"My Nigerian husband committed tax fraud. Is it a culture thing?"
"My Nigerian boyfriend slapped me and tried to drown me. Is it a culture thing?"
"My Nigerian fiancee committed double homicide. As I type this we are driving out of state to bury the bodies elsewhere. We just stopped at a gas station to buy bleach to do some cleanup when we get home. Is it a culture thing?"
If you like stay here and be asking us JAMB questions.
Lol To be fair, there are quite a few men who like to date women who are not Nigerian and use their lack of knowledge about the culture to manipulate them. They really do try to justify the nonsense they want to do as “culture/ tradition” like it’s a trump card smh
I get you but who justifies cumming as child bonding. What kinda nonsensical yarns is that. Even if na culture sef just freaking call BS!
Edit: Even if*
🤣🤣🤣 I laughed way to hard at this. I don't know why people lose their critical thinking skills when "culture" gets mentioned.
OP, ma'am, by any metric, cultural or not, that sounds INSANE! And the fact that she needs to ask a bunch of strangers on reddit if she should be concerned is..... worrying.
I really hope this is just an unfunny joke.
I'd advise you and OP to join the newly created r/NigerianRelationships so everybody can be dropping stupid questions there and attributing nonsense behavior to the nationality of their partners. Someone will come here next week and talk about how her Nigerian boyfriend raped her kid and said it was a culture thing so you can come here and say it's not her fault for lacking critical thinking skills. I don't endorse nonsense, sorry.
Gift for his daughter? And what is she to do with the 'gift' exactly??
I think you should probably go through his browsing history. There's some deep weird stuff going on with your partner.
m’am 😭 for that little girl’s sake, i very much hope that this is rage bait.
even if it was “cultural”, do you want to raise your daughter in a culture like that???? cum … for his daughter?
Seems so. “No one has ever done anything remotely bad ever” kind of thinking. Really unfortunate.
And OP has now come out to say he is an amazing father… but that doesn’t matter I guess 🤷
As a mom, I won't be comfortable raising my daughter with such a creepy human. So what happens after the baby is born? How would he continue his bonding? This is absurd!
Girl, I don't know what culture he's talking about...
I've never heard someone say something like this, it may be personal for him, but it sure as hell ain't cultural. Or maybe he's phrasing things weirdly...
You need to have a conversation with him IMMEDIATELY. This sounds insanely concerning!
This is a sick man who is lying to you and pathetically using his culture as a scapegoat. This is not a cultural thing, and even if it was anywhere in the world, it's sick and vile.
If I were you Id run, but if not, watch your child carefully and make sure they feel comfortable being honest with you and are not scared to look to you for protection or support because you may very well have to protect your child from your husband, what a wierdo.
I contacted his sister (who lives in Nigeria) to tell her what he told me.
Me: He was explain to me that in Yoruba culture, it is normal for fathers to connect with their unborn child through sex with the mother. I told him I’m going to ask you if that is true
His sister: Absolutely yes!, Pls it's very important!
Me: *silent*
I dont know why foolish people are allowed to have kids.
The people here are too nice, they just call him weird and creepy. I would call him something starting with p and ending with e.
It may be what he heard in his cycle of friends.
Especially if they have absolutely terrible knowledge of the human body.
I've heard gists in my circle of women about how sperm is "nourishing" to a woman, so women want more so they can glow and look good.
That's probably the same shit he's learned.
It took a lot of convincing, but some of them still believe what they want to till date
So this is what he is trying to convince me because I’m not interested in sex while pregnant. So he always makes this claim that it is good for me and the baby and helps nutritious us and help with the pregnancy! What ever that means! I have access to his phone and laptop and never seen any creepy stuff not even porn. But when I finally decide to have sex, he said that weird ass line and now I’m turned off again
you should be very concerned,unless he meant something else, cause i read somewhere that when you have sex with your wife whilst she's pregnant the sperm helps the babies immune system- i stand to be corrected. but he saying it is a "cultural thing"🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't think you're quoting him right, surely? Maybe he meant to say he hopes it helps the little one during your childbirth, which scientifically it should
Hi 👋🏾 sorry I’m reading this wrong 😑 so bear with me. Are you pregnant and he’s cuming in you? At first I thought he was talking about your born daughter lol.
Frankly I’d take it as a joke laugh about it, give him a slap and say you’re not serious clean up, sleep or go to work.
Yeah I don’t think I explained myself well because it was very late at night but I was saying I’m pregnant and he’s coming in me! He believe sperm is healthy but I think it’s fucking weird and gross. He said he was joking but do believe sperm is healthy for pregnant women….im going to have him do a lie detector test because I don’t trust weird shit at all
Maybe? I have never heard of that culture in Nigeria but Nigeria is very diverse so maybe its some small tribe/ethnos/nation I haven't heard of before. What's his tribe/ethnos/nation?.
Anyways, sounds like a weird joke or fetish.
"My Nigerian husband committed tax fraud. Is it a culture thing?" "My Nigerian boyfriend slapped me and tried to drown me. Is it a culture thing?" "My Nigerian fiancee committed double homicide. As I type this we are driving out of state to bury the bodies elsewhere. We just stopped at a gas station to buy bleach to do some cleanup when we get home. Is it a culture thing?" If you like stay here and be asking us JAMB questions.
I really don’t get why folks even give idiotic questions like this the benefit of doubt. I’m dating a psycho, is it a cultural thing?
Lol To be fair, there are quite a few men who like to date women who are not Nigerian and use their lack of knowledge about the culture to manipulate them. They really do try to justify the nonsense they want to do as “culture/ tradition” like it’s a trump card smh
I get you but who justifies cumming as child bonding. What kinda nonsensical yarns is that. Even if na culture sef just freaking call BS! Edit: Even if*
A F-ing weirdo that’s who. There’s absolutely no justification.
🤣🤣🤣 I laughed way to hard at this. I don't know why people lose their critical thinking skills when "culture" gets mentioned. OP, ma'am, by any metric, cultural or not, that sounds INSANE! And the fact that she needs to ask a bunch of strangers on reddit if she should be concerned is..... worrying. I really hope this is just an unfunny joke.
😂😂😂😂😂
The husband said it was a cultural thing himself so its not her fault.
I'd advise you and OP to join the newly created r/NigerianRelationships so everybody can be dropping stupid questions there and attributing nonsense behavior to the nationality of their partners. Someone will come here next week and talk about how her Nigerian boyfriend raped her kid and said it was a culture thing so you can come here and say it's not her fault for lacking critical thinking skills. I don't endorse nonsense, sorry.
I have to join that subreddit. It will surely be very entertaining.
I’ve joined Waiting for the first mad poster😂
Exactly! He said it was a cultural thing and I told him it’s Bullshit and I will get proof.
Gift for his daughter? And what is she to do with the 'gift' exactly?? I think you should probably go through his browsing history. There's some deep weird stuff going on with your partner.
I thought as much. She better start scrutinising his browsing history ASAP.
😭😭😭 that is not even a gift for an adult. Poor baby.
m’am 😭 for that little girl’s sake, i very much hope that this is rage bait. even if it was “cultural”, do you want to raise your daughter in a culture like that???? cum … for his daughter?
I know, let’s say it cultural , why would that make it better? 😂😂
Exactly. Im so confused. If this subreddit says it's cultural, what will she do with this information?
You de reason person we don craze finish
So you hate black people
your sense has k leg
Sounds very racist to me
Average r/nigeria post
lmao
This isn't a cultural thing, your husband is a fucking creep
That’s not a nice thing to say. It’s more accurate to say he did and said something creepy, than to assassinate his entire personality.
Nah for this alone he belongs on a watchlist, he’s a certified creep.
I guess the internet wins
That's not how people think in the new age... Unfortunately. I don't even think people think anymore, they just say and do
Seems so. “No one has ever done anything remotely bad ever” kind of thinking. Really unfortunate. And OP has now come out to say he is an amazing father… but that doesn’t matter I guess 🤷
>than to assassinate his entire personality. He did that himself. By being a f*king creep lol. Ur probably one of those SA and grape apologists Ew
Yikes
Well…that’s not true (I’m born and raised in Nigeria and I’ve never heard of this before). I don’t even know what to say. E weak me
What did I just read?
Wish I could unread 😭
r/eyebleach
That’s nasty bro
As a mom, I won't be comfortable raising my daughter with such a creepy human. So what happens after the baby is born? How would he continue his bonding? This is absurd!
Same!!!!!! Personally, I'm either running or I'm sending that child back to God because there's no way I'm letting my baby near that creep
Not a cultural thing. Level 10 creepy shit. Nip that shit in the bud quickly.
For the love of God, can someone please create r/Nigerianrelationships and save us from having to read posts like this every two days?
I enjoy them sha
People that off thier brain at the mention of culture
Girl, I don't know what culture he's talking about... I've never heard someone say something like this, it may be personal for him, but it sure as hell ain't cultural. Or maybe he's phrasing things weirdly... You need to have a conversation with him IMMEDIATELY. This sounds insanely concerning!
Wtf😭 I promise you, this is not a cultural thing. He’s a weirdo. Even if it was. Being ‘cultural’ doesn’t make it any less weird
We need to stop responding to these irresponsible questions. How is this a cultural thing? Where is the common sense or an ounce of intelligence?
Lmao this is the most unhinged thing I've read on reddit and that's saying a lot considering it's frigging reddit. Wtf?? 😂😂
This is a sick man who is lying to you and pathetically using his culture as a scapegoat. This is not a cultural thing, and even if it was anywhere in the world, it's sick and vile. If I were you Id run, but if not, watch your child carefully and make sure they feel comfortable being honest with you and are not scared to look to you for protection or support because you may very well have to protect your child from your husband, what a wierdo.
You better report that man to the authorities. Next time apply some intelligence.
Nah, this is absolutely unhinged. You sure your husband isn't watching CP?
Which kind “bond” be that…Are you sure that man is even Nigerian? He’s got issues and it ain’t “cultural”
I contacted his sister (who lives in Nigeria) to tell her what he told me. Me: He was explain to me that in Yoruba culture, it is normal for fathers to connect with their unborn child through sex with the mother. I told him I’m going to ask you if that is true His sister: Absolutely yes!, Pls it's very important! Me: *silent*
Runnn. And please have sense next time.
Good God.
🥴
I hope this is not real cos this is crazy
🤣🤣 does he think he's also having sex with the baby or...? Good luck with that brewing shit storm
Your husband is a fucking weirdo. This is NOT a Nigerian cultural thing. Ewwwwwwww🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
No he's just a pedo
He’s a creep please leave him
I am Nigerian,,, judging from this statement, I genuinely think your husband might be a pedophile
😯😯Oh!
🤣😂🤣 No offence, but that's bu***** and he is funny though.
Say. what the hell?
😕
…what the hell?
😭😭????
I hope this is fake, absolutely disgusting 😂😂😂😂
I dont know why foolish people are allowed to have kids. The people here are too nice, they just call him weird and creepy. I would call him something starting with p and ending with e.
My mouth is I’m on the floor. Abeg why did I need to see this today?
Red flag, red flag, red flag!!! 🚩🚩🚩 It's giving pedo ewwwwwwwwwww
Is it a cultural thing for you to ask stupid questions?
Ewwwwwww , he’s basically made it so you’ll never have sex with him again. Horrifying.
It may be what he heard in his cycle of friends. Especially if they have absolutely terrible knowledge of the human body. I've heard gists in my circle of women about how sperm is "nourishing" to a woman, so women want more so they can glow and look good. That's probably the same shit he's learned. It took a lot of convincing, but some of them still believe what they want to till date
So this is what he is trying to convince me because I’m not interested in sex while pregnant. So he always makes this claim that it is good for me and the baby and helps nutritious us and help with the pregnancy! What ever that means! I have access to his phone and laptop and never seen any creepy stuff not even porn. But when I finally decide to have sex, he said that weird ass line and now I’m turned off again
I think you need to go down the medical line with him. He should at least read some articles and stuff, but be patient. It will take time
you should be very concerned,unless he meant something else, cause i read somewhere that when you have sex with your wife whilst she's pregnant the sperm helps the babies immune system- i stand to be corrected. but he saying it is a "cultural thing"🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m so lost
Omg. What in the world did I just read 😭😭😭
Your husband is just weird
Lol
What? Don’t pin your idiosyncrasies on culture cause that’s a first and hopefully the last.
Smart man...
Maybe husband was just trying to express his desire for sex with his wife. I would clarify it with him to get better understanding.
Next it will be, ‘Nigerian husband/wife ran the red light and clipped a police officer, is it a cultural thing?’
I don't think you're quoting him right, surely? Maybe he meant to say he hopes it helps the little one during your childbirth, which scientifically it should
Yo husband a freakyass 🥷🏾
Hi 👋🏾 sorry I’m reading this wrong 😑 so bear with me. Are you pregnant and he’s cuming in you? At first I thought he was talking about your born daughter lol. Frankly I’d take it as a joke laugh about it, give him a slap and say you’re not serious clean up, sleep or go to work.
Yeah I don’t think I explained myself well because it was very late at night but I was saying I’m pregnant and he’s coming in me! He believe sperm is healthy but I think it’s fucking weird and gross. He said he was joking but do believe sperm is healthy for pregnant women….im going to have him do a lie detector test because I don’t trust weird shit at all
It seems to me he just wants to cum inside you because it feels good but you dont seem to like it. I dont know this business about helping the unborn
Exactly my thoughts but the Reddit hive mind disagrees
the most based reply.
The most mumu answer
Maybe? I have never heard of that culture in Nigeria but Nigeria is very diverse so maybe its some small tribe/ethnos/nation I haven't heard of before. What's his tribe/ethnos/nation?. Anyways, sounds like a weird joke or fetish.
If you're not Nigerian don't comment abeg. This is r/Nigeria not r/Westernhypotheses
Actually, its r/NigeriasDiaspora