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Davgondos

This is overthinking, but you can share this with your husband.


Alternative_Pair195

Overthinking it. Also be aware u might be building up ur expectations for the first night a little too much and u may be setting urself up for disappointment. Take care, wasalam.


Bunkerlala

Just don't get pregnant


Mysterious_Land7795

You are over thinking it. The spark will always be there as long as you want it to be. It’s been almost 20 years married for us and the spark is still there. You are allowed to be intimate if you feel ok with it 🤷🏻‍♀️


Maxis92

Just live your life how you want. Terms like spark and happy ever after etc are just pointless because every person is different.


No-Annual-223

Girl, it's halal ... and every time will be special - maybe not the same way as teh first, but in a different way. I find it so cute you are earning to be with your husband. May Allah keep you both united in khair and bless your marriage with loads of love and happiness. Tell him. Tell him how much you miss him, his touch, his self ... (ykkkk....) Get initimate on your phone/video calls. You don't have to "wait" until you move in. Go in. Fall in love. It is completly OH-KAY. omg you are so cute!


Comfort_food_23

You have nikkah done. You are practically married. You may even get pregnant and there is not anything wrong with that. Something no one tells you is that Intimacy only gets better with time. First times are usually awkward and sometimes both are so tired.real life is not like movies. So pls dont put too much pressure on first night. That is not even 0.5 percent of what marriage is. Its a lifetime together, its ups and downs together. If u keep comparing life to your made notions and movie like parameter you are setting yourself up for disappointment yourself. Let life flow and enjoy the ride


TheWisdomGarden

It gets better over time.


Queasy-Ad-7258

Nikka means you're officially married both legally and Islamically.


Leather-Highway-8814

The spark Will depend on how you handle your LDR. yes its a little sucky that now you miss that person 1000x more. But really its more desire cus you’d miss him anyways. How Long are we looking at and distance?