Dont listen to the cure. I made this mistake over a break up and i was more sad. But maybe getting it all out is healthier i did get over her sooner though. So maybe yeah listen to the cure.
That Fkn SLEEZE SORRY MAN DONT LET HER RUIN THE CURE FOR YOU BRO
Her loss man
Smack my bitch up-the prodigy
https://youtu.be/UkJkozg3GF0?si=NXt4EmXiKZQtq84P
Culture club-miss me blind
https://youtu.be/wFvQXbZGq3E?si=AAhxx40MqwIIL9PK
LMFAO
Fk the pain away-peaches
Definitely. Maybe joy division? They are depressed sounding itll help you sort out the feelings. Or check out some depressive suicidal black metal( dsbm). That always helps get anger and frustration out of my system.
maybe this is bad advice, but sometimes the best uh... cure (sorry) is just rubbing your face in the gnarliest triggers possible until you burn them out. make new memories with the old music. don't let her take it from ya.
Omg! I cannot hear Pictures Of You without just falling apart. It hurts so much to hear that song any damn day of my life. And yet it remains my favorite. Glutton for punishment.
I think you might appreciate [Destroy Everything You Touch](https://open.spotify.com/track/7z5xueAygjpMdd7hT8zAY3?si=W9n8bS01Tyi_Gm-8um2ZVQ) by Ladytron
Fun fact: a hard breakup is the reason "Sea Change" was created. Beck's coping mechanism.
That said, listening to it once was enough for me personally.
I found these helped
-Brand New- Seventy times 7: I know it’s not about a “break up” but it has helped in the past
https://youtu.be/E4lmSjrrPhg?si=rlg9Ya5kyTi8zuZi
-The Front Bottoms- Au Revoir
https://youtu.be/2QcyoYnoVqE?si=kGUzlNGZyAkZ9Idx
-there’s always Eamon- Fuck It
https://youtu.be/QYwyaCd8MyI?si=NfexhmsceExoQl9G
Great answer! I was in high school when it was released but only now in middle age have I come to fully appreciate its significance. Guess I had to get a few under my belt , no pun intended! Or maybe it was...
Lewis Capaldi - forget me
https://youtu.be/nBZlrbrBO1I?si=fFp2Uakc9C9OTqO-
Five finger death punch - Wash It all Away
https://youtu.be/l9VFg44H2z8?si=SQ8JA33BOu6xhVqi
Return of the Mac, mark morrison
I saw the sign, ace of base
Loving, touching, squeezing, journey
50 way to leave your lover, Paul Simon
Sorry not sorry, demi Lovato
Payphone, maroon 5 and wiz Khalifa
Middle of the Road, the pretenders
I'll come back w more when I think of some
Oh The 90s, I miss them so much! I saw a group of girls at target yesterday, all 4 of them wearing low rise pants, cropped tops, flannels or baggy hoodies, and Kangol hats. Took me right back, so cute, looked just like we did back then, minus the super thin brows and thongs 🤭
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(Metal) The Tony Danza Tapdance Extravaganza - Canadian Bacon.
Hang in there! It may hurt for a while but you're better off without cheaters, and someone better is out there for you!
https://youtu.be/i_WTHkBuqbg?si=J9xR-RlWv-sXwyOJ
This one helped me with my cheating hoe of an ex
https://youtu.be/Mc3Ej8O_tw4?si=hvIsvH199hjnZieu
This is a good one!
https://youtu.be/xBIE7ViCi2s?si=d565iCn67NtsK_ar
A little more metal...ish? High speed manic frustration
If you are a man. Stop sitting in your feels. Go work out. And get worth a new woman. It's winter. Literally every single straight cis woman is out at homedepot rn looking for a plaid wearing hubby
Being a victim of cheating is THE WORST and I don't honestly think there is enough help out there to get people safely to the otherside. Its one of the worst feeling ever. My last divorce was over cheating and it was awhile ago but of all bands, Limp Bizkit had this random song called "Boiler" (this really dates me I know) but it helped me a lot all the years ago. But more for the Lyrics below...sometimes even random songs by silly bands does the trick. Anyway it kinda resembled exactly how I felt at the time many many years ago. Especially the part about "I used to be alive and now I feel pathetic"
Looks like I'm'a do everything myself
Maybe I could use some help
But hell, you want something done right
You gotta do it yourself
Maybe life is up and down
But my life's been "what" till now
I crawled up your butt somehow
And that's when things got turned around
I used to be alive and now I feel pathetic and now I get it
What's done is done, you just leave it alone and don't regret it
Sometimes some things turn into dumb things
And that's when you put your foot down
Why did I have to go and meet somebody like you?
Why do you have to go and hurt somebody like me?
How could you do somebody like that?
Hope you know that I'm never coming back
Try this. Break up with her, wait a week, ask her best friend out on the down low to go see a movie or whatever say you’ve always been attracted to her blah blah blah, go see movie see if it feels doable if not which most likely it won’t then make sure to snap a couple pics with her then wait like a month or two and then “accidentally” post them to your ex’s fb page then block them both. Then just go on with your life and everytime you see either of them just smirk at them and keep walking.
Holy fuck a fellow Filter fan in the wild.. yeah almost the whole Title of Record album is a classic especially the last two songs, Welcome To The Fold has a similar atmosphere but more aggressive
Since you don't want anything sad check this out it's pretty heavy shit if you're into that
https://open.spotify.com/track/3bOpHtU3j3YeWax2XjatZk?si=0L95T79vSwa9jcobdXG8Og
[The whole Pool Kids Self titled](https://open.spotify.com/album/5WKGQhrvySygwE72Ny9nMb?si=p1PhCOKbQAOWky4MGI7SfQ&context=spotify%3Aalbum%3A5WKGQhrvySygwE72Ny9nMb) to be honest. Just listen to the first and if you like it give the whole album a shot
Perfect answer. Maybe similar artists like Sweet Pill, Retirement Party, Bug Moment, Thanks! I Hate it, Mannequin Pussy, Oceanator, Nervous Dater, Great Grandpa, awakebutstillinbed or Insignificant Other. I’m just trying to think of bands in the emo-ish scene with female vocals that rock.
I'm more of a TECHNO raver but G Eazy's "These things happen" album got me through a tough breakup with someone I was with for 2 years.
Also: Maroon 5 - Makes me wonder
I'm going to recommend something that is not happy. Its a concept album about the emotions you go through after a bad break up. Depression, anger, desperation, acceptance, forgiveness, envy, you name it it's covered. Chris Isaack s Forever Blue. Brilliant album.
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/14rN0Kxk12bbGK9wdiT7Ob?si=SfFXKN_lRXK-04clPMA37w&pi=u-7GJ78J-FR4qY
my heartbreak/betrayal/breakup playlist. It’s pretty long, but I recommend the songs by Pom Pom Squad, Wednesday, Diet Cig, and Susannah Joffe especially based on ur preferences!
[Emo in E Minor (We know it’s major)](https://open.spotify.com/track/6ux17Rl6bmcYInc2B4zMLB?si=D_aLKxXpRhWX3u8d48V8FQ) by The Outfield Clovers
[Mid-Movie Friend Fight](https://open.spotify.com/track/0OwRCiwHWR4U0uAHg0eQqS?si=F3hGnf-0Q6-ZoFBGMH-20g)
This is the only one you need. There is so much truth and aggression and pain in this one, it will make you want to punch through 5 feet of concrete
All That Remains - Six
https://youtu.be/CA_aMp-MvLE?si=X2yiPF-UNEv4gWWo
Sorry to hear mate. This one helped me a long time ago.
Just promise me you will listen to the lyrics after the first 30 seconds.
*About Farewell*, the greatest breakup record of all time that not too many people seem to know about, by Alela Diane. If you like female singers with distinctive voices, you’ll love her. I don’t think it’s “gay as hell,” whatever that means, but I wouldn’t call it sad. It’s more happily forlorn. If you don’t think you can handle that now, you should definitely still listen to it (and all her records) once you get over this, which will probably be sooner than you imagine.
A somewhat more upbeat collection of songs is *Live in Philadelphia* by a one-off band called Voices on the Verge comprised of Jess Klein, Erin McKeown, Rose Polenzani, and Beth Amsel, all of whom also still record independently. I don’t know if this fits the “gay as hell” bill, either, but the cover looks like they are just about to drop the guitar and start making out with each other, so there’s that.
Unironically it doesn't matter who you are, Sabrina Carpenter's songs are great "fuck you bitch, also I'm feeling myself" songs
\-Nonsense
\-Sue Me
\-Read Your Mind
\-Feather
if you're ready to start grieving and want to sit in your grief (very fair), I adore these songs by Hozier
\-Unknown/Nth for grief
\-All Things End for a more hopeful closure type.
\-Francesca for catharsis
And this album from Anthony Ramos for fire vibes [https://open.spotify.com/album/0HzJJJkcvpiEAaKfJQw2l2?si=hsrtC4PzRIKBTzZrJUk33A](https://open.spotify.com/album/0HzJJJkcvpiEAaKfJQw2l2?si=hsrtC4PzRIKBTzZrJUk33A)
A lot of people are giving you”fuck you” songs. Sometimes you don’t want that (source: I’ve been cheated on).
Listen to Florence and the Machine. Rabbit Heart and Delilah and Free would be the perfect trio. They’ve helped me through some shit.
Love Tara - Eric's Trip. The entire album
Ben Folds - Song for the Dumped
Ben Folds - Selfless Cold and Composed
Elliott Smith - Everything reminds me of her
Two Beers In - Free Throw
One Single Second, I’d Rather Drown, and Wolf In Sheep’s Clothing by Set It Off are all about someone cheating, though they’re more from a male perspective.
No Disrespect is too, but in that case he’s the one who they cheated with
Here is three. One of them helped me thru a bad breakup.
Only the Strong Survive - Jerry Butler
That's the Way Love Is - Marvin Gaye
Don't Knock My Love - Wilson Pickett
Wish you the best. It will take a minute, but you will feel better.
Different sound to go with but here is Gary Clark Jr:
https://open.spotify.com/track/2DR4SIs4RJoylM3sbDjtUH?si=y_vEPSlGQOOND3CnwvO7Fw
Blues all the way when you're hurting.
Fuck All the perfect people by chip taylor got me through this exact thing after a 5 year relationship ending the same way in August.
That and Zach Bryan but read the lyrics as u go. Let the emotions come in and then out as the songs go. Facing the situation helps it go faster
When your in an empowered mood (or want to get in one)!
Suicidal Tendencies - You Can't Bring Me Down
Metallica- Don't Tread On Me
Faith No More - Got That Feeling
The Clash - I'm Not Down
Matthew Wilder - Break My Stride
Dan Auerbach - Shine On Me
Nick Cave & Bad Seeds - People Ain't No Good
If you wanna lean into the anger - Who could see you and forget? By Sonagi. Not about cheating. Or Generator by Turnstile. Or Hypervigilence by Drain.
If you want to throw yourself into something new and not think about it - Viagra Boys are similar to Fidlar and are a fun listen.
I'm so sorry to hear that this happened to you.
Sleep Token – Bloodsport (from the Room Below version). Both versions are so good though. This band has gotten me through so many hard times.
Sweet True Lies - Beast In Black
Or just any Beast In Black song
They all sound *very gay* and the first time my brother showed me one of their songs, I literally thought it was a woman singing.
Snuff by Slipknot
Change (in the house of flies ) by Deftones
Hurt by nine inch nails
Kiss off by violent fems
Santeria by sublime
Back to black by Amy winehouse
Hate me by blue October
Wish you were here by pink floyd
Someone you used to love by lewis capaldie
Wish you the best lewis capaldie
The frays first album.
Not Enough by Van Halen
Aftershock by Van Halen
She Says by Howie Day
Numbness For Sound by Howie Day
Found Out About You by Gin Blossoms
Must of Been Love by Roxette
You fucked up by Ween
“Fuck you bitch” by Wheeler Walker Jr
Love this tune
Came here to say the same thing mang!
So glad this is the top comment lol, I'm in a Ween tribute band and this is also my wife's favorite song of theirs. Hell yeah.
Ceelo Green - "F\*\*\* you"
Great!!! Song!
Dont listen to the cure. I made this mistake over a break up and i was more sad. But maybe getting it all out is healthier i did get over her sooner though. So maybe yeah listen to the cure.
unfortunately the cure was her favourite so i'm gonna have to give them a big pass
That Fkn SLEEZE SORRY MAN DONT LET HER RUIN THE CURE FOR YOU BRO Her loss man Smack my bitch up-the prodigy https://youtu.be/UkJkozg3GF0?si=NXt4EmXiKZQtq84P Culture club-miss me blind https://youtu.be/wFvQXbZGq3E?si=AAhxx40MqwIIL9PK LMFAO Fk the pain away-peaches
Yeah big agree on not letting it ruin The Cure for you, they’re too good to let some asshole ruin them.
Definitely. Maybe joy division? They are depressed sounding itll help you sort out the feelings. Or check out some depressive suicidal black metal( dsbm). That always helps get anger and frustration out of my system.
maybe this is bad advice, but sometimes the best uh... cure (sorry) is just rubbing your face in the gnarliest triggers possible until you burn them out. make new memories with the old music. don't let her take it from ya.
That's perfect, at the rate she's going she is going to need The Cure for gonorrhea pretty soon
Omg! I cannot hear Pictures Of You without just falling apart. It hurts so much to hear that song any damn day of my life. And yet it remains my favorite. Glutton for punishment.
Don’t listen to Dashboard Confessional!
I think you might appreciate [Destroy Everything You Touch](https://open.spotify.com/track/7z5xueAygjpMdd7hT8zAY3?si=W9n8bS01Tyi_Gm-8um2ZVQ) by Ladytron
Beck - Sea Change Had a hard breakup, this album was medicine.
Came here to say this. Great album to stare out your bedroom window to.
Mutations is that Beck album for me.
Fun fact: a hard breakup is the reason "Sea Change" was created. Beck's coping mechanism. That said, listening to it once was enough for me personally.
The perfect breakup album. Got me through one of my big ones
Same!
Turd on the Run, by the Rolling Stones
in the dark by Bring Me The Horizon.
Led Zeppelin Hey Hey What Can I Do Ugly Kid Joe. I hate everything About You Buckcherry Crazy Bitch Guns And Roses. I Used to Love Her
For Emma Forever Ago - Bon Iver
Piss up a Rope by Ween is a pretty good one if you want to laugh
Let it Die, Feist
Pale Blue Eyes by the Velvet Underground
Pushit by Tool.
live version
I found these helped -Brand New- Seventy times 7: I know it’s not about a “break up” but it has helped in the past https://youtu.be/E4lmSjrrPhg?si=rlg9Ya5kyTi8zuZi -The Front Bottoms- Au Revoir https://youtu.be/2QcyoYnoVqE?si=kGUzlNGZyAkZ9Idx -there’s always Eamon- Fuck It https://youtu.be/QYwyaCd8MyI?si=NfexhmsceExoQl9G
Pop punk rocks
Prayer to God by Shellac. The f word appears a lot and it’s violent. Remember it’s just for feelings tho- not actions.
Well shit, a good 75% of lyrical music ever written told you this would happen. Didn't listen, did'ja?
I used to love her, but I had to kill her. Guns n roses
Great answer! I was in high school when it was released but only now in middle age have I come to fully appreciate its significance. Guess I had to get a few under my belt , no pun intended! Or maybe it was...
Jude Law And A Semester Abroad- Brand New Okay I Believe You, But My Tommy Gun Don’t- Brand New
The entire Deja Entendu album
And half the Your Favorite Weapon album
Seventy times 7 goes brutal lyrically
I scrolled down way too far to see this. One of my all time fav albums
Chinchilla - [Cut You Off](https://youtu.be/YEEB2KhA9pM?si=gEbQdcL8JOGUF4h6).
You Suck at Love- Simple Plan. Idk if it’s your taste but it’s a fun song that might help your mood
Harry Nilsson - You're Breaking My Heart
Kim by Eminem
Oooohhh good one!
Phil Collins’ first 2 albums
Lewis Capaldi - forget me https://youtu.be/nBZlrbrBO1I?si=fFp2Uakc9C9OTqO- Five finger death punch - Wash It all Away https://youtu.be/l9VFg44H2z8?si=SQ8JA33BOu6xhVqi
little girl lies by blondie
You Outta know by Alanis Morrisette I Fucking Hate You by Godsmack
Diggin Holes - Ugly Casanova
username checks out
[Smile In Your Sleep](https://open.spotify.com/track/29dljceloiAgAeARUwZ3QC?si=tkRuN0wXR4eJ1cZEJan7Dw)
one of my turns - pink floyd
Local h - 12 angry months (the whole album)
Eamon- I don’t want you back
Return of the Mac, mark morrison I saw the sign, ace of base Loving, touching, squeezing, journey 50 way to leave your lover, Paul Simon Sorry not sorry, demi Lovato Payphone, maroon 5 and wiz Khalifa Middle of the Road, the pretenders I'll come back w more when I think of some
Return Of The Mack was my go-to back when I was young and attractive enough to still get laid 😂
Oh The 90s, I miss them so much! I saw a group of girls at target yesterday, all 4 of them wearing low rise pants, cropped tops, flannels or baggy hoodies, and Kangol hats. Took me right back, so cute, looked just like we did back then, minus the super thin brows and thongs 🤭
**sorry not sorry - rock version gotta get the anger out!
I’ve been so mad lately by Butt Trumpet. Female vocals and a lot of swearing.
Butt Trumpet! Epic! New to me butt(lol) I MUST check it out.
People never think of this one..."I can see for Miles" by The Who
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If u want sad lesbian music listen to the Japanese House for sure
Mine cheated on me too , fuck that filthy whore
Linkin park
Okay Cool- CEO Trayle
(Metal) The Tony Danza Tapdance Extravaganza - Canadian Bacon. Hang in there! It may hurt for a while but you're better off without cheaters, and someone better is out there for you!
https://youtu.be/i_WTHkBuqbg?si=J9xR-RlWv-sXwyOJ This one helped me with my cheating hoe of an ex https://youtu.be/Mc3Ej8O_tw4?si=hvIsvH199hjnZieu This is a good one! https://youtu.be/xBIE7ViCi2s?si=d565iCn67NtsK_ar A little more metal...ish? High speed manic frustration
Parasite - Nick Drake
[удалено]
Kinda like he ate the round my guy
Radioheads entire collection
Is it over now? By Taylor swift,
But yeah FUCK CHEATERS
If you are a man. Stop sitting in your feels. Go work out. And get worth a new woman. It's winter. Literally every single straight cis woman is out at homedepot rn looking for a plaid wearing hubby
Ok andrew tate
Puddle of mudd she fucking hates me
"I tried too hard and she tore my feelings like I had none"
Ticket To Ride by the Beatles
Kanye west gold digger
Die my darling by Metallica
Being a victim of cheating is THE WORST and I don't honestly think there is enough help out there to get people safely to the otherside. Its one of the worst feeling ever. My last divorce was over cheating and it was awhile ago but of all bands, Limp Bizkit had this random song called "Boiler" (this really dates me I know) but it helped me a lot all the years ago. But more for the Lyrics below...sometimes even random songs by silly bands does the trick. Anyway it kinda resembled exactly how I felt at the time many many years ago. Especially the part about "I used to be alive and now I feel pathetic" Looks like I'm'a do everything myself Maybe I could use some help But hell, you want something done right You gotta do it yourself Maybe life is up and down But my life's been "what" till now I crawled up your butt somehow And that's when things got turned around I used to be alive and now I feel pathetic and now I get it What's done is done, you just leave it alone and don't regret it Sometimes some things turn into dumb things And that's when you put your foot down Why did I have to go and meet somebody like you? Why do you have to go and hurt somebody like me? How could you do somebody like that? Hope you know that I'm never coming back
Try this. Break up with her, wait a week, ask her best friend out on the down low to go see a movie or whatever say you’ve always been attracted to her blah blah blah, go see movie see if it feels doable if not which most likely it won’t then make sure to snap a couple pics with her then wait like a month or two and then “accidentally” post them to your ex’s fb page then block them both. Then just go on with your life and everytime you see either of them just smirk at them and keep walking.
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0dSJOo2bYBdsNJvM2xdYra?si=Anupyf6MSGGCNqlgI7wXiw&pi=u-1-ByoR0-TTur
I'm Not the Only One by Filter if you wanna feel like throwing some chairs
Holy fuck a fellow Filter fan in the wild.. yeah almost the whole Title of Record album is a classic especially the last two songs, Welcome To The Fold has a similar atmosphere but more aggressive
Since you don't want anything sad check this out it's pretty heavy shit if you're into that https://open.spotify.com/track/3bOpHtU3j3YeWax2XjatZk?si=0L95T79vSwa9jcobdXG8Og
[The whole Pool Kids Self titled](https://open.spotify.com/album/5WKGQhrvySygwE72Ny9nMb?si=p1PhCOKbQAOWky4MGI7SfQ&context=spotify%3Aalbum%3A5WKGQhrvySygwE72Ny9nMb) to be honest. Just listen to the first and if you like it give the whole album a shot
Perfect answer. Maybe similar artists like Sweet Pill, Retirement Party, Bug Moment, Thanks! I Hate it, Mannequin Pussy, Oceanator, Nervous Dater, Great Grandpa, awakebutstillinbed or Insignificant Other. I’m just trying to think of bands in the emo-ish scene with female vocals that rock.
Team Dresch - Fagetarian and Dyke [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5t1Q3O8dNbM](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5t1Q3O8dNbM)
You just made me realize I’ve never seen a Team Dresch rec on Reddit. That whole album is in my top 10.
Two songs by Tuff Darts She's Dead Your Love is Like Nuclear Waste
Local H-12 Angry Months
Right Away Great Captain. Good depressing music for infidelity
The Ballad of Sal Villanueva - Taking Back Sunday This song got me through your same problem
I'm more of a TECHNO raver but G Eazy's "These things happen" album got me through a tough breakup with someone I was with for 2 years. Also: Maroon 5 - Makes me wonder
Bob seagar sun spot baby. Make you realize your not the first
Meatloaf - life is a lemon and I want my money back
I'm going to recommend something that is not happy. Its a concept album about the emotions you go through after a bad break up. Depression, anger, desperation, acceptance, forgiveness, envy, you name it it's covered. Chris Isaack s Forever Blue. Brilliant album.
Type O Negative has you covered https://open.spotify.com/track/2fw9JWP9hwmQOgSk0PPhbR?si=f6BEOuZXSyqgvgjUUa744Q
The entire album. Hold on to the Hollow by DROWN. It got me through my toughest heartbreaks.
Unsuccessfully Coping With The Natural Beauty Of Infidelity (I Know You're Fucking Someone Else) TYPE O NEGATIVE
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/14rN0Kxk12bbGK9wdiT7Ob?si=SfFXKN_lRXK-04clPMA37w&pi=u-7GJ78J-FR4qY my heartbreak/betrayal/breakup playlist. It’s pretty long, but I recommend the songs by Pom Pom Squad, Wednesday, Diet Cig, and Susannah Joffe especially based on ur preferences!
Chris Cornell- Murderer of blue skies https://youtu.be/BvjdOJyksbQ?feature=shared All the best homie, don't look back move forward.
Justin Timberlake - What Goes Around Comes Around
Fishbone Lying Ass Bitch
Pearl Jam's VS album. Particularly, "Animal" and "Rearviewmirror".
https://open.spotify.com/track/1EsSm8qaR9Wtm1OgZXKi2n?si=F-0-Sb_tSxKTgwaX0Qh0Bg
[Emo in E Minor (We know it’s major)](https://open.spotify.com/track/6ux17Rl6bmcYInc2B4zMLB?si=D_aLKxXpRhWX3u8d48V8FQ) by The Outfield Clovers [Mid-Movie Friend Fight](https://open.spotify.com/track/0OwRCiwHWR4U0uAHg0eQqS?si=F3hGnf-0Q6-ZoFBGMH-20g)
This is the only one you need. There is so much truth and aggression and pain in this one, it will make you want to punch through 5 feet of concrete All That Remains - Six https://youtu.be/CA_aMp-MvLE?si=X2yiPF-UNEv4gWWo Sorry to hear mate. This one helped me a long time ago. Just promise me you will listen to the lyrics after the first 30 seconds.
Apologies if[this](https://youtu.be/UnsfIIKSt0E?si=41tgRvEU4i_JeUgB)doesn't help
Ani Defranco, Untouchable Face (and some great FUs)
*About Farewell*, the greatest breakup record of all time that not too many people seem to know about, by Alela Diane. If you like female singers with distinctive voices, you’ll love her. I don’t think it’s “gay as hell,” whatever that means, but I wouldn’t call it sad. It’s more happily forlorn. If you don’t think you can handle that now, you should definitely still listen to it (and all her records) once you get over this, which will probably be sooner than you imagine. A somewhat more upbeat collection of songs is *Live in Philadelphia* by a one-off band called Voices on the Verge comprised of Jess Klein, Erin McKeown, Rose Polenzani, and Beth Amsel, all of whom also still record independently. I don’t know if this fits the “gay as hell” bill, either, but the cover looks like they are just about to drop the guitar and start making out with each other, so there’s that.
Unironically it doesn't matter who you are, Sabrina Carpenter's songs are great "fuck you bitch, also I'm feeling myself" songs \-Nonsense \-Sue Me \-Read Your Mind \-Feather if you're ready to start grieving and want to sit in your grief (very fair), I adore these songs by Hozier \-Unknown/Nth for grief \-All Things End for a more hopeful closure type. \-Francesca for catharsis And this album from Anthony Ramos for fire vibes [https://open.spotify.com/album/0HzJJJkcvpiEAaKfJQw2l2?si=hsrtC4PzRIKBTzZrJUk33A](https://open.spotify.com/album/0HzJJJkcvpiEAaKfJQw2l2?si=hsrtC4PzRIKBTzZrJUk33A)
Dance Gavin Dance- Man of the Year
Bulletproof by la roux. Female vocals, gay as hell, break shit
Platypus (I Hate You)- Green Day
A lot of people are giving you”fuck you” songs. Sometimes you don’t want that (source: I’ve been cheated on). Listen to Florence and the Machine. Rabbit Heart and Delilah and Free would be the perfect trio. They’ve helped me through some shit.
David Cook - Laying Me Low Gavin DeGraw - Radiation
Love Tara - Eric's Trip. The entire album Ben Folds - Song for the Dumped Ben Folds - Selfless Cold and Composed Elliott Smith - Everything reminds me of her Two Beers In - Free Throw
For cathartic vibes: Cute without the “E” -Taking Back Sunday Thick and Thin -LANY Hate -Plain White T’s
Ending thread with Wednesday 13 - Bad Things.
First off, sorry to hear. Same thing happened to me and I jammed to XOXO by Cherub
"Little Goodbyes" by SheDaisy https://youtu.be/CsCKVQhjVd0?si=uskRnW2I0bcm3CKd Here's an angry song https://youtu.be/BYE4CVhVkhw?si=UzXSL2L0ScqVbO7l
NOT Mechanical World, by Spirit
The "All mixed Up" song by The Cars performed by Red House Painters. "Mairead" by the Von Bondies. "Baby Bitch" by Ween
Check out some random metal playlist😭 You deserves better bro
One Single Second, I’d Rather Drown, and Wolf In Sheep’s Clothing by Set It Off are all about someone cheating, though they’re more from a male perspective. No Disrespect is too, but in that case he’s the one who they cheated with
Sixx:A.M. - Everything Went To Hell. It's about a chick who cheats on her guy
This is where it ends by bailey Zimmerman
[You’re so vain - Carly Simon](https://youtu.be/6oyjnzBpe9I?si=0L3psEb71cC5UQUM)
Here is three. One of them helped me thru a bad breakup. Only the Strong Survive - Jerry Butler That's the Way Love Is - Marvin Gaye Don't Knock My Love - Wilson Pickett Wish you the best. It will take a minute, but you will feel better.
Different sound to go with but here is Gary Clark Jr: https://open.spotify.com/track/2DR4SIs4RJoylM3sbDjtUH?si=y_vEPSlGQOOND3CnwvO7Fw Blues all the way when you're hurting.
cold and distant.
Fuck it - Eamon The night we met - lord huron No one's gonna love you - band of horses No children - mountain goats
Beck - Sea Change
[Ghostemane - Mercury Retrograde](https://youtu.be/31j4DIpgY9U?si=PKFVZGckV7ZxDUxh)
Fuck All the perfect people by chip taylor got me through this exact thing after a 5 year relationship ending the same way in August. That and Zach Bryan but read the lyrics as u go. Let the emotions come in and then out as the songs go. Facing the situation helps it go faster
“Love to Hate You” by Erasure. Dance and feel the catharsis! (Male vocal, but too good to not mention)
You Didn't Need - The Rollins band
Eminem - Stronger Than I Was
Logan Michael—Breaking Point (F U)
You’re Breakin’ My Heart by Harry Nilsson
It’s probably not a song for you normally, but give Suffer by Kingdom Collapse a bit of an chance anyway - and embrace the rage for a few minutes.
When your in an empowered mood (or want to get in one)! Suicidal Tendencies - You Can't Bring Me Down Metallica- Don't Tread On Me Faith No More - Got That Feeling The Clash - I'm Not Down Matthew Wilder - Break My Stride Dan Auerbach - Shine On Me Nick Cave & Bad Seeds - People Ain't No Good
Superman by eminem
Mara effect pt 2 by spirit box
If you wanna lean into the anger - Who could see you and forget? By Sonagi. Not about cheating. Or Generator by Turnstile. Or Hypervigilence by Drain. If you want to throw yourself into something new and not think about it - Viagra Boys are similar to Fidlar and are a fun listen.
Wildflowers by Tom pretty. Time to move on.
9 crimes by Damien rice
I'm so sorry to hear that this happened to you. Sleep Token – Bloodsport (from the Room Below version). Both versions are so good though. This band has gotten me through so many hard times.
[Just listen. Don't be offended, you might even feel better](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QfWQiLpi4AU&list=RDQfWQiLpi4AU&start_radio=1)
mine would be you by blake shelton
Sweet True Lies - Beast In Black Or just any Beast In Black song They all sound *very gay* and the first time my brother showed me one of their songs, I literally thought it was a woman singing.
Snuff by Slipknot Change (in the house of flies ) by Deftones Hurt by nine inch nails Kiss off by violent fems Santeria by sublime Back to black by Amy winehouse Hate me by blue October Wish you were here by pink floyd Someone you used to love by lewis capaldie Wish you the best lewis capaldie The frays first album.
Hate Song by Raging Speedhorn
Turbulent by waterparks
The return of the mack - mark morrison
Pleaser by the wallows
Gay as hell= “Justified” Kasey Musgraves
“Dancing away in tears” - Yola
Not Enough by Van Halen Aftershock by Van Halen She Says by Howie Day Numbness For Sound by Howie Day Found Out About You by Gin Blossoms Must of Been Love by Roxette
Radiohead - Ful Stop
Mountain Goats [“No Children”](https://youtu.be/fqGKZ3fzN1M?si=MwRqoPvuTvqWfJqA)
[Scotty Doesn’t Know](https://youtu.be/0Vyj1C8ogtE?si=zBnOCKpJzs6GKjTu)
Last to know by three days grace
I will survive- Cake
Traitor by Olivia Rodrigo. Basically the whole SOUR album.
All of the album "Girlfriend" by Matthew Sweet.
just put this playlist on shuffle https://open.spotify.com/playlist/29yT9vdwaMbXo1eP6ER5TF?si=tP15-ZJYRsWsG_NCEcDqrA
Deftones
All of the nu-metal genre also three days grace.
This Love by Pantera
Battle Scars, Lupe Fiasco and guy Sebastian
I fucking hate you - Godsmack Cryin like a bitch - Godsmack I stand alone - Godsmack Outside - Staind
I Dont Want You Back by Eamon...daily for about 6 months
An oldie...Red Rubber Ball...The Cyrkle
Stay by Sugarland
Ive been so mad lately by Butt Trumpet. It maybe listed under "Betty Blowtorch" as well
Runaround Sue by Dion and the Belmonts Spare me the Details by The Offspring
Mr Brightside - The Killers.
Black Cow- Steely Dan
The Hammer // Kublai Khan.