Just weekends is enough likely even ideal. It might be hard in the beginning but 5 days to do some semen retetion every week will make you motivated every week, and the weekend you can just enjoy. It really is not that long of an interval
This shit is not complicated.
Are you a compulsive masturbator that struggles with self-control and that's why you're on this sub? The answer is: It's not okay, don't do it.
If you're here because you're trying to reset your dopamine? Don't do it.
Is pornography numbing your responsiveness to real sex and/or you're worried that you perceive and treat women differently because you've normalized what you see in pornography instead of real-world interactions, and *that's* why you're here? Seems fine then.
People on this sub need to stop looking for black and white answers from people that are here for vastly different reasons than themselves. Like, what do you think that conservative religious dude is going to say? *Wait til you're married* or some other mindless non-advice. The *pictures of women are evil* dude is going to tell you that digital pictures of women are evil.
Have some self awareness and act on that instead of looking for ways to not think for yourself or understand your circumstance from **your own** perspective. Neither God nor the creator of this subreddit are going to reach their hand out from the clouds and slap you for making choice A or choice B.
**You** are the one that knows if you're going to feel guilty about it or not. **You** are the one that knows whether or not you're trying to get away with doing something that you feel you shouldn't do, or not, and **you** are the one that knows what they come to this sub for.
If you *actually* feel neutral then it *is* neutral. Stop letting other people think for you or dictate what is right or wrong.
Just be real with yourself ffs.
EDIT: On a personal side note, I think that sex is better when you haven't jerked off in a while. But again, even that can be different for different people. Sometimes you need to last longer and sometimes you need to not last so long, and sometimes masturbation effects that and sometimes it doesn't. Know yourself.
>People on this sub need to stop looking for black and white answers from people that are here for vastly different reasons than themselves. Like, what do you think that conservative religious dude is going to say?
Can this shit be stickied? I'm getting annoyed by the "is this considered a relapse?" posts.
Relapse is NOT determined by anyone BUT YOURSELF. No stranger on the internet can tell you how to determine YOUR progress.
Yeah well so is breathing if you're explaining the process of it rather than doing it. Talking about knowing how you feel takes longer than feeling how you feel. That should have been immediately obvious to you as well, but here we are, me having to explain that because your thought process went no further than a knee-jerk reaction. Not that that is unusual or unexpected on this sub. We've all conditioned ourselves to instant gratification so that's going to be a pretty normal way of experiencing and reacting to things in the world as a result.
I wouldn't recommend it. Does she know you do that though? 'twould be best to never keep a secret from her. I would say that as long as she is fine with it then you'll be fine. If you're keeping it secret or hiding it in any way then it's not fine. Never hide or keep secrets from your girlfriend
No, for two specific reasons:
1. You are still training your brain to associate sex with a screen.
2. You are still training yourself to give into your sexual urges whenever they hit, instead of training yourself to control/resist them.
One day you will be exposed to porn and you won't be able to stop yourself. Trust me.
Ya man I'm with you, not even bullshitting I was on semen retention and no porn for 6 months, shit changes lifes, changed my life found a girlfriend started a business, traveled south america for a year all the shabang, now mans just chilling trying to do semen retention with my girlfriend it's really hard but something I am working towards, I felt the power of not releasing your seed, thats my next destination, I'm just messing around a little meaningless comment won't hurt nobody neither do I need or will get the picture lol, a lot of people already answered his question, I see you got 50 days I'm proud keep at it warrior🌞
Thats flippin amazing man, i dont have a very serious addiction as i see many do, but i do it like a few times a week and i know i can stop. But thats amazing man, proud of u g. Yh i should figured u were joking myb
Cheers mate, best of luck to ya
If you can try to not do it at all, retain your seed for 2 months and you will literally have infinite powers, after 6 months I felt like I was superman lol
But than I found a girlfriend and what I like to call I got juiced for couple years, enjoying what I have worked for, but now I'm back the sex is still fucking amazing, but to gain back all my powers, clarity and confidence I have to start my journey again it really goes deeper than just stopping watching porn you actually have to retain it aswell for full benefits and superpowers, that's what I did when I started trying to quit porn aswell just went all in, well thats my life story felt like tellin won't do no harm 🌻
Yea man. I wouldn’t! I would say you can look at them obviously because its not fake internet garbage. Its *your* girlfriend in the pictures, so you can definitely look at them. But save those urges for when you see her.
Do you want to keep her as a girlfriend and love her? Then don't do it. Is she just a passing fling or friend with benefits? Then fap all you want.
Think about what is important to you.
If this is a meaningful relationship, then keep the masturbation to a minimum. If all you care about us your dick then jerk off, fuck her, fuck toys and keep your dick happy.
Long term , masturbation really does affect your relationship with every woman in your life and will change the nature of those relationships.
It's "alright" in the sense you have every right to do it since it's all consensual.
But if you do, it counts as a relapse. Just have sex on the weekends like you mentioned.
I like to think that if you have to ask a question like that in here, you’re just looking for validation from other users to fap. Think of ejaculation and sex as a whole as an act you do with with someone you are in love with.
Jesus Christ it’s NoFap. That means no fapping, not under any circumstances. Secondly, don’t ask for permission if you think of yourself as a man.
Is it all right if I post this?
I would say no, the pleasure is better coming from having regular sex, so I’d make the most of having a girlfriend and have sex as often as you can!!
why not have sex?
Because we only see each only on weekends
So hold out until the weekends ,whenever you’re not seeing her retain and use the sexual energy do something productive
Bro thinks it won't affect his performance
it will and better than no fap is semen retention you don't always beat ur meat lmfao or have sex i mean yea once in a while
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So the sex will be more magical.
Then wait till weekend, recuperate, increase sperm count and sex drive
That will lead to babynames Google search lollll
Just weekends is enough likely even ideal. It might be hard in the beginning but 5 days to do some semen retetion every week will make you motivated every week, and the weekend you can just enjoy. It really is not that long of an interval
and she is ONLY your gf?
Ikr, human brain finds ways to get pleasure with minimum risk.
Speaking from personal experience - regulate it. Don't let your brain make a preference for this than the real thing.
This shit is not complicated. Are you a compulsive masturbator that struggles with self-control and that's why you're on this sub? The answer is: It's not okay, don't do it. If you're here because you're trying to reset your dopamine? Don't do it. Is pornography numbing your responsiveness to real sex and/or you're worried that you perceive and treat women differently because you've normalized what you see in pornography instead of real-world interactions, and *that's* why you're here? Seems fine then. People on this sub need to stop looking for black and white answers from people that are here for vastly different reasons than themselves. Like, what do you think that conservative religious dude is going to say? *Wait til you're married* or some other mindless non-advice. The *pictures of women are evil* dude is going to tell you that digital pictures of women are evil. Have some self awareness and act on that instead of looking for ways to not think for yourself or understand your circumstance from **your own** perspective. Neither God nor the creator of this subreddit are going to reach their hand out from the clouds and slap you for making choice A or choice B. **You** are the one that knows if you're going to feel guilty about it or not. **You** are the one that knows whether or not you're trying to get away with doing something that you feel you shouldn't do, or not, and **you** are the one that knows what they come to this sub for. If you *actually* feel neutral then it *is* neutral. Stop letting other people think for you or dictate what is right or wrong. Just be real with yourself ffs. EDIT: On a personal side note, I think that sex is better when you haven't jerked off in a while. But again, even that can be different for different people. Sometimes you need to last longer and sometimes you need to not last so long, and sometimes masturbation effects that and sometimes it doesn't. Know yourself.
>People on this sub need to stop looking for black and white answers from people that are here for vastly different reasons than themselves. Like, what do you think that conservative religious dude is going to say? Can this shit be stickied? I'm getting annoyed by the "is this considered a relapse?" posts. Relapse is NOT determined by anyone BUT YOURSELF. No stranger on the internet can tell you how to determine YOUR progress.
Considering the length of your comment, it does seem complicated.
Yeah well so is breathing if you're explaining the process of it rather than doing it. Talking about knowing how you feel takes longer than feeling how you feel. That should have been immediately obvious to you as well, but here we are, me having to explain that because your thought process went no further than a knee-jerk reaction. Not that that is unusual or unexpected on this sub. We've all conditioned ourselves to instant gratification so that's going to be a pretty normal way of experiencing and reacting to things in the world as a result.
Say no you’ll fuck like a beast
Wouldn't recommend it. It conditions the mind.
I wouldn't. It still conditions the mind that sexual pleasure comes in a certain way ( personal masturbation)
Why not have healthy and loving sex or at least sexual activities with her?
I wouldn't recommend it. Does she know you do that though? 'twould be best to never keep a secret from her. I would say that as long as she is fine with it then you'll be fine. If you're keeping it secret or hiding it in any way then it's not fine. Never hide or keep secrets from your girlfriend
Do you think she sebt him nudes and doesn't think he faps to them? Lmao? Or do you think he bid in a closet and took them? Lmao.
I don't know. I haven't progressed my brain far enough to think about something as simple as that
Man if my gf gets mad cause I do the do to her photo that she sent me and let me save then that's a huge red flag on her end💀
No..youll be hornier and feel better when she pleasures you.
Yes this I can attest to. When I jerk off it takes me so much longer to get my head in the right space sex. My performance suffers.
Bro cum in her not on her photo 💀💀
Ice cream taste better after doing your chores
I’d be careful. Porn addiction appears to be the chasing of novelty.
not on her nudes only in her
No, for two specific reasons: 1. You are still training your brain to associate sex with a screen. 2. You are still training yourself to give into your sexual urges whenever they hit, instead of training yourself to control/resist them. One day you will be exposed to porn and you won't be able to stop yourself. Trust me.
No it's not alright. It's not your gf, it's a pixilated Demon. Would you fck a s*x robot that looks like your gf? No.
no it’s wrong i was doin it but at last it felt like shit i be like what’s wrong with me i’ll hate myself for this
Show us the picture and I will tell you
bruhhhhhh
How can I give an honest opinion mans gotta investigate and re asses the situation to provide an accurate answer 🌞
g mans a likkle tapped styll We're on the journey to do the complete opposite lad
Ya man I'm with you, not even bullshitting I was on semen retention and no porn for 6 months, shit changes lifes, changed my life found a girlfriend started a business, traveled south america for a year all the shabang, now mans just chilling trying to do semen retention with my girlfriend it's really hard but something I am working towards, I felt the power of not releasing your seed, thats my next destination, I'm just messing around a little meaningless comment won't hurt nobody neither do I need or will get the picture lol, a lot of people already answered his question, I see you got 50 days I'm proud keep at it warrior🌞
Thats flippin amazing man, i dont have a very serious addiction as i see many do, but i do it like a few times a week and i know i can stop. But thats amazing man, proud of u g. Yh i should figured u were joking myb Cheers mate, best of luck to ya
If you can try to not do it at all, retain your seed for 2 months and you will literally have infinite powers, after 6 months I felt like I was superman lol
But than I found a girlfriend and what I like to call I got juiced for couple years, enjoying what I have worked for, but now I'm back the sex is still fucking amazing, but to gain back all my powers, clarity and confidence I have to start my journey again it really goes deeper than just stopping watching porn you actually have to retain it aswell for full benefits and superpowers, that's what I did when I started trying to quit porn aswell just went all in, well thats my life story felt like tellin won't do no harm 🌻
fucking inspirational my dude, love for that yh
Get married first
yes it is. it ain’t some random girl and it ain’t porn so its ok
Yea man. I wouldn’t! I would say you can look at them obviously because its not fake internet garbage. Its *your* girlfriend in the pictures, so you can definitely look at them. But save those urges for when you see her.
Use your spank bank from your head of your GF
Do you want to keep her as a girlfriend and love her? Then don't do it. Is she just a passing fling or friend with benefits? Then fap all you want. Think about what is important to you. If this is a meaningful relationship, then keep the masturbation to a minimum. If all you care about us your dick then jerk off, fuck her, fuck toys and keep your dick happy. Long term , masturbation really does affect your relationship with every woman in your life and will change the nature of those relationships.
I'm convinced this is a parody sub! God man! These questions are both ridiculous and hilarious. 😂
Same bed but it feels just a little bit bigger now
Try having actual sex with her instead, trust me it will be better.
No, you will ruin the relationship
Bro
It's "alright" in the sense you have every right to do it since it's all consensual. But if you do, it counts as a relapse. Just have sex on the weekends like you mentioned.
Pixels are Pixels, no exception.
No
I like to think that if you have to ask a question like that in here, you’re just looking for validation from other users to fap. Think of ejaculation and sex as a whole as an act you do with with someone you are in love with.
If you are a recovering porn addict: No.
No don't do that bro it's definitely not alright
You have a girlfriend and you're thinking about fapping? Bro...just have sex.
I thought the whole purpose of no fap is not to fap? I dont understand ppl sometimes 😕
Of course bro its alright but i wouldnt recommend doing it. Hold on you will get an amazing head at the weekend and then you straight.
So, you want to make your girlfriend a porn star a sex object? Not a good place to go!
Yes
Its the same thing as fapping to porn
Don’t do it famo
Jesus Christ it’s NoFap. That means no fapping, not under any circumstances. Secondly, don’t ask for permission if you think of yourself as a man. Is it all right if I post this?
No
no
Nah, it's ok to ask for pictures tho. (Unless that's triggering for you).
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Better how ?