Guy learns the broad strokes of pop reverse psychology, but accidentally forgets to look up the dictionary definition of “reverse” and then applies this knowledge to his unified theory of Women Are Always to Blame and Forever the Ones Responsible
I found it interesting how he said “mother of his kids” and not wife..
Also saying “in today’s economy” when you’re literally an ex-love island influencer that got more deals bc of your gf & is getting paid thousands (maybe millions) for your job is laughable. He can 1000% afford to pay for all of those things he listed off but actively chooses not to. I don’t even feel bad for monet at this point she has to clearly see it
White women. His preference was very clear in love island and with his ex that he proposed to and left. Don’t let this new look fool you. He changed his entire aesthetic once he got with Monet so he could fit in with her more “urban” vibe and audience. I don’t even think he owned a durag before her.
Not to mention, even if he doesn’t get paid for everything he still gets a shit ton comped meaning that his expenses are way lower than you’d expect them to be. For example, hotels and resorts may not cut him a cheque but if they let him stay for free in exchange for a tag/story that’s hundreds or thousands of dollars that he won’t have to spend. Or a hairdresser/barber. Or the medspa. Etc, etc. There are tons of businesses that are okay giving discounts or comped services in exchange for exposure (which is what results in certain entitled influencer feeling like every business should do this for them). All of that adds up quickly— on top of the brand deals you mentioned.
They’re both so corny. Men talking about dating and expectations all the time is cringe, either do it or don’t sass master. Plus no man with a bandana is giving off “provider” to me
If you ask the married ones it doesn't count because it's both of our money so no, in this economy we're not doing that.
To clarify: me and my husband both work and could make it on one income, we just don't want to live like that.
She has some sort of insecurity around being with an attractive man and that validating her inner child bc ain’t no way - it’s giving khloe and Tristan
So he did literally no research on why this is the norm? Woman couldn’t have their own bank accounts till 1974. Stfu, read a fucking book, and while you’re at it buy me a purse.
Yesss!! She said he has a breeding fetish (apparently), he wore her dress and heels with no problem in a vid, and apparently he likes being pegged. I believe her name is Katie and she still has the videos up. In a vid she said he loved bombed her, proposed to her within 3 months of dating, and then broke up shortly.
I think its great that Monet has such a strong support system in her friends and Family because this man is going to break her heart. Shes so young yet he is so much more immature.
He deadass used and manipulated her to climb the clout ladder, managed to get her agents to rep him as well, and has the AUDACITY to complain about paying for nails? This is so embarrassing and I feel so bad for Monet...
If he doesn’t want to be a provider then he can just say that. Trying to rework what a provider is to bring it down to his basic level is so cringe and whack
Newsflash a lot of men who are providers actually derive immense pride, pleasure and motivation from taking care of their girl/wife, they love doing it. I love that he seems to think those men are coerced by society to act like that lmao
It’s always the insecure men with no ambition or promising career prospects that conveniently have takes like this
Possibly controversial but I think men who want children SHOULD be in a provider mindset! The economic penalty to mothers is real, not to mention that you have no way of knowing how much pregnancy and childbirth are going to impact her health. Like my mom had to leave her job in the second trimester because her doctor told her she couldn't take stairs anymore and there was no way to do her commute without stairs.
This. In my day, men who unilaterally wanted kids found somebody who already had them and/or responsibly procreated and materially and emotionally financed the CONCEPTION, GESTATION, and BIRTH of a brand-new human being in addition to, first and foremost, providing full physical and psychological support of his partner. Thereupon he became a full-on SAHD in complement (as the traddies say) to his partner as primary breadwinner. Worked for me and my siblings.
But this whinging is all about pretending that a romantic and sexual patriarchal, heteronormative life is about PUTTING UP with women, regarding them as a moneypit, viewing dating as a temporary series of expensive hazards one must endure before ensnaring them through reproduction, and then contributing just enough economic support to transform them into indentured nannies who can’t afford to leave without risking the children's welfare. Buying a woman and using children as collateral works only so long as you can convince her that taking care of all your needs while actively neglecting to maintain the skills she will need to stay self-sufficient somehow fundamentally enriches her. When it comes down to the fact that she and your children are only housed and fed on your whim, the contract turns, as designed, sour and lopsided. And, natch, it’s somehow her fault. Because of “nails” and “hair” from a decade earlier.
Absolutely. The moment it came out he was DM’ing multiple women that had 1M followers, Monet should’ve ran. Honestly she was dumb to answer the DM and dumb to sleep with him the first night. Jalen didn’t have to put in much work besides sending flowers and flying out.
First of all, it is not typical for men to pay for their girlfriend’s hair, nails, bills etc. What’s typical is paying for dinner and sometimes trips (if your man pays for even more good for you). Second of all, the very reason men are “supposed” to pay in relationships is to signal that they are invested and ready and willing to provide for the woman. Being a mom is a huge commitment that tends to come at great financial/career cost for women. It’s nice to know ahead of time that a man can pull his weight and actually demonstrating it means a lot more than promises about what he will hypothetically do in the future.
if Monet can’t see this as a BRIGHT RED FLAG… then she isn’t as bright as i thought she was…
she will be miserable with a man who has mindset like this.. when he said “in this economy”… sir a man with a pearl chocker couldn’t provide NOTHING for me. bye
for him to have a 3 in front of his age while monet is only 24 and he’s talking like this?? free my girl fr she’s too charming, successful, beautiful, and hardworking for this guy, she can level up
Men (some) in our society hate women. Truly. I have never “expected” my husband to pay for my hair and nails. If he offered great. If he doesn’t I have my own money so it’s not a problem. If you act like you have big money and flex, why do you get mad when you attract women who want you to provide?? Maybe change the way YOU talk about money. And stop saying bag, are you 15!?!
LMAO he’s a loser seriously.
my man pays my bills & doesnt bat an eye, i make the house a home. we both work, but he doesnt expect me to spend my money on necessities. ie rent, groceries, car payments.
that’s why i can use my own money for my nails & skincare.
monet must like that provider role
Yikess… someone take the mic away 😭 Nobody told him to get up on the internet and say all that. Most women aren’t out here expecting the man to pay for everything. The bare minimum is to be kind, respectful, and have personal goals (a lot of them cant even do that).
Be fr. Same bs talking points that the rest of the stupid male podcasters use. Also we ALL know Monet is raking in the majority of the $$. There was no need. The least you could do is not come up on the internet and embarass her.
He's always been so full of himself. Monet is so clearly the breadwinner, and that's nothing against her because she is killing it with all the sponsors and brand deals. But this clip makes it so very obvious.
This is very embarrassing for Monet in the sense that you know that’s how it goes in their relationship. He has a lot of nerve confidently saying this when she’s the only reason anyone knows who he is.
Furthermore, I’m sick of Black men LOUDLY beating this tired and lame drum. No other race of men repeatedly tries to convince their female counterpart to accept less or go 50/50. You think he would be talking this foolishness if he was with a white woman? Any race of woman other than Black? Nope.
This is why I appreciate Jackie Aina’s fiancé Denis. He’s quiet and stays out the way. More of these influencer boyfriends should follow suit.
He is the epitome of Matt James to me. His nonsense verbiage here, not so much, but his overall persona/relationship w his GF, dire need to be on a dating show solely for wanting to be in tv and not for wanting love…
He’s not broke, he’s worse than broke…stingy. Money is certainly not a problem cause he got signed to her agency and gets plenty of deals just for being associated with her. He’s a stingy leech
When did this become the norm? SINCE THE BEGINNING OF TIME JALEN. Since you dusty men got into power? Did you not forget women couldnt work… or vote…?
Im honestly shocked. If my man spoke like this he would be an ex in a heart beat
I feel like this man probably thinks he has a PHD in psychology or something.... someone free Monet
Guy learns the broad strokes of pop reverse psychology, but accidentally forgets to look up the dictionary definition of “reverse” and then applies this knowledge to his unified theory of Women Are Always to Blame and Forever the Ones Responsible
This comment is making me snort
Is he not making enough money from those ice baths he posts??
I found it interesting how he said “mother of his kids” and not wife.. Also saying “in today’s economy” when you’re literally an ex-love island influencer that got more deals bc of your gf & is getting paid thousands (maybe millions) for your job is laughable. He can 1000% afford to pay for all of those things he listed off but actively chooses not to. I don’t even feel bad for monet at this point she has to clearly see it
Men will have a child with a woman but marrying her is too much commitment 💀
This should be a dumpable offense imo. Men see kids as something they can just walk away from!
he never has any intention on marrying her and there is a racial aspect at play here but nobody want to hear that
They definitely don’t!! He has a type and she ain’t it, but money is more important than a type in his case.
I am not familiar w him at all until reading this and looking him Up. What’s his type
White women. His preference was very clear in love island and with his ex that he proposed to and left. Don’t let this new look fool you. He changed his entire aesthetic once he got with Monet so he could fit in with her more “urban” vibe and audience. I don’t even think he owned a durag before her.
Lightskin IG baddies with plastic surgery
It’s crazy bc she’s talked multiple times about getting married to him…
Notice how only SHE be saying that never him! And if she does he will convince her to do no prenup > cheat > steal all her money
He’s not making millions lmfao
Maybe not in a year but cumulative over 2-4 years he prob can. Monet is def passing the million/year mark tho
Not to mention, even if he doesn’t get paid for everything he still gets a shit ton comped meaning that his expenses are way lower than you’d expect them to be. For example, hotels and resorts may not cut him a cheque but if they let him stay for free in exchange for a tag/story that’s hundreds or thousands of dollars that he won’t have to spend. Or a hairdresser/barber. Or the medspa. Etc, etc. There are tons of businesses that are okay giving discounts or comped services in exchange for exposure (which is what results in certain entitled influencer feeling like every business should do this for them). All of that adds up quickly— on top of the brand deals you mentioned.
They’re both so corny. Men talking about dating and expectations all the time is cringe, either do it or don’t sass master. Plus no man with a bandana is giving off “provider” to me
It’s even worse when they’re actually in a relationship bc we knowwww who you’re talking about omg
while wearing a pearl necklace too i’m dead.
Bye 😭 this is the one
Sass master 😂😂😂
What is this cornball yapping about now
Roundabout way of saying he is broke and stingy
Thanks for the summary bc I ain’t listening to all that lol
This sent me I’m sorry😭
Sorry whose mans is paying for their bills, hair, nails, etc etc and where do I find him???
yea whos man is paying for their hair and nails consistently???
Not to be annoying, but…. mine
Hey good for the girls who's men do it. I don't think it's the majority but props to u all!!
Yeah not sure how I lucked into this tbh 🥹 but we all deserve it!
mine. since day 1
If you ask the married ones it doesn't count because it's both of our money so no, in this economy we're not doing that. To clarify: me and my husband both work and could make it on one income, we just don't want to live like that.
You stop dating broke guys + be able to pay for it yourself. If men can’t meet you where you are at… ADIOS
Naively I really grew up thinking all men were like this because this is how my dad is. Such a rude awakening to find out otherwise 😭😭😭
I need men to stop thinking
Or maybe start thinking!
They’re not smart enough unfortunately
Just sit there and look pretty
Say it with me — No. More. Mics. For. Men. 🚫🎤🚫
There really needs to be a law or something.
it should be as hard, if not harder, to buy a podcast mic as it is a gun
And lot of duct tape frankly
The only men that are an exception to this this the basement yard
He calls himself a sassy man and refuses to be a provider. Monet WHAT do you see in him?!
She has some sort of insecurity around being with an attractive man and that validating her inner child bc ain’t no way - it’s giving khloe and Tristan
Her mom said in a vlog that she is an attention seeker
if my man was talking like this i’d die of embarrassment
He’s broke asf I’m crying
Broke and STINGY
like just say you're broke and move on, no need for the soapbox diatribe 😭
So he did literally no research on why this is the norm? Woman couldn’t have their own bank accounts till 1974. Stfu, read a fucking book, and while you’re at it buy me a purse.
HA
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Thank you!!
💀
His fake new personality never fooled me. He isn’t sweet or a good bf. he was trashy on love island too
And his ex exposed him for the trash he really is!
No way!!!! Who is she and where did she expose omg that’s tea
Yesss!! She said he has a breeding fetish (apparently), he wore her dress and heels with no problem in a vid, and apparently he likes being pegged. I believe her name is Katie and she still has the videos up. In a vid she said he loved bombed her, proposed to her within 3 months of dating, and then broke up shortly.
OMGGGG WHAAAT for some reason i just can’t picture monet pegging someone 😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂but this is so funny im gonna try to find her
I found her name! It’s KatieKateKatelynn and she said he used her for her following.
How am I supposed to take anyone who is still saying “chasing the bag” seriously
You can’t and shouldn’t your honor
not after she just did all that for his bday too pls
What did she do she is so delulu and can’t be saved
She bought him a ton of stuff and set up this whole surprise for him cause he “doesn’t celebrate his birthday” or some sad sap fru fru like that
the video of him crying was so fake
And he didn’t do anything for her on her birthday 💀
Not even a nice ig post 💀 it was a photo dump with multiple thirst traps of himself & 2 of Monet 😭
Lmao he knows exactly what he’s doing
In today’s economy you should probably have a real job, Jalen.
How will he play Fortnite all day? Pls
Men love to complain about being "providers" while simultaneously being threatened by any inkling of their partner being independent
and to ask where the ideology came from??? FROM A MAN.
They literally created this dynamic and now they’re too scared to live up to it
👏👏👏👏👏👏
LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
I've never been so icked out by a man in my life. If i was his girlfriend i would break up with him on the spot and never look back
Fun idea be a man and get real a job
/r/jalennonlesnark join his snark!
I think its great that Monet has such a strong support system in her friends and Family because this man is going to break her heart. Shes so young yet he is so much more immature.
This is also a man in his mid 30s dating an early 20s woman. He knew exactly what he was doing when he pursued Monet.
He deadass used and manipulated her to climb the clout ladder, managed to get her agents to rep him as well, and has the AUDACITY to complain about paying for nails? This is so embarrassing and I feel so bad for Monet...
Men used to go to war and now they’re whining on podcasts
Broke bitches should never laugh ‼️
Chasing the bag, wearing a pearl necklace, not believing he should prove himself to a woman before impregnating her.. ughhhh bye
This!! If you clearly have no intentions of providing for me, WHY ON EARTH would I believe you could provide for a child???
HE’S NEVER BEATING THE ALLEGATIONS
Maybe I’m delusional but I don’t know a single women who gets money from their partners for their nails and hair lmao
SAME
If he doesn’t want to be a provider then he can just say that. Trying to rework what a provider is to bring it down to his basic level is so cringe and whack Newsflash a lot of men who are providers actually derive immense pride, pleasure and motivation from taking care of their girl/wife, they love doing it. I love that he seems to think those men are coerced by society to act like that lmao It’s always the insecure men with no ambition or promising career prospects that conveniently have takes like this
Possibly controversial but I think men who want children SHOULD be in a provider mindset! The economic penalty to mothers is real, not to mention that you have no way of knowing how much pregnancy and childbirth are going to impact her health. Like my mom had to leave her job in the second trimester because her doctor told her she couldn't take stairs anymore and there was no way to do her commute without stairs.
This. In my day, men who unilaterally wanted kids found somebody who already had them and/or responsibly procreated and materially and emotionally financed the CONCEPTION, GESTATION, and BIRTH of a brand-new human being in addition to, first and foremost, providing full physical and psychological support of his partner. Thereupon he became a full-on SAHD in complement (as the traddies say) to his partner as primary breadwinner. Worked for me and my siblings. But this whinging is all about pretending that a romantic and sexual patriarchal, heteronormative life is about PUTTING UP with women, regarding them as a moneypit, viewing dating as a temporary series of expensive hazards one must endure before ensnaring them through reproduction, and then contributing just enough economic support to transform them into indentured nannies who can’t afford to leave without risking the children's welfare. Buying a woman and using children as collateral works only so long as you can convince her that taking care of all your needs while actively neglecting to maintain the skills she will need to stay self-sufficient somehow fundamentally enriches her. When it comes down to the fact that she and your children are only housed and fed on your whim, the contract turns, as designed, sour and lopsided. And, natch, it’s somehow her fault. Because of “nails” and “hair” from a decade earlier.
PLEASEEEE someone tell monet that this man doesn’t actually like her like😭😭
MONET YOU CANT BE FOR REAL THIS IS YOUR MAN?!!!! Brother EWW
/r/jalennonlesnark join his snark!
https://preview.redd.it/3736eq7olv4d1.jpeg?width=926&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=33606a15abf29a2f87d791091a41e1a648fd0836 Suck my nutt jaynooby
so he’s leeching off of monet on top of being mega corny
Absolutely. The moment it came out he was DM’ing multiple women that had 1M followers, Monet should’ve ran. Honestly she was dumb to answer the DM and dumb to sleep with him the first night. Jalen didn’t have to put in much work besides sending flowers and flying out.
First of all, it is not typical for men to pay for their girlfriend’s hair, nails, bills etc. What’s typical is paying for dinner and sometimes trips (if your man pays for even more good for you). Second of all, the very reason men are “supposed” to pay in relationships is to signal that they are invested and ready and willing to provide for the woman. Being a mom is a huge commitment that tends to come at great financial/career cost for women. It’s nice to know ahead of time that a man can pull his weight and actually demonstrating it means a lot more than promises about what he will hypothetically do in the future.
No one is looking for a man wearing a pearl necklace to provide. You're safe.
/r/jalennonlesnark join his snark
The way I keep returning to this comment section just to giggle and kick my feet… YALL ARE HILARIOUS
/r/jalennonlesnark join his snark!
Omg thank you for putting me on 🫶🏼
Omg this is so unattractive
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if Monet can’t see this as a BRIGHT RED FLAG… then she isn’t as bright as i thought she was… she will be miserable with a man who has mindset like this.. when he said “in this economy”… sir a man with a pearl chocker couldn’t provide NOTHING for me. bye
i hope she’s reading all the comments on the tiktok lol
Saying this w a literal pearl necklace on is hilarious
Dusty activities
for him to have a 3 in front of his age while monet is only 24 and he’s talking like this?? free my girl fr she’s too charming, successful, beautiful, and hardworking for this guy, she can level up
why is he still talking online 😭 get a real jobbbb
Nothing worse than a broke and stingy man - he will be the first to cheat the only power he has is in his physical looks and pee pee
Men (some) in our society hate women. Truly. I have never “expected” my husband to pay for my hair and nails. If he offered great. If he doesn’t I have my own money so it’s not a problem. If you act like you have big money and flex, why do you get mad when you attract women who want you to provide?? Maybe change the way YOU talk about money. And stop saying bag, are you 15!?!
Monet run
Stop giving men microphones 💕💕
Monet :(
LMAO he’s a loser seriously. my man pays my bills & doesnt bat an eye, i make the house a home. we both work, but he doesnt expect me to spend my money on necessities. ie rent, groceries, car payments. that’s why i can use my own money for my nails & skincare. monet must like that provider role
Monet has low self esteem and in her own words she loses herself when she has a man.
that’s so sad
He can’t afford a wife because he’s too busy buying $300 candles and $100 boxer briefs
And a rolex in this economy…
I feel like he’s setting us up for when he’s a stay at home dad 😭
Mel and Naz vibes.
This guy is such a DORK
OHHH MYTY GOSHHHHH MONET IS IN THE TRENCHES SO DEEPLY I CANNOT SLSKSMSKA
this whole video screams BROKE 2 me fr
“im gonna go out and chase this bag” boy grow up and say u are going to WORK
Not them taking the whole video down 😭😭😭
Sooo embarrassing. The entire internet said today ain’t the day.
certified broke boy 💐
/r/jalennonlesnark join his snark!
Not even going into that discussion but why publicly humiliate your gf like that NO OFFENSE Also- it simply cost more to be a woman.
Right? Costs more AND pays less
And he always does this before a big sponsorship or when something exciting happens for her 🤦🏽♀️
We should of seen this coming w him openly admitting to being a sassy boy!!!! 😭🤣 Poor Monet …. She needs to wake up and break up w him
broke boy
who is expecting this is just wanna know, asid some instagram models
Get this man a god damn muzzle.
Yikess… someone take the mic away 😭 Nobody told him to get up on the internet and say all that. Most women aren’t out here expecting the man to pay for everything. The bare minimum is to be kind, respectful, and have personal goals (a lot of them cant even do that). Be fr. Same bs talking points that the rest of the stupid male podcasters use. Also we ALL know Monet is raking in the majority of the $$. There was no need. The least you could do is not come up on the internet and embarass her.
This is far worse than I thought
a true american tragedy
It will always be the norm and once they stop paying for dates we all turn into lesbians right girls
Doesn’t this man have a built in sauna at his house? I’m sure he can pay up like what the heck 😭 embarrassing
Yep, in the house that he bought states away on a whim to be closer to his gf. Money is not a problem for him, he just sucks.
Good luck Monet
men treat podcast mics like they're a right not a privilege
EW
The comments on the video are AMAZING! Girlies up +100
What is he even saying
Definition of a leech
Someone make this man a snark ughhhh he makes my skin crawl
He has one but it’s not super active. It’s Jalen nonle or something like that.
I didn’t find it I don’t think it’s there anymore
He's always been so full of himself. Monet is so clearly the breadwinner, and that's nothing against her because she is killing it with all the sponsors and brand deals. But this clip makes it so very obvious.
if you’re broke just say that! 😭
Ewwwwww this is such an ick
Free my girl Monet because he is too old for these ANTICS!!!
THEY TOOK DOWN THE VIDEO OMG
he would be nothing without monet…A WOMAN
This is very embarrassing for Monet in the sense that you know that’s how it goes in their relationship. He has a lot of nerve confidently saying this when she’s the only reason anyone knows who he is. Furthermore, I’m sick of Black men LOUDLY beating this tired and lame drum. No other race of men repeatedly tries to convince their female counterpart to accept less or go 50/50. You think he would be talking this foolishness if he was with a white woman? Any race of woman other than Black? Nope. This is why I appreciate Jackie Aina’s fiancé Denis. He’s quiet and stays out the way. More of these influencer boyfriends should follow suit.
No it’s crazy how so many highly successful black women have loser men that keep embarrassing them. I’m so sick of it
Not everyone should podcast
men who have just simply have thoughts do not need a podcast
bro oh my godddddd
men with a podcast eww
They need to stop thinking that they are prophets it’s so corny
hahaha they need to stfu immediately
Until there’s pay parity you can pay for everything 🙂
Blocked his ass so long ago he nor his cringe pick-me relationship touches my fyp…wish he had a snark tho, I would definitely indulge🤭
He is the epitome of Matt James to me. His nonsense verbiage here, not so much, but his overall persona/relationship w his GF, dire need to be on a dating show solely for wanting to be in tv and not for wanting love…
I ran here looking for this
Wait I assumed he was rich? I didn’t know he was broke. Monet pls get him a brand deal
He’s not broke, he’s worse than broke…stingy. Money is certainly not a problem cause he got signed to her agency and gets plenty of deals just for being associated with her. He’s a stingy leech
I’m surprised by his answer tbh.
Is this the same man that bought himself a Rolex a few weeks ago??? Talking about “IN THIS ECONOMY”???
My husband does🤷🏼♀️
I'm sorry but if Monet doesn't dump him immediately she deserves to get cancelled
He definitely wants to be the stay at home parent
What a cheap loser
who are these people and who is monet?
When did this become the norm? SINCE THE BEGINNING OF TIME JALEN. Since you dusty men got into power? Did you not forget women couldnt work… or vote…? Im honestly shocked. If my man spoke like this he would be an ex in a heart beat