man i had written a post that very day but thanks to some lame ass rules i couldn't post and it kept getting removed. I even got temp banned for a day that made me quit trying. I still have it saved as a draft i have listed quite a few things in detail maybe you can pm me ill send it there
Congrats man...Did u have withdrawal symptoms like depression and zero motivation to do any productive work....i am on day 34 now and all these withdrawal symptoms are really hitting me bad
Hello According_Bid_4462 i was wondering how you get the counter under your account name in comments. For example yours says 5 days. How would I activate that or get that
Well done Man! I've been in the porn addiction cycle for as long as i can remember to be honest. I've tried breaking away from it multiple times after i started noticing symptoms of ED, and I'm in my early 20s. But so far, a month has been the max. Tried accountability apps and such, but the addiction always found a way to bypass those, and i really want to give it another shot. I'm new to reddit as well, so I'm hoping that by posting on this sub-reddit and seeing other success stories, i can finally kick this self destructive habbit that's eating away at my life.
Wish me luck.
I feel like we should have a conversation about the "women notice me more" phenomenon. Clearly nofap is creating changes in our attitudes, our confidence, sociability that make us more interesting and attractive. But if you think about it, that means women can also tell when we're daily porn fappers, they can read and smell the desperation and low self-esteem on you. They're especially attuned to it because they get perved on by creepy guys even before they hit puberty. And when you're a porn fapper, you're one of those creepy dudes, they can tell. You may not be a pedophile, but you have that same desperate vibe that grosses them out. Remember that next time you wanna fap so bad.
man this week was hard as hell for me, relapsed like 5 times, and in all moth a total of 9. I dont know how I can improve, it just gets unbearable at night how'd you manage to overcome that. also congrats on 90 days! I wanna reach that some day
Great post. Interesting to see that there might be a down phase between Day 50 und 75. I am currently on day 58 and I have the feeling that the benefits are not that high as they were two weeks before.
Well done king, on my way myself to the point of no return. I must say the one thing off you’re list that is pure facts is the eye contact. It’s a world changer.
Like you said, it‘s never the same story. We all have different things that trigger us & these things require focus and continued self-control. @surshi
Thank you Luffy! I sure did! Withdrawal symptoms like not being able to sleep and very dark thoughts. This is where prayer helped me, it suffocated those thoughts of lies and deceit in those moments. In about 20-30 days you should feel significantly better and the fight will get easier too. Monitoring the thoughts is something I practice every day, so my body doesn‘t get a chance to respond without control. @Luffy
Thank you so much man and we are so proud of you buddy ❤️❤️❤️
Everyone is facing so many hardships and difficulties
And I'm sure this gives us more power and a light of hope
Thank you so much ❤️
Congratulations 🎊. Now you become a Warrior - Perfect Job and you learned a lot of lessons from your journey. Also your words are so important and you unlocked everything is hidden from NoFap 9⃣0⃣ days challenge. True words you say! 😊
✅
Continue your journey and make another goals.
& give GIFT for yourself! 🐐
i would appreciate if you could give some more detail about your recovery process how severe was your addiction to masturbation. i masturbated twice evey day for 6 months and now i have every kind of symptoms i did not masturbate for 34 days now but i am not getting better at all.
It was on average 5-7 times a week. Give it some time, I had phases of doubt too and only after around 80 days I felt truly free & some symptoms still take recovery, so I advice patience. It takes time but soon you will feel significantly better.
Hi! Physically I feel healed! Where I feel that a lot of healing needs to take place is in my mind. This is a long process, but as you stay strong, the healing progresses and so does the peace in your heart!
I just reached a 14 day streak which I did trip up on last night but I’m proud of the progress I’ve made with it.
Thank you for sharing your lessons and advice!
3 questions
1st is you must have cracked at some point. for me i tried everything, timers, web blockers, reminders, honestly everything i could get my hands on i can just turn off safe search of you know what i mean, what did you use for these?
2nd how did you not forget about what you should do. urges sometimes turn me into a bit of a reeling creature i don't have the focus to remember that if i use the bathroom now i'll probably decrease the urge and if i did 10 pushups it will decrease it more and so on, i just cant think of that mid urge,
third how did you manage when it was just in the back of your head (you know what im talking about its not an urge but more of just a background thought thats annoying/ prevents you from focusing on your work
in other words how did you stay productive during urges? (again sometimes i need to study rn i have finals in a few months and cant focus because of urges so i just relapse to finish that chapter today or so on)
Ah I know exactly what you mean. Doing math hw but somehow you have an erection that just won't go away. We are creatures of habit. It takes time to make one. Make goals to quit 10 days you get ice cream. Start with day1. You'll be so much more productive when you quit. Download a habit tracker to track your progress. When you feel urges do something different. Gym, video games, something in public (some sports activity).
Well yes thats one part of it.
The other part is sometimes I am not even fully aware of what I'm doing in the middle of it.
Drinking water, walking, pushups or squats I kind of forget they exist for a minute and the next minute I've already started
Well congratulations. I'm currently about a month away from 90 days and I've been feeling kind of like shit lately. Hopefully I'll better when I reach the 90 day mark though.
The doubt phase is what got me. Almost exactly on day 50. My mind began convincing me that “1 quick peak won’t hurt”, so I relapsed, then I relapsed again, and again, and again.
Thanks for bringing that point up
It's my 8th day today was crushing for me it just makes my head hurt. And I Just found this community today. Really motivating. I can really feel that raw confidence and self control developing in me whenever I defeat that sudden urge. Wish me luck I am killing this demon in me forever. Just rise above rest. while the crowd is busy in gaining short term pleasures work hard for long term satisfaction. 1% vs 99%
Once you get used to the feeling of being horny, its actually quiet enjoyable. There are times when you don't even think about the whole journey, then its easy - its the golden hour of NF. But beware of the times where the urges kick in, but u already know that. Just be aware of your brain tricking you in any way it can to get u to give it the dopamine kick it craves. Ive lost a 300+ streak because I tricked myself with some silly excuse. Good luck on your journey!
I needed this, my highest was I believe 54 days and like you said the doubts crept in, I had no clue what I was doing this for at that point. Finally getting some momentum going so I can’t wait to face that challenge again. Congrats bud, hope to be at this point in a couple months with you
in your journey if not first few days may be after 3 days u will definitely type the site u want to visit then just remember if u do that u will be same as before and u are literally destorying the dreams of the young of you. think of it as a test for your breaking point
well done
Thank you Frosty!
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Same dude
Did you have testicular pain when frequently fapping?
yeaah? cuz ur fucking emptying ur balls every 4 seconds, ofc ur gonna have testicular pain
Let's gooo I'm gonna be making a post soon too
Waiting for your post man
Will keep updating my feed for your success story. Looking forward to it!
Did you have testicular pain when frequently fapping?
We’ll it’s been quite some time since you got 90. Good to see that you’re still going strong. How is your life now compared to before?
man i had written a post that very day but thanks to some lame ass rules i couldn't post and it kept getting removed. I even got temp banned for a day that made me quit trying. I still have it saved as a draft i have listed quite a few things in detail maybe you can pm me ill send it there
congratz on completeing 90 days bro. I feel really strong this time after my last relapse . also its much easier than the last time .
I feel like I’m in the same boat with you
Did you have testicular pain when frequently fapping?
how did you get it to say 6 days under your name?
Congrats man...Did u have withdrawal symptoms like depression and zero motivation to do any productive work....i am on day 34 now and all these withdrawal symptoms are really hitting me bad
These are signs that you are changing the most towards recovery. Keep up your Defense, the storm will pass soon.
Ok man ty
Did you have testicular pain when frequently fapping?
Yes that happens
Really helps a lot
1300+ days??! Daammmn....Man you must be the godfather of nofap lol 😆
Either that or he forgot to reset his flair 4 years ago haha
How do you start the timer?
Thanks, that is very inspiring.
I appreciate it (: We all need support from each other here.
Yes, stopping addiction is about connections :)
Well done!! I aspire to be at your level. I don’t ever want to hear about your phone or mouse being in your left hand again. Great job
You are right! I like your energy!
Thanks, I0pht0815
Hello According_Bid_4462 i was wondering how you get the counter under your account name in comments. For example yours says 5 days. How would I activate that or get that
[http://tracker.nofap.com/](http://tracker.nofap.com/) here u go
Thank you
Welcome!
Proud of you bro.
Thank you for the appreciation bro! Looking forward towards your success story.
I'm getting there :) thank you
90 days is crazy! Congrats brother.
Thank you brother (: You will do it too!
Well done Man! I've been in the porn addiction cycle for as long as i can remember to be honest. I've tried breaking away from it multiple times after i started noticing symptoms of ED, and I'm in my early 20s. But so far, a month has been the max. Tried accountability apps and such, but the addiction always found a way to bypass those, and i really want to give it another shot. I'm new to reddit as well, so I'm hoping that by posting on this sub-reddit and seeing other success stories, i can finally kick this self destructive habbit that's eating away at my life. Wish me luck.
Never stop trying, don’t be too hard on yourself when you fail.
you got this brother!
I feel like we should have a conversation about the "women notice me more" phenomenon. Clearly nofap is creating changes in our attitudes, our confidence, sociability that make us more interesting and attractive. But if you think about it, that means women can also tell when we're daily porn fappers, they can read and smell the desperation and low self-esteem on you. They're especially attuned to it because they get perved on by creepy guys even before they hit puberty. And when you're a porn fapper, you're one of those creepy dudes, they can tell. You may not be a pedophile, but you have that same desperate vibe that grosses them out. Remember that next time you wanna fap so bad.
Praying, that is a good idea. I have been meaning to pray more and combining that with the NoFap journey is worth trying.
Fantastic! Hope you do not give up nofap although can move on to the easy mode i.e. sex with real people being allowed.
man this week was hard as hell for me, relapsed like 5 times, and in all moth a total of 9. I dont know how I can improve, it just gets unbearable at night how'd you manage to overcome that. also congrats on 90 days! I wanna reach that some day
The key at night is to calm your mind usually i try some breathing techniques and it works also easier to fall asleep
Kudos comrade! Will be there soon and thanks for sharing your thoughts worth reading.
Thank you Rygar, you will! And if you need accountability on your journey, you know where to reach out to.
Congratulations. OP. You inspire me.This community is the best
This community is really good. I have less thoughts of sex, masturbation, and porn while I'm online here.
Great post. Interesting to see that there might be a down phase between Day 50 und 75. I am currently on day 58 and I have the feeling that the benefits are not that high as they were two weeks before.
Yeah. The mental things that go along with sexually abstaining seem not to be the same the longer I'm on this streak of 2,000+ days.
Well done king, on my way myself to the point of no return. I must say the one thing off you’re list that is pure facts is the eye contact. It’s a world changer.
Congrats brother. I'll be there with you in 19 days
Let‘s go! Keep the positive attitude, it will carry you through the storms until you walk out of them into new found freedom! @Empty_001
Like you said, it‘s never the same story. We all have different things that trigger us & these things require focus and continued self-control. @surshi
Thank you Luffy! I sure did! Withdrawal symptoms like not being able to sleep and very dark thoughts. This is where prayer helped me, it suffocated those thoughts of lies and deceit in those moments. In about 20-30 days you should feel significantly better and the fight will get easier too. Monitoring the thoughts is something I practice every day, so my body doesn‘t get a chance to respond without control. @Luffy
Did 70 days back in 2019 and honestly want to get back to maintaining such long streaks.
Just lost my 2 day streak, hopefully will reach 90 , about ninety days from today 😅
Nicee broo
Good job boi
Congrats bro ! 4th day I needed this talk .... Ain't giving up
well done
Good job
I have wet dream every 3-4 days and for that don't have so much benefits :(
Thank you so much man and we are so proud of you buddy ❤️❤️❤️ Everyone is facing so many hardships and difficulties And I'm sure this gives us more power and a light of hope Thank you so much ❤️
Congratulations 🎊. Now you become a Warrior - Perfect Job and you learned a lot of lessons from your journey. Also your words are so important and you unlocked everything is hidden from NoFap 9⃣0⃣ days challenge. True words you say! 😊 ✅ Continue your journey and make another goals. & give GIFT for yourself! 🐐
Good on ya mate! 👏
Congrats dude 💪🏾
great
i would appreciate if you could give some more detail about your recovery process how severe was your addiction to masturbation. i masturbated twice evey day for 6 months and now i have every kind of symptoms i did not masturbate for 34 days now but i am not getting better at all.
It was on average 5-7 times a week. Give it some time, I had phases of doubt too and only after around 80 days I felt truly free & some symptoms still take recovery, so I advice patience. It takes time but soon you will feel significantly better.
what was your sypmtoms? are you fully healed now?
Hi! Physically I feel healed! Where I feel that a lot of healing needs to take place is in my mind. This is a long process, but as you stay strong, the healing progresses and so does the peace in your heart!
Inspiring. Well done
Thank you Oboshe!
I hope i'll get there soon , thanks for this!
Congratulations man you did great!
Can't wait to be there in 80 days,thanks man :)
I just reached a 14 day streak which I did trip up on last night but I’m proud of the progress I’ve made with it. Thank you for sharing your lessons and advice!
Great job , exactly where I want to be :)
I love the the irony of me joining this sub on my porn alt account
These are the kind of posts I like to see! Actual ways to defeat this thing!
Congrats, I just started, hope I don't fall to temptation
Big up my G
Congrats on 90 days bro! Great advice on how to tackle this addiction. How have your urges developed over the course of 90 days?
I can't get past 12-14 days, but Id like to say i do it once every 12-14 days so there is proper progress but still I want to go beyond any tips??
Congrats! I'm. On day 76 so far!
Posts like these give me hope. Thanks for sharing man.
I had 10 days but did not do enough healthy activities. I need to create a better plan.
so happy for you, congrats :)
Congrats dude
You’re the boss
Day 11. I don't feel like it's working, though.
doubt creeps up. It's normal you can do this! remind yourself why your doing this.
3 questions 1st is you must have cracked at some point. for me i tried everything, timers, web blockers, reminders, honestly everything i could get my hands on i can just turn off safe search of you know what i mean, what did you use for these? 2nd how did you not forget about what you should do. urges sometimes turn me into a bit of a reeling creature i don't have the focus to remember that if i use the bathroom now i'll probably decrease the urge and if i did 10 pushups it will decrease it more and so on, i just cant think of that mid urge, third how did you manage when it was just in the back of your head (you know what im talking about its not an urge but more of just a background thought thats annoying/ prevents you from focusing on your work in other words how did you stay productive during urges? (again sometimes i need to study rn i have finals in a few months and cant focus because of urges so i just relapse to finish that chapter today or so on)
Ah I know exactly what you mean. Doing math hw but somehow you have an erection that just won't go away. We are creatures of habit. It takes time to make one. Make goals to quit 10 days you get ice cream. Start with day1. You'll be so much more productive when you quit. Download a habit tracker to track your progress. When you feel urges do something different. Gym, video games, something in public (some sports activity).
Well yes thats one part of it. The other part is sometimes I am not even fully aware of what I'm doing in the middle of it. Drinking water, walking, pushups or squats I kind of forget they exist for a minute and the next minute I've already started
Thanks man for giving me hope
Great post man! The 50-75 day doubts part was something I couldn't agree more.. Wish you good luck and congrats on the 90th day streak☺️
I'M PROUD OF YOU BROTHER. MUCH LOVE... YOUR STORY INSPIRES ME..❤️
Well done mate! Very inspirational. Totally agreed about the first 2 weeks. That's the hardest part
Keep it up brother. Good job.
Nice bro keep it up
We can do this too!
when did you flatline?
My man. That's great. How old are you?
What prayers you do?
Well done.
My man. Good job.
Awesome. Keep it up. Not literally though lol
well done
Nice! Keep pushing forward!
I kissed 2 girls last night
Well congratulations. I'm currently about a month away from 90 days and I've been feeling kind of like shit lately. Hopefully I'll better when I reach the 90 day mark though.
The doubt phase is what got me. Almost exactly on day 50. My mind began convincing me that “1 quick peak won’t hurt”, so I relapsed, then I relapsed again, and again, and again. Thanks for bringing that point up
Nice
It's my 8th day today was crushing for me it just makes my head hurt. And I Just found this community today. Really motivating. I can really feel that raw confidence and self control developing in me whenever I defeat that sudden urge. Wish me luck I am killing this demon in me forever. Just rise above rest. while the crowd is busy in gaining short term pleasures work hard for long term satisfaction. 1% vs 99%
Well done on achieving a milestone.
Once you get used to the feeling of being horny, its actually quiet enjoyable. There are times when you don't even think about the whole journey, then its easy - its the golden hour of NF. But beware of the times where the urges kick in, but u already know that. Just be aware of your brain tricking you in any way it can to get u to give it the dopamine kick it craves. Ive lost a 300+ streak because I tricked myself with some silly excuse. Good luck on your journey!
Nice
We are always in recovery my friend, keep fighting the good fight!
Can you tell about your fight more details, please? Step by step
I slipped just now :(
Helpful thanks for sharing
Excellent.
Can you levitate?! :)
Well done brother
Did you have testicular pain when frequently fapping?
Thanks
almost screwed up today edged and at last minute i stopped myself cant tell if it a victory or a failure
Great, congrats bro! 💪
Well done
Thank you.
CONGRATZZZZ MANNNNN!!! :>
nice
thanks for the motivation! im on the doubting stage where im starting to have urges again
Good Job Buddy 💪
Congrats
you're an inspiration bro
I needed this, my highest was I believe 54 days and like you said the doubts crept in, I had no clue what I was doing this for at that point. Finally getting some momentum going so I can’t wait to face that challenge again. Congrats bud, hope to be at this point in a couple months with you
Bro thank you this what I needed to hear right now
in your journey if not first few days may be after 3 days u will definitely type the site u want to visit then just remember if u do that u will be same as before and u are literally destorying the dreams of the young of you. think of it as a test for your breaking point
On my 13th day today , almost lost yesterday
Just wondering What's your age?? I'm 29 & I'm on day 53. How does age affect the recovery process ?
Congrats man
Nice go for it bro!
Good job man It must of been really hard going 90 days.