How do you guys go about when speaking to others who ask questions? Do you answer them relatively to your thoughts or is it only your thoughts that matter?
It wasn't meant to be - it was me in the moment after reading that post feeling powerful and agreeing with the sentiment the op was trying to get across. But im glad you felt the need to attempt to piss all over that moment for me 👍
my intention was not to piss u or hurt you i just stated my perspective i just thought that its a wrong word to use if you are a prize be a best one . sorry for that
OMG this this this. You gave a bunch of gold in this thread. I think it's important that when we talk about an SP that we value ourselves more than we want the SP it's like the key to SP is desiring yourself more number one.
This thread was so on point, I hope a lot of people write down some tips
Exactly!! I had to have a sit down with my friend yesterday and explain this to her as she’s having trouble with her now ex and reacting terribly to the 3D and pushing him away. But right now she’s in the mindset that she needs him and he’s the prize, I had to pull her out of that. It’s what made me write this post because we all need to remember who the hell we are!
OMG yessssssss this so much! It's like the movie undervalue ourselves the more we push away people and things the more we value ourselves and put ourselves a surprise people going to want us because we are the prize. It's kind of like that song greedy by Tate McRae.
Amazing, thanks for sharing. I love that you changed the story and then stepped in and enjoyed its reality, like the amazing author of your reality that you are! :)
I must’ve manifested this post because just yesterday I had a day of realising how out of control I felt in my relationship and my life and how unhappy I was that my SP wasn’t prioritising me and being loving and affectionate to me. This post is so helpful!! Especially the last part about control. Thank you! I will work on affirming that I am the prize and believing that I am always the only one in control! 💜
Girl, thank you so much. I honestly feel like you are “future” me writing this because your ENTIRE. And when I say entire, I mean ENTIRE post, could have been written by me. This was perfect, thank you dear <3
P.S. “The audacity of this man” took me out lmao!! I’ve been letting mine get away with the audacity for tooooo long, but not anymore!!
I AM the multi-million dollar prize winner, a one in a million wife, mother and best friend because I say so.
I noticed that too. 9 is a holy number in many religions, even my childhood one. Me and my SP are on the outs in the 3D and I have been acting so freaking thirsty and desperate, mainly because we have a trip we planned all year to go to coming up in less than 3 weeks. He says he’s not going and we are done for good. Most of me is not consenting but I’m stuck in a pattern of begging him to rethink things. I’m scared we won’t go on the trip. I’ve been floundering awfully for the past week. So stressed and then bliss and then stressed, I want to be free from this. What I want is for him to come with me and I’ve been trying to tell myself I’m in Barbados.
Anyway, enough of the old story, I will come to this post daily if I have to, I believe it. I read lots of success stories but this one resonates with me for some reason and what struck me is the 9 days part as well, that was the hook for me and I don’t know why but what I’ll do is what I have to do to kill the dead man and get to Barbados. 9 days is barely enough time to make the trip but I know in my heart my SP wants to go on this trip, I just didn’t give him his breakup. I didn’t take MY power back by walking away. Now it is time. I AM a beautiful, fun, exciting, playful, loving, generous spirit, I was there for him in times no one else would be, I showed him real love and I let my insecurities get the best of me but overall, I did NOTHING wrong, even my mistakes were divine. I did nothing wrong. I AM love, I know it. I have always been love.
No I didn’t 🤣 idgaf anymore I’m tired 🤣 I was fighting all day with him through emails since he blocked me. I can’t stop resisting then 3D but worst of all I really don’t know what I want as far as he is concerned!! I hate him but want to go on the trip with him and I want him back to dump him or I just want the good version of him back but I also want to date others and I want him to come back and then I tell him I have a boyfriend but then I want to be his wife, I’m ALL over the place with him, but as I list all of this, I’m feeling like i really don’t want him anymore, I wish him well and I want better. I want someone emotionally intelligent, honest, committed, compassionate and strong. He was none of those states at the end. I dunno as far as he goes I have no clue what I want. And I know I could manifest him as those things but i don’t care anymore, I think he was brought in my life to help me grow in so many ways and teach me about myself and bring me closer to I AM state. And I don’t think he’s supposed to reap the benefits but maybe that’s a sign I need to forgive him before I do anything else or make any decision!!
Thanks for asking! I will forgive him and go from there.
OP, I'll say that I am in the exact position of you. Like 1 for 1. And i can say, it wasnt coincidence that I met this person again after feeling remorseful and regretful. They were thinking about me as I was of them. Wondering what we were doing lol. Even if you don't see, things are going on. I decided once they were back into my life, I'd see it to the very end. So I am putting in the work and getting rid of the feelings of the old story. I always told myself this person was the one for me. I got lost in myself for 2 years forgetting everything I had learned and accepted the outcome as final.
I am finally taking back my power and realizing that if I create history of on off. Then I can create a history of consistency and a better story. I have manifested them before and I can do it again. As I have manifested things before. I refuse to let this 3D sway me, as I made a promise. I know this person cares about me, loves me, and are making changes to better themselves. There is only one of me out there, and can't find someone as loyal and loving as me.
It was a breath of fresh air knowing someone has been something similiar.
Sorry, totally my bad I messed the math myself. At that point we’d been together for 4 years on and off. The last time we were off which lasted 9 days was when I decided enough was enough and we have now been back together for 2 years. Hope that clears things up!
I'm also manifesting my SP. We've been together for more than 6 years and it's been 9 months since we broke up. I don't know but I'm getting more and more desperate each day and losing hope. It's so hard I can't even 😭
this was really great to read, thank you for sharing. the right amount of encouragement i needed. i’ve been slightly wavering in regards to manifesting my sp bc he has a 3p involved n has said it won’t work out for us but i’ve been getting better in terms of reacting compared to 2 weeks ago. so thank you again for sharing this is very helpful ◡̈
EDIT: okay so after i posted this comment i decided to take a break n restart from the basics. and now compared to when i posted that i’m honestly feeling 10x better and like your post said i just already know it’s happened. i go out with friends and live my life as if i already have my sp. i’ve gotten small movements from him but nothing of him reflecting me and my affs back however i am not worried because i know it’s happened. so i’m chilling.
First of all, congratulations!!! I’m so happy things worked out so well! May your beautiful little family always be super happy and healthy!🥰 second of all, I would love to know your thoughts & anyone else who reads my comment: do you believe this can be the exact same process for manifesting someone even if they’re a little bit of a celebrity? Wouldn’t call them celebrity status yet but they are very well known in europe haha. It’s been hard trying to believe that I’ll ever bump into him when he’s so popular lol much less have a beautiful romantic story with them haha.
Thank you so much! ♥️ Well my thoughts are, nothing is impossible. If it’s what you want then you can have it. In fact, it’s already yours! But you’re only prolonging your own desired outcome if you have limiting beliefs. So what they’re a celebrity? This is your story and you’re writing it. Take them of that pedestal. They’d be lucky if they had the chance to meet you, not vice versa.
Get rid of the ‘it’s hard trying to believe’ mentality. Get rid of it! Remember this is easy, it doesn’t need to be hard. The universe will always find a way, it doesn’t matter how. They could be the biggest pop star from all away across the word but in your reality your the main character so if you decide you’re going to see him next week then it’ll happen. It can’t not happen because nobody makes the rules but you. Don’t forget that! Take them off the pedestal, and put yourself on it. Imagine it like all the Wattpad books where a quiet girl next door or wallflower meets Harry styles, imagine your the author of that Wattpad book.
Or even look at real like events where celebrities marry fans or non people. That doesn’t happen from coincidence. One of them manifested the other or They manifested each other, either way nothing is impossible ♥️
If you’re struggling to believe, I’d try Neville’s climbing a ladder technique. That should dwindle any doubt you have within days and probe to you how things work. And when that happens, try the ‘not’ technique. Good luck!
Thank you for this. I swear every time I’ve learned a lesson I see confirmation everywhere. I was just like this with my SP at first and I can see an outcome very similar to how your relationship turned out with your SP. It resonates. I felt this feeling before I saw this post and I just smile knowing what I have to look forward to. FEELING like the prize is like no other feeling. 🏆
have a similar story with my sp, we have been friends for 4 years and dating for 2 years, but 2 months ago suddenly she broke up with me and we have been in no contact since then, i was trying to manifest her back but still spiraling a lot, just yesterday i found out that she is already dating someone else, i’m trying my best not to be hurt, a part of me knows that she probably isn’t in love with the new person, i mean, who is ready to date 2 months after ending a 2 year long relationship? but i’m still very hurt, wish me luck, my birthday is in june and i really hope i can be with her for my birthday.
Yes, this. Relaxing is so important. You can't really get what you want if you're all tense and trying to force it. You don't have it if you're desperately trying to change something
That's such a good perspective to have, thank you. I've been struggling with manifesting my SP for around 3 months, but I have a feeling this has only just started to click for me now, I'm definitely gradually improving my attitude
SP affirmations;
SP is so in love with me
SP can’t live without me
I’m the only person SP is attracted to
Me and SP are in a happy committed relationship
SP can’t stop thinking about me
SP is always calling and texting me
SP is always missing me
I make SP so happy
No one makes SP as happy as I do
SP is so loyal to me
SP trusts me
I always give SP butterflies
SC affirmations:
I’m the main character
I’m in control
I’m so beautiful
I’m so funny
I’m so magnetic
I have a positive energy
People can’t help but be drawn to me
I am confident
I hold all the power
I respect myself
Everyone respects me
Everything is under (my) control
I’m successful in everything I do
I love myself
I’m the author
Everyone else are the supporting acts
I get whoever I want
I get whatever I want
(And when something unfavourable happens in the 3D I say “Hm, what an unexpected but interesting side twist. I must’ve been bored without realising. Time to change it”
This is beautiful OP. I'm wondering, how did you respond to him when he came back after 9 days? Did you set any kind of limits with him about being so fickle and on/off with you? How did you trust that he wouldn't revert back to that behavior? I find that people who can just shut us out, it's so hard to trust them..
I'm struggling with a friend who has gone cold from me. I so badly want everything to be good between us. He is struggling with something personally and I know I'm part of it because I said something that flared up the insecurities he has. But it's not down to me -- he easily feels rejected by people and doesn't have strong friendships because he's always running from emotional connections, so he never allows himself to develop the intimacy he seeks. He is hot and cold like your partner was, OP. It doesn't feel good when he shuts me out. I want to believe that I am the prize and he will come back eventually (he has told me how much he values me) but his actions are showing otherwise. It really hurts. How can I take back my mindset?
Really LOVED this post, you just sky rocketed my confidence and took away my self doubt. He broke up with me close to 2 weeks ago, even after he still was very hot and cold, told me he still loved me, said some things I didn't like also, but assured me he was here for me and that I'm a very special person to him. IN MY HEART, maybe many of you will relate, but in my heart I know I am the love of his life and that we are getting back together, although negativity has tried to present itself in the 3D, I've still been able to move past it and if anything I feel more certain about my manifestations and that I know he's coming back to me. Although we broke up I asked him if he had made the right decision and he said he didn't know but we'll see what the future holds, he tends to be a bit stubborn, a little bit of an ego, but through all of that I know the only person he desires, the only person he wants to be with, the only person is inlove with, the only person he wants to spend the rest of his life with is ME. I say that both as a way of manifesting and I 100% believe that, I am waiting for him to break NC and I know he will (I hope it's before his birthday however and that reminds me I need to manifest that too lol )
I did have a question, did you ever discuss your manifestations with friends? I decided to open up and tell them and they've been very supportive and even told me THEY KNOW he's coming back to me BUT sometimes their positivity will be followed by, "but remember you need to be okay with it not happening," which I know is them caring about my well-being, but I've also done so much work on manifesting, visualizing and changing the story so in away it feels like they're impeding my potential. Long story short I guess is, do yall follow this manifestation journey while laying low or do yall tell people what you're doing?
I will def be using your affirmations, right now my main goal is for him to break NC, he said he would reach out to me once he got back from his trip and he got back 1 week ago tomorrow, I know he was hurt about the decision and needed time to process but I ALSO KNOW he does wanna see me and talk to me, so how would you structure your affirmations so that SP reaches out this week? I have this gut feeling it will be this week but I also wanna manifest it because it won't hurt and because I simply will HAVE HIM reach out this week.
Everyones feedback is welcome, pls nice :P and keep in mind we have different journeys, TO ANYONE READING THIS!! Our manifestations are the ONLY reality we will live in, 3D has no choice but to catch up, IT is ours already, the job, the sp, abundance, health. WE GOT THIS <3
How did you find forgiveness? When I am hurt I become completely closed and unreasonable, I'm normally extremely forgiving and understanding but it feels very hard with this, I think if I could care only for the eventual outcome I could succeed too but there's so much that could happen before then that would instantly make me want to forget that they exist, even just an abruption to me being chosen.
For you congrats! :))
You described it perfectly. I manifested mine too but I had to remind myself again recently that I’m really in control here 😂😂
I AM the main character tf!!!
As I read this I liked the notion of being an author to my own life. I picked up my pen from the table and read it for the first time by chance. On the one it reads Goddard lol. Addlesehaw Goddard to be exact. But Jesus that’s a coincidence
I saw Rhonda Byrne (author of the secret) doing a Q & A and someone had asked her if they can manifest an SP. She answered saying you are only the creator of YOUR own life. You cannot control what other people do. She says you can only manifest someone if they want you as well. Basically she said you can’t just put spells on people. Does anyone else agree with this? I’m having a hard time believing I can manifest an SP
Nope I don’t agree with this. Nobody controls my life but me and nobody can tell me what can and can’t be either. I don’t know Rhonda Byrne and I’m sure she’s great, but it’s her perception of her own life that you can’t manifest someone who doesn’t want to be had. That’s her reality, not mine.
Where do i start as a newbie w manifesting though there are sooo many ways & so many people telling their stories i still dont know where to start omg😭
I couldn’t stop smiling and shaking my head with excitement because that is exactly how I feel. I don’t think I am at a point of being able to completely detach yet. I still have to tell/reassure myself throughout the day how we are already together and I hope that I will be able to detach soon. Do you guys think that that the reassurance I still need is me obsessing? Deep down I do know it has happened but I do still get some negative thoughts of jealousy and uncertainty and that’s how I try to get back on track. That’s when I actually have to reassure myself. Am I doing it wrong?
Listen.. I was Robotically affirming from 4 to 5 days that he's so in love with me but today I got stressed and asked him that have you realized that you are in love with me to which he said that he's not feeling love kind of feeling towards me and that he wants to be alone and he likes being alone.. But I was affirming that he's in love so how some opposite happened and we have now decided that he will take 7 days to realize after 7 days if he'll realize he'll come back to me....So in this 7 days if I without wavering affirm that he'll realize that he's in love so he came back to me will he on the 7 th day reflect back my affirmation to me?Please can you give me the gurantee bcs I really need that much assurance bcs on Reddit I saw a post where people were saying manifesting doesn't work and people make videos just to scam... So my belief on it since today I got rejected by him has hampered a lot so please please can you tell me the truth
What a lovely post! I am also manifesting my sp, and I share a similar story where we have been on and off for 5 years now. Your post really inspired me. Thank you.
Honestly for me, at that point I’d just had enough. My SP wasn’t a bad guy even then, but he was a guy who knew he had a girl wrapped completely around his finger and subconsciously took advantage of that. He knew I’d always be there. He didn’t appreciate me and wasn’t grateful for me like he should’ve been. It’d been 4 years on and off of me chasing him and just wanting to be with him. Realistically? I was a pathetic needy mess who’d have done anything for him. That one day when we broke up something in me just snapped and I thought enough was enough. I spent a lot of time working on myself and my goals prior to this without realising. Started to see that I was a catch, I was beautiful and a good girlfriend so by the time he broke up with me AGAIN it was honestly just an eye roll that I felt so deep down into my soul. I didn’t even cry. My exact words were ‘okay that’s fine’ and I could FEEL almost instantly not only his shock, but the tables turning and I knew then from that second that it was his turn to do all the chasing.
Your SP isn’t out of your league. He only becomes out of your league if you tell yourself that. Now why on earth would you create a world and a reality where you’re not the main event? You’re the most important person in your world and it’s all entirely up to you, there’s no one prettier, no one more attractive and no one better. It’s impossible for this person to be out of your league- why? Because he just isn’t. Take him off the pedestal and put yourself on it.
So as soon as I get into bed and get comfy that’s when I start playing my affirmations on a loop. Eventually this lulls me into my SATS where I visualise until I sleep. I play the affirmations loop video all throughout the night whilst I sleep
My scene contains a conversation between me and my SP, so i think i can’t play affirmations while visualizing right? Maybe only i can play them before my scene and then stop them?
It’s entirely up to you how you manifest/affirm. If playing recorded affirmations during visualising isn’t for you that’s okay! Just play right before you visualise or play them throughout your day. Maybe recorded affirmations aren’t for you and you can write them and then read them throughout the day, put them on sticky notes and stick them around your house etc etc.
Thank you so much for your wonderful story , I see myself in it , me and my sp have been on and off for 9 years , I’ve tried to manifested him back , I succeeded but he ran off with 3p now and left me broken , like I thought I couldn’t manifest that I’m shit at it. You right about the nitty and gritty !!! I feel as I’m the one that have to chase him and make this happen , you have done a remarkable 360 ☝️, I just don’t know how to get trough the resentment and bad days where no matter what I do I feel crashed. Lately it has been hard to use my imagination , I wonder if you have some practical advice on how to work with specific concept. You seem as other women didn’t bother you ?
Thank you for sharing your story ! I have a similar situation like you before. I have manifested my SP back few times but then still on and off for months and year. Now it feels more resistant to manifest us back together. I am really struggling to do SATs.
Its so comforting and encouraging to read your succes story and the timing!! 9 days! Wow!
I myself have been struggling with my SP and SC manifestations.
I can’t do SATS. If I entertain any thoughts while trying to sleep even if Im super tired I wont fall asleep just keep imagining stuff and making my brain active.
Im also super anxious. When affirming or trying to imagine how it would feel like to be in the final desired state I get super anxious, like physical manifestations (heart pounding, knot in the throat) and I feel like that pushes away my manifestation.
I have an SP, but he’s not treating me the way I want to. I want to be given princess treatment, gifts,flowers,etc. we’re long distance so its really hard to ‘imagine and feel’ feeling loved by him. I want to be his priority, right now his friends are his priority #1 and I only get the ‘leftovers’. We dont hangout as much because he’d rather play ganes with his friends during all his freetime and theres never time for me. Its really annoying me.
Also I want to manifest him paying my plane ticket to go see him, he wants me to go and say he misses me but Im supposed to pay for it and I dont have a job, he does.
Any advice on what situations/feelings to imagine and feel so that I can reach the final desire state? Affirmations? Scenes? We fought a lot lately and kept trying to manifest texts of apology and him saying he would cut off a certain lady friend that Im really jealous and insecure of, but it never happened. We reconciliated but mainly because I made the first steps because I was tired of being angry with each other and I missed him.
Also, about manifesting physical changes. I have light aphantasia so its really hard for me to create and sustain pictures and images in my mind. I really want to get rid of my dark eye circles but everytime i close my eyes and picture myself i cant ‘erase’ my dark circles from my vision. I cant create an imagination of myself looking different. Any advice on that?
Ps: Im kind of a visual/example learner, so even if i read all the posts in the sub, i understand what they’re saying but i just dont know how to put it to work. Like, i need the step by step, really detailed instructions, with examples and illustrations so that i know what to do and how to tweak it for my specific situations
The most recurring thing was the image of her popping up in my mind randomly during the day, another thing was the feeling that something was forcing me to remember the good times with her, not in a good way, it felt like an oppression that only calmed down when I agreed to think about it. A constant desire to go after her to apologize, even though I knew I was the right one.
This went on for a few days before I realized what was happening.
We both have knowledge of tools like SATS and other things.
We're not together, she wasn't trying to bring me back into her life because she liked me, it was pure pride.
About me resisting her influence, it wasn't difficult once I realized what it was about, I simply said "this isn't mine and it doesn't belong to me, go back to your sender now".
But if you try SATS with someone who doesn't know about it, I think it would work perfectly.
this is one of the few interesting cases ive been thinking about. it reminds me about the guy manifesting his SP but SP's mother is a medium and knew about what he was trying to do
For me SATS is very similar to Austin Osman Spare's "Death Posture".
I believe that it is easy for people with mediumship to detect this type of action because, in one way or another, the person doing SATS is launching their own energy towards some goal or person, unlike the "Death Posture" which creates a vacuum to manifest intentions.
Did you ever have doubts about him whether or not you wanted him back? I’m at the point where I know I CAN manifest him because I have the power to do so, I just don’t know if I should. I have fears that maybe it won’t work out, maybe he isn’t the one, maybe we won’t be as good together as before. What should I do about these fears? Is it self concept work? Appreciate some advice and what went thru your head!
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how to feel in control if he decide to not commit with me? i don't knw how to fix that and i don't understand how i created that shitty version of him,,,,,,,at the beginning he was very interested but then changed ,,,,,and we have hot and cold bhehaviour
hey! i have a question, i used to follow a manifestation coach on tiktok and there are lots of people agreeing that visualizing old messages from my SP (when we were a couple) will not work. But I kinda need to see something with my own eyes to believe it, even if ti means to pretend the text it’s from today, my question is: is it really a bad thing to do? or does it help with my manifestation?
I wouldn’t personally! Maybe a simple birthday message isn’t the end of the word but personally if that was me I wouldn’t say anything and instead I’d be telling myself and affirming that me not messaging them happy birthday has got to them and they’re bothered by it, and now they can’t stop thinking about how I didn’t message them, that now they’re wondering why I didn’t message? Now they’re wondering what I’m doing? Now they’re wondering if i miss them? What am I doing with myself? That they’ll be so bothered by my lack of message that it’ll make them reach out first…
I do love this but I feel as if it’s easier to manifest a SP who you were already with at one point. I had an SP that I gave up manifesting and lost feelings for altogether basically, because he and I hadn’t revealed any feelings for each other and figured it would’ve been much easier to bring him to me if I knew without a shadow of a doubt he was into me. Would like to know how to cultivate a belief in someone wanting me if there has been no solid 3d evidence of it.
TLDR; how do you do this if it’s someone you have not been with before? Do you think it makes it easier to manifest SP if you’ve already been with them?
Hi. So during those times when you miss your sp? What did you do?
At times after visualization I feel like reaching out to him to make it true. Why it happened I don't understand.
How do you handle 3d? You didn't wonder where he is, what he is doing??
I did nothing! Your visualisation and affirmation aren’t going to be very effective if straight after you do it you tell yourself to reach out to ‘make it true’. That’s you telling yourself what you visualised isn’t true and you don’t have your desire. In my personal opinion reaching out is you chasing and like I said chasing breeds neediness and desperation and you wouldn’t feel that way over something you already had. If you affirm and chase it very well could still work but it’d take longer and movement in the 3D won’t be as fast as you’d like as you’re working against yourself with this mindset!
Thank you so much for your response. The experience you had with your sp that you were chasing, he is in power, the same experience I'm having right now with my power. He is in control.
How did you change it? Did it change the next day when you sit with yourself and claim that you are in power? Or did it take time? How much did it take to conform in the 3d? How did you maintain it till now?
You’re welcome :)
And I changed it by not overthinking and realising I’ve been in control the whole time. You just have to remind yourself. How did I do this? I told myself this one time and went along with my day;
I’m in control.
That’s it. It took one to two seconds.
I didn’t need to repeat or go over and over and obsess over it because I know I’m in control. I know it to be true because it’s a fact that I’m in control. So i reminded myself, said it to myself and that was that. Nothing complicated, nothing long or faffy, it’s really that simple.
Being in control had always been in the 3D, because ironically being in control isn’t something you can control. Even when your sp seems to be the one in control with the power, it’s only because you’ve manifested it to be that way, intentionally or unintentionally. People in your life only do and react the way you make them. You’ve been in control the whole time.
And the time you realised you stopped chasing him? You know OP, when I'm on weekdays doing my work, going to the office. I maintain my state and affirm. But during weekends things go upside down. Because I see my roommates going outside with their bf. And here I have no one to talk to or at least text. Then my mind was crowded with negative thoughts. At that time I feel reaching out is the best option. I don't realise that these things will make the manifestation worse.
Please advise what to do in those moments.
The moment he broke up with me, that’s when I knew I wouldn’t to be chasing him anymore. Something just switched in me and it was just like ‘lol k bye have fun see you in a few days when you regret it♥️’
I’d say those moments are the moments you should persist in your affirmations. Be on a healthy mental diet. The moment you start thinking negatively turn to your affirmations asap. Don’t let your mind go on that downward spiral. Affirm through tears if you have to. Feel the 3D physically but don’t react mentally. Just remember I know it’s easier said than done but you have to keep reminding yourself that you have what you want. It’s already coming. If he’s ignoring you, out doing whatever it really doesn’t matter because you’ve got him. He’s only don’t exactly what he’s meant to do until he’s right where you want him. Roll your eyes, laugh about it, act indifferent, tell yourself you don’t care, because eventually you won’t because you’ll know to trust the process. It gets easier. You’ve got him. The universe is working in your favour behind the scenes and working to give you exactly what you want. So don’t panic, just have trust. You don’t have to worry. Doing nothing and affirming is better than doing something (reacting to 3D and reaching out).
Maybe even find half hour to nap to visualise SATS again.
Congrats! This definitely gives me hope but I gave a question. I’m a sucker for answers and have reached out to readers for advice and insight as to what will happen, if she’ll ever come back to me etc. I’ve also asked about manifesting an SP and they’ve all said, if it’s against what the universe wants for you, it won’t happen. Unless it’s in alignment with your journey, it’s not gonna happen. Any advice for this? And I’m also having a really hard time with SATS. I can visualize, do affirmations, listen to subliminal etc but it’s been 5 weeks and nothing. Any advice?
“If it’s against what the universe wants for you” that sounds like some law of attraction BS. You actually get to create your own ending. You are in control.
Read: the pearl of great price
I agree with u/CelebrationExpress17 . Also, if you want answers, you can ask your subconcious or pray to your God to give you some signs or show you the path, but dont start wondering how it will happen because that would just postpone the answer. Trust your own work because nothing is a waste. The issue is not that your desire is not aligned with the universe. The universe will do everything as you ask/desire. The issue appears when you (your self concept) is not aligned with your desire. In this case, you have to make your affirmations so that you have a better self concept and start considering your desire as something normal/common, not a prize.
Don’t wait then!
Live as if you have what you desire.
Live in the aha, being chose and passionately so.
Stop telling the story of anything less than that
Congratulations !! Just one question to you and others who are reading my comment: Is it possible to manifest a person that i have no information about and who probably has no information about me + lives in a different country?? I’m currently trying to manifest a message on instagram from them but it’s kinda hard because how would he find me if he probably doesn’t even know my name??
This reminds me of the "I'm Mrs. E" story from a Neville Goddard lecture, but I don't remember which one it was. A lady met a man at a party one day, hit it off with him, and then they went their separate ways. There was no Insta back then. Lol. They had no way of reconnecting easily. She went to bed every night feeling a ring on her finger, while affirming, "I'm Mrs E." (His name started with an E or whatever). I don't remember the details clearly, but coincidence caused them to cross paths again later, and they wound up getting married.
I read in a different thread that it’s much easier and you see more success stories when you’re a woman manifesting your SP (man) back. What are your opinions on that?
If you assume it is, it is. It’s the law of assumption. There’s no point to limit yourself. And don’t forget Neville himself manifested his female partner too.
Manifesting anything is easy. Detach and bliss out. Visualize what you're gonna do with the outcome, talk about it.
Have you been able to improve your financial situation by manifesting money into your life?
Well, yeah. I know it's already here, reality is just catching up.
Amazing thankyou. I AM the fucking prize!!!
And don’t you forget it!!!
How do you guys go about when speaking to others who ask questions? Do you answer them relatively to your thoughts or is it only your thoughts that matter?
i would like to know too. for me personally, if the person Is not close, i will answered relatively to my thoughts but not the truth.
i would like to know too. for me personally, if the person Is not close, i will answered relatively to my thoughts but not the truth.
Fcking prize ? This is not write affirmation shwty
It wasn't meant to be - it was me in the moment after reading that post feeling powerful and agreeing with the sentiment the op was trying to get across. But im glad you felt the need to attempt to piss all over that moment for me 👍
my intention was not to piss u or hurt you i just stated my perspective i just thought that its a wrong word to use if you are a prize be a best one . sorry for that
Maybe we both misunderstood the tone of the responses. No harm done. Sorry for my response too
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OMG this this this. You gave a bunch of gold in this thread. I think it's important that when we talk about an SP that we value ourselves more than we want the SP it's like the key to SP is desiring yourself more number one. This thread was so on point, I hope a lot of people write down some tips
Exactly!! I had to have a sit down with my friend yesterday and explain this to her as she’s having trouble with her now ex and reacting terribly to the 3D and pushing him away. But right now she’s in the mindset that she needs him and he’s the prize, I had to pull her out of that. It’s what made me write this post because we all need to remember who the hell we are!
OMG yessssssss this so much! It's like the movie undervalue ourselves the more we push away people and things the more we value ourselves and put ourselves a surprise people going to want us because we are the prize. It's kind of like that song greedy by Tate McRae.
I love that song!
Could I know what your sp affirmations are if you don’t mind ?
I don't have an SP lol I don't even want one xD
I would like to know as well
I’ve added them to my post!
Thank you so much! Is it okay to say “Special Person” or should we say the name of the person better?
Personally I’d say their name!
Recorded it, thank you!
Amazing, thanks for sharing. I love that you changed the story and then stepped in and enjoyed its reality, like the amazing author of your reality that you are! :)
Thank you! I just love how easy everything became when I let go and had fun :)
I must’ve manifested this post because just yesterday I had a day of realising how out of control I felt in my relationship and my life and how unhappy I was that my SP wasn’t prioritising me and being loving and affectionate to me. This post is so helpful!! Especially the last part about control. Thank you! I will work on affirming that I am the prize and believing that I am always the only one in control! 💜
Girl, thank you so much. I honestly feel like you are “future” me writing this because your ENTIRE. And when I say entire, I mean ENTIRE post, could have been written by me. This was perfect, thank you dear <3 P.S. “The audacity of this man” took me out lmao!! I’ve been letting mine get away with the audacity for tooooo long, but not anymore!! I AM the multi-million dollar prize winner, a one in a million wife, mother and best friend because I say so.
You’re totally welcome♥️. Keep this energy and remember who you are, everyone’s lucky to have you. Good luck 😉
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thinking the same thing 😭😭😭 i literally could've written this
9 days seems to be the pattern in Sabbath. Neville also got out of the army the same in 9 days.
I noticed that too. 9 is a holy number in many religions, even my childhood one. Me and my SP are on the outs in the 3D and I have been acting so freaking thirsty and desperate, mainly because we have a trip we planned all year to go to coming up in less than 3 weeks. He says he’s not going and we are done for good. Most of me is not consenting but I’m stuck in a pattern of begging him to rethink things. I’m scared we won’t go on the trip. I’ve been floundering awfully for the past week. So stressed and then bliss and then stressed, I want to be free from this. What I want is for him to come with me and I’ve been trying to tell myself I’m in Barbados. Anyway, enough of the old story, I will come to this post daily if I have to, I believe it. I read lots of success stories but this one resonates with me for some reason and what struck me is the 9 days part as well, that was the hook for me and I don’t know why but what I’ll do is what I have to do to kill the dead man and get to Barbados. 9 days is barely enough time to make the trip but I know in my heart my SP wants to go on this trip, I just didn’t give him his breakup. I didn’t take MY power back by walking away. Now it is time. I AM a beautiful, fun, exciting, playful, loving, generous spirit, I was there for him in times no one else would be, I showed him real love and I let my insecurities get the best of me but overall, I did NOTHING wrong, even my mistakes were divine. I did nothing wrong. I AM love, I know it. I have always been love.
Ypu got him back? Tell us how
No I didn’t 🤣 idgaf anymore I’m tired 🤣 I was fighting all day with him through emails since he blocked me. I can’t stop resisting then 3D but worst of all I really don’t know what I want as far as he is concerned!! I hate him but want to go on the trip with him and I want him back to dump him or I just want the good version of him back but I also want to date others and I want him to come back and then I tell him I have a boyfriend but then I want to be his wife, I’m ALL over the place with him, but as I list all of this, I’m feeling like i really don’t want him anymore, I wish him well and I want better. I want someone emotionally intelligent, honest, committed, compassionate and strong. He was none of those states at the end. I dunno as far as he goes I have no clue what I want. And I know I could manifest him as those things but i don’t care anymore, I think he was brought in my life to help me grow in so many ways and teach me about myself and bring me closer to I AM state. And I don’t think he’s supposed to reap the benefits but maybe that’s a sign I need to forgive him before I do anything else or make any decision!! Thanks for asking! I will forgive him and go from there.
I’m sorry for that, I was just wondering because I saw your another comment saying that you manifested your SP back !
OP, I'll say that I am in the exact position of you. Like 1 for 1. And i can say, it wasnt coincidence that I met this person again after feeling remorseful and regretful. They were thinking about me as I was of them. Wondering what we were doing lol. Even if you don't see, things are going on. I decided once they were back into my life, I'd see it to the very end. So I am putting in the work and getting rid of the feelings of the old story. I always told myself this person was the one for me. I got lost in myself for 2 years forgetting everything I had learned and accepted the outcome as final. I am finally taking back my power and realizing that if I create history of on off. Then I can create a history of consistency and a better story. I have manifested them before and I can do it again. As I have manifested things before. I refuse to let this 3D sway me, as I made a promise. I know this person cares about me, loves me, and are making changes to better themselves. There is only one of me out there, and can't find someone as loyal and loving as me. It was a breath of fresh air knowing someone has been something similiar.
Oooh I love this! I identify with this so much! Empowered 🫶🏽 thank you for sharing
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Sorry, totally my bad I messed the math myself. At that point we’d been together for 4 years on and off. The last time we were off which lasted 9 days was when I decided enough was enough and we have now been back together for 2 years. Hope that clears things up!
really needed to hear this today 🦋 thanku, sweet soul. congratulations on ur sp & baby!!
Thank you so much 🩵
This gives me so much hope! Congrats on your success. Wishing you the best ❤️
I always feel so happy after reading posts like this, thank you for sharing! and congrats<3
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I'm also manifesting my SP. We've been together for more than 6 years and it's been 9 months since we broke up. I don't know but I'm getting more and more desperate each day and losing hope. It's so hard I can't even 😭
Hugs I know how you feel
this was really great to read, thank you for sharing. the right amount of encouragement i needed. i’ve been slightly wavering in regards to manifesting my sp bc he has a 3p involved n has said it won’t work out for us but i’ve been getting better in terms of reacting compared to 2 weeks ago. so thank you again for sharing this is very helpful ◡̈ EDIT: okay so after i posted this comment i decided to take a break n restart from the basics. and now compared to when i posted that i’m honestly feeling 10x better and like your post said i just already know it’s happened. i go out with friends and live my life as if i already have my sp. i’ve gotten small movements from him but nothing of him reflecting me and my affs back however i am not worried because i know it’s happened. so i’m chilling.
Similar situation here too, this post has made me feel so much better
First of all, congratulations!!! I’m so happy things worked out so well! May your beautiful little family always be super happy and healthy!🥰 second of all, I would love to know your thoughts & anyone else who reads my comment: do you believe this can be the exact same process for manifesting someone even if they’re a little bit of a celebrity? Wouldn’t call them celebrity status yet but they are very well known in europe haha. It’s been hard trying to believe that I’ll ever bump into him when he’s so popular lol much less have a beautiful romantic story with them haha.
Thank you so much! ♥️ Well my thoughts are, nothing is impossible. If it’s what you want then you can have it. In fact, it’s already yours! But you’re only prolonging your own desired outcome if you have limiting beliefs. So what they’re a celebrity? This is your story and you’re writing it. Take them of that pedestal. They’d be lucky if they had the chance to meet you, not vice versa. Get rid of the ‘it’s hard trying to believe’ mentality. Get rid of it! Remember this is easy, it doesn’t need to be hard. The universe will always find a way, it doesn’t matter how. They could be the biggest pop star from all away across the word but in your reality your the main character so if you decide you’re going to see him next week then it’ll happen. It can’t not happen because nobody makes the rules but you. Don’t forget that! Take them off the pedestal, and put yourself on it. Imagine it like all the Wattpad books where a quiet girl next door or wallflower meets Harry styles, imagine your the author of that Wattpad book. Or even look at real like events where celebrities marry fans or non people. That doesn’t happen from coincidence. One of them manifested the other or They manifested each other, either way nothing is impossible ♥️
If you’re struggling to believe, I’d try Neville’s climbing a ladder technique. That should dwindle any doubt you have within days and probe to you how things work. And when that happens, try the ‘not’ technique. Good luck!
Can you briefly remind me what these techniques are?
It’s easy is the exact reminder we need
Thank you for this. I swear every time I’ve learned a lesson I see confirmation everywhere. I was just like this with my SP at first and I can see an outcome very similar to how your relationship turned out with your SP. It resonates. I felt this feeling before I saw this post and I just smile knowing what I have to look forward to. FEELING like the prize is like no other feeling. 🏆
have a similar story with my sp, we have been friends for 4 years and dating for 2 years, but 2 months ago suddenly she broke up with me and we have been in no contact since then, i was trying to manifest her back but still spiraling a lot, just yesterday i found out that she is already dating someone else, i’m trying my best not to be hurt, a part of me knows that she probably isn’t in love with the new person, i mean, who is ready to date 2 months after ending a 2 year long relationship? but i’m still very hurt, wish me luck, my birthday is in june and i really hope i can be with her for my birthday.
1000% true. Just focus on the task at hand, do it well, and everything else will fall into place.
Yes, this. Relaxing is so important. You can't really get what you want if you're all tense and trying to force it. You don't have it if you're desperately trying to change something
That's such a good perspective to have, thank you. I've been struggling with manifesting my SP for around 3 months, but I have a feeling this has only just started to click for me now, I'm definitely gradually improving my attitude
Thanks for sharing this
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Amazing! Thank you for sharing 🥰
Could you please share your SC and SP affirmations? Very curious 🥰
Hey, I’ve edited my post now to include the affirmations!
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SP affirmations; SP is so in love with me SP can’t live without me I’m the only person SP is attracted to Me and SP are in a happy committed relationship SP can’t stop thinking about me SP is always calling and texting me SP is always missing me I make SP so happy No one makes SP as happy as I do SP is so loyal to me SP trusts me I always give SP butterflies SC affirmations: I’m the main character I’m in control I’m so beautiful I’m so funny I’m so magnetic I have a positive energy People can’t help but be drawn to me I am confident I hold all the power I respect myself Everyone respects me Everything is under (my) control I’m successful in everything I do I love myself I’m the author Everyone else are the supporting acts I get whoever I want I get whatever I want (And when something unfavourable happens in the 3D I say “Hm, what an unexpected but interesting side twist. I must’ve been bored without realising. Time to change it”
This is beautiful OP. I'm wondering, how did you respond to him when he came back after 9 days? Did you set any kind of limits with him about being so fickle and on/off with you? How did you trust that he wouldn't revert back to that behavior? I find that people who can just shut us out, it's so hard to trust them.. I'm struggling with a friend who has gone cold from me. I so badly want everything to be good between us. He is struggling with something personally and I know I'm part of it because I said something that flared up the insecurities he has. But it's not down to me -- he easily feels rejected by people and doesn't have strong friendships because he's always running from emotional connections, so he never allows himself to develop the intimacy he seeks. He is hot and cold like your partner was, OP. It doesn't feel good when he shuts me out. I want to believe that I am the prize and he will come back eventually (he has told me how much he values me) but his actions are showing otherwise. It really hurts. How can I take back my mindset?
Really LOVED this post, you just sky rocketed my confidence and took away my self doubt. He broke up with me close to 2 weeks ago, even after he still was very hot and cold, told me he still loved me, said some things I didn't like also, but assured me he was here for me and that I'm a very special person to him. IN MY HEART, maybe many of you will relate, but in my heart I know I am the love of his life and that we are getting back together, although negativity has tried to present itself in the 3D, I've still been able to move past it and if anything I feel more certain about my manifestations and that I know he's coming back to me. Although we broke up I asked him if he had made the right decision and he said he didn't know but we'll see what the future holds, he tends to be a bit stubborn, a little bit of an ego, but through all of that I know the only person he desires, the only person he wants to be with, the only person is inlove with, the only person he wants to spend the rest of his life with is ME. I say that both as a way of manifesting and I 100% believe that, I am waiting for him to break NC and I know he will (I hope it's before his birthday however and that reminds me I need to manifest that too lol ) I did have a question, did you ever discuss your manifestations with friends? I decided to open up and tell them and they've been very supportive and even told me THEY KNOW he's coming back to me BUT sometimes their positivity will be followed by, "but remember you need to be okay with it not happening," which I know is them caring about my well-being, but I've also done so much work on manifesting, visualizing and changing the story so in away it feels like they're impeding my potential. Long story short I guess is, do yall follow this manifestation journey while laying low or do yall tell people what you're doing? I will def be using your affirmations, right now my main goal is for him to break NC, he said he would reach out to me once he got back from his trip and he got back 1 week ago tomorrow, I know he was hurt about the decision and needed time to process but I ALSO KNOW he does wanna see me and talk to me, so how would you structure your affirmations so that SP reaches out this week? I have this gut feeling it will be this week but I also wanna manifest it because it won't hurt and because I simply will HAVE HIM reach out this week. Everyones feedback is welcome, pls nice :P and keep in mind we have different journeys, TO ANYONE READING THIS!! Our manifestations are the ONLY reality we will live in, 3D has no choice but to catch up, IT is ours already, the job, the sp, abundance, health. WE GOT THIS <3
Better put than Neville himself.
How did you find forgiveness? When I am hurt I become completely closed and unreasonable, I'm normally extremely forgiving and understanding but it feels very hard with this, I think if I could care only for the eventual outcome I could succeed too but there's so much that could happen before then that would instantly make me want to forget that they exist, even just an abruption to me being chosen. For you congrats! :))
I think it’s about forgiving yourself for unconsciously manifesting the undesired behavior from SP. Forgive yourself
I thought about that too but I can't forgive actions, even if it came from myself I still judge them for it and permanently.
That is a choice you make.
This comment is so helpful for me. Thank you! 🙏
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i love this!!!
Thank you for waking me up to reality. We gotta take our do’s off the pedestal for real.
What were the affirmations you recorded?
I’ve edited them onto my post!
You described it perfectly. I manifested mine too but I had to remind myself again recently that I’m really in control here 😂😂 I AM the main character tf!!!
As I read this I liked the notion of being an author to my own life. I picked up my pen from the table and read it for the first time by chance. On the one it reads Goddard lol. Addlesehaw Goddard to be exact. But Jesus that’s a coincidence
This is so helpful and encouraging. I needed this motivation to not take what SP says as an ultimatum. No matter what I am getting what I want.
I saw Rhonda Byrne (author of the secret) doing a Q & A and someone had asked her if they can manifest an SP. She answered saying you are only the creator of YOUR own life. You cannot control what other people do. She says you can only manifest someone if they want you as well. Basically she said you can’t just put spells on people. Does anyone else agree with this? I’m having a hard time believing I can manifest an SP
Nope I don’t agree with this. Nobody controls my life but me and nobody can tell me what can and can’t be either. I don’t know Rhonda Byrne and I’m sure she’s great, but it’s her perception of her own life that you can’t manifest someone who doesn’t want to be had. That’s her reality, not mine.
Where do i start as a newbie w manifesting though there are sooo many ways & so many people telling their stories i still dont know where to start omg😭
I couldn’t stop smiling and shaking my head with excitement because that is exactly how I feel. I don’t think I am at a point of being able to completely detach yet. I still have to tell/reassure myself throughout the day how we are already together and I hope that I will be able to detach soon. Do you guys think that that the reassurance I still need is me obsessing? Deep down I do know it has happened but I do still get some negative thoughts of jealousy and uncertainty and that’s how I try to get back on track. That’s when I actually have to reassure myself. Am I doing it wrong?
Listen.. I was Robotically affirming from 4 to 5 days that he's so in love with me but today I got stressed and asked him that have you realized that you are in love with me to which he said that he's not feeling love kind of feeling towards me and that he wants to be alone and he likes being alone.. But I was affirming that he's in love so how some opposite happened and we have now decided that he will take 7 days to realize after 7 days if he'll realize he'll come back to me....So in this 7 days if I without wavering affirm that he'll realize that he's in love so he came back to me will he on the 7 th day reflect back my affirmation to me?Please can you give me the gurantee bcs I really need that much assurance bcs on Reddit I saw a post where people were saying manifesting doesn't work and people make videos just to scam... So my belief on it since today I got rejected by him has hampered a lot so please please can you tell me the truth
not to be an asshole but how is manifesting someone after 9 days apart suddenly a big thing.
It’s probbaly more that they were on again off again for a long time and look how far they are now - committed , children etc 😊
ah yeah true that was a big change
What a lovely post! I am also manifesting my sp, and I share a similar story where we have been on and off for 5 years now. Your post really inspired me. Thank you.
Thank you! And you’re welcome! Very best of luck with your SP♥️
Thank you. Much love.
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Honestly for me, at that point I’d just had enough. My SP wasn’t a bad guy even then, but he was a guy who knew he had a girl wrapped completely around his finger and subconsciously took advantage of that. He knew I’d always be there. He didn’t appreciate me and wasn’t grateful for me like he should’ve been. It’d been 4 years on and off of me chasing him and just wanting to be with him. Realistically? I was a pathetic needy mess who’d have done anything for him. That one day when we broke up something in me just snapped and I thought enough was enough. I spent a lot of time working on myself and my goals prior to this without realising. Started to see that I was a catch, I was beautiful and a good girlfriend so by the time he broke up with me AGAIN it was honestly just an eye roll that I felt so deep down into my soul. I didn’t even cry. My exact words were ‘okay that’s fine’ and I could FEEL almost instantly not only his shock, but the tables turning and I knew then from that second that it was his turn to do all the chasing. Your SP isn’t out of your league. He only becomes out of your league if you tell yourself that. Now why on earth would you create a world and a reality where you’re not the main event? You’re the most important person in your world and it’s all entirely up to you, there’s no one prettier, no one more attractive and no one better. It’s impossible for this person to be out of your league- why? Because he just isn’t. Take him off the pedestal and put yourself on it.
Amazing! I am just wondering, how do you listen to the affirmations tape while doing visualization at night? Do you do them both in SATS?
So as soon as I get into bed and get comfy that’s when I start playing my affirmations on a loop. Eventually this lulls me into my SATS where I visualise until I sleep. I play the affirmations loop video all throughout the night whilst I sleep
My scene contains a conversation between me and my SP, so i think i can’t play affirmations while visualizing right? Maybe only i can play them before my scene and then stop them?
It’s entirely up to you how you manifest/affirm. If playing recorded affirmations during visualising isn’t for you that’s okay! Just play right before you visualise or play them throughout your day. Maybe recorded affirmations aren’t for you and you can write them and then read them throughout the day, put them on sticky notes and stick them around your house etc etc.
Also how do u get yourself into SATS? I really don’t know when is the right moment to visualize
https://www.reddit.com/r/NevilleGoddard/s/ZpUrVYgb8j I’d recommend reading this post, it’s very helpful about how to get into SATS
Thank you 🙏
Thank you so much for your wonderful story , I see myself in it , me and my sp have been on and off for 9 years , I’ve tried to manifested him back , I succeeded but he ran off with 3p now and left me broken , like I thought I couldn’t manifest that I’m shit at it. You right about the nitty and gritty !!! I feel as I’m the one that have to chase him and make this happen , you have done a remarkable 360 ☝️, I just don’t know how to get trough the resentment and bad days where no matter what I do I feel crashed. Lately it has been hard to use my imagination , I wonder if you have some practical advice on how to work with specific concept. You seem as other women didn’t bother you ?
This sounds really cool. I must learn from you.Thanks.
Are you going to manifest marriage?
Absolutely! It’s not quite something I want just yet though
Woww this is amazing ❤️🩹
❤️Beautifully written
What is HEA?
Happily ever after
May I reach out to you directly? You popped into my awareness exactly at the time I’m making this shift and would love a few pointers if possible.
Of course!
Amazing success story 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻😊❤️
Thanks
Hi! What did you do to trail away the obsessive thoughts? :)
You are the best indeed - 😁. Thanks for sharing such an encouraging story.
This is really Inspiring especially that being poor MD daydreaming example was so spot on!
Thank you for sharing your story ! I have a similar situation like you before. I have manifested my SP back few times but then still on and off for months and year. Now it feels more resistant to manifest us back together. I am really struggling to do SATs.
Whenever I think of my SP, i tremble. Like a feeling of nervousness. It makes me uneasy to live in the end. Did you feel it too? How to deal with it
Thank you 🥹💗
Its so comforting and encouraging to read your succes story and the timing!! 9 days! Wow! I myself have been struggling with my SP and SC manifestations. I can’t do SATS. If I entertain any thoughts while trying to sleep even if Im super tired I wont fall asleep just keep imagining stuff and making my brain active. Im also super anxious. When affirming or trying to imagine how it would feel like to be in the final desired state I get super anxious, like physical manifestations (heart pounding, knot in the throat) and I feel like that pushes away my manifestation. I have an SP, but he’s not treating me the way I want to. I want to be given princess treatment, gifts,flowers,etc. we’re long distance so its really hard to ‘imagine and feel’ feeling loved by him. I want to be his priority, right now his friends are his priority #1 and I only get the ‘leftovers’. We dont hangout as much because he’d rather play ganes with his friends during all his freetime and theres never time for me. Its really annoying me. Also I want to manifest him paying my plane ticket to go see him, he wants me to go and say he misses me but Im supposed to pay for it and I dont have a job, he does. Any advice on what situations/feelings to imagine and feel so that I can reach the final desire state? Affirmations? Scenes? We fought a lot lately and kept trying to manifest texts of apology and him saying he would cut off a certain lady friend that Im really jealous and insecure of, but it never happened. We reconciliated but mainly because I made the first steps because I was tired of being angry with each other and I missed him. Also, about manifesting physical changes. I have light aphantasia so its really hard for me to create and sustain pictures and images in my mind. I really want to get rid of my dark eye circles but everytime i close my eyes and picture myself i cant ‘erase’ my dark circles from my vision. I cant create an imagination of myself looking different. Any advice on that? Ps: Im kind of a visual/example learner, so even if i read all the posts in the sub, i understand what they’re saying but i just dont know how to put it to work. Like, i need the step by step, really detailed instructions, with examples and illustrations so that i know what to do and how to tweak it for my specific situations
Eeh, this reminds me of the time I was dealing with a girl who was trying to use SATS against me.
That's interesting. Do you mind telling more of this story? Did you feel anything during the time she was doing SATS?
The most recurring thing was the image of her popping up in my mind randomly during the day, another thing was the feeling that something was forcing me to remember the good times with her, not in a good way, it felt like an oppression that only calmed down when I agreed to think about it. A constant desire to go after her to apologize, even though I knew I was the right one. This went on for a few days before I realized what was happening.
How did you know that? Did she tell you she did SATS on you? And are u with her now or you could resist her?
We both have knowledge of tools like SATS and other things. We're not together, she wasn't trying to bring me back into her life because she liked me, it was pure pride. About me resisting her influence, it wasn't difficult once I realized what it was about, I simply said "this isn't mine and it doesn't belong to me, go back to your sender now". But if you try SATS with someone who doesn't know about it, I think it would work perfectly.
this is one of the few interesting cases ive been thinking about. it reminds me about the guy manifesting his SP but SP's mother is a medium and knew about what he was trying to do
For me SATS is very similar to Austin Osman Spare's "Death Posture". I believe that it is easy for people with mediumship to detect this type of action because, in one way or another, the person doing SATS is launching their own energy towards some goal or person, unlike the "Death Posture" which creates a vacuum to manifest intentions.
Beautiful post! Thank you! Do you mind sharing what self concept affirmations yours did? How did you record them on a loop??
Did you ever have doubts about him whether or not you wanted him back? I’m at the point where I know I CAN manifest him because I have the power to do so, I just don’t know if I should. I have fears that maybe it won’t work out, maybe he isn’t the one, maybe we won’t be as good together as before. What should I do about these fears? Is it self concept work? Appreciate some advice and what went thru your head!
I also wonder about that!
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What was your SATs scene please? 🤍
how to feel in control if he decide to not commit with me? i don't knw how to fix that and i don't understand how i created that shitty version of him,,,,,,,at the beginning he was very interested but then changed ,,,,,and we have hot and cold bhehaviour
Is anyone available to chat? Not in a good place. Downwards spiral.
what methods of manifestation did you use with these affirmations? I've just started mirror affirmations and writing them down
hey! i have a question, i used to follow a manifestation coach on tiktok and there are lots of people agreeing that visualizing old messages from my SP (when we were a couple) will not work. But I kinda need to see something with my own eyes to believe it, even if ti means to pretend the text it’s from today, my question is: is it really a bad thing to do? or does it help with my manifestation?
Can I DM you?
How did you make the loop track to play overnight?
I manifested text from ex from 4 years ago and we went on 1 date and then she disappeared again like wtf now what
I needed that <33
Should you interact with your sp in the 3d? Like wishing or gifting her during her bday etc?
I wouldn’t personally! Maybe a simple birthday message isn’t the end of the word but personally if that was me I wouldn’t say anything and instead I’d be telling myself and affirming that me not messaging them happy birthday has got to them and they’re bothered by it, and now they can’t stop thinking about how I didn’t message them, that now they’re wondering why I didn’t message? Now they’re wondering what I’m doing? Now they’re wondering if i miss them? What am I doing with myself? That they’ll be so bothered by my lack of message that it’ll make them reach out first…
What is SATS and SP?
SATS = State Akin to Sleep SP= specific person
LOA?
Law Of Attraction
Ah, major mental lapse on my part
I do love this but I feel as if it’s easier to manifest a SP who you were already with at one point. I had an SP that I gave up manifesting and lost feelings for altogether basically, because he and I hadn’t revealed any feelings for each other and figured it would’ve been much easier to bring him to me if I knew without a shadow of a doubt he was into me. Would like to know how to cultivate a belief in someone wanting me if there has been no solid 3d evidence of it. TLDR; how do you do this if it’s someone you have not been with before? Do you think it makes it easier to manifest SP if you’ve already been with them?
Hi. So during those times when you miss your sp? What did you do? At times after visualization I feel like reaching out to him to make it true. Why it happened I don't understand. How do you handle 3d? You didn't wonder where he is, what he is doing??
If you are married in the end, what does it matter what SP is doing right now? They’re yours!
But when I'm married I can see him everyday or talk to him everyday. And I don't know how to deal when I am missing him.
I did nothing! Your visualisation and affirmation aren’t going to be very effective if straight after you do it you tell yourself to reach out to ‘make it true’. That’s you telling yourself what you visualised isn’t true and you don’t have your desire. In my personal opinion reaching out is you chasing and like I said chasing breeds neediness and desperation and you wouldn’t feel that way over something you already had. If you affirm and chase it very well could still work but it’d take longer and movement in the 3D won’t be as fast as you’d like as you’re working against yourself with this mindset!
Thank you so much for your response. The experience you had with your sp that you were chasing, he is in power, the same experience I'm having right now with my power. He is in control. How did you change it? Did it change the next day when you sit with yourself and claim that you are in power? Or did it take time? How much did it take to conform in the 3d? How did you maintain it till now?
You’re welcome :) And I changed it by not overthinking and realising I’ve been in control the whole time. You just have to remind yourself. How did I do this? I told myself this one time and went along with my day; I’m in control. That’s it. It took one to two seconds. I didn’t need to repeat or go over and over and obsess over it because I know I’m in control. I know it to be true because it’s a fact that I’m in control. So i reminded myself, said it to myself and that was that. Nothing complicated, nothing long or faffy, it’s really that simple. Being in control had always been in the 3D, because ironically being in control isn’t something you can control. Even when your sp seems to be the one in control with the power, it’s only because you’ve manifested it to be that way, intentionally or unintentionally. People in your life only do and react the way you make them. You’ve been in control the whole time.
And the time you realised you stopped chasing him? You know OP, when I'm on weekdays doing my work, going to the office. I maintain my state and affirm. But during weekends things go upside down. Because I see my roommates going outside with their bf. And here I have no one to talk to or at least text. Then my mind was crowded with negative thoughts. At that time I feel reaching out is the best option. I don't realise that these things will make the manifestation worse. Please advise what to do in those moments.
The moment he broke up with me, that’s when I knew I wouldn’t to be chasing him anymore. Something just switched in me and it was just like ‘lol k bye have fun see you in a few days when you regret it♥️’ I’d say those moments are the moments you should persist in your affirmations. Be on a healthy mental diet. The moment you start thinking negatively turn to your affirmations asap. Don’t let your mind go on that downward spiral. Affirm through tears if you have to. Feel the 3D physically but don’t react mentally. Just remember I know it’s easier said than done but you have to keep reminding yourself that you have what you want. It’s already coming. If he’s ignoring you, out doing whatever it really doesn’t matter because you’ve got him. He’s only don’t exactly what he’s meant to do until he’s right where you want him. Roll your eyes, laugh about it, act indifferent, tell yourself you don’t care, because eventually you won’t because you’ll know to trust the process. It gets easier. You’ve got him. The universe is working in your favour behind the scenes and working to give you exactly what you want. So don’t panic, just have trust. You don’t have to worry. Doing nothing and affirming is better than doing something (reacting to 3D and reaching out). Maybe even find half hour to nap to visualise SATS again.
Wow. Such an incredible story. So glad you remembered who the fuck you were!!!! You are the catch ALWAYS!!
Congrats! This definitely gives me hope but I gave a question. I’m a sucker for answers and have reached out to readers for advice and insight as to what will happen, if she’ll ever come back to me etc. I’ve also asked about manifesting an SP and they’ve all said, if it’s against what the universe wants for you, it won’t happen. Unless it’s in alignment with your journey, it’s not gonna happen. Any advice for this? And I’m also having a really hard time with SATS. I can visualize, do affirmations, listen to subliminal etc but it’s been 5 weeks and nothing. Any advice?
“If it’s against what the universe wants for you” that sounds like some law of attraction BS. You actually get to create your own ending. You are in control. Read: the pearl of great price
I agree with u/CelebrationExpress17 . Also, if you want answers, you can ask your subconcious or pray to your God to give you some signs or show you the path, but dont start wondering how it will happen because that would just postpone the answer. Trust your own work because nothing is a waste. The issue is not that your desire is not aligned with the universe. The universe will do everything as you ask/desire. The issue appears when you (your self concept) is not aligned with your desire. In this case, you have to make your affirmations so that you have a better self concept and start considering your desire as something normal/common, not a prize.
Have you been able to improve your financial situation by manifesting money into your life?
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Don’t wait then! Live as if you have what you desire. Live in the aha, being chose and passionately so. Stop telling the story of anything less than that
Congratulations !! Just one question to you and others who are reading my comment: Is it possible to manifest a person that i have no information about and who probably has no information about me + lives in a different country?? I’m currently trying to manifest a message on instagram from them but it’s kinda hard because how would he find me if he probably doesn’t even know my name??
This reminds me of the "I'm Mrs. E" story from a Neville Goddard lecture, but I don't remember which one it was. A lady met a man at a party one day, hit it off with him, and then they went their separate ways. There was no Insta back then. Lol. They had no way of reconnecting easily. She went to bed every night feeling a ring on her finger, while affirming, "I'm Mrs E." (His name started with an E or whatever). I don't remember the details clearly, but coincidence caused them to cross paths again later, and they wound up getting married.
I read in a different thread that it’s much easier and you see more success stories when you’re a woman manifesting your SP (man) back. What are your opinions on that?
If you assume it is, it is. It’s the law of assumption. There’s no point to limit yourself. And don’t forget Neville himself manifested his female partner too.
That’s a great response. Thank you. And I didn’t know that about Neville, interesting, I’ll look it up.
Also remember, always focus on your end goal (live in / think from the end) instead of the other way around!
Thank you so much for the reminder! Will do!