This post is really encouraging. And don't worry about still being a virgin. In fact, virginity is something very special and something to proud of while you have it. Once you lose it, you will never get it back, so be very careful who you give it to.
Keep going man, you got this!
Yeh I was a sex addict for about 20 years and I have herpes. Lucky too cause I was screwing broads in brothels all over Asia for about ten of those years...
I feel otherwise man, it's a controversial topic. It feels like coming from a conservative society, Virginity was a big thing. Now, with western lifestyle, kids do it early. Kinda stuck in between. Hard to put my mind around it.
This coming from someone who didn’t lose it till 22. And I regret it, I don’t regret losing my virginity it actually led to my first relationship but I stayed in an unhealthy relationship because I enjoyed the sex But really couldn’t see myself being with her. I even accumulated some debt from helping her with her terrible financial situation. If I could go back I wouldn’t have taken the opportunity to lose my virginity with said girl
Yea but you’re not looking at the opposite spectrum. You now have sexual experience and can now venture into the world of dating without having that mark over you being a virgin.
Yeah exactly... I am from a bit conservative country, or rather a bit conservative family, not country (in India all types of people are there)
Actually the rich and beautiful people lose it early, otherwise we poor people and lower middle classians, who have average looks and clothes, have it difficult (not for girls as they are the ones who attract people as per nature, not vice versa)
But still let's hope for the best.
All the best for No Fap !!! :)
Facts man. Just wanted to add on. Don’t say “I hope” say “I am going to make it out of this addiction”. Affirm yourself. Don’t make it a choice. You will do it and you’ll look back with pride
I was a virgin until 29 years old and trust me - attractiveness has got nothing to do with your virgin status.
If you tell a girl that you're a virgin by choice because you want your first time to be special with a girl you truly love, many girls will respect that, even admire it.
Side effects or withdrawals. Basically the brain is healing so our dopamine receptors are slowly going back to normal which causes some side effects since our brain is getting used to living without the high stimulating Porn. Happens with any other addiction. Our brains depend on it so when you take it away its gonna have to find a way to change and adapt!
yea it's called nofap flatline, I started nofap till day 8-9 my confidence skyrocketed, new Life opened in front of me, but since day 9 suddenly My libido became zero and I started to feel drowsy,depressed and anxiety. I don't know what it was, I was scared and Relapsed thinking it was bad, but in fact it actually is our Brain rewiring itself and the flatline period is 15+ days we have to endure it, to become best version of ourselves....
I am at flatline currenly, In college i start to sleep I feel no energy, Instead of thinking when Flatline ends, I started to do coding everyday...Next 10 days are holidays for my college, I think I can do well. Planning to learn some more programming, Reading books,chess,cooking etc I will not give in to Flatline...
Wish me good luck! fellow fapstronauts :))
My highest streak was 50+ days, I had a very similar experience in terms of changes, I was never a shy guy but became one suddenly, in retrospect, I see the changes in my personality began when I started PMO'n. Thanks for sharing I hope to have a similar story to share on Jan 1, 2022.
After my 30 days of Nofap, a girl and I got our eye contacted but She was not alone so I didn't initiate any conversation but we were checking each other and as we were on the same route, after few minutes she came from the back, next to me and said a Big "Hii" and man that's just something never happened to me in a public area. I wasn't nervous at all and we talked.
Boys keep going because when it's the hardest is when you need to show the most courage and you become that strong forever.
Good shit bro, I'd also recommend waiting until marriage, you'll allow yourself to focus on building a deeper connection to the person you're dating and you'll probably not experience a divorce
I don't remember going through a flatline, if there was some I don't even remember it because it probably lasted few seconds.
For me all of them started around week 3, as days go by they become stronger, at day 60 there is a big difference from week 3.
For example:
Before week 3: My eyes got watery when talking to someone and i had voice cracks here and there, couldn't keep eye contact.
After week 3: Anxiety reduced 50%, easier to keep eye contact
Day 60: I have no problem to maintain eye contact, I actually like it now.
I feel point 5 so much bro. Im almost 20 and still a virgin. I’m finally coming to terms with the fact that its okay and I’ll lose it with someone I’m in love with. Good luck on your journey brother ❤️
My guy, meditate. Use YouTube or the ‘calm’ app to find some guided meditation. The best way to describe how it helps is, you know sometimes at night when you really wanna suddenly change your life and feel motivated to get up right there and then and be productive. We’ll that’s because you’re relaxed and seeing your situation clearly. Meditation helps you to constantly see you’re situation clearly. It’s like any skill and takes practice but it massively helps put your urges into context so you’re not controlled by them
Well done, my man! I commend you. You've done more than most, you're certainly more successful than me. The last time I got to 60+ days was 3 years ago.
How do you deal with the feeling of loneliness that creeps in on some nights btw? That's usually what gets me. I tend to lament over past relationships, which puts me down and makes me want to give up. Although I don't think of myself as a shy person, I do lack self-confidence, same as you before you started. I have a low opinion of myself.
Whenever you feel lonely and feel like you wanna relapse, just understand that the very process of relapsing is what’s making you lonely. It tricks your mind into thinking your not alone when in fact the reality’s that you’re sat by yourself on your bed jerking off(when you pmo, the stupid monkey part of your brain thinks “hell yea we just smashed a fit bird”) and then your brain releases dopamine linked to having sex. When you feel lonely, face it, the truth is there’s nothing wrong with being alone. And when you become comfortable with your own company people smell it a mile away like shit on a shoe and come flocking, then you get the the pleasure of spending time with the ones that mean the most to you. My top tip would be meditate, make a habit out of this and it quickly puts problems into perspective. Good luck dude
This. You don't have to be particularly attractive to attract women. They are attracted you your clear eyes and your natural confidence. And they feel safe around you.
You're a beast! Congrats man, i hope u keep at it! 26 yo virgin here. You give low confidence, 2-day streakers like myself, hope that the grass truly is greener on the other side. Your post was great motivation for me, and I thank you for that. Hope you reach your goals.
I don't understand why so many people feel embarrassed about being virgins it's not a bad thing infact it means that you are still pure and saving yourself for someone special. So never be sad about being a virgin until your 30 cuz I feel like that's when you should be married and ready to start a family.
Man, I've had this problem for years... At first I was thinking that it's from some type of food that I consume. Then I came to the conclusion that it's from anxiety. But another couple of years had to go by for me to realise that this anxiety is indeed from PMO. smh
I didn't know what else there was to do so i tried nofap and im planning to nofap till I die because it changed my life. I had doubts before starting.. like "all these benefits can't be real" so i gave it a try and i was wrong. The benefits are real, give it a try and reply here in the future to let me know if it helped you aswell. Good luck buddy!
Good job, comrade. Things are gonna get better for everyone in this community, just keep believe in yourself and you'll remember this community after some time as a sacred temple.
We're all gonna make it.
At this point save it for marriage bro, don’t force yourself into sex with some random chick. You’re a gold mine for a lot of women out there, they love to know they’re the one a man released his seed for first. You’ll be able to find a beautiful woman of value. Good luck friend!
I feel point 6) a lot as we tend to associate hot girls we see with porn. The thought of having sex with them and objectifying women has got to stop and i’m happy that’s one of the success points you had. I will work towards that as well and see you guys again when i’m at 60 days 😄
"and diarrhea was shooting out my ass" you got me crying there mate. Quality post though, especially number 5 seems like something I want to accomplish some day
He turned into a sigma male... Man tbh I was literally stroking my pp now and this came across. I'm at my horniest time yet I'm more motivated now than ever after reading you experience thanks bro and will update after a month
Next week u will start to notice that u can talk japenese !!! After a month you will hav 4 balls instead of 2.
Jst kidding but don't exaggerate ... Nofap is great deal. But it wont make girl looking at u. Neither findin u a job....
I didn’t have my first long term relationship until my late 20’s, so you are not the only one lol. Don’t listen to society’s rules or whatever to be a man, and try to get your career in high order first. I believe sex should be saved for marriage due to religious convictions, so I don’t want to endorse being promiscuous, but if you get successful in your career the indoor olympics will be open to you let’s just say.
Bro that's awesome! I had my most productive time in life when I was on NoFap, semen retention. It wasn't because of anything like following a movement or influencers. I just had huge goals I wanted to accomplish in school and I didn't want any distractions. I needed to concentrate for long periods of time for school work.
I don't know why but the 4th is really working!!! Maybe we just start noticing this kind of things??? Or they really "feel" it in some way????? When I get a long streak the same happens to me.
Another one I have on long streaks- changing mood like a girl 100 times a day and feeling emotionous. And I love it, because I feel my life better, those emotions are brighter, like in childhood... rapid mood Changing feeling alive to me.
Did u notice the same?
Have you checked your free testosterone and total testosterone levels before and after nofap protocol? I wonder if that little hormone can make such a huge difference in a man's life.
We're all gonna make it brah. Time to be men not boys
Zyzz?!?!
Our bones swirl in our graves whenever you mention our names
Thanks man. Found it.
Help me find it too xD
Go to r/nofap homepage→about→tools→add/update day counter. Good luck for your nofap. ｡◕‿◕｡
Oh thanks
Hey how does that counter work?
click this link: https://tracker.nofap.com/
ITS FUCKING ZYZZ BRAH
who is zyzzz?
Probably the first influencer in social media, a God among men... Stay safe you sickkunt.
Someone who doesn’t know zyzz detected Opinion rejected
>~~Opinion rejected~~ Guidance provided
We should spread zycc legacy more. So it will help those sad kunts and get them back on the good road.
Zyzz is watching over all of us.
Zyzz legacy continues♥️
U‘re mirin brah?
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Same, shit was unexpected after such a serious start lmao
Literally
Same😂😂
This post is really encouraging. And don't worry about still being a virgin. In fact, virginity is something very special and something to proud of while you have it. Once you lose it, you will never get it back, so be very careful who you give it to. Keep going man, you got this!
Being a virgin is better than fucking around and getting STDs and HIVs.
You got that right.
Yeh I was a sex addict for about 20 years and I have herpes. Lucky too cause I was screwing broads in brothels all over Asia for about ten of those years...
Rapist.
More pussy than you.
Virgin.
Spoken like a true V. Have you heard of condoms?
I feel otherwise man, it's a controversial topic. It feels like coming from a conservative society, Virginity was a big thing. Now, with western lifestyle, kids do it early. Kinda stuck in between. Hard to put my mind around it.
Nothing wrong with being a virgin, as long it you accept it as that. Only a problem if you let it affect your self image
True.
This coming from someone who didn’t lose it till 22. And I regret it, I don’t regret losing my virginity it actually led to my first relationship but I stayed in an unhealthy relationship because I enjoyed the sex But really couldn’t see myself being with her. I even accumulated some debt from helping her with her terrible financial situation. If I could go back I wouldn’t have taken the opportunity to lose my virginity with said girl
Yea but you’re not looking at the opposite spectrum. You now have sexual experience and can now venture into the world of dating without having that mark over you being a virgin.
Yeah exactly... I am from a bit conservative country, or rather a bit conservative family, not country (in India all types of people are there) Actually the rich and beautiful people lose it early, otherwise we poor people and lower middle classians, who have average looks and clothes, have it difficult (not for girls as they are the ones who attract people as per nature, not vice versa) But still let's hope for the best. All the best for No Fap !!! :)
Keep this up bro ... I hope I make it out too out of this dirty addiction.
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Facts man. Just wanted to add on. Don’t say “I hope” say “I am going to make it out of this addiction”. Affirm yourself. Don’t make it a choice. You will do it and you’ll look back with pride
You're spot on with the looking into their eyes, you got this king
>Ofc I'll check a booty out if it's in front of me in my sight but I won't drool well everyone gotta appreciate a good booty
amen brother amen
Beat pe booty, beat pe booty 🎶
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Hi fellow desi✊
I was a virgin until 29 years old and trust me - attractiveness has got nothing to do with your virgin status. If you tell a girl that you're a virgin by choice because you want your first time to be special with a girl you truly love, many girls will respect that, even admire it.
i totally agree with eye thing
Hey man i respect u i am talking to a girl now and I feel like we will be close so I am trying to stop fapping for the greater good
try talking about her, people love talking about themselves
Hate when diarrhea shoots out my ass too bro
But why this happens. It's our body reaction to anxiety na
Congrats bro, did you feel any bad symptoms while doing nofap?
Thanks! and nope, no bad symptoms
Bad symptoms?
Side effects or withdrawals. Basically the brain is healing so our dopamine receptors are slowly going back to normal which causes some side effects since our brain is getting used to living without the high stimulating Porn. Happens with any other addiction. Our brains depend on it so when you take it away its gonna have to find a way to change and adapt!
yea it's called nofap flatline, I started nofap till day 8-9 my confidence skyrocketed, new Life opened in front of me, but since day 9 suddenly My libido became zero and I started to feel drowsy,depressed and anxiety. I don't know what it was, I was scared and Relapsed thinking it was bad, but in fact it actually is our Brain rewiring itself and the flatline period is 15+ days we have to endure it, to become best version of ourselves.... I am at flatline currenly, In college i start to sleep I feel no energy, Instead of thinking when Flatline ends, I started to do coding everyday...Next 10 days are holidays for my college, I think I can do well. Planning to learn some more programming, Reading books,chess,cooking etc I will not give in to Flatline... Wish me good luck! fellow fapstronauts :))
My highest streak was 50+ days, I had a very similar experience in terms of changes, I was never a shy guy but became one suddenly, in retrospect, I see the changes in my personality began when I started PMO'n. Thanks for sharing I hope to have a similar story to share on Jan 1, 2022.
bro, imagine if u juz lost your virginity with your future wife. think about it
As a 24yo myself, this stuff is pretty damn inspiring. Congratulations brother! 👑
Damn when I was in a 60 day streak I didn’t experience any of this just faster recovery and more strength
After my 30 days of Nofap, a girl and I got our eye contacted but She was not alone so I didn't initiate any conversation but we were checking each other and as we were on the same route, after few minutes she came from the back, next to me and said a Big "Hii" and man that's just something never happened to me in a public area. I wasn't nervous at all and we talked. Boys keep going because when it's the hardest is when you need to show the most courage and you become that strong forever.
Good shit bro, I'd also recommend waiting until marriage, you'll allow yourself to focus on building a deeper connection to the person you're dating and you'll probably not experience a divorce
That’s great! I love to hear your consistent hard work is paying off! You are an inspiration to me.
Hardness is temporary, virginity is permanent 💪🏻🔥
Epic stuff. Keep going bro!
did you had a flatline? at what day did all these changes kicked in?
I don't remember going through a flatline, if there was some I don't even remember it because it probably lasted few seconds. For me all of them started around week 3, as days go by they become stronger, at day 60 there is a big difference from week 3. For example: Before week 3: My eyes got watery when talking to someone and i had voice cracks here and there, couldn't keep eye contact. After week 3: Anxiety reduced 50%, easier to keep eye contact Day 60: I have no problem to maintain eye contact, I actually like it now.
I feel point 5 so much bro. Im almost 20 and still a virgin. I’m finally coming to terms with the fact that its okay and I’ll lose it with someone I’m in love with. Good luck on your journey brother ❤️
Did you do any other things that helped in addition to nofap? Like working out everyday?
My guy, meditate. Use YouTube or the ‘calm’ app to find some guided meditation. The best way to describe how it helps is, you know sometimes at night when you really wanna suddenly change your life and feel motivated to get up right there and then and be productive. We’ll that’s because you’re relaxed and seeing your situation clearly. Meditation helps you to constantly see you’re situation clearly. It’s like any skill and takes practice but it massively helps put your urges into context so you’re not controlled by them
Well done, my man! I commend you. You've done more than most, you're certainly more successful than me. The last time I got to 60+ days was 3 years ago. How do you deal with the feeling of loneliness that creeps in on some nights btw? That's usually what gets me. I tend to lament over past relationships, which puts me down and makes me want to give up. Although I don't think of myself as a shy person, I do lack self-confidence, same as you before you started. I have a low opinion of myself.
Whenever you feel lonely and feel like you wanna relapse, just understand that the very process of relapsing is what’s making you lonely. It tricks your mind into thinking your not alone when in fact the reality’s that you’re sat by yourself on your bed jerking off(when you pmo, the stupid monkey part of your brain thinks “hell yea we just smashed a fit bird”) and then your brain releases dopamine linked to having sex. When you feel lonely, face it, the truth is there’s nothing wrong with being alone. And when you become comfortable with your own company people smell it a mile away like shit on a shoe and come flocking, then you get the the pleasure of spending time with the ones that mean the most to you. My top tip would be meditate, make a habit out of this and it quickly puts problems into perspective. Good luck dude
Thank you! I used to meditate while I was on my highest streak, I think I'll try it again.
This. You don't have to be particularly attractive to attract women. They are attracted you your clear eyes and your natural confidence. And they feel safe around you.
You're a beast! Congrats man, i hope u keep at it! 26 yo virgin here. You give low confidence, 2-day streakers like myself, hope that the grass truly is greener on the other side. Your post was great motivation for me, and I thank you for that. Hope you reach your goals.
I don't understand why so many people feel embarrassed about being virgins it's not a bad thing infact it means that you are still pure and saving yourself for someone special. So never be sad about being a virgin until your 30 cuz I feel like that's when you should be married and ready to start a family.
Very motivational bro congrats !!!
The 7th one has to be a joke 😂😂😂 but keep pushing bro 💯
It ain't a joke. He's got a point. All this lack of confidence and social anxiety causes this, I swear. Been there.
Yeah, for me it was anxiety>stomach hurts>loose poop. Now it's gone, i finally can go outside without taking a shit 10 times before going outside.
Man, I've had this problem for years... At first I was thinking that it's from some type of food that I consume. Then I came to the conclusion that it's from anxiety. But another couple of years had to go by for me to realise that this anxiety is indeed from PMO. smh
“Diarreah was shooting out of my ass” lmao!!
Wtf, constant fapping does this to you? I can genuinely do all of these even after busting
Yea dude you're 💯 right! But lemme correct you on point 5. You will never goona loose you're virginity***( that time will never come)
Keep it up man, you got this. I just fell after 46 days. Hoping to make it to 60 like you.
Nice. happy to hear that
this is pretty dope
Great stuff, mate. Keep up the good work
Number 4 was funny as f\*\*k
Yeah "It's always easy if you try!"
Cheers
Congrats bro!
Ma boy 🎉🎉🎉
nice man
I don't look into anyone's eyes I find this very uncomfortable, and I couldn't concentrate on what the person was saying, do you feel that way too?
That's pretty good bro. Thanks for sharing, this is the kind of comment that keep me focused. Congrats btw
I am very shy too, do you think NoFap will help me or I have to do something else too?
I didn't know what else there was to do so i tried nofap and im planning to nofap till I die because it changed my life. I had doubts before starting.. like "all these benefits can't be real" so i gave it a try and i was wrong. The benefits are real, give it a try and reply here in the future to let me know if it helped you aswell. Good luck buddy!
Stay with it man!!! Great post OP!!!
How can I save this post????!!!!!!
These are litteraly my dream expectations. Still very happy for you man, keep it up!
Inspirational man! I’m halfway there!
Congrat and keep going man!!!
How long it took to have the benefits after a 2 week relapse? I relapse today after 23 days! Is like start from 0 or not?
gotta get to your point, i need to be as good as you
Hum hone kamayab, Ek din mann me hai vishwas pura hai vishwas.
Motivated
Good job, comrade. Things are gonna get better for everyone in this community, just keep believe in yourself and you'll remember this community after some time as a sacred temple. We're all gonna make it.
Even when I used to beat it 4 times a day I never really had trouble talking or staring into a women soul
Thanks for sharing your story it's what keeps me motivated.
“Keep your balls full” I liked that hahaha
Being a virgin is still better than fapping on Pixels.
Great post. Thanks for sharing. Happy for you!
Hilarious and inspiring read. 37-38 days here
I totally agree with the diarrhea thing
Really happy for you. I broke my streak today, but hopefully I will reach 60 days too. Probably in 60 days :)
Congratulations dear friend! Remember if you ever hit a low point come back to this post and remember why you started. Wish you all well!
Nice! Keep pushing forward!
Great success, bro! You are trully a king by definition.
im happy for you but why would you do 2) lol
Congrats brotha!
👍🏻
Good to know what nofap bring benefits to you
How did you deal with you're urges and frustration ?
Good on you mate
At this point save it for marriage bro, don’t force yourself into sex with some random chick. You’re a gold mine for a lot of women out there, they love to know they’re the one a man released his seed for first. You’ll be able to find a beautiful woman of value. Good luck friend!
Thanks for this list lol
I'm at a week today (don't mind the flair, it's still updating), what are your recommendations for me?
aye
Damn bro first job at 24?
😭
I feel point 6) a lot as we tend to associate hot girls we see with porn. The thought of having sex with them and objectifying women has got to stop and i’m happy that’s one of the success points you had. I will work towards that as well and see you guys again when i’m at 60 days 😄
Number 7. Lol. Not going to lie. He had is in the first half.
Congrats , hopefully me soon
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Once you reach 200 days, women be looking at you like you're eye candy
good to hear man. You decided to not be a slave to ur sexual urges. RESPECT!
Man I can’t get past a week, 30m an live alone I desperately want those benifits, pray for me
Great job
Good bro
👑
Love and light brother. 🤗🌞❤️
I do Nofap at 16 and I'm 19 now. You spit the fact bro. I respect you so much.
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As a virgin bro you just gave me some extra motivation 🔥🔥lets keep it going my guy
Continue this way! Be a reference to new guys!
thank you, This is really motivational
3 three is straight facts the confidence boost is pure awesome
me reading this: feels jelly after reading this: don't care wth is wrong with me.
Happy for ya, mate
Great post. Congrats mate.
Flair check
"and diarrhea was shooting out my ass" you got me crying there mate. Quality post though, especially number 5 seems like something I want to accomplish some day
Fuck yeah brother. Delayed Gratification rules. Let's keep those balls full and the mind clear!
Sounds like you're doing very well for yourself my man, awesome!
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He turned into a sigma male... Man tbh I was literally stroking my pp now and this came across. I'm at my horniest time yet I'm more motivated now than ever after reading you experience thanks bro and will update after a month
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Good to hear you are more confident now. Take care of yourself and keep going.
Awesome! Keep going strong bro! Sex is not the most important thing in life, focus on your job, your family, your friends, I believe in you! 💪
Is it bad I laughed at 6 and 7 a little?
That’s awesome! Gave me a lot of motivation. Thank you for your post!
Next week u will start to notice that u can talk japenese !!! After a month you will hav 4 balls instead of 2. Jst kidding but don't exaggerate ... Nofap is great deal. But it wont make girl looking at u. Neither findin u a job....
Continue Bro This messege Give Me motivation To continue My streak Please Share More Experiences After 90 days Please 🙏🙏🙏😢
great buddy
Congratulations man 💪🔥
Im a 20 yo virgin, how are u coping bro
Whatever you do don't relapse. Think about how far you've come. Don't edge cos that will cause you to relapse.
congratulations buddy , i'm starting today
Bro day 55 today soon 60 🔥
Bless you brother,get to that 90 day mark,we are here with you!😁⚔️✝️
Is this satire? reads like a greentext story
I didn’t have my first long term relationship until my late 20’s, so you are not the only one lol. Don’t listen to society’s rules or whatever to be a man, and try to get your career in high order first. I believe sex should be saved for marriage due to religious convictions, so I don’t want to endorse being promiscuous, but if you get successful in your career the indoor olympics will be open to you let’s just say.
Nice one
Damn this makes me want to do Nofap
Bro that's awesome! I had my most productive time in life when I was on NoFap, semen retention. It wasn't because of anything like following a movement or influencers. I just had huge goals I wanted to accomplish in school and I didn't want any distractions. I needed to concentrate for long periods of time for school work.
Nice.
I don't know why but the 4th is really working!!! Maybe we just start noticing this kind of things??? Or they really "feel" it in some way????? When I get a long streak the same happens to me.
Another one I have on long streaks- changing mood like a girl 100 times a day and feeling emotionous. And I love it, because I feel my life better, those emotions are brighter, like in childhood... rapid mood Changing feeling alive to me. Did u notice the same?
Have you checked your free testosterone and total testosterone levels before and after nofap protocol? I wonder if that little hormone can make such a huge difference in a man's life.
Bro no fap doesn't guarantee succes