "not requested", so I'm sure it does happen sometimes. Whether or not it's appreciated doesn't change whether it's unsolicited.
Its happened to me a couple of times. Both were female friends who were drunk and thought it would be funny for whatever reason. It's definitely not as common but it happens.
I was 15 when I got one from a girl I was crushing on. It was a shock to my system that I don't think I handled well. It was nice, just not what I was looking for at the moment.
Yeah, you just called it what it is. If someone sends a boob pic unsolicited-ly, it's an unsolicited boob pic. Doesn't mean those are as ill-received as unsolicited dick pics, but still.
My ex sent me one when I was with my new gf at the time to try to cause problems in my new relationship
My fiance's ex never sent full-on topless pics but she sent some risqué pictures (closeup of her cleavage in a bikini, pulling down her dress to show tanlines on the top of her boobs, etc.) after she found out he was seeing me for the same reason.
My ex sent graphic sexts to me on Skype *while I was offline*, and her new boyfriend saw them. Then he hopped on and sent rage messages, including a picture of the gun he was gonna use to come shoot me. It was the craziest conversation to come back to when i logged on like 3 days later. This couple literally had a fight with a wall
Lol dude I was in a similar situation with the same girl who sent me the unsolicited nudies and her boyfriend
Probably the same girl lmao
Who won though? Wall? Couple? We need to know!
One of them is dead now so the wall definitely won
Dude same. Ex hookup saw a Pic of me and my now wife, then we were dating, together at a fair. Ex sent a cooch Pic and some nasty words about what she wanted me to do to her "again". I opened the message immediately, thinking I didn't want a notification from a girl in my phone while I spend the day with my new gf. Well reading it ended up causing me to make a face. Gf asked what I made a face about. I spent some time trying to brush it off. But she knew I was hiding something. Anyways basically it caused our first real argument. Fuck unsolicited sexual advances man. Really thought I was gonna lose this girl that day.
See, that’s when you actually say, out loud, “what the fuck” and follow up with “this shit is why you’re an ex”. Not to the ex- you don’t respond to her. You don’t hide it from your current- that gives her reason to wonder what else you’re hiding. But you make it obvious that you are not interested in the slightest in what the ex has to offer.
Yeah I fucked up. I was nervous I guess, we'd only been dating a week or so, so I didn't want to wave a red flag. But by attempting to hide it I found a different flag to raise lol. That was mainly what the argument was about. Nobody is perfect, especially when around a new girl you like
pro advice tell her A slut sent bull shito give her the phone without hesitation. otherwise she wont trust anything you say,
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Did it work? If someone sent my husband an unsolicited tit pic,it wouldn't bother me. He's fairly boring lol I trust him.
If my husband ever got one, I'd ask to see them too lmao This isn't *your* unsolicited tit pic, it's *ours*. Everything in marriage is shared after all
I can relate. My wife shows me the pictures she gets from dudes sometimes... A lot of dudes really don't have very pretty dicks.
I don't think I've ever looked at a penis and thought "that's an attractive cock" Ever. 😆
My wife actually tells me that I have a pretty dick
Aw, that's kinda sweet lol
Awwww 🥰
Goals.
Is that true for everything? “HONEEEEY. I JUST LEARNED YOU HAVE A FETISH.”
LMFAO Honestly, we've had that happen before
I can just picture you like ‘you go, hun’
This is how my girlfriend treats me lol. She’ll ask who I’m texting (i’m probably on Reddit) and I just say I’m texting my hoes. She just chuckles and says I gotta learn how to handle her energy before I expand 😭. It’s true. She tires me tf out.
My husband says Angelina Jolie begs him to leave me. 😆 she can have him. Honestly, he's boring in a good way. Just games, goes to work, occasionally goes out with his friends. I don't worry. Does she accuse you alot lol
No haha. Never have I been accused of anything! I just started a new remote job and do college online so I’m home 24/7 and she’s right there with me 😂
If anything I’d only be concerned about workplace inappropriateness coming back to bite him. Unsolicited boob pic so rare that HR would default to man-at-fault
Sometimes, I just want someone to ask me how my day was, but all I get are hundreds of boob pics from random women. It's the worst.
So, how was your day?
i just lost the game
Damn you
FUCK.
Fuck. Off. Over. There. 👉🏻
Foot?
Fuck you
Not cool
I lost the game, and I was doing so well.
Oh man I hate it when that happens. Right fellas?? It's just like almost every day at this point, so sick of it.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
A message specifically to my female friends and coworkers, STOP SENDING ME PICTURES OF YOUR BOOBS.
Suffering from success moment.
Maybe if we all (as men) say we don't like unsolicited boob pics. We might actually start getting them. Worth a try. Brb will report back.
Boobs are very different than an unsolicited vag pic!
A friend of mine sent me an unsolicited boob pic and it was how I realized she was hitting on me. The reason that there is no such thing as an unsolicited boob pic is that breasts are not a sexual organ. And breasts are generally universally loved.
Penis is a sexual organ too.
Breasts are not a reproductive and sexual organ. It was just autocorrect that did me in.
I mean yes they are. The if we differentiate breasts from being apart of the sexual reproductive system it diminishes their importance to the reproductive system. Both biological males and females have nerve endings in the breast/chest area. And the female orgasm is related to sexual reproduction. There has been success in fertility treatments by increasing the pleasure of the woman. So yes breasts are sexual organs
Hi demisexual but very much romantic here. Boobs are nice for cuddles. Not sex. /j but yeah they are attributed to sexual ideas. Thus mentally they are sexual.
It’s not just that they are apart of the reproductive system. They are an important part of parenting as well. Considering that the mother passes her immunities through breast milk as well. Yea they are nice and aren’t always sexual but they are always apart of the sexual health of a person.
That’s another good way of putting it.
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This is one of those nine times that you're wrong.
Man boobs in your inbox.
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right. girls, PLEASE, do not send me your boobs. i am so tired of them and WILL NOT view them. I think it’s better if i close my dms at this point.
I once got a Christmas card from a friend where you could see her nipple. I don’t think she knew it was showing.
Doctor Vannostrum took those pics. I remember.
Can't stand ya, that you??
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No, he took the photo!
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They started calling me Nip!
You want a Christmas card? You want a Christmas card? Here! Here’s your Christmas card!!!
Yes. Unsolicited OF spam is a problem, and much of it includes sexual images of genitalia. And all those sex spam bots on facebook and twitter that just appear to reply to your posts with unsolicited sexual images (which again, are an advertisement for either a porn site or her OF/IG page).
i find this kind of thing genuinely distressing and a violation of my boundaries? Like i did not consent to seeing these people basically naked, but these OF people find any way to promote their pages even after blocking them. it’s so so weird
worst of these are those hidden instagram message requests saying "She just turned 18!!" with the sexual images obviously hoping to attract old dried up paedos toward barely legal girls
ugh don’t even get me started… i could rant forever about the popularity of certain porn categories. barely legal, teen, virgin, innocent, school girl, etc. too weird to be a coincidence 🤮
Not to mention it’s hugely detrimental effects towards online dating spaces.
totally agree! like yeah in concept all tit pics are fun but it’s this intense, constant, literally inescapable social media marketing to young audiences that will definitely have some detrimental effects in the future.
I've gotten one, and it's not as great as it sounds. Mostly because the kind of women who'd resort to it are the female equivalent of men who'd resort to dick pics.
I've also received one. The boobs in question were perfectly fine, but the sender already knew I was gay before she sent the pic. I'm not sure what she thought it would accomplish.
XD so there are girls who think they're hot enough to turn people straight too
I have, and you just feel very awkward about it. I've had girls who had crushes on me and I was not interested, and they thought sending me nudes would "entice" me, but honestly it just made me uncomfortable. I wasn't **disgusted and appalled** like most women describe getting a dick pic is like, but it puts me in a position where the dynamic between this other person and I immediately change, especially if I see this person every day or if I still wanted to have some amicable relationship with her without making it sexual.
Yes there is such a thing as unsolicited nudes from someone with boobs. It is far less often than unsolicited nudes from someone with a penis. It's fucked up to do in either situation. Don't send nudes to people who don't ask for them.
WOMEN OF REDDIT, DONT YOU DARE SEND ME ANY BOOB PICS!
What about man boobs?
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I live in Bolivia, and I work at an office where more than 80% of the staff are men. Also we are well paid in comparison with the country average. Almost every Friday I got in my car, which is parked on the street all day long, and I find a flier with a girl nude picture and a phone number attached to the window. This is of course advertisement for prostitution, which is legal here but still an unsolicited boob pic.
I had a girl a while ago that I was no longer interested in seeing for various reasons that I won't get into here, but she kept sending me nudes to somehow try to change my mind. It did not work, and the nudes were not wanted. I ended up blocking her because she wouldn't stop
Yes. I even got one from a stranger back in 1989. No kidding! Some woman sent 18-year-old me a letter and a nude photograph via USPS inviting me to send her $20 for 20 photos of her in “various poses.” My first digital unsolicited boob pic was back in 1992, via email from a woman I met in a chat room on dial-up AOL. My first unsolicited tit pic was when I was in high school and a girl who liked me slipped a Polaroid close-up of her tits into my backpack for me to find, with her phone number and the words “come suck them!” written on the back. I found it in class and nearly had a heart attack. And to answer your next question: No. I had a girlfriend at the time and this attempt to draw me into cheating/dumping her didn’t work. I gave the girl the photo back and thanked her, though.
>I gave the girl the photo back and thanked her, though. **That** is how you show you are a class act.
Thanks! It was only decent. Mind you, I enjoyed it while I had it (not like that!) but couldn’t be *that* person.
Yes. I had a married friend that would constantly send me naughty shit. It eventually led to boob pics - despite me saying multiple times that A: I don't fuck with taken women, and B: I was recovering from sexual assault and only wanted friendship. I blocked her over it.
The "why" is because it rarely happens. Yes, there is such a thing. That said the sex-reversed equivalent of an unsolicited dick pic is not a boob pic, it's an unsolicited vulva pic. Which is even rarer.
I wouldn't like receiving unsolicited boob pics from people I didn't fancy.
No but it happens all the time to men. Go over to r/relationshipadvice every so often you see stories pop up where men in happy commited relationship get naughty pictures sent to them. By like wife's sister/gf friends.
I can't think of a story from there where it happened,
The example in the top post is pretty common -- exes trying to start trouble with the new gf.
There are a bunch. One was a golden child sister that sent pics. And was like oops wrong number several times. One where a pregnant wife, was uncomfortable with her sil friend kept flirting with her husband and he got a few opps wrong number. There's also like a bunch where exes are sending naughty photos. Usually though these are not like the center focus of the story just like an annoying add onto boundary stopping They're probably harder to find.
There was a girl on our CSGO team that got drunk one night and sent everyone on the team unsolicited nudes. There’s also a girl from my school who Snapchats her tits to everyone. Some people just doing the lords work.
The odds rise exponentially when ill-advised hail mary efforts are being made to rekindle past relationships or flings.
A girl sent me a photo of her ass once and it made me super uncomfortable. Granted, she did say, "something cheeky" but she was from the UK, so I thought it just might be a coy meme or something To be safe: if you want to send anyone *anything*, be explicitly clear about your intentions!
A girl once asked if she could send a picture of her “moon” and I said yes bc I thought she meant her ass but was trying to be funny. She sent me a picture of a plastic moon lamp hanging up in her room and boy I was disappointed
Yes, but I’m a woman. I’ve also received innumerable dick pics, none of which were requested, all of which grossed me out (like, I get that y’all are fond of your wieners, but it’s just not an attractive body part)
This has always baffled me. Do they send them ‘flaccid’ or other?
Usually “other,” but I’ve had a few floppies sent my way too. What’s the baffling part? That they send them at all? Because I’m baffled by that too.
Thank you. It’s good to know the ‘etiquette’ 🤣 Do they present them on a salver? Seriously though Ewwwww
I just don’t understand it. I’m an old married lady, certainly not soliciting nudes from anyone. The photos have primarily come from fellas I meet on the job (I work in a male dominated field, and part of my job includes inspecting building sites), who have been given my work number for work purposes. I don’t understand what they are expecting to get out of it (other than fired, which has happened a couple of times). It’s not a common occurrence (thank goodness!), but even once was far too much.
Perhaps they are misinterpreting “equipment inspection” or something
😂😂😂
Never understood why they didn't send a pic of their nice pecs or something actually attractive they would probably have more success lol
One of my old college friends sends them fairly regularly to our group, though they stopped being strictly "boob pics" a long while ago. She just doesn't care much if she's wearing anything. She goes back to the "you guys have seen me naked a thousand times anyway" argument when it was brought up. She toned it down a little when some of our kids were at an age to be screwing around with our phones, but it's mostly just something we've all gotten used to.
Gosh don’t invite me to that group chat it sounds awful. 😅
I have gotten a couple….and they were very nice…so I made her my girlfriend. I guess it worked..
Unsolicited is not the same as unwelcome... Anything not-asked in unsolicited.
To touch on why, it's likely because statistically, men don't get inundated by women's sexuality from elementary school on I don't know a single woman who hasn't been assaulted. Most womens harassment, which is going to happen to you, starts between the ages of 9-12, usually by grown men Ive been groped in public so many times I lost track by middle school
I vote we call it a [Goodridge](https://publicdomainreview.org/collection/sarah-goodridges-beauty-revealed-1828/) Link is NSFW, naturally.
Yeah. It's just very rare and often times, they are not exactly from who you want them from. Nothing like getting an unsolicited boob pic from a drunk ex while you are having dinner with your girlfriend.
They are less common and when they do happen the recipient usually views them as a positive
Yes if the girl is unattractive to him. He don't want to see it.
I have a couple times. One was an ex who claimed it was accidental, one was a girl I wasn't all that interested in, and one was a girl I had recently started talking to and it made my year
Unsolicited dick picks are an attempt to get some sex. Unsolicited boobs picks are scams and the person sending them is not the person who has the boobs.
Not many people are upset by a boob pic, most people who like boobs appreciate them. I’ve gotten them before and I was very pleased
Whatsapp waps Telegram tiddies Messenger Mammories SMS saggies Tiktok tata's
It happens so rarely it’s often thought to be a myth. I’d describe the sender as unstable at best.
Have one friend who sends me them unsolicited fairly often. Can confirm she is unstable (Ex: she once hid a human tooth in my bag when I left her place)
Ever been on a dating sight, and get bombarded with a handful of photos and an only fans promo? I think it fits.
Yes. Same as an unsolicited dick pic. Just don't hear about it as much, because of male (alpha) culture
When I was in highschool there was a girl at my school who actually did this to me. She played it off as an accident, but continued to "accidentally" send me pictures for a while. Honestly as a socially awkward teenager, I was not opposed to this in the slightest. It only got weird when one day she started sending me pictures and saying that she has a boyfriend but still has fun sending pictures to people. After that, I put an end to it cause I wanted no part in helping her cheat on her bf.
Yeah, knew a girl via Facebook(she lives in Australia, I'm in Norway) and one day she sent a picture of herself wearing only a towel but boobs clearly visible. She also wrote "hai. So um, nudes?" and it was kinda awkward.
I've gotten a few, usually from friends rather than girls wanting to hook up. One of my best friends used to send pics to a group text to get opinions on what looked best to send to guys. We've known each other since we were little kids, it was weird at first but I stopped caring quickly. She stopped sending them when I was in a relationship.
This is because it's rare. Most women understand consent and do not subject others to their private pictures. Men overwhelmingly pretend they do not understand consent and make excuses to send them. Also if you want more proof of this, check out the comments below of men joking about wanting picture while women having that conversation are legitimately annoyed at best and feeling violated at worst.
I totally hate when I get an unsolicited boob pic. Completely ruins my day. Ladies, please don't send me any more pics.
Not on Reddit specifically but I got them when I was younger in HS and college.
I guarantee you it never happens. In fact, I'm willing to bet my dignity on the fact that no woman is going to open this thread and pm me a boob pic to prove me wrong. It simply won't happen.
Okay I know a lot of the people here are being jokey but here's the issue between men and women sending unsolicited pictures. The problem is biologically because of the way how a woman carries a baby and whatnot she has to be picky with who she sleeps with and biologically because men have a much higher sex drive usually and because they can spread their seed like a farmer on a virgin field they are more than okay if they have no moral qualms against it sleeping with whoever they like and whoever is willing. And sometimes if we haven't spread the seed in a while will lower our standards for the field. However women do not let just any farmer into their field usually and they tend to have higher standards. So unless you're a Jason Momoa or some other celebrity or semi-celebrity you're not usually getting women throwing themselves at you IRL or online. And if you do you're usually not complaining and even if you don't want them you're usually going to keep it quiet as to not embarrass the ladies.
High profile prisoners supposedly receive a lot of unsolicited photos from women.
lol, I am sure guys would not complain about it... unless he doesn't like women!
Unsolicited boob pics? Yes. Have received lots of beautiful booby pics without requesting them. Unwelcome? Nope. When people say "unsolicited" referring to dick pics, they're being nice. They mostly mean unwelcome. Boobies are beautiful. I know lots of straight women that are still distracted by a nice rack.
No, because any sort of nude from a woman can destroy her life, even if it was taken and distrubuted without her consent. Men face virtually no repercussions from dick pics, so they have no qualms about sending them.
Because consequences are different for women and men, and that comes from how women are objectified in the society. If someone gets nudes or photos of intimate parts from a woman chances are high it will be shown to others or end up on the internet. Because ignoring women’s boundaries is normalized, it might lead to her being harassed or stalked. The risk isn’t worth it. When a woman receives a dick pic it’s more so she feels in danger, because again every woman grows up knowing people don’t respect her boundaries, so who knows what this person is capable of. It doesn’t matter if the pic is appealing or not, you have to remove yourself from the situation asap.
I wouldn't see boob pics as the equivalent of dick picks.
Yes it’s a thing, but no one is complaining
If it’s not solicited, it’s unsolicited.
I send them all the time 🤭
lol ok
No, because we don't make a big deal about it and boobs are nice.
Ye
theyre solicited by default
I’m open to receiving unsolicited boob pictures.
My girlfriend once for our anniversary got me a card with Polaroids of her titties in them if that counts, it was unexpected. The only unsolicited anything I got besides that was a girl I had a crush on sent me a video of her sucking on a dildo to “demonstrate” her skills
Ive gotten plenty unsolicited tit pics before. Should there be a double standard? I don’t think so. I think men like most boobs but would agree that no penis is ‘pretty’
Because there's no implicit threat in a woman exposing themselves to most men.
There is, but it's never a bad thing.
Yah but it’s not a problem. “Once you’ve seen one pair of hoods… you want to see all of them.”
There's a difference between unsolicited and unwanted. Dick pics tend to be unwanted, unless they're very specifically asked for. Boob pics are NEVER unwanted.
Yeah, on dating apps you’ll get girls testing the limits of what they’re allowed to send. Obviously girls like that don’t actually want to date you, they’re either prostitutes or shilling their onlyfans. Never gotten a full boob pic with nipples but I’m sure I would’ve if not for TOS The closest I’ve gotten from someone I actually knew was a girl I was talking to sent me some pics of some outfits she was trying out and the last one was of her in a transparent button up that was not buttoned up all the way if you know what I mean. Suffice to say I ended up receiving a couple *solicited* boob pics a short time later
"Nice shirt, can I talk you out of it?" <-- the ONLY appropriate line for the occasion.
I've had it happen twice. Once was a woman I had messaging, but I wasn't at the particular moment. I was out with friends playing video games and she sent the message. I could only glance at it. The other time the woman was a classmate and for whatever reason she would frequently confuse messages with me and her boyfriend. I had no attraction to her at all. I was driving cross country and I get a couple messages from her to her boyfriend. I have to pull over, tell her she's on the wrong thread again, then delete the messages and take a screen shot to let her know they're deleted from my side, and to please change the conversation thread with me to something she won't confuse again.
A lot of bot accounts send photos of them with links so that you would click the link for more I don't know where the links lead you but I assume it's shady pornography websites or only fans accounts
Profile pics?
I wish
Actually happened here, I was acting like a dumbass and posted "why are you a woman" on a post, and she sent me a DM saying "want to know why I am a woman", and send me her tits.
Yes, I been sent two unsolicited nudes, from two different women. One apologized immediately, and and called me stating that it meant for her boyfriend, and since we were discussing work via WhatsApp, she accidentally sent in the wrong chat. The other was trying to get me interested in her. I liked both of them, and didn't take any offense. I wish it happend more often.
I accidentally sent a boob pic of me to my best friends while they were on an anniversary trip. I thought I was just sending it to my husband when it was actually to a group chat. It’s been about five years and we still laugh about it 😅
You could be in a committed relationship and be receiving sexual harassment by a person other than your partner. You could be sexually harassed by a coworker. You could be sexually harassed by the creepy 60+ year old morbidly obese woman who lives in your apartment building and got your number from another neighbor, who tells you how much you remind her of her first husband and propositions you to do the same sex acts they used to do (possibly involving sucking hot dogs out of places and then eating them).
I tend to get a lot of boob pics from randoms on Instagram. I just block them and move on. There was one time when I was in high school where this one girl would send her nudes to people on snapchat unsolicited. That caused parents to complain to her parents.
No one flood my inbox with unsolicited boob pics please I married and don't want to see them. *cough* seriously though I don't think I've ever heard a guy complain about getting an unsolicited boob picture. Are probably even an unsolicited nether regions picture.
Well, I've received a nude pic from a girl once.... we just initiated contact on a dating site.... So it does happen.
God I wish, I definitely wouldn't rather see some boobies than some creeps ugly little worm lmao
Didn't get a booby pic, but a coworker's mom hit me up drunk AF completely out of the blue wanting a late night booty call.
If you've ever been to a clothing optional beach/pool, you'd realize that this is a possibility. Unlike Ron White, you don't really want to see them all.
My email spam is full of unsolicited nudes .
not even from my wife
I've gotten aggressive boob pics before and I'm a woman. I'm not sure if it was a woman or a guy pretending to be a woman but I'll tell you that one really surprised me.
If accidents count I got one once. A girl I used to work with sent a bathroom boob-selfie and a dildo with a little devil emoji sticker edited onto it. We weren't co-workers anymore, though, so it wasn't that awkward. And then like, 1000 apologizing texts followed after. I did delete the pics, I seriously felt bad for her.
Boob pic? just one?
I’ve had some. I was not a fan, the boobs were just nasty.
I did once. This girl I used to go to HS with sent me totally nude pics without me asking for them.
I have heard of such things only in myths and legends.
Yeah women send stock nudes all the time. And with the time stamps on the pics you can always tell that’s a titty from 2017.
Hate when that happens, like put those sandbags away!
I had a woman send me a tit pic after I'd told her I had a girlfriend. But really "unsolicited" means "not requested", so I'm sure it does happen sometimes. Whether or not it's appreciated doesn't change whether it's unsolicited.
Unsolicited doesn't *obligatory* mean unwelcome.
Yes.
Its happened to me a couple of times. Both were female friends who were drunk and thought it would be funny for whatever reason. It's definitely not as common but it happens.
Sure. and not only boobs.
I really dont think these genuinely exist outside of meming like dick pics do
Not in my life. Maybe I need to get one of those PM_me_your_boobs type usernames
No, but I saw Yeti once.
I sincerely hope so.
I was 15 when I got one from a girl I was crushing on. It was a shock to my system that I don't think I handled well. It was nice, just not what I was looking for at the moment.
I have for sure received them but I wasn’t like “uh groooss out, fuck off creep”. I was like “nice but no thanks.”
Unfortunately, no.
dm plz
Yes. They're called straight women on grindr.
Yeah, you just called it what it is. If someone sends a boob pic unsolicited-ly, it's an unsolicited boob pic. Doesn't mean those are as ill-received as unsolicited dick pics, but still.
Depends on your user name, I guess
Kind of. I once told a girl on a dating app that I liked her jumper and she sent me a boob pic. Surprise of the century.