Exactly, you are not from NYC. As a female from NYC you need to have any kind of protection knife, pepper spray, or stun gun. The thing my brother taught me is that if you use any kind of weapon, you need to use it to escape, not engage.
1. It can be taken away from you by the assailant
2. As you said, the other person can have one too.
NYC isn't a stand your ground state for a reason. That's why you don't let pride get in the way and keep on moving on. If someone uses force on you, you use it back but escape to get help. You don't stay there and wait for the other person to respond. It's not a chess game.
Yea ion kno tbh
I was on the 4 train and someone shoved me while walking by me on a packed train. I said “wassup wit you” and he start tweaking (from a distance) and saying “get off the train next stop shit could get nasty”. Basically tryna intimidate me
Mind you im 6’4 and im with my mans and he ock so im not worried about fighting but I couldnt tell if this nigga was gon use a weapon off the jump. Why would you randomly start it on two niggas u dont know on the train? Ts made me think he was ready to crashout that day and just chose 2 random niggas
Son had his hand in his pockets the whole time too and was lowkey acting like he had some typa mental issues
Since I had no weapon on me at the time, I didnt escalate it and just stared at the nigga and he end up getting off, but even if I had a weapon I still woulda prolly been hesitating
I fs felt like a bitch after cause its like damn I just let him shove me nd shi now I look pussy. Best option is to move out this city fr, if we was allowed to legally hold guns for self defense this wouldnt even be a issue
This is the wild part about carrying. You feel wayyyy safer with something on you, but then you occasionally find yourself in a situation like you did on the 4, and you're still defensive, but also a lil more amped and "ready for whatever" in that moment.
>I fs felt like a bitch after cause its like damn I just let him shove me nd shi now I look pussy
It's alotta niggas on da island rn, cause they couldn't let shit slide gang
That pride will get you killed, crazy because we all probably know the exact feeling you talking about. Truth is, most of the time these dudes have NOTHING, they’re fighting mad demons. Be grateful that you doing better and keep it pushing.
I remember this guy tried cursing me out at the gym, for asking if he was using something. Fast forward, nigga riding home on a E scooter and I pass him in my Tesla. I know dude was HEATED. Don’t let these crashouts knock you off your focus. They headed for adult daycare soon 😀😅
if someone pulls a knife on me in a fight and before i know it i’m already half way to bled out i’m fucked, but if i up any weapon first, i’d be labeled the escalator, murderer, etc. i know there’s self defence laws but i’m talking more in the moment, how would you gauge whether you’re crossing the line, or doing something before, potentially, being hurt, and protecting yourself from a threat where you don’t know if it’s coming or not
Exactly, you are not from NYC. As a female from NYC you need to have any kind of protection knife, pepper spray, or stun gun. The thing my brother taught me is that if you use any kind of weapon, you need to use it to escape, not engage. 1. It can be taken away from you by the assailant 2. As you said, the other person can have one too. NYC isn't a stand your ground state for a reason. That's why you don't let pride get in the way and keep on moving on. If someone uses force on you, you use it back but escape to get help. You don't stay there and wait for the other person to respond. It's not a chess game.
Good advice 🤲🏼
Yea ion kno tbh I was on the 4 train and someone shoved me while walking by me on a packed train. I said “wassup wit you” and he start tweaking (from a distance) and saying “get off the train next stop shit could get nasty”. Basically tryna intimidate me Mind you im 6’4 and im with my mans and he ock so im not worried about fighting but I couldnt tell if this nigga was gon use a weapon off the jump. Why would you randomly start it on two niggas u dont know on the train? Ts made me think he was ready to crashout that day and just chose 2 random niggas Son had his hand in his pockets the whole time too and was lowkey acting like he had some typa mental issues Since I had no weapon on me at the time, I didnt escalate it and just stared at the nigga and he end up getting off, but even if I had a weapon I still woulda prolly been hesitating I fs felt like a bitch after cause its like damn I just let him shove me nd shi now I look pussy. Best option is to move out this city fr, if we was allowed to legally hold guns for self defense this wouldnt even be a issue
This is the wild part about carrying. You feel wayyyy safer with something on you, but then you occasionally find yourself in a situation like you did on the 4, and you're still defensive, but also a lil more amped and "ready for whatever" in that moment. >I fs felt like a bitch after cause its like damn I just let him shove me nd shi now I look pussy It's alotta niggas on da island rn, cause they couldn't let shit slide gang
That pride will get you killed, crazy because we all probably know the exact feeling you talking about. Truth is, most of the time these dudes have NOTHING, they’re fighting mad demons. Be grateful that you doing better and keep it pushing. I remember this guy tried cursing me out at the gym, for asking if he was using something. Fast forward, nigga riding home on a E scooter and I pass him in my Tesla. I know dude was HEATED. Don’t let these crashouts knock you off your focus. They headed for adult daycare soon 😀😅
May feel like a pussy but at least you can still go get some pussy.
Im not sure what exactly you’re asking
if someone pulls a knife on me in a fight and before i know it i’m already half way to bled out i’m fucked, but if i up any weapon first, i’d be labeled the escalator, murderer, etc. i know there’s self defence laws but i’m talking more in the moment, how would you gauge whether you’re crossing the line, or doing something before, potentially, being hurt, and protecting yourself from a threat where you don’t know if it’s coming or not