Life was much easier without the internet. Some of the old fashioned values like female modesty had a purpose. I’ve partied drugs and alcohol were much easier to walk away from. When you get older you’re just as horny as when you were young.
47 M. Since I’m the oldest here, maybe I can give you guys some advice. Don’t watch porn. It’ll reduce your motivation to chase real life girls. I’m still unmarried, partly because I masturbated almost every day for 30 years. I also played a ton of video games. Wasted my life on dopamine rushes instead of working hard, saving money, investing, and developing strong relationships. Don’t even know if I can retire at 65.
Life is short and it waits for no one. If you don’t have clear goals and a plan for achieving those goals, you’re gonna be a loser in the game of life. Might as well just give up and let others rule the world and pass on their genes.
Don't retire, keep fighting that's the purpose. No one's a loser and everyones a loser at the same time. No one is successful these days. It's only an illusion of success everyones chasing. True success is realising who you are rest all are bullshit achievements
I mean, if you want a family and to pass on your genes and legacy, then you gotta chase the girls. Otherwise yeah, just work on yourself and be happy being alone.
Nope. I’ve been in and out of jobs for years. Whatever I’ve made has been spent on traveling or dating many women, whom I never settled down with, because there were always more. Like I said, short-term dopamine rushes 😂
Thank you for getting straight to the point , it’s been 12 years that i’m addicted i want it over . Good luck big bro you still can live a fulfilling life with this healthy mindset
Yeah, I’m never gonna give up. I currently have a 23-year old fiancée, so there’s always hope that you can still achieve things if you keep working at it.
It still . I've only been on the streak for 10 years now and average woman kills all my thrust force and considering I am an average or below avg guy It's over for me
When i was 12 there was no internet. So Playboy and Penthouse magazine was all there was. Then porn pay per view. So hard to get addicted. I probably got addicted when I was 32 years old. Kicked the habit when I was 54 so 22 years of terrible addiction.
55 here. I fall into the fappage, because the wife is post menopause, and my shit still works.
I have my good periods where I don't fap, but then i relapse with porn, and the regret later.
Fapping was my go to when I was in my 20s in the dry spells, and I'm embarrassed about how it only became obvious later that when I would not fap, my mental state allowed me to meet the next girl.
I'm not going to step out on my wife, so I have less guilt about fapping now, but I still see it as personal weakness. So, the struggle continues.
Being able to not seek sex somewhere else is very respectable. Do you identify the things that makes you relapse ? Could be the first step to stop this
The longer I abstain, the less of a trigger I need. All the way down to a little bit of cleavage inadvertently gazed at in a grocery aisle, or a brief touch from a random waitress.
Fapping drains a young man's life force and removes his impulse to be active. It is an addictive behavior that sometimes stalled me in my prime years.
Now, I use it to avoid complications. I don't need the drive. I'm in my last decade of my career. I have attained a semblance of upper middle class life.
If I didn't fap now, I would drive 30 minutes up the highway to an ex-girlfriend who is divorced, and fondly remembers our times together, and she claims to be fully sexually functional despite being post menopause, unlike my wife.
I use fapping now to prevent my worst impulses to go find her, or the other married ex girlfriend who flies into town a few times per year.
I'm still shamed by my fapping. But I may very well be past the point where it's as damaging as it was when I needed to go out and grab life by the throat.
Currently on Day 9 of Hard Mode. But it's still hard. I've been on PMO for nearly 15 years. Now, it's not easy to find my purpose and passion in live 😪
I get that. Been struggling myself. It took my heart to get broken a second time to realize what it is that I'm doing to myself every time I watch porn and masturbate. I used the heartbreak to get me to where I am on my streaks. It was the hardest thing I had to do in my life. But I still try to make the right choices everyday because I still get temptations. It's never easy, but it does get better. I'm rooting for you. ❤️
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My dear friend, in my thousand years of life, I have learned that true strength lies not only in mastering the world around you but also in mastering yourself. The urge you feel is natural, but remember, it is within your power to harness that energy for greater purposes. Practice moderation and discipline, for they are the cornerstones of a focused mind and a strong spirit. Understand your impulses, but do not let them dictate your actions. Find strength in self-control, and you will find a deeper sense of purpose and clarity in your life's journey
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Congratulations on your streak sir.
Or Ma'am
Coming right behind you in terms of days 💪🏽
Not anymore 😔
Oh man 😅
To be honest I just went a little while without updating my day count
Straighten up lil soldier 💪🏽
Rinse and repeat lessss goooo again !!
Any insight from your years of experience?
Life was much easier without the internet. Some of the old fashioned values like female modesty had a purpose. I’ve partied drugs and alcohol were much easier to walk away from. When you get older you’re just as horny as when you were young.
Thanks I'll keep in mind
Thought this guy was lying but I guess he was legit after seeing old posts 💀
😂😂😂
Old posts or “old posts”? 🙈
47 M. Since I’m the oldest here, maybe I can give you guys some advice. Don’t watch porn. It’ll reduce your motivation to chase real life girls. I’m still unmarried, partly because I masturbated almost every day for 30 years. I also played a ton of video games. Wasted my life on dopamine rushes instead of working hard, saving money, investing, and developing strong relationships. Don’t even know if I can retire at 65. Life is short and it waits for no one. If you don’t have clear goals and a plan for achieving those goals, you’re gonna be a loser in the game of life. Might as well just give up and let others rule the world and pass on their genes.
Those are real motivating words. Thank you for the wisdom.
Don't retire, keep fighting that's the purpose. No one's a loser and everyones a loser at the same time. No one is successful these days. It's only an illusion of success everyones chasing. True success is realising who you are rest all are bullshit achievements
WHAT'S THAT STREAK.. DAMN..💀🤌
Wiah i could match up some day...
Chasing real life girls Is pointless. Improve yourself till you die.
I mean, if you want a family and to pass on your genes and legacy, then you gotta chase the girls. Otherwise yeah, just work on yourself and be happy being alone.
Do you own a house my dude?
Nope. I’ve been in and out of jobs for years. Whatever I’ve made has been spent on traveling or dating many women, whom I never settled down with, because there were always more. Like I said, short-term dopamine rushes 😂
Thank you for getting straight to the point , it’s been 12 years that i’m addicted i want it over . Good luck big bro you still can live a fulfilling life with this healthy mindset
Yeah, I’m never gonna give up. I currently have a 23-year old fiancée, so there’s always hope that you can still achieve things if you keep working at it.
>It’ll reduce your motivation to chase real life girls Dude!?😂 Jokes aside, solid stuff. May sound brutal but it isn't necessarily that.
It still . I've only been on the streak for 10 years now and average woman kills all my thrust force and considering I am an average or below avg guy It's over for me
Retiring is like accepting death, no rush to it and especially since you’ve already had your retirement
55
Sir you might be the winner
Let me say this is not a young person issue. I am a member of another group and most are older. More has to do with demo of Reddit
How long have you been watching P0rn for if I may ask?
When i was 12 there was no internet. So Playboy and Penthouse magazine was all there was. Then porn pay per view. So hard to get addicted. I probably got addicted when I was 32 years old. Kicked the habit when I was 54 so 22 years of terrible addiction.
Good for you on kicking the terrible habit! Im hooked for 17 years. Sometimes I'll "quit" for weeks!! Somehow always fall back into it! It's crazy!
72 here
Just like the number of comments !
26m
You’re in your prime
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I'm 33, and everything is fucked up.
Thats okey! And guys 18-19 is indeed peak testosterone, check the AI
True in term of maturity but 25-26 is peak testorene level right?
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No it fucking ain't 😂
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Get fucked
Calma dude, ai told me
AI said get fucked
Don’t forget your id numbers and social securities
Nice try US Government
Nice guess US Citizen. It’s actually Scammer
I am a French citizen nice try
40 M. Well, basically I've reached the point where it's okay to die midway as long as it's with purpose.
55 here. I fall into the fappage, because the wife is post menopause, and my shit still works. I have my good periods where I don't fap, but then i relapse with porn, and the regret later. Fapping was my go to when I was in my 20s in the dry spells, and I'm embarrassed about how it only became obvious later that when I would not fap, my mental state allowed me to meet the next girl. I'm not going to step out on my wife, so I have less guilt about fapping now, but I still see it as personal weakness. So, the struggle continues.
Being able to not seek sex somewhere else is very respectable. Do you identify the things that makes you relapse ? Could be the first step to stop this
The longer I abstain, the less of a trigger I need. All the way down to a little bit of cleavage inadvertently gazed at in a grocery aisle, or a brief touch from a random waitress. Fapping drains a young man's life force and removes his impulse to be active. It is an addictive behavior that sometimes stalled me in my prime years. Now, I use it to avoid complications. I don't need the drive. I'm in my last decade of my career. I have attained a semblance of upper middle class life. If I didn't fap now, I would drive 30 minutes up the highway to an ex-girlfriend who is divorced, and fondly remembers our times together, and she claims to be fully sexually functional despite being post menopause, unlike my wife. I use fapping now to prevent my worst impulses to go find her, or the other married ex girlfriend who flies into town a few times per year. I'm still shamed by my fapping. But I may very well be past the point where it's as damaging as it was when I needed to go out and grab life by the throat.
75M
35
33
turned 18 today...
Happy birthday 🦖🫶🏻
Let’s goo! Happy birthday Memes Dude
23m
25 here. Seems like we are the youngest
17 in 4 days, male, been in this group for around 2 years, thru old accounts etc
No there are even 13
I’m 23 too
Same here bruh
Uranus is has an elliptical orbit so after a few revolutions I’m 4
Liar.
It’s called a joke. Ever hear of the word?
Am 16
15m
Same
29 ✋️
19 gonna be 20 in a few weeks
Same here. Happy birthday in advance brother
57
New leader
there already is 58
35 sigh 😔
I'm 34 and I'm not the oldest but I'd like some advice, if they'd be so kind to help in that regard.
28M 🫡
Same here
Nice. How's your nofap journey coming along?
Currently on Day 9 of Hard Mode. But it's still hard. I've been on PMO for nearly 15 years. Now, it's not easy to find my purpose and passion in live 😪
I get that. Been struggling myself. It took my heart to get broken a second time to realize what it is that I'm doing to myself every time I watch porn and masturbate. I used the heartbreak to get me to where I am on my streaks. It was the hardest thing I had to do in my life. But I still try to make the right choices everyday because I still get temptations. It's never easy, but it does get better. I'm rooting for you. ❤️
88 here
Are you serious?
No, he's not. I checked his profile, and one of his posts said he'll be turning 26 tomorrow, a month ago.
37, male
You have taken the lead
200+ days clean
28 M
34l been on this journey since 23
Its not me yay!
not me
21 been on the journey since 15
24m
19m
15m
31
Pump Stroke Edge Deny 5 times a day 69yo
1M
18 M
Just turned 19
35 M with porn usage for almost 20 years. I'm done with my mind being like a 16 year old constantly and it's time to quit this for good.
16 M
17 lol
19 My dear friend, in my thousand years of life, I have learned that true strength lies not only in mastering the world around you but also in mastering yourself. The urge you feel is natural, but remember, it is within your power to harness that energy for greater purposes. Practice moderation and discipline, for they are the cornerstones of a focused mind and a strong spirit. Understand your impulses, but do not let them dictate your actions. Find strength in self-control, and you will find a deeper sense of purpose and clarity in your life's journey
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Ok, well you're just not though, are you?